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DETECTIVE BOO
DETECTIVE BOO
Hi Stella,
Please advise me. I have been dating this guy for 2 years and I love him so much but the problem I have with him is that I cannot do anything freely.
This guy wants to know everything about me which is good but I am getting tired; before I drop my phone he picks it and starts reading text messages, WhatsApp and Facebook messages and all even before I know my salary has been paid he will be the one to tell me.
Any time my bank sends a message, he will read it before me. He knows how much I have in my account, I don't even have any privacy in my life; he has not married me, just dating and I am not free life! He wants to know every move I take but I am getting so irritated now!
I have complained but he is not ready to stop and we always have issues because of this. if I say I don't have money, he will ask if I have finished spending the money he saw in my account or who I gave it to. He is caring and not stingy but I am tired of not having my privacy, any time I change my phone's password, I must explain why and tell him the password immediately; I am not a cheat neither do I have any secret but I just want to be free.
This is the person I have never looked at the pictures on his phone let alone messages because I don't like it.
And he gets angry very fast; I don't know what to do.
PLEASE help me because I am getting tired of the relationship I most confess.Thank you.
WOW..this is serious!...Being possessive to a fault sometimes backfires and kills love.your main is insecure or what?
PLEASE help me because I am getting tired of the relationship I most confess.Thank you.
WOW..this is serious!...Being possessive to a fault sometimes backfires and kills love.your main is insecure or what?
You are the one wearing the shoes and know when to decide when you can no longer cope.You dont sound like someone in love anymore.
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WHEN LOVE ENDS ABRUPTLY
WHEN LOVE ENDS ABRUPTLY
Good Day Stella.
I am a Bv and concrete fan of your blog, in fact I comment a lot on your posts.
I met my Ex on Facebook. He was my crush since 2012 before we got to meet last year. When I first saw him on Facebook, I fell in love with him instantly that in was 2012.
I didn't have the courage to chat with him on Facebook, becos I was still in senior secondary school then but I told myself that I'll chat with him when I have gotten admission into a higher institution.
Last year, which was March, we started chatting on Facebook, coincidentally I find out that he attends the same Poly (Auchi Poly) with me. Before he attended Auchi Poly, he attended the same university (Igbinedion, Okada) with my sister that's why I wasn't expecting him to be in Auchi Poly. March last year, he said that he would love to meet with me, I invited him to my house. With time, he started visiting and from there we became lovers.
May last year, I lost my virginity to him because of the love I had for him. To cut the long story short, he got admission into Uniben and ever since the admission, our relationship has stopped even his friends in Auchi poly, he stopped talking to them.
He left me without any notice, no texts, no calls and I'm even the one calling him, sending him messages on WhatsApp which he never replies.
Dis na the guy wey I give my all, I no dey joke with am. I go wash him clothes and I go clean this guy house, in fact I come be like maid, all in the name of some stupid Love. Up till date, I am still loving him, I love him so much. I even find it difficult to fall in love again. I can only fall in love if I can see someone who will love me for who I am.
He's got money but I never asked him for a dime. I had to go cut my hair so that people won't say, you've got a rich boyfriend that can't give you money to make your hair. I buy myself clothes, expensive creams and shoes and I'll lie to my friends that my Ex bought them for me whereas it's not true.
I'm having this phobia now that's why I can't fall in love again. Just to chase away guys, I lie to them that I am a lesbian. It's hard to let go him because I keep asking him then, Bryan will you ever leave me? He'll say No.
I am in love only with you. Whenever I see his dp on WhatsApp, I do cry a lot because I can't chat with him and I am still waiting for the day he will send me a message on WhatsApp or on Facebook. I even asked my twin to write a poem about him that was in 2013 and she did.
Please I need help on how to let go of him. For those who are weak I pray God strengthens them, for those who are poor I pray God blesses them richly and for those who are sick I pray God heals them. Amen!
Thanks and God bless Stella and BVS abundantly.
ISH Happens..move on and face your studies..I dont know how old you are but if at this stage you have started doing all these for men,i wonder how and what you will do if you ever get desperate.
Move on and face your studies,he has probably decided to face his studies.
Please know that giving a man your virginity does not change anything!
Lady 1: This "irritation" and "hot temper" is there to stay with you for a long time if you make the choice. That is the essence of courtship, you know the things you can put up with and those you cannot. If you can change it; fine, tow along. If you can't; then quit!
ReplyDeleteThe problem is when a lot of girls keep their legs opened throughout supposed courtship. All they know is the different styles of sex but that one is more tiring than being possessive.
Poster1: if u have any sense left, then run unless u want a life filled with chronicles
DeleteCan't you see the writing on the wall?
Dude will soon add beating to it... 👋
Poster2: you are still a small girl... Pls receive sense
DeleteI really don't know what you guys want. One you are shouting Stella please do a Post for HIV peeps to mingle. Thank God it's here. Fools still go in to drop foolish comment about it not been the appropriate method to link like peeps. If no be here na where they for meet? For stella toilet window Abi?
DeleteMy Dear Stella leave that post. Don't be surprised it will be the most visited post in the blog. And sure peeps will still sneak in to find love. Let's all mind our business. Times are hard.Finding love is also hard. God Bless us all.
@doppleganger I have missed you.
Stella Dear kisses to your kids.
Poster 1 you cannot stand up to him? He has no right to go through your life like that. You better be wise or it will get worse in marriage.
DeletePoster 2 you worshipped him before u even met him. You sound like a love sick puppy. Get yourself together. Live your life...forget him intentionally. When u see him on the road, ignore him. You acted foolish already. Dont go back. You are not a maid. You deserve respect. Treat yourself with respect or people will treat you like trash
@poster two;there are men who believe in the slogan "What we see is what matters"..
DeleteI know of one or two person's who forget about everybody and everything once they are out of that very environment..and to them,"out of sight is out of mind"..and truth is there is little or specifically nothing you can do to change such people!
Calm down ok,its very natural for a lady not to forget her very first love,cos the bond is usually something else..
Find comfort in some other things..dont you have hobbies??
You can as well make female friends if you are scared of having a relationship for now..its not easy I know,but time they say heals everything....just stop living in the past cos nothing good can come from it..
Be positive,keep yourself busy,make friends and hang out with them when possible..
You are a winner and a conqueror!! Be strong ok..
Peace be with you!!
@MARTINS ABOY
Pls who can teach me how to bake cake and do small chops for a fee. I stay in Lugbe abuja. U can reach me on zero seven zero three two three three eight three zero eight.thanks
DeletePoster 2 just move on and occupy your mind
Deleteposter 1 better leave before it's too late
Pister2:you must be 18yrs old,you better learn your lessons,men will still come in fact worst ones be ready nd vigilant, kill your emotions first nd don't expect anything from them expect money
ReplyDeletePoster1 you are in trouble, such men will be violent nd cruel,marry him first nd see. There is advice here for you
Poster 1- be honest. That guy doesn't have a job or serous business. Cos anyone who has something tangible to do in this buharinomics will not be wondering who messaged his babe or not. #abuseralert
DeletePoster2- how old are you again? Don't worry. You will learn. For now keep being foolish.
Poster 2- are you lacking love at home? You go and cook and clean and wash for man. And cut your hair. You need help really. Psychiatric one
DeletePoster 2, u are still a small goirl pls study hard n delete / block him on all social media it will go a long way cos seeing his pictures will definitely open old wounds. When his mind resets to default he will look for you den do shakara for am cos u will be with a man that truly deserve you
DeletePoster 2 .. Your love is becoming irritating.. Get a grip of your miserable self and leave that man who has forgotten you Alone.. Arrant nonsense!!!!
ReplyDeletePoster 1,
ReplyDeleteWhy are you living with someone that has not paid your bride price?...
How come he is monitoring your life like this,abi he no get a daily job?...
Why dating a jobless fellow?...stop disgracing real women and get your own apartment mbok!...
Poster 2 sounds so naive!...
How old are you again?...so your parents sent you to school to go and learn and you decided to be doing househelp to a riff raff school boyfriend...
I can imagine the amount of D and C you have done for him...
Tueh!...
Don't move on Mumu be there doing like an imbe!...
Jeezzzzz
DeleteDis woman your mouth ehhhhhh
Person wey no get mind no fit read your comment
Hahahahhahahahahahahahahaha...dis woman ur mouth na punishment to u...poison mouth
Delete1) Too possessive and insecurity is his alter ego
ReplyDeleteMight turn aggressive when/if you marry him.
So my dear, Run as fast as your legs can carry you.
Don't be desperate cos you'll regret it.
2) Receive this healing slap now *tawaiiiiii*
I hope you've been healed from that obsessive spirit troubling you?
You are not in love! You are simply 'hung up' on that mofo. Giving him your virginity doesn't mean a damn thing; cos you enjoyed the sex too. Didn't ya?
All you need is a good lay... like a good fuck and you'll be over him so fast, you'll be asking yourself why you ever thought you were in love at all.
And Yes! Please work on your self-esteem! It's very important. I mean why turn yourself into a maid just cos you claim to be in love? I don't gerrit..good luck
Spot on! A billion likes to your comments
DeleteUr comment got me laffinng soooo hard bt very well said
DeleteUr comment got me laffinng soooo hard bt very well said
DeleteLmao @tawaii. Funny you
DeleteBut i like your advice to both posters
2nd Poster is just stupid, very silly girl. Leaving her books she'll read to be lusting over one he-diot.
In fact more E-slaps to her. Mtchewww
Poster 2: what fear will make u lie against urself and say u are a lesbian? Something that raises eyebrows and even hate in our part of the world?Stop this childishness pls, if u want to be in a rship be serious with urself if u don't want an rship because u are afraid say no and let it mean no.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Sometimes we girls make these men treat us like crap.Look at it like this, u went into d rship voluntarily now how hard is it to leave? Simple if u are tired of being with a detective simply say I do not want to be with you because you can't let me be myself and move on.
Narrative one: Just change ur password and stop him from going through ur phone. That will put him in his place but don't break up with him just do as I say.
ReplyDeleteNarrative two: you are not matured enough to face the problems to goes with relationships so just be in a relationship with your books for the now.
Poster one,your man is just too insecure possessive and when one is over possessive,it Is very bad.I won't ask you to leave him,but put him in prayers and try talk to him again.
ReplyDeletePoster two,you can move on,he happens to be your first and you feel you can't move on,you can,just give in to another guy you know he loves you and you love him in return ,and you will see DAT you won't even remember your ex anymore.God will see you through.
Poster 1 your boyfriend no get work. Tell him to send cv make I give my sister Dem they look for school leavers for factory work at Ikeja. Let me know.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 you come turn to full housewife without benefits. Shame on you.
Go to twitter you go see lover No. 2 after that enter IG lover 3 nai go marry you. Mumu raise to power 20
You're very funny. Good advice though. Lol!
DeletePoster 1 your boyfriend no get work. Tell him to send cv make I give my sister Dem they look for school leavers for factory work at Ikeja. Let me know.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 you come turn to full housewife without benefits. Shame on you.
Go to twitter you go see lover No. 2 after that enter IG lover 3 nai go marry you. Mumu raise to power 20
Poster 1: u better run. My EX was a possessive being to the extent of having my e-mail password and connecting my whatapp to his. He gets every message I get immediately and tell me. Dunno how he did it tho i'm not surprised coz he's an IT guru but after warning and seeing that he won't stop, I told him plainly, I no do again. Dude is still stalking me, I know but I no send am tho he's a nice guy and I love him still.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: u r not serious. Move on. Block him on any social media and move the fuck on. He is ur ex. How do u guys even cover up 4 a guy self? Na wa o. Auchi poly guy? Lmao. Stingy muche muche them
Abeg i need ur Ex number
DeleteThat watsapp app go make sense.
Hahahahaha!!! Monitoring spirit!!! Leave person alone jare. Insecurity is not good o
DeleteAs in! That ur ex is a tru G. Lol. Biko give us the hook up!
DeletePoster two d guy has fucked n clean mouth naa, is it dat hard for u to see? Face ur studies.
ReplyDeletePoster1- Leave that foolish insecure man ASAP! Na only him be man wey you see?
ReplyDeletePoster2- You are just a fool!!! Killing your self for a 'nomadic student' all in the name of love..
Lol @nomadic student
DeleteNa really normadic student. Imagine, from igbinedion to Auchi poly to uniben mtchew
DeleteI forget no 3 no go marry you. Enter snapchat you go see husband. ODE
ReplyDeleteP1, P2, your boos ain't the ones for you.
ReplyDeletePoster one, it's only a matter of time before he loses his temper n hits u.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: that's how it feels being heartbroken. Imagine someone else in your position seeking your advice, what would you have told that person?
ReplyDeleteYou have to move on, it's glaring that it's over. You have to transfer those emotions into something else maybe like a hobby, exercise, crafts or work. You'll be fine, just a matter of time.
Poster 1: you better be smart and stop taking rubbish. Apply wisdom, there are several ways you can go about that.
P1, you better start checking his phone too and when he stops you know that it is time for you to move on. P2, Mbok try and forget him, with time you would be OK. But wait o, you had to cut your hair so you won't ask him for money, I was once like this but not to this extent. Love will find you with time
ReplyDeletePoster 2 u threw ur self to him and no one values a cheap material.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 we will read comments
Poster 1.It seems you have found someone else . why not quit the relationship if you are not happy in it? There is absolutely no problem with a man or a woman going through his or her partner s phone if they are truly in love. What is there to hide if there is love and honesty?
ReplyDeleteI have been in love before so I know what I am talking about .
Are you trying to be nice? Be yourself don't let Stella intimidate you with her memo
DeleteRichbee, James said he is trying to give his life to Christ na lol
DeleteP1:pscho alert
ReplyDeleteP2:move on and don't waste ur youth on notin. Time do flies for women,
Poster 1; you've began keeping "secrets" when you aren't even engaged. When you ever marry this man what will you be keeping; murder?
ReplyDeletePoster 2: THIS IS THE MOST STUPID THING I HEAR FROM FOOLISH GIRLS:
"May last year, I lost my virginity to him because of the love I had for him"
Now:
Who is dumped
Who has heartache
who is chasing who now?
Who is "finding it difficult to fall in love again" (by the way, that's falling in LUST)
Who is depressed?
Who terminates a pregnancy or kill a child (supposing you had one)?
Who is searching his "dp" on social media and getting angry?
Who has got inferiority complex?
Who is considered a whore because she is "not a virgin" anymore?
Hasn't the man moved to a more "juicy potato brained girl"?
Will girls ever learn to close their legs?
"Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces. . ."
Girl google this quote and read more!
Poster 2. If a man does not want you any longer. Don't force yourself on him. This is one of the reasons we have many unhappy marriages all over the place. He will marry u out of pity and leave you for house and go after other girls..
ReplyDeletePls Wait for your own man.
Poster1 I don't know what to say to u,but I dislike possessive men. Poster2. Move on already.
ReplyDeletePoster1: Your BF is TeamSnoop raised to power 2.
ReplyDeleteFrom ur gist, he seems so interested in ur money, that's so shameless for a man, well, you can contact the customer care in that bank & prevent them from sending ur account details, or change the number, that'd keep it away from prying eyes, if that's the issue here, you mentioned he's caring & not stingy... Well, don't throw away the bath water with the baby, the nxt guy that'd probably come ur way wouldn't care about ur money balance but wouldn't care about u but just sex, bottomline there's always a vital part missing in every guy, Just look for a guy that's worth swallowing panadol once in a while for.
Poster2: I just hope its not Limerance....
If it is thn i fear for the outcome in years to come.
#GOT fans, drop a line u can remember *winks at Stella*
# don't gv me evil ideas, the ones in my head don't need company
Delete#GOT "Lord Baelish, you're with mischief as a warrior wielding a two edged sword. One dealing with you must be careful not to slew self by thier own hand"
Delete@ poster 1, what you allow will Continue, you allowed it cos of Fear of leaving him , now you are living in bondage.
DeleteWhere is the Love?
@Poster 2, awwwwww....puppy love
# Don't eat the help...TL
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Young girl move on with your life, don't worry you will find love again.
ReplyDelete1. Since you've complained and he's not ready to change, take a break from this relationship and see if he'll change but I won't advice you to continue with a possessive guy cos it may lead to domestic violence with time so just take a break and if there are no changes, please move on.
ReplyDelete2. Try to forget about him and move on cos it's obvious he isn't into to you as much as you're into him. Him no even send you again so just move on and focus on why you're in school.
Yeah. Giving your man the punani changes nothing
ReplyDeletePST 1
You have an insecure Boo. I can't date such
Poster1--you ought to start doing same to him so he'd know it feels.
ReplyDeleteBe a detective yourself and snoop,evade him of his privacy and let's see if he'd like it.
If i were you though,id just call the whole thing quit.
This has gone beyond being insecure to an obsession.obsession is a dangerous trait,trust me
Poster2---you are simply being stupid u know! by telling guys you're a lesbian in other to wade them off.
Delete d said guy's number,block him on fcbk and restrict any and every means of communication to him...in due time ud be fine and realise getting him off your mind isn't such an uphill task
Go out there and give other dude a chance
Poster 1 please move on. To me,nothing good comes out of obsession. You guys will only end up fighting.
ReplyDeletePoster 2...you are childish likewise your narrative.
Poster 1-you are dating a BOMB waiting to explode.
ReplyDeleteLeave him,even God almighty gives us our free will not to talk of a mare boyfriend.
Abeg let him go.
Poster 2- I think you should take care of yourself first,cause you seem so scattered upstairs.
You have already married your ex boyfriend and when your husband comes,you will want to date him.
Give yourself brain,he never loved you,but your body,and I guess you showed him so much love and almost choked him with it,that's why he left you.
Grow up and have some sense.
Poster 1&2 receive sense and move on with your lives. Love will definitely find both of u again. Read 1cor13v1-end.
ReplyDeletePoster 1&2 receive sense and move on with your lives. Love will definitely find both of u again. Read 1cor13v1-end.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 giving a wrong man your virginity comes with heart ache besides why would you tell guys you are a lesbian,na wa for this generation of dull women.
ReplyDeletePoster 2:do you live with your boyfriend or how else is he able to read all your messages before you and why are you ai stressed up over a boyfriend,imagine dating a guy for 2years and no marriage ,better quit that relationship and start looking for a serious relationship whilst you still have time on your side,if you know the stress women who married late go through you won't waste your time on any useless guy,and please look for a well brought up man/godly man.
Poster 2 giving a wrong man your virginity comes with heart ache besides why would you tell guys you are a lesbian,na wa for this generation of dull women.
ReplyDeletePoster 2:do you live with your boyfriend or how else is he able to read all your messages before you and why are you ai stressed up over a boyfriend,imagine dating a guy for 2years and no marriage ,better quit that relationship and start looking for a serious relationship whilst you still have time on your side,if you know the stress women who married late go through you won't waste your time on any useless guy,and please look for a well brought up man/godly man.
Lost interest in chronicles after what I read last night....one was in love with her boss, another with her married neighbor, and lots sleeping with their exes, etc. no wonder we have so many problems in Nigeria. All you guys ever think about is sex, what a shame. Never a chronicle about someone stealing your genius idea of doing something great. Same ol story of pregnancy, cheating and poverty, just like in nollywood. I have no sympathy for foolish people.
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DeletePoster 1,run for ya life,that guy won't rest until he possesses you literally.poster 2,you're suffering from unrequited love,i always say there's nothing like a rebound to get your mind off a persistent ex when no 1 leave your mind. Stop telling people you're a lesbian, go out on multiple dates,pick the best and use him to get over your ex.good luck
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Lolzzzz u sef u dey wash clothes for him dey clean him house. Ok na
ReplyDeleteChildren ....Churen...enhe
ReplyDeleteHian Poster 1, you still have time to write your story, instead of raising your 2 hands and 2 legs n run for your life. Possessiveness + Anger equals Jealousy n battery.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 face ya book. # In sister Nkechi' Voice.
Hello Bv's
ReplyDeleteI greet you special Madam Stella.
Happy Sallah Celebrations.
Narrative number 1 - I suggest you sit your boyfriend down and tell him how you really feel. You need to let him know that you are not happy in the relationship and it's all because of him. Make him see why you want your life back. Why you need your privacy as your "own person". Be gentle but firm. Choose your words and expressions well to clearly buttress your disgust and frustration. And then give him your conditions if he wants you to stay and be happy or be unhappy and call it quits. If he really loves you he'll have to change and work on his trust issues. I know sometimes we guys can be quite possessive and annoyingly inquisitive especially when we really love someone but that's not enough to want to own someone. Do not waiver on your decisions. Goodluck on your endeavors
As for you - narrative number 2 - It is quite clear from every indication that you're yet still young and naive both at life and matters of the heart. I suggest you strap on your seatbelt and FOCUS in the FORD of your life and academic pursuits as you're yet too unprepared for the turmoils in the road trip of love and it's entrapments. Safe travels younging!
Narrative 1 - You need to wake up and read the hand writing on the wall. I smell doomsday.
ReplyDeleteNarrative 2 - You are yet too young and naive in matters of the heart. I suggest you strap on your seatbelt and FOCUS in the FORD of your academic pursuits as you yet too young for the road trip of the love bumps. Cheers younging!
Poster 1. Run fast b4 we read another chronicle in years to come, dat man no love you na obsession. Pack your bag and leave
ReplyDeletePoster 2... you are not in love but in lust, I guess na your 1st love be dat abi? Face ur book and leave Facebook and WhatsApp
Poster 1, he is mental and controlling, showing traits of a possessive maniac exit him now
ReplyDeletePoster 2 , face your book and focus on something else he doesn't want you
Poster 1, please move on biko if the guy is like dis jus imagine how he will be in future, poster 2, please kindly concentrate on ur studies biko
ReplyDelete#Worrying is a waste of time. Good and bad things happen in life, you just have to keep living and not stress over what you can't control*
ReplyDeleteIvbibieleka, na this hard time wey things hard well well, na e I go dey think of man? All I think about is how to make extra money to make life better for me and my loved ones.
ReplyDeletePoster1:after marriage u will be under lock and key.
ReplyDeletePoster 2:concntrate on ur studies.
U dont need to lie ur a lesbian.better say ur nt intrested.
Poster1. Some people react/ behave certain way after a bad experience,others have trust issues due to upbringing /wayward examples around them... Let someone he respects talk to him, kind of counseling..(i hope he has such a figure /person).. Prayerfully observe him and please go through his phone since he doesn't mind
ReplyDeletePoster2. You were in love with the idea of being in love, you offered him all you had at the time which was not enough to keep him since he is an opportunist,..so stop stalking him, just stop communicating, delete his number, you may feel cheated but channel ur energy to improving ur self, academically,spiritually..become committed in church cos God Accept /loves you despite ur mistakes, his plan is better than any thing you can imagine, keep improving, read books
Poster 1, I cannot advice u to leave ur relationship, jes know dat marriage is a long time to remain in bondage!
ReplyDeletePoster 2, I was in a similar situation abt 2 years ago, u know wat I did? I picked d pieces of my life, dusted my round ass n moved d hell on! it's not gonna be easy but trust me it will pay in d long run! e-hugs dear!
Poster 1: I treat people the way they treat me so if you go through my stuff, i go through yours.SIMPLE!!! ! If he doesn't have an issue with you going through his stuff then there is no cause for alarm.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Don't worry ,one day someone will come around and make you forget this dude.Meanwhile what you feel isnt love,(youve been crushing on this guy from your high school days). You are a good girl with home training/contentment Spirit thats why you did all that for him .
Poster 1 u let ds happen,if u had confronted him at d beginin am sure he wud ve stopped but nw its late cos if u try to stop him nw,he wud beat hell out of u.just walk away cos he wil neva change.poster 2,face ya studies dt shud be ur priority nw.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, He is very insecure. He is never gonna stop. It will magnify in marriage. Will result to beating eventaully. Incase u want to go ahead, make sure he is better than u in all area of life and richer dan u too, If not, it will be another chapter of woes. Cos he won't be able to deal. He will never see u as his partner or helper, but his competitor. Any good remarks or astonishing achievements, if not credited to him, will become a big case. Eventually too he will start playing God to u, and abusing u emotionally and otherwise.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: u r too young to know what love is. Its bcos sex is involved and ur age, dats y u r getting it wrong. Delete his no and anything about him u ve, try setting academic targets for yourself, go out and mingle. Den try closing ur legs. Just focus. You ve a slate before you to write ur future, don't jeopardise it. Wen u become successful, men will flood u, including him. Wait till den.
Spot on about poster 1. He is never going to stop. No need talking to him leave before you damage your mind. My ex was exactly like that. You will never be good enough.
Delete#GOT. "Words are Wind"
ReplyDeletePoster 2 your kind of love is so sickening. Get a grip on yourself. There's no man who wouldn't run from that sort of love. Ewwww.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 is just a baby that offered what she have to her lover boy in Auchi Poly. Nne the guy enjoyed your totoh while it lasted and is seeing more advanced and experienced babes now. Babes that knows their worth and not a maid like you. Move on already and stop killing yourself checking on his dp. Poster 1 if you are not comfortable, draw the curtain on time. He wouldn't change of he marry you.
ReplyDeletePoster 1. You don't need anyone to tell you to leave that relationship except you want to send it another chronicle with regrets.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. don't worry, you will heal and you will begin to wonder what you saw in him at the initial. Stop stalking him, engage in activities that you love. Always live your present to the fullest and forget your past. It doesn't count. One more thing don't go back to your vomit in the name of love
Oma ga ooooo poster 2...first boyfriend and you want to kill yourself. Smhhhh you want to kill yourself before you even know what life is? Biko wake up and live!!!stop being such an ass embarrassing womanhood Kiri.put yourself together and move on
ReplyDeletePoster 1 be very careful my sister, you have every reason to be afraid. Whatever happens in courtship expect triple in marriage. You sound like a free bird that can't be caged. Some people just love their space sometimes. See if he exhibits such character with other females in his life like his mum or sis. If he does means that might be his character if you know you can't cope please run!!! Before you'll start sending a chronicle in marriage how you don't have your life again or someone has choked you to death
Hmmn
ReplyDeletePoster 1 Your life is at stake. Your guy has the tendency of a killer. May you receive sense and leave him before he murders you.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 grow up already please and stop pestering who doesn't want you anymore. Forget the dude biko