HIAN!!!
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SPIRITUAL HUSBAND ISH
Good day Stella and fellow BVs. I have something that is kind of bothering me, am on the edge of giving up.I even thought about suicide lately.. Because things have not been right.. Have been struggling with everything.
Am 26, a cool headed, smart and with good curves, well mannered and above all very Godly. People also see me and pray they can have me as wife.
It all started from my secondary school, have always been unlucky with grades, every body knows am brilliant including the teachers but still I don't always have good grades. When I got to the university.. I managed to graduate with a second class upper with many prayers and been faithful to God.
During my third year in the university, A man saw me and told me a lot of things about my life, that I need to pray a lot .... That there are so many demonic oppression millitating against my destining. Fast forward to during my NYSC. A pastor prayed for me and told me also that I Have a lot of enemies in the spiritual world. I overlooked all these and just rebuked them.
Unknown to me, this oppression has also been manifesting itself in my relationship. Cos of my Godly nature, I didn't date that much.The few relationship I had was broken because I did not give in to sex. I initially thought it was because I refuse sex with them that they leave me. It was when my last boyfriend disvirgined me and broke up with me for no reason. I thought it was the will of God until this repeated itself like two times.
Recently, I went to Ibadan to stay with my Uncle and I went for prayers in one of these churches and the pastor revealed to me that I have a spiritual husband disturbing my life and also need to undergo a very tough deliverace. He also said so many things like bathing in the river and doing a lot of things that are not of a christian.
Pls, My Dear BVs I want to know if anybody has been told this kind of thing before and how they were able to overcome, because am kind of loosing my faith now.
Thanks for your responses in advance and sorry for the epistle.
*Ah,this one pass me oh
You can pray and deliver yourself fast and pray with a sincere heart ....Lets faith for queen and Boss for more advice
ReplyDelete*wait*
DeleteSweetie, i used to have dis same issue. I'm 25,grad,xtian,godly. My last relationship was a flop. Things usually gets really hard for me. Brilliant but getting good grades na war. Even colleagues know i'm good. Managed to grad wit 2nd class lower. I've bn doing delievrance for months now. D last pastor told my mum i b senior for d marine world, konk mammy water. I fasted n prayed months ago n d spiritual husband left me, but i still dey d thing. Did deliverance yesterday again. I'm faithful dis time it works. I just want things to start working for me, get a job n find love n be loved. Just be determined to be delivered. You don't deliver marine spirit by river na. You can't cast out spirit wit d devil. It's only Jesus dt can save u. Locate anoda pastor.
DeleteMy dear, I'm not saying no spiritual husband o, but to be honest with you, there's nothing wrong with you. Shey you said you're God fearing and godly? If that's the case, you have no p. Your last BF broke up bcos right from time, it was sex he wanted. If you're that bothered, wake up every night to pray, continually be a good Christian, be more fervent in prayers, everything will work out fine. You don't have to do any deliverance. You're a Christian nao, look for the word that suits that challenge and remind God of his word towards you. He said the thoughts he has towards us are thoughts of good and not of evil. Remind him of that, and he said touch not my anointed and do my prophet no harm. You are God's anointed. Just speak positively to your life and all will work out.
DeleteRemember that you have to be free from sin.
I actually got pregnant by a spirit husband. Never had sex but I got pregnant. I thank God for my background in mfm. I did dry fast,used the word of God and mfm prayer rain. God delivered me, I had a miscarriage. My dear prayer works, any prayer In the river will further complicate matters. Pray pray pray and when you get delivered, try and live right. Prayer works
DeleteNo matter what,please do not pray by the river and don't go to any white garment church. Attend a bible believing church and talk to God always. Declare the words of God day and night and you'd be fine God's willing. It is not of he that willeth, neither is it of he that runneth, but of God that showeth mercy. Your testimony shall come in Jesus Mighty Name,Amen. My prayers are with you.
DeleteMrs Feragamo pls why should she not go to a white garment church? Have you attended one before or do you know their doctrine? If yes then tell me what is bad there! I really want to know.
DeleteMy dear, go to mFm and Do your deliverance.
DeleteDid mine and I've been testifying.
I did 3 days dry fasting with intense prayerS.
Not to mention the anointing section in the early hours of Sunday.
Got to know demons feed on oil, water and salt. When you fast and pray they run away.
After that live a holiness life Free of sin.
And study your Bible.
There's nothing God cannot do.
I have PEACEEEEE. God is real.
You already said it yourself "not Christian like".
ReplyDeleteDo not follow that pastor anywhere else you'd end up with more demons than you already have that's if you have any.
Find a bible believing church and serve your God diligently. Pray and fast, take your mind off this them say them say pastors. They will spoil your mind to the extent that even when something good is about to happen, you mindset won't allow it.
Stop visiting pastors to help you when you can help yourself with your mouth and on your knees. Talk to God about what you want, he listens.
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DeletePoster: plz send us ur WNB Stella mail box they empty o! I'm sure no be only me wan know how spirit they take fuck! Do they give head? Spiritual husband née, spiritual husband kor. Who did he pay bride price to? Just tell the person to return it and the marriage is over
ASHAWO WAS 1's A VIRGIN
My dear u don't hv any problems different from wot the normal persons lk you pass through.. Most pastors r on a mission 2 exploit pple, be vigilant, pray fervently by n 4 urself n things ll get beta.
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DeletePoster you graduated with a 2:1 but you're empty upstairs, insane in the membrane! People have real serious issues please, there are women who are 35-50 unmarried you 26yr old girl is complaining. You were stupid enough to give your virginity to an idiot instead of keeping it till you were married now you're blaming spirit husband. Spirit husband's and wives are real, yes, but your case is just plain stupidity! I feel like giving you a dirty slap! Better focus on your career and close your smelly pussy shut till your wedding night. You graduated with a 2:1 doesn't mean you'll prosper, I know so many people that graduated with a 2:1 but they earn 40k. Be focused on progressing rather than marriage
DeleteDo not bathe in the river! 1 demon will leave you while 70 demons will build houses with your Destiny.
ReplyDeleteGo to Chosen, MFM or any strong church for deliverance
Chosen?
DeleteKwakwakwakwa.
Make I no talk
Poster are u me?. When I started reading this I thought It was me that sent it. Sigh
DeletePoster, that write up is the story of my life, and I have given up on relationships cos they jst never work. Sometimes I pray and cry to God, sometimes I give up and accept fate. I am older than you and trust me it's frustrating.
I keep praying to God though, cos it seems the deliverance doesn't even work. God knows best.
Baby oku, deliverance works! Ensure u don't mix ur prayer & fasting wt sin, even thou it tarries but it will surely come to pass, cry to God most night for MERCY, none is worthy but mercy can do it
DeleteIn my late 3O's I battled wt inherited & foundational battles for several yrs, for some yrs I had nothing, suffered in the hands of those I loved, my kindness was paid wt humiliations, those I dated detest me for no reasons, it was so baaaaddd BUT proudly today I can say God hear me! I'm enjoying the prayers & fasting I sowed for so long, God restore all
God is able, don't relent, Jesus delivers
These are foundational battles not easy to fight but u can overcome it like my GO will say "get angry in ur spirit, pray like a mad prophet & wounded lion"
God bless Dr Olukoya, His preaching helps me
Pray more even when all hope fades
U can only acquire marine witchcraft by bathing in any river, does solve a shit, it will increase ur yoke
DeleteJesus said some battles will not die except thru prayer & fasting
Tough battles requires tough approach
Keep fasting & praying, don't relent
Yoruba says when masquerade pursues u don't stop running, as human get tired so also will d spirit get tired.
Midnight prayers & cry for mercy at night hour works, do it for months .
Note that d grace & mercy of God will eventually deliver u but ur own effort of prayer & fasting will move God to fight for u
Bartholomew cried! If he didn't then he will die a blind man
Above all stay away from sins, especially fornication, it hinders prayers
Baby oku, if you can read the reply in the first post, all will be fine
DeleteHiaan!! So becos your relationships have not worked, u now have spiritual husband? Wat now happens to a lady abandoned on her wedding dat is still unmarried? Wat happens to a woman who miscarried 12 weeks pregnancy and lost her husband after 6 months? Umu nwanyi! So becos u are not married, u now have issues?
DeleteNo worry babe. Just find your way to Ilaje, Bariga in Lagos. There's one Ilaje church that specialises in this kinda case. By the time pastor Oju Eledumare(eyes of God) exorcise that demon comot, u will be free as a bird..
DeleteOne lady that was delivered in this same church was jinxed by her grandmother because she broke her grandma's paddle. Out of fear, she did not tell her grandma that she was the one that broke it by mistake, the mama now put old woman's face on her face. Any man that stops her to woo her, end up seeing her as an old woman. So for many yrs, she no get husband. And the babe na fine babe º°˚˚°ºo. But when oju olodumare spoke words of the spirits into her life, everything came back to normal for her. Come for next week Wednesday service. Your miracle could be waiting for you
Poster,you better go back to that church you went for deliverance!...
ReplyDeleteYou are not alone on this..
Most women have one or two bad spirits following and tormenting their lives!...
Am sure u went to a white garment church, they are very good in spiritual things, better go and bath I the river if that will solve ur problem, or go to Mfm.
ReplyDeleteNothing is freaking wrong with u at poster. I have friends who do tutorial for other people and still fail. They are plenty. In med school. Find out what u are doing wrong. Find out what u are reading wrong, or how u attempt qqs wrongly. Intelligence get grade. Some people need to read 3months all night before exam whheras others don't need to study at all for same exam. Get off ur high horse. U are prolly one of those who have to read steadily/often to pass an exam. If u get serious problems, na pass u for use graduate. Find a God fearing man and date. Stop forming hard to get. It's almost normal to believe u are a 10while u are a 6. Cheers!
DeleteDon't bath anywhere o, Jesus has died for our sins already. Except you're going for baptism, nothing, I repeat nothing should take you to any river.
DeletePoster i dnt knw wat to say you o. Bt just give to ceaser wat blongs to ceaser. Or ucn stick to God against all odds
ReplyDeleteThe bible says my people perish for lack of knowledge. Poster listen carefully, not everyone one who calls himself a man of God is truly one. If you are truly married in the spirit realm, believe me, you would know cos there is no way your spirit husband wouldn't have manifested itself to you in all of your 26yrs on earth, at least you didn't mention anything like that.
DeleteA spirit husband has no business with your education, it is when you want to get married physically or when you are in a serious relationship, then it gets jealous and would try to harm you or your spouse.
You even graduated with a 2.1 and you call it manage. Whatever struggle you passed through in order to come out with that 2.1 is a struggle that is common to every Nigerian student in higher institutions.
If you had said your suitors always disappoint you at the point of marriage, or that something bad happens to whoever wants to marry you, that would have been more accurate. How many girls get married to the men who disvirgined them? What you are experiencing is just the normal issues of a single lady.
You had better not bathe in any river, lest you invite a legion of demons into your body. Stop going from place to place in the name of seeking a solution, rather draw nearer to God, invite the holy spirit to take control of your body and ask God to provide for whatever you need and he'll do it.
Dear poster,please take this advice very seriously.
DeleteI will advice you not to do it. A lot of people have done these things without any changes and they later regret. Everything has its own time, wait for your time and continue to be prayerful
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
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DeleteAll these spiritual husbands & wives, i dont ever hear of them abroad, its only in Africa.... abi embassy no de give spiritual husbands visa?
ReplyDeleteBathing in the river ? You want to attract the marine kingdom to yourself.
DeletePoster the only deliverance you need is the renewal of your mind and the power of your tongue.
DeleteYou just replayed the story of my life, success was a struggle,even graduating from uniport was a struggle but you have to know that "they overcame by the word of their mouth".
Pray yourself out of the shackles of the enemy. What wasn't suggested? T-junction ritual,baths,flogging..lmao, I have just had a dogged believe until I located OPM in portharcourt. By yourself and with the authority in the name of Jesus,pray yourself out of the shackles of the enemy and begin to enjoy life the way God intended it, without struggle.
Check incubus and sucubus that's what the western world call it and you can find it in your bible too.
DeleteNgbor, correct
Deleteu know am well
DeleteYou wont talk if na Celestial church you go, be there and talking anyhow.
ReplyDeletefirst of all.... do you see yourself having sex in the dream?
Do you eat in the dream
Do you see yourself with children in the dream. Oya answer me before i tell you what to do.
How come that pastor want you to go to river and bathe.. that means water go just carry you go dash your spirit husband. This lady you don go celestial church.
All the deliverance you have done, do you see yourself defeating your HORSEBAND for dream or you have help in defeating them. If not better go to a good church and get delivered.
My hairdresser was in that your position before and today she is free from it. She now beat and defeat any spirit husband coming her way.
Please run to Mfm, there's power must change hands program on Saturday. Try attending the program and if you are far from Lagos, connect via the internet or watch it at the Mfm regional headquarters close to you. Rededicate your life to Christ, abstain from sin, be prayfully with God on your side, you'll conquer the enemy. For doubting the existence of spirit spouses, it is so real but through God, we can conquer them.Don't go to some of the babalawos posing as pastors, study God's word and don't do any 'deliverance'that looks like a ritual. Keep trusting in God, He answers prayers.
DeleteHmnnnnnn! Mountain of fire.com
ReplyDeleteIf you believe all what those fake MOGs tell you about your life,then they will manifest!
ReplyDeleteAll you need is to go down on your knees and pray to God.
Attend sunday and weekly activities in your church and change your mindset!
Exactly
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DeleteSeriously I dnt believe anything abt dis spritiual husband or wife of a thing nd I dnt except any sane person to believe also.
ReplyDeleteMy dear spiritual husband exist o but know a church where they can kill that spiritual man for you.
DeleteA lady killed her's around November and by January this year she got married after many heartbreaks
Do a 9 days novena to st jude,,do also a 9 days novena to Mary the undoer
ReplyDeleteOf nuts after which u visit the blessed sacrament for 21 days,,read ps 25,35,155.
It's a spiritual warfare....be careful with where u go to for
Prayers, ,they might increase your problem.
I am a catholic......
And also use 'release me oh lord' its used by catholics!
DeleteDats wot I used n I'm delivered!
Poster pls leave all dis celestial n mushroom churches ur attending ...its doing worse to u!....
Attend a bible believing church ......i Concord with doppelganger
God b with u
The book of psalms stopped @150, pls write the correct chapter,am also interested.
DeleteThe book of psalms stopped @150, pls write the correct chapter,am also interested.
DeleteStating the obvious, Einstein
DeleteMay God deliver you.
ReplyDeleteSpiritual husband is real n it takes the grace of God n serious deliverance to over come it.
Pls don't bath in any river to avoid adding spiritual cousins to it.
@ Portable, u don cray! Wc one be spiritual cousins?
Delete2 Kings 5:10
DeleteElisha sent a messenger to him, saying, "Go and wash in the Jordan seven times, and your flesh will be restored to you and you will be clean."
Hebrews 10:19-22
Therefore, brethren, since we have confidence to enter the holy place by the blood of Jesus, by a new and living way which He inaugurated for us through the veil, that is, His flesh, and since we have a great priest over the house of God, read more.
let us draw near with a sincere heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience and our bodies washed with pure water.
Ezekiel 36:24-25
"For I will take you from the nations, gather you from all the lands and bring you into your own land. "Then I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you will be clean; I will cleanse you from all your filthiness and from all your idols.
2 Kings 5:10-14 ESV / 21 helpful votes
And Elisha sent a messenger to him, saying, “Go and wash in the Jordan seven times, and your flesh shall be restored, and you shall be clean.” But Naaman was angry and went away, saying, “Behold, I thought that he would surely come out to me and stand and call upon the name of the Lord his God, and wave his hand over the place and cure the leper. Are not Abana and Pharpar, the rivers of Damascus, better than all the waters of Israel? Could I not wash in them and be clean?” So he turned and went away in a rage. But his servants came near and said to him, “My father, it is a great word the prophet has spoken to you; will you not do it? Has he actually said to you, ‘Wash, and be clean’?” So he went down and dipped himself seven times in the Jordan, according to the word of the man of God, and his flesh was restored like the flesh of a little child, and he was clean.
Lmao @spiritual cousins! Hehehe...
DeletePoster biko,find a living /believing church around you and start attending. Stop visiting these men of "gods", they can only help in compounding your issues.
There is no longer any demarcation between you and God. Jesus has payed the price!!
Just believe that all those men that disappointed you where not ment for you. Your own man will definitely locate you at the right time.
Spiritual husbands be disturbing a lot of sisters.. Nne your best weapon is prayer and God's house not any spiritual bath before you baptize yourself with other demons.
ReplyDeleteYou can't use evil to cast out evil.
ReplyDeleteDon't bath in any stupid river oh.
Go for the deliverance, but ensure you go to the right place or church.
If you are Catholic, visit the Blessed Sacrament, pour your heart out. God is there and he listens to the silent thoughts in your heart.
Believe in God and he will handle it.
Remember, he is still God and with him all things are possible.
Keep praying, God never forsakes his own.
My dear spiritual husbands and wives exist but that doesn't mean u are possessed with one. They cause marital delay, stagnation, barrenness, domestic violence in marriages etc. Only Jesus can deliver anybody possessed with such. Bathing in the river and offering sacrifices is very diabolic and it won't bring your deliverance, instead more demons from the river will be added to the spiritual husband.
ReplyDeleteSpiritual husband = someone is masturbating with your picture, go and find the person.
ReplyDeleteLmao
DeletePlease Dont bath in any river.you just haven't met the right guy yet.while I agree that you need to be prayerful, you also need to renew your mind for out of it are the issues of life.when you pray make sure you are praying in line with Gods word,that's the only way to be victorious. I also hope you know that your destiny is in YOUR own hands.
ReplyDeleteits only God that can help you dear, look up to him, he will see you through...
ReplyDeletePray and talk to your pastor. But dont let any fake prophet perform rituals in the name of prayers.
ReplyDeleteIf you want to do the bath....make sure you dont go alone cos those woli are not smilling.
ReplyDeleteYep i have heard plenty of such stories before. And yes darling... It's all true
ReplyDeleteYou have two options;
1) Go to any mountain of fire ministry and submit yourself for serious fasting and deliverance. Or any other ministry that has a powerful man of God to deliver you.
2) Find the 'other kind of pastors' and follow their instructions! Buy the things required of you and go make those sacrifices with them, so you can regain your freedom!
Those kind of pastors always preach...Give to Ceaser what belongs to him. So since you have a mami water husband, you should settle him in his own spiritual way.
NB: Spiritual husbands and wives matter is Real!! I was an unbeliever before but after hearing and seeing some weird crazy shits, I am now a believer! They are extremely jealous, evil and will stop at nothing to destroy your life until you settle them; thereby setting yourself free!
If you like believe, if you like don't. Ciao 👋
Ignore what he pastors are telling you and study the word of God and fast and pray. Life must not be all about marriage; which will of course happen at its proper time. Going to the stream to bath; does God live in the stream or river?
ReplyDeleteGo for deliverance..
ReplyDeleteI don't support you going for deliverance,where the pastor will bath you with soap & water in the river bcos that will add to your problems..
Shine your eyes..
Place yourself on fasting & prayer always with midnite prayers..
Good luck..
Meet a real man of God for deliverance..
DeleteAlways fast & pray.
Midnite prayers will help you too.
It is okay to fast and pray because the bible clearly states that but the bathing in d river stuff unless it is to baptize you I do not agree just saying to me dat is how most people get possessed of marine spirit because I have heard lot of confessions regarding,just be prayerful and keep your faith strong okay,the lord will see you through
ReplyDeletePoster everything will be fine, cry out to God keep holding on to him, your breakthrough is around the corner.
ReplyDeleteLovemejeje introduce her to your bishop now.
POSTER Listen up!!!
ReplyDeleteYou are WHO GOD SAYS YOU ARE...NOT ANY PASTOR, NOT ANY PERSON!!!
If you say you have spirit husband, then you have spirit husband...its as simple as that. My dear live your life and stop carrying that thing in your mind. All the guys that have broken up with you is just merely a coincidence dear...most guys are assholes, you better start believing it. That guy you finally gave the cookie to..probably that's all he wanted from you. He got it and walked!
You're going around believing you have a spirit husband and all situations surrounding you are working in favour of that thought. YOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK!!!
Mizz Majesty...signing awt
Mizz Majesty I love you. This poster is fixated with the thought of marriage,going from one prayer ground and crusade to another. What do 99% of pastors in Nig tell youngs girls of marriageable age? "Spiritual husband". You are what you believe and carry around. Things generally are hard. You even graduated with a second class upper. The God and devil in you is your mind. Let one prevail the other and see the xteristics of the "chosen one" begin to manifest in your life. Speak and confess positive regarding your life and great things will begin to manifest.
DeleteYou want a husband and you will get one.
You couldn't have said it any better. People perish for lack of knowledge wisdom is profitable to direct. YOU ARE WHO GOD SAYS YOU ARE.
DeleteFinally someone i agree with.
DeleteBetter go for the deliverance quickly it is not a new thing..just do all you are asked to do
ReplyDeleteOkpali. Batch in the water? That is the most scaring aspect of it. You use your leg go meet the spirit husband then. Please go for deliverance. MFM is good at that. All the best.
ReplyDeleteMy on/off gf has a spiritual husband. He disturbs her at night, lays on her so she can't move. Reckon he's probably fkd her in dream-state. Poor thing she's so confused. [BS]
ReplyDeletePoster. Puuulese spare us the bull crap. How do you know you are well mannered.even Godly. Are you kidding me?That's one problem with U ladies. Always blaming someone or something for your shortcomings. Ur problem is that U don't have good manners .If u do men will not always abandoned u. In d last 2 days on FB I have seen 3 men give expensive new cars to their women for accepting them in their lives. I don't think those would have done so if their woman are ill mannered.
ReplyDeleteWork on ur manners.
Anon 15:17, spiritual things are very real wether we believe It or not, and yes she may have all the right attitudes and still have failed relationships, It will only take the grace of God for her to be free, coupled with a lot of prayers,fasting,deliverance and studying of God' s word. I am talking from experience and its not something I pray anyone experiences but thank God for His mercies over my life today I am free.
DeleteJames?
DeleteMy dear spiritual husband and wife is so real. I know of an aunty who is passing through such, anytime a man comes close to her and mention marriage he will die mysteriously. They are more than four correct suitors that are now late, she is so pretty and good mannered but I pray she gets help. Poster please go to mountain of fire and join them to do their monthly five days fasting and deliverance. Trust me it works.
DeleteIf you believe that you are truly oppressed then take it out with your maker or like some will say "REAL" man of God.(Well i dont think any man of God can pray for me the way i will pray for myself because am the one that knows where it pinches.Am my own prophet.)
ReplyDeleteLife is Spiritual they say too but i believe in the efficacy of the Word of God.Moreover,if you start thinking about Spiritual husband, it will manifest.Thats the power of thought.
Why dont you meditate on the Word!! "Commit your ways unto the Lord and he will direct your path".
God is our Shield! Deliverer! Strong Hold! Glory! and the Lifter of our head.
at 25year no serious boyfriend i want to end my life now......BVBL
ReplyDeleteDie na.
DeleteOne less moron to deal with.
At 25, seriously? Hmmmm! Don't commit sucide o.what if you have a jackass as a boyfriend right now? Don't you think It better to wait patiently on God to give you the best at His own time? I will advice you get something doing to keep yourself busy and your mind off " boyfriends". Success attracts great men!
Deletena wa!
At 25, seriously? Hmmmm! Don't commit sucide o.what if you have a jackass as a boyfriend right now? Don't you think It better to wait patiently on God to give you the best at His own time? I will advice you get something doing to keep yourself busy and your mind off " boyfriends". Success attracts great men!
Deletena wa!
25? You are just starting life. Be patient.
DeleteYou are a special kind of stupid if you need a boyfriend do validate your existence. Hurry up and die
DeleteThis is where y'all religious fanatic lose it.
ReplyDeleteWhat sort of prayer can a pastor render on your behalf that u can't indeed do for yourself.
Rather than jump from one church to the other or from a self acclaimed pastor to another,y not go on your knee and cry out to God...He's God of all and will surely deliver u
Spiritual things are real. Just pray you don't experience any problem that will make you start running from pillar to post. I was born Anglican and I won't have touched a C&S church with a million miles pole but today I'm proudly one of those white garment church pple. I experienced problems of 50 years in 18months n my life was upside down and I went to all the so called appropriate real men of God churches but found judgement there rather than help. But in the C&S church I found salvation and deliverance, the prophet is so real and in 8weeks God restored all I lost and today I can only thank God. Best part of church is while they prayed for me on the spiritual aspect I got the best financial and emotional and societal support from the church and nobody judges or pretends. I used to think I could speak in tongues but I discovered true tongues that can be interpreted and is edifying. Even the real men of God visits for spiritual support. I rest my case.
Deletehian. please go and see TB Joshua. he's an expert in rending this kind of advise.
ReplyDeleteYou went to cele abi? Na every girl dey get spiritual husband for cele mtcheew
ReplyDeletePoster don't let anybody brainwash you pls. Their nonsense deliverance is flogging you while you're naked in the river and the pastor will be the one to do it. So many fake churches
I got married 3 years ago to the most handsome and kind hearted man in this world. But the problem is that I got married to another person physically. I know you are confused.
ReplyDeleteI started dating Sef in 2012 during my youth service year in zamfara. After service he proposed and I accepted. He is a Muslim. Influential, politician and royalty. We were really in love but we knew within us that the relationship was a taboo to both families. I am an igbo girl and a Christian and from zero background. I'm the first graduate in my family.
We fixed a date for introduction and both of us agreed to get married anyhow we can because we just wanted to belong to each other and spend the rest of our lives together ( so I thought).
We invited okezie into our relationship. Okezie was contacted because he understood us well. We spoke to him about fronting himself as my husband to my people and standing as Sef throughout the marriage process.
Introduction was completed. My parents met with okezie's fake relatives and everything was fixed. I had a lavish traditional marriage. I became Mrs Okezie to my family. My real husband Sef was happy. There was no name change for me expect to my pals at school that came for the traditional marriage.
I traveled the world with Sef on a different name but I was his wife. I forgot to mention that after the marriage I got a job with a communication company and relocated to Abuja. Sef bought me a 2 bedroom apartment with Okezie's name as my surname. I was ok with it.
Sef just got married to a girl of his class and religion. He still treats me normal. Nothing has changed about him towards me but I don't know who I am. I don't know if I'm married or just dating a married guy.
I got pregnant June this year and Sef said I should quit my job which I did because I was very sick. I lost the pregnancy at 9 weeks. I was devastated.
Dh was devastated too because we really wanted a child in our marriage.
Just last july Okezie said Sef should increase his allowance to 200k and I refused since we are sponsoring his upcoming wedding. He will be getting married by the end of this year. And we promised him a job and car. I'm scared. What if my parents gets wind of his real marriage? What will I tell them? How will I even start explaining the whole story. I'm ashamed of myself.
A friend invited me to her church and I gave my life to Christ. And one of the preaching was lie and bad foundation. I want to quit but I know Sef Will seize everything I have. I once joked about leaving him and he sent mopol to secure my house. He took away my second car and got me a driver. He monitors me like a ghost. Does my shopping and all.
He said we can get married if I become a Muslim. He promised to upgrade my family statues by completing a house for my parents and starting good business for my elder and only brother so that when he present my family to his family they won't really look down on us.
I really want to end it all. I don't even feel love for him anymore. I started one training in church and I'm getting lots of proposal for marriage from brothers in the church. I now have the fear of God in me. I feel more normal when I am with this particular brother. He encourages me to pray. I know he thinks i am single. I am thinking of going to my parents opening up to them or running away since I still have 4years US visa. Maybe I can start over and age is still on my side (26year). But if I run away who will take care of my family?
I am ashamed of myself.
I don't even know how to organize this chronicle. If its not making any sense to you ma; its because that is how messed up my life is.
I need advice. Genuine advice please.
Wow!
DeleteIs this real?
This is what tribalism can cause...
Just imagine,Are notherners not human being ?
Carry your cross biko
Tell your mother what you typed here and take it from there. This is very complex but I know you will find a solution .
DeleteWaiting for part 2
DeleteHahahahahahaha!!! U thot u loved Sef but greed got a better part of you
DeleteThe truth will set you free. Tell your family the truth maybe they will understand and also tell yourself the truth I.e. what you really want!
DeleteThe truth will set you free. Tell your family the truth maybe they will understand and also tell yourself the truth I.e. what you really want!
DeleteOMG baby you are in one big shii! How your mind conceive this beats me. I felt like I was reading a novel! Pls can you sit down and think? Is the life worth it? Do you love sef enough? Won't you have problem with the fact that he has another wife who is legally his first wife? I think you should leave the relationship or get him to marry you properly. If I was in your shoe I do be seriously messed up! What's.
DeleteDis one pass me shaa! I think u need to start afresh! It obvious circumstances made u gamble wit your beliefs but u can still go back to ur family and confess to dem n den start all over again. U can abscond if u like but I think u shud focus on building your finance dat can sustain u thru dat period till u finally settle wit your own man. U are still young and there is no cause for alarm but be prepared to face challenges wen issues starts unfolding. Ur family suppose don enjoy small naa, shuuooo!
DeleteMy dear pls start thinkin straight, i am a lawyer and a muslim from the core north, keep religion aside, do you know that under the law u are not covered because ur whole marriage is based on misrepresentation? D marriage was void ab initio. U can't put something on nothing and expect it to stand. What were you thinking? Then religiously, i won't say anything becos deep down u kno wat u blv and religion is a personal decision and relationship with God, so that i won't comment on. Then back to culture, lemme ask you, in ur place do you think it is possible for royalty to bring a hausa muslim girl and tell dem he wud be marrying her as his first wife? Give me an honest ansa. Wateva ur ansa is apply to urslf and give urslf some sense
DeleteNne this is on you. You married him for money cikina.
DeleteIs this real or fiction? Wow,nne ikara obi.but this is bad situation for you.you tired yourself down as a mistress to sef and single lady to the world.How do you sleep at night knowing that you have lost even yourself just because of a man...if you have money,pick yourself and disappear.then when the dust is settled,tell your parents the truth.
DeleteMay God guide you Right.
Hmmm.. what greed causes
DeleteMind you, this story is real 😊
I know because, since 2012 a very influential hausa boy has been on my case. He has promised me heaven and earth and I know he can deliver. He did me long throat but when he saw I wasnt bulging, he stopped and said I should give him and answer and leave the rest to him. He said if I agree, he will marry any hausa muslim girl as his first wife to please his family. Then he will marry me. This is 4 years. We are both still single. He has dated two hausa/mus - very beautiful from his kind of background but he keeps saying it's me he wants. Even when I abuse him (he's 33 now) he keeps saying 'when you ready now na sharp sharp' up till 2 days ago, he was chatting me up on IG and saying the same things he's been saying since 2012.
But I have stuck to my guns because:
1. I can't quarrel with or deceive my parents cos of a man. Yes, I like the guy and if I open my heart to love him I can cos he's my kind of guy. But, why would I betray my family because of a man? Who would have my back like them?
2. Why would I change my religion cos of a man? If I want to I will because I want to. Not because of a man.
3. Love is good and sweet. But when these complications start, will I still love him? When I, a christian girl, start seeing my kids become strong Muslims Like their dad (which is not how I planned it) how would I feel?
4. Honestly, I love good things in life. But money isnt everything. See how u happy you look to the real world, but your life is complicated on the inside. At just 26.
Good news is.... You can start again.
1. First, make up your mind to Choose between comfort and happiness. Even in marriages today, many people chose 1. But me I want both. And I'm gonna get both. Whatever you choose, well stick by it.
Perhaps you choose happiness
2. Tell your parents the truth. Family is where life begins and love never ends. If you come from a sane nuclear family like mine, they will be upset, but they will still love you and give a solution.
3. Stop all contact with okezie. He's a financial and emotional drain and can mess up your future with all this info. Tmr now when you want to contest for election, this Info can pop up from your opponents through ppl like okezie. It's quite a dent on your reputation. So to minimize it reduce communication with okezie. I pity his new wife who thinks she's marrying a salary earner 😂 when there's no more money she will be wondering.
4. Get ready. No rash decisions. Save some money. Get some bags in your parents house so you can disappear at any time. Get a new passport. Get your certificates and all important documents in a safe place. Gold and diamond jewelries? Buy a safe and put them in. Send them to your parents. Put some money in your bank account. As much as possible.
5. You have two paths here:
A) Pay for a course in the US that will keep you busy. Take all your valuables and flee with a new passport. Get to the US and send him and email apologizing that you can't do this anymore. Do it from a public system so he cant trace the IP address. Get busy on your course.
B) Call him to the house and tell him. Tell him on your knees. He will be mad, furious and will verbally and emotionally abuse you. He will send you out empty handed but by then, your important stuff are out.
Yes, your foundations are wrong and are speaking. But can you ignore those brothers in your church for now and get your life in order?? Your still letting men be a subject in your matter when you have a bigger problem in sight!! This girl....
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DeleteYou are married to Okezie and he is about to take a second wife. You have sugar daddy that You were dating before you married Okezie and now you have met a new brother in church that want to marry you. Did I summarize that well?
DeleteIn this triangle, you're all alone by yourself. Nne you no get husband oh! Sef was never your husband from day one. The one you indeed married was okezie. And now you say okezie is getting married? Hahaha! Don't you see you're in a sinking ship? How you could make such a complex yet silly mistake? Okezie will forever blackmail you with this until you go broke and bald. Guys who consent to games like this are often very ruthless. You've played with your life and gambled with your future. All in exchange for what? Money, trips, cars? Now where's that so called love that was shacking you and sef? Take am easy una no go gree. Pick up what's left of your life and pray to God for divine strength to move on. The guy played you like ludo. Siki one!
DeleteRobyna okezie was never in the picture. Don't you get? He was an undercover boo from the onset. She's never lived with okezie and they pay him some money every monthto keep his mouth shut. Now he wants that monthly fee to be increased to 200k, or else.... Okezie wants to marry his REAL wife and needs more cash to keep the top secret.
DeletePL the great she didn't marry okezie. Her name still remains her maiden name. She and okezie are not married either. Okezie wants to marry his own boo. Do you understand? Technically she's sef's first wife but that's hidden from the rest of the world
DeleteChikito, Robyna is indeed right.She is married to Okezie traditionally.
DeleteChikito, Robyna is indeed right.She is married to Okezie traditionally.
DeleteChikito, I had to google the word "technically "to be very sure that I know the meaning.
DeleteThe lady is technically Okezie 's wife. Customary marriage is actually recognized by our constitution under the common law.
Returning the arranged pride price is essential.
Why is this a chronicle? Everything you just described is what almost everyone has experienced in life. Some of us study but when results come out we are like "wtf?". Why didnt the demonic oppression stop you from getting a 2:1? Why didnt you finish with a third class? We get into bad relationships. Most guys just want to chop and clean mouth. I don't know why you people have to spiritualize everything. Do you know many 26 year olds are in your shoes? What you are experiencing is called life my sister. The fact that someone disvirgined you doesn't mean that he won't leave you. How many people actually marry their first? Stop over thinking things abeg. There are so many fake pastors today I guess that's the sign of the end time. Yesterday's chronicles poster is being stalked by her pastor. Whatever you do don't forget God. Be prayerful but don't also forget to have fun. Life is too short abeg. Good things usually come when you stop over thinking.
ReplyDeleteP.S. The moment you tell any pastor you have a problem with relationships they must always say it's spiritual husband. Especially if you are pretty or light skin. Smh.
I agree with you!
DeleteShe is experiencing life.
Nice one @ Robyna. I'm bit disappointed wit dis poster, so are these only d issues dat made u accept u had a spiritual husband? Like serzly? Is your threshold of challenges dat low? How can u believe dose spiritualist? Wow!! U need to change ur mindset. If I tell u wat I have been thru and still going thru, u will think I have spiritual grannie,father,husband n children. Inspite of all dat, I have neva adhered to any nonsense from any spiritualist or even sort one. One pastor actually saw one thing for me wen I was like 17yrs but for over 15yrs, wateva he claimed he saw did not make any difference in my life as i'm even better dan d loser. I have neva given up no matter d situation, I have had d worst delays n still having but after every phase n wen God rems me, there is always a difference n I see mysef a survivor and a huge success. U seem a bit desperate becos u expect men to stick to u after sleeping wit u, my dear it doesn't work like dat. D day u will visit dat spiritualist n do dat cleansing, ur life will b worse Dan it is now. I dislike gullible women. U have no problem except dat u want to run faster dan ur shadows. Pls leave God to do his job and stop being a two faced Christian dan goes arnd seeking for solution wen there is no issue. If u are a well rooted Christian,trust me u wn't succumb to all dis rubbish.
DeleteKai Robyna aswear u got brains!!! I luv luv dis ur comment. I got angry wen i got to where she said "i managed to graduate wt 2:1" poster u r nt serious. So 2:1 is manage.?? Wat do you want to graduate with? First class? U dnt hav any issues my dear, wait 4 ur time. Thank God wateva u think is doing u let u even finish skool, n wt good grades, ask dem ladies wt dat thing, @ 26 some of dem no even see admission or dey wud write exam and dia script will be missing mysteriously, or dey wud rch yr 2 or 3 and dey wud be withdrawn. Jst pray and keep an open mind.
DeleteAnd she had 2.1 oo, not even pass.
DeleteBabe, your self esteem is dead, wake am up, this is buhari time, you have to be tough
Hahahaha stella where you dey run go? abeg put your red pen ooo. this one wont pass you lailai.
ReplyDeletePainful what we women pass through. I passed through it and was delivered from it through hot prayers and saw the idiots in my dream, about 2 of them. One at my front, the other was standing by the other side looking at both of us. The one standing at my front with his back turned was saying "so you dont know i have left you since, go and ask my second. I was foolishly begging him, not knowing that God had delivered me from the IDIOTS.
My dear God will deliver you from it. Today no spirit husband or anything to disturb my life.
So ur own na twosome
DeleteImagine!
DeleteLoveme Jeje please don't deceive this girl,what you had was a dream. Nro ndi nmadu na aro every day!
spiritual husband ko physical husband ni!
Only you get 2, Nawa oo,
Deleteover to queen of the blog's daddy in the lord
ReplyDeletebut on a serious note,nothing is wrong with u,u are not the first girl a guy will dump haba,stop allowing negative comments ruin ur life.the battle u face is what is called normal i think u hide things a lot from people esp ur friends so u dont get to know that heart breaks do happen.please get urself busy and stop that yeye talk.u are just 26 haba
Yes,I have been through this. Don't go to bath in any river. Go for deliverance at MFM and afterwards give your life completely to God. Stay away from sex till you are married. Always pray and ask God to deliver you and also rejet the Spirit husband and all that has to do with him.
ReplyDeleteImmediately I saw that spiritual husband shit,I didn't bother reading.THERE IS NOTHING LIKE SPIRITUAL HUSBAND!
ReplyDeleteSassy i agree with you.
DeleteSpiritual husband no ebee? For this recession aguu na afio spirit nile onu? Nne biko stop bugging your poor self,what you're facing is day to day ish.
Same here, mtcheew
DeleteAre you minding them? If you believe you have a spiritual husband then you have it. I don't believe in such so I can never have it. Period.
DeleteMy dear, run to TB Joshua ASAP. He is good in handling cases like this. Sorry sister.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you. Go to SCOAN, its in IKotun Egbe.
DeleteThis thing exist it is true there is no lady that does not have, yoruba people call it oko orun, but looking @ dis, me i have dis spiritual thing that i have they call it egbe in Yoruba i don't even know i have such, until a lady saw me and tell me what is really happening to me so ask some elderly women around me they told me it is true so i went to white garment church to do what as to be done but i didn't bath in the river o and i was told the colour of cloth that i should not be using. Pls find a good white garment church u can go not the one they will deceive u
DeleteAll I know is that you need prayers.
ReplyDelete#WhiteDiamondOut
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ReplyDeletePost it's normal, most girls get fucked more than enough times before they get their Mr right.sorry o! But this guy way tear your toto fit no like am, it's clear the toto no sweet am, if it did , he for stay. Who they spit sugar Comot for mouth? Their is no such thing as spiritual husband, ask ur self if u have spiritual husband, who did the spirit pay ur bride price to? Where was the wedding party @? Who be chief BM and BM? Where did you do ur honey moon? And why have you not sent us ur WNB? Abeg no mind all those spiritual husband thing joor!
ASHAWO WAS 1's A VIRGIN
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DeleteOkay Poster, here is the trick in these things. That last pastor doesn't believe in GOD, he believes in other things. If you do what he asks you . Your problem 'might' go away temporarily. You will still have to keep doing funny stuffs from time to time thereby making the devil your master. But if you can locate a good and true Pastor for deliverance, then you will be free for ever especially if you walk in the path of light.
ReplyDeleteWhat the pastors said might be true .But what have you done on your own concerning the bad prophecies? Pls don't go to any river for bathing,Any pastor that told you to bath in the river is not a genuine man of God .A real Man of God can deliver you by praying for you.Look for a Bible believing church & you'll be free.Also pray & fast .
ReplyDeleteGod Bless Everyone.
What is wrong with Africans and this spiritual husband ish. Have you checked your character and how you relate to guys when you are in a relationship. Why is spiritual problem always the easy way out of people's misery and the reason they're stucked in one place. How many guys have you actually dated that brought about this conclusion of a spiritual husband.??? Go and out and make friends and take it from there. Relationships takes time to grow. Dummy!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteAnything bathing in the river is adding to your problems, don't try it. Stick to your bible and prayers. The sorrow might last for the night but joy comes in the morning.
ReplyDeleteAsk Linda to take you to her daddy in the Lord
ReplyDeleteI'm sure they would handle your case there
poster if u were in warri now, there's this powerful woman of God that i know and God has been using her, still i advice u pray fervently and don't relent in ur prayer-life at all... i hope u get d results u expect
ReplyDeletePls. Dear share details of this woman pls. I live in warri too. Help pls
DeleteMy dear pls who is the powerful woman of God in Warri? I know someone who suddenly developed mental issues and needs help urgently.
Deletego TB Joshua
ReplyDeleteplease don't bathe in the river, I recommend you go to mfm for deliverance. God will see you through.
ReplyDeleteMy sister is it well, am currently facing same issue, got married by the grace of God, been pregnant twice and lost both babies and the worst is all the pastor i have seen kept saying same thing, spirit husband does not want me to have children, am bothered as you are but dont want to bring my husband into it, i am currently doing a deliverance and hoping things will turn out for good, the one that fears me the pastor was talking and i started crying and the man said i should stop crying that each time i cry if i see the way my guarder angel is crying ha, but i trust God, same with me i overlooked it when i was single alot of it came but i did not bothered and i believe what i did not know will not know me, as am so down cast and always thinking this days plus always crying for God to help me oh.
ReplyDeleteMy dear,stop bothering your self because you had miscarriages,Anxiety is one of the courses of miscarriage. Don't mind the people that are telling you that you have a spiritual husband,God purposely took away your problems ka ichoro imu inbeciles? People do have reoccurrence miscarriages and at the end of the day,thy still give birth to healthy children. I've seen a woman that witnessed it 5times but today,she's a mother of 4 boys. Biko be patience,trust me,you will definitely carry your own babies in Jesus name.
DeleteI tink u shuld go c a real man of God 4 deliverance by prayer n fastin n nt by goin 2 any river or doiin tins ur faith do nt agree with. God hlp u.
ReplyDeleteThis is quite interesting , you cant trust the pastor that wants you to bath in a river, go to other churches with genuine pastors and pray, fast and pray on your own too. May God heal you, amen.
ReplyDeleteBabe don't go and have any bath in river, what u need is the word of God and prayers and as for me I don't belife in all dis deliverance things. As a born again, d born says no evil shall come to ur dwelling. U re God's elect.
ReplyDelete@Poster: The story you posted here does not give the impression that you have a spirit husband. It is not a difficult task to know if you have a spirit spouse. These questions will help you to infer the truth:
ReplyDelete1. Do you forget your dreams when you wake up?
2. if you don't forget them, how is your dream life?
3. spirit wife or husband is associated with water spirit, do you dream a lot about water?
4. Are you afraid of water bodies like lakes, streams and river?
5. Do you have frequent sexual encounters in the dream with a particular person or entity?
If the answers to these questions are in the affirmative, then you probably have a spirit spouse.
There are two ways to come out of these kind of oppression:
1. Personal fellowship and a constant study of God's word (put the word to action)
2. Assisted deliverance mainly be hand laying.
The first is better because you come out strong at the end of the day
You need prayers, you need to undergo fasting and prayers. Spiritual husband /wife exist, they can cause delay in both men and women.
ReplyDeleteI must advice you stop going to the babalawo that claim to be a pastor or prophet. Don't perform any sacrifice, don't go to river for bath. It will double your problem.
Do you know that you can deliver yourself from all bondage, by accepting the Lord Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and saviour, stay clear from anything that causes you to sin, abstain from fornication, avoid gossips and backbiting etc.
Go on your knees and pray while fasting and studying your bible.
While you're doing this, know that is not only about not eating and drinking water that makes up fasting.
When you're are fasting, apart from not eating and drinking of water, you must avoid social media as well, and nobody must know you're fasting. Give arms also.
God answers prayers, He is abundantly able to deliver you from all dirt including spiritual husband.
Abeg my sister, please dont go to any river to bathe o. Dilligently go to mfm prayer city or foursquare camp pray and fast with other people and see God in action. Every spirit husband in your life i command it to catch fire and die in jesus name. Amen
ReplyDeletePoster sorry o, I'd say stop worrying yourself too much before u get depressed, truth is, there is no such thing as spiritual husband, forget about what u have grown up to know in Nigeria, it's one of those African myths, few years back many people believed women that 5 out of 7 of their children died mysteriously were tagged witches and many of those women get rejected from society... Thank God for science, we now know what is AA, AS and SS genotype. When u sleep and wake up and it feels like something is pressing u and u can't scream, we all use to call it spiritual attack, but recently doctors discovered it's due to bad sleeping position (mostly when u sleep with your pillow shifts to your back, it stretches your lungs) read it up. Forget all those mambo jumbo Just look Good, become career driven, sure ud meet someone that's going to marry u. Don't know why Africans see marriage as an achievement sef *breaks ukpa*.#loveUrSelf
ReplyDeleteYou Need Jesus.
ReplyDeleteDo not do that bathing in the river rubbish or T.B Joshua's church either,that would be jumping from frying pan into fire.
ReplyDeleteDo you believe that all, i mean every power on earth submits to the power of the Suprene Being?
That philipians 2:10, Romans 8:31 were not afterthoughts in the bible.
Many will recommend churches and prophets...but self-deliverance,confidence and re-orientation is what you need.
As a child of God,you have been handed key of liberation and dominion...so what the hell is a spiritual husband and his place in your life?
Personally,i don't believe that spiritual husbands exist, and i see extended singlehood as a pre-destined filter for the best,depending on your attitude towards it.
Lady, first of all....you need to stop seeing singlehood as a DISEASE.
Singlehood is a phase...try to see it that way. I know our society makes marriage seem like the last laugh for women, the epitome of success and all. But,you can still do awesome all by your single self....yeah?
Many times, when our future is beautiful, and devil sniffs a bit of what awaits us..."it" casts doubts, fears, whispers and panic in our heart with tragedies, delay,fearful prophesies,unexplained animosity, undue rivary and depression.
It's your choice to believe those damning words, to succumb to those thoughts and panic at the happenings OR march on with hope and a certainty that You have a deal with God to have an absolutely fab peaceful life...true that!
As christians, i believe you are, we do not need to wait for calamity or overwhelming uncertainty to put fire on our spiritual life.
You need to embrace the concept of "Convenant Time" or "Holy ghost school"
Pick an hour everyday 2 or 3am...get your bible, good devotionals, i recommend Our daily manna.
Take it as a full spiritual exercise, You could spice it up with a week fast. Redidicate your life to God,invite the holy ghost.
Chat with your creator...if you do not know how to pray, just talk to him like you would a friend.
Thank him endlesly,spend time with him at that appointed time.
You are beautiful, in shape, got people who love you and alive,graduated with lovely grades and you allow thoughts of spiritual husband and failed relationships cave your spirit...Nah!
Now, you need to start deleting negative thoughts and oh...that whole recalling and crossmatching past ugly events to further dampen your spirit and give strength to neagtive pronounciations gotta stop...make it stop!
You are a new creature now. You are not some powerless object that can be poked and have all evil statements dumped on her head.
Learn to reject such pronounciations once they are spoken,there is power in the tongue.
With bible studies, your aura will change.
Dress beautifully, enough where you look at the mirror and tell yourself...I am hot!
Avoid listening to sob stories or ugly news and lusty lovesongs... fall in love with songs with calming instrumentals and messages.
Feed your mind with positive things...Aww at colourful weddings on bella naija and pick up ideas from there for the near future. Do not go read bella naija as a pathetic spectator who thinks such is reserved for some people.
Be happy for the LDR stories here, tap into the easy ones.
Picture your future, add enough salt and pepper while you fantasize.....it just might happen.
If your wardrobe has lots of dark clothes, mix up some colours, buy new shoes,take lovely selfies. Go out if you can afford it. Give love...make that call to an old friend, complete that t.fare for someone who can't. Branch off to a catholic church while returning and drop some naira in St vincent de paul's box if you dont trust your pastor.
Live life and smile more.
A little secret: Read the book of proverbs as often as possible...i do that a lot and, it kinda made me begin to sound reasonable..almost wise sef.
Fret not, you are divinely covered!!!
On the other wahala hand:
SDK blog, SDk rules,
My epistle, my hand...inugo!
Your complaints, your blatant stupidity...Lord have mercy!
Thank you..
DeleteCome this empress cho you are very stupid for putting TB Joshua's church in that nonsense you wrote...
DeleteIdiot!...
God is the answer
ReplyDeletemy dear don't bath in any river, "who is he that speaks and it comes to pass when the Lord has not commanded it". Your God is stronger than any forces because greater is He that is in you. i was told the same thing by some men and women of God, i ignored them and focused on God. i am married today with kids. talk to God. The Holy Spirit cannot share His temple with demons. you are His temple , declare that to yourself every. don't be suicidal the Lord will never maginify satan over His own. He has not given you the spirit of fear but of boldness, love and a sound mind. Anything that is taking away the soundness of your mind is not of God. just blesss God for who He is in your life. you will not lack your mate. your husband will come at the right time. don't depair. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteGo and do it*
ReplyDeleteSome demons do resist annointing, fasting and praying sometimes*
But instructions can help u out*
But Note*Not all battles are winnable*
my dear don't bath in any river, "who is he that speaks and it comes to pass when the Lord has not commanded it". Your God is stronger than any forces because greater is He that is in you. i was told the same thing by some men and women of God, i ignored them and focused on God. i am married today with kids. talk to God. The Holy Spirit cannot share His temple with demons. you are His temple , declare that to yourself every. don't be suicidal the Lord will never maginify satan over His own. He has not given you the spirit of fear but of boldness, love and a sound mind. Anything that is taking away the soundness of your mind is not of God. just blesss God for who He is in your life. you will not lack your mate. your husband will come at the right time. don't depair. God bless you. Nb, pls don't go from church to church. be rooted somewhere, any where they worship God in spirit and in truth.
ReplyDeleteWhat faith are you losing? You were never a genuine born again Christian. I don't understand why you are going from church to church...You are 26 and graduated with 2:1 my dear that's favor. Not all relationship work if not everyone will be married today. Yes spirit husband is real, thank God today I'm delivered. Go to a Bible believing church for deliverance and you have to believed God to deliver you. God will set you free and you will befree indeed. Stop listening to false doctrine and fake prophets. God loves us all, go on your knees, pray to your father in heaven and every contrary spirit and sprit husband will flee in Jesus Name, Amen
ReplyDeleteIt is well
ReplyDeleteDear Poster,
ReplyDeleteI'm happy you said you know Jesus and you're a child of God. It means you would have come across the portion of your Bible that says all power (in heaven and earth)has been given to you that at the mention of his name every knee must bow and tongues must confess he's lord
I'm sure you also read that the Bible says touch not my anointed and do my prophet no harm...I can go on and on
My point being you're a child of God, you have the power given to you freely by Jesus please use this power
Continue to live a Godly life, read and study the word and above all pray like your life depends on it.
It's possible you need deliverance, seek a Bible believing church to lead you right.much emphasis on bible believing meaning the Bible is their standard and not some semi ritualists who are looking for people to recruit indirectly in their fellowship
Keep praying and holding God to his words and also refuse every negative prophesies. Some of these prophets deliberately give evil prophesies to scare people so they can come running to them for help. Ask God to give you the spirit of discernment.and he should also reveal every hidden dark thing in your life.
Once it is revealed you can address it in prayers
But why are nigerians this gullible?. Spiritual husband ko, spiritual liability ni.You better pray directly to God rather than to a pastor who will not only end up ghensing you but even become your god and your spiritual husband combined.Talking from experience.
ReplyDeleteVERY FUNNY
DeleteWhy must all life issues be seen as a spiritual problem. After I finished my degree, I went for several interviews but I could not get a job despite impressing in these interviews to the extent that the hiring manager would have given me a solid assurance that the job is mine.
ReplyDeleteI remember going for a 3 days interview in a multinational company. I was so outstanding that the manager said I will see you soon but I never got a call back. Afterwards, I interviewed again in another multinational and the response was "you are the chosen applicant but due to unforeseen circumstances we will have to put the Job on hold" . This was my regular experience at different interviews for 2 years. I fact, I got a job and I was informed that my offer letter will arrive the next day but the letter was not sent and that job ended there. This is just a top of the iceberg cause if I go into all I went through, you will definitely conclude that the devil was carrying my file around.
I cried but God never allowed me to give up. In some months, I will be starting a job paying 100,000 usd per annum and that's just the basic salary.
Dear poster, life happens even the bible says the test of our faith build endurance and patience. When you finally pass through everything, you will cone out like pure gold. I know how you feel but embrace God with your challenges
I love that paycheck! 😍 That's a paycheck!! I pray it works out for you.
DeleteAs for the poster, I think whet ever advice she desires has already been cooked in the comment section.
Sorry for the typos, presently at work so can't type with all my attention cause I don't want to be caught using my phone.
DeletePls i am also experiencing this same issue and it is really scary. @telema Cr7 present wife , pls can you tell me where and how i can get to the church. I am currently in Lagos.
ReplyDeleteDear spiritual husband, perhaps you're a blog visitor too, I need a car, a house and plenty of money to start up my business. Ok, that was on a lighter note. Dear poster,pray,and believe in your heart that you have received answers to your prayers. Meanwhile, ye tojubole. (Stop visiting different pastors)
ReplyDeleteCollect love me jeje bishop's n0....or better still, go to MFM and overtake a powerful deliverance sections.
ReplyDeleteRun as fast as you can to mountain of fire miracle ministry for DELIVERANCE NOW
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It's not only cele that gives that kind of vision. There are some "churches" that do so too.
ReplyDeletePoster, don't go to any river.
Go to a true Bible believing church and do deliverance.
Fan Emmanuel, i no deceive the girl ooo. This spiritual husband thing is real ooo and is destroying so many homes, businesses and marraiges.
ReplyDeleteThey will never let your husband prosper and they will continue to put enmity between you and him because they are jealous. Some are very wicked self, they can just kill your physical husband. I don see and hear plenty oooo.
Mine was defeated in the dream after better prayer every tuesday in the church. I never did deliverance, just going on Tuesday Prayer session that was how it appeared in my dream, very handsome
Poster hear the word of God say"whosoever the son set free is indeed free".i was in the same shoe just like u.Deliverence upon deliverence.MFM today CAC tomorrow, ORI-OKE the next day.Your answer is ABIDE IN JESUS DAILY and confess your relationship with Jesus every time.
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ReplyDeleteDear Poster, I believe some of this spiritual husband exist but it is either you pray and fast your way out or you attend bible believing church for deliverance (e.g. MFM).
Do not go to place where you will be given any form of weird items or take you to a river etc. Please be careful, some of such places will only compound your problem.
You Christians always make everything about God, you no sabi book you say na God. Just look at the way you spelt "destining" and no, that is not a typo. If you like follow these men of God and you will be miserable for the rest of your life. Going to a river, really?? We all get what we work for, just work harder on anything you want and luck will shine on you. If na bf you want, just use a beautiful picture as your dp on Whatsapp, add people from SnM and watch the wonders of Stella's handwork. Forget all these people dear. Sorry if i am being too harsh but these Christians bug me
ReplyDeleteHello sister, you can also try Holy Ghost Christian centre in Lagos for deliverance services Pastored by Amos Fenwa. Pray for true fire of God n pray powerful fire brand prayers.. Take heed of mrs romas advice. Shalom.
ReplyDeleteHello sister, you can also try Holy Ghost Christian centre in Lagos for deliverance services Pastored by Amos Fenwa. Pray for true fire of God n pray powerful fire brand prayers.. Take heed of mrs romas and empress cho advices. Shalom.
ReplyDeletePoster, what should bother you is that you are having sex before marriage. There is serious curse associated with that for the scripture says that 'the way of a backslider is hard" (kindly google this scripture and read it).
ReplyDeletewhy is every girl (especially fair ones) that go to these "mega churches" put on "deliverance for 21 days"? Did Christ or his disciples do that. One of the teenage girls on my street after being put through such "deliverance' was also "put in the family way". The worst is that she does not know the father of her child because multiple "deliverance ministers" had her. Thank God she got saved during her pregnancy and delivered a healthy baby boy.
Mehn this sh*t is real and its everywhere. Happens mst especially to fair girls. If you live in the North you'll probably know what ISKA is. I've witnessed cases where the spirits goes in and out of girls, when its in you and wants to disgrace you in public, it will come like a thunder from redemption camp...........God! You'll see a normal girl screaming, acting and doing things like a ghost would. So many cases. @Poster, do what you have to do to set yourself free. Life is too short for someone's destiny to be tied down by one oloriburuku spirit.
ReplyDelete@Robyn Fenty I totally agree with you but on the other hand, man is spiritual first before being a body ..she should pray fervently and agree with a very sound pastor ..It will end in praise dear....
ReplyDeleteHummmmmmmm. I was once told this same thing and i went for several water baths and deliverance ( burning of my used cloth and jewelry) for spiritual husband separation.
ReplyDeleteThis keep on resurfacing until i did personal deliverance.
Pls, go to MFM
I think ur problem is u want to settle down n no man is coming forth. Take easy dont rush into these thing called marriage concentrate on ur job if u have any and everyother thing will fall in place. Take ur mind of marriage n pray hard u will find ur own man.
ReplyDeleteHi dear poster, I went through same challenge dear. I've having sex with different kind of men in my dreams since age 13 (mind blowing sex sotey i used to look forward to sleeping) i'd even had kids in the dreams until 3 years ago when my mother revealed to me that it wasn't normal (she's a prayer warrior in her church) and spiritual cleansing began. Its a long way down dear, but i believe God will see you through cos spirit husband/wife is as real as it gets. I'VE GONE DIFFERENT TYPES OF PRAYERS which all helped but I wont advice to go to any river if your heart isn't in it cos it wont work trust me. Do what you must to be set free from those SPIRIT FUCKERS.
ReplyDeletePS: SOME SAID THERE IS NO IN UK AND OTHER FOREIGN COUNTRIES.. HUH?
always make decrees for the bible say that when we make decree on earth that it shall be established in heaven " with the blood of Jesus Christ i bring a parmanent seperation between myself and any spirit being. i declare my freedom by the power in the name of Jesus Christ" it works, dear
ReplyDeleteHi dear poster, I went through same challenge dear. I've having sex with different kind of men in my dreams since age 13 (mind blowing sex sotey i used to look forward to sleeping) i'd even had kids in the dreams until 3 years ago when my mother revealed to me that it wasn't normal (she's a prayer warrior in her church) and spiritual cleansing began. Its a long way down dear, but i believe God will see you through cos spirit husband/wife is as real as it gets. I'VE GONE DIFFERENT TYPES OF PRAYERS which all helped but I wont advice to go to any river if your heart isn't in it cos it wont work trust me. Do what you must to be set free from those SPIRIT FUCKERS.
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Na mugu you wan fall so o. Go and pray for yourself. People don get up to 9 guys when waka, dem nor think of spiritual husband. You dey find Babalawo pastor dey waka up and down. When dem go change am for you ehn. On the otherhand, I understand; you feel down at the moment and you are slightly depressed and you need a mature mind to talk to. Who you go find ooo? Go meet Catholic Reverend Father when look responsible and fatherly OR Jehovah's Witness elder. But nor convert o. No need.
ReplyDeleteWhy people dey find 'spiritual' problem for themselves. Dem must find 'spiritual' palaver for any issue for their life, even stone when dem kick. 26 year old girl when nor even experience for that matter. Wetin you say make people when dem G talk na? Number one, such women don first old with no husband. Number two, one young man come G their small thing. No man, no money. 'Spiritual'. Compounding problems for ourselves.
ReplyDeleteYou when don lose pregnancy twice, na BETTER DOCTOR and TESTS you need. You hear me?????? Spiritual backwardness, y'all ! After una go say una go school, not only that, get 2 1' . You poster, you suppose write 'destining'? You even write like who suppose get 2 2'? All these over rating of oneself join cause this problem. 2 miscarriages, man run leave person,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,na to go find the cause for inside problem.
ReplyDeleteLady with miscarriage have you checked your Rhesus factor?
DeleteDear poster, this may not be the same thing but some part of my experience sounds similar. In my academics, both lecturer and colleagues respected my brilliance and I have sometimes been regarded as a genius, yet I struggled greatly to graduate with a second class upper. In the place I last worked, my senior colleages have often said to me that my intellect abilities go way beyond the role I had (I was the youngest manager in the organization). However, when I tried getting those highly rated jobs, I just never made it through. Imagine how much self-doubt this creates. Knowing you had ability but still can't make the scale.
ReplyDeleteI struggled often and I found I needed to do more than many people to achieve similar results. At a time, I also had one of those prophesies about spiritual enemies and stuff. While I am aware that those things existed, it just didn't make sense, I had been born again for years. Still, self-doubt persisted and the more I doubted myself, the poorer my performance became and the more I believed I was indeed under some spiritual oppression. Self-doubt is a terrible thing - even when you are right you feel a sense of being wrong. It affects a lot of things, you even start to hands over the control of your life to others and make poorer and poorer decision because you don't trust yourself.
Anyway, I left employment after 10 years, came to the UK for my Masters (long overdue) only for me to submit to some screening and realize I had Dyslexia and have had it all my life. However, because I had learnt the habit of working extra hard, I had compensated for it over the years. So, I now know, I am brilliant but I was often just being measured with the wrong scale. I can perform just as well or even better than my pairs, but I just needed a bit more time. Not being given that extra time created anxiety and made me feel less than I should. Which resulted in a feeling of not being sufficient.
Today I more confident. If I will be taking an assessment, I only need to indicate that I have Dyslexia and this will be factored into timing me. Often I never even used more than a fraction of the extra time I was provided because the effort I had put into compensating over the years are now making a difference (though it also makes some people wonder if I am truly dyslexic). However, with a better understanding of my situation and living in an environment where it is not considered a curse I feel confident and I am doing great.
So, my dear, it just may be that you do not know enough about yourself and your environment is stifling you. Start trying to understand yourself a bit better and do the internal work to build your confidence while remembering that you have God and so you have an advantage.
*hugs
DeleteBe speaking queens english there don't go for deliverance. When you finish with your masters you better don't come back because if you do they will so frustrate you. I know people who schooled there came back home and no job for years. You have dyslexia, that one na for obodoyibo e go work, come to nigeria and tell them you're dyslexic. I dey laugh you
DeleteYou people will go for one year masters and behave like you've been there all your life
Go to mountain of fire
ReplyDeleteEnd time Karishika
ReplyDeletePoster your mind has been twisted since,you believe everyone that says he is a pastor and yet say demons are tormenting you is it not obvious that you yourself don't even read the bible,His thoughts towards you are good so that you might have an expected end,babe pls reprogram your mind by reading the bible daily and also read power of your mind by rev Chris oyakhilome.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you
My dear don't be worried, don't fear,be not discourage for d battle belongs to d Lord... if you're in Abuja am inviting u to supernatural wonder£ with pastor W.F kumuyi on 30th Sept. @ national stadium,Abuja 4pm
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