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CHRONICLES OF A HAPPY 'GWEGZ'

Dear Stella,
  Thanks a lot for your blog,  I stumbled  on your blog last year  though I never  commented ,the blog has helped a lot during  my trying times,it made me laugh hard and I forget my story.  I wish to  share my story to tell people  especially  ladies  never to let issues drown them but rather they should trust in God completely, He is a hearer of prayer.

I will be 33 yrs next month, single and no relationship in sight. I had a five years relationship  with a guy  who shared the same faith  with  me,  he was not gainfully  employed  during  those period,  I was so supportive  that I will  starve that not meet his demands. He cheated repeatedly  but because  of the African mentality and pressure I still longed  on to him hoping he would change,  he had wonderful family so I held onto them as solace.  

I have admirers who Constantly beg to date me but I couldn't  because of my faith.  It wasn't an easy decision, Mind you deep down I knew my boyfriend  attitude  were not right,  he dated only girls who are working  and come from a comfortable  home, he had a poor background. Last year after  my mum had a heart to heart talk with me,  i then mustered the courage  to ask him when are we getting  married, he said he was not ready yet, how much was I earning that I am talking  about marriage. None of us had a car, he was sharing  apartment  with his friend and I was talking marriage.

 I was shattered, I earned 80k monthly and I was begging  a man that I would pay for an apartment, it was shameful , I went round his family  members  to talk to him on my behalf  he was on a big No.  After the saga ended,  I then  heard a lot about different  ladies  he collected  money from even twice  he had introduction with two different  ladies and he jilted them.  Then I realized  how  stupid I was all because  I did not want to be called aunty Gwez ,I wanted to marry  someone  I knew was not right,  I read chronicles  here and I was like this could  have been me. 

Early this Year my ex met a girl  from a rich home and had his 3rd introduction.  God blessed me with a wonderful job that I now  earn above 200k monthly.  Am currently  enjoying  my aunty gwez status  and constantly  thanking Jehovah  that I did not make a life time mistake. Am now  wiser a man that will  never  cheat on God and his moral principles will never cheat on a lady,  it's better late than going  through years of agony

*I dont understand why Ladies are frustrated when they dont see husbands,for Chrissakes,make your self content and happy..if it happens,it happens,if not,dont let wanting to get married be so important..na wah!

Dont get me wrong oh,Marriage is sweet but you need to make sure you do it right or you will come back with Chronicles but if it doesnt come,why make your life miserable?why listen to what unhappy people say?