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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE...
TEENAGER WITH BOYFRIEND CHRONICLES
Hello Stella. I stumbled on your blog a few weeks ago and I've been a consistent reader...really interesting stuff you have here..keep it up!
Please hide my identity. And please post it, I need advice ASAP
So this is an issue about my relationship. I am currently 18years to turn 19 in feb next year... I just got out of a relationship with a guy last night ( call him mr X)...it goes like this.
I met him in a bus with a friend 3 months ago...I'm a BIG joker and very fun to be with(no be lie), so he got attracted to me. I ddnt really notice because a lot of guys think I like them because of my type of person. I talk to people I just met like I've known them for ages..
I guess he just felt comfy..so fast forward to a few weeks after, I saw him on Facebook under people you may know, I added him up as per I've met him before. We got chatting and he told me that he's been asking for my number from my friend( a mutual friend of ours,a guy. And no, the friend doesn't like me, he just felt it was wrong to give out my number like that) but that the friend said no...
I gave it to him as I felt there's no harm in it...we got chatting and he told me he liked me and didn't know how to contact me since we met...I had just previously left a relationship when I met him and I was still stuck on my ex(call him mr Y) and he really likes talking to me, like we were always on a call almost every minute of the day, sometimes, we both sleep off on the call...when he told him he liked me, I told him I didnt like him and I just saw him as a friend as he's 11 years older than I am...so he told me that he'll make me love him..
I thought he was just jinxing himself and his trick won't work on me..but after about 1month of constant convo, I visited him, spent the night at his, he tried to kiss me but I didnt allow him, we sha slept like that..nothing happened...
Another time, he slept over at my house, something happened..we didnt have sex sha(I'm a virgin but not a VIRGIN) we just smooched and all, he said I was making too much noises and we weren't alone in the house so he stopped..I travelled the day after that and we continued our conversation.
Mind you, we weren't dating all this time.
Earlier on, he asked me about my past relationship, I told him it wasn't necessary because it happened in the past...I had an issue with him, he has too many exes and he's always taking about them..I told him to stop as I didnt like it..plus, he has had sex with everyone of them...at this point, I still didn't like him.
Even after the smooching, I wasn't even feeling it, I just let him carry on...after I travelled, we kept talking, I've been away for a month.
Shortly after I travelled, I agreed to date him but It was because he stopped talking to me in detail saying I don't have a right to know anything about him because I'm not his girlfriend.
I understood but I really wanted to know him so I agreed to date him...we had been dating for a month now, I still haven't seen him again because I haven't returned...I didn't tell anyone about the relationship, even my friends.
Firstly because, I ddnt like him much, plus, I wasn't sure of his reputation, and I ddnt like his look/dressing. He wasn't up to my standard but he is an ambitious and serious person and I liked that about him. My ex was very unserious about his life...I need to add that I am someone almost everyone in school knows, because I talk to people a lot.
Literally everyone that crosses my path...I couldn't afford to date someone that will spoil my reputation....
*Why dont you 'Undate' him and face your studies first? Its better.....He is already touching you,what will do you when he asks for the main thing?Why are you already experimenting when you are not ready?Why not keep this thing and do it right?
You are just 18..so young..young enough to date if you want but too young.PLEASE JUST FORGET ABOUT MEN IF YOU CAN.....na wah
I am just confused and dont know what to say.
men!men!!men!!!
ReplyDelete18?!
DeleteSmh*
*yawns*
DeleteThis smallie, grow some brains and help yourself before you become an oldie and regret. So what am I saying? Focus on becoming something in life and the right guy will find you. Above all put God first. Who premarital sex epp? Na you sabi. I know your type, na ITK dey worry you, but time passes so fast. Enough said.
DeleteHez always touching you... Lol.. My dear stop ur already nd face your books.... Men will come later ok cos now is the time you have to build a career as a woman
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Lol this chronicles. Must u date, if you have to pick from the bottom of the barrel
DeleteYou don't like him yet you were moaning. You don't like him yet you are angry he's talking about his exes. Better read your books, you seem stupid but you are just 18 so it's expected.
DeleteEvery oke na ochicha is writing chronicles lol
DeleteNne please face ur studies, miss popularity. Seem how myopic u sound with u dont like his look/dressing wow i cant believe i just read this.
Im not against young girls hving bfs as i had my own at 17 bt ur tking this too far, too many smoochings n lotsof if going on already dont go n get ur sef preggy as thats gona jinx ur rep big time.nofsaid
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DeleteStop bashing her!!..WHAT IS KYLIE JENNER DOING?????..Nonsense people
DeletePlease go to school and face your studies. That's all you need for now.
Delete19:04 you are comparing poster to Kylie, you are not serious. Kylie's life was carved out for her before she came of age. All that she is doing has been carefully crafted and orchestrated to get fame and money. So on what basis are you comparing her with poster? You must be kidding.
DeleteFunny girl
DeleteIn 5years time u'll remember this yeye confusion and slap urself
Won't advise otherwise
Do whatever ur mind tells u, u will learn the hard way!
Lmao @miss popular! Tuzaqueen*
So its all these small ratsss that are on our blog... And they will open their mouth gbaagada down to be abusing their elders on this blog.... Shebi yesterday own na how old????.
Deleteu De mind them? n how smooching no go dry since den De come SDK come read WNB? face ur studies please for ur own good.. these small small boys won't be there when u f**k up big time oo
DeleteHe will just sleep with you and that's it.All most men think about is sex.You better face your studies and stop dating guys upandan!
DeleteHiannnnnnnn!
ReplyDeleteLwkmd...I was just laughing throughout... U crash at his place,u talk on the fone all day,u guys make out and u still ain't feeling him?...u better take a walk,u are too young to be 'managing' a man. By the way,isn't that man too old?@stella,dnt bother with d leave man and face ur study talk,it doesn't work on kids of nowadays..
DeleteLmao! Smoochers association of Naija. Okay oh!
DeleteI can't even read this!
ReplyDeleteWhat is this minor looking for in a relationship?
Just like advising my niece on relationship matters.
Focus on getting a good future dear
My dear oooo
DeleteAs in ehen! I read through it with my face squeezed. Poster pls u need to read ur books first as ur write up is very confusing.
DeleteQuicksilver, pls be nice and advise her like an elder sister. *Korode winks*
ReplyDeleteYou sound too childish for your age. You are 18 not 14? Why are you prattling about? Your story is in no particular direction. What do you mean "jinxing himself", trying to use complex words. Hahahhahhaaa. Then you ended up saying you need our advice that you're a superstar in school and wouldn't wanna spoil your Rep by dating this guy. How long did you say you 'dated '? 1 week or month? Im looking for where to start. Mr x and y. Serious in life?
DeleteYou met a 29yr old guy in a bus, chirped around like how you write "I mean! You see! As in! It's like! I was like! "Bla bla. He took your number. You added him on Facebook. Did mid night calls with him. Visited him, he smooched you because you're a virgin not a VIRGIN... I don't blame others for shunning your story. This is an adult forum, try to sound mature. If you keep sounding like this, men will use you
1) who told you you're interesting? Everyone likes your style. Keep assuming...
2)miss, you keep saying you ain't feeling him but I think he is meeting his objectives. To him, you're just one smallie he is preparing for sex. Your relationship isn't even exclusive, he has so many different women and you're just a lil girl he's experimenting with. From "I'm not really into him", you are sailing in his sea of deceit.
Your reasons are childish.
You think you're on control costs you talk more but by the time you're used, you will know who is in control. Please, act your age ; you're not 15. Talk less and observe more. If not, stick to boys of your age who you can both move at same pace. None of these things mean anything, you're nothing special really. Stop feeling brilliant and Jovial and bright. Face your future.
@bona may God bless you for this comment, pls ooo I need someone like you in my life,
DeleteBona, don't be harsh jor. Lol. Nice advise tho.
DeletePoster, u r 18 and can do anything u want jare. So date, fly, meet, fuck or even disturb guys!!!
Ur life, ur pussy
Is our folder empty??
ReplyDeleteLemme construct a chronicle
Girl! Are you employed cause your comments are virtually on every blog post? Unfortunately, you always come across as unintelligent
DeleteLol anon 15.10, that mean..
DeleteAnon Ask Mother Con. My blog best friend.
DeleteAnother Juvenile chronicle. You agreed to date him but you don't like him, his reputation, his dressing, his looks and what not. Yesterday was Mr O today is Miss Sha. Stella if I see another umu azi chronicle I will forge one and send to you.
DeleteHahahahahahahahahahahaha
DeleteNirvana,my sides ache.
Just Negodu... **urc
ReplyDeletePoster i slept off reading your chronicle. In short,ura buurum!
DeleteGo back to school or you end up speaking my kind of grammar. Akam adirokwa ya. Umu azi ana epotoghari
Damn....I also slept off while reading her chronicles. All these shidren nowadays sef
DeleteVery CHILDISH something. What should we do with this now?
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Expired adult! With all your acclaimed maturity, you can't advice like you'd do your sister? Pathetic!
Delete17:47 are you poster? I laugh in Afrikaans. If you are go back up there and read what you typed. You don't sound like the kind that will listen to any advice. Were you experimenting by sending your chronicle? What sought of advise do you want? Though young you are not a baby. All those who told you to stop your foolishness and face your books are right. What else do you want to hear? Biko just negodu.
DeleteToo young jor face ur studies. Ur toto never strong sef.
ReplyDeleteHow is 18 too young to date bikonu? Omotola got married at 18 and is very successful
DeleteOmotola found a good man at a young age, plus she seemed to have a wise head on her shoulders. Can't say the same for poster. Even though physically she may be ripe for marriage is poster emotionally, mentally and financially ready at her age? And why the rush to gbensh? Would you advise your sister to continue as poster is doing Naya? Many young girls have wrecked their whole lives as well as their children's due to such continuing foolishness. Biko poster it is better people tell you the plain truth, no matter how harsh if it will make you sit up.
DeleteWTF is the problem? Why are there too many infantile narratives all of a sudden?
ReplyDeleteNo more cheating horsebands? I miss it.
E don do jor!
One more Foetus-like narrative & I will throw away my phone.
Bye!
Foetus like narrative #icant roftl
DeleteDon't throw away that phone oh....
DeleteMost of you BVs don't seem to remember ur teen yrs, how crazy u felt for that neighbour or classmate...
Calm ur clits jo & help her learn from the obvious mistakes u made, instead of spitting hydrogen peroxide.
Kwakwakwakwa cray gurl
DeleteLmao @ feotus-like narrative.
DeleteNa wah! Ihe umuazi
Hahaha...girl!!
DeleteChai. Your mouth ehn 😁
DeleteLmao, I didn't even bother reading to end,you better set your priorities straight. Olori gbigbe omo.
DeleteLove you, atheist! They forget they were once there. Suddenly, everyone is a saint. She's human too, you know, old enough to love.
DeleteTrue @ Atheist
DeleteSistergurl, its never gonna be worth it...Never
Focus on you for now,be a better person, you'd meet someone awesome,you wouldn't have to manage anyone....Remember, you FIRST!!!
My head has been spinning while reading.Anyway sweetheart, 18 might not be too young to date but for me it's quite young honey.The world is too evil for your young heart to understand, u just left one relationship bfor this one just give urself a lot of time to discover what relationships are about.While at it, get busy,read, be useful to urself for urself.Goodluck.
ReplyDeleteThis sounds like me when I was your age. The man is just using your girl. Be smart! Flee from him! If not he will take that precious thing you have. Face your studies omo.
Deletesmall girl if i slap you, you will go and read your book. Unam ikot.
ReplyDeleteAll these small shidren on this blog. Stella so you want us agbalagba to be advising small pikin that supposed to be in teenagers sunday school to learn about keeping self from boyfriend. in short no word from me
Stella, please what kind of juvenile brouhaha is this? Please do not post if you get this type of chronicle again. O gini di?
Delete18 yrs and u allowed a guy to sleep in ur house, and he even smooched u, spoilt brat, common get out of here.
ReplyDeleteStella you said it all face your study
ReplyDeleteU stole my name,onye ohi
DeleteHey kiddo, where are your parents? This one na 'man' full your head, don't they advice u at home? Haaa
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm. Uwa emebigo!
ReplyDeleteYou slept at his place?
Don't you have parents???
Even at my age, I can't stay out late, talk less of sleeping out!
Get a life oooo
Taaa...ideato i can swear that at the age of 12 your t*** don already wide like river Nile. No be you wey dey follow your sugar daddy dey go cinema? One of the reasons for your FRUITLESS S&Ms..Pretendaaaaaaa... Ashawo
DeleteLmao😅😅😅😅 @Fan please dont come and be finishing someborri anyhow!
DeleteKwakwakwakwa
DeleteOmo see fight
Madame Ideato, Listen at the age of 18 I was already Grinding... Yeah!!! I was always a Virgin to any big shot I had sex with. They saw me like a baby and I had to prove to them my innocence. By readily making blood available after our sex session. So I was everyone's little girl and they cared for me. There was tears to prove my sadness /anger. And there was blood to prove my innocence. So these men loved me genuinely. At the age of 20. I got married because I saw life very fast. I advised myself to settle down and have kids. My husband said he wanted two kids. And God was faithful I have two boys 8&5yrs. Witha Masters degree. I am 29yrs old. So it doesn't matter how old a girl is or when is right to have sex. It's a personal decisions and her ability to handle whatever situation she finds herself. Most importantly her ability to turn her lemons into a big jar of lemonade. And still keep her cool. And till date I still have admirers, but let just look at them and laugh because they don't have a clue as to who claim they want... Looking back now... I wonder how I got away with being silly.
DeletePoster Relax... The guy is broke and has nothing to offer. Go hunting and stop kissing very toad for free.
Hahahahhahahahahhahhahahahaha
DeleteFan! Fan!!!
Didn't I announce SDK provided me a le boo??
Get a life
One what worked for you isn't a guarantee it will work for her. She can end up being a Whore.
DeleteAdvice rightly
Ideato so you regret that you are a whore? Why still whoring around then?
DeleteY'all be jealous of my successful life! May God sweeten yours
DeleteBoring.........
ReplyDeleteImagine the effrontery of this juveniles of this generation.
ReplyDeleteLmao, na wa for this generation. If you caution dem sef na abuse dem go abuse you, so if dey no wan learn by instruction and advise, dey wee surely learn by experience. Unam ikot! Mtcheeew
Deleteposter you are still a baby, just face your studies and stop spending a night in a man's house is not decent. if you finish nysc in a man's house you will not get a job or allowee, you better wise up. you said you are a virgin? you are not a virgin at all, stop telling yourself you are a virgin, make virgin catch fire joor.
ReplyDeletethe guy will soon fuck you hard and run away, that guy is even a small boy foe giving you gist of all his babes that he ever slept with, you be mumu to they sleep for man house, pack well joor. who virgin and sleeping over ever epp?
Is like we r in d teens chronicles week. If u must date do it ryt. U don't like him, yet u smooched, u slept in his place, u r dating him n u still av a reputation.. all in 3 months. Ode go n read ur books,
ReplyDeleteSee ur mouth like ur house, d one ur parents paid d rent Abi
Don't be in a hurry to grow up.
ReplyDeleteNekwanu umu azi bikonu!...
ReplyDeletePoster,so this is your problem?...
I hate girls that talk too much in public!...they irritate me...
Lemme advise you...
If you want to have a boyfriend,go for the bigger fish!...
Stop mingling yourself with all these chewing gum mr x and mr y that jump bus and Keke...
Date someone that can take proper good care of you or marry you sef if anything like pregnancy happens...
Be wise!...
Poster follow this advice
DeleteHahahahahahaahhahashhaahahahahahhsshahhaahahahhahahahahaha...
DeleteOn Point!!
DeleteThat's all...
DeletePoster, read this advise over and over again.
Let us face it, most of us have been in relationships at this age. So while we are trying to advice the poster, let us not be insensitive about it.
ReplyDeleteDear Poster, you are not too your to be in relationship but at your age, your priorities in relationship might not be clearly defined. So, as Stella has suggested, 'undate' this man and face your studies. A time will come when you will know what you want in a man and there will be enough options.
Except you just want to date for the sake of it and except the man you are with is ready to marry you, trust me, you can do without the man drama at this age. Goodluck!
PRETTY DAMSEL....AT THIS AGE YOU DONT NEED HIM, TRUST ME U DON'T! JUST LET GO AND FOCUS ON UR STUDIES ALREADY. WHEN THE RIGHT PERSON COMES U WON'T NEED TO WRITE CHRONICLES EVERYTHING WILL JUST CLICK JUST AT THE RIGHT TIME......CHILL AND LEARN FROM OTHER PEOPLE'S EXPERIENCE COS U ARE STILL VERY YOUNG HONEY
ReplyDelete#When you say yes to others, make sure you are not saying no to yourself*
ReplyDeleteI have to remember this.
DeleteI have to remember this.
DeleteChoi, nawa ooo, 18 yrs and u already have an ex, u already have liver to pass night in a man's house and even bring him over to sleep in your house, oh wonderment, the world is really coming to an end, though u r ripe for marriage, some people get married at 18, goodluck
ReplyDeleteI couldn't even read till the end. Why is an 18 yrs old child sending in this? Don't you have books to read?! A life to live?! Your story is smelling in its entirety, tuck it in biko
ReplyDeleteCommon go into the house and wear your pant(in senior brother's voice) if I catch you again saying such thing again, ve u done your homework? small pikin like you, as you small so u don dey like pweeq.
ReplyDeleteHabahabhahabaaba
DeleteCold catch me o. 18yrs? Boyfriend? My dear please quit your relationship with your boyfriend and get serious with your studies .
ReplyDeleteYou aren't too young to date but please face your studies or whatever you are doing right now.You don't like him but you agreed to date him,he slept in your house?Please stop trusting people so quickly.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm!!!
ReplyDeleteI am speechless!!! I really don't know what to say right now. If I say face your studies now, I'll be deceiving myself. I faced my studies squarely,was faithful when I got matured to start dating, lost my V, closed my legs in other subsequent relationships and I'm still stuck in the #singleclub at 27yrs!!!
My advise, listen to your instincts, and in all don't loose focus.. Make money, and make sure you not broke!!
Enjoy your youth!!! YOLO!!!
Its my birthday today. I bless God for d gift of life.
ReplyDeleteHmmm... this story dey one kin, i dont like him yet we kissing and touching
ReplyDeleteWe aint dating still but crash in his house and vice versa
Girl What do you want?
Guess Buhari and Recession already twisting your mind up..
Cant Say you too young cos you already 18.
Search your heart on what you want!
When a girl is already focused on men at the age of 18, you can predict her life will be full of relationship chronicles. They are smooching you all over the place yet you are not crying about how your life will go down the drain if the time bug does not bite you soon enough. Banana is rotting but you think it's getting ripe.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm!!!
ReplyDeleteI am speechless!!! I really don't know what to say right now. If I say face your studies now, I'll be deceiving myself. I faced my studies squarely,was faithful when I got matured to start dating, lost my V, closed my legs in other subsequent relationships and I'm still stuck in the #singleclub at 27yrs!!!
My advise, listen to your instincts, and in all don't loose focus.. Make money, and make sure you not broke!!
Enjoy your youth!!! YOLO!!!
***Anonymous Chielo***
Young gilt pls face your studies oooooooo. Forget men for now.
ReplyDeleteWho are these men/boys dating 18yr old girls? You people should fear God o
ReplyDelete18 yrs don ripe... So make u just quiet there.. I even get 17yrs babe wen dey sweet pass my 31 yes old babe.
DeleteHmmm, let us all give our advice, I guess she doesn't have someone she can talk to and now she is sharing her problem we are here condemning her, no wonder there is no mother-daughter relationship or even sisters-siblings relationship because when we are suppose to advice and encourage them, we condemn and disgrace them like we never made any mistake. Poster, well I think you should simply breakup with the said guy and focus more on study, making money and building for yourself a reputable image and make your family proud,my cent... Zion
ReplyDeleteBTW I need to have a user name ke, somebody help!!!
Anon, I doubt they are scolding her cos they didn't experience it!
DeleteShe is being scolded because the older ones know she will get her heart* broken!!! This is the TRUTH, else she is just soo lucky that she marries him. Even @ that, he will still hurt her!
That's why I said she should follow her instincts and learn from her mistakes! We all learnt from ours!
Oga
ReplyDeleteSo dis nwatanta is asking for relationship advice? Hmmmmmmmm uwammebi!
ReplyDeleteMy friend face ur book! How will u concentrate in school if u r always talking to everybody? Miss jovial! U beta leave boys n read ur books!
C'mon face your study and make sure you come with out with a good grade. Chronicle umuaka since Monday.
ReplyDelete"He has many exes and has had sex with all of them . . ." AND YOU ARE THE NEXT EX THAT HE HAS HAD SEX WITH AND WHO WILL BE DUMPED PREGNANT and sulking and suicidal perhaps! You don't like him and you are "sleeping in his house" already and he in your house? What kind of potatoes make up some girl's brain fibers?
ReplyDeleteI dont know why young gels like sex
ReplyDeleteNawa why are all of u insulting her as if when u were 18 u did not do worse??? too many damn hypocrites in the house... 18yrs, she is in University..and getting to know herself even better..Im sure most of u started in JS1 sef. coming here to judge someone..biko biko GTFOH!! if u dnt have advice for the lil girl then keep moving. its not by force to comment
ReplyDeleteGod bless u anon 15:34.. Some ladies started dating their men at that age and they ended up in marriage...so what is now the biggy dere.. If u don't have any advice for her just STFU!! ..mtcheew
DeleteI just tire.
DeleteHaba!!! She's young but plssss. Amara Kanu married Kanu at 18
But seriously, I don't know what is wrong with this small girls of nowadays. Ur story self get has it be. U don't like a guy and u went to his house. U even slept over, you guys were smooching and you made loud noise which makes d guy to stop. Oh girl u sound too lose and cheap to me. If I were to be a guy, na to just fuck you and jump pass. Try to be standard dear. Face your studies and stop being swift in a relationship like "Taylor Swift " love u anyway for being a Bv family member. But pls focus on ur studies.
ReplyDeleteNa wah! only God knows what this world is turning to.......you better watch it before you mess your tomorrow up for no reason, at barely 19, you already filling your life up with so much drama, you like him, you don't really like him but decided to date him 'cos he isnt talking to you! gosh... babygal, go get a life biko, concentrate on your studies, learn a trade and grow up abeg!
ReplyDeleteVery funny u don't like d way he dress u don't really like him yet u alllw him touch u at ur age in jenifa's voice u are a badd child face ur books nd friends nd forget all dis boyfriend matter until u see someone who is worth it don't give urself headache over unnecessary issues
ReplyDeleteYou are jovial, you like talking to everybody, friendly and all, this is because you are still a child, with the way you are going i give you only three years, you will become quiet, introvert, unfriendly, not talking to everybody because you have too much baggage and stories that touch. face your studies and build your self-worth. You will be wiser.
ReplyDeleteI don't comment on blogs as a rule, but had to bend the rule, because this is a young person that needs direction.
ReplyDeleteSweetheart, I understand you, and believe me, most of the people saying face your books, did worse. However, they are right, and they wish they faced theirs when they were ur age.
You are in the campus, that is why it is easy to sleep in a guys room and let a guy sleep in yours, but believe me, it is a character you might regret later in life.
One thing is sure, u will be tempted to enter into relationships at this stage and to have sex, and u definitely feel u are old enough for that. You are. But most decisions taken at this time are often regretted later.
So my advice is chill. Remain the funfilled person, make loads of good friends, both males and females, but be very slow to go into relationships, and indulgements. Try to hold them off as long as u can.
Face your education squarely. Let that be what your world is revolving around for now. Let men be quartenary not even tertiary. Decide on some rules that you follow e.g u don't sleep alone in a room with an opposite sex if u can help it, u don't get too friendly with a married man, u don't sort lecturers for marks etc. And don't hesitate to let whoever cares to know, so that u will be known with that reputation, and would not want to spoil it.
Babes I have a lot to say, wish u were my sister, and here with me.
Lastly, don't forget to forgive yourself when u fail. If u fall, stand up brush urself up, learn from ur mistake, and move on with no regrets and with ur head held high.
Don't forget God.
I wish u the most regretfree youth.
I love you. Really, I do.
DeleteI love you. Really, I do.
DeleteWow.. Golden.. .if only one could like comments on a blog.. Stella u need to work on this.. Best comment eva
DeleteNice one Golden
DeleteYou said most of it.fear God and have self respect.I think being popular for talking to anybody isn't the best.focus on your books also.love u.I pray God guides u in all you do
DeleteMy fellow bvs, Please what kind of lucrative business can i start with 100 thousand naira cos there is no job forthcoming, pls i need your advices
ReplyDeleteGo and join those women in the market that sells onion,pepper and tomatoes...
DeleteThat's the only business you can do with 100k...
And how old did you say you are again. Abeg face your book. And I do not understand the am a Virgin but not a Virgin. Its either you are one or not.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm. Pls face your studies for now you hear. A word is enough for the wise.
ReplyDeleteThere's no way im reading all these. I stopped at i'm eighteen. . . Bia Stella e be like say chronicle folder dey empty abi?
ReplyDeleteOk i actually went back again to read and quench my curiousity. . . mtsewwww
ReplyDeleteI see you all shouting Minor and all, some of you got married at 18. Even some of our mothers got married that early. Please no hate messages to this young girl. Give your advise or stay mum. Young lady here is my advise for you; You're not too young for whatever you're doing right now but please I want you to consider the consequences of your action to your studies, family and reputation. Life itself is a risk but please make sure the risk is worth taking.
ReplyDeleteThis is one confused little girl. You agreed to date him because he doesn't tell you everything, even though you don't like him? And now, you think he tells you everything?
ReplyDeleteYou don't have any reputation girl. Concentrate on your education and make one. You're just 18. You still have your life ahead of you. You'll meet a lot of guys that you'll have to chose.
Stop running after men, please. And it's either you're a virgin or you're not. There's no sitting on the fence there.
Please, let this be the last chronicle you'll send. Face your books and get a degree, without stories that touch along the line.
As Salaam Alaikum.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Imagine? I couldn't even finish reading it, the story just tire me. All dese chekeres' of nowadays. World aff spoil o. Enye go n pick ur books wia U left dem n do something READ!
ReplyDeleteLolzz Baby Girl!! Why are you forcing yourself on him?? its obvious you don't want a relationship so why force it..Please and Please face your studies or channel your time on more productive things abeg...Your world is not revolved around men..you are still young at 18 and Please follow Stella's Advice like twitter , it will do you real good..Stay away from fornication and stop forcing youself to do things you don't want..You will become a prey of your own devices if you keep doing that ..
ReplyDeleteFace your studies and leave relationship for mature minds.
ReplyDeleteLmao! Very childish write up. Face your book ooo
ReplyDeleteU are just a loose girl,smh! Imagine u,u talk to men without knowing them? U are so cheap. U are only 19yrs,what do u know abt men? Face ur studies,there are so many other good things u can do with ur life apart from man.
ReplyDeleteIs this how u'll advise ur own child? Tweh
DeleteVery annoyin chronicle.u ve only just succeeded in tellin us u r a parrot.
ReplyDeleteDidn't even finish reading this jaga jaga! Poster,Stella has said it all!!
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awww,i would advice u like a lil sister,its so obvious u have no one guiding u so u are making a lot of mistakes.first of all,please face ur studies,u are so concerned about men and u are even goin below ur standard which is a no no never manage any one or any man,please u are to young to b sleeping out and allowing a man sleep in ur house,thats wrong and that ur virgin status is not going to stay long with the way u are going,where are ur parents are they to busy to monitor ur acitvities or they just dont care,thats y u ran her cause u are confused.u need a mentor,please contact any lady u look up to for guidance.i know many will bash u but many have made that mistake u are making at 18 but the difference is now u have sought for help,u will be fine.
ReplyDeleteHaaa thank God at least someone sensible is saying something sensible
DeleteHaaa thank God at least someone sensible is saying something sensible
DeleteWhat a disjointed chronicle
ReplyDeleteAll comments are on point. We need to discourage such as much as we can,to even think she has an ex. Parents have so much work on their hands.
ReplyDeleteWhat's with all these "I slept at his place, he slept at mine, we smooched, I don't feel anything for him, he's not up to my standard, I couldn't afford to date someone that will spoil my reputation" what are you on and about, in what area do you really need us to come in? Stop sleeping together and smooching with someone you don't feel comfortable with. Maintain your high class status and reputation. Shior...
ReplyDeleteanonymous 16:16, na from here u go take know if she go marry or not, she said he is not up to her standard, and doesn't need someone to spoil her reputation, @18? I believe she is in one of those private universities. Who are we going to blame, society or her? U all saying omotola and most of ur parents got married early, I hope u kno life then and now ain't the same,
DeletePretty girl from ur post u just said u talk to everybody u come across. mbok u are a girl and it isn't too good for girls especially young girls to be jumping up and down in words.
If u kno u don't have anybody to confide in why not ask the one person closet to u(the holy spirit) to help u in all ur ways, there is nothing in this world my dear. Don't just read ur books but read ur bible as well, it will help u
You don't like him, sooooooo what are you doing with him??? Dashing him free smooch abi!
ReplyDeleteI don't get this chronicles at all. What is he on about biko?
ReplyDeleteI don't get this chronicles at all. What is she on about biko?
ReplyDeleteThis world done sawa finish. 18 years old and you're already pilling up exes like its Christmas? If i was your elder brother i would kill you with slaps.. better go and face your books... What nonsense, and when you mess up due to your immaturity now you would join the queue to start saying men are bad..
ReplyDeleteSince you have decided to carry man 'matter' put for head instead of studying to make 1st class, I will patiently wait for another chronicle of yours - on how he disvirgined, promised to marry you but has cut all communication linking both of you.
ReplyDeleteMy dear little one, focus on God, ask God to direct your steps and also erase MEN from your brain and replace it with BOOKS. #Amen
Stella e bi like say your folder don empty? This one na bed tym story now.
ReplyDelete@18 poster don already get ex, HIAN! all these kids of nowadays. Bia Nwa, go and read your books. Leave all these guys cos they are after ur tohtoh.
I didn't bother to read immediately i saw her age.
ReplyDeletePoster pls you don't need a relationship to define you,all these 1 ex recently and trying to be with a guy you don't really feel. As hard as it sounds,pls chill, date someone for all of the right reasons and pick up some standards like don't allow a guy sleep over at your house(what if he had raped you?) don't sleep over at a guy's house unless you've known him for some time and he's your boyfriend who is trustworthy, finally as annoying as it sounds ppls face your books,you'll thank us later for this particular advice
ReplyDeleteBaby girl do you really need a boy friend now, what do you tend to gain from him..cash, romance or what? Why not forget about boys now and face your studies, he will only count you among the girls he has slept with is that what you want?
ReplyDeleteSee all of u forming sister Rosemary...@18 all of u here was being fingered and having 3somes...forming sis Amaka behind ur keyboard...she's an adult for Christ sake..
ReplyDeletePoster ure allowed to catch feelings n be stupid at dis age but thread with caution..I will even advise u to stop talking to dat guy because he has nothing to offer u..
And again as a girl u should always learn to be reserved u should t mingle with everybody...just be urself..
Y'all should stop making reference to her age and advice her, like say most of una no start to date around 15years and by 18years had already given out una punani..
ReplyDeleteYoung lady i will tell you one truth, just forget about relationships and concentrate on becoming a better person in future and I tell you that you won't regret it
Age has nothing to do with maturity and intelligence but you my dear 18 year old, are very immature and unintelligent. You are just out of a relationship at what age did you start? Please face whatever you have to face but not men. They will so chop you the way you are going.
ReplyDeleteAge has nothing to do with maturity and intelligence but you my dear 18 year old, are very immature and unintelligent. You are just out of a relationship at what age did you start? Please face whatever you have to face but not men. They will so chop you the way you are going.
ReplyDeleteReputation? What reputation are u talking about biko? He's not up to Ur standard? As Genevieve Nnaji or Linda Ikeji wey u be naa? U slept at his place, he slept at Ur place, u smooched, you don't like him even after smooching u, you don't like his dressing sense and his looks yet u accepted to date him just because u want to know his movement and everything about him, as a monitoring spirit wey u be naaa?? How many relationships have u been into before meeting him at Ur age? U got to choose between Ur future, studies, unwanted pregnancy and STDs.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand.
ReplyDeleteAt Old age, I no dey get patience to read Chronicles by 18/19 years old, especially if it has to do with boyfriend and girlfriend matter.
ReplyDeleteSo childish
ReplyDeleteHi young girl...when you are reading the comments about your chronicle, kindly think about what michykaybest and golden advised!!! You will be fine...warm regards
ReplyDeleteLike seriously? what is an 18year old doing in a relationship? what has a ruler got to do with a Sheep?
ReplyDeleteLike seriously? what has a ruler got to do with a sheep at 18?
ReplyDeletePlease face your book. I might be a bad girl but relationship was the last thing on my mind at Eighteen.
As i was reading this chronicles, i was just laughing. What the hell!
ReplyDeleteYoung girl, please forget about men for now; you're just 18yrs, and you are already breaking up and starting up relationships with different men.
Please face your studies, and stop experimenting with men. Your future is bright, don't jeopardise it by your urge for men. STDs is real, beware!
Stay off men. My goodness, your age is one thing and even more you sound very immature. Stay off Sex and men!
ReplyDeleteSo many of you stopped being a virgin at the age of 14-16 so keep quiet please.
ReplyDeleteSee them forming like they are more better than the girl mstchewwwwwwww. At her age she is very ripe for marriage so what is there if she starts fucking? Na una toto? The only thing to advise her is that she should be more careful and pay more attention to her studies not crucifying her.
Mother Nature.
Hahahha while reading this chronicle I was laughing to myself why??kus I know what most Bv's will a write as comment I knew they were going to finish d girl and they didn't disappoint they totally didn't she asked for ur advice not for u to judge her at least she is saying this out most of u that are judging her am sure were already dating sugar daddy at her age..... Advice not judge.
ReplyDeleteWhat reputation is she talking about biko..Is being popular and having a reputation same thing??
ReplyDeleteCan thid guy that is 11yrs older than you tell me that he has your best interest at heart? who i go ask now sef
I have a feeling he just want to take advantage of ypur innocence.I might be wrong though.
My dear you are just starting life,you will meet all shades of guys.set your priorities right.
I hissed and stop reading half way.Ibukun is this u?
ReplyDeletePoster where are ur parents and why are u staying alone? This ur post dey vex me
ReplyDeleteAll of you are hypocrites...I had my 1st bf at age 16. We were both virgins but we made out a lot. Lots of head and it was fantastic. He made sure I read from 9pm to 12am everyday. Calling to ensure I wasn't sleeping. We broke up because of distance a few months to my 21st birthday. I graduated with a second class upper from the faculty of law from one of the prestigious federal universities in the west. I am 24yrs old and am now a lawyer, practising in the law firm of a senior Advocate. Am still a virgin and I intend keeping it till my wedding night.
ReplyDeleteThe moral of my story is that there is no age too young to start dating as long as it is not sexual and the two of you prioritise your academics
So your story 19:15 now makes you not to be a hypocrite. BVs used their mb to advise this unserious poster and you say they are hypocrites? Oya tell us what is bad in their advise. If it were my sister, out of love I will be more harsh with her, so she knows it is not a joking matter. Was the person you dated 11 years older than you? If poster sounded more sensible I am sure the responses would have been a bit different.
DeleteSo your story 19:15 now makes you not to be a hypocrite. BVs used their mb to advise this unserious poster and you say they are hypocrites? Oya tell us what is bad in their advise. If it were my sister, out of love I will be more harsh with her, so she knows it is not a joking matter. Was the person you dated 11 years older than you? If poster sounded more sensible I am sure the responses would have been a bit different.
DeleteMost people have told her to stay away from dating because she simply doesn't sound like she can handle one at this point.
DeleteA lot of 18 year olds are way more mentally mature than some people in their 30s but unfortunately this poster isn't one.
At 18 you can be in a relationship but you shouldn't date someone just because you 'want him to tell you his secrets' and you definitely shouldn't be getting intimate with him either.
Omotola is a perfect example. Married at 18 obviously with a good head on her shoulders. If not, her marriage wouldn't have lasted this long.
Poster, a lot of people here have told you to stay away, some harsher than others but one thing you should know is its all in your interests.
You honestly don't need the drama that comes with relationships yet. You don't even like this guy and you're sending a chronicle in. Hope you get my point.
All of you are hypocrites...I had my 1st bf at age 16. We were both virgins but we made out a lot. Lots of head and it was fantastic. He made sure I read from 9pm to 12am everyday. Calling to ensure I wasn't sleeping. We broke up because of distance a few months to my 21st birthday. I graduated with a second class upper from the faculty of law from one of the prestigious federal universities in the west. I am 24yrs old and am now a lawyer, practising in the law firm of a senior Advocate. Am still a virgin and I intend keeping it till my wedding night.
ReplyDeleteThe moral of my story is that there is no age too young to start dating as long as it is not sexual and the two of you prioritise your academics
All I can say is if you go on this "relationship/man palaver"route at this age, you'll get on a rollercoaster that will probably go into your 30s. I know it sounds cliche but you do need to dump him asap and figure out how to be your own person or start a business or sumn.
ReplyDeleteDearie Face Your Studies Like Stella Said,undate Him. You Have A Beautiful Life Ahead.
ReplyDeleteOmalichia nwanne biko concentrate please
ReplyDeleteWat is d meaning of am a virgin and not a virgin.abeg it is either. Yes or no.
ReplyDeleteCan we also let her know that the guy is a pervert?????? How is anyone not seeing that he is 11 years older than her meaning he is 29yrsbold to her 18yrs!! Wtf is he doing with a child. Please get out of that unhealthy situation fast.
ReplyDeleteHow is he a pervert? How old is Captain Ekehinde again? How old was Kanu when he married Amara? Abeg get lost
DeleteThank u jare, the guy is a porcine, a big pervert, aba 29/18 na wa oo, I don't blame this small girl duh, it's the baba agbalagba I blame, the boy should be ashamed of himself naw, all these boys looking for "onions like girls" to date hmmm, karma is a bitch, u will get married and have kids one day
DeleteHmmn...
ReplyDeletelike seriously pls my dear face ur studies and leave relationship for now
ReplyDeletePoster pls don't mind the BVs saying you are too young to be in a relationship because you are not.. But as for this guy run from him because he doesn't mean good for you. He just wants punani thats all.. A man that truly likes you will want to know more about you and want you to know him too.. He even sounds immature for his age. If you must date an older guy pls date the ones that are matured and not old man that think and talk like a child. don't forget to make you studies your first priority.
ReplyDeleteLol
ReplyDeleteI had my first boyfriend at 17. Dating at that age isn't totally wrong. It's a time to get to know yourself and the opposite sex. Just be careful so you don't learn the hard way.
ReplyDeleteIf you aren't comfortable with this guy,then cut ties with him.
You don't have to date every guy that gives you attention.
It's also not too early to start praying for God's guidance and direction in your life and relationships.
Ask him to grant you wisdom to always make the right decisions.
Most importantly, give priority to your books. At the right time, a good guy will come along your way.
Poster,you are 18 turning 19 and here you are talking about dating. My friend face your studies and forget about men. I don't like him but I allow him to smooch me,na play play monkey go enter bush. See you see unwanted pregnancy. Good luck to you with your smooching.
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ReplyDeleteMy dear beautiful young woman, you don't need this much men wahala at this point in your life. Life is too twisted with men and you are too young and naive to understand. You're trying so hard to sound mature in this write up that I can smell it from a mile away. You agreed to date a guy because he stopped giving you attention...number one sign of immaturity. I really dont get ur chronicle cos I don't know what exactly you want us to advice you on. All you need to do now is leave men wahala and do something meaningful with your life to make a name for yourself. These boys you are meeting on the bus are all chewing gum boys WITH RAGING HORMONES looking for the next hole to put their dick in (Excuse me for being a little bit vulgar). My dear get your act together cos I can see that you're the one forcing yourself on this guy sef. You guys were making out IN YOUR HOUSE and he had to be the one to tell you to keep it down. It shows that you lack proper moral upbringing. My dear the time for this men brouhaha has not reached for you so calm down and do something better with yourself. I had my first boyfriend when I was !7 but that didn't stop me from using my head and I had my first kiss at 18...YES IT'S TRUE. Even the bible teahes us that there is time for everything...Don't force it, DON'T GROW UP TOO FAST!!
MIZZ MAJESTY OUT! (sorry I didn't use my blog ID no time to login)
MIzz Majesty said...
ReplyDeleteMy dear beautiful young woman, you don't need this much men wahala at this point in your life. Life is too twisted with men and you are too young and naive to understand. You're trying so hard to sound mature in this write up that I can smell it from a mile away. You agreed to date a guy because he stopped giving you attention...number one sign of immaturity. I really dont get ur chronicle cos I don't know what exactly you want us to advice you on. All you need to do now is leave men wahala and do something meaningful with your life to make a name for yourself. These boys you are meeting on the bus are all chewing gum boys WITH RAGING HORMONES looking for the next hole to put their dick in (Excuse me for being a little bit vulgar). My dear get your act together cos I can see that you're the one forcing yourself on this guy sef. You guys were making out IN YOUR HOUSE and he had to be the one to tell you to keep it down. It shows that you lack proper moral upbringing. My dear the time for this men brouhaha has not reached for you so calm down and do something better with yourself. I had my first boyfriend when I was !7 but that didn't stop me from using my head and I had my first kiss at 18...YES IT'S TRUE. Even the bible teahes us that there is time for everything...Don't force it, DON'T GROW UP TOO FAST!!
MIZZ MAJESTY OUT! (sorry I didn't use my blog ID no time to login)
Immediately i saw 18 i just stopd reading.y is an 18yrs old writing a chronicle?
ReplyDeleteall this small small children and their stories..*sigh* please GO AND READ YOUR BOOKS!
ReplyDeleteYou are 18 and that's gonna be your second relationship???will you get inside,omo kekere onisekuse!
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