Thursday In House News..

How are you?Why do i love you all so much?Hehehehehehe

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WORD FOR TODAY

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WHAT IS WRONG WITH SOME MEN?

Hi Stella,  please what is wrong with some men???  Something happened to me today on my way home from work.  A guy sat next to me,  before I knew it,  this guy started touching his privates...  Not like I cared but it looked like he was masturbating or something.. 

 I didn't talk, I just kept managing...  He was with a backpack, it got to a point,  he decided to spread that backpack on his legs and kept sliding his hand underneath.  At this point I shifted very well and made sure not even his clothes will touch me.  I was actually angry. I decided to keep quiet all through cos I didn't want to cause a scene ...  

If I had spoken.. I'm sure the guy would hate his life by the time I'm done saying my mind . ...  I mean what is wrong with people?  I had to discuss with few friends immediately I got home..  

One of them said she was in a bus one time and a guy started watching porn beside her..  Ahn ahn!  I told her that has happened to me before!  What is wrong with people? Some Men need to get their acts together..  Its disgusting! 

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PLEA FOR A JOB

Please this is a serious plea for a job. I don’t want to start writing any pitiable long story/epistle but it has really not been easy without a job. Please I need a job as idleness and depression is slowly setting in.

I have a Bachelor of Science (B.Sc.) degree and a Masters in Public Health (Mph). Asides that, I’m an honest, hard working, articulate and responsible person and you won’t regret having me as a part of your team. I also have good experience in customer relations and sales. I have been applying and nothing has come out of all the applications yet. I know correct people read this our wonderful blog. 

Please I’m calling on Heads of NGOs, Human Resource Managers and Managers of Organizations/Companies, Heads of Organizations, well meaning individuals and concerned persons that can help with a job to please come to my aid. Do you have an ongoing environmental/public health project and need someone hard working and capable? Kindly contact me. I won’t mind something around Lagos/Ogun State axis. M

my email is Oluchicm@gmail.com. Thank you.

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THIS IS NOT AN ADVERT...LOL

I need someone who can bake a 10 inches cake with few sweets as toppings for me and would be able to deliver it on Sunday before 1:00pm in ilupeju axis.

Please my budget is 5000 naira and I cannot afford further payment for delivery. I can be reached on 08099606000.

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VACANCY

Dear Stella,

Kindly Re-post the below Vacancies.

IT Officer:

The person must be conversant with the use of interactive board,network troubleshooting,computer repair and social media savvy.

OND in computer science and proximity to Ogudu will be an added advantage.

Class Teacher:

A female BSC/NCE English teacher is urgently needed to teach in our Primary school (Oko-oba and Ogudu Branch).

The candidate must have over 3 years teaching experience,must be able to use interactive board and must be creative and love children.

The candidate must have an excellent knowledge of jolly phonics sounds and computer programs will be an added advantage. 

Proximity to Ogudu and Oko-oba will also be an advantage.

Kindly forward your resume for any of the above advertised post toschoolhr@mictecschools.com 

Thank you.

Mrs B.

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SICKLE CELL PATIENT WRITES IN FROM HOSPITAL AFTER BV'S 

DONATED MONIES

Good morning everyone. This is Bakare Abiodun, and i want to appreciate and thank you all for your prayers and support. I am so grateful to everyone that sent Me money to move out of the house and commence treatment. It wouldn't have been possible without you all. 

Some test were carried out on me but i dont know the results yet. I went through minor procedures for the pus to be drained from my feet. Doctor said i would require an x-ray to know the next step. 

I am grateful for everything and am asking for your prayers and support. God bless you all.

Bakare A.A

BAKARE BEING CONVEYED TO HOSPITAL BY AMBULANCE
SAID HE PAID 40K FROM THE MONEY HE GOT FOR AMBULANCE
SERVICES.

Said he got a total of N122k but is left now with 21k after paying for so many things.Please if you still want to reach out to him let me know and i will post his contact details again.
Thank you and God bless everyone who reached out to help Bakare get back on his feet.this is a miracle.God bless you all.
He is still in Hospital and will keep us informed of his progress.

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BLOG VISITOR BIRTHDAY GIVEAWAY

hi Stella. My birthday was a few weeks back and in the spirit of the

celebration, I will like to do FREE emcee(MC) for any couple getting

married in JOS city between now and September. contact: 08093935523 or

mcgift8@gmail.com

its mcgift, #queen of the microphone#

Cunny advert..hehehehehehehe

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MARRIAGES CHALLENGES SOLUTION

Dear Stella,

Thank you for this platform. I love you to bits. Please hide my Id. I have been following your blog and the life experiences shared and dealt with by BV commenters have been helping many people find solutions or ideas to solutions in real life. I don't really know o where this may fit in but I would like for these questions to be treated here.

Most often, on this blog the solution proffered to marital challenges that has gone overboard especially by  the married females who send in chronicles or share in the comment section(men hardly send in) are:

a. Leave him (divorce)

b. Cheat on him

c. Prayyyyy...War room bla bla bla.

Hardly is counselling recommended by the majority as we all know too that seeing a shrink or marriage counselors is not a common practice in Nigeria except for those who go to their pastors. What really works? is it a problem of this generation of women or men that marriages don't last anymore and riddled with cheating cheating cheating as our mothers lasted in marriages and we find them stay faithful even after death of their husbands as widows, train the children in their husband's home and (at least i know my mum has been celibate since my father's death having grown with her since my teenage years) stay committed to God. But this generation? For where? she or he may already be sampling a side boo even before the spouse died, so they just f**k on!(LMAO).

My question is this; for the married, (men please contribute as it is our women that speak oftentimes more on this blog)

1. Did or does cheating on a spouse solve in the long run the problem when the marriage is heading south. 

2. Does it balance any equation for we women, especially as it has been a man's game mostly. If you are doing on the side currently, how has it helped you in truth or it still leaves a big hole in you that eats your heart and well being, yet you just force yourself to believe you are doing just fine.

3. Was/ is your cheating routine random? Are you continuing or had to stop or wishing to stop but cannot?

4. Was/is it an affair with a single guy or older married man and why(for each choice) and what are/have been the consequences. Remember this post is not to encourage or discourage a negative adult behavior or judge. This is to provide a learning curve for those in similar situations or about to make mistakes.

5. If you are/were in such cheating mode situations and find that honestly, in your moment of sober reflection it really is not a situation you would love for your daughter or relative to mingle into in retrospect (especially for the very mature in marriage), what advice would you leave for the young married spouses of today?

6. Are you comfortable, as in,you have a marriage others are wishing for yet just happened to find yourself cheating...colleague, work place, pressure, neighbor, a tempting spouse of a friend etc....WHY?

7. For the prayerrrrrr solution, how has it helped? success stories please

8. Finally, if divorce was your case, share honestly how great it helped or didn't help(consequences). Be honest and don't try to sugar coat it because it makes you feel good that you made the right choice.

and any more questions not captured. How does this have to be happening in marriages where during dating, both couldn't wait to go to the altar. What happened?

I have seen that this is becoming like a constant often not talked about issue in our times? Is cohabitation trying to usurp marriage in our times? Share and please, don't just write to be naughty...write to share honestly what is happening with you with a mind to possibly educate your listener as if a sister or daughter came to you with these challenging questions. Sometimes writing or sharing about what you are doing or is happening to you could be therapeutic to the soul especially those things we hardly can tell others. Good or bad, it opens your mind up to new learning that could be helpful for a change in the right direction.This is a blog and faceless too. If your Id is a problem, go anonymous.

Concerned Sister

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CAREGIVERS RECRUITMENT

Hello Stella,

Trust you are good.

Please we would like to use your platform to advertise for nanny/housekeeper recruitment.

We are a small home-solutions company and we want to empower women by providing a sustainable means of income for women

We have a large and diverse client base who have a need to caregivers in their homes.

We would provide quality training to our workers, conduct background checks and referrals also we conduct comprehensive health screening for the caregivers.

CAREGIVERS Qualification

Age: 25-35yrs

Sex: Female(only)

Education: Basic Primary Certificate

Must be able to read and write

Knowledge of other Languages such as French is a plus

Competitive Salary and other benefits.

If you are interested, 

please send us a text on 08170314270 or 

send us an email: topcarehomesolutions@gmail.com.

Thank you

Do not give anyone any money if it concerns any application ish cos it seems i cannot verify all completely,please be weary as you apply..

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TIME AND STRINGS

Good Afternoon Big Sis.

I am writing a book called "TIME AND STRINGS" and still ongoing, I will want to infuse how SDK came about into it, If you could help me with that, I will be immensely grateful Big Sis. This book I believe will help the generation of youth we have in the country, how to manage time also cultivate a profound successful habit. Understanding the law of process, and also consistency.

Here is an abstract from the book Big Sis.

Time is the currency of the earth, what you do when you alone makes you equal, different or below the next person, your habit determines your purpose. Time is essentially the most powerful equation in the world, you can't take back yesterday, you can't re-write the past and you can't predict the next 10mins. That's how powerful Time is.

Develop your Time into solving a need, if you can fill a void, you can be successful, successful people are problem solvers and problem solvers cultivate a positive habit and adequately respect Time. Managing Time positively gives your Life a meaning and the more informed you are the more content you carry.

The big difference between the rich and the poor is "Information"  it does not matter what you do or trade, the more informed you are about your sphere, the more different your product, brand and personality is from others, And we are at a transcending stage where the industrial age is fading away and we presently in an information age dispensation.

This is the age and time entrepreneurs will thrive and be better, "employees seek security while entrepreneurs seek freedom" the government is beginning to fail in promises all over the world, that is because the industrial age when Prussian education happens to be the core value and basic principle is no more.

Now you don't need a degree to be successful, but how you invest your Time building ideas, concept or starting a trade, making whatever you intend doing a buy-out product can definitely get you to the very top. Live and don't just exist, make every moment matter, don't live you life like a scalar quantity that has magnitude but lacks direction but a vector quantity which carries both.

Consistency is art, however we choose to live every decision we take and ounce of time wasted we definitely will pay the piper duly for his songs someday, life they say is a marathon not a sprint, let your plight be the flight to your bright light.

An Abstract From My Book (To Be Published 2017)
"TIME  AND STRINGS "
Ozoya Salami

Well done dearie!...wetin you say make i do?I nor understand..lol

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AUGUST GIVEAWAYS

We are dedicating August Giveaways to Small Business entrepreneurs.

ANGEL AUSTIN 10K GIVEAWAY

This is for one person whose business or petty trade will experience a lift with ten thousand naira. Send a mail with proofs to BusyBodyCorrecter

ANGEL LOLA 20K GIVEAWAY

This is to be shared between 2  people whose businesses will take a positive leap with the said amount. Send a mail with proofs to BusyBodyCorrecter

ANGEL ASHAFA 60K GIVEAWAY

This is to be shared between 2 old time regular BVs whose businesses will be propelled to the next level with 30k. Send a mail with proofs that you truly do need this money and proofs that you are an old time BV to BusyBodyCorrecter

(Lady who handles this giveaway is bereaved and if you have not heard from her that might explain why but please be patient!)

ANGEL BOLUWATIFE £50 GIVEAWAY

To qualify for this you must be a long time regular BV. Please send a mail to BusyBodyCorrecter with relevant proofs to advance your cause.

ANGEL TEEKAY 95 EUROS GIVEAWAY

This giveaway is for one person. That person must have been a BV for sometime. The person must truly be in dire need of this giveaway. If you are that person, please send a mail with relevant proofs to BusyBodyCorrecter.

PS: For all categories, please include your contact details and phone numbers.

SENT IN BY BUSYBODYCORRECTER

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SHOKI AAAANH

Etisalat

137211064365122

355491868820380

912065127479445

570641039501083

133270711137550

681764543853085

248337600469130

026111201931028

243388202369332

707999054874743

Mtn

3631465942132813

5155440096154667

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1430286582076953

3302876007363852

2130971996817529

4037894030472013

7533358127885030

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4496875378135553

Airtel

2879786249278885

2410757888264368

2076974912533888

2430185124794308

2858127822439289

I am sending the rest to friends via email.please if you load,let me know okay?

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BV MANNA BEE
Did you get the stuff?you havent replied my email saying you did and i am worried.please mail or call me if you get this.thank you


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MEMO AGAIN.

Those of you attacking me for sending IHN Memo, it wont stop and if you complain again that i sent this,I will send another one tomorrow.

LOL

Some of you are just plain wicked.I have searched my conscience and its clean,I dont even know some of you personally but you behave on my email like i owe you anything..Imagine someone cussing me out cos i forgot to post something i promised i would?Na wah!

Memos will always come to ''clear the air'' or correct an impression.I have my own mind and would appreciate that you do not try to squeeze my mindset to fit into yours.

That said,I cant help loving you all...blog love oh.

Another memo loading..LMAO!

that said,you are free to send in anything postable for ihn as long as it is not advert and no i am not accepting paid adverts for IHN.....*wink*

I love the new IHN...hehehehehehehee #stressless

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Signing out.....LOVINGLY