Wednesday In House News...

Love makes everything different...why dont you take minute to see beyond all the hating?..E go hard?LOL
The choice is yours,have a great day!

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WORD FOR TODAY

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BEN WANTS TO MINGLE

I'm Ben, a 28 year old single bloke who resides in a Abuja. Currently working with an NGO. Average heighted and athletic, with an  outgoing personality, BIG hearted, easy to get along with and talk to. I can be playful shaaa, VERY curious, could be stubborn.... 

Once in a while tho and not to forget, I LOVE music.. (GOOD music actually, not noise).

Came out of a failed relationship months back so I just need friends, and POSSIBLY meet someone who would be patient and nice enough to understand me to build up a relationship that would make Jaws drop, eyes pop wide open, tears flooding,  knees wobble and faces to go green with envy.... Literally speaking oh. 

Contact me via : 08071171356

Gracias.

He missed Single Mingle cos he was on field work and only just got back on Monday.I have spoken with him and he seems very serious to start something off.you have seen his age,if you fall in the same category,please contact him.

Dont contact him if you are looking to marry next week or next month please.

And if he goes serial on you,please let us know...

He is really very good looking..you kinda like Desmond Elliott.lol

*Sorry Ben i had to..hehehehehehe

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SHOKI AAAAANH

Glo: 605782195741564

AIRTEL: 5097745336148305

MTN: 6258406877425520

STELLA: This is the 5% I promised BV anytime a BV patronised me.  

Thanks a lot. 

FLUFFYCAKEBYBIGMAMMA

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HAPPY 1ST BIRTHDAY TOLUWANIMI AKINMOLAYAN

Stella it's my son's birthday today 10th August.                                                

  Tolu, You give us a gift every day. One year with you has meant 365 special gifts that you've given us. Each day with you in our lives is in irreplaceable and priceless present.

 Happy birthday to our dearest son. Dad and I love you very much.  

Tolukoko is one.

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10K SHOKI AAAHN COMING SOON

A BV from the states sent in 10k for shoki night.I plan to do that on the weekend...so people get ready for Shoki night either on Friday,Saturday or Sunday.

Thanks

 SDK

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THANKS TO YOU.

The person posting the podium awards link on all the posts,my Goodness,thank you.I dont know who you are but God knows you....And whether i win or not might not be so important,whats important to me is the nomination,the recognition for a job done and the love i get when i post it.

Thanks to all who have voted and thanks to people who need sugar to sweeten up their day.

One love.

SDK

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I Need a Good Baker/Bead Maker

Please I need a good baker or a good bead maker where my daughter can learning for the remaining part of summer.

The person should be strictly around Chevron/Agungi.

Or even a good makeup artist. Please call 08029991385 if you fall in this category.

Thank you.

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MAKE UP ARTIST NEEDED

On 4th September is my child church dedication, please I need a make up artist  that can also tie gele very well.  Someone that stays at Surulere, Lagos, that can collect afordable price. Please i don't need a Learner. 09094953007 is my contact

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NEVER JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER--LMAO!

This happened in my first year at school.... Being an igbo gal whom just moved from the east to my school (uniben), me and my igbo friends thought we are the only ones who can understand igbo and thus insult people or give side talks in their presence... So on a very sunny day like that, we were all in our undies in one of our friend's room waiting for our indomie to get ready when we Heard a knock on the door.. 

I dashed off to check whom this devil who wants to reduce our indomie ration is nahhh.... On opening th door, omo I saw one  very ugly looking guy *when I say ugly, I mean very very ugly with two big tribal marks*for my mind the guy na yoruba cos of the tribal mark*no offense to my yoruba peeps*

I turned to the room and said to my Friend the owner of  The room "kedu mmuo bu ihea chotaa gi (who be dis masquerade wey dey find you). 

Bros just smiled and entered the room.... Omo that was When the insult started. From my friend saying he is one fool that always buys food for her in school to telling me to remove the plastic seat in the room so that the guy will stand and thus leave on time... My people na so we dey speak plenty things for igbo oo. 

Enjoying our selves... My friend will look at the guy and say *come and eat dear in English and will say abeg no come oo in igbo.. Some. 20mins later, the Bros stood up to go and said*ngwanu oga adizi mgbe ozo (OK, see you guys some other time). that was when I saw my life and that of my friends dangling on a rope.... 

Uniben Students know how ekosodin matter is nah.... Bros dey speak and hear igbo ooo... His igbo sef is thicker than ours.... See him with his devilish smile.. Before I could even think about what to do, I turned to see all my friends kneeling with tears in their eyes..... Since then, NO MORE INSULT OOO. thank God I learnt my lesson the easy way... 

Hehehehehehehehehe wow,lucky you!..If it is the Uniben i know you would have been punished for that at nightfall.lol

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RE-CHRONICLES

Hi Stella. Hope this mail meets you well. This is an update to my chronicles of Monday, 8 August, 2016. Thanks for posting it, by the way. 

Well, on Sunday, 7th August, I couldn't wait anymore, so I took a decision on my own. I believe I won't regret it. I confronted my husband with all the facts I had and he didn't deny it. In fact, he was apologetic as usual and remorseful, promising it would never happen again (as if that has ever changed anything).

 This time however, I told him my mind was made up and I was leaving him for good. I have since dropped my kids with my parents and staying with my elder brother, pending when I can rent a house and move in with my kids. I have to start saving aggressively towards this. I earn about 60k and have to still take care of 5 kids but I trust God to sustain us. 

My husband has been very remorseful and even involved his family who have been calling and begging me to go back to him. They are disappointed at what he did and have blamed him for everything but still asking me to give him a last chance, which I'm actually considering. However, this time, if and when I decide to go back, it would be on my own terms. I'm still thinking of what the terms would be, hence I need BVs to give me suggestions. 

I have thought of having him write an undertaking, to be co-signed by his family who love me dearly but I'm not sure if it's a good idea. Please I really need blog visitors' ideas here. 

Some of the comments on my story broke my heart at how insensitive some people can be. I believe some of these harsh people have mothers who sacrificed even much more for their happiness. Leaving a marriage is never easy, but what do we know? You never know until you are wearing the shoes. Please be kind with your words. No one has the perfect family. 

There are young children to consider here, which is why it becomes so much harder to just up and walk away like that. Well, I forgive your insults and pray you never find yourself in a difficult situation as mine. 

While I wait to hear from you guys, let me enjoy my "single" life and hope that something beautiful eventually comes out of this whole mess. 

Thank you Stella. Your blog has been therapeutic for me. God bless you richly. 

LOL at enjoy single life....my dear forgive him and give him another chance,he might be really sorry this time,if not na you sabi oooooh.

Maybe you need to buy a simcard and send him an an anonymous text that you are one of his girlfriends and you have Aids and that you are sorry you didnt tell him before you slept with him.I am sure his brain will reset with fear.

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CHRONICLES POSTER SHOCKED BY SINGLES MINGLES FEEDBACK COMMENTS

Hi Stellz,

I can't thank y'all enough for your advices on Sunday. (Chronicle Poster 2)

*Side eyes at the desperadoes asking for his details*.

 For the records , I'm not a Gwez.

After reading and discussions, I decided to break up by sending the link during our chat, but it seemed he didn't care or maybe read it before we started chatting.

The tune changed, we talked (phone conversation) at length and I was able to peacefully Break up.

Few hours later, I stumbled on a post here on the blog where his yansh was opened, and ladies warning other ladies to stay clear from him. That was when it dawned on me that I've been playing lovey dovey in a fool's Paradise.

I'm really grateful I had verbally broken up before I saw what I read.
I did not commit myself to a fruitless relationship, and lastly I was wise enough to send the chronicle..

To other ladies, always shine your eyes, obey your instincts(like I did), No relationship should be perfect, if it is too perfect to be real, then it might not be real.  Mine felt so perfect, everything was on point.

Above all, we should be prayerful.

Off to select another main Boo from the list of side boos. *Side eyes* at Queen and Boss.

Love you always Stella.

Anonymous.

LOL.I am happy you saw the light.TO ALL THE LADIES,please whether you meet on Singles mingles or not,do your homework before you commit or part your thighs,i cannot vouch for anyone here.

Good luck darling

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MEMO TO THE BV ON NELOS CASE

Are you male or female? You happened to be in the same vehicle going from onitsha to calabar with Nelo sometime last year cos i remember that was the first time I noticed your comments and since then till this year, you always find any opportunity to mention the occasion especially most recently when akpabio's name was mentioned. 

I don't understand, is it that you were so star struck that you cant get over that you were in the same vehicle with her or what? You kept mentioning your surprise that she entered a bus and i wanted to ask, please how else do people go from onitsha to calabar? I dont know of any flight schedule going from asaba to calabar so was she supposed to fly on a broom to her destination? Perhaps you expected her to maybe charter a car all the way and i shake my head.

 I asked first if you are male or female cos im wondering maybe you tried to chyke her and she didnt answer you so you went on a revenge rant talking about how money wasnt showing on her body.

 I wasnt there but let me assume she was not dressed up to your expectations or she didnt have a facebeat or weighed down by tons of jewelry but for pete's sake, enough! What is with the pull down and vindictive syndrome? 

You meet a fellow blog visitor in a place outside the blog and instead of trying to introduce yourself so that you guys can have better gist about the blog and its peculiar visitors, the immediate thing on your mind was to keep your eyes and ears open and alert for any morsel of information that can be used as nyash opening. Thats a bitch ass move bro/sis. 

That girl drives an infinity SUV and im sure she has visited more countries than you have but cos you saw her in same vehicle as you were, you couldnt keep calm. I really do wonder what you were wearing and why you were in the vehicle too and not on a flying broom or a chartered car.

Kisses to all blog visitors

Hmmm before anyone assumes this is Nelo,no it isnt her.Nelo and i had our brouhaha on this blog but we are so cool now and whether or not she is a nice person is not my business,we flow like sisters and discuss what needs to be discussed.I am not saying,we might not fight again,ALL I AM SAYING IS THAT FIGHTS MUST HAPPEN BUT please people should learn to move on and make peace at the RIGHT TIME.

Yes,its me Stella preaching so excuse me.

Not everyone must be friends i realise that but coming to slut shame anyone here leaves you on the haters platform and your progress is staled.

move on and leave her and others alone.I will not stop anyone from fighting inside in house,you are all adults this isnt a school.You can fight if it makes you happy but do not call in anyones child or family and do not wish anyone death.

MAY GOD HELP YOU ALL OH..when you are tired,you can stop.

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GREETINGS FROM LONG TIME BV SOMADINA OBI

Somadina Obi is one of the early Bv's and the first person i ever did a birthday post for when i started active blogging.Me and him have had fights and fallen out but we are so cool now cos he has grown and is more mature...God has opened his eyes to the beauty of life.

He just wants to share his new photos with you all...lol

he says 

''please i want to share with my fellow blog visitors few of my pics on IHN and still remind them that i'm one of the oldest BV here, Love y'all even those with Hate as their default mood. Kisses''

Poser..lol..You are so light skinned Soma and i just keep imagining what color down there will be!!*OOPS!*...LOL

PLEASE YA ALL IGNORE THIS COMMENT,I AM HUNGRY FOR FOOD BUT TODAY I AM

PRACTISING #WifeNotCook

lol

*side eyes at noble
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A LESSON FOR OTHER BLOG VISITORS

Dear Stella,

I am one of your fan and a regular listener of your program. My Name is Bamidele J.

Auntlanda, there is this boy which my younger brother met in a football field where he goes to play football and brought to our home without knowing or meeting any of his Family member. 

He has stayed with us for over 2yrs.

Since he has been looking for work to do, Last 2 months due to the cordial relationship I had with my boss,I brought him to my boss for employment as an office assistance so dat he could be getting little income.

On Tuesday August 2nd 2016. The boy went with a staff of our company "Bijoux Ltd" to the bank to deposit the companys money(#806,500) at the bank, and was left by the staff to count the money, but the boy absconded with the money (details can be found herehttp://www.nairaland.com/3266614/please-apprehend-criminal please ma, how do I apprehend this boy. Or is it a crime to help someone one hardly knows?

Please help me ma,

Thanks

How am i supposed to help you?even if you catch him,the money might be gone....your story is a lesson for others to learn from.

what does Auntlanda mean?

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SIGNING OUT TO LOOK FOR MY LOST LOVE JAMES..LOL