Wow,what a twist!!!
So I met my wife through mutual friend in a birthday party, I really didn't have to chase as my friend made the whole coming together easy.
I met my wife when she was 23 and dated for 2 years. I wasn't a virgin, I had lost my virginity at 10 or 9 years i cant remember and i was a sex maniac till 13, because i grew up around my elder sister's friends I always ended up having sex with them or they ended up having sex with me, all girls were older than me.
At 12 years was my worst years as everyday after school I will go to my friends house and have sex with her. even had sex with her and her elder sister after watching glamour girls, a sex scene with Eucharia Anunobi and Zack Orji i think, cant remember.
That was the last time i had sex, I knew what I was doing wasn't right, so i decided to stay celibate. in my previous dating I noticed that I easily get aroused and when I'm kissing and dry humping (not actual sex, no penetration) within 2 mins I will cum already and lose interest in the whole thing.
I got older and sex was something I try to avoid with my girlfriends, cumming early might prove to be a problem so it was my aim to get a virgin who has no experience about sex so she wont be bothered if i cum early or not.
I found her.....
Fast forward to the wedding.she was really looking forward to the wedding much more excited than i was.. to me it was just a necessary stage to cross. It was a loving wedding. we made our vows, and the biggest gift was a gift to her from her uncle. A car.
We went to our hotel, prayed, she went to have her bath and she was still cautious in undressing in front of me, after her bath I went to have mine. jumped on the bed gave her a tender kiss, while she was all smiles, she started moaning already while kissing, at a point i got scared if she was still a virgin.
I unhooked her bra and she wasn't shy that I am seeing her boobs for the first time, she let out a soft moan, calling my name softly , I sucked the boobs like my life depended on it, when I lifted her under garment I saw her well shaved kitty cat, tried moving my tongue down there she refused, she said she will rather give me head, wow I never knew my wife knew anything like head, I was more surprised.
In 1 or 2 minutes i had cum already that will be the first time i will be getting head in my life, I lost interest in the sex already, and gave her an excuse that it was just introduction, we would continue tomorrow.
I saw disappointment in her, but i just didnt have interest in sex again, tried the next morning I skipped the long process of smooching and tried to slide my D in her, she was tight as hell, she even almost started crying, I calmed her down with more kisses until she got relaxed. I tried again, this time I was successful. I was on it while she was moaning with soft pains, I managed to go 3- 4 mins and i came again. she really didn't complain, i slept off ,woke up and she wanted more. WTF, i was not even in the mood.
She got pissed.
Oh well i have a kid now.I was expecting she wont be much into sex since i will be her first but apparently i was wrong. I have tried to talk about her excessive libido, got her a vibrator also. I feel for her, but marriage is not all about sex.there is more to that. i knew i use to love it back then when i was young but now I am just not the sex type, almost 2 years in the marriage now.
*Wow,Mr narrator you have a problem oh,your mind so messed up because of your childhood years.I dont even know what to say to your WNB...
Errrm some Judgina's are gonna skin you for saying you bought your wife a dildo.I even feel sorry for you after reading this...
hmmmmm
ReplyDeleteTry wearing a condom before penetration, it reduces d excitement and helps u last longer, i no someone who does dat. Anyway wat do i no?
DeleteShe doesn't have excessive libido. Her appetite is quite normal. Don't make it like its her problem when you are the one with a truck load of problems. Better find a way to fix yourself else she may get it from other sources. If you ask me I will say you deceived your wife. You are a bad man
DeleteSo about the WNB yesterday, I read so many righteous comment and people talking crap and thinking themselves pure and free from sins. They say it's d one wearing the shoes that knows where it pinches. I'm married to a Benin man, and a chronic flirt. There's this stupid Benin tradition that women who sleep with other men other than their husbands will die or go mad. A stupid and useless tradition that support men cheating but against women doing same. Me, I love life, so what do I do. Even tho I don't believe this so-called tradition, I'm not ready to take d chance . I sleep with girls, they give me life, it's even better than dick, cos they understand ur body and know where to touch to take u to cloud nine. So what do I do when my husband continually cheats on me and I'm tired of fighting him over his hoes, and there's a stupid tradition against women sleeping with other men. I sleep with girls and I'm proud of it... People were talking about d lady yesterday confessing to her husband bla bla bla. Who does my husband confess to after he cheats time and time again? So I wish to tell u self righteous pieces of shit to wait until it happens to you before u think of cussing someone out for making a decision which causes them happiness. Thanks and let God be d judge of us all.
DeleteNice story but get help before she get addicted to the dildo
DeleteIndomie noodles
DeletePoster i think ur problem is psychological, get some help!!!
DeleteUse a cup of boiled ginger allow to get warm add honey to it last thing every night it helps.
DeleteAnnon 13:32, we are in the same predicament only that I wish I had the guts to cheat on my husband, I will probably feel better. I used to be a judge until my husband showed me pepper, mine is so painful because I was totally blind as in, am one of those self righteous women who would beat their chest and say my husband can never cheat on me, well it did happen. He was in a full blown serious relationship for two years. So so sad. If I have to cheat I will do it with a very wealthy, powerful man and not just anybody. There is nothing like LOVE or MARRIAGE in a Nigerian mans dictionary. I certainly don't believe in marriage or love anymore.
DeletePoster you may deny this but u last 2 minutes because you wank too much
DeleteOh my God! This is the story of my life, my husband was also in a relationship for two years and I had no idea. Cheating is not an option for me but divorce was, I say was cause we are on the road to recovery, its really painful because it changes all you know about love and life. This experience has taken away my innocence, one thing I will tell you is that hold on for the sake of the only thing you have that's the kids, mine give me strength. If you want to talk drop your email add. Stella do a post on effects of cheating on the family, it will be interesting.
DeleteHmmm
ReplyDeleteOga, m not gonna cuss u out but just find a cure to your problem Nd make that woman Happy before Someone else does. I don't want to read your chronicles here biko.
DeleteMy 2 cents
Dear Poster, PLEASE READ THIS VERY CAREFULLY.
DeleteGod created marriage and HE has the ability to make you feel like a man with your wife.
First of all, I am sorry you were abused and molested as a kid. Please forgive yourself and receive God's forgiveness because God forgave you a long time ago. Don't let the devil make you feel that this is your punishment for having early sex in life. YOU HAVE BEEN FORGIVEN. remember condemnation kills.
Tell your wife what happened to you, ask her to forgive you, because you deceived her, she will forgive you.
Then with your wife together, start praying. You are the man, you are married...you are legally allowed to have sex, so talk to God about this.
One of the most powerful prayer you can pray is..THE PRAYER OF AGREEMENT. MATT 18:18-20....“Assuredly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven. “Again I say to you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven. For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them.”
JOIN HANDS WITH YOUR WIFE EACH TIME YOU PRAY, READ THE VERSE ALLOWED AND MAKE YOUR DECLARATION.
DON'T STOP UNTIL YOU SEE IT HAPPEN. AS OFTEN AS YOU PRAY, GIVE THANKS.
ALSO TRY AND DO SOME RESEARCH FOR MAN MADE SOLUTION, BUT I BELIEVE IN MIRACLE.
GIVE YOUR WIFE GOOD HEAD, SUCK HER LIKE YOUR LIFE DEPENDS ON IT.
MAKE HER COME UNTIL SHE CALLS YOU DADDY! GO AND DO YOUR RESEARCH ON HOW TO GIVE HEAD.
FINALLY, THAT WHICH YOU CAN DO, DO IT WELL AND LET GOD DO THE REST. I WISH YOU WELL IN YOUR MARRIAGE. GOD BLESS YOU.
Dear Poster, PLEASE READ THIS VERY CAREFULLY.
DeleteGod created marriage and HE has the ability to make you feel like a man with your wife.
First of all, I am sorry you were abused and molested as a kid. Please forgive yourself and receive God's forgiveness because God forgave you a long time ago. Don't let the devil make you feel that this is your punishment for having early sex in life. YOU HAVE BEEN FORGIVEN. remember condemnation kills.
Tell your wife what happened to you, ask her to forgive you, because you deceived her, she will forgive you.
Then with your wife together, start praying. You are the man, you are married...you are legally allowed to have sex, so talk to God about this.
One of the most powerful prayer you can pray is..THE PRAYER OF AGREEMENT. MATT 18:18-20....“Assuredly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven. “Again I say to you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven. For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them.”
JOIN HANDS WITH YOUR WIFE EACH TIME YOU PRAY, READ THE VERSE ALLOWED AND MAKE YOUR DECLARATION.
DON'T STOP UNTIL YOU SEE IT HAPPEN. AS OFTEN AS YOU PRAY, GIVE THANKS.
ALSO TRY AND DO SOME RESEARCH FOR MAN MADE SOLUTION, BUT I BELIEVE IN MIRACLE.
GIVE YOUR WIFE GOOD HEAD, SUCK HER LIKE YOUR LIFE DEPENDS ON IT.
MAKE HER COME UNTIL SHE CALLS YOU DADDY! GO AND DO YOUR RESEARCH ON HOW TO GIVE HEAD.
FINALLY, THAT WHICH YOU CAN DO, DO IT WELL AND LET GOD DO THE REST. I WISH YOU WELL IN YOUR MARRIAGE. GOD BLESS YOU.
Better go and get help Mr. One minute man. Your wife will soon find another man to satisfy her. What kind of man loses interest in sex after 2mins.
ReplyDeleteYou're not a man at all, stop referring to yourself as that.
Poor woman didn't know what she was getting herself into.
Just because your sperma can produce a child doesn't qualify you to be called a man. Go and learn how to satisfy that woman. I'm even upset like I'm her.
This dude is asking for it like seriously? You need help man!
DeleteDoppelgänger haff vex
DeleteYawns*
Don't mind the foolish poster.If it were her that deceived you now you for coke here come dey call her different names.If she had a well for a kitty kat you would have called her all manner of unprintable names. Stupid man.
DeleteD poster should beta go 4 serious deliverance. Dose gwegwelinas u were fucking wen u were very young have destroyed ur sexual destiny #pardonmyuseofwords
DeleteBiko don't be deceived with all these tieing ur legs to avoid stories that touches the heart and tickles the bom bom
ReplyDeleteLmao😂
DeleteKwacrukwacrukwacru.....
DeleteEnd time noodles
ReplyDeleteSHAME ON ANYONE THAT CONDEMNED THIS MAN. SHAME ON YOU.
DeleteMarriage is not all about sex because you are not capable to satisfy your woman....
ReplyDeletePoster,your problem is spiritual!...your type masturbate a lot and your spiritual wife whom you have been having sex with through masturbation has rendered your prick and stamina useless!...
I have seen cases like this in my church!...
I'm sure your wife has gotten her self a good side bobo that would be satisfying her...
Go and get delivered mehn...
Choi...u need help.
DeleteHis wife will soon nak pigeon on his head😂
DeleteThe boss have spoken
DeleteAlways on point Queen. Dont mind the man, after wasting his energy having sex with his mamas since nineteen kperegede, now he cant satisfy his wife. Look Poster dildo cant solve this one, go and look for solution before your wife start cheating on you. Ofcourse blood runs in her vein, so her high libido is not an issue at all. A word is enough for a wise.
DeletePoster,contact Queen to introduce you to her pastor. Have you tried seeing a doctor? Stop having sex with your hand and face your wife.
DeleteOnly a fool and extremely poor idiot like you go after the so called poor. A mentally deranged animal who for obvious reasons can't see beyond your dirt filled nose....blast
DeleteMe poster go check ursef see a psychologist cos u av a problem... U married ur wife just bcos of selfishness. How can u subject her to 3mins of sex, Deres more to marriage we know bt check ursef
ReplyDeleteNa 2mins jor
DeleteOga pls go and get help o. Na virgins dey get libido pass cos all the accumulated conji will be dealing with them. Do something about ur 1min madness before she gets a helper outside. Who dildo epp? Hiss.
ReplyDeleteEeh yah!!!!!
ReplyDeleteIndomie man
You need PSYCHOLOGICAL THERAPY ASAP
Yesterday's Chronicles and WNB no be am at all...dem no motivate me to comment
ReplyDeleteLet me go back up there and read
Then I will now troll comments😂
Meanwhile Stella my comment wey u chop this week no be small
Pls no matter how hungry (angry) you are,don't eat this one biko
I promise not to call you aunty😩
lol@ "i promise not to call you aunty"
DeleteAin't you just 22? Please act it
DeleteAnonymous 13.35 what if she is just 22? Why are you bitter abeg?
DeleteJust go to a good gynae and get treated. This is the reason I must test drive before signing
ReplyDeleteSeconded 😂
DeleteLooool.... a gynaecologist is a doctor that deals with the female organs like Vagina, ovaries, uterus etc. A man has no need for him cos he doesn't have those organs. I keep wondering why people seek advise from here. See advice nah!
DeleteOlodo who says men don't need gynaecologists?
DeleteThe truth is he needs to see a psychiatrist,he has a sexual disorder and not a problem necessarily for the gynecologist.a Simple SSRI medication will fix his premature ejaculation, he could also try the stop and go technique or the squeeze and go method. psychotherapy will help as well.
DeleteOnly if she knew what she was getting into..poster you need to see a phycologist and a doctor to help boost your sex life.
ReplyDeleteI can't marry someone like you o...sex is the most important thing in marriage.
The sad thing is he does have a psychological problem. He is a victim of child abuse. His behaviour both young and old is classic behaviour of a victim of abuse. Stella you should do a piece on this. A lot of partners going through very tough relationships because their better half has been a victim of Abuse.
DeleteMarriage is not all about sex cause you spent your childhood fucking every cookie on planet earth and now you can't sustain an erection for long.
ReplyDeleteYou never stated anywhere that you were sexually molested as a kid so you were the one that screwed yourself up
Go and find a cure to your problem and stop making silly excuse of life is not all about sex
It's your wife that you give bad sex that I pity.
Well said @Chi exotic. He has damaged his life while young what a very useless man. He is not even taking responsibility for his unholy actions . A 12 years old boy know the difference between right and wrong.
DeleteHe has fucked his marriage away when he was younger
DeleteDoes he have to state that he was molested as a kid for you to know he was? Or is it because he was a boy and did not fight what was happening (at that age he may not be able to make the right decisions)? From the ages he stated up there, he is a victim of child abuse. This has affected him now and he doesn't know how to handle it. He does not deserve all this abuse you people who grew up fine are spewing. Aahn aahn, or are you disappointed that it is not the usual M & B stuff. He must be really hurting inside and trying to cope by staying numb and trying to give the appearance of living a normal life. Poster no mind all these people. Try to seek help.
DeleteI think being exposed to sex at a tender age and doing it people older than him is abuse and the reason why his sex life is messed up.
DeleteHe need physical and psychological help because sex is important in marriage. I can pretend if my man is a one minute man.
Poster knew about his problem and didn't tell his wife before marrying her.. that is not good.
I hope you open up to your wife and find solution together.
Anonymous. Dts not abuse.. He fucked his elder sister friends willingly..... He was not manipulated or threatened or forced... As he has written there o
DeleteU are a big fool yummy chick!!! Who give u r type access to Internet sef? That's ABUSE!!! up there. He was abused as a child and ur here talking trash.
DeleteYummy cum he was abused, wether he fucked them willingly or not he was abused, he was a minor.he needs help.
DeleteThis man was definitely abused, just think if it was a girl child.
DeleteHis behaviour is classic behaviour of a person who has suffered abuse. A lot of people going through this. Stella, you should do a serious piece on this.
DeleteWhere is James ooooo
ReplyDeleteI really like and respect your honesty. It might help people see the dangers of kids being exposed. But I will suggest for the sanity of your marriage and for the sake of your sexually healthy wife and yourself that you seek help. You need to see a sex therapist, a psychologist and even a good pastor for prayers. Sex is as much psychological as well as physical, it is also spiritual. I,think your past and the guilt you felt made you to withdraw from the intimacy and fulfillment of real sex. You sound like a good man. Please don't give your wife cause to entertain cheating, plus good sex will benefit you too. The situation can be salvaged so don't give up, seek help.
ReplyDeleteVery sane advice, don't mind all these judginas, he was abused. Oga you need help
DeleteHeya, so sorry for your wife. Get help oo poster.
ReplyDeleteIrresponsible step you took. Sowi for yaself if wife meets someone good at that, you go hear am.... Why dun you just get kehinde's no n call him up, he might probably be of help.
ReplyDeleteAccording to a very close friend who has tested n tasted,kehinde ake isnt all that beneath the sheets.don't alwz believe what people write as a comment. Joy
DeleteHow una dey do am for this blog sef? Ur frnd sef don collect from kehinde? Kwakwakwa. But kehinde u fall hand oo if wht this anon said is true. Lol u suppose badt under the sheets
DeleteAbeg who has fucked James? Might be an indomie man too. Lool
DeleteEayah oga sorry o for your messed up growing life. Your sister friends na ogbologbo ooo, see as they spoilt your life and is now affecting your married life.
ReplyDeleteOga try and get into the sex act ooo. I hope she is not reading this our blog, because if she is, you are on your own. The type of answers she will receive here, she will start keep sidehen.
Abeg try and love sex ooo. so many people says sex is food. so i agree with them.
You see why it's not good to have sex before marriage. You've wasted your energy on worthless women now you can't satisfy your wife. Poor woman.
ReplyDeleteMemoirsofagreatlady.com
Do u mean dat 90% of men have dis problem?Shut it please.
DeleteHmmmmmm,dear poster,why don't you try going to the hospital for checks?
ReplyDeleteOMG OMG what did I just read? U are a one minute man and u are trying to give excuses @poster you are a total disgrace to all the men around the world. Seek medical help fast. I pity your wife already imagine enduring this nonsense for the rest of her life. Some women are just unlucky in marriage. And u are even getting her a dildo? When you should be annoyed to catch her with one. SMH
ReplyDeleteI am a two mins man, I am not seeking for treatment. I have been married for 17 years. The first ten years was a blast. The sex was extremely good. I was sick for almost 3 years, after healing I became a two mins man. I can sustain my election for as long as I want to but once I penetrate 1-3 mins I am done. I ensure my wife come before sliding into her. Once I cum I work on her again to reach the mountain top. There after we talk, gist about the imaginary elements fighting themselves on sdk.
DeleteVery twisted man!
ReplyDeleteWhy did you deceive your wife like that?
Why didn't u just tell her the whole truth before the wedding?
Oga you are really messed up in the head, you need both psychological, spiritual and medical help mbok.. Get Help!!!
And tell your wife the damn truth for fucks sake mshewww. I pity the poor girl
Help me and ask the mumu man. Very wicked person, the woman might be busy thinking it's her fault she can't satisfy her man. Not knowing he is the problem all along. Mister man tueh for you, rubbish
DeleteIvy Ivy
Oh my God! I so much want the likes of this poster. I dislike sex too. I would rather prefer kissing, giving heads and doing all manner of things except penetration and fingering. This kind life self, you cant just have it all. Where can I find a guy like this poster cos I know 98% of guys love sex so much. Meanwhile my bf no dey try at all. He likes to sleep for there during sex. I go just tire for am. He takes time to come and when he does, he love to go 2 to 3 more rounds which makes my pussy sore. Sometimes I pity him not pleasing him on bed cos I always complain during sex while begging him to come and let me be. I love my bf so much but his sex drive is something I don't just like. Hmmm, smh it's well all the same.
ReplyDeleteAnon 12 :25 seek medical help. Urs is not normal. Sex with whom you love is the sweetest things on earth. A
DeleteCome baby! i'm here for you.how do we contact?
DeleteBabe was ur down below tampered with? That could be a reason.BTW stop engaging in premarital sex. Just tie ur legs and ask God to give u a husband dat will teach u to enjoy d deed.
DeleteMama Africa the hypocrite! Na una type dey do anal all over the place.
DeleteMr, ure weak in bed. Just admit it. One minute man, looking for a virgin. So,ur small mind didn't tell u Dat, virgins have d highest libido as they haven't had much sex. Anu mpama.
ReplyDeleteLmao!
ReplyDeleteThis is so funny.
Accurate timekeeper.
I am one minute woman too.But I never lose interest.The party just goes on and on and on.....
You need therapy.No one's ever told you?Seems you are okay with it because its the excuse you use to justify not caring if she orgasms or not.You are a lazy lover.Selfish too.Your 'punctuality' isn't enough reason why you can't satisfy her.What's 'there is more to marriage than sex'?Where else is she ever going to legally and morally have sex?in heaven?Its so sad your wife married you a virgin.
Oga you no dey try at all. Bought your wife didlo ? Abeg try and do something about yourself.
ReplyDeleteRubbish
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness, poster. You were basically sexually abused by your sister's friends as a child. You were 9/10 when you lost your virginity?! What the?? A sex maniac till 13?
ReplyDeleteI shudder to think how many children went or are going through this right now. Sexual abuse of children has to STOP!!!
Poster go for Iguedo medicine to revive your sex urge before your wife taste it outside.
ReplyDeleteChAi! Stop wanking Mr!😝
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi ( Stellz Cousin )
Boo boo😘
DeleteHow's you😂
Am here baybay 😚
DeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi ( Stellz Cousin )
Hmm I will read comments.
ReplyDeleteI feel sorry for you getting molested at such a young age and it messing up your sexual life (oh yes) and for your wife who after safeguarding ends up with a 2 min man (no insults meant).
ReplyDeleteGood thing you know that you have a problem (getting the dildo) & oga your wife's desire to have sex is not part of the problem (it's her time & it's still a big ish for her to have sex with you so free her).
Go see a sex therapist and doctor. You don't know what you are missing by having premature ejaculations and also not to subject your innocent wife to such (why should she suffer for what she didn't cause?)
You should have tried to address this issue before you got married.
Poster see a doctor ASAP before serious wahala starts in your family
ReplyDeleteAll I can think of is your wife. Now she'll regret ever keeping her virginity.
ReplyDeleteAre you sure she isn't a chronicle poster sef?
She fit be. Poor woman
DeleteI'm telling you !
DeleteO ga o. U need to see a psychologist o to help reset ur mindset. Ur childhood experience has twisted ur psych.
ReplyDeleteI don't blame u tho. May God Dave our kids from all these predators.
Ok. It has landed.
ReplyDeleteIt's all in your mind poster, you should work on it. Always think about the pleasure of sex, it might help increase your libido and strengthen your stamina.
DeleteMr poster ,you have a problem ,how can you say your wife libido is high,it is your libido that Is even low.you dnt have interest about sex and you are married .u need a psychologist or a therapy to help u out.you think you are okay but certainly there is a problem with you.I pray God help u out.
ReplyDeleteLmao @ feel sorry
ReplyDeleteHe is been honest about his situations and he should try and have a heart to heart discussion with his wife, so that both of them can get help, there are solutions to this problem. is better to seek help than allow the woman to start cheating that might lead to something else, brother please save your home and get help, encouraging her to get sexual satisfaction with DILDO is not the best way to go
ReplyDelete@dope naija, he is honest about what exactly? Do you know what is the meaning of honesty?
DeleteThis man has weak erection and pre mature ejaculation and he did not tell his wife before they marry. He should have sought for solution before trapping an innocent woman to suffer for his immoral juvenile deed
This WNB is becoming so interesting. Poster,i think you should see a therapist or a doctor.
ReplyDeleteGo see a doctor poster, this suppose to come under in house doctor section.
DeleteOooooh..he was molested as a child.. Poster u need a complete reorientation of ur mind concerning sex ooh..if not ur wife is on a long thing..
DeleteHave you tried masturbating watching porn? When u do that often, u will learn how to control ur expulsion during sex
ReplyDeleteOga poster you need help ASAP,cos if your wife finds another man that can fu*k her very well for hours,na u go come here come de shout 'she's cheating on me'.you don de give am licence to cheat indirectly.
ReplyDeleteGbam..
DeleteHian! kpele o
ReplyDeleteWow ... I have a problem with ur deceit mr poster , u not even tryin to find your weak ass a solution , who made u judge were u have pronounced that marriage isn't all about sex? Your wife isn't satisfied and would cheat on you in the nearest future , you were not worth her virginity you weak damaged man !im so pissed , wtf story is this ?
ReplyDelete@daniel, i am a guy and some of the effect of masturbation is quick ejaculation, that is not the way to go
ReplyDeletePOSTER I KNOW YOU NEED HELP, DON'T/STOP DEPRIVE YOUR WIFE OF HER RIGHT. GET HELP ASAP!!!
ReplyDeletePoster U are a Deceiver a green snake in green grass. U know that you has erectile dysfunction and u did not tell her. I am just sorry for her. For how will she get sexual satisfaction from a dildo?
ReplyDeleteSee talk... After wasting your energy as a kid,u come dey tell your wife story..u are lucky she's a virgin...rubbish
ReplyDeleteMr poster, you are sexually damaged as a result of the abuse you encountered as a child. You might start to see sex in marriage as dirty and nasty. Pls get help before it starts to cause problems in your home. Children should not be exposed to things they have no business knowing.
ReplyDeleteDs life ehnnnnnnn
ReplyDeleteDude u shld seek help.. seems you are into porn too. Ur sex life is fucked trust me..
ReplyDeleteStella, some guys find it very dificult to express their problems to the appropriate channel.
ReplyDeleteWhat is so difficult in looking for a medical/native doctor and explain his problem to them and they will correct it.
Sexual problem is just like a normal thing but not been able to find a solution make it more like a nightmaire.
Poster, I advice you to consult a medical/native doctor and easy solution will be offer and your sexually confidence will be restore.
Pls you have to act fast before your wife will start cheating on you.
I am team no sex before marriage because I am virgin and I pray I don't meet your kind as a husband please. I will love to enjoy everything sex with my future hubby. This thing no easy at all, 23 and counting. Phew!!!
ReplyDeleteThe Lord is your strength. He will give u what you desire.
DeleteEnd time Two minutes noodles
ReplyDeleteDo we equally have one minute woman?
ReplyDeleteOga try using condom. So many women are passing through that and when they cheat on their husbands, the earth will open its wide mouth.
God bless your home with understanding, strength to start satisfying her and may God reset your mentality towards sex. You will have high libido soon...Amen.
While sex doesn't make a marriage, its one of its most important ingredients. your wife doesn't have excessive libido, you are not just interested. Its a serious problem which might be psychological(due to your earlier experiences). please see a doctor for recommendations, your wife deserves more.
ReplyDeleteWicked man that's what you are! Awon celibate hope una dey see am?
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm
ReplyDeletePoster,your wife's libido has nothing to do with what you wrote,your early child exposure to sex affected you so the earlier your seek for help the better for you.Don't deceive yourself that marriage is not about sex,it is so so important in marriage infact go to court n listen to divorce matters, majority is sex related.If person like James meet your wife OYO na your case o
You need to see a psycologist, its all about your mental vision. I guess when having sex u don't picture ur wife that's why u discharge easily u picture urself as the same 12years old boy fornicating. You need to get that picture from ur mind, if not ur wife might cheat on u. And sex is important in a marriage very very very important. See a psycologist immediately. Buying her a dildo? You just proved to her that u can't satisfy her.
ReplyDeleteSpeechless.
ReplyDeleteGo and see a doctor & after go for deliverance..
U need urgent help Oga..
Oga go and find help to your problem because you have big one, allow your wife to enjoy herself because is a time instead of her getting it outside, one minute man na disease abeg.
ReplyDeleteYou better do some thing very fast before your wife finds herself another man.
ReplyDeleteEya sorry poster but u seriously need to see doctor, pastor and psychologist, hmmm getting dildo for ur wify, hope u won't get a man for her one day too. Na wa
ReplyDelete***POSTER, I FEEL VRY SORRY FOR U AS AM READING THIS. UR PROBLEM IS NOTHING BT "SPIRITUAL". THOSE ANTIES U WERE HAVING AFFAIR WITH AT UR VERY TENDER AGE HAS EMPTIED U COMPLETELY IN THE SPIRITUAL REALM. HEY!, IF U LIKE, GO BUY A SEX DULL FOR UR WIFE, IT WON'T SAVE U. BEFORE U LOOSE HER TO ANOTHER MAN, BETTER GO SEEK FOR HELP IN A BELIVER'S CHURCH. BETTERSTILL,IF U STAY WITHIN ABUJA & ENVIRONS, GOOGLE & MAKE ENQUIRIES ABT CHAMPIONS ROYAL ASSEMBLY (BRO JOSHUA IGINLA) WHERE CASES OF UR TYPE HAVE BEEN SOLVED MANY TIMES IN THIER DELIVERANCE SESSIONS. IT IS WELL WITH U...AMEN!
ReplyDeleteTry doing regular exercise, abdominal, squatting, press up etc. You said you dont have interest in sex as if you are having premarital sex, I understood the guilt you felt as a teenager after having sex with your sister's friends. But this is marriage bro! Environment is another good thing you can try. Go out of the house, go vacations, hang out and relieve yourself from stress. You can as well see the doctor for medical help too. I wish you the best in your marriage. Rem: sex is very important. Thank you
ReplyDeleteNawaooooo stay there nd be deceiving urself with the notion that sex is not food till ur wife gets a side boo..
ReplyDeleteSeems your sex drive is low once you cum you hate everything around you, u need to stop wanking bro it weakens ur stuff don't you watch porns? don't you envy guys with strong and hard stuff the problem is you need to have constant sex with your wife to correct your problem Masturbation changed it initially why getting her a dildo when you should be jealous a toy is satisfying your wife,sorry man its well
ReplyDeleteThe result of sowing your wild oats early when you are not matured and ready for sex. Get help. Be open to her and both of you can help each other. If you really love her, focus on loving her not just sex... have time to caress her..., touch her body... let her touch you, get really aroused... and practice, practice etc but focus on loving not just the physical, you will wake up.
ReplyDeleteMtcheww, World people! If it was the wife that had the issue we would not hear word. She should come and cheat on him with me joor 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 lol
ReplyDelete@Poster: Eating garlic and ginger can help improve your sexual health.
ReplyDeleteDid u say sex doesn't make a marriage? U are a wicked fool,u better go for treatment and give that woman the fuck of life. Idiot
ReplyDeleteWell dats good sef atleast, she won't kom wit a cheating hubby chronicle ��
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Poster, have you not heard of coconut oil and war room?
ReplyDeleteHonestly its ur childhood free shows that is ur problem, u still do it like then. Your issue is a minor one. If u can only adhere to what I have to say here. First u need to start consuming ginger and garlic as they help with blood flow to the veins and arteries. Secondly u need serious and die hard interest on kegel exercises. These are just few of da ways to help u. After two months u will be able to take ur wife to her final train station and satisfied.
ReplyDeletePoster, are u mad? You are not a man and you are trying to blame your wife. Being a man is not by having penis o. You are a one minute noodle
ReplyDeleteYour wife is not having a high libido. Instead you are the one who can't perform. If your erections lasts, won't you want to have more sex? I pity your wife. It's possible she has discussed it with her friends and family and them go dey look you with one eye. Being a virgin doesn't mean that a woman won't know what's up. Conji is conji. There is no special low conji for virgins. Your wife sef go dey look you with one eye and regret her life. Don't deceive your self there.
Lmao. Use coconut oil
ReplyDeleteCommon Man, whats wrong with you? Buying your wife sex toys wont help both of you.
ReplyDeleteFrom what you said about her, she loves you very much not to have gone the other way.
Information IS key, go online, there are herbs that can assist you, drugs also available, Aboki sef also get remedy, you have a variety of options.
Too early to back out now in love making with your wife.
Love making is the koko, all those toys dont have feelings or blood vessels.
First thing first, U need deliverance. Secondly, you need to learn how to make love all over again, this includes a lot of research on how to satisfy your wife. You have a long way to go, but you have to address it psychologically too. There was a time I had money issues and my libido was not it all, drugs solved it some days and some other days even drug won't make me last long. I started research and focused on improving my love life with my wife. It's a lifetime and if you don't fuck that lady properly,another person would fuck that babe, that's if she is not already doing so.
ReplyDeleteLike dh is a 2 minute noodles man. And the 2 minutes is once a month (if I'm lucky). Last year we made love a total of 8 times. I got me a sweet guy who treats me like a queen and fucks me real good. Miss you baby!x
DeleteTHERE IS NOTHING LIKE SPIRITUAL PROBLEM IN THIS CASE. RATHER THE PROBLEM IS MASTURBATION. THESE HERBALISTS JUST EAT PEOPLE'S MONEY FOR NOTHING. STOP MASTURBATION AND AVOID SEX FOR SOME WEEKS (DON'T EVEN TOUCH UR DICK-UNLESS WHEN URINATING)AND I PROMISE YOU, YOUR LIBIDO WILL BOUNCE BACK. TRY IT AND SEND IN YOUR TESTIMONY. THIS IS ALSO FOR ALL THOSE IN THIS CATEGORY-MASTURBATION IS THE PROBLEM. SELAH
ReplyDeleteStop the bullying please! Y are u being so insensitive wiv the negative energy and comments? Let's at least be of help to one another. Kudos to those who have offered priceless positive advise to the is man. Oga please se kia before another man becomes your helper. You can get better only if you work at it. A stitch in time saves nine.
ReplyDeleteKa enwesi... Mtcheww!!! This WNB na nonsense
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ReplyDeleteReal & Powerful love Spell to Get your ex back very fast online. My name is LAARNI RUIZ from Philippine , When my husband broke up with me, I was so frustrated and don't not know what next , I love my husband so much but was cheating on me with another lady and this hurt me so bad and this leads to our break up, this lady i think use witchcraft on my husband to make him hate me and my kids and this was so critical and uncalled-for,I cry all day and night for God to send me a helper to get back my man until i went to London to see a friend,who was having the same problem as mine but she latter got her husband back and i asked how she did it and she told me about a powerful love spell caster called DR LOVE that help with love spell in getting back lost lover back, and i decided to contact the same DR and he told me what is needed to be done for me to have my man back and i did it although i doubted it but i did it and the DR told me that i will get the result after 28hours, and he told me that my husband was going to call me and i still doubted his word, to my surprise my husband really called me and told me that he miss me so much, Oh My God! i was so happy, and today i am happy with my man again and we are joyfully living together as one big family and i thank the powerful spell caster DR LOVE of lovespiritualtemple@gmail.com , he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the internet that DR LOVE is the best spell caster online who i will always pray to live long to help his children in the time of trouble, if you are there and your lover is turning you down, or your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster DR LOVE on his email: lovespiritualtemple@gmail.com or call him up on : +2348134835639 .
ReplyDeleteReal & Powerful love Spell to Get your ex back very fast online. My name is LAARNI RUIZ from Philippine , When my husband broke up with me, I was so frustrated and don't not know what next , I love my husband so much but was cheating on me with another lady and this hurt me so bad and this leads to our break up, this lady i think use witchcraft on my husband to make him hate me and my kids and this was so critical and uncalled-for,I cry all day and night for God to send me a helper to get back my man until i went to London to see a friend,who was having the same problem as mine but she latter got her husband back and i asked how she did it and she told me about a powerful love spell caster called DR LOVE that help with love spell in getting back lost lover back, and i decided to contact the same DR and he told me what is needed to be done for me to have my man back and i did it although i doubted it but i did it and the DR told me that i will get the result after 28hours, and he told me that my husband was going to call me and i still doubted his word, to my surprise my husband really called me and told me that he miss me so much, Oh My God! i was so happy, and today i am happy with my man again and we are joyfully living together as one big family and i thank the powerful spell caster DR LOVE of lovespiritualtemple@gmail.com , he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the internet that DR LOVE is the best spell caster online who i will always pray to live long to help his children in the time of trouble, if you are there and your lover is turning you down, or your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster DR LOVE on his email: lovespiritualtemple@gmail.com or call him up on : +2348134835639 .