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Tuesday, August 09, 2016

Mbaise Traditional Marriage ALLEGED Requirements

Are you kidding me?Just to Marry?
Please the Mbaise people in the house should clarify if this is true or someone made it up.







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190 comments:

  1. CANADA BLOGBRITY 9 August 2016 at 12:26

    This can't be true. Adobbilivit

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    1. Unknown9 August 2016 at 12:36

      I've seen an Mbaise list N trust me it was roughly 480k. Wasn't funny at all. My brother's wife to be from Enugu list now s 280. Them say na because she go school. The thing tire me I swear. while my sisters own wasn't even up to 200k. Lols.

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    2. xxxTrinityxxx9 August 2016 at 12:36

      I'm sure it's true lol. Want to marry an imo babe fear will enter you. They will write list and even add what children yet to be born need to the list

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    3. Ego lag9 August 2016 at 12:47

      Nbaise's marriage list is the biggest in igboland as I heard. So not surprised

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    4. SWAG LAFRESH 9 August 2016 at 12:49

      Hahaha. Na their luck.

      They should transfer the pork to my fridge

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    5. CANADA BLOGBRITY 9 August 2016 at 12:50

      My husband to be ni fear ooo. My list go long, but it won't be up to what we have here

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    6. Unknown9 August 2016 at 13:03

      Chineke!!! With this, anywhere I see Mbaise babe I go just carry my shoe for hand and take off...lol

      Just kidding ooo

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    7. xxxTrinityxxx9 August 2016 at 13:07

      Kaycee abeg enugu people list no dey long. And yes what they charge depends on the girls education and qualifications

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    8. #Miss Kay#9 August 2016 at 13:23

      So with all the things they collect during weddings, they can't still afford to renovate their mud house??? Idontbilivit

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    9. PLATINUM9 August 2016 at 13:23

      I dnt understand the essense of all this... is the bride for sale?

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    10. Unknown9 August 2016 at 13:43

      That's a fat like
      My cousin married from there n all this tins up there wasn't included......everything he bought didn't pass 200/230k
      And his wife wnt to school ooh upto master sef
      If I hear.......that was how one with diff orishirishi seculated one time like that

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    11. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 13:52

      'Seculated'? Potable viv you are not a graduate pls. Shiooor

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    12. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 14:15

      Hmmmmmmm

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    13. nzubeizuu9 August 2016 at 14:19

      Oriegwu! Believe this and you will believe anything. Look at those drinks there, do they resemble any Nigerian drink?Where in Igbo land do they use pigs and fresh fish for marriage rites? Akuko!

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    14. Unknown9 August 2016 at 14:35

      Hey! Its not true ooo. This is highly exaggerated. Am from mbaise and believe me this must be from a movie. The list they give for a graduate is the same they give to a non graduate. Our list is pricey tho but not this enormous. Tenkiu

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    15. Unknown9 August 2016 at 16:24

      @portable Viv! Seculated indeed! Shebi they have created meme for you.

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    16. Jasmine9 August 2016 at 17:10

      Nzube, look at the name of the poster self? That's not true abeg. I'm not sure this happened in Nigeria

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    17. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 18:10

      Seculated or not, you people should correct the spelling for portable, Circulated

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    18. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 18:12

      Seculated or not, you people should correct the spelling for portable, Circulated

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    19. nzubeizuu9 August 2016 at 18:46

      @Jasmine,u dey mind d yeye man? Pastor ko, parking store ni!

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    20. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 19:18

      This is false! I'm from mba5

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    21. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 19:36

      Not true. Am from Mbaise and our prices are moderate. By the way, what types of drinks are those?

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    22. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 21:26

      Hahaha haha Potable Viv, na ya kind gbagaun dey bring center part for yansh kikikikikikiki kikikikikikiki abeg no be by force inugo? Dey type for pidgin, or use sign language, all na language.

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    23. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 22:35

      Dumber Potable Viv, iwu nno eeh itimpataka. Uchu gbakwa!

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    24. Anonymous11 August 2016 at 12:24

      Portable the pretender.....Tufia!

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  2. Unknown9 August 2016 at 12:28

    Am not understanding 😁😁

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    1. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 12:31

      You're obviously too slow to understand

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    2. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 12:44

      @Jessica braimah, Am not understanding??

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    3. GALORE9 August 2016 at 12:50

      Lol...@Anon Jessica is right��....You kno deyy watch @Falz the bad guy.



      Na slang now.


      " I am not "understanding""





      @Galore

      @Galore

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    4. Villager9 August 2016 at 13:22

      "I am not understanding" was first used in beast of no nation.

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    5. Latest promixing training,organic materials,all your 100% skin care products BBM 2B97FEAA Whatsapp 081608453609 August 2016 at 13:30

      This is crazy and untrue and not frm there neither do I knw anything frm der,but hw can dey ask of all dos pigs fr wentin nah.

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    6. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 14:17

      U just said ure nt from der, how den is it untrue???

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  3. GALORE9 August 2016 at 12:29

    @SDK...it is not even much seff

    Seriously!!


    Just find out what we collect in Efik kingdom if you want to marry our daughters


    You may google it up.



    And besides,this is tradition,and it must be strictly followed to the latter.


    Yoruba people will come.here and tell me ,we are selling our daughters off ,if we collect this kind of gifts just for grad marriage alone....abeggi.


    And also aside from this gift....The groom MUST envelope #100k for the brides father and #80k for the brides mum....Infact,very very compulsory indeed



    @Galore

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    1. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 13:28

      Must u always bring in this ppl into anything that has to do with ur trad? Cant u pretend they dont exist? Or is it that u need to wash them always to validate ur traditional practices? Hian!

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    2. Unknown9 August 2016 at 14:19

      Yes, you guys are selling your daughters.What nonsense???

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    3. Efik girl from Essien Town9 August 2016 at 21:53

      Galore, i'm an efik girl, from ESSIEN TOWN, and I won't let you mislead people here. Efik marriage list is really moderate and what the husband really spends money on is the box and the things inside which is still for his wife. The money for parents varies depending on how greedy or hungry the family is and most families who demand crazy amounts have their roots in Ibibio while claiming efik.

      Efik marriage is one of the cheapest as almost everything is done by the bride's parents, (food, drinks, canopies and chairs, plus household items for the girl). Some parents buy up to mattress, washing machine et al depending on how much they can afford.

      The list from the family to the groom consist of mainly hot drinks, and little cash (30 - 50k for the bride's parent), the dowry which is 12 pounds or its equivalent in Naira, money for the bride which will be put in the box for the bride to take home and the amount is determined by the husband as it is a gift from him to her. The money has to be good enough at least for her to be able to use it for some kind of trade (that is the main essence of that cash) to help herself and her husband.

      I don't know which part of efik you're from, but for me that is how I've seen it done in my family and other efik families around me.

      Sorry for the long epistle, if there are errors abeg manage, can't go back to proof read abeg.

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    4. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 22:36

      Is @Galore not Irene? Hian

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  4. SD20169 August 2016 at 12:29

    Are those pigs?? Ewww

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    1. Cocoz9 August 2016 at 13:53

      My cousin's wife is from mbaise and among other outrageous things included in their list were Bale of okirika, a bike, a small bicycle, a cow and 120 tubers of yam.

      BTW , I'm from Imo state but even my place runs from mbaise lol

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    2. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 15:20

      Liar Liar pants on fire. If it's true I'm sure no Mbaise babe will be married now. But go ask google.

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    3. I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF)9 August 2016 at 16:11

      Kwakwakwakwa...
      Cocoz adonbilivit!...

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    4. Cocoz9 August 2016 at 17:15

      Queen, I'm very serious! The mum in law said she must give birth to 10 to compensate them😂😂

      Anon,you need to visit ur village more. Google is obviously deceiving you

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  5. LOLO IDEATO 9 August 2016 at 12:29

    Something synonymous with this happened when my younger sister got married at the village. My people Dooooohhhhh!

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    1. CANADA BLOGBRITY 9 August 2016 at 12:54

      Are you related to my sis Nwaamaka or Rolex chick, you seem to have personality Disorder.

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    2. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 17:09

      Blogbrity you got the name wrong, it is Borderline Personality Disorder. Hehehehehe.
      I like this Ideato, she brings some comedy and arguing life into comment section.

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    3. KING Nwa AMAKA9 August 2016 at 20:22

      So you are saying I have personality disorder @ blogbrity? You funny die. I tot you are my bae. Lol. Still love you.

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    4. CANADA BLOGBRITY 9 August 2016 at 20:52

      My boo forever. Kisses darling. Miss u. Planning a weekend getaway, hope to see u in abj

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  6. radiant D9 August 2016 at 12:30

    Hmmm. Na wa

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  7. IVORY 9 August 2016 at 12:32

    Errrrmmmm please I'm not understanding again.

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  8. GALORE9 August 2016 at 12:32

    I can't even see stock fish here..i mean big stock fish...Eporoko.


    And also where is washing machine here too?

    And also 3 boxes full of Olandis lace and judge materials


    And also,where are the Yams? I mean 100 tubes.




    The list is endless mbok.





    @Galore

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    1. miss Aboki the great9 August 2016 at 13:33

      Olandis kor orlando ni
      How u go sabi spell am wen trouser and gown na im you sabi
      It is spelt Hollandais
      Come back and thank me with one jerry can of ogogoro. Lol

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    2. miss Aboki the great9 August 2016 at 13:36

      But una own dey expensive ooo
      Na so my friend uncle pay 500k for TM for one Efik girl.
      The babe come stay two weeks run comot say she no marry again.
      Na rope the man aunties take go tie her come back ooo.
      It wasnt funny

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    3. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 13:43

      Olandis and Judge materials? @ Galore, I'm ashamed of you and your university

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    4. GALORE9 August 2016 at 13:55

      @Miss Aboki...Thank You


      @Anonymous...abeg shame.well well on my behalf..




      @Galore

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    5. GALORE9 August 2016 at 14:00

      @MisS Aboki? Seriously...why Una use rope tie her come back now...lol....



      Thank God you said 500k...so you see?

      It depends on each family compound...And if they know the groom can't really afford all the listed requirements....They subsidize it for him....

      But if you can afford it....Why not.



      @Galore

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    6. Sue9 August 2016 at 14:58

      My uncle married one ikot abasi girl if you see the list, generator dey there and he bought it. I don't think he did the bore hole but he spent big money there, now the girl was caught with 3 boyfriends after she had given birth for my uncle and he has spent all his money on her ugly face, girl wey dey cut eye for my sister husband

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    7. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 20:42

      Nor be Hollandis dem dey call am? miss aboki

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    8. Efik girl from Essien Town9 August 2016 at 22:16

      Galore now I know some if not all your gist about celebs are fake.
      How can you say they give 100tubers of yam??? Fear no catch you? Do you know how much yams cost?

      And 3 boxes of "orlandis and judge"??? Hian this babe, dey soffry dey lie o...in fact I think you're an ibibio girl , na only them dey collect this kind things. Washing machine and stock fish??? Kwakwakwakwa...

      My people, I don't comment on any blog o but this one be as e get, I couldn't help it. You see yam is included in the list but maybe 20 - 30 tubers or so, plus a normal size goat (1) which I think some other traditions collect too. I don't know about stock fish as I've never seen it in my own trad list or my sisters' or family members or even friends who are efiks.

      As for the washing machine, it is the bride's mother's responsibility to buy household things for her daughter as she can afford. Sewing machine used to be the highest those days but now parents are more sophisticated so they get washing machine, gas cookers and others, only if they can afford it o. It is not the groom's responsibility to provide this for the bride o, even good and drinks is the bride's parents responsibilities. The groom can assist if he likes and if the bride's parents don't really have a lot.

      Then the box (just one o) is purchased by the husband and filled with clothes, accessories and money for his wife. That box goes home with them with everything that is in it, the husband buys according to how much he can afford.

      Whew!!!


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    9. Bountiful ajebo10 August 2016 at 10:43

      This Essien town girl,please shut up already about ibibio people...it's clear you don't like us...as una no dey collect plenty things,who you don help?mscheeewww...
      Come rain or shine,an ibibio woman will stand by you no matter what...I can't say the same about an efik woman...you guys are the reason ibibio women are referred to as sex machines.

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  9. Starjoy9 August 2016 at 12:33

    Ewooo! This can't be, the lady na for sale?

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  10. Yori Yori Princess9 August 2016 at 12:33

    They did not add love nwantintin.

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  11. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 12:34

    This is not in Nigeria! Check the name of the drinks and name of acct.

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  12. xxxTrinityxxx9 August 2016 at 12:34

    To marry a girl from imo you have to break and arm and a leg. Come and see list you will be scared. Imo men fear getting married cos they feel other igbo states give the kind of lists their people do

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    1. CANADA BLOGBRITY 9 August 2016 at 12:51

      My future husband, do not listen to Trinity ooooooo.

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    2. I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF)9 August 2016 at 12:55

      Gbam!...
      They have a lot of uncle and Aunty gwegz...

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    3. xxxTrinityxxx9 August 2016 at 13:05

      Hahaha blogrity lol! Don't worry future hubby will be able to afford the Long list and more

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    4. Mrs telema ronaldo(CR7 wife in making)9 August 2016 at 13:51

      Eeyah..that why most of them remain unmarried at 30yrs of age..even anambra state where the bevy of beauties dey no reach this one

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    5. CANADA BLOGBRITY 9 August 2016 at 16:32

      Amen oo

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    6. CandyChic9 August 2016 at 17:09

      Trinity don't come and give us(imo babes)bad market oo... Future hubby, pls dnt be scared. That list isn't real oo! I've never seen pig in d list b4

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    7. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 18:32

      But y will my brother go to Imo state to marry ehh????
      When Anambra chics abound?
      Chukwu ajuuu!
      Myself Anambra, my children Anambra!
      No mixed at all!

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  13. Justyswt9 August 2016 at 12:34

    As in, adonbiliivit too. Wetin, is it operation feed the state ni?

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  14. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 12:35

    It's true Na
    proper selling of women in their marriage tinz.

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  15. ZARAM9 August 2016 at 12:36

    Stella its a big fat lie. Yes traditional requirement in Mbaise is high but what is pig, fresh fish doing there. Guess this is Akwa-Ibom

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  16. GALORE9 August 2016 at 12:36

    @0Pastor Abasi....shame no catch you....you go run for what?...Lazy man.....This small traditional bride list go make you run?

    Even in Akwaibom.were you come from,they demand for more.



    And also,@SDK,if the said wife to be is already pregnant by the groom to be....The groom must give Two big goats,aside other goat....They call that goat "Ebod usongeyen" meaning"The goat for impregnating the bride before getting her married.



    I love my Tradition mbok.




    @Galore

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    1. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 12:59

      @galore! You are so funny! 😅😅

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    2. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 13:30

      As if he enforeced the pregnancy on her. What will she drop for opening leg before the man came to do the proper thing?

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    3. miss Aboki the great9 August 2016 at 13:39

      But galore,
      Them no dey consider person wey no get money?
      Bcos no be everybody go fit afford those things o

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    4. GALORE9 August 2016 at 14:02

      @Aboki...they understand if you don't have enough money..They subsidize.



      @Galore

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    5. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 15:00

      Galore you have just told us the real reason why you are a gwegs, continue loving your culture instead of advising your old sef. With your ticking biological clock

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    6. Vivadrew9 August 2016 at 16:02

      @Galore, you are my true eyen eka. Infact ehn, that ebot usungeyen is so true. My hubby had it and we are still at it. Mbok, our Trad' rite is too much, yak itan akpan eko joo, espcailly the 1st daughter.

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  17. Esp9 August 2016 at 12:37

    Hmmm na Waooo;if they use all the money take buy traditional items finish watin them go eat if they marry.😡😔

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    1. Dewdrop10 August 2016 at 12:21

      Pls this is a lie! I am not from mbaise but I can categorically tell you that this is false! Infact the pig and fresh fish is the what gave this away. And those drinks? Nah!

      I am from IMO state and I know what the list consist of where I come from and most time the whole content of the list is not more than #200,000. The bride price itself is just 60naira sef. If you want to return your wife na that 60naira then go give you back. Things like ego unu ada and money for the sisters are not more than #5000 naira or #10,000. Thou some families are greedy and would want To basically sell off their daughters but k do know that the parents of the groom do send someone to go find out about the girl and her family during which they can also get sample of the list to guild them. Biko bye.

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  18. Temi9 August 2016 at 12:37

    Pig????????

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  19. I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF)9 August 2016 at 12:37

    WTH!...
    Now I know why men don't marry from there...
    Just imagine!...even fresh fish?...hungry people....

    That pig though!...I love pork meat die!...

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    1. miss Aboki the great9 August 2016 at 13:40

      Them go finish you today Linda

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    2. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 13:54

      This dwarf Linda won't you shut up

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    3. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 15:30

      Kontinu na'akogheri. Ana aja gi aja.

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    4. Mao Akuh (Oriflame)9 August 2016 at 16:03

      Linda, don't tell me you believe this. What will Imo people be doing with Eshi/pig?
      Come to think of it, there are so many people getting married in Imo State. Atimes we don't need to believe things like this when we have not really participated in any.

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    5. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 18:33

      No correct Anambra man will marry from Imo state! Maka Y?

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    6. I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF)9 August 2016 at 18:56

      Mao,we are talking about Mbaise people not Imo in general...
      I have seen marriage list from Orlu,Nkwere and Owerri and they are childs play compared to mbaise...

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    7. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 20:21

      Imo girls are very clean and good in bed and friendly.

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  20. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 12:38

    It's expensive that is true, but it depends on the family, I am from mbaise, such things are fading away. Lets just Sa the guy could afford it.

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  21. Ms SSS a.k.a stunning slim shady9 August 2016 at 12:38

    Can someone borrow me his\her understanding. I will return it afta comprehending d above.


    Thanks

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  22. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 12:39

    this is a big lie.how can you even use pigs for traditional rite.
    i am an Mbaise man and its never this bad.

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    1. SWAG LAFRESH 9 August 2016 at 12:50

      We use pig in my village. Only one though

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    2. GALORE9 August 2016 at 12:52

      Don't mind them


      No one uses "pigs" for traditional


      It is not even right to gift someone pig ��

      I don't eat pig...most people don't...so,using it for engagement list is way all shaded of wrong.


      If its goat..yes...you may bring 20 sef.






      @Galore

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    3. I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF)9 August 2016 at 12:54

      Talk true abeg...it's that bad...
      I'm sure your wife is not from mbaise!...

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    4. Adadioramma9 August 2016 at 13:39

      What do you do with the pig later La Fresh?

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    5. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 13:45

      @Galore 'way shaded of wrong'? Olodo first grade.

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    6. SWAG LAFRESH 9 August 2016 at 13:50

      Adadioranma, I'm very sure they eat it. It's not my father's right to take it. It's for other family men.

      We eat pork meat in my place.

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    7. Jasmine9 August 2016 at 17:13

      Auchi dey eat pork meat? Hian!!!

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    8. SWAG LAFRESH 9 August 2016 at 18:29

      Jasmine, i was born and brought up in auchi does not mean I'm from Auchi. Auchi is a muslim town and they don't eat pork.

      I'M NOT AN AUCHI GIRL AND I'M A CHRISTIAN.

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    9. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 22:41

      Jasmine don't listen to Swag La fresh, she goofed and is trying to cover up. Pork in Auchi? You can't find pigs anywhere in Auchi town. I am from South Ibie, LA fresh change

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    10. SWAG LAFRESH 10 August 2016 at 10:07

      Anonymous22:41, its a shame that you can't read and comprehend simple english. Keeper of certificate of origin, so na you born me to know where i come from. All most of you do it to find fault without reading and understanding. So because auchi dont eat pork, my village people should not eat? Why dont you people go to Jattu market and stop them from selling and eating pork. I don't blame you, south ibie people are the dullest people Ive ever come across.

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  23. Bee10(mummytwins)9 August 2016 at 12:39

    Na wa

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  24. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 12:40

    Lol. This one is small. My colleague said that the bride price and list is crazy

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    1. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 14:18

      Yes it is crazy but it certainly doesn't include fresh fish and pigs. Stella pls get d right info. #proudlymbaise

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  25. Sweetheart9 August 2016 at 12:41

    They need not buy food ingredients anymore na.

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  26. calabar Chick9 August 2016 at 12:41

    Mbaise people ooooo...!
    Stella its true o...I'm sure that person they are marrying is a Master holder hence the plenty plenty things...lol!
    Mbaise people I hail thee.

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    1. Jasmine9 August 2016 at 17:13

      Them no cost reach ur people and hausa na

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  27. mama amara9 August 2016 at 12:41

    Lies

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  28. OlaGold9 August 2016 at 12:42

    Pigs?

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  29. miss Aboki the great9 August 2016 at 12:42

    I read some on Instagram that it is a camerounian wedding ooo

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  30. Unknown9 August 2016 at 12:42

    Its not true pls; habba!

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  31. NORTH DAKOTA SIOBHAN (foot loose and fancy-free) 9 August 2016 at 12:42

    Not a pretty sight.

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  32. FINNY aka SWEET TROUBLE 9 August 2016 at 12:43

    No wonder they have plenty aunty gwegs over there. E.g Rita dominiic and Genevieve. Tho imo boys are good sha. Lee boo is an example.

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    1. GALORE9 August 2016 at 12:53

      So wrong @Steph...



      @Galore

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    2. NORTH DAKOTA SIOBHAN (foot loose and fancy-free) 9 August 2016 at 12:56

      That means there is no spinster where you come from? Wow! That's impressive.

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    3. miss Aboki the great9 August 2016 at 13:42

      People like Genny and Rita fit give the guys money to buy thething if them want na.
      Lets just say marriage is the least of their worries

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    4. I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF)9 August 2016 at 18:52

      Miss aboki,you think Genny and Rita are that rich?...
      Oriegwu!...

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  33. Adadioramma9 August 2016 at 12:43

    That is why they have the highest number of gwegwes.

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    1. I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF)9 August 2016 at 12:52

      True...
      Even their men don't marry them...

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    2. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 16:03

      This is big lie! Marriages happen everyday in Imo...If our men dont marry us, who will they marry? Check single&mingle post, u can never see a post from an Imo guy looking for a girl in d internet say wetin happen. When they ve beauties at home. U all are all jealous coa they married u cheap

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    3. Mao Akuh (Oriflame)9 August 2016 at 16:04

      Confirm before you comment biko nu.

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    4. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 20:47

      adadiora hw old r u? gwegz dey wait u

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  34. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 12:44

    Abi the girl pussy de extend human life??

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    1. miss Aboki the great9 August 2016 at 13:43

      Yes.it draws like ogbono and can clamp your very long hard dark strong something

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  35. Danny9 August 2016 at 12:44

    This is not true...not at all this whole Imo marriage thing is being exaggerated.there is no place in mbaise that such things are being requested for

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  36. Miss Ess9 August 2016 at 12:45

    Unto what na. This type of requirements can turn a very calm cool headed husband into a deadly wife beater in the slightest provocation

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    1. GALORE9 August 2016 at 12:56

      Abeg forget


      Na broke ass man go deyy vex

      For what now?


      This small list?

      The only thing I know is not right about that list is the "Pigs"



      @Galore

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  37. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 12:45

    That is not true at all

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  38. Eze9 August 2016 at 12:46

    Lmao..... I rather marry a man instead

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  39. Destiny changer9 August 2016 at 12:48

    How will they get Husband to marry them.you will see them close to 50yrs old not yet married.The bride price and all what they want to collect from the man will make him change his mind.

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    1. Mao Akuh (Oriflame)9 August 2016 at 16:05

      And your tribe no 50yrs lady(ies) that are unmarried?

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    2. Mao Akuh (Oriflame)9 August 2016 at 16:19

      I thought my Igbo BVs would verify before commenting. If you know IMO STATE too well, you'll understand that 'ESHI" / Pig is never included in any list from IMO State. Enugu is known for that, therefore whoever posted that picture online is clueless and lacks vision so I pity his members if actually he's a pastor.

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    3. Jasmine9 August 2016 at 17:15

      Mao, Enugu doesn't use pig o. Ha! They use Jackie (horse)

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    4. Cocoz9 August 2016 at 17:22

      Mao, you are right. Yes, mbaise's bride list is expensive and long but that pic up there is definitely not igboland! You can never gift pig (an animal with DIRT as it's symbol) to anyone talk more of as a wedding gift. #ProudlyImo

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    5. I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF)9 August 2016 at 18:50

      Hian Jasmine,it's Ebonyi people that eat Jackie...

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    6. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 20:48

      poor poor pple. that list up there isn't even much. hunger na bastard o

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  40. Miss Ferragamo9 August 2016 at 12:49

    adonbelivit!

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  41. She9 August 2016 at 12:49

    Stella this is totally and absurdly untrue. Am an Mbaise lady born and married. People should please stop all these malicious lies. How can you pay bride price with swine and frozen fish.

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  42. Ice Queen9 August 2016 at 12:51

    Lol,very funny Edo wedding is rhe simplest especially benin's

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    1. SWAG LAFRESH 9 August 2016 at 13:06

      Is it as simple as my village? Our own no reach 50 to buy every sef

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  43. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 12:55

    This can't be true, ibos generally have never been known to eat pork, so why pigs requirement? I am guessing this is a place in Cameroon or equatorial guinea

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    1. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 14:46

      Pls tell them

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    2. I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF)9 August 2016 at 16:03

      Abeg we eat pork meat wella...
      When we were much younger...we normally use pork meat for Sunday stew...
      The thing na ato shege!...

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  44. Mrs. Romas9 August 2016 at 12:55

    They have even reduced the number or required items. It used to be more than these items pictured on the floor.

    I have attended more than 20 traditional marriages in the Eastern part of Nigeria; especially in Imo Enugu and Anambra states.

    The last time i attended an igbo marriage, if i may recall was back in 2005 in Ihala (Not sure of the Spelling), the lists was endless. The town men requested none stop for different things. Thank God the both couples were up to the tasks. They knew their people and they were ready.

    Even Asaba people also have endless lists of dowry payment. Is their tradition and it can't easily be stopped.

    But i still love my igbo brothers and sisters no matter what. I miss those fresh eggplants and nuts puree. I even miss Okpa, Abacha and Ugba.
    I miss Nigeria jare.

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    1. PL THE GREAT9 August 2016 at 15:38

      Mrs romas is it ose orji you're calling nut puree? Nne supu!


      Kikikiki

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    2. Cocoz9 August 2016 at 17:29

      Mrs Romas we love you too!! Our food is superb. Ose oji is the name of the puree. Ugba and abacha with okporoko is the bomb!

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    3. SWAG LAFRESH 9 August 2016 at 18:31

      PL na groundnut and garden egg. 😄😄😄😄

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  45. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 12:58

    Benue or Kogi

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  46. D'Arc Ed9 August 2016 at 13:02

    Issorat.

    But won't this scare many guys away?

    I've always wondered how the common men in those community manage to marry. Or their list is subsidized?.

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  47. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 13:02

    Abeg anything can happen in imo. Jesu Olugbala

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  48. Oby O9 August 2016 at 13:03

    This is super annoying! I'm not from Mbaise but gor pitts sake how can you include pigs as part of requirements for a traditional marriage along with ice fish??? Biko people should stop this nonsense if it is a joke, it is very distaseful..

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  49. Som Som9 August 2016 at 13:05

    ELEWOO!!!

    Addonbilivit joor..



    **Som Baby**

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  50. MOTHER NATURE........9 August 2016 at 13:05

    Madam Stella lwkmd.... Are you kidding me that you haven't heard of this before? To marry woman for Imo state in general na war oh! The man must gather mind + get better Aklalapala (Money) Some part of Mbaise dey collect Jeep or its equivalent.

    During my time, they asked my hubby to buy Swiss wrist watch for my mother and other items that are so outrageous. My sister this things are real and are happening up till now. I had to ask my dad if this was the same list that was given to him when he came to marry my mom and if this is the same list they give to the guys based in the village and are not working.

    I mean, this is all shade of wrong and reasons most ladies are yet not married or will be married and beautifully maltreated by the husband because obviously the woman is a commodity not a companion.

    Village people?? Na when you wan do burial or wedding they go remember you come open your book lol. They are always excited because it is their hour to reap from where they did not sow.

    It is well oh!

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  51. BEDS AND ROSES9 August 2016 at 13:23

    This is not much na.
    Where is d 100tubers of yam.
    Box of clothes etc

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  52. excited courtesy9 August 2016 at 13:28

    impossicant.

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  53. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 13:29

    let the idiot that gave you the information say the part of mbaise where this happens. i think hunger is affecting his/her sense of reasoning. am so pissed. MRS O

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  54. HR BABE9 August 2016 at 13:30


    This matter will be investigated upon...... WHAT???? MBIASE IF THIS IS TRUE THEN U PPLE WILL HAVE TO FEAR GOD OH.... FEAR GOD OH... HIAN..

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  55. excited courtesy9 August 2016 at 13:34

    @ Trinity am from imo state and the list my people gave out was not up to this one, if the man loves you and is ready to wife you.

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  56. Pure Nigerian9 August 2016 at 13:42

    Akwa Ibom (most parts) is worse. Even though some stuffs can be negotiated on the list, others cannot. Anie ndik!

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    1. GALORE9 August 2016 at 14:04

      Abi oo...Anie ndik tutu.


      Na him this @Abasi pastor come put up yeye tweet say him go run....Like no be so Dem marry him sisters.





      @Galore

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  57. Mrs telema ronaldo(CR7 wife in making)9 August 2016 at 13:54

    This one is better now calabar will demand to the extent of demanding for okada and cloths with sewing machine.


    Proudly 5percent

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  58. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 13:56

    ***THIS IS ABSOLUTELY LIE. AM FROM MBAISE & NEVER KNOW WOT PIG IS ALL ABOUT IN MY PLACE TALKLESS OF USING IT TRADITIONALLY WITH FISH...HUH!. THE POSTER MUST BE HIGH ON INDONESIAN HARD DRUGS.

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  59. Akile 1.9 August 2016 at 14:10

    Afta spending dis much 2 marry sme of dis ladies, u still ci sme of dese women sleeping around behind dia husband's bck. Very sad,indeed.

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  60. Mrs. Romas9 August 2016 at 14:10

    They also ask for lady's keke (Bike), bundles of hollandaise and george materials with scarfs, shoes and bags. I love that though.

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  61. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 14:23

    I am frm imo state and my sis got married two years ago and her bride price was just 5k. The list was roughly 150k. I think it depends on the family and the community. Also my BIL pleaded and a lot of things was cut frm d list to dat amount.

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  62. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 14:23

    I am frm imo state and my sis got married two years ago and her bride price was just 5k. The list was roughly 150k. I think it depends on the family and the community. Also my BIL pleaded and a lot of things was cut frm d list to dat amount.

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  63. baba9 August 2016 at 14:24

    This can't be true, except the different Mbaises have different cultures. I married from Ahiazu Mbaise and was never asked for live animals, fish etc...that was about 15 years ago and i am Yoruba

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  64. Unknown9 August 2016 at 14:31

    I smell lies am from mbaise that list up there is not an mbaise list ...and yes am married.

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  65. chenygirl9 August 2016 at 14:45

    the people i know that dont joke with pork(pig meat) is nsukka .

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  66. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 15:10

    Galore you better remove Yoruba people from that your bent mouth you this cheap harlot. Make your fucking comment and leave Yoruba out of it especially when it doesn't concern them.

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  67. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 15:57

    Obviously, they are offloading stuff bc these as shown is not even a quarter of demands from Mbaise. True or not, that impression has left many Mbaise ladies in the spinster markets. Nobody wants to go and try to find out the hard way. The lady i wanted to marry lied to me that she is from Aba (she grew up in Aba) bc she feared I would run if she says Mbaise. That's how bad it is. As i later heard Mbaise, my people said even if I tie them, dem no follow me go. Na so e be o. I feel sorry for the ladies suffering from the greed of their village people. I be Anambra.

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  68. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 16:47

    I'm from abia n my parents gave hubby n his people list of 500k to pay on top of my head. I was mad! It created problem n dey said if he doesn't pay they won't give me away. Hmm, hubby wasnt impressed n it caused serious wahala wt my people n his own. I fought wt my parents. Big big issue.

    Wedding over, n I've cut my parents from my life. No one should blame me. Wonder when parents will stop making excessive demands of their children getting married. My parents milked him dry, n didn't contribute financially to my wedding. Hubby had to pay their tickets for them to travel for the wedding. I cried all thru d wedding period. It's unfair! Hubby is a good man, he didn't deserve such treatment. He Is very forgiving n has asked me to make peace wt my parents n call them but I've refused. I feel hurt n pained in my spirit. I'm still praying for the grace to forgive them. I even resolved for hubby's Mum to do "omugwo" when d time comes. his family Is full of love, it's amazing.
    So help me God in d journey to forgive my parents!!!

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  69. Unknown9 August 2016 at 16:58

    This is serious. Just for one human being. Na im make their women don reach 50yrs without any man to marry them

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  70. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 17:27

    Queen Ola Otu, just say pork and not "Pork Meat". Local girl be claiming Aje.

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    1. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 20:51

      aje ke? queen of pigs na heavy "loki" nau.

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    2. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 22:46

      In Enugu voice "egbe campu", who dash am Queen.

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  71. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 17:37

    Stella we marry each other ooo. But no pigs abegi am a medical doctor, yeah there are two types of lists for those who are educated and those who read not.

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  72. Anonymous9 August 2016 at 21:19

    And they make bad wives. I have two that have sucked the men dry. Carry all the cash home to feed their family. And leave the men in penury.

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  73. Anonymous10 August 2016 at 00:19

    When we have Bachelors' Night in our church, na one of the prayer points, "God no let devil carry Mbaise lady come our side" . Marriage to Mbaise lady should be listed as one of the 1000 ways to die.

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  74. Anonymous10 August 2016 at 00:23

    Hian. For Mbaise woman who go poison you, carry your money go give im family? God forbid. One town called Omuma in Imo State, all the ladies from there na badluck. Their village shrine go follow man render him useless financially. Everyone wey i know wey marry from Omuma are regretting it now. Although words have got out. Guys no wan take risk anymore with all the abiku/ogbanje/dreamkillers wey full there. Men. Beware!

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  75. Orekelewa10 August 2016 at 06:42

    Dirty hungry savages. No wonder they are uncultured from infertile. Undeveloped states.

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  76. Anonymous10 August 2016 at 10:28

    i hear of all these and would have been a victim too but thank God its all history now...they lreally need to look into that list of a thing to eneble the younger generation marry with ease.

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  77. Emy Wonder11 August 2016 at 00:19

    This is very true, na... Sometimes they demand for a car and a house, sef

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