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A MARRIAGE FILLED WITH RULES AND REGULATIONS

Good day Stella.please only matured advise  from experienced Bvs is needed .and Mrs Korkus your red ink is very much needed.here goes the saga I am into ,is just a summary ,no time for writing and checking vocabularies.

I have been married for almost 10yrs and done with kids.just stepped into my 30's .hubby is definitely my senior .Married out of love.My marriage has been very challenging from day one .most of you had a wonderful wedding night ,mine was soooo lonely .my hubby went clubbing and partying with girls and friends in a major expensive hotel here in lagos .

 I was alone in my hotel room  till the next day .no explanation whatsoever on that ,he even felt he shouldn't be questioned.meanwhile he begged me to marry him I would not tell you that it ever was rossy .marriage is like a gift ,when you open it ,what you see is what you have .every single problem I have now has been here ever since I said I do.so I buried my self in God.chasing clean money .family life .but now I am beginning to loose it. 

here are my problems .what do you think I do to remedy it .cheating on him or divorce is not in my dictionary even though I have got brain.beauty . good income and still very young.

1.I provide every of my need .I mean all .only get change from him once or twice a year .He HAS CASH

2. He keeps high class girls and spends so much on them .

3. Sex is extra boring .he says I am too decent .but when I learn new stuff from book and internet he becomes a monitoring spirit over me.

4. Treats me like an outsider

5. Has never taken me out .Scared when guys stare at me.

6.feels like a God over me so we can't communicate..

7.I am so scared and extra careful when he is around..

8.I am not permitted to have friends.married or single..

9.Says he can never be polite but when he sees other ladies he suddenly becomes a saint..

10. Goes to all his political or social functions alone or with his babe .

11.I am not expected to use any of his things .He will always say,go and buy yours .even when am damn broke..

And the list goes on .it has been like this from my wedding day .But I am tired of being a piece of furniture .I am emotionally broken and exhausted. I married him as a total novice.I grew up indoors.so I didn't envisage any negativity in life but here it is.


*You have lived like this for ten years and allowed him misbehave and maltreat you,trying to change things now requires God and a miracle....did you say you married for love?....Married for love as in you right?

You never complained in ten years but now you want to?Honey you need a miracle oh....a big one.
I dont know what to say sef!