NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
TIME TO CHOOSE..
Good Day Stella,
I am an ardent reader of your blog for the past three years and I need to tell you that you are doing a great job of saving lives if you do not know.
May God keep strengthening you.
I am an ardent reader of your blog for the past three years and I need to tell you that you are doing a great job of saving lives if you do not know.
May God keep strengthening you.
I got married last year to a very good man, although he doesn't have much but he gave me peace of mind, love and care after a lot of heartbreaks. After our wedding, I got pregnant and lost it. I work with a paint manufacturing company and I have been there before marriage. After the miscarriage, we were trying to conceive and last month I fell ill at work and fainted.
I was rushed to the hospital and tests were carried out. The doctor asked to see my husband and there he was told that I have to resign because the chemicals inhaled is affecting my ability to conceive. I started crying seriously not because I can't resign but how will we sustain. In this Buhari's era, two incomes are not enough let alone one. If I should resign, my dream of being self employed is gone as all we have saved is not enough yet.
My hubby likes kids so much and I have been begging him to make me work till December to be able to save a little.
He told me I either choose my home or my work. Please I need advice as I'm in between now. So helpless and don't know what to do. I can't wait to have my kids but scared to bits of financial insecurities.
He told me I either choose my home or my work. Please I need advice as I'm in between now. So helpless and don't know what to do. I can't wait to have my kids but scared to bits of financial insecurities.
Please urgent advice from this wonderful family is welcomed. Thanks.
The chemicals are not only dangerous for conception,it is also dangerous and could cost you your life..please choose health and resign ASAP.
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
FRIENDZONED BY LE BOO
Good Day Stella,
I am an ardent BV, although I seldom comment but I am a chronic addict of the blog, thanks for this forum.
I am an ardent BV, although I seldom comment but I am a chronic addict of the blog, thanks for this forum.
I am a 27 year old lady, I met a guy last year, let's call him Soji, I had just gotten out of a silly relationship that was going nowhere, Soji was everything I had ever imagined, he was religious and funny and even maintained he wanted a no-sex relationship.
I wasn't a virgin but I was fine with it, he was jobless at that time but I was doing small jobs and we started dating. We are both graduates, I started applying for both of us, God smiled on us and we both got jobs a month apart, he got first and in that one month, I noticed a slight difference in him until I got a job a month later.
He comes to my house, my mom and everyone liked him but one day, I finally parted with my cookie (that's how BVS call it abi?) After the act, Soji was so sad saying how wrong it was for us to have sex, the euphoria of the whole act died.
I started apologizing to him, vowing never to initiate sex again. My dear BVS, one day I was snooping and saw Soji's outbox to 2 different girls; telling them how he was going to give them oral, he was so explicit, I was devastated so I confronted him. He told me the most shittiest story ever, I forgave him, I couldn't tell anyone because his excuse sounded so stupid.
2months later I lost my job, we started having issues everyday, I had lost my trust, I snooped again and I found out he was telling his friends he was single and could never marry me. I confronted him, he denied and said we needed a break that I was fat and he only wanted me for a friend, so he asked we stopped dating and become friends.
I agreed because I love him, this time he was flirting with no remorse, I even had sex with another guy just to get him out of my head (it didn't work) but Stella, even as friends, he always wants me around him and needs my opinion on everything.
Dear BVS and Stella, am I wrong for rejecting his friendship?
My unrequited love is slowly turning me into a bitter suspicious person. Should I just cut him off or what?
He depends on me for most decisions he makes. I am so tired!
BVS say anything please, can you be friends with someone you love who doesn't love you?
BVS say anything please, can you be friends with someone you love who doesn't love you?
Sorry for my epistle and forgive my gbagauns..I am distraught!
*When it is over,IT IS OVER.DO NOT LET ANYONE FRIENDZONE YOU AFTER S3X!
If he doesnt need you as a girlfriend cos you are fat,then he should need your fat opinion.I am so pissed..you are fat how?
ARE YOU FAT?
Dump this brother already and you sef close your legs and stop thinking sex can invoke a miracle inside a relationship..you are complaining but have gbenshed someone else already..haba!!!
Move on abeg!
Tuesday's chronicles is here. Tuesday's chronicles is here.
ReplyDeleteUnu ya amacha ife dinma n'eche ka mmadu gwa unu...
DeletePoster two, a man tells us he wants u as friends, tells his friend he can never marry you, cheats on you and doing all sorts of things he isnt remorseful about and ur here sending chronicle... please no matter how fat you are, doesntmean you shud allow anyone treat u r shit.. put ur acts together, raise ur head like a queen that u are and move on and out of that friendship!
I dont understand how you can allow anyone treat u like that n still consider him a friend. No friend watsoever should do that! Biko leave that idiat and gada the little pride u hv left and move the hell on!!
Poster one, im sure that if it wasnt faint u fainted that day, God forbid say na die, u wont be here today sending chronicle... think about it sha, finally na ur life o, ur hubby can always marry a bew wife lets say u die or cant give him a child [Godforbid]
*like *new
DeletePoster one. Having children is priceless. Can't believe u are contemplating. End time wife.
DeletePoster two. Abegi go and lose weight first. End time fat geh
Chronicles have come. Inserts prick
Poster 1: pls quit the job, it could be doing more harm dan hindering conception. Now to think of this our country wia safety standards are not followed. We lost a naibor when younger to somtin he inhaled at work, leaving his JJS 3 tiwns n may pry schl kid.
DeletePoster 2: why re u sleeping on okada naw, the guy has told u thr whole truth and nothing but the truth. Ur story is a replica of a friend's story, d guy friend zoned her but wldnt make decisions witout her. She dint move on until d guy put up a girl's dp and when she asked, he told her she was just a guide to choosing the right woman. So sisteh! Carry ur kaya and move...
Posted 1. Quit the job and sue the company. A company with hazardous chemicals has the onus to ensure it's workers are duly protected. Only if we knew our rights in this part if the world. Do we even have any?
DeletePoster 2, move on already. You ll be fine
Stella God bless you for the advice you gave poster 2,May Joy surround you and your family.
DeletePoster two are you ugly? Y is it so hard for you to move on and find someone else?? Never keep just one man. Always have a spare just in case of fuck ups. And how can you date someone that called you fat? Mstewww come let me hook you up
ReplyDeleteHooke up o deception.... 😂, no games, I want a serious something.
DeleteDecepticon, talk true. U be pimp?
DeletePoster 1. You shouldn't even be thinking of which to choose,
ReplyDeleteYour health is more important here pls.
Yea. Poster 1, your health is the number1 thing. Poster2, you dont need to be around a guy who doesnt make you feel comfortable in your own skin.
DeleteP2 your self esteem must be very low. How can you let anyone treat you like that?? Are ur cord tied together? Abeg dump his ass, delete him from all ur social networks. Move on with ur life lady, face front! For all you know his presence in ur life might be chasing away suitors.. Let him go!
DeleteP1. Even before I got to the end of ur end ur write up, I already guessed ur work place might be a major 'causer'. Consider ur health and quit.
Poster 1 listen to stella
ReplyDeletePoster 2 leave his sorry ass and make the GYM your best friend
Now this is y I say 'just friends' don't exist between a man n woman.
ReplyDeletePoster two, if u can't be 'just friends' cut him off, this one u said u can't get him outta ya head after banging another guy makes me believe dis soji guy can fuck very well, anyway leave him, maybe ya something no sweet enof daz y he's changed.! Toodles.
Exactly BB!Maybe he has a very BIG dick dat rides well.i no go blame her sha.cos d sight of me seeing a big dick am wet already n ready to FUCK.
DeleteExactly BB!Maybe he has a very BIG dick dat rides well.i no go blame her sha.cos d sight of me seeing a big dick am wet already n ready to FUCK.
DeletePoster 1, August to December isn't so different if you claim you want to wait till December.
ReplyDeleteYour husband hasn't said he wouldn't be able to feed you if you quit, why don't you just do this for your own health since the doctor has already told you the effect of inhaling chemicals.
Don't let this cause a rift in your home when you know you'd still leave the job.
God will provide a better job. I belive you've had something saved to sustain you till you get something better.
Poster 2 after all you've seen with your eyes and he has told you verbally, you're still here asking questions.
You seriously need to concentrate on other things. If work isn't forth coming then go and learn a skill and stop acting like a puppy for a man who doesn't value you.
Please what is wrong with being fat? I appreciate fat ladies. Well take a break....
DeletePlease ladies before you date a guy, even if you are pretty, fair in complexion, tall,short, dark, fat etc. Find out what type of ladies he dates and have flings with. Sort out your profile on his dating page, before you assume he loves you. So don't confuse a good time to he is really into me. No his not. So Poster 2- if you know of you are fat... Find yourself a solution..
hahaha at poster 2... see question from stella (Are you fat) oya answer ooo. Better leave that your soji. afterall guys i know bearing that names are nonsense people.
ReplyDeletePoster 1..... kia i feel your pain. Take your doctor advice and leave the job. You dont know that immediately you leave that job, there will be an opening for you for another job. Just keep trusting on God. You might be lucky self. Oya go carry belle for oga.
With you fatty body, you go soji in P2 voice o. Poster 2, move on fast. Once you said he is jobless, he must be nice and loveable but as soon he get work, changes comes in. The guy is not meant for you.
DeletePoster 2, if he can give you some months from now till december, it would help you channel your savings towards your self employed. The Lord is your strenght.
Poster 1 when them tell una not to marry poor man una no go agree. See am it don happen.
ReplyDeleteEvery man that wants to marry should be able to Provide fully for his family with or without the woman s support.
How much dey that your savings account again oga? LAst time I checked, N6,205.00 abi Stella don pay you for the assignment she gave you over the weekend? Mechie onu there.
DeleteJames aka queen & boss how long will u continue like dis?
DeleteNobody should tell me u re not her cos it's so obvious
James aka queen & boss how long will u continue like dis?
DeleteNobody should tell me u re not her cos it's so obvious
Adadighioramma, it is either you are married to a poor man or a poor man is currently gbenshing ur toto
DeleteAnin, I agree with you on James aka stupid queen.
DeleteCheck their time, and they have the same terminology.
Yeah james@stupidqueen, am giving you tips, you change your style but you can't fool us. You too are same person, is only a after of time...nonsense
Cbvn ti de ooo
ReplyDeletePoster2
DeleteBeing fat is not a disease you need to Soji too he's just using you
Hahahahahahahahahahaha!
ReplyDeleteStella red pen to poster 2 is so funny!
Poster pls stick to stella's advice.
Poster 1, there are angels on this blog. Am sure you'll get a new job soonest
ReplyDeletePoster 1: Don't let the hardship in this country cause u ur life biko.Its not about doing it for your hubby cos he is even sounding selfish forming ur home or ur job.D it for urself, believing that someday, God will crown it all with kids, a job, money and happiness.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Borrow urself sense and unfriend him ozugbo he is a selfish onukwu he doesn't want a girlfriend in u but he slept with u, makes u regret it and is orally dishing it out to other girls.Then, here you come advicer of the century baa? U better use ur strength to get a good job n kick him outta ur life.
I remember an ex who wanted that ish with me. I cut him off sharply! Later realised I was the one after 3yrs he wants to marry decent chic and tried to warm his way I had already moved on. I don't believe in friendship after relationship. Doesn't just cut it
DeleteWhen I tell you people to stop mingling with ndi owu ite you people would never hear!...
ReplyDeleteSee how you are suffering because your man is not capable...
You have to resign then or you divorce that your husband...
Poster 2,
No REAL man wants to marry someone that looks like his mother...FAT is a disease and the earlier you start working on your body,the better for you...
You see my problem with girls mingling with dem broke ass!...most of them are wicked and heartless...
Poster,cut him off entirely!...if he wants your advise and company,he should pay for it!...
So true
DeleteU r right ....dat ur mouth is too wicked ....I almost cried for them posters.
DeleteProbably di guy di iru ka nkawu!
DeletePoster 1- ever heard health is wealth? Please resign. Fear is just a stop used by the devil to restrict us from Gods blessings for us. Please resign and trust God. Buhari this Buhari that.... The bible says when there's a casting down we would say there's a lifting up. Stop thinking negatively and resign for your health sake. Don't come and add sickness to 'buhari'
ReplyDeletePoster 2- Why do I feel like you don't even knew what you want? You'd at outbox of oral and you stood there and believed the he-goat? Wait until your confidence is fed to swine like pearls the you will have a brain reset. He keeps seeking your opinion. No be you dey give an opinion? If you no give am now he wan take am? Person dey build empire on top your head and you dey gree. Who even asked you to look for job for him? Over sabi!! You never know a man until he has money. And you've known yours now. Learn your lessons and pack up. Awon ride or die. Who ride or die epp?? Mscheeew!! Don't look for men who have their shit together. You people should keep playing with half baked men.
Officially my friend this chic! We reason alike!
DeleteThis chikito of a girl is so full of wisdom...will love to have you as my friend. Dnt even know how to get a blog ID 😕
Delete@smart move 😉
Delete@smart move 😉
DeleteDon't come under anonymous and start cussing me later. If you love me don't betray me 🙄
I love you already dis chikito chic.... Do you do girls?
Delete@Poster1, I pity you, please resign and see maybe you will get a teaching job to sustain for the main time.
ReplyDelete@Poster2, you have low self esteem that's why the guy is treating you like that. You even have sex with another guy and you let him know about is, please where's your self esteem? You need to work on your stature as said by your bf, it's killing your self confidence
*Larry was here*
poster one listen to your husband, resign and have your baby first, God will always make away for you, since you are not the bread winner why don't you listen to this good man that God gave you.
ReplyDeleteHave you talk to the creator about the whole issue? do you want your in-laws to start calling you barren and a witch? the final decision is from you. I will advice you listen to the man God placed above you, respect his wish and see God open doors for better job for you. Your health and baby is more important than that job, think about your health also as you are thinking of Buhari's time. I pray God will answer all the questions in your heart, start a small business with the little you have and see God lift you up.
Poster 1, I understand your frustration, in this buhari time, one needs a job to keep body and soul together.
ReplyDeleteBut hey, your health should come first no matter what. Kindly look for another job that will you don't have to risk your life for.
Poster 2
Babe, abegi carry yourself comot for that situationship. How can you be in love with someone who don't give about you, but instead he's playing games with by friendzoning you so you can feel better about yourself.
The guy is mean but you are not smart to notice. Leave him and go find yourself a man, not a public p-licker. And you need to run a test too and close your legs for your sake. Bye.
*a hoot
DeleteLwkmd@public p-licker adanne ur mouth na ak-47 lolzzz
DeleteFirst poster, begging in disguise
ReplyDeletePoster 1.resign and have your Children while You still can. Ur horseband should work his ass off and provide for his family. That is his duty.
ReplyDeleteSpot on👍
DeletePoster one I will advise you choose your home,God almighty who will bless you with a baby ,will provide for you,how long will u have to wrk and stay without a child,just choose your home and God will lead u.
ReplyDeletePoster 2,that guy is not meant for you,hr said you are fat and he need your fat advise no way,God will give you the right one .
P1. Whad do they mean if they say; health is wealth
ReplyDeleteP2. When I break up with my gfs, I dun make friends with em no more... We become 1st timers each time we see. Throw that useless boy away.
The whole world is suddenly turning their back against fat people.... Why?
Poster 1 - Your health is very important.
ReplyDeleteFind out if you can be moved to another department where you won't have to inhale the chemicals.
If not, you have to quit, not just for the sake of having kids but for the sake of your lungs.
Poster 2 - pls get busy.
If you like advise him, you like don't. If you like be fat, if you like me slim.
All I can say is get busy.
I don't understand how parents allow boys come visit their kids.
Now he is not there again, you will start seeing another guy and ur mum will get used to the new face. I just tire.
Every day relationship wahala.
Can't people just have sex without always attaching emotions? Or close your legs without expecting the best?
Chronicles these days get K-leg😒
ReplyDeletePoster 2,are you kidding me? U are fat and u are still looking for advice. Pls lose those excess massive weight. So another man can marry you. If not they will only be Fucking you and running away .
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ReplyDeleteDO PEOPLE LIKE POSTER TWO REALLY EXIST, ORI E TI DARU, OPOLO E TI SCATTER, FASHIE THE MOTHAFUCKER IMMEDIATELY, SOME OF YOU GIRLS ARE SOOOOOOO DULL, HABA, DELETE HIM FROM ALL SOCIAL MEDIA, BLOCK HIS NUMBER ON YOUR PHONE, BREAK OFF COMPLETELY AND START AFRESH, DO NOT EVEN BE HIS FRIEND, SORRY POSTER TWO BUT ODE NI E.
ReplyDeleteGbam grammar gbammest
DeleteNice one but you know its not that easy😊😊😊
DeletePoster what will it promise u to be have a wholesome account balance n lose ur home n organs of ur body to chemicals...? Don't u know children are a blessing from d Lord. Pls obey ur hubby n make babies now d time is right.
ReplyDelete1. RECEIVE 500k!
ReplyDelete2. What are you still doing with Soji? Are you a learner? Cut him off COMPLETELY!
Haba!!! She told u she needs 500k?
DeleteLol
DeletePoster 1, you can't make money nor have kids if you're dead! Please health first. The dangers of inhaling those chemicals are so much and life threatening in the long run. God will provide another job, goodluck!
ReplyDeletePoster 2, you can't be just friends with someone you're in love with, you will end up being bitter and sad. Please move on. Goodluck!
Chronicles is here...Pls cut ties with Soji.Give your life to Christ, depend solely on HIM and he will provide someone that loves you for who you are. Peace.
ReplyDeleteis alright!!!Ladies we should love with our heads and eyes wide open. Quit loving him the wrong way and love will definitely find you.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 dey say health is wealth quit d job.poster 2 leave d relationship a guy dat likes fat gals would com looking 4 u don't beg 4 his love dear,he doesn't love u dear.
ReplyDeletePoster one, follow Stella's advice.
ReplyDeletePoster two, what is wrong with you??? Move on already abeg and work on ur weight. Don't take him back even if he comes begging bcs he is stupid.
poster two why friendzone with a guy who said you are fat, if you are really fat and want to win him over why don't you work on your size since is only Soji that has blokos and prick that can satisfy you. Some body is saying i no do you say you must do. Is relationship and friendship by force?
ReplyDeleteyou better get sense and move on with your life, tell him if you are too fat to be his gf, you are also too fat to give advice to him. search for this name on facebook and join her weight loss class, you will see Soji begging you to marry him. Jessy weight loss.
Poster one please resign after all working there wont make you rich over night, please face your home.
ReplyDeleteI cant take cheat from an ex, what sort of friendship are you guys into, better leave that stupid boy and face your life cos he will do worse in future. Imagine saying that you are fat when he is broke combined with silly attitude, better borrow some brains dear.
Poster 2,have you ask yourself why he started disgracing you after gbenshing ur Toto? U never care to know why he totally lost interest in you after gbenshing you.
ReplyDeleteThe reason is that making love to a fat lady is challenging. It is a difficult task. You cannot handle her anyhow in bed .Everything requires so much energy. U feel tired and exhausted even after only one round as if you wrestled with a lion.
Hahhahahs
DeleteHahahahahahaha! Omg! Rolling @ wrestled with a lion. dude!
DeleteJAMES!!!!! Aint u mad?
DeleteE don do na, haba.
DeleteLove u James. Any day! How many lions av u wrestled with? 'Am a lion n I ride well. Trust me you wont be tired and of course your mentality go change.
DeleteHahahaha @poster 2,you see your self? Plz my advice to you is to go and loose weight.
ReplyDeleteTry and shed some weight some ladies are fat and beautiful and men love them that way but this one that a guy can't enjoy sex with you or even give you oral Cox of fat darrrrm.
Lose weight, focus on your career get a better job, raise up your self esteem I tell you men would come flocking and dying after you and thus your guy would be like feces in your eyes.
Poster one run from that job asap.
Mumu
DeletePoster two. Will you move on already ?! I hate it when people ask silly questions around me.
ReplyDeleteBe there waiting for Oracle to come and tell you the guy got no feeling for you.
@ poster one, all you have to do is to choose your family over money. Anyway, you need to improve on you writing style.
ReplyDelete@ poster you, well, Jst be His friend, but like our fellow bvn will say, better close your leg and pretend to be a mermaid, C one day, He will want to test the cookie jar again. Also improve on your writing style.
@ poster one, all you have to do is to choose your family over money. Anyway, you need to improve on you writing style.
ReplyDelete@ poster you, well, Jst be His friend, but like our fellow bvn will say, better close your leg and pretend to be a mermaid, C one day, He will want to test the cookie jar again. Also improve on your writing style.
James and queen, abeg i no get power to laugh. make una let me rest small
ReplyDeleteToo many dumb relationship stories from girls. Madam painter u won die, if that is the case then continue working... Miss fat lady please come my way i love fat ladies
ReplyDeleteShe is not a painter. Mumu
DeleteU "love fat ladies" as u put face like oporo(prawn). Yimu
DeleteNice he told you that you are fat instead of beating about the bush . Bcoz most Fat people do not usually know that they are Fat or they prefer to live in self denial and do nothing about their condition.
ReplyDeletePoster 2.it is left for you to stop being lazy. Start jogging early every morning until you come down to a normal girl size. Else.....
Until this gal get depressed b4 u go rest.
DeleteJames don see chronicles wey sweet am today. Lolz
DeleteToo many dumb relationship stories from girls. Madam painter u won die, if that is the case then continue working... Miss fat lady please come my way i love fat ladies
ReplyDeleteHealth is wealth my dear, those toxic chemicals have an after effect, & i can bet those required safety measures are totally ignored, as Nigerians trivialize safety precautions.... always saying "Dirty no de kill african man" & ignorant statements of such. Its best you quit while you can or u just might be carried to who-knows nxt time. FYI, some infants with "quarterpast eyes" & other deformities are a result of intakes from the environment....you dont want a kid ure not proud of, trust me. Money is good, but chase it with sense, not to the grave.
ReplyDeletePoster2; Hes not just that into you. sorry.
Gbam @atheist, cos I've even seen some fat girls who are in serious relationships and even some who got married, matter of fact, av met some crazy dudes who say they prefer to date fat girls lolz. So, poster 2, he truly isn't into you and is just using that as an excuse. After all, he saw you as a fatty before dating you in the first place.
DeletePoster 1. Pls quit, health dey say is better than wealth. God will smile on u, if only u believe
ReplyDeleteposter 2. The name u choose to call ur imaginary boyfriend says it all, pls "soji".
Poster 1 pls leave the job,u should be happy u don't have a selfish husband coz some men would tell u to still work pls ur life is more important than that money.
ReplyDeletePoster2 that guy never loved u,he was busy forming no sex and is chatting about how he would give someone oral,pls stay away from him ASAP. I guess the people he gives oral sex can help him make great decisions.
Relationships these days are quite alarming.
ReplyDeleteGod help us single ladies!
@ poster1 leave that job ASAP. @ poster 2 u need correct slap to reset ur brain. How there you let a guy put u down. Girls would never learn. I know of a girl wey wan die unto one guy matter, work the guy no get, stingy koko, she go work like wife but na like house help them go thank her, the guy can foLlow women wey old pass am but u no dey see the money for him body, na osho free he dey do. He can disrespect the babe ehn, if she catch am with all those him sugar mama na the guy go dey vex she go dey beg am, he go pursue her in 2days time she don come come resume her duties. The guy sabi borrow dey, he no dey ever get. If u see the he beat the babe ehn, I pity her. We don advice her tire she no hear. When them start their gbege everbody they form deaf oo.
ReplyDeletePoster one u need to take precautions becos of the the damage that the inhaling might do. Apart from kids,also for your health. My man's sis died of cancer from inhaling substances where she works. And you both can talk it out. Probably another job.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 pls love and value yourself. The guy said you are fat. Hes not good enough for u. Cut off ties with him and live your life.
Poster 2: kindly RUN from Soji. He is a parasitic animal.
ReplyDeleteHello BVs
ReplyDeletePlease I need help. I know the situation of things in the country is not too good right now but I have to ask you for help.
I need financial help to start an online biz which is domain flipping and parking.
To buy an expired domain costs BTW $9-$15
I'll need to buy like 10 or 15 domains and park them on parking sites. Parking them will generate income for me (based on CPC)
And the domains that I park need to have good rankings so I also need lots of data to search and filter in order for me to buy good domains.Been practicing with my phone without buying but searching,filtering and appraising gulped my data.
The domains can also be sold for profit.
And while waiting to reap from domain investment, I want to learn a handiwork - I don't have money for the training of this either
I also want to go into photobook selling on picture sites but I'll need a laptop for this( so this will be set aside as I don't have a laptop)
There are many avenues to make money online - fiver, affiliate marketing, bitcoin mining and so on
I've been in the labour market since 2011 but no beta job
I've been doing jobs that barely cover my t-fare.
I've always thought/dreamt I'll end up working in a corporate environment but that job is not forthcoming.(Time for me to park well)
I still depend on my aged father to feed me
Pls help me with any amount
Please help me
My email address is missace04@yahoo.com
N1: After death, will you yet be working? And would there still be a home or family for you? Remember life goes on regardless. Do the needful.
ReplyDeleteN2: The problem with we females is that we like entrapping ourselves in graves and cry foul.
There comes that point when dreams becomes fantasies, and reality that not make sense. I believe that's where you've found yourself. The question is do you want to remain a slave to your emotions? Thereby becoming someone else's puppet. Or find your path to greatness?
First thing first, empower yourself. Become independent and seek clarity. Love will come along. Stop looking at the colours, rainbow don't come after every other rainfall.
That how baby mamas are born....
Poster 1: my dear, think about your health and safety first before money o. It isn't about even having kids first,its first about your health. Those chemicals you are inhaling daily is destroying organs in your system and over a period of time can lead to cancer so my dear,apply wisdom cos life no get duplicate. Do as your hubby as suggested,start applying to companies,who knows as soon you'l get a job?
ReplyDeletePoster2: cut all ties with him. If he doesn't love you after eating the cookie,then he isn't worth you. Didn't he see you were fat before he asked you out? Move on,you deserve better. Cut all ties with him.
1. Your health first and allow God to do His.
ReplyDelete2. Sterra don vex for you. You sef nawa. There's no way POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE WILL meet and CURRENT won't surface. Tie your legs.
Are you fat? Hahahaha oh dear. James momeh where you @? Come and ask this poster your favourite question.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: life has no duplicate
ReplyDeletePoster 2: when it's over leave,stop watering a dead plant!!!!
Poster1: please quit that job and safe your life.... God bless your home
ReplyDeletePoster2: please move on with your life but whenever he needs advice you can give it to him
OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! JAMES u want make i laugh lose job ba? Lol.......
ReplyDeletePoster1 please quit that job now now,unless you are using style to beg.
ReplyDeletePOSTER PLS DO THE NEEDFUL...
ReplyDeleteI HAVE THIS TIN BODERING ME....HAVE BIN TYPING THIS CHRONICLE SINCE OOO I NEVA STILL FINISH,....
WHEN I FINALLY FINISH I GO SEND AM.
@Vels, Keep spending spending years typing your Chronicle until when any advice will become totally useless.
DeleteSex does not keep a man; good character does!
ReplyDeleteWhen you give a "man" "cookies" and he finishes eating it, how does that concern you? The cookies go out through the anus and that's it! Or perhaps he vomits it. In your case seems like the second scenario is the case or is it the first?!
ReplyDeleteDear poster one and two.... There's nothing more for me to say as Stella's red ink already stole the word from my mouth, meaning she has said it all and she's sooooo on point.
ReplyDelete*God bless my Angel in human form*
Poster 2,dump that arindin fast and move on, he's just using you. Hian!
ReplyDeletePoster2 babes what are you still waiting for? Soji is just using you and you are helping him use you. The easiest thing for you to do now is stop being his friend. He will use your ideas to arrange his life then stop talking to you then you will be more depress. There is no need staying in a ship which is not going your way. For instance if you are in Benin and you are going to Lagos you don't have any business with a bus going to port harcourt.
ReplyDeletePoster2 please forget about this guy and move on, your own will find you no matter how big you are, he is not for you.
ReplyDeletePoster 1...u r not inbtwn anything, quit dat job already* once there is life there is hope* Poster 2 ....Ama m ihe m ga agwa gi🤔 In this 2016?????😤
ReplyDeletePoster one God will give u a beta job, Remember nwakaego.so@ James d way u reason and talk calls for questioning
ReplyDeleteI have laughed over all that has been said.. feom the depth of my heart I appreciate every one who commented.. I am working on my weight and henceforth I have taken my exit from the toxic ship.. sdk thanks... I am humbled... everything would eventually work out.. I would share my weighloss story here.
ReplyDeletePoster 2,please don't lose your self esteem because of a stupid man, brace up urself and don't let him friend zone you,if u want to slim down,please register in the nearest gym but if not,it's your decision,biko move on with your life,life is too short...
ReplyDeletePoster 1: U need a good health to carry a pregnancy succesfully and stay alive strong as the mother of that child. Your health first, de rest later.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 : Common baby girl, i think u deserve better dan dat Soji OLOJE. Over is OVER, try de no contact rule if it will help u get over him, success.
Madam Soji
ReplyDeleteKeep snoopping
Snoopdog!
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