STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
REVENGE AND PLAYING SECOND FIDDLE TO AN EX
WHO MARRIED SOMEONE ELSE.
I need sincere and genuine advice for a good friend whom I can't advice cos of things that have happened before.
My friend is fews months away from 40 yrs old.About 3years ago another friend introduced her cousin who lives in the diaspora to her.She had been reserved about having a serious relationship with this man from day one,and when she visited the guy and found out that the guy is just an average or below average salary earner she made up her mind not to go deep with him.
She didn't tell our friend that introduced that man to her ,but she told us.
After almost 2yrs of dating,this guy asked to meet with her parents,she refused.He asked if she will marry him and move over but she said she had a good paying job in Nigeria that she doesn't see herself moving to where she will go and suffer.
After many excuses brother got fed up and broke up with our friend.Few months after break in communication ,another friend in he diaspora ran into this guy with another woman wearing look alike rings.
She rang home and informed our friend,on hearing that my friend put a call through to the guy and he denied wearing ring or having any woman with all his strength.
Stella all hell broke lose!
We called our friend all kinds of names,from spoiler,to enemy of progress,bad belle and carrier of bad news.
That was how our dear friend got mad and sent us pictures of this man and the woman wearing same ring down to our smartphones.
O ya now my friend called him again,and this time the man goes like though,"I am not married but you caused whatever you saw in the picture.I am a man with moral and dignity,I wouldn't have done that if you had accepted me".
Afterwards this guy called everyday and cried that he took the decision out of anger,that he doesn't really love the woman in question,after crying and begging for many days we all told our friend to take him back,that after all she caused it.
We started going from mountain to valley praying for the guy to forget completely about the new woman.
Things almost returned to normal and we did not hear about the woman again,my friend and her guy began talking regularly like before.fews months after the ring story,our friend gave us names to check up on Facebook and some whatsApp number,this time she distanced herself.When we got to Facebook and whatApp lo and behold our morally upright brother with his wife in front of the altar and the pastor opening windows of heaven upon their marriage.
Stella a day before church blessings my friend called this man,she heard a womans voice in the background but this guy denied it and ended the conversation sharp,sharp.
The truth now is that this man is married and we all know it,I don't know how to tell my friend to let go,because it is marriage we are talking about now,when I supported her ,we all thought it was just play.This man still claimed to be in love with my friend,but our friend who attends same church with this man went and interviewed the wife when the man was not in the church.The wife told her that she lives and works in another country and that she comes down every now and then,pending the approval of their family reunion.
This man works at night and my friend is always on whatsApp with him from night to morning,and when the guy wakes up in the mid day my friend is on whatsApp with him.
When his wife is around he will shutdown chatting or calling from the house.
My friend once told me that she is taking this guys attention so as to cause trouble in his marriage,that she has moved on with her life,but the truth is that she has not moved on, she wanted this man but she doesn't want be second wife,though our "born against"brother once suggested it.
She is doing everything to break this mans marriage.
My biggest problem is that I cannot give her a piece of my mind,because some of our friends are telling her to fight for her man.i also don't want to be called names.
I am afraid my friend might hit menopause while running after a morally bankrupt man and a serious medical entity.
*You see how some women just mess up what they want/have?If she wanted him,why didnt she say yes when he proposed?I dont get it!
And now she wants to break his marriage? And the man is offering to marry her as second wife?OH DEAR,I CANT DEAL!!!
I understand why you dont want to give advice and be called names but you encouraged her to fight for her man before so now it is your duty to be a good friend and tell her the truth.Let her call you names or shut you out but tell her the truth and have a free conscience.Tell her to stop trying to break that union and pray that God sends another man her way
Let me allow others advice you....
Look for an anonymous way to send her this link.
Hmmmm
ReplyDeleteJoblesshousewife
She had her chance and she blew it. She should rest and stop throwing herself at him mbok
DeleteYou
DeletePoster i didn't see where you said anything about the man finally going beyond being average. Or did your friend finally change her mind?
DeleteAnd you are who? Fuckmatehousewife
DeleteClose to 40 and you dey do shakara...i bind every linda ikeji spirit in you and your friend
Delete@crystal your head dey there, why is the lady giving herself headache, b has the man turned a billionaire?
DeleteYou guys have too much time to waste@poster and Co
From this narrative, the guys seems to have been married for a long time or could he have met and married someone new within a 'few' months?
DeleteAnyhoo, your friend needs to leave the dude alone since he's married. Why would a right thinking human decide she's going to break up a marriage especially when the guy isn't willing. The wife did not drop from nowhere o! She's a human being and has creator ( Yorubas will say Eleda) ... Let thunder not strike your friend with this get evil plan, she had her chance and she blew it! She should move the heck on! Eish!
Lol so your friend didn't want him cos he was poor and below her level, then dumped him, he moved on and got married, she attacked him, the brother actually liked her and has a conscience so he played along like he was still single, then she found hard evidence that he was actually married and now she wants to destroy the marriage? The guy did nothing wrong. He is a better person than me cos he owed her no explanation or apology. She should better leave that couple before God punishes her. At almost 40 she shld be wiser. She's close to menopause and she is still trying to pick and choose? She shld have just married him and had twins sharp sharp with ivf since she is a rich babe. Then be living her life in Nigeria while he continues managing there. She f*cked up. I don't know if she has feelings for him or it's just paining her that he found someone else. The energy she is wasting on this man she could have used to find her own man. Tell her to stop being so damn picky. Age isn't on her side.
DeleteRobyna... R u me? We think alike ooo... Best advice.. But she has lost her chance
DeleteWhich kind circle of friends be this sef?
DeleteSerious your friend is very annoying, she had no intention of being serious yet she dated him for two years, she had no intention of marrying him n broke up with him yet she is having hbp because the guy is married. She messed up big time n now it's time for her to let go.
Deletewho send you work?
ReplyDeleteAny woman that tries to break another woman's legitimate home so she can enter, may her life be destroyed in the process. Amen
DeleteIbukun am on the mainland, Ikeja, hit me up!😚
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi ( Stellz Cousin )
*clears throat*
DeleteEwwwww ibukukunoluwa you are nasty
DeleteKelvin and ibukunoluwa Kwakwakwakwa.😄 won't kill me.kelvin oya answer.
DeleteObara Jesus.
Delete*clears throat and lungs join*
DeleteIb, kelvin is reach. Hit him up jor. He will pay
DeleteSo the value is cold stone pizza
DeleteChai
Babe thou art cheap
Y is your friend try in to break the man's marriage? It's unfair. She expected him to be hung up on her or what? Now he's married she won't leave him alone. Your friend has issues
ReplyDeletePoster you are d bitter gwegs, there's no 3rd party. I'm sure u went to babalawo too. Hahahaa God punish u.
DeleteYour circle of friends are group of hypocrite
DeleteHow is the guy her man what's in telling her the guy belong to another woman who isn't materialistic
Birds of feathers
This lifeeee!
ReplyDeleteIs this man the only man alive? I kept on seeing 'man', 'man'. Wasting her time. Not like she is abroad and can do much harm to the marriage if its vengeance she wants. Your friend has the mindset of a 16yr old teenager in a 40 year old body. She wants to be chased forever. Man himself is a weakling. They deserve each other.
DeleteThe man is even foolish for explaining himself to her. He must be a weakling that she monopolizes. What kinda fuckery is this? You refused his proposal but u don't want him to move on. Truth is, She still doesn't want the man, she just needs him around to kiss her ass whilst she looks for her 'ideal' man. The attention she gets from him is about the only thing keeping her going. So she misses that and wants to use him for that purpose.
DeleteOr have u seen any lady who doesn't like a man, care about whom he ends with? If she had plenty men on her case, would she even have the time of day to disturb the man she despises and refused his proposal? Duhhhh Make una think am na.
I'm out of this annoying post mehn.
A fool at 40. Foolish old cargo.
ReplyDeleteIn fact, what do we do with this silly narrative involving an old cargo who has refused to have sense?
Are you sure your friend is mentally stable? Many are mad, few are indeed roaming. Silly mumu acting like She's still in her teens. I laugh
Hohohohohohoho
Na only advice dem ask you for. The way you dey vex for everybody so, e be like say na devil be your father o.
DeleteCalm down o, the way you are going you will develop hypertension for another person's malaria o. I pray God gives you peace love and joy beyond your present hate.
Hahahahaha, quickie, na wetin?
DeleteUseless chronicle, I ve stoped wasting my time advising stupid girls.
DeleteAnon 16:28, Your father is the devil, you moron. Did I tell you I'm lacking peace, love and joy?
DeleteAll you people know how to do is scream "hate" when one types a comment. Pls get the fuck behind me!
Lmao!
DeleteTell your friend religiously ,then severe all forms of communication with her,bcos if that wife starts a marathon prayer over her marriage.the thunder, the thunder,the thunder that ll fire everyone in that ur circle.......hmmmmm isokay
DeleteMadam friend, please ehn I had a headache reading this story.
ReplyDeleteWhat night school did you attend again? Why didn't you give your child or someone to proof read before sending it in? Don't try this next time.
Back to the problem at hand, at 40 your friend is still chasing a man about like a school girl.
What did she use her youthful years for?
Is that the only man in the world? Or maybe they told her that's they man connected to her destiny reason she won't leave him.
Ehn let her marry him as a second wife since he is the one asking. Abi what's your own. It seems you're equally unmarried that's why you have all the time to fast and pray for a man to forget another woman and marry your friend.I'm sure said man will have a belle as big as world cup with nothing to his name but will be living on women like your friend that's why he keeps coming back to beg and why she won't leave him be.
Infact, I'm done.
I thought I was the only one.
DeleteJudgina. You give good advice but you need to tone down the judging.
DeleteShe wasted her youthful age dating married men.
DeleteSome people find it difficult to let go. Even when the door closes, they will still find way to peep through. The babe was busy forming for the guy until the guy turned to another direction. Now that she has woken up from her slumber, she should move front biko. Efe adiroziii! Guy don find another ministry.
ReplyDeleteNaaa waaahh..
ReplyDeleteShe is the 'causer' of her problem. Tell her the truth, distance yourself from the whole drama for a while.
But tell her the gospel truth first, tell her it's time to move on from that situationship! Its time to move on my dear. Cos she'll gain nothing by trying to breakup their marriage, no gain whatsoever.
I pray she meets her own man who will love, protect and never deceive or cheat on her. Its well
Please who get problem between you and your friend? The man proposed and she rejected him, now the man is in love/married another person, what did you want us to do?
ReplyDeleteWhy does she not remember her age when he first proposed? I still don't get this chronicles @all, please what did you want us to do now?
*Larry was here*
Na wa o.
ReplyDeleteMrs korks...to much shakara is bad oo.
Na so I do shakara, my crush leave me.
Mrs korks,i love the dude,i have prayed for him to call me....i was so frustrated that I blocked him on fbk, now I wish I didn't.
Make all BVS pray for me oo,if he calls me,i will send shooki.
Or what should I do???!
If u insult be,no wahala,but give me solution.
My name na A N
Find his lookalike na.
DeleteI don't understand babes oh. You like him, he likes you. He toast you, you no gree. Only you carry hand block am. What do women really want??!
DeleteAbeg guy man don leave you be that. Why over forming in the first place ? No advice for you here.
Delete@ anon 15:09, if you love him like u said and the space of time between you two talking to each other isn't much, Call him. Don't sound desperate & all that with his tone you will know if he is still 'available'. Forget your pride n ego....Call him
DeleteU never know
...daz if u still have his number
DeleteThis is what happens to "the marry him rich folks". so a "salary earner" is now a curse? Oh this is why so many women languish in loneliness at 40. I married my husband straight from school; no job, no nothing. Today, about from 5 years down the line we never remembered all that!
ReplyDeleteShe's a 'set my priority right' woman yet cant face the bitter pill of rejection. That is why she's hanging on. The need to be wanted.
Deleteyou need to do your home work, am not a party to ladies who try to break other people's home, God will not forgive her for that. All your friend need at this moment is to pray to God to let all her pains go away and for Him to bring her own man her way. There is nothing impossible with God if only she can be patient and prayerful. Do not fold your hands while your friend break that home, someday karma will have your address.
ReplyDeleteAll the best.
She didn't want the man why is she now pained that he moved on?? Please tell her that she can't eat her cake and have it back...
ReplyDeleteWaris dis pls
ReplyDeleteYou didn't want him
Now someone else has taken him and you are fighting
For what exactly
Una sure say she dey alright?
Make una check her o
I understand that at 40 she is desperate but causin havoc in her fellow woman's home will it make her own life better? If it will then she should knock herself out karma doesn't exist anymore so tell her not to worry and get ready for a blissful union with someone's husband
ReplyDeleteI am compelled to share this story here for these kinds of ladies that are so picky when it comes to husbands. Pride and greed is the curse not "average salary earner";
ReplyDeleteI used to work in a finance firm. Once a lady client of mine who came back from the states to settle in Nigeria was in my office for "investment talks". She was sitting before me when a "friend" of mine came into my office, sat on the sofa and began to peruse an investment magazine. I noted the surprise on both faces as they greeted. The next time the lady came (she actually came earlier than scheduled) to sign her documents, the first question she asked me was; who was that man the last time? I told her he was the co-founder of the firm. She instantly broke down and wept like a baby. She told me that she had met the man at a gas station the first week she came into the country and had refused to give him any chance to date her. Her reason frankly was "his kind of car"; Toyota camry (the lady drives a lexus suv). Really, my boss had just one "superior car" but preferred to ride that particular car.
This lady was in her mid thirties and single then; from the documents she submitted. I knew at least part of my boss' worth (more than a hundred times this lady's investment which was huge) but he lived very much lower than his means. It was what I learnt from him that made me quit my position in his firm to start my own business and I'm not doing badly at all.
Wow... See life,most times people forget that the content of a container is more important than the container.
DeletePlease can you kindly link me with your former boss. I have a BSC in Banking and Finance with over 8 years work experience but currently unemployed. I'm female and married, so this request is strictly professional. Thanks
DeleteNa wa. This story again? Change your style madam
DeleteAll I typed just Waka go???
ReplyDeleteHeeya Pele...next time COPY as u TYPE...
DeleteHmmm!! What God has joined together let no man put asunder because the thunder that will strike the person will be hotter that steel.
ReplyDeleteShe doe not want to marry him and suffer abi? Now that he has seen someone who wishes to take him the way he is she is acting jilted game. Misplaced priority!!!
Infact I need chizoba to comment on this post! Lol. This is her best!
Marriage is not by force, ur friend was a senior Gwegs(37 years) wen she got introduced to d man, she dated him for almost two years but bcos guy is just an average or below average salary earner she made up her mind not to go deep with him.
ReplyDelete. so wots her own now? Was she expecting d guy to keep waiting for her forever. Ur friend abroad is a home breaker as well; correct monitoring spirit. U all need to sip coconut oyel n learn to mind ur business. Mschew
Even if na to get belle ...Shebi she for get am
DeleteMmmmmmmttttthhhheeeewwww
They are all frustrated old cargoes,poster inclusive.
DeleteDon't mind her. She was just dating the guy while hoping someone "better" would show. Alas that didn't happen and now it's too late for her. Guy sef head nor too correct. You with below average salary that wants to marry two wives. I guess he saw the desperation in them. Marriage is good but Nigerian women should take it easy as you don't have to be married to be happy oooo issh!
DeleteI read the story twice and I can say you and your friend are the same, you're both evil and diabolical!
ReplyDeleteThe guy proposed, she turned him down because he is "below average", a friend sees him married and suddenly your friend wants him back?
The you guys started going to prayer houses so he'd forget the new woman, his wife?
Y'all are evil!
Shouldn't the man move on?
Shouldn't he find love elsewhere?
Whatever your reasons for bringing this here, I see you as a hypocrite, after urging her on on the mission to scatter another woman's home, you suddenly turn "a new leaf" because you thought it was for fun?
Would it have been right to scatter a new home if it was for fun?
You all need deliverance, I've got no advice for wicked people.
*Do unto others..........
SHARONNA
They are rejected old cargoes as well.
DeleteNa wa. The woman is on a revenge mission. She has not moved on, she is sick to the stomach because she cannot get another man.
ReplyDeleteMake una go another mountain for her so that her man will locate her.
serious gobe
Let her hit menopause naa, who cares! Shakara no dey pay!
ReplyDeleteD wife should go diabolic on her if she can.
A fool at 40...u know the rest.
ReplyDeleteI hope u don't mean she's a fool forever 😩
DeleteBad child😂
The devilish woman in this chronicle need to get some sense into her sick skull.She had all the chances,and messed it up,now she want to spoil anothe woman's happiness.
ReplyDeletePride goes before fall,gf your fall was a bad one.
He told you that he does't love his wife,you think he loves you? I have some groundbreaking news for you,you are a loser,and a future baby mama.
It is obvious that the man is greedy,all he wants is a regular sex pather whenever he travel down home,since you claimed to be rich he wouldn't mind to pregnant you,and you will raise the baby alone
You will know,no peace until you leave that marriage.Men can be very ungrateful sometimes,it takes grade A oloriburuku to cheat on a woman that take you for who you are,with gold digger,that is always the problem when your balls are bigger than your brain
She's an old woman and you're still talking about Baby mama. May she have bigger issues in life that will make her not have time and energy to break another woman's home.
DeleteThat man is married and the earlier she realizes that she is fighting a lost battle,the better for her.Age isn't on her side oo
ReplyDeleteOk, this chronicle is so annoying. Dats y she is a gwegwz. At her age she doesn't know wat she wants.
ReplyDeleteI js tire joooor. She is js frustrated.
I don't get it! She didn't want him but got angry seeing him with another woman and wanted him back, she's moved on now but wants to break his home. My dear, your friend is the one with a problem here which she probably doesn't know about yet. She needs some serious reset slaps to get her back to default settings. Do her a favour by talking some sense into her!
ReplyDeletewhy do i have a feeling i know the lady in question?
ReplyDeleteIs she in ph?
Her younger sister is married with 3 daughters
Chai! Oriegwu O! This one na senior gwegs wey dey select, doh
I dont get. He proposed, you said no cos he earns peanut. He moved on, you want to ruin his marriage.If you are not lucifer himself, then tell me who are you?
ReplyDeleteShe is not serious;when she was avoiding him she has forgotten:so y is she now trying to spoil De man home,Bad belle she beta go and look for the rich man she wanted.
ReplyDeleteThis ain't a chronicle.
ReplyDeleteYou all must be sick the head.
The guy came for your friend but she was too choosy, now he found love and she is coming for a spilt tea.
The guy is prolly playing with her to pay her for the wasted time.
The earlier your friend realises that she has lost the guy the better for her.
Arrant nonsense!!! #whatdogirlsreallywant?
That your friend is a confused bitch!
ReplyDeleteShe never wanted him cause she felt he was not all that and she deserved better and now that the man has gone ahead to be with someone else she's acting a fool.
She should keep trying to destroy his marriage and she will never have a man of her own.
Such a shitty woman.
Seriously? At almost 40 ur friend still doesnt knw wat she wants! Fight for her man my foot! Which man exactly is she fighting for? A man she rejected stating that she has a better paying job?
ReplyDeleteListen, that man will only fuck her and forget her, she wants to come btw himself n his wife claiming her man? She must be taking some serious brain damaging drugs to hv comeup with such unbelievable lies!!
Anyway, im going to advise u to tlk to her to go n get her own man!!
A typical case of if GTB's ATM dont dispense cash, visit UBA... and u n ur friends want the poor man to die there. Smh
She rejected his marriage proposal & is mad he married someone else?What advice do you/does she need?
ReplyDeleteJollof rice is Bae 🙌🏾
she had her chance and she felt she was too much for the guy to marry him but was ok to date him. Someone else has accepted the rough diamond thrown away and polished it she now wants him. see how foolish your friend is in her late 30s. dont call the guy a "born against" cos he is just paying your friend back in her own currency. I am sure he wants to string her along too just as she did him not right but hey na so life be.
ReplyDeletethere is nothing your friend can do to break that marriage oh nothing cos woman wey like the "low earning" man so tey she travels from her base to marry him is ready to go the long haul.
P.S. He is no longer her man because he is MARRIED to another woman.
Ur friend is wicked and selfish. Just as she is planning to cause trouble, the man is planning to waste her time. Guys do intentionally play with women ooo, dont ever think u are too special just bcos dey give u attention. He loves his wife and he will spend all his life with her.
ReplyDeletejust imagine, some women can form sharwama,and fried rice as if others na jellof rice rubbish!why is frustrated when she is looking for a man that lives in the white house, pple like her never get anyway. she should step up her game on destroying another woman's marriage while she is hitting menopause. I wonder who cares about her menopause anyway.
ReplyDeleteTruth is that man wont marry your friend,she is just wasting her time,hope she isn't a gwegs cuz of her evil heart.devil is just using her friends to ginger inside trouble
ReplyDeleteThis one na aproko 'my friend, our friend'. Mechanic no gree us know who come be madman again. People be changing stories of their lives and filling the whole story with my friwnd, your friend, our friend. Poater oya allow the man be. You lost your chance when you had it.
ReplyDeleteThe poster is the bitter rejected old hag.
Delete*poster
ReplyDeleteBut you know that man won't marry your friend Sha?
ReplyDeleteBirds of the same feathers....After wasting their youth they become desperate at old age. I am sure they went diabolical to destroy the marriage but the thing no work. She used the word prayers abi? I laugh in egbira. EVIL WOMEN! Your plans will never work because the man and his wife are both innocent in this case. At her age instead of planing how to get her own man she is busy planning the downfall of a fellow woman. *longest hiss*
ReplyDeleteDon't mind them. Association of bitter old single women.
DeleteAt that age no common sense and she actually needs a man. Odiegwu
ReplyDeleteShe needs deliverance asap.
Most people are in this situation. Na so two babes enter one country. Lodge for hotel. Guy man with good job see both of them but prefered one to the other. The prefered one come de form levels sey e too fine. The other one come go mountain pray for husband whether she prayed for this man oh, i dont know. God answered her prayers and diverted the attention of the man to this new one. Right now they are happily married but the first shakara one come de feel slighted. They are no longer in talking terms. Friendship come scatter.
ReplyDeleteHer first complain was that the man doesn't earn much, now that she wants him back does it mean that the man now has more money? Anyway, some people are terrible, they do not want something and at same time do not want to leave d thing for someone else that wants it. Awon olori buruku somebody
ReplyDeleteThat your friend head no correct sha, why does she want to break his marriage na? Shebi was forming for him? Dude obviously loves his wife and won't leave her for an anty gwegs, tell her to move on. Its hard moving on but common time ain't on her side. But wait oooh, what the hell has she been doing wey she never marry till now? She was probably forming fine girl. See her now disgracing her age over a broke man sef.
ReplyDeleteDoppleganger you are a fool.
ReplyDeleteJudge Judy and I know it's ur type that does osho free and d guy will collect ur money join.
Must you abuse the poster, are you married urself? Yes, there are some friends dat carry dere friends matter for head bcos dey got eachodas back. You seem like d selfish type dat if ur friend confide her problems to you, u will relay 10 problems to her.
Instead of judging like ur a saint, just advice and keep shut.
Shut up u second wife material.
DeleteEhm ms insecure looked down on me insecure. Mr insecure got him a wife to boost his ego without being determined to build his self esteem. Both confused a Nd trying to deal with an issue selfishly. Rather than looking within and know your worth.
ReplyDeleteMs insecure please take responsibility and not revenge. You attract what you got!
I am going to be very blunt with you,part of the reasons your friend didn't get married before 37 is the fact that she was too choosy, she kept on searching for an "Already Made Man, then God decided to open another door for her,mind u she was introduced to the guy not like she met him on her own and she closed the door with both hands.What makes her think she wouldn't have made it in another country? Atleast the man isn't ideal. She only waited 2years coz she thought the man could come out of the so called below average level. If only she had said yes, the story would have been different and maybe the man would have had a better paying job u never can tell. Well, u can't eat ur cake and have it. She can't destroy that marriage, she is wasting her precious time.
ReplyDeletePoster, I do not think that the man is still interested in your friend, he is just giving her a soft-landing. Some materialistic women always have this problem - her major interest was the guy being rich but now she has missed him, she starts crying wolf.
ReplyDeleteHow does she want to destroy the man's marriage? The man can cook up any story for the wife if caught on phone with your friend and it will work for him because she's far away.
No need of crying over spilled milk, she should move on and open up for other relationships - she may be forty, yet God has her desire at heart.
May she find peace ASAP.
How come no one is bashing the man for not facing his marriage. Im sure if he totally ignores the gwegs there would be no need for this chronicle.
ReplyDeleteBut even if we bash d man for not facing his marriage, who will convey our message to him?
Delete1)Is it d 40 year Anty Gwegs who is approaching menapouse n doesn't know what she wants
Or
2) the poster who can't talk sense into her friend's head probably cos she toonis a Gwegs n doesn't want to be seen as an enemy of progress
or
3) the Anty solo makinde a.k.a radio without battery a.k.a monitoring spirit.
Infact dat man is just a woman wrapper, we need men like James to reset his thinking faculty. James where art thou? Kikiki
How come she's fighting for the "shit" she rejected? Doesn't she know that anything you discard as "rubbish" automatically becomes public property?
DeleteI am so happy for the guy. God bless his home.
ReplyDeleteOshisko! Aunty agbaya........at forty. So guys who are not rich should goan die abi?
You come and be diabolical join. Na by force to marry you? Na your type dey turn hubby to mumu.
End time hindsight
ReplyDeleteUr friend doesn't want to cause any stupid trouble. She wants the man for herself. Tell her the truth abeg. Let her back off. Even if she hates u later or call u names, at least u helped
ReplyDelete@ 40 this aunty can't even think right, but imagine the useless man without brains. He want to marry a 2nd wife, he is just fooling her
ReplyDeleteStupid woman but she had her chance before now. She blew it up. She go old for her papa house.
ReplyDeleteTell your friend to go and join monastery, she don blow her last chance of getting a man o. No single guy go marry 40years old woman. Rubbish.
Old fools that will be forming marketable, that was how i saw one of my old secondary school mates after i don born all my shildren (LOL) i was like 'why are you not married' . I turned it to my personal project cos babe is fine and well read with good job to get husband for her, A friend that lost his wife was looking for a wife, being born again he didn't want to fornicate just introduce and marry. He wanted mid 30s cos he didn't have any kid and my friend was 40, i begged him that she can still give birth, only for the stupid girl to tell me the guy was old i mean 50years widower without a child. she do shakara so tey the guy leave am marry, she started disturbing me for his contact after eye clear that no market for her again. that was how she missed tall, dark and handsome with good swag.Nigeria girls can pose for Africa and use husband to do boyfriend before you know it they have reached menopause.
ReplyDeleteif you like insult me, reduce your expectations once you are over 35, you are competing with girls in their 20s
Hmmm the mistakes some of us made are terrible.May God have mercy on us and give us another chance.
DeleteShe did not want him in the first place, and he found solace in another woman's bosom, then your friend wants him back!
ReplyDeleteYour friend sounds like a spoilt child throwing a tantrum! If she cannot have him, then nobody can! Now she wants to break up his marriage?
You see why we women continue to be our own worst enemy? As a friend, you own her the duty to tell her the truth! If he can lie to her, he will do same to his wife and call your friend a desperado who does not want to let go!
What makes you and your friend thinks the wife is not spiritually stronger than all the Waka Waka unah do for her head? My sistah, witch strong pass witch abeggyy! Tell her she is wasting her time and energy! Let her direct it to something else!
Normally I won't bother because I'm sure BVs are very capable of dishing it hot but this just confirms what I have always known. Women want what other women have. He broke up with her because she refused him, a friend sees him with another woman, rings and all and bam! She calls him. Being the man-woman the guy is, he denies. She is just deceiving herself thinking she will break them up. She is merely wasting her time and toying with her own emotions because fact is she still feels something for him if not I see no reason for investing time in such a futile venture. Hope she is making money she will enjoy at old age. Not everybody will marry truth be told.
ReplyDeleteNormally I won't bother because I'm sure BVs are very capable of dishing it hot but this just confirms what I have always known. Women want what other women have. He broke up with her because she refused him, a friend sees him with another woman, rings and all and bam! She calls him. Being the man-woman the guy is, he denies. She is just deceiving herself thinking she will break them up. She is merely wasting her time and toying with her own emotions because fact is she still feels something for him if not I see no reason for investing time in such a futile venture. Hope she is making money she will enjoy at old age. Not everybody will marry truth be told.
ReplyDeleteWhy should a lady insist on marrying a well to do man?materialism is evil,marriage should be based on love.i got married @23 n hubby wasn't rich but am in my mid forties n God has blessed us abundantly.so for a lady of that age to put wealth first is foolishness
ReplyDeleteYour friend is sick in her brain at 40 she doesn't know what she wants or good for her, you had better tell her to start praying to God for another man to show up in her life, instead of trying to break other people marriage.
ReplyDeleteThis one na the proverbial ogbenye (pauper) & amosu (witch) at same time! Your is a COMPLETE LEARNER... She doesn't want him and in her mind, nobody else can have him. She'll spend another 15 years "trying" to ruin his marriage and suddenly wake up from her slumber & realize she's 55 years old and LONELY
ReplyDeleteSome women love what they can't have. When he was within her grasp, she wasn't interested. But the moment he became another woman's man, she became interested. She shouldn't be a sore looser. She is only wasting her own time. The man and wife will be there making babies.
ReplyDeleteLike i didn't read well; I had to read again. Your friend has issues, correct one. At 38 then she told a man she wasn't interested, dude got married and she is all over him. Aaahhh dem don get your friend very well from the village, better principalities and power. She better leave a married man and his wife alone jejely and pray out her own husband. I don't want to believe bro was married and was chasing her that much to such extent, maybe he had the two of them but loved her more to be his wife, when she fucked up he switched to option b. If your friend breaks that woman's home how will God answer her prayer? She should move on please, in fact, fly off to a desert. Ayad mi doh owod. See as i deh vex self. Mtcheeeeeeewwwwwww.
ReplyDeleteCircle of hypocritical friends. Very wicked circle of friends. Na una deh do the babe sef and unfortunately she does not have a mind of her own. You people should join hands and beat the demon disturbing her out of her, in the process of beating her shout on her to leave that man alone, like that she will regain her senses and she would distance herself from him. Then the onisekuse man should be threatened by all of you that you would contact his wife if he does not stop all communication with your friend. Aha!
ReplyDeleteMy dear forget about that man and don't even think you can destroy the marriage cos what God has joined together you can not and will not be able to put asunder. Just ask for forgiveness and pray and wait patiently for your own.Wish u good luck.
ReplyDeleteLol at 38????i'll pass
ReplyDeleteAll these silly peeps on here! Calling women Gwegs!I do not normally comment on SDK!I am 40 with a very bastardly rich fiance and I turned down a lot of guys! And I am sure if I stand with all you ladies between 25 and 35, they will pick me and not look at you guys twice! as I am a natural yellow pawpaw who has traveled the World! Let Women be!I am proud to be 40 and not married because I am living my God given destiny!This life is not a race! some of you at 30 after giving birth to all your kids,you look very old and haggard!Who cares and this lady must be a bad friend!how is it her business? Coming to write chronicle upon another friend's matter!If you even look deeply,its a friend like her that act caring! whereas killing her friend behind!why can't she pray for her friend! Most of you here are ever on begging spree,because you are in a broke ass matrimonial home!Is it by I am married woman,when you all cut across as very dumb!anyways I can decide to still dump this man and marry higher!these days I do not even discuss my relationship with friends,because now most of them they feed their husbands!because they want to marry early!
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