The singer took a view different from RCCG general overseer, Pastor Enoch Adeboye, who advised youths not to marry wives who cannot cook...
Empire Mates Entertainment (EME) singer, Banky W, has stated that he has no qualms about marrying a woman who cannot cook.
This is following a recent comment by the General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), Pastor Enoch Adeboye, who advised youths not to marry a woman who lacks culinary skills.
According to pulseng,This was his reflection on the rampant cases of failed marriages, which he attributed to marrying for the wrong reasons.
According to pulseng,This was his reflection on the rampant cases of failed marriages, which he attributed to marrying for the wrong reasons.
Though an insightful observation, Banky W has expressed that he does not share the same sentiment as the spiritual leader.
According to him, due to his love for cooking, his wife does not need to bother herself about such obligations, as it comes naturally to him.
"I cook. My wife doesn't need to know how to cook. I actually enjoy it", he said.
"I cook. My wife doesn't need to know how to cook. I actually enjoy it", he said.
The singer revealed this on an episode of Moments Nigeria, a programme shown on Ebony Life TV.
*Marrying a woman who cannot cook is nothing compared to marrying a man who cannot work or 'stand up'
I have been googling to see if i can find Bible passage on the exact DUTIES of a wife.....or is this a woman must cook man made?
#WifeNotCook.
Some men actually don't care if their wife can cook or not.But noble igwe is over doing his own. Anyways, i feel a woman knowing how to cook is very important. Different women will just be cooking for your husband then one day he will migrate to one of them and claim he didn't know you couldn't cook before he married you. Men can't be trusted so it's best to be a good cook
ReplyDeleteIf you like marry a woman who doesn't even shower. Who cares? It's your choice.
DeleteAbeg enough of this wife not cook rubbish. Reality will set in when kids come, then we will know if na only juice and biscuits them go dey chop. That time dh would have gotten himself edible catering to cater for his tummy and na you the woman go suffer cos kids get cranky with all them sweet stuffs when not fed with proper foods. The sugar alone in the snacks will make them run you mad.
DeleteBanky, i like you so no make me vex for you.
DeleteWe all know y'all marry for money so go and marry a rich kid and let us hear word.
Cynthia can't cook water but Ebuka still married her, SO??
If you like, be like edible catering or work in top hotels as a chef, if a man wants to cheat, he will!!!
DeleteA cheat will always be a cheat even if you're the world greatest cook.
DeleteNoble is not over doing it trinity. Nigerians r the ones over doing everything. He posted a photo, it turned to a problem. He was only trying to pursue a contract
DeleteYou talk am. One day the man will get tired of eating out, then one blessed day a woman would cook wonders for him and that's the end. Do not trust men when it comes to food and sex.
DeleteMisplaced priority
DeleteStella biko read proverbs 31 to end,then you'll understand the duties of a good wife.
DeleteThank me in the comment section LOL
Stella emphasis is on verse 15.
DeleteO.k bye
Banky W, I said "youths" not elderly men. Take several seats. No one cares if you marry or not though. Marriage isn't for everyone
DeleteHis choice
DeleteEverything in marriage is choice
Abeg leave that olden days talk. Men cheat with girls they take out jor. Which side chick go slave for kitchen for another woman husband? The useless man will not even want her to mess up her nails.
DeleteThe funniest thing is how you all think the side chicks are cooking for your husbands. No. Your husbands are too busy asking how high when their side chicks say jump.
DeleteStella read proverbs 31:11-31. The bible also encouraged women to make food for her household.
DeleteA lot of well to do guys have a chef or cook that they employ.Most of these laws are for poor people.
DeleteTnx for saving me the stress @Yemi7up... Indeed #wifenotcook but a woman must know how to cook at least simple homemade meals... Not even with the rubbish eateries serve this days #Healthiswealth abeg
DeleteTotally true @ Anon 12: 57: coming from a background where i'm used to cooks and being married to a man who has had 1 special chef for 10 years and having two extra helping hands, i'm surprised at the level of village people here. Since these posts started, I waited for any big girl to put these locals in their place,sadly none.
DeleteI can cook cos I attended some culinary schools for fun. Can make italian dishes, baguettes and even irish meals and our local dishes. But if you're rich, you wont need to cook. #Fact. Decided not to use my ID because people are usually jealous here. They see wealth as an affront. Grow up, women.
If my rich kids can live with someone who is not as rich as they are ie someone who may not be able to provide them,with all there needs,then that person should be able to live with my kids own shortcomings be it cooking or any other thing.its a two way thing..if i can take ur shortcomings ,you should be able to take mine..wats is with all this ur programmed way of life....aint no body goin to ur grave with u,so why will i live a life dat people approve of? I do my thing how i want to...marriage has to do with a mutual understanding where both parties are mutually receptive and where one person is made to know dat he/she must do this or dat..we do what we wanna be cause we wanna and how and when we wanna and not because society says we should..to hell with wat people say
DeleteAnd lest you forget,if you like spend ur entire life in the kitchen,a man who would cheat will still CHEAT stop washing ur head with edible catering thing...and yes some men are better cooks dan women so why shouldnt they cook...u can only tell me dat if i stay at home and do nothing...if i work just as you then we both should do every other thing together...simple...men have been selfish since the olden days with all their policies favoring them so dont come here and tell us how ur grandmum tot u shit.....she had no options,she was tot that she was worthless and all she was useful for was to bear children and do watsover a man wishes her to do..she had no choices of her own too...and men these dayz want to exercise that selfishness..buh sorry,it aint gonna happen no more
DeleteGood for him.
ReplyDeleteThey are making a big deal out of this. I don't think there are many girls over 20 who cannot cook in Nigeria, cook well... that's a totally different thing.
ReplyDeleteMy cousin of 26 years cannot cook...
DeleteMy former neighbor who is married today can't cook ( don't know if she has learnt)
We should save this and ask him the question again five years AFTER marriage, when the honeymoon phase has worn off
ReplyDeleteHe probably may not disturb his wife but must surely have someone outside who will cook for him and that would be where his heart is. Infact if he gives his wife 50k a week he would give the baby 100k.
DeleteGbam,you can imaging after a stressful studio session,he comes home to relax and eat,and your wife told you "Ahhh honey I am hungry too oooh,i have been waiting for you to come home and cook for me"you go mad be dat.
DeleteGbam,you can imaging after a stressful studio session,he comes home to relax and eat,and your wife told you "Ahhh honey I am hungry too oooh,i have been waiting for you to come home and cook for me"you go mad be dat.
DeleteMost of them employ cook because some of these well to do guys receive elite visitors regularly and most wife cannot prepare and present food like the professional chef,my uncle was married to his late wife for 23years and in all those years they had a cook,she never for once stepped into the kitchen and they both had a peaceful home,some average guys too don't mind getting a help because some of them get put off by smell of food on their wife's hair during lovemaking.Let us pray to meet our own husband.
DeleteJust like I, my husband would never have an erection with all this onion fish smell or for my nails to be ruined. We have 1 chef and 2 cooks. Pls educate these women. And please dont say, what if the money finishes. Not in your wildest dreams. Even if I get divorced, I can fend for 2 kids in high class and leave them a handsome inheritance on my own. Deal with it, life is unfair. While you labour and toil,some people live in wealth. Nope, we don't do eateries and preserved food, more of restaurants if we wish
DeleteAnonymous 17:15...how fat are y'all in that house that you need 3 adults to make food for y'all?
DeleteSome anon here, when broke people form rich. I grew up with cooks, house helps, wash men you name it. My mum still went to the kitchen to cook. I was taught how to cook. My married sisters all have cooks, they still all cook for their husbands. The alakija woman, the richest black woman by the way, cooks for her husband. Our family friends that I know, with cooks, the wives still cook. I have relatives who hold CEO positions, they still cook. Not everyday due to the nature of their jobs, they have cooks but they find time. Mostly, the cooks assist you in the preparation and when you are too busy, have lots a visitors or you travel the cooks step in to cook fully.
DeleteIt's a Nigerian thing that wives cook. Things are changing and it might be very different in the future. But for now, any Nigerian woman who doesn't cook for her husband it taking a risk.
we all have our opinions and he is entitle to his, but this man haff tey na, let him go and marry biko, enuf of free collecting goan marry joor.
ReplyDeleteGo and beat him nah! Abi e collect finish from you and him no gree friend you talk more of dating?
DeleteI marry a man who cooks. so wetin concern me with cooking, except i want something different
ReplyDeleteLiar
DeleteSo because your marry a husband who can cook, you don't cook atall
Is your horseband so jobless that he does the cooking always and that make you not business cooking
#Fakelifeonblogs#
And is she so jobless that she should cook all the time..listen to ur self..all you women of tiny brain who dont have desires of wat to make outta life dan have kids..women hv dreams and as much as a man pursues his,a woman does same ok...u teach ur kids that they can be watever they wanna be so why would u want to stop another man's child from attaining her heart desire..she will cook when she has time and same with her husband..simple..buh wen a man cant afford enough for the wife,y'all will start preaching contentiousness..oga if i dont like cooking all the time den learn to be content simple...selfish men everywhere
DeleteGood for his wife to be
ReplyDeletePeople fail to understand that there's a difference between I CAN COOK BUT I DONT HAVE TO COOK ALL THE TIME and I CANT COOK
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile this issue has been overflogged already,they should gv it a rest
👏 better pikin! Am of the same view
Deletethank you Elena
DeleteExactly my point, there is a very big difference...and on the other hand being a good cook does not guarantee a long lasting marriage.marriages are failing today not because of girls not being able to cook but our low tolerance to BS that women beared in the past from their husbands all in d name of children or what society would say
DeleteAbi! That's good, banky! Since you can cook, means that your mum taught you well. Unlike some boys or men! In this microwave era! You need to be equipped, knowing how to cook, clean and take care of a home without depending on your wifey!
ReplyDeleteChronological idiot...why didn't you add breastfeeding to the list?
DeleteSmelling Scum! Since you think you can call names! With your maggot infested mouth! It takes a Chronological idiot like yourself to know one! Butt wipe!
DeleteAnon 11:17 must be a fool! You can't give your own opinions without calling names! May thunder render you useless, that hand you used in typing this rubbish will never give you joy and may your prayers become curses! Any force that want to stop this declaration, fall and die! You are so silly, you think , you can just call name and walk free? This will teach you a lesson! Ewii!
DeleteHaha @ anon 11:17! You sound so bitter and pained! May the device you used in typing these words become pathogenic to you, may it infect you and destroy you! 3 legged goat like you! Die in your misery!
DeleteWonderful anonymous giving each other word buhahahaha
DeleteKwakwakwakwakwa omo see cursing on top Stella's blog, may God have mercy on you all
DeleteQueenamy
Hehehe! That anon don hear am! Hehehe!
DeleteAnonymous 11:57...thanks for at least admitting to be part of the order of chronological idiots!
DeleteAnonymous 12:03...your MFM "prayers" abi babalawo incantations are music to my ears, you're already deceased. You sound like a Yoruba rabied dog
Anonymous 12:15...I sound bitter & pained and you're voking the misfortunes of your generation on another? No thanks, y'all can savor the misery alone
Hahahahahahahah!
ReplyDeleteI don't understand!
Anyway, if u don't cook for your husband, EDIBLE CATERING will.
U guys can eat out everyday no wahala! Until 'SHE' cooks afang soup for him oneday.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 edible catering o.
DeleteSimple.
DeleteLol..why don't we ask tiwasalvage how that worked for her 😁😁😁
DeleteMy dear,some top career women and very busy women have never cooked for one day and many have been married for decades,they mostly employ male cook. Go tell Alisson madueke to cook when she is in important meetings daily,my dear you better pray to be so successful you would 've able to afford a chef,you think it's easy to cook 3 times a day for 40yes,the housewife that did it deserve thumbs up and even at that,when it gets to a certain level their children assist with the cooking.
DeleteAnnonymous 13:11, you'd be surprised at how much of cooking Allison does for her family. Mind you, Allison and all those top career women you know are totally different people when they are with their family. To you, they are high end people but to some others, she's a mother and wife.
DeleteThat is what they will say but by the time they enter they will be looking for edible catering up and down. There is this great joy looking watching your husband eat your food. You are happy, you are fufilled. If i dont cook, who will? Someone like me that cooking makes me happy, i love cooking like the air i breathe. why wouldn't he eat. I will beg him to eat, mbok eat because a taste is all you need to ask for more.
ReplyDeleteI hope you don't think it'll stop him from eating another woman's food tho? If your husband is a cheat, it's only God that can stop him. Or HIV
DeleteWell that's what they always say even Tblizz was Tiwa's cook before edible catering came and scatter his head...
ReplyDeleteBanky once said he can't marry someone without a career...do you expect the woman to cook for him after a stressful day at work?...his wife will be the man while him the woman...a typical mentality from men from that part of the country looking for a rich well made woman that will be doing the breadwinner job for them...
Lazy fools!...
Always displaying your foolishness through your comments
DeleteYour level of idiocy is worse than the crash of Naira, Madam Queen and boss of the dogs.
DeleteHe should find a cat to marry him first then he would have right to talk.#HusbandsNotCheats.#HusbandsNotBrokeAss.#HusbandsNotAssholes
ReplyDeleteBanky w, it is your cup of tea,if u like marry a wife that cannot cook,them say wetin elder see while sitting,if u stand u no go see am
ReplyDeleteWhatever that rocks his boat.
ReplyDeleteThe recent culinary talk by the GO of RCCG to me is nothing spiritual.it is merely a personal opinion which in no standard is a dogma..that he is a *man of God* doesnt make his statement *uhuru*...every individual has what moves them in terms of a life partner and marriage is all about a mutual understanding where A and B compliment each other in everything,their different choices respected by one another....not being able to cook by a wife isn't a reason not to marry whom you desire,there are ways around everything..i mean if a woman can be with a man who may not be able to provide her with all her needs,then he should be able to live with some of her shortcomings and these wouldn't be a problem if both parties are mutually receptive.if you can cook fine.if you love cooking,even better,whether man or woman...and about the issue of praying for an hour,i think praying is an individual thing and you pray as the spirit leads and God answers and works in his own miraculous ways...a minute prayer will still do wonders if God is on your case.what matters is the heart with which you acknowledge your God.
ReplyDeleteHear!Hear!
DeletePastor Adeboye's message is for his members, why are you all taking it to mean something else???
ReplyDeleteThe man of God is not compelling you all, it's not by force! Abeg enough with this, ya'all should do what you think is right.
Oga name sake..weldone
ReplyDeleteThe most certified @Uncle Gwegs.
ReplyDeleteSorry to say this @Banky
You and @Noble Igwe...una resemble each other
Is your other names"HeadWard"?
If you like marry who can't cook...if you like marry who can cook....Na Una sabbi.
@Galore
HeadWard?
Delete#Dead
Here i am thinking head of state(Heado) was funny.
All these bvs ..una lack joy😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteThis one na just initial gragra talk mstchewwwwwwwww.
ReplyDeleteCome back to say this exact thing after you are married. Celebrities always quick to talk rubbish without reasoning. Na wash all of them be.
I can excuse a woman who can't cook....
ReplyDeleteBut,I can't excuse a man who can't fuck.
Abi,no be so you mean @Banky W?😃
@Galore
Ok,we don hear Mr Big head.
ReplyDeleteGo and marry first!!!
Atta boy!
ReplyDeleteYou see, marrying a woman shouldn't really be all about her culinary skills.
If every man should get married to a woman that can cook, what happens to those who cannot cook?
One key to happiness and a successful marriage that people tend to overlook is BALANCE.
Finding the right balance is key.
Last week Sunday, my husband got angry because I can't cook. He made it mandatory for me to learn how to cook. Pastor Adeboye's advise since on Monday has not been making matters worst for me. Since on monday, hubby has been saying che u see what I've been saying? Pastor Adeboye has confirmed it all. I've started learning o. Na so so burn food dey burn sef. Hubby says continue with time you will be perfect.
ReplyDeleteThank God for your hubby. You better learn fast before edible caterer spoils him with correct ewedu.
DeleteWetin happen to your mama, she no train you or na you no wait collect training
DeleteKpele o
Lol.very funny.but how com u no knw hw to cook?wetin u learn frm ur mama hse?anyway enrole in any catering skl n u wil b perfect ok.
DeleteNa boarding school I attend all through. Bowen Uni sef no gree allow us cook. Na so so travel momsy dey travel. While dating Dh, we eat out. Wen we got married, we employed a help. She cooks and takes care of my twins. Na just last week hubby yari say make I go learn to cook. He wants to eat my food. I have started learning and I believe with time, I will be a good cook.
DeleteHis cup of piss
ReplyDeleteI can marry a wife who can't cook, that's no big deal, only if she's willing to learn in marriage.
ReplyDeleteYour comment will be visible after approval.
Enough of this nonsense bankole...if you are not gay, you would be married by now. We know you like to tease the ladies because they are barking up the wrong tree.
ReplyDeleteCompound fool...na your nyash him dey fuck?
DeleteThe problem with these things is when you put a wrong label to it....
ReplyDeleteNoble had a clear idea of what he wanted to pass across and he used the words: WifeNotCook. This is inconclusive and highly deceptive.
We can equally say:HusbandNotAtm or HusbandNotDiaperChanger or HusbandNotHandyMan.
I think I prefer Banky's explanation here,he can marry a woman that doesn't know how to cook,teach her,cook for the house or hire a cook. It means that cooking is not a criteria for marriage. This does not mean that Banky will prefer to eat out even when his wife cooks well.
The other man made it seem like he would stop his wife from cooking because she has manicured nails.
So if she loves to cook and knows how to,you will insist you want take out because you want to prove a point?
Preventing your Wifey from cooking is not a general law every man must abide to. Neither is Pastor Adeboye's opinion valid in my opinion.
Cooking is the least of female folk problems. LOL,Morning sickness and all na the koko.
Being a team at home is an unspoken thing you know,it flows...no need to wear the Tee. It feels more natural when you let events and situations dictate who cooks,when you cook and where you eat.
Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. Ike agwulam(tired)
Iphie, that was not what noble meant. He was only saying he can eat out when he wants altho the wife can cook. Forget that manicured nails. Na sarcasm. U know that nau.
DeleteStella, abeg leave this matter before madam ibukunoluwa go enter you o.
ReplyDeleteI can cook for my husband and kids but abeg it's not a do or die affair. If that one will make him go after edible catering, that's his cup of tea.
After all, if u like cook like Togo women, if he wants to cheat, he will and it will be with a girl who can't even cook.
Men are very stupid, he will actually cheat with the one that can not cook. Fuck!
DeleteDoes it mean cooking/praying are the only things a woman can bring to the table?? Knowing how to cook is good,doesn't mean your life would cease to exist if the woman can't cook, Good food can easily be gotten off the street and at an affordable rate. As for the praying aspect, its important we as humans know how to pray,not necessarily for the marriage but for the sustenance of one's life,here on earth.
ReplyDeleteIf as a man you want to use these criterion to pick a spouse, then you should also be able to these.
You can't request for what you can't give!
One man's waste is another's treasure. We all have our individual opinions. Our reactions towards issues differ. Enough of all these. make we hear word abeg.
ReplyDeleteThe woman takes care of the home. If we want to leave it for the men. Na one chance be that. He can assist. No doubt. Besides when you are dating,you guys already have an idea about how the house will run. You gatta communicate this things. Cos what happens when married is different from what happens in dating.
ReplyDeleteBanky W may love to cook lije my husband but he might not do it as much when married. Men are really babies that like to be taken care of. Dont get me wrong...its a two way thing. The man also hs to pamper. There are somethings that are not in a man like home making. Even if he says she doesn't need to know how to cook,he will get tired of doin it all d time. He will eat out a lot. Not just restaurants. he will become attached to a lady that brings him food to work,etc. Women just be saying its not by force. Ok na get a househelp to cook. Or i can cook and deliver your bowls of souos and stews...wink
I cook only on Saturdays nd sometimes on Sunday, my husband said baby don't worry, you work every mon - Fri,so don't stress your self, so he employed a male chef, even the saturday sef na coffee nd bread nd to boil rice or make semo dts all. He doesn't want his wife over stressed. And it's been going on for 9 yrs now. Sometimes he even make rice or fry plantains to assist.
ReplyDeleteU d husband na, ur husband is d wife, u d one working pay d bills Dats y, pls tell ur husband to go find work abeg
DeleteAnon 12:20... my husband works too, he earns more than me...so the fact that he decided to hire a chef is becos that is what he want and doesn't want his wife stressed out, so if ur own husband forces you to cook after a stressful day at work that is his choice. Everyone has choices and paying a chef to cook is nothing.
DeleteAnon: pls dont mind that vile creature that rebutted your comment. Jealousy of over stressed house wives. Keep living your fab life. If people dont hire cooks, how will they be employed?
DeletePls this topic has been over flogged.
ReplyDeletePls what will you give ur kids to eat if you can't cook. Let's even forget husband for one second.
My son doesn't like eating stuff dat comes out of tins, I always make fresh stuff for him mashed. Sweet potatoes and fish, mashed potatoes and eggs mixed with chicken, veggies, fruits etc. Kids need to grow and thrive and what u give them in their early years matter.
I personally I'm a lover of food. So why won't I cook for my family. Will we be eating noodles daily.
I may get a cook in d future, but for now I am okay cooking for my little family.
I have a full time job, cook during weekends and freeze.
As a woman if you can't serve ur kids/husband nourishing food daily then u shld be ashamed of urself.
Wetin dey inside cooking sef, with technology, blenders, microwaves, pre-packed chicken, veggies how difficult is it.
I am not a slave, smtimes I get tired. My hubby understands, he may cook himself or go get fast food.
banky w issokay continue later you will say she has turn you to a slave in your house
ReplyDeleteI think every guy know what he wants, probably the Pastor had heard so much complaints about "wives not cooking well for their hsbands" and decided to go public about it.
ReplyDeleteThese guys ranting on social media that "wivesnotcook", 'I can marry someone that can't cook,' etc are just Chameleons/hypocrites, try marrying them and see how the complain will start.
1. They will tell their friends( guys' talk) and probably one will gist his wife and from their...you'll understand that "edible caterer exists".
If you don't know how to cook, better learn and don't mind those guys that say it doesn't matter.
YOU ARE A HOME MAKER AND THAT INCLUDES COOKING.
Queen stupid as usual.
ReplyDeleteYou are very stupid for the Yoruba bashing you keep doing.
Banky is looking for a rich girl to marry, can your parents afford the sort of schools Banky W parents sent him to in America?
Adrao International and college in Yankee. Which bush school did you go in the village.
The Wellingtons are known people in Lagos, who are you? You can't know them bcos u don't move in such circles.
Do you have a university degree you illiterate? Or your parents sold you off to the highest bidder.
I don't blame you, you are not exposed. That is why you keep saying this crap. Talking with ignorance on a daily basis. If you are not educated, atleast pretend to be instead of showing your ignorance on every bloody post.
Do you know the great Yoruba men with pedigree, class mixed with hard work we have in this country?
If you don't know them shut your gutter mouth and quit showing your ignorance. It's quite appalling.
Why are you calling bride price selling off? No wonder your men marry multiple women since the women are cheap,nothing good comes easy,even in the bible,most of the men didn't find it easy to marry so you people should keep giving your daughters free of charge to serial womanizer.Your men are the worst men to marry in Nigeria because even the poorest Hausa man will still spend money to get a bride.nonsense.
DeleteAnonymous 13:22 yes she is right it's selling off you guys are sold off to the highest bidder. That's why your men treat you like slaves. The relationship between you and your horsebands is a master servant relationship, you have no say in your home and 100% obedience is expected from you. To make matters worse you have no right of inheritance as women are regarded as properties that can only be inherited in your culture. No wonder you all send chronicles to Stella weeping about your horsebands buying properties in his name only cos you knw if anything happen to him you have no say in the matter cos you have been bought on your wedding day.
DeleteStella, abeg quit trying to score some unavailable cheap points on this matter. If you like, look for all the bible passages you know, but remember what the bible says about, a man sweating and toiling to provide for his family. And the woman going through same to bring forth a child and nurturing them.
ReplyDeleteNo matter how light we try to make of this issue, food is a basic necessity to live and so cannot be taken for granted. In a home, someone must take on that responsibility of doing that and that naturally falls on a woman. Not to say men shouldn't. I grew up in a family of 6 girls and a boy and "WE ALL" are excellent cooks. Yes, my mum ensured that.
Married now and preggy, hubby does more of the cooking cos I feel terrible most times and that's totally fine. Asides this pregnancy, I don't have any issues making his meals and for my toddler too. Yes, it gives me joy caring for my family in that regard and as well have him help me out.
I'm not for a woman to live practically her life in the kitchen, but someone has to cook for the home, isn't it. Or do you suggest a family keeps eating out or maybe draw up a roster of how to take turns to cook or what?
I think what should be advised here is for men to take part in doing stuff in the house as often as possible. If your job is more flexible than wifey's, then by all means cook and vice versa. If none of you has a flexible job, then assist each other as much as you can. Not this message of " wife shouldn't cook". Remember that a family isn't just made up of man and woman, but kids too, so what are we on about here. If I'm not wrong, I've read from you about loving weekends, so you could take a break from getting kids ready for school/making breakfast/packing lunch. Isn't that part of the cooking we are on about? Even in obodo oyibo, where men do these things without much fuss, it still doesn't change the fact that the bulk of this job rests on the woman.
Lastly, we are all here imitating oyibo wey no dey cook anything pass bread and meat (which is always in most cases, spiced up and all). LOL.............Almost everything is precooked and packaged, so just toss into the oven and that's it. Unfortunately, our own style of food/cooking is different and in many ways, more technical and believe me, most men do not enjoy sweating it out like that, not becos they don't want to, but because they are not naturally inclined to. Just like we women ain't naturally inclined to taking cars to mechanic workshops and sitting all day. #myopinion.
Madam you and your husband are poor ok,people from wealthy homes grew up with chefs.
DeleteBanky W na your wahala and not my own.
ReplyDeleteThis wifenotcook nonsense though.
ReplyDeleteA woman should not be a slave to a man but culinary skills are essential. If you can cook, it's a plus for you, for your pocket. Stop justifying BS.
The whites we are trying to imitate love cooking, trying out new recipes.
Uncle gwegs abeg go sit down ...with your locomotive head
ReplyDeleteBanky ur life, ur wife and ur kitchen let's wait until u enter first
ReplyDeleteRead Prov 31:10-31, emphasis on vs 14 & 15.
ReplyDeleteFinally, my comment section appears.hmmm GLO na Una go tire. Now I'm not in the mood to say anything
ReplyDeleteOne man meat is another man poison. GBam!
ReplyDelete18+ See what happens in clubs these days
If you are human biko forget this ish of "not cooking". Everybody (male and female)should know how to cook. It is a survival skill that is necessary and beneficial on this earth. So please learn how to do it now for your own good
ReplyDeleteYou people surprise me o, I am not against cooking. I love to cook but I do not want to cook everyday. I like to try out new recipes but I really will not slave in the kitchen everyday all alone for my man. I see this as a really simple issue. The solution?? . Get a cook!! That way, you can rest up on some days. Even if you must cook, at least you have some help. Everything can get prepared for you, you sashay in, do the cooking proper and be done in half an hour tops! Isn't this a no brainer? Why do women just like to suffer? And please nobody should tell me about how my husband will start sleeping with my cook.. You think I will turn to a slave in a bid to stop my husband from straying? What a laugh!
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