Wow,Busted on the Wedding night!
Good day Stella,
Nice work with the wedding night brouaha and the omugwo series, I really enjoy it ,here is my wedding night story .
I got married September 2015,before we got married my husband and I decided not to have sex ( he suggested it), although we already jigged severally before the wedding night because I wasn't going to marry a man I did not test drive, even my father advised me not to do so.
Fast forward to our wedding night, we got to the hotel, we where lodged there with some of his friends, so they went to the bar to discuss and present the gift they bought for us, I stayed back in the room, took my bath and wore my sexy night gown, Omo Stella Na so I use take sleep off.
I woke up and it was 2 O'clock in the morning, I called my husband and he said he was coming that they where still at the bar, I got really mad, he knew I wanted to have sex badly because conji wan kill me and we would laugh and joke about my conji, he came up later, had his bath, Na so I don set for bed, immediately he came to the bed, I started kissing him, the next thing I heard was 'baby I can't do it, not tonight' , I was dumbfounded and I started crying seriously, then I asked, but why?, we have waited all this time just to get here, he then showed me his balls and other private areas,( may I add that 3 months before the wedding he had been itching really bad but we thought it was just a reaction to something) they where full of blisters, I was shocked, still didn't know what it was I cried and we cuddled and slept off.
Some days later we went in for urine and other test, only for the result to come back later that my husband had a well know STD( not HIV ), am like wowwwwww, all this while you suggested we shouldn't have sex, even when I tried to seduced u, you didn't fall and you where busy jigging someone else? , I was angry, raged and for a moment I told him I was done with the marriage, he begged and apologise, oh and told a lot of lies too of how he just played with the girl with the tip of his dick and never went in( very laughable I must say) all lies, but I ended up looking past it, we went for 2 months without having sex, but because of this incident, the trust for me in my marriage is dead, and it's cashing slot of problems too. I am still praying to God to restore it in my heart
That's my wedding night tori
wow!
WOW what? Didn't you guys carry out these tests before the wedding proper? What!
ReplyDeleteLet's agree no tasting and testing before the wedding, please do all the tests in fact a week or days before the wedding itself after all the church usually carries it out too plus pregnancy test.
Maybe I didn't read the story well but what I got from it is that these tests weren't carried out. What if he hadn't showed you hus blisters and he just rammed into you like that.
Ah people are wicked o.
Wrong foundation for a marriage.
More reasons why I can never try being celibate Omoh I go give my wife to be throughout that wedding month ooo...I no send
DeleteFor those asking, we actually carried out all the necessary test before the wedding,because u can't Wed in my church without them, and we stopped having sex like 3 months to the wedding
DeleteI love your honesty. WN are not all fun and games. As much as its a happy thing,tennnsion is usually in the air. Your husband did so badly by deceiving you. Honestly, I can't even understand men. That was how I dated someone for six clear months only to realise he was married. I mean, I called this man, night and day and he always picked. I went through his nokia torch when I felt like. Whenever I wanted to see him, he'd work with my own plans so I don't know how that dog pulled it off. One day, I saw a BlackBerry and before I turn eye, it disappeared. I asked, he said "which blackberry?" I should have known. When I found out he wass married, he started talking about true love and how he didn't want to hurt me. Chai!!! May God continue to help Nigerian women because the deceit is damn too much. Sorry dear poster. Keep an open mind. See if he's ready to change. Unless you want to leave that marriage, forever is a long time to be angry.
DeleteAnd they will just have to switch to the anonymous mode..
Deletelol, same happened to me ooo . dated for about five months.. fell head over heels.thank God I somehow found out. God just loves me too much to allow me be used and fooled. I know there are still good ones out there tho.
DeleteChurches don't do STD test only HIV
DeleteWow Wow Wow!!!
DeleteWhat did I just read? I am shocked to my bonemarrow.
Jeeez!
Anon 14:59,
DeleteYou guys carried out the necessary test few weeks before you wedded, then why the fully blown STD,
according to your description.
"He's been inching really bad before the wedding" and "he had blisters on his balls"
I'm still trying to underline the correlation.
I'm assuming the lab or hospital you guys visited was owned by his friend the reason why the results were inaccurate.
My observation.
Church only conducts hiv/genotype they don't do STD test. Hope I have helped
DeleteWow. He touched with the tip and didn't enter. Good you known your husband is a liar. I hate liars. He didn't even have the decency to use a condom with the other chic. I don't blame you for not trusting him anymore but just try to work on your marriage cos once trust is dead, you guys have nothing.
ReplyDeleteHe has herpes
DeleteGod would soon punish that tip they are always using to touch. Mtcheeeww
DeleteSadly,If the tables were turned, you'd have been out of his life long long ago. Men and their double standard, I can't deal mbok.
DeleteYou will get over it, concentrate on loving forgive and forget all hate
ReplyDeleteOh, finally for those of you who have been looking for sad WNB stories that feels "real"....
ReplyDeleteHere is one FINALLY.
Enjoy!
P.S I am very sure no one would come here to say "This story is not true or that it's fabricated". Why?
Misery loves company.
SIDENOTE: Feels good to be back! I haff miss here...
Abeg shut up.. is every wedding night blissful? And is every engaged couple successful celibates? Some posters do sugar coat and fabricate it, I have the best fiance in d world and he told me he will gbensh me till our wedding morning sef.. whats the big deal? Don't know why posters hype celibacy only months before the wedding.
DeleteMy ex who is married now was sleeping around while the lady he was engaged to thought they were practicing celibacy. Ladies if you want to remain Virgins or celibate, its fine but count your man out. There's a high possibility that he's getting it steady outside.
My dear I agree with you on this,rubbish and wicked set of people all want to hear bad news because of jealousy,i wonder what is so difficult to believe the posters on WNB,that someone is a virgin?you can't believe that?that someone decided to be a celibate you can't also believe?smh,there are some persons who work with their conscience,sometimes it's not all religious but morality,the moment you tell someone you never had sex with anyone you hear stuffs like Mary amaka,bloody liar,i don't get it, let me speak for myself,i was never an everysunday church goer but I kept my self,what is even difficult?you all should stop disbelieving the posters,they are true and correct,everyone cannot be like you all huh?
DeleteKaren don't mind them,God bless you for this.
DeleteAnon 13:13 you're right.
DeleteWhen you chose to celibate, do it cos you wanna do it for yourself don't impose that trust on your man cos, he might be collecting elsewhere,without condom,whilst you're celibrating foolishly, like the story behind this poster.
Story for the gods...
This is spiteful and painful.
Smelly Princess, didn't you read that the man was who imposed celibacy on her? See this goat. Don't read well. Be blabbing
DeleteDamn Damn Damn. Meanwhile eket sucks
ReplyDeleteSucks?
DeleteAhhhhhhh.
Let's meet up...
I can't promise much. But I can take "bored" away from your list.
Really? I was planning to go there on my leave.
DeleteReally? I was planning to go there on my leave.
DeleteNa wa o
ReplyDeleteWow! Speechless
ReplyDeleteHe isnt sexually attracted to u simple. He married u for other reasons obviously.
ReplyDeleteDid you read the story at all?
DeleteBia nwokem.... This ur comment is very far ooo... Are u here at all?
DeleteEsther must u attack
DeleteIt's clear you didn't read the story, you were trying to summarise from comments above
DeleteWhy can't nigga tell the truth for once? Especially when caught. The truth might cause alot of problems initially but it did set you free whilst saving you the anguish and all.
ReplyDeleteMadam you need to find a way to forgive him. However, you should grab that balls of his and warn him NEVER to lie to you again; you might also want to tell him thatyou know he lied but he should not even try to put up a defence.
N.B Use your head and don't go engage him in a shouting match o. I believe the best threats are those done/given/issued/dished calmly.
Hello poster, that ur hubby is very wicked.
ReplyDeleteEyaaa,God will restore your marriage IJN
ReplyDeleteWow...
ReplyDeletePersonally i feel if u cant hold yourself, then collect. Am not a fan of no collecting till marriage and all, to avoid stories that touch, i find it a turn off sef. Yes i know whoever wants to cheat will cheat even if u give them like meds (once 3 times a day). Anyways, you are lucky he didnt even give u the std cos sm men will gv u and blame it on u.
Let it go and enjoy your marriage, but he on alert and be sure hes not messing around again.
Stay blessed
You should be happy he was kind enough not to infect you. Marriage is indeed a gift box, what you see is what you get.
ReplyDeleteNa wa oo
ReplyDeletePls forgive him and save ur marriage
Hypocrites. Why would anyone who isn't a virgin deceive themselves that they would stay off sex for so long for no good reason? An S.U chic tried it with me. I went to her house unannounced and caught her masturbating! I finished it off for her. We had our first and only sex. I ditched her afterwards. Hypocrisy irritates the shit out of me.
ReplyDeleteShe was masturbating and left her door open for you to just walk in abi una be room mates? Liar!
DeleteI like your bluntness, blunt!
DeleteTell the them!
They will finger, masturbate, suck, rub on each other and still claim abstinence! Oreigwu!
Liar pants....u caught her masturbating. .. so no doors,abeg shift. That someone chooses to be celibate is a personal same as u who chose not to.For those you know dat masturbate even though theyre celibate only means deyre human with raging hormones dat dey haven't learnt to control.No one is perfect!
DeleteSeveral pple deleted me frm SnM after I told dem I'm celibate....was I angry or sad? NO.Do I think deyre hypocrites? NO. we all decide wats impt to US
#pamđ#
I actually don't know why people condemn those who decide to be celibate. I was celibate for 4years till my wedding night. Simple reason, I surrendered my life to Christ and before then I always had this guilt and shame when I had s3x with my ex who disvgd me. Once I found a new meaning and newness of life, it was easy for me not to fornicate. I had my standard in Jesus christ and wouldn't even be with anyone that didnt love Jesus before loving me. Been married for 6years and the s3x is so great. Please stop condemning anyone for their decision.
DeleteWhy do people lie,especially when it comes to marriage. Its so wrong #this is sad
ReplyDeleteWow! wow!! wow!!!
ReplyDeleteNow this one is not funny @all, why dint he go for check-up since he noticed the itching.
Deceitful hubby he is...
Never went in my a**, just find out if he is still in contact with the 'never went in girl'
Gosh...very bad experience
Tragedy....
ReplyDeleteWho Celibacy Help!
#Recycled Virgin
It helped her not to contract the STD, mtcheeew you people condemn celibates and encourage the opposite, well done, each is a choice and anyone is free to do what one wants.
DeleteSTD!!! I didn't see that 'cuming'.
ReplyDeleteI dont evn want to begin to imagine how you felt on the STD discovery. But wait o, your hubby couldnt go for an STD test prior to the wedding when the itch started? hian. But why do people refuse sex with partners but do it outside?
ReplyDeleteYour man is not sharp!...instead of him to treat his infection codedly without you even knowing afteral,you guys was celibate before the wedding and all...
ReplyDeleteI wonder the kind of dirty girls he was gbenshing!...madam,do quick and have all your babies and stop allowing him to touch you without going for test...
A cheat is a cheat and they don't change...
Wise comment
DeleteMen Una see Una handwork?
ReplyDeleteLater Una go dey bad mouth women
Poster wa wa alrightđ
hey yah , what can I say but to wish you goodluck
ReplyDeleteMay God help you
ReplyDeleteShuu,dat guy get conscience oooo,becos he wld simply av off d light and dash u "ko mo bus-stop" free of charge.
ReplyDeleteForgive and pls forget. Am sure he has learnt his lessons.
How I wish I can share my WNB....hubby would definitely know
ReplyDelete@olami4eva, why are you afraid of your husband? Is he possessive and violent? Will he beat you up if you send in your WNB even when other people did not know you?
Delete...then don't share
DeleteIf you know he will be upset about it, don't share
Respect his privacy
Eh yah! So no pyessing and lashing of otele for u đ˘ can I be ur candidate I promise to be gentle đ˘đ....
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi ( Stellz Cousin )
E-hugs poster! Sorry about ur experience.
ReplyDeleteSo if he had HIV too that is how you would have caught it. Didn't you do a STI screening before marriage? I think your hubby has been shagging ashewos and will do it again. Be careful and watchful," once a cheat;always a cheat".
ReplyDelete...and why didn't he treat himself sooner them plenty jare all these demons called walking with their heads
ReplyDeleteEeya,he couldn't even use condom with d girls, stupid man.
ReplyDeleteThia is the story of my dad's friend on his own wedding night.
ReplyDeleteMy dad had a dear friend who was a big play boy/dog of the Federal Republic. Every girl he met, he somehow succeeded in sleeping with until he met his "wife". This man did all he could to mark her register but for where... one night he decided to try again, na so the "wife" tell am say she be virgin and would only have sex in marriage. Upon this "great" discovery, the man happy die begin talk marriage sharp!
In a matter of weeks the guy don enter relationship and told my dad and friends he was going to propose marriage. They all laughed it off and assumed he was still trying to get into her pant. Fast forward a couple months later their guy nor dey gree touch any woman and even severed ties with his numerous girlfriends. About a year later, they were married.
Before continuing let me state that my dad and this his friend were also neighbours. *clears throat*
After the wedding and all the activities, na so the newly weds go house. According to my dad, at about 1 a.m the shout of OLOSHI OLORIBURUKU!!! woke all the neighbors up from sleep and in his own case tried to listen to at least find out where the yelling was coming from. But stepping outside, alas! It seemed as if the oloshi oloriburuku and other expletives was coming from his friend's apartment. Na so him go join others gathered and this friend was right there cussing. As them ask am; which I think dem for nor do. Oga Ade, broke down and told all present that his ASHEWO of a wife decieved him. According to my dad, he (dad) immediately started struggling to hold in his laughter because he had an idea already as to what might have happened.
Oga Ade and wife were both crying when he proceeded to tell he em the story of the trinity; "the virginity", "the abstinence" and "the discovery". The discovery was that virginus wasnt a virgin afterall but a proud owner of a well. After the show of shame his friends rallied round including family to try to settle man and wife.
Fast forward 3 children (had in space of 4 years); 4years of mistrust and resentment; the man disappeared into thin air. No one knew his whereabout. When they went to his office, it was discovered he had resigned some days earlier after giving notice. The man went awol for about 10 years or so.... started a new family and still has nothing to do with wife and children till date.
Lmao... Funniest chronicle in the history of chronicles... The only victims in this story are the kids... The man Nd his wife deserve everything they gotđđđ
DeleteAll cos of virginity??? Hian
DeleteInteresting story..
DeleteLololool, idiot man! He wants virgin after sleeping with many girls. He got served! But that babe get mind! Lololol.
DeleteHahhahahahahhaha,this got me!! They got what deserved. I only pity the innocent kids.
DeleteLmaoooo!! Dis story sweet me. I wonder how they went on to ave 3kids in 4yrs, if she was a proud owner of a well?
DeleteLoooool
DeleteVery funny.
Some people sha, there re some things you just don't keep as secrets especially when marriage is involved.
Example is the dick/ pussy business, cos such things re irredeemably.
I find it difficult to apportion any blame on her sha.
when a man is not having sex with you while dating or in a courtship,it simply means he is fucking other hoes.women get that into your thick skulls.
ReplyDeleteLies from the pit of hell
DeleteSo your own thick skull doesn't tell you that a man, that I guess you are, can gbensh his fiancee and still gbensh other women. If poster above was not celibate she would have caught an STD, a cheat will always remain one.
DeleteIf u are practising celibacy' trust at ur own risk.
ReplyDeleteSo it is when you are not practicing celibacy that you can trust? You are not making sense here.
DeleteThis is the real wedding night gist.. many marriages are rotten from the start.
ReplyDeleteWhy so bitter??
DeleteElsie I am another anon, but what is up there is the truth.
DeleteOmg,thank God he had blister's, but I don't understand is that,why he would leave you and have it with another woman,
ReplyDeleteAm dumbfounded abi your toto get water hian
I tire o babez,my toto sweet die, tight na understatement
DeleteSweetie sorry about ur predicament jare. We jus thank God he didn't transfer his genital warts to u, ewwww. I dnt even understand y he suggested celibacy but was fucking someone else. It's not as if, if he wanted sex u wudnt ave given it to him, nawa for man matter jare. So sorry dear. Ur happiness nd peace of mind is paramount pls.
DeleteNa wa oooo some men sha dat y I Dnt believe guys dat tell their girlfriends to wait until their wedding night becos they will be another babe he his digging while u are waiting for wedding night sex.
ReplyDeleteWow!!! This is really sad!!! I can't even imagine how would have felt.Since you decided to stay put,why not try and move past it? I don't know what I'd do if I ever find myself in this situation.
ReplyDeleteDeceit, lies, love, pain, endurance, forgiveness, healing, hope, God.
ReplyDelete*just thinking*
It is well Poster!đ
Poster your husband really loves you very much for the fact that he didn't share it with u.
ReplyDeleteEverybody in Nigeria lies both male and female, it's left so the person they dashing the lie to chop or spit it out. All is for hype.
Lies from the pit of hell. I am a Nigerian living in Nigeria. I don't lie. That your people lie is no business of everybody in Nigeria. Nigeria is not made up of your people only. You may wish to check yourself into a psychiatric hospital because your perception of love is sick.
DeleteLUCKY YOU HE DIDNT PASS YOU STD.HE SHOULD AV TREATED HIMSELF BEFORE THE WEDDING. FEW DAYS TO MY WEDDING MY DAD CALLED ME AND HUBBY AND ASKED US TO GO TO A GENERAL HOSPITAL AND DO ALL THE DO ABLE TEST AND BRING THE RESULT TO HIM.IT WAS STRANGE THEN BUT TODAY I THANK GOD WE DID.
ReplyDeleteGosh..... Dats terrible... Take heart and keep praying God will see you tru
ReplyDeleteGosh..... Dats terrible... Take heart and keep praying God will see you tru
ReplyDeletena wa oooh, cant imagine what you went tru sef. men are just wicked. well thank God he dint infect you.
ReplyDeletei have been a celibate for bout a month now, how do people do it sef? i hear people saying "i have been a celibate for four years" and i will be like huh? hmmmmmm i need to collect asap as as conji fit kill person pikin. i can barely concentrate in the office, am no longer focused sat all. this long distance relationship no follow at all aswear conji wan kill me but i no fit cheat. aaaaaarghhhhh!!! i need a dildo or a vibrator
@Steffy get a coke bottle naa. That's the only thing will be ok for your punana
DeleteI just like your bluntness, been truthful to yourself. That's the way it should be. Not firing what's not.
DeleteSex has been your priority and main focus. You can get rid of the spirit of Lust through Jesus Christ. Like every storm focus and call His name. Challeng yourself for a month.
DeleteRom 12:1-2
The only good one can do to one's self is to tell yourself the truth...It has nothing to do with religion but everything to do with good morals and sincerity of heart...people are going at painting others black simply because they themselves are evil..It is very easy for one to believe a story similar to ones experience albeit the generalisations. ..but again it does matter what people think about ur sincerity because non of them will jump into your grave with you..In essence sex before marriage is not right and anytime you realise and become remorseful,don't be scared to retrace your steps.if you have a testimony as regards that,please don't fail to encourage others with it...and finally do not be disturbed by those who give themselves reasons not to believe you,discourage other persons trying to retrace their own steps,or even those keeping up the faith...in fact testify so that the critics can get exhausted with their reasons...
ReplyDeleteYou should thank your star that he didn't infect you.
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