Wedding Night Brouhaha - 27 And 28

What did i just read? BEECH ALERT!

 *Cleans eyes and goes back to read*

STORY 27

Hi Stella, I cant help but laugh at the wedding night stories i read on this blog. You are doing a great job. So here is my own story:

The only two relationships i ever had ended in less than a year because i refused to give in to their demands for sex. Infact i almost broke up with my husband (then boyfriend) because of this same sex issue. 

I grew up to be a very strict person and was also too focused in my studies and work that i had little time for relationships so when i eventually started dating i decided i would leave the sex till marriage. When i was dating my husband he would beg so much for sex like his life depended on it. 

At times he would be like "ok babe i wont go in lemme just put the tip there to calm my self" but lai lai i no dey gree. Though i have allowed him to kiss and touch my body but other times we would fight so much about it that we later stopped even the romance altogether. I must also commend him for his patience and tolerance. He always said he loved me too much to let sex separate us.

Well fast forward two years into the relationship he proposed and we got married. We had the traditional marriage a day before the white wedding and were already tired from the previous day so at the reception my husband asked the MC to make it all snappy. Immediately after our vote of thanks we both snuck out of the place and zoomed off to the hotel. 

He helped me get out of my wedding dress but then reality hit me!

 I was expecting him to leave the room (as usual) for me to undress. He just stood there looking at me and said "what are you still waiting for? Lets go take a shower" 

I was really shy as he had never seen me totally naked. Then i just pretended like "nothing dey happen" and followed him to the bath. Infact my guy no even wait make we bath finish his penis was already erect and he started caressing my breasts from the shower, he carried me to the bed still kissing me then spread my legs to penetrate me and i let out the loudest scream ever and then he stopped immediately. 

You see all the while we were dating i never explicitly told him i was a virgin. I just told him i had rededicated my life to God and wanted to be celibate. So when he rushed me that night he didnt know he had work to do first.lol. 

Na so we pause there. 

It was soo painful that i couldnt let him try again. I could sense the dissappointment in him but i guess he didnt want to spoil our mood so we just cuddled up that night and he didnt complain. The only thing he said to me was 

"if you had told me while we were dating i wont have pressured you so much for it" 

yimu! 

We ended up sleeping without sex. The next day around 3am in the morning i felt something going on in between my thighs o. It was my husband giving me a head, then slowly but surely he was able to pop the cherry. There wasnt too much bleeding like i always heard just few drops of blood here and there but the pain was out of this world. Luckily for me i saw my period the next day so no sex for us until after a week. Even subsequently it still hurt because his penis was too big for me to handle. I only truly started enjoying sex after i had my first child!

Today, six years and three kids after im a pro in the bedroom department. Lolz. There goes my story.

LMAO at Pro...*side eyes*

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STORY 28

Hello Stella, Leon Uris lover here. .....

Been reading some of the tales of loving couples wedding nights and I'm happy for them. 

To be in love and want to be with only one person sexually,isnt that just cute? well not for me.

     I got married at 25 to a man more than 30years older than me. it was the best day of my life, my family at one side of the room(my mom crying not tears of joy but of sadness and my dad outrightly disappointed but hoping for the best) and my husbands family at the other side of the room wondering what kind of African juju I must have used on my very successful white upper class doctor husband, his daughter's eyes burnt holes in my skin, I mean I met her dad through her after all. 

My course mate in school (St John's university New York) she could not believe it. 

      I did not care, I had my meal ticket, my green card guaranty,  my easy life in America account,my nna men working less than minimum wage in this America is not for me. hated my time in Nigeria and when I graduated I begged for my dad to send me to the states for my masters and as the first child they agreed. 

The just wanted me to be happy but they could barely afford it.

       Right off the boat arriving in America people explained that I could only get my green card through marriage and not through a degree and a good job as I had thought so I did what I had to do. 

          it was a very short courtship less than 6 months and a sharp and poorly planned wedding day and gbam i was married. 

My wedding night was romantic if you like that sort of thing.... A kiss here and there, penetration and 4 to 5 pushes and my new husband passed out exhausted and satisfied and me,lying there totally horny ( well i am always horny so that's nothing) and worried I had to do this for 5 years before pali enter hand hmmmmmm. 

      I thoroughly enjoy sex with multiple partners one after another or even at the same time so this married life was not for me....

 decided to go to the gym that night to release some tension since masturbation is not for me and I needed at least 30mins exercise to get myself. 

   To cut the long story short there was this stud in the gym  all sweaty and muscular and I knew that there and then this was the dude that was gonna make me have a memorable wedding night and not no silly threadmil and I was right as I had the hottest wedding night sex even if it wasn't with my husband and it continued till we divorced 4 years after. 

The marriage was a very fulfilling one as I learnt a lot from this older and wiser man, he put me on the right path in life, made me focused, paid fully for medical school and used his connections to get me a really good job for my residency, no alimony cause I signed a prenup but I still got a good settlement that I used to buy I nice home for myself in queens(not as classy as my husband's place in upper east side)and an apartment building in Brooklyn and I have no mortgage to pay or student debt. 

God bless my ex husband, now I'm a medical doctor with no debt and can go on with my life fucking whoever I want to.... 

Will adopt a child when i am 35 or go ahead and have one biologically if I can when I'm in my mid 30s .