JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH!!!!.......What a shocker!
STORY 9
Life itself is deep and bittersweet, so is marriage. Mine isn't exempted. Here's my story...
My husband and I went to the registry few months before my white wedding, we started living together. Days after we decided to run the routine checkup in blood tests, the worse happened. I was HIV positive!!!
It didn't stop the plans. We cried together, blamed all we could but hey, the truth was there to stay. Started getting meds and immune boosters and we were extremely discrete about it. Not even our family knows about it.
So on the white wedding night ( please note; we've been having sex since I accepted to be in the relationship. after he proposed, we started having it without condom...)
it was a challenge as we hadn't done it since we found out about my status. But guess what, I was tired n needed my beauty sleep when my nigga curved me while I was undressing , he took off the rest , carried me, gbenshed me silly like never before...
We got done with the first round, had some shots of my fave whisky and we continued again. Here we are, 5yeas after with beautiful babies and he's still negative.
God bless you Stella for this opportunity to share my story in a nutshell.
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STORY 10
Weldone o,Stella. This is my wedding night chronicle
My wedding was a big one too and so we ended up spending all we had and we even owed people cos my mum and MIL were forming church soceity women that there was no way we could have a quiet wedding, so we went overboard!
Our saving grace was that we got a lot of money from the dance floor and @ a point I didn't trust my CBM and my other close friends again that I wished I could be picking my money myself.
Fast forward till the end of reception, around 7pm, I collected all the bags of money and I ran into the car, hubby and i just couldn't wait to know how much we made, and we started counting and counting! We got 2 hotel room sef, we didn't freshen up we were just acting like thieves that just robbed a bank.
Infact we didn't eat, we weren't even hungry, and we couldn't even finish counting the money that night. We eventually wrapped them all in the bedsheet and we used it as pillow till the following morning!
Gbensh for where?????!!!! Na the money matter o, we were able to settle all our bills and still had more.
Story 9 WOW..JUST WOW!!!
Story 10,i had a great laugh,una use money do pillow?lol
Lolz at poster 10 use it as pillow,for poster 9;still confuse how your husband is negative.
ReplyDeleteOh dear!
DeleteStory 10, u and ur hubby are two crazy bunch*
Story 9, hiv is no longer a death sentence, so I wasn't so shocked he went ahead after knowing ur story!
Stella D, nice concept*! Honestly, u are one badass creative* lady! Kudos*
It's possible. Immune system and also her viral loads could be low so can't infect the man fast.
DeleteAnother thing is she takes some kind of drugs to keep her viral loads low before sleeping with her husband so he won't be infected.
Yeah it happens, there are people who are actually "immunned" to the virus through bodily fluids, but don't know what will happen if the are exposed intravenously.
DeleteIt's easier for a female to get infected than a male, the virus is embedded in body fluid and except the Sex is rough with cuts on the guys penile shift he won't be infected, if he's not also involved in oral Sex but for a woman the secretion alone from the penis even before ejaculation will infect us. Thank me later
DeleteAnd as long as the one is safely and religiously on drugs, s/he won't infect anyone if when having raw Sex. When you do test on them self, it might read negative.
DeleteThank me later.
@vee krested,thank you later
DeleteWaoooooo
Delete@ post 9, am sure u keep 2 your drugs, even your children will be -ve along as your viral load is very low n u don't breast feed them, your hubby may not contact b'cos he got strong immune system and continue to protect your blood away from your love ones
Anyway Scientists are still researching if d virus can be contacted through body fluid (sweat, saliva)
It very easy for men to spread it than women
Post 10, u no even fear if bad money dey among d money wey u sleep on *lol*
Your post is funny sha
Lil simple, contract not contact, just to educate ourselves. Thanks
Delete*contract*
DeleteStory 9: am kind of confuse, how come your husband is negative why you are positive, I guess you both have been gbenshing together, it's it possible that way??? Please I need to be enlighten on that cause am kind of confuse on that. Anyway thank God who has been keeping you guys going.
ReplyDeleteStory 10: you too are just so money conscious so tay una forget gbensh. I hail una
It is very possible for a man to not contract the virus from a woman carrier via sex than a woman. Women are more vulnerable to contracting HIV through sex than men. This analogy will help you understand: get a narrow neck bottle(heineken, star, etc) and a bucket. Now try to pour water from a height into the two. Check which of the two has more water. The bucket, yes? That is how it is for a man and a woman.
DeleteNow be a good girl and thank me.
Yes it is possible, I have seen it happen several times meaning her viral load is not too down and she hasn't been able to infect him,it is when you CD4 is so low that you stand the chances of infecting one,and then in his case again it is the grace of God,but this is not a new thing and I have seen couples like that a lot.
DeleteIt is very possible for a man to not contract the virus from a woman carrier via sex than a woman. Women are more vulnerable to contracting HIV through sex than men. This analogy will help you understand: get a narrow neck bottle(heineken, star, etc) and a bucket. Now try to pour water from a height into the two. Check which of the two has more water. The bucket, yes? That is how it is for a man and a woman.
DeleteNow be a good girl and thank me.
Yes its is possible. They are known as discordant couples ie one is positive and the other is negative.
DeleteThe truth is women get infected quicker than men because dour vagina opening is wide while the dick has a very tiny opening...
DeleteSo if her viral load is low, and she is taking her medications very well, chances of him contacting it is not high.. Unless she stops taking her drugs and being healthy.. But if it were to be a man with a low viral load, the woman will be infected even as he is on drugs
Yes it is possible
DeleteIt's very possible. HIV(virus) is not a AID(disease). If she has a gud immune system it will control the virus. Beside she said she takes her drugs and takes immune booster, so it's possible and am sure her and her husband live healthy and with doctor's prescriptions and instructions it's very possible for her not infect her husband and give birth to healthy kids. Am sure the viral load isn't much too.
DeleteThere are drugs that makes hiv dormant in the body.as long as u take your med all the time,it remains dormant in the body and u can have sex without your partner contacting h.i.v
DeleteIts possible dear I have seen couples like that during my nysc, its just miracle.
DeleteHer husband can be negative because it's harder in the first place for men to contract HIV. Secondly good anti retroviral therapy often reduces the viral load to sometimes barely detectable levels, such that the HIV positive partner is no longer "infective". So yes, it is possible.
DeleteDr S.
*scratches head* nna....omah Cindy your apology is too Iberibe ish.
DeleteOh really! So it's possible
DeleteEveryone is saying hard for men to contact Hiv! I know some ignorant men Will go about more to sex without condom thinking same! Hiv is real...
DeleteOma cindy, I love your analogy, u are sound... well done
DeletePoster 1,Oya clap for yourself.
ReplyDeleteU contracted HIV by gbenshing around and u did not inform ur horseband until he discovered by himself.
Anyway U are just lucky he is a woman wrapper that always lose control and his senses anytime he see Toto. If not....
Your stupidity knows no bounds. Idiota.
DeleteHe is a strong man.
DeleteHe did right by her.
Mr. James you are a Baastarrd! And a Hopeless one for that matter. For your very shallow mind, you believe it by only sex that one can contract the virus, Ozu nwuru awu. Don't worry stay behind your phone and be typing trash, till the time you write one you can never come out of it. Kitipa lachakwa gi any there.
DeletePoster 9... your husband is a real man! I'm happy for you and God keep your home
DeletePoster 10...lmao! #Moneymatters
James had a few words for u, but Anony 14.31 has taken all the words out of my mouth. So I'm only going to second all that she/he has said. Itiakwu.
DeleteStory 10: lol.
ReplyDeletePoster 1,please make your husband stop gbenshing you raw,to be on a safer side.Or do you want to render those children orphans???
ReplyDeleteSingle men and ladies,always go for HIV test before gbenshing raw oooo,e no dey show for face oooo!!!
Poster 2:U guys were really money conscious.Enjoy your marriage.
@nezz u sound stupid and dull,a person living with hiv can live for a 100 yrs and more as long as u take your drugs
DeleteOboy, i can't oh
DeleteI can't be walking on egg shells for the rest of my life,
Using condom for my wife
And scared my kids would contract it somehw through open sore or somesort.
Whatever kept him with you, must be sumthg very strong.
Ya husband get 10 lion liver!
ReplyDelete@9..omor ur hubby na ur soul mate ooo..Jesus..if na some men dm 4 don leave u since
ReplyDelete@Story 8, thank God for such an understanding man God gave you, I love your story, God bless your home more.
ReplyDelete@Story 9, thank God I've learnt a lesson here, we won't do beyond our power, so that my wedding night will be sweet lol
*Larry was here*
Abi so that u won't use money to do pillow😂
DeleteWhere u see 8, dis is d problem of commenting b4 reading
DeleteKikikikikikikikkikikikiikkkiki
Lmao!!!! This poster 10 and hubby ehen! Ur story is just somehow but funny all the same.
ReplyDeletePoster 9, thank God for giving u ur husband.
@ poster of story 9,you are very lucky that ur man decided to stick by you after finding out about ur status. If na some men Ben Johnson go be there case.
ReplyDeleteLol @ acting like thieves that just robbed a bank.
ReplyDeletePoster one,even after wedding some men divorce their wife(those that lied to be a virgin) but yours stayed with an hiv positive person,just wow! You are truly his missing rib.
Congrats to both posters
As in ehn
DeleteMay God never leave ur family especially that ur husband @ poster9
LMAO @poster 2. Na who send you go do big wedding when una no get money?
ReplyDeleteUna even use the money do pillow, make Thief no come carry the money when una dey sleep. Na waah ooo
Lol it was fun
ReplyDeleteStory 9, God gave u a testimony for a husband. I bless God for your testimony
ReplyDeleteWow, thank God for the first poster.
ReplyDeleteMay God continue to keep you and your wonderful hubby, may his light never depart your home.
Enjoy your beautiful marriage.
Poster 2: God abeg, i can only imagine the race and panting to count and ensure stomach infrastructure in your young marriage.
May God keep you guys jare......but it was so funny.
Poster one I don't understand your story oh. So who give each other the hiv naa?
ReplyDeletePoster 1, I hope say u no dey breast feed your children. Make they no come suffer for gbenshing wey u enjoy skin to skin without their involvement.
ReplyDeleteShut up already
DeleteE don do, haba.
DeleteJames,d one way dey ur body pass her own,do u know if u self get?u too dey talk aproko international 😛😛😛😛😛😛😛Una mentality is so wrong in Nigeria about people leaving with HIV...u will be fine James 😈😈😈😈😈
DeleteWow!@poster 9. Your husband is a good, mature and understanding man.A lot of men would have taken off and blown the cover on you but he didn't. He protected you from family and friends. Just wow! God bless your home.
ReplyDelete@poster 10 thanks for making me laugh this Sunday afternoon. So which bedsheet una come use cover body naa?
Mature ko..... You sure say she no use jass hold the man??
DeleteWhiskey drinker!!!
She even get "favourite whiskey", tufiakwa!!!
DeleteShe even get "favourite whiskey", tufiakwa!!!
DeletePoster 10, you people must be Ibo. Had a good laugh though.
ReplyDeleteNo we r yoruba ooooo! Lol
DeletePoster 1,you have got a good man.poster 2,why borrow to do wedding?if both mothers want big wedding,they should contribute.What if you weren't sprayed enough money to cover your debts?
ReplyDeletePoster one I wish you good health and so much love round about
ReplyDeletePoster two.... Tehehehehehe funny...
Poster 9- wow! The Lord is your strength.
DeleteThe 2nd post was hilarious oh my!una eyes red no be small,i just pictured u guys sitting on the floor,sweating and counting lol
ReplyDeleteStory 9 you sure say no be oga give u.there are men that don't test positive. Their body is unable to recognize d virus but they can transmit it . Good luck.
ReplyDeleteVery true
DeleteI laughed so loud @ story 10 to the extent my husband started looking at me to find out whether am mad 😠 I told him is SDK that is making me laugh like this lol. He. Practically pursued me to the room
ReplyDeleteLol
DeletePractically pursued you to d room to go fuck u sunday fuck....
DeleteJames Cousin......
Story 9 that's love mehn.
ReplyDeleteBut poster 2, ur horseband must be a very weak man sexually. No matter the financial stress, this is ur wedding night we r talking about . He should hv removed ur pants while u were sleeping and insert his long something very deep inside your something and gbensh u from the back even if you are tired.
ReplyDeleteLol James when do I call the doctor
DeleteU are just simply an excuse of a male specie... Degenerate!!! Nkita ala.
DeleteI trust you.
DeleteHahahahahaha OMG anyone that takes James seriously is just as crazy as he is. The guy cray well well. Lmao
DeleteJames is equal to an Hediot in caplocks... Who can't even make one sentence without being idiotic... Hediot, HIV positive moroon, I know this, don't ask me how
Delete#When they see you're doing better without them, that's when they want you back*
ReplyDeleteHmmmm.... nice one
DeleteStory 9: your man is amazing, God bless your home. Story 10: lmao, na wa ooo
ReplyDeleteP1, my God! The Lord is faithful, i see true love from from your husband,God bless him and continue to guard his immune system. P2, I fell down laughing
ReplyDeleteposter 9, thumbs up to ur hubby, not all men would still go ahead with d wedding. Ur hubby is nice and courageous
ReplyDeleteposter 10, ur WNB is not interesting but it is better than dat today's omugwo chronicles dat was juz feeling herself dere.
woow..gist 9 indeed God is great.5yrs and still negetive wow.How is that possible please somebody explain?
ReplyDeletePahahahahahahahaa @post 10
ReplyDeleteWoow....story 9....God has really blessed u and ur family..May He continue to be with u all...
ReplyDeleteBut how does it really work? When one partner is HIV positive and d other is still negative even after years of being together?
Poster 10..hahaha..that was how my one of my uncles did during his wedding o...infact they were still at d reception ground sef..I was wondering where d couple went almost at d end of d reception only for me to stroll to d car park and saw both wife and hubby locked in d car seriously counting d spray money...I shame for dem sha...kai..
Lol, maybe the didn't pay complete money for d reception venue and needed to pay up b4 d end of d reception. Lmao.
DeleteHahahahahah! Poster 10 you guys are silly.Lmao@thieves that just robbed a bank.Love your sincerity.
ReplyDeletePoster 9... praise God for you. Golden Jubilee to your marriage
Story 10, I feel u wella
ReplyDeleteStory 9. U got urself a good man. But wait o. Its hard to find ppl like that these days.he may be positive Nd have been on drugs for a long time. It happens DAT wen d CD4 count is very high,d tests might start reading negative but he will still be with d virus.
Whatever d case, u r damn lucky.
God is still alive performing wonder working MIRACLES, @story9 it is well with ur spirit, body nd soul.
ReplyDeleteGod is still alive performing wonder working MIRACLES, @story9 it is well with ur spirit, body nd soul.
ReplyDeletePoster 1.....i swear your story got me thinking in spasms. We know stuffs like this happen but you hardly hear it, especially when the woman is involved. Just wanna give you a tight hug right now. You've got a good man jare, People like J***s would have drawn out cutlass, called the two villages like war will soon break out. Spill everything in the shops and even as church as testimony and of course, marriage have ended.
ReplyDeletePoster 2... Still laughing jare. I am picturing your eyes shining like torch-light staring at money sprayed. hope you danced well so. So what if you heard the sound of a gunshot or even knockout, you and hubby would have swallowed the money....faints.
I love this series more.
If i get more amused, may comment again.
Lazy lazy sunday.
That story 8 should carry a "kids don't try this at home" warning very few people can be that lucky poster 8, ngwanu, you have a good man
DeleteJ***s = james
DeleteJames!!!!! Lmao
DeletePoster 2 tho...ah ah...who society wedding epp? Lmao
Story 9
ReplyDeleteAm happy you have a man that understands and stands by u.
Am sure alot of people would have left u to your fate. Have a blast
Story 9: I was touched deeply,God bless your hubby and your family
ReplyDeleteWas touched too by her story.
DeleteStory 9 wow!! You have a loving husband. Wow!! I'm very happy for you. God continue to bless your marriage. Wish most men were like that
ReplyDeleteStory 10 lol!! All this oweing money cos of wedding lol. You people wrapped the money in the bedsheets and used it as pillow loool... I'm guessing from the church women society thing and the amount of money sprayed, you guys must be igbos lol
*owing
DeleteWoow am amazed at such love. Well HIV isn't a life sentence. Glad you handled it well. God bless your home darlyn.@ poster 9 e hugs dear.
ReplyDeletePoster 9 thumbs up to ur hubby..u married a good man👍
DeletePoster 9 thumbs up to ur hubby..u married a good man👍
Delete@poster 1
ReplyDeletePlease,dont you ever leave your husband. ..no matter what.He has defined what true love really means.I hope you love him too.God bless your home.
@poster 2
Your gist is funny o.You and your hubby are truly meant for each other.See Money couple o.
Wow I am so happy for the kind of man God blessed u with
ReplyDeleteStory 9.... sounds unbelievable.
ReplyDeleteStory 10... getting married has turned to business.
Hahahahahahah poster 10 are you guys Igbo? Coz I know say na only Igbo people like money that much.ChaI I had a good laugh tho. But mhen am all emotional after reading poster 9 WNB.
ReplyDeleteIndeed wahoo! @ story 9. I just have to comment on this one. Your hubby is indeed one of the rare ones. He stuck by you despite that and even 'collected' skin to skin. Mehnnnnn! To say he loves u beyond human comprehension is an understatement. May God continually bless your home.
ReplyDeletePoster 10... so so hilarious... the reception 'spraying' money is very important jare. One has to protect it very well. Especially when there are debts to be paid
Wao... Poster one, you are extremely lucky.
ReplyDeleteROTFL Pst 10, na waoh, money matter couple I hail una oo.
ReplyDeletePst 9. There's nothing the lord cannot do. Today someone still testified of being negative to HiV after testing positive few mnths back. I believe we can't serve God nd still carry the devil's properties in our bodies. Be cleansed of that Hiv in Jesus Name, amen. Just believe nd that settles it.
Amen on her behalf. God truly heals, I'm a living testimony
DeleteStory 9 - I was really touched by your story. You have an amazing husband. God will keep both of you and you will grow old in good health and sound mind.
ReplyDelete@Story 10 -I can't stop laughing!
Story 9 wow!!! I was moved to tears... didn't know men could make such sacrifices for women.
ReplyDeleteThe last gist made me spray my screen with drink from laughter. Hahahahahahahhaaaaa Im still laughing o
ReplyDeleteCounting money like bank robbers! Hahahahahahahaaaaa
ReplyDeletePoster 9: Wow! GOD BLESS UR HOME
ReplyDeletePoster 10: I laughed out loud wen i got 2d part of u guys counting money like you robbed a bank...hahaha.
Thank God for His Unspeakable gifts.
#I am a fruitful vine, I am a joyful mother of children
I no understand @ poster 1. Ur hubby gbenshed you raw n no carry aids?
ReplyDeletePoster 1, I'm happy for you, you have found true love. No greater love sef dan what uv got.
ReplyDeleteHowever I think you are being rather selfish. You shld always encourage protection when having sex with ur hubby, dat u ppl have been lucky he is negative doesn't mean he shld take risk.
Even if he insist and says he wants to even get d virus, as a good wife and father to ur kids you shld always insist on protection.
Yes you are on meds and doing well, but your first duty as a mother/wife is keeping your family healthy.
God forbid smthn happens to you. Wldnt you want d father of ur kids to live a happy, healthy and long life.
Pls don't be selfish madam.
BTW this ur story seems manufactured and not real, I'm sorry to say.
No one is going to take having a partner with HIV that likely, he may not be angry, but definitely he will have a reaction stronger dan what u are saying.
Every one can't think or reason same as you do ok
DeleteLovely funny stories,may God continue to bless your homes.
ReplyDeletePoster 10 you are a clown. I had agreat laugh reading your story
ReplyDeleteGist 8,a lot of us are still wowing@your hubby, good man, nice man, understanding man, Godsent, caring man. You are so lucky oo. And some people will say is love, when he did not disvirgin you, yimu!
ReplyDeletemy own be say, you must be some kinda rich or makes more money, or hubby has inferiority complex, that's the only reason he will stay. I might be erong, but no my 2cent.
For those that will come and curse me, save it already.
Hmmmm!
DeleteStory 9 : wow!!! Your husband is God sent and your soul mate!!!
ReplyDeleteStory 10: hahahahahaha! Sharp couple. I trust una. No time
Poster 2.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahha, that's what happened when you invest your life in a wedding just to impress ndi nmadu (people), you guys are lucky you made some 'cash back', I can imagine how you will be looking st people spraying money on you. Hope the video man dry on point. Lol. Congrats ooo
poster 1: you see where ur wild life has landed you? ppl will still not learn, collecting raw prick upandown, whiskey girl, how can u make clear judgement on whisky.... i wonder the kind of man ure even marrying, maybe hes a cultist, so he dsnt care much, na una sabi.
ReplyDeleteMy nurse friend told me a story abt a woman in labour who needed blood.DH's was a fit so his blood got tested and he was very much positive.wifey later admitted he was a cheat and took her wedn band off before she left the hospital.all am trying to say is i believe sm people are immune to d virus else how do you explain both scenerios?
ReplyDeletePoster 9 I am happy for you that you have a very loving and understanding husband, but Ore pls hen open your eyes to see if this man is hiding the truth from you o. He may have tested positive before and started his treatments and reduced his viral load to mimimum. With medication and good lifestyle. If he tests for hiv he will show negative. But if that's the case, you may reinfect him with another strain of the virus, if you guys carry on without protection
ReplyDeleteThis wedding night chronicle is am award winning one
ReplyDeleteso funny. I remember looking for my born again sister that picked my money . She stole some. I never knew their rent don expire in Lagos. She came focused. Stella it's funny. I used bike to locate her on my wedding night. Hunby drove to the hotel
Lmao
DeleteAre u really serious? U used bike to locate her dat nite. Girl u r funny.
DeletePoster 10,you have really made me laugh.But what if the money did not come? What would you guys do with the outrageous debts? Poster 9,I'm so touch by your story. God is your strength.
ReplyDeleteP.1- Beautiful, love does exist, P.2 very funny...
ReplyDeletePoster 9 so happy for you.
ReplyDeleteYou married your soulmate.
May God continue to keep your home..
Poster 10 you & your like money too much Lolzzzz.
Portable viv where @thy comment???? Stella if u are responsible stoopeeet!!!!
ReplyDelete@ poster 10,you jst like the sound of ur voice abi,Na ur experience we say make u share wit us not ur pride na. Oga o u go get sharp mouth o,Go use ur age collect money from CBN nah useless bitch.
ReplyDeleteP 10 abeg oooo hahhahahahhaha
ReplyDeleteThey say there are some people who do not have the types of blood cells that the HIV clings to. So, they are naturally immune to the virus due to a deficiency of that particular cell. Could the man be one of those? I have seen 2 people in such a situation. It is confusing. If the man were to be positive and secretly taking his drugs judiciously, won't he just get tired of hiding the drugs from her and pretend to the wife that he was not feeling too well and decided to test only for him to find out that he is positive, and than start taking his drugs openly to the wife, while making her believe she infected him?
ReplyDeletePOSTER ONE
ReplyDeleteGod who see the secret of a man heart has seen the pure love ur husband
has for you and that is the reasons God favours you ,
maybe God has seen ur deeply sorry heart,
enjoy and be prayerful.
poster 2,
see as i said i no go laugh today but still you push me laughing .
God is faithful.
ReplyDeleteIt is very possible that one partner can test negative to the virus and the other positive , I had a patient , the man was a lawyer was so sick , and he tested positive , the wife was advised to do the test and she came out negative . The man was just crying and asking himself how ! How! How!
ReplyDeleteThe wife on the other hand was looking at him so intensively and in disgust , of cos he had a girlfriend .....
We also have seroconversion and serodiscondant patients .
The reason it's possible most people have explained accurately above , so no need to reiterate .
So glad that portable rat has been banished to her hole . Pheew big relief.bloody irritant.
ReplyDeleteSome comments here is really annoying, so because she's unfortunate to be HIV positive means she contacted the virus through sex? Excuse me?
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteMarriage on my mind
Hahahahahahahah! you guys are so funny! May God continue to bless your home. Thank God for people that sprayed you guys, if not, the story would have been painful! For the lady with HIV, it is so possible that your hubby can live without having it. One of my patients had hepatitis C while his wife is negative! They have kids, and the kids are negative also. The guy is lucky cos there is a medication for it so things like that happen. In medicine, you don't say, Always or Never!
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