Tasting The Cookie..

 Its that simple,if you wanna stay celibate,fine,tie your two legs together and pretend to be a mermaid but please dont Judge someone who decides to open their cookie jar!

THE MERMAID THEORY

Hi Stella,
I read the comments under beverly's post and was amazed at the comments.
We all talk about wanting to taste before buying, yet we claim to be Christians. I dont think that is right. Am not trying to judge anyone, am only trying to set the record straight,  so that we wont mislead the younger ones that visit this blog.
You can never partner with God and regret.  Let me explain that with a real life story.

There was this brother that was impotent and he knew it. He doesnt ask ladies out at all. All of a sudden, God told him to woo a certain sister.  He laughed it off and refused.  He eventually wooed the sister after continuous hearing from God. He kept reminding God about his impotency, but God said nothing. All along, the fiancee never knew he was impotent. 

Fast forward to the wedding night,  bros went into the bathroom to pray and ask God not to embarrass him. He came out and tried romancing his wife, nothing happened.  He went in to the bathroom a second time, yet nothing happened.  The third time, he was very angry!  He went into the bathroom,  he didnt even bother to pray.  In his exact words,  he said, ' God, you no fit! You cant do this to me' That was how the brother got healed o! He do the do well that night. The wife knew nothing about this until he gave the testimony in church during their child dedication. 

My point is, if we allow God to decide for us, we can never miss it. If God direct you to the right person, the sex can never go wrong.
The woman my pastor married was not his choice. He wanted another, but God told him no. Over twenty years down the line, they are happily married while the lady he actually wanted is a single mum with kids from different men.
I once belonged to the school of thought that sex is cool until God dealt with me. At this point, I get restless when I have sex with my boyfriend. I eventually ended the relationship after three years because my man cant have a sex free relationship. He said 'the relationship will be boring'. 

I was shocked, because that meant the only thing that made the relationship worth it to him was the sex. And when I pray about my future partner, I always tell God to make sure the man can satisfy me sexually because I looooove sex. I dont intend to taste the plantain before buying it, yet I trust GOD to give me the best man for me. God knows me inside out, he knows me more than I know myself, therefore,  he can never disappoint me.

 I BELONG TO THE PARTY THAT BELIEVE YOU DONT NEED TO TASTE THE PLANTAIN BEFORE BUYING BECAUSE AM BUYING IT DIRECTLY FROM THE MANUFACTURER.  THEREFORE, IT IS ORIGINAL, NOT FAKE.

*Sometimes it is easier said than done......Stop Judging and keep your legs closed.Some people cannot and thats their prerogative!