A 46-year-old business woman, Mrs Funmilayo Adedeji, told an Igando Customary Court in Lagos on Thursday that her husband had denied her s3x for 10 years.
Funmilayo, who said this while responding to a divorce suit filed by her husband, Omotayo, added that he gave no reason for starving her of sex.
“My husband refused to make love to me since 2006, I don’t know his reason.
“ I have called members of my family and those of his family to intervene but he refused to change.
“My body yearns for sex but I don’t just want to commit adultery because I want all the children to be fathered by one man,” she said.
The mother of two said that she accused her husband of using their son for ritual because he started making money immediately the boy was born.
“My husband’s wealth came and money started booming after the birth of our baby. Our son is now 12-year-old, but he can neither walk nor talk.
“He wanted to divorce me so that I will no longer persuade him to take the boy to the hospital for treatment.
“ He had always rejected medical treatment and had refused me approaching a church for deliverance.I always curse him because he used to beat me; he once beat me to pulp and I landed in the hospital,” she said.
She, however, begged the court not to grant her husband’s wish, saying she was still in love.
The petitioner, a 51-year-old clearing agent, had approached the court seeking to end his 16-year-old marriage over defamation of his character by his wife.
“My wife won’t stop accusing me of using my physically challenged son for money ritual.
“It is God that has blessed me with wealth; I never used my son,” he said.
Adedeji said that his wife was also “ good at fighting,’’ claiming she has the habit of beating him in public.
Apart from the beating, Adedeji also claimed that curses from his wife were beginning to affect his life and business negatively.
“My wife always curses me very early in the morning and those curses are now coming to pass in my life,” he said.
He, therefore, pleaded with the court to dissolve the marriage, saying he was no longer in love and would not want to commit murder.
“Please, dissolve the marriage before the devil will use me,” the estranged husband said.
After listening to both sides, the court’s president, Mr Adegboyega Omilola, adjourned the case till Sept. 6 for judgment.
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*Still in love how?The woman is troublesome abeg...in love with someone you accused your son of using for ritual?I wonder how Judges cope with cases like this....
End time konji
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DeleteMay God grant the Judge wisdom...I wonder why she wants to stay married with him after all these serious accusations, leave him and seek for solution for your sons's predicament na, na wa o.
ReplyDeleteHe denied u see for 10yrs, used up son for ritual, beat you and you landed in a hospital, yet u don't wanna get divorced because u still "love" him, abi his new found wealth. Women sef.
DeleteI'm thinking outside the box here; maybe they've told her somewhere that her husband used the sick child for money rituals and he's been instructed never to care for/treat the child or even sleep with the mother of the child ever again as one of those "cluases" those ritaulists always give people when the consult them, otherwise his new found wealth would fade. So he's been avoiding her sexually and even beating her just to push her out of his house so he doesn't mistakenly do any of the things he's been instructed not to do. Maybe he also can't kick her out personally but she has to leave of her free will and that's why he beats her but has never sent her packing. And the woman on the other hand has been accusing him to his face and quarreling with him constantly hoping that he gets tired or ashamed of what she heard he did and reverses things back so her son's health is restored. But now, he's trying to legally boot her out through the system instead of doing it personally and she doesn't want that because he would completely abandoned the son with her while he continues to live his wealthy life now free of the constant reminder of what he did to his own son to get the wealth. Maybe she's claiming she still loves him to avoid the divorce so she can still stay in that same house until he fixes what he's caused. That line of reasoning might explain why she feels the way she does but still wants to stay in the marriage. And she's claiming "love" in court so the court would not divorce them but ask them to go work on their marriage instead...... Just thinking outside the box.
DeleteAnonymous 13:27. Same thing I thought. Could be... hmmmm
Deletewhich love be that madam say the truth u love the money someone u said he did money ritual and u are still dre claimin u love him rubbish
ReplyDeleteI am lost for words regarding this matter! Why would you want to remain married to a man who you claim is involved in rituals and who has jeopardised the future of your child? This does not make sense to be in love with the devil after making such accusation. People cannot believe you.
ReplyDeleteI beg on his behalf please dissolve marriage o.
ReplyDeleteIt's frustration that's doing the woman. They want to set her free now she said no!
ReplyDeletewomen and sex this days. my own woman too will be giving me one bad eye in the morning if we did not have sex for only one night.
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂😂
DeletePlease can we swap wives? I only get it from my wife 5 or 6 times a month, IF I'M LUCKY. I find her very attractive and I can't keep my hands off her even after 15 years of marriage and 2 kids (she also had a kid that died before I met her). I've abandoned all my friends and spend all my time at work or with her and the kids. I feel I'm pathetic because I spend day after day hoping that I'll get it. I've not been unfaithful for 4 yrs now (she knows about it & we settled) but I'm really tempted right now especially now it's summer with all those randy oyinbo women walking around with almost nothing on and giving me eye.
DeleteNothing wey person no go see from this igando people, with their myopic way of thinking.anyway the woman and the husband ....both are shady.
ReplyDeleteStill in love kwa?
ReplyDeleteA man dat hasn't touched u for how long?
Beats u.
Hmmmm whose source of wealth u made suspicious.
And u say u still love him?
This negates everything u allege he does.
You are improving greatly. Congrats. Your last sentence though 'allege he does' is however wrong. It is supposed to be in the past tense except you added 'that'. Nne keep improving.
DeleteLmao @ anonymous 9:25 😁😁😁
DeleteThis man has openly Co fussed that the devil is about to use him, the worry. And I'll not borrow sense now and run for her life. Which kain nonsense live be that one, keep loving until u end up in the news like a lot others. Mtcheeeeew
ReplyDeleteThe man is just one wicked man,if truly he didn't use his son for ritual,why is he stopping her from taking the son for deliverance and why hasn't he make love to her after the birth of that son since 2006... something is fishy..
ReplyDeleteSome women with "wahala"! How can you sill be in-love with someone you accused of using your precious son for money rituals, beating you to a pulp and not making love to you for the past 10years? I'm surprised the judge even adjourn the case!
ReplyDeleteThe judge should grant the man's request immediately, before he kills the woman. I can see that the woman is a liar. If truly, your husband use your son for money rituals, why don't you find a way to take him for deliverance without your husband's consent.
Some marriages are built from hell. When you lay a foundation on a sinking sand, the foundation will always collapse sooner or later..
Woman what is your motive ,you live with a man 10 years no sex and you still wanna be with him ,liars go to hell
ReplyDeleteAll these igando people, you will never stop to amaze me. Your problems i have noticed about igando people is divorce. I no marry you again.
ReplyDeleteYou steal my money. you collect my wife. you sleep with my girlfriend.
Can something good not come out of IGANDO
You go fear love
ReplyDeletepls I dont mean to insult any tribe here but somebody should explain to me why yoruba's alway go to court.when ever I see a post about marriage gone wrong its always yoruba couple.why?
ReplyDeleteThere is a missing piece to this story. Why would the man not let the woman take the child to the hospital or for deliverance? Hmmmmm I tink the woman is just scared of what the society will say and how she would take care of her children.that's why she doesn't want to live. Some people are scared of starting over again, its very hard.
ReplyDeleteSo her curses are coming true...interesting?
ReplyDeleteWhy would the curses come true in your life if you are innocent!
You want to abandon your boy with her to suffer with after 16 years of evil marriage. No way!!!!!!
She go die diet witchu kikikikikikiki
Idiat man!!!!
Yoruba people and curses....hmmmm. I know several of them like this woman.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm,this woman sha, how can you love such a man with all the accusation?
ReplyDeleteShe is a liar someone that you accuse of using your child for money and you are telling us that you are still in love..... Someone that you also said he doesn't allow you to go for deliverance, woman find a chair and sit down instead of you to go and look for a solution to your child you are here telling us about love, but wait who are we to believe in this case when the man has not permit the woman to go to church for deliverance.
ReplyDeleteSo she has been spending the ritual money with him and still don't want to leave.
ReplyDeleteThe woman is confused.
The woman is suffering from cognitive dissonance. She is just contradicting herself.
ReplyDeleteThis woman is suffering from cognitive dissonance. She is just contradicting herself.
ReplyDeleteEnd time family
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