SDK Lawyers please get in here!!!
I have never received any kind of mail like this and I do not know what else to do but to post for the records ...In case anything happens to her because this sounds serious...I hope she is Okay...!
I have never received any kind of mail like this and I do not know what else to do but to post for the records ...In case anything happens to her because this sounds serious...I hope she is Okay...!
''Stella,Just in case i do not make it out alive in this marriage, i will want the world to know my story, and any man that stands in my way of justice may any female that will come from such fellow generation suffer in all their relationships or marriages.
For the past five years i have suffered in silence and tried to be a good wife, all kind of insults i have endured with my husband reminding me of how poor my family is, how rich and influential he is and that if he kills me, no one will question him.
On may 2014 i packed out of his house due to his emotional abuse without my parents knowledge because they hate divorce and warned me not to marry him but i didn't listen, he called my parents and told them and they wouldn't let me rest till i got back to him.
Everything is wrong with me and everyone around me except him.he is always right and his say is final.many time he has punished me by collecting my phone from me, collecting my car keys and emptying my bank account claiming that he bought them for me and he also refuses me to work.
Today i went to a neighbors house and when i came back he said why didn't i informed him before going out, to this i apologized many times and he wouldn't listen. he continued to shout at me in the presence of my house help and this made me to shout at him too and ask him how many times he has gone out of the house without informing me and if i do shout on him afterwards, he collected my phone again and i asked him to give me back my phone but he wouldnt listen, he told me he collected the phone because he bought it for me and told him to give me my sim then but he said no and started beating me.
I have no where to go to now but i have moved to the visitors room.
NB - I sent you this mail Stella in case i do not make it out alive. i told him when i married him that the day he raises his hand to beat me that will be our last day together as a couple. thanks''.
*I spoke with her this morning and for now she is safe in the guest quarters.
Her name is Mrs Titilope.If you know her,please intervene in this situation before it escalates into something else.I do not want to ignore and have this on my conscience if anything happens to her.
She says she wants a Lawyers contact that will help her with divorce proceedings.Where are SDK Lawyers?
Please drop a contact,she will be reading this post.
Please drop a contact,she will be reading this post.
God!
ReplyDeleteHelp my life
I'm so scared after reading this😩
U don't have to,was talking to some friends yesterday about domestic violence, lo & behold one of them said, what will people say? I was like are u al right,if l die the Man will marry another woman ASAP!!! Ladies be careful of who u get married to.God help us
DeleteMove out of the house instead of staying in house ........is ur intestine tied to him?
DeleteThis is your only opportunity to start on a clean slate...unless u have have made up ur mind to die put.
From the. Chronicle I have been reading from dumb desperate girls here,this tins are bound to happen if care is not taken..
The signs will be there n they will still be asking stupid questions.
Portable midget sef dey kol people dumb and desperate! Kikikikiki! Queen of mumu & Daffy herself, kakakakaka, kwokwokwokwo
DeleteAll these nonsense just because she went a neighbours house? This is so sickening. Mrs let me tell you, all these nonsense is because you are not working and earning a living.
DeleteIf you have a paying job, the stupid man will not have any liver to dare ask questions or confiscate any of those personal items he got you.
I will advise you leave that vicinity immediately,take some time off to breathe, get yourself a job and never ever accept any personal gifts from him.
I will not advice you commence Divorce proceedings now, it is usually better not to act in anger. Divorce issue now will further give you plenty emotional stress, I would rather you go to the police and make a formal report of domestic violence immediately, you can charge him to court thereafter and once you have nailed him with that, you can then continue with the divorce.
The domestic violence charges will water grounds for you
It is not easy, but I tell you that you are lucky to be alive. People can die from just one single slap.
Physical abuse is not the only type of abuse, he has already started with verbal and emotional abuse and then finally crowning it with Physical abuse which is usually the course.
Please, defend yourself with every single strength that you have.
If he is corporately employed, attach a copy of the domestic violence police report to a well written complaint, signed and sent to his company.
Return the abuse, DO NOT LOOK BACK, if he had killed you, he will get married in a matter of seconds.
BTW, do you have kids? If not, drag him all over the place (the HNN way).
If this is all about it, pls poster, find another way to make your marriage work.
DeleteBut if it's more than this, even the guest apartment won't save you.
I would suggest you see your priest or marriage counsellor.
May God protect you
There's no offence in the Nigerian criminal code known as "domestic violence". Emotional and verbal abuse are not criminal wrongs, they are moral wrongs and the court of law is not a court of morality.
DeleteThe only charge a police can prefer against her husband is that of assault which must involve physical abuse like a slap or a blow or other forms of physical attack. There must be physical contact which caused her pain and such assault must be documented. Moreover, you will hardly get a police officer in Nigeria who will be willing to prefer a charge against a husband by his wife. You will hear statements like "madam go and settle with oga", " madam go and be a good wife and stop challenging your husband" "oga is the head of the house, madam. You must respect him" "marriage is endurance, go back and endure" "madam marriage is not a bed of roses, keep praying for him. No marriage is perfect" "But madam does oga not feed you?" etc. Remember the Nigerian Police Authority is predominantly male, they hardly protect a woman's interests.
Even in cases of actual physical abuse, most victims only report at a police station for record purposes. In case something more serious happens, there already exist evidence of a previous attack.
I agree with you that divorce is premature at this stage but she has no ground to file criminal charges for a moral wrong.
@Ronalda I just love the way you write. U always sound intelligent. I to say u never marry, I for just sweep u off ur feet.
DeletePls give us your parents number. Let's talk some sense into their heads
DeleteEnd time Savage
ReplyDeleteWhen your husband is authoritative but you closed your eye and mArried for the money.
DeleteMoreover it is better to cry in a range rover than on a bicycle.
Good luck
Madame stop being disrespectful to your husband. Imagine how many housewives has a car, house maid even guest apartment. I'm sorry for you, you better go and make amendments before another woman moves in or you Wanna go back to where you are coming from... Okay ooo😯
DeleteThe way I hear things about marriage,is even making me scared to venture into it,madam I will advise you just as stella said to get a lawyer and fight for your divorce and before doing that transfer all your money to another acct unknowingly toyour husband since he like seizing all your things.and besides just be calm and don't shout at him ,so he don't get angry and beat you the more,cause most men this days are demons,they kill their wife and dey feel no remorse and besides no man Is worth dieing for ,kneel down and pray to God him alone has the final say to your problem.
DeleteOh God why all this
ReplyDeleteSerious issue.
DeleteOmg!!!! It's the society that has made women powerless.
ReplyDeleteI pray you come out of this. 5years?????
Say NO to Domestic violence, marriage is not by force!!! Why 'll you beat someone you claim to love?? The mother of your kids??? Somemen are beast tho!!!
ReplyDeleteOooh, Poor woman! I really feel your pain and wish 😟 please someone should help her... na God I use beg una...biko, Lahor, Alsjeblieft, S'il vous plaît, per favore 😣💔💔💔
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteNa wa oo
This thing called love.
Love alone is not enough to keep to persons happy like fairy tales o
It's not Love dear, and truly Love is never enough to make marriage work. Whatever happened to Tolerance, Knowledge about marriage, Compatibility, Anger Management...some people don't look out for these things before getting married. The fact that you LOVE someone doesn't mean that both of you are compatible. Clearly the man is domineering and controlling to the teeth, why not allow her to work? Am sure she saw the signs and still went ahead. Compatibility, tolerance and knowledge matters a whole lot in marriage
DeleteShe says her parents dont want her to divorce him,which means she must remain a mrs sombody. So what exactly does she want?what will the org' tell her horseband that will make him stop bn crude?
ReplyDeleteThank you, is the organisation coming to tell the husband to stop beating her or to tell him to park out of the house for her ( since she can't leave) I don't really understand
DeleteIt's like u pple just read without understanding. Dats d main reason she's asking for help. Her parents hate divorce nd her bank acct is empty. Who does she nw meet??? Dats why she sent a mail to Stella.read, digest b4 u type.
DeleteThis sounds exactly like my husband. The only difference is my husband is dead broke. I am already planning my exit. I just pity my daughter in all of this mess. Because he has always threatened he will never let me have her and she is just two years. I have no work n no money but my family is supporting me to leave.
ReplyDeleteYou're jobless & you're calling someone else dead broke? What strand of weed are you smoking? You're stupidly going to drag a 2 year old into this nonsense when you have nothing to support her with except your family backing you to leave. Jisike inugo?
DeleteNa WA. T devil is working 25 hours in people's house. If I say homes, they will not allow the devil to use them. So house qualify this when you don't have forgiveness and tolerant for one another.
ReplyDeleteMr. Babarinde, God will deal with you as you dealt with your wife. IDIOT animal called 🐴band.
Mrs Babarinde please 🏃 from that hole called House.
O Chim...
ReplyDeleteMadam, God will surely see you through. I just hope you are an educated lady with good qualification, with that you can look for a better job to avoid all this "Na me buy am for you" attitude of his.
Continue to hold on to God and believe that it shall end in praise..
P.s, All those that come here to scream "Single ladies should never settle for less," you guys have seen one of the outcomes. To tell you that it's not about settling for less or not, it's about if he's the ONE.
Madam, you don't seem to be a nice person. I said it before it is usually ill mannered women that suffer domestic violence. See the way you started your write up. Yet you are looking for help and goodwill from people. Why lay a curse on somebody that did not offend you?"may any female that comes from such a fellows generation suffer in all their relationship and marriages " is this line really necessary at this moment?
ReplyDeleteWith all your myopic views on relationships, you make small sense here.
DeleteThat curse wasn't necessary, but it cannot even hold because even the bible in the book of proverbs says that the curse that is cause less shall not come.
I'm totally against violence, but this story isn't complete. It seems as though she's got other ulterior motives.
DeleteThis story is too vague and flat-out preposterous.
Started beating you when u asked for your phone back. Just like that? You went to your neighbor's, and then he seizes your phone and car key(u have a car he bought for you as his beloved wife). ThaTs after you didn't tell him your whereabouts.
What do u do for a living? Please don't tell me 'nothing'.
You easily come to sdk to blurt out half-story about being threatened with death to buy conscience (that you don't have,yourself).
The world sha.
Are you scared of the curse? This one is a spec compared to truck loads of curses on ya head. Just carry this one and add more feathers to your cap.
DeleteJames u are a BASTARD. Normally I would have ignored ur comment, but no I won't. U are a very useless human being. A person of no worth. How dare u? How dare u say it's Ill mannered women that suffer DV, what right has any man got to lay hands on a woman just cos she's his wife? I marvel at the type of family u came out from James, u must from a very barbaric and animalistic family, cos most times u sound like an animal in the bush. Useless waste of spermatozoa.
DeleteI really do hope you have a sister and I pity your wife.....
DeleteJames God bless u my brother, this is exactly what I wanted to say, she sound so arrogantly and stubborn and yet playing victim, I wish we could hear from her husband. I don't also think she has some kinda respek to her husband. Good luck to u madam.
Delete@nina and some senseless morons on this blog,that have no boy friend not to talk of husband ,given unreasonable advises to their mothers mate ,the thunder that will strike you is doing press up.The story is one sided and you have already jump to conclusion.No reasonable man would do such to his wife from no reason .There is more to this story ,as I believe it's one sided.The lady in question went for the marriage for money and not for love and all glitters is not gold..So be it.
DeleteNina see how you disgraced yourself. James was right you are troublesome. You are even the poster but see the kind of insult you pour on someone for his opininon. No wonder your husband beat you silly. You never see anything yet, continue running mouth like tap. You gave yourself away..go down and see.
DeleteGod punish u pweety. I can never be the poster, it's ur mother and urself that will go tru DV. Unfortunate human being. I put up my number cos I'm a lawyer not cos I'm the poster. Useless idiot.
DeleteDont you ever mention my mum you mannerless nini. Did you grow up in the slum? You were not taught how to give opinions without ranting like a dog on heat? You will continue to go through DV..inshort you will die in that marriage. Fool! The man that married you this nitwit is quite unfortunate. Stupid thing!!
DeleteThis would have been me! God i thank you for giving me the courage to walk away not minding what people will say
ReplyDeleteSorry madam buh ur story isnt complete.dis is a one sided story. How can u jst ask for your fone and he started beating u? U knw the kind of person you married and u are suppose to avoid things that will cause issues. If your going out wif out telling him will cause issues, tell him before going out.avoid things that will cause issues.jst calm down and think straight, do anytin that will make u happy.wish you all the best
DeleteDear cassy I pray you will not fall victim. We don't understand these things until it happens close to home. I know ssomeone going through dv in her home. Nd the husband beats her over sonething as little as not eating the food he got for her. Nothing justifies dv let's stop encouraging these ill mannered over fed babies in grown men skin
DeleteI thought is my sister that wrote this, this is exactly my sister's story, My sister's hubby broke her phone to pieces stopped her from chatting with her friends on Facebook, he even went ahead to hack her Acc to see if she's cheating n he didn't see any cheating message, he just saw that she was connecting with her Secondary n University friends. My sister had to call me to help her deactivate her facebook Acc, which I did for her
ReplyDeleteThis idiot that called himself hubby still accused her, this is a lady that barely go out
I just advice her yesterday to have source of income no matter how small she earn, now I want to register her in this new networking business "Oriflame" thought how to do the marketing since she likes cosmetics.
I'av 2 phones n a Tab, now i'm going to give her d Tab, d day that idiot will start his insanity n lift his smelling hand to break that Tab, ehhhhhhhhhhhhhhh am waiting, i'av given my sister conditions that if her hubby like let him break anything he own but he should dear touch d Tab, I use d Tab for 2yrs nothing happened to it
Some men are idiots
I'av never dated a guy that even shout @ me talk more of raise hand
Mr Emmanuel
Be warned
My dear dating is different oh just pray you never fall victim. I dated my current hubby for a year before I married him, then he never raised his voice at me but now there is no form of DV I haven't experienced in less than 3yrs of marriage the only difference is I have the support of both families so I have promised the next time he touches me it will be a police case of attempted murder shame or no shame.
DeleteYes dear I know Dating is different
DeleteDem never born that husband well wey go even slap me talk more of beat me like am a slave
God punish dat Bastard that will try dat shit on me
But seriously I don't understand, a man sleeps with me, weather u call it love making or not, I cook 4 u, have children together, u start giving me emotional pain or beat me
DeleteChaiiiiiiii I never see that guy yet, I think men knows their type honestly
God hates DIVORCE but if not dissolving a violent marriage will lead to Murder, am in for it, I don't even understand why wife will solely depend on her hubby, that's why d man thinks without him u can't live
@ sister of Mr Emmanuels wife your sister is aa WHORE! You know it and you are one Too. Na because I never tell your husband your antics that's why you are ranting like a mad dog. She married Emma knowing he runs a modest bussines, now she's sex chatting with married men for money. Emma sef dey sorry for your sister. I for don rub pepper for her yansh. Useless mother of 2 yet an unrepentant ashawo. Don't worry let her use your tab to continue her begging bussines and Emma will use it to tear her head, and what are you gonna do. Why didn't you drop your sisters name, you dey drop her hubby name. Useless worthless shameless daughters of a bad mother. God punish your head there
DeleteChoi...nyash openers everywhere. Nina chocomilo must also be a married hoe.
DeleteAnony 14.19 yes now, don't u know am a whore, but aleast I'm a whore to my hubby. Unlike ur mother who is community toilet with bastards to show for it. U got a daddy?
Delete@ anno 13'35 u just displayed your stupidity
DeleteU can't even read to understand jezzzzzzzz
Who send u 2 reply me
God love o o u didn't reply me with your id
Is obvious u'r insane, if u'r a WHORE, HARLOT doesn't mean every one is
Scallywag
Do u want d Tab? I can com fuck your hubby (if u even have any) n buy one for u
Fooooooooooooooool
Buffalo
Stupid slut just displayed her stupidity, I can come aand fuck your hubby!!! You see your life! Community toilet! Poor excuse of a Human being! You are on annon mode, and you are running mouth here. Tell your sister that as her body count dey go up na so she dey use her ashawo reduce her husband and his finances to zero. Tweeh. I spit on you both! She's connecting with university friends indeed! A married woman wen nor gree look front dey connect with pple she finds on facebook ! Awon ashewo ati slacked punani tide o. Idiot fellow. Dem never beat her reach, shebi you be loyal bv, why not ask her to send in her cronicles and lamentations, make people shred her to bits here. Gosh I hate I despise adulterous women. Why did she ask you to deactivate her face book, to bury all the evidence abi???? Nor worry HIV is locating you both soon. If it hasn't already. Retarded bastards. Born in the trade and will die in the trade. Emma carry on and beat her until the evil spirit rejects her lifeless body.
DeleteStupid slut just displayed her stupidity, I can come aand fuck your hubby!!! You see your life! Community toilet! Poor excuse of a Human being! You are on annon mode, and you are running mouth here. Tell your sister that as her body count dey go up na so she dey use her ashawo reduce her husband and his finances to zero. Tweeh. I spit on you both! She's connecting with university friends indeed! A married woman wen nor gree look front dey connect with pple she finds on facebook ! Awon ashewo ati slacked punani tide o. Idiot fellow. Dem never beat her reach, shebi you be loyal bv, why not ask her to send in her cronicles and lamentations, make people shred her to bits here. Gosh I hate I despise adulterous women. Why did she ask you to deactivate her face book, to bury all the evidence abi???? Nor worry HIV is locating you both soon. If it hasn't already. Retarded bastards. Born in the trade and will die in the trade. Emma carry on and beat her until the evil spirit rejects her lifeless body.
DeleteWhat did I just read?...
ReplyDeleteI keep saying that most married women are Mugus to their husband!...
Poster,you need to do a serious spiritual work on your husband!...
You need to humble him mehn,trust me that after doing the work,he will be licking your ass...
Infact,he will be your Mugu for life!...before he spends his own money,he must get permission from you!....
That's what most correct women wey sabi uses in taming their blockhead husbands!...
Bad advise😯😯😯😕
DeleteYou and your mouth ehn
DeleteGbam!
DeleteQ & b infact this is what a friend told me that her friend did to her husband, even to the extent the man will bring his salary to the woman, the husbands mother came for eye operation, she was sleeping in the corridor as in its that bad. Men forget that their life is in the womans hands after God.
DeleteVery bad advice. Poster,do not do this. You can never correct a wrong with another wrong.
DeleteIts a life threatening issue so my advice is you leave that place asap to your parents place for a few days to cool off and decide what your next move is.
If you've decided on divorce, you need a plan. Do you have a job or a steady supply of income because your husband wont give you a dime while the proceedings are going on. If you don't, i suggest you start saving asap and start something,no matter how small. Save every penny because you would need it. What about the children, if any? You need a plan for them as well.
It wont be easy but if you're determined, it would work.
Haaaahaa walahi u be case ooh see me lmao cos of ds comment.
Deleteoh no!!! i can only sympathise with you madam.
ReplyDeleteand for that unfortunate oponu that thinks he has a right to hit you, na God go punish am!
stupid fool that will not look for manly things to do! Rubbish!!!! Namsense!! *in bloglord's voice*
Don't allow anybody to brainwash you about watching that nonsense war room!...do like I said and thank me later...
ReplyDeleteOmg!!! I taught I was the only one that saw watching "war room" as brainwash!!! Abeg chop 5 for this 1daful comment
DeleteI watched too, did all that was done in it before nd after watching it nd still no head way. Some men are just cursed that no amount of prayers can work for then
DeleteMadam by laying a curse on a woman u never met b4 shows the type of woman you are. I know this is the same way you hv been cursing your horseband, house maids and people around you.
ReplyDeleteU have to change your attitude. It is nothing to write home about. Even if you divorce your horseband. U won't make any headway with another man with this your manners.
BTW
I pray u settle ur issues peacefully with your man.
Will you keep kwayet!
DeleteUseless unfortunate human being. Mistake creature. That's what u are. Useless dirty pig. I pity any woman that co habits with u.
DeleteNwannem God bless u for standing out.
Delete@nina..u get strength ooo.
DeleteDon't tell me u use those words even outside this blog.What u type says so much about you.Leave James to his opinion.
Dietitian nze....leave nina alone she is the poster why won't she be dealt with, see her comment then imagine how she replied her husband. She's just an ill- mannered bitch. Bt shey u have a clothing bizness nau
DeleteThe fact is that James says some hard truth (African ) many people don't want to hear. The reason for the constant attack.
DeleteEzenwanyi used to say some of these things too.
Madam will not divorce her husband at least not now. You really can't change people but you can change your attitude and tolerance level.
From your write up, this is the first time he's hitting you and you want to leave because you promised yourself you ll leave if such thing ever happens. Fine! It's your life and your decision.
I don't know if you have kids, but for you to leave with your kids you need a source of income. Since this is the first time and it happened because you talked back at him in front of the house helps, madam get your acts together before you leave (if you insist ).
She does not have any business. She married the man for money and probably is still fucking around. Which neighbour's house? By their friut you shall know them. No wonder she supports queen and boss in all the comments she makes. See how a faceless being have influenced you in such a way that it is affecting your marriage. Continue taking bad advice. The man should even kick you out so you continue your whoring.
DeleteStella,why didn't you drop her contacts?....
ReplyDeleteDid you read the post at all?
DeleteThis is just sad,what happened to all the love?May God touch him to treat you like his rib.If you need a place to stay & clear your mind,I have a spare room.I reside in the north.hugs
ReplyDeleteDunno if it's just me, I hardly sympathize with dv women anymore. I just read their stories and move on. No thanks to those who receive help and jump back into the sinking ship. One thing over come to realize is that Nigerian women have a terrible mindset about marriage. They would rather die a Mrs than live as a miss. Such mentality is evident in the way they turn their noses up at spinsters and even in sdk chronicles. And the parents stance is another nauseating thing. Your daughter is staring at death in the face and the only thing you're concerned about is her permanent residency in a dead marriage. Na wah!
ReplyDeleteMadam, Pele. I hope you get the help you need.
My opinion is that she's just angry and probably want to disgrace the man online. She doesn't sound like one who is ready to leave the marriage. If the man apologises and gets all lovey dovey again na, she'll forgive and the circle will continue. I'm not sure she's ready to leave so I don't know what any org. Will do for her.
DeleteMy dear, exactly o!!! I hardly sympathize with them coz they will still go back even if they get help
DeleteI don't think you understand the implications of her write up Stella.
ReplyDeleteWhat case will be taken up? Is she going to sue him for physical or emotional violence towards her?
She might not want to admit it cos she's a rich man's wife but she does need financial help, whether she likes to admit it or not.
She says he punishes her by seizing her phone, car keys and emptying her account because he provided those for her... If she had her own money would he do that?
She has no where to go for now, because she has no money, if she had money, she would get her own place and not have to involve friends or relatives in her marital issues.
He's been threatening that if he kills her nothing would happen and she's still with him, he beat her and the best she could do was to move to the guest room?
And you say she no need financial help? Wo.. Na financial help she need pass abeg.
Madam poster, you better throw shame out the window and move out of that house, don't even pack anything with you, just go empty cos the yeye man will come to look for you, claiming he wants to take back the things he bought for you.
Don't hide it from your parents either, beg them to back you up that you want to leave him because he tried to kill you...
No one is above mistakes, they will forgive you cos having a divorced daughter is better than having a dead one.
That man will kill you if you continue to stomach nonsense, better learn from those that trod this path before you...if you are a regular BV here, you would have read about real situations like this from other BV's.
I de vex this morning abeg.
You are very sensible..
DeleteSince you know what tringer his abuse avoid it, take time to plan your exist. Gather enough cash to start your own business
DeleteGet a secret account not necessarily in a bank when you've safe enough Waka without looking back
Please learn not to run your mouth always. See the way you painted the man you always open your something for him to gbensh as a terrorist. Abegi calm down. After all the time two of you were enjoying and making love, Una no invite the whole world. And ur parents even warned you against this marriage. U now want to prove them right. So you were stubborn and disobedient to ur parents. Now you are doing the same to your horseband. Please learn to be a nice woman.
ReplyDeleteAnd u are wrong by shouting back at him in the heat of the moment. U should hv kept quite and wait until the right time.
U should hv waited until when he is gbenshing u. When the thing start to sweet him well well. U will now tell him Honey, I did not like the way you shouted on today. He will immediately apologize and tell you to forgive him that he is very sorry.
U should never fight fire with fire in marriage.
I'm sorry James but you are just an idiot.
DeleteCouldn't help myself.
Lol. James o. The one i'm angry about is the fact that her parents warned her. Girls will never listen. Any marriage that your parents refuses to bless, don't enter. Some will advise u to get pregnant 4 the man and elope with him. Lol.
DeleteWhat an old man sees sitting, u won't see it even if u climb the tallest tree
who eva dis Mr DickheadJames is,wow! u amaze me wit d way u respond 2 domestic violence post. i pray ur daughter wl fall in dis category 1day den u wl knw hw tru some beast who cal demselves men are. i am a victim, my parents wont let me out cos of d stupid society who cry crocodile tears wen i die in it. my neighbors knw my story, n 2 mak matters worse my hubby is a celeb whom Stella herslf knws.
DeleteReceive sense!!!!✋✋
Deletestella pls kindly approve my reply 2 james
DeleteYou are sick in the head. If Mr Babarinde was arguing with Floyd Mayweather, will he start beating Mayweather? The answer is NO! He will rather wee and pooh on himself and even eat it up.
DeleteSo, he has no fucking right to raise a finger.
Anon, No please, no need to curse a child who may not even be born yet just because of her father's indiscretions.
DeleteIm sorry about your situation. If its that bad, Please get out of that marriage. Get enough savings to start something for yourself and kids and leave. I know its easier said than done but its better than dying there.
He don do naa,why are u ranting about?wetin be yah own
DeleteAnd ur parents even warned you against this marriage. U now want to prove them right. So you were stubborn and disobedient to ur parents. Now you are doing the same to your horseband. Please learn to be a nice woman.
DeleteAnd u are wrong by shouting back at him in the heat of the moment. U should hv kept quite and wait until the right time. Gbam! !
This is my opinion stella,
ReplyDeleteI am totally against domestic abuse to the core, but do u know that Some Men also face a lot of emotional/verbal abuse from their Spouse.
Alot of things are just not right in marriage nowadays, people marrying for the wrong reason eg i want a man so financially comfortable with the lady in question not contributing a dime to that marriage( it necessary doesn't have to b financial contribution) it could be as simple as trying to b more of a friend to your spouse assisting him by trying to more a a solution provider to his problem and not just give,give ,give kind of lady!!!!!!!!!!!.
In my own case , i have a wonderful wife, but the only problem is her money is hers while my money is ours.Too Bad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. What happens if i am finacially down.
Its time we start educating our women on how to balance things with your spouse.lets say Show him true conventional love( buy him things from the money he gives u,give him a good treat sometimes and u sure will get the best out of him except his totally irresponsible and that i figure u would have noticed b4 getting into that marriage.
God bless u Stella(but really i dont know why people bring thier family ish to u oh, except stella is now a marriage counselor ) lol
Oga, rest abeg. U don't av any problem
DeleteNice comment
DeleteMy dear are you now saying your wife should give you all her money,your money Is ,yours and her money is hers,so let it be like DAT,definitely a woman will support if she find out her man is broke.but not all the time.
DeleteAfter all said and done and the man remains a beast, what happens? Dear bv, a beast will always be a beast. Just pray someone you know doesn't pass through this.
DeleteThank u.
DeleteOnly you can save yourself ma. No one can save you. Put a few things together and leave! Do you have children? If you do, then you should understand that they are worse off if you die in the name of marriage. Material things come and go, so get your priorities right and BOLT! You are the architect of your life. Take charge!!!
ReplyDeleteThis is my opinion stella,
ReplyDeleteI am totally against domestic abuse to the core, but do u know that Some Men also face a lot of emotional/verbal abuse from their Spouse.
Alot of things are just not right in marriage nowadays, people marrying for the wrong reason eg i want a man so financially comfortable with the lady in question not contributing a dime to that marriage( it necessary doesn't have to b financial contribution) it could be as simple as trying to b more of a friend to your spouse assisting him by trying to more a a solution provider to his problem and not just give,give ,give kind of lady!!!!!!!!!!!.
In my own case , i have a wonderful wife, but the only problem is her money is hers while my money is ours.Too Bad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. What happens if i am finacially down.
Its time we start educating our women on how to balance things with your spouse.lets say Show him true conventional love( buy him things from the money he gives u,give him a good treat sometimes and u sure will get the best out of him except his totally irresponsible and that i figure u would have noticed b4 getting into that marriage.
God bless u Stella(but really i dont know why people bring thier family ish to u oh, except stella is now a marriage counselor ) lol
This is one of the reasons why marriages don't last these days...
DeleteOga,You are the head and your wife is the neck!,,,
And yes,your wife's money is hers while yours is for everybody!,..
You don't expect her to change her name to yours,born kids for you,cook for you,take care of the kids and home front,have sex with you,give you a shoulder to lie on when you are down,respect you and still bring her hard earned money to assist you...
No!!...it dosent work that way....if you want her to be assisting you financially,that means you guys have to be sharing the chores etc...
50/50...
No time for rubbish!.,,
Correct
DeleteQ&b u are mouthed infact u know what's up.
DeleteMadam continue deceiving these single & idiotic girls who think that marriage is bf/gf. If changing your name to husbands name, having consensual sex & raising your family is such a herculan task, please marry your father & also have kids for him, I think it'll solve this bickering. I don't care what my wife earns but I have a problem when we do monthly grocery shopping & maybe run out of items mid month & you drive past a supermarket to come back home & tell me about baby food & diapers. If you can't spend N5000 on your child till our next shopping, then there's a humongous problem. What are you doing with the money? Building in your father's village abi saving so the day we quarrel you can pack "your" kids & go? So you're marking time & waiting for it to crumble nah?
DeleteMrs Babarinde,may God settle ur home
ReplyDelete"No 'sane' man beats a woman who's an asset to him"-pastor Aromolaran.
"Marry him if he's rich",when a man thinks u r with him cos of his wealth/connection n feels like ur lord n saviour,he has d tendency to misbehave n treat u anyhow. Well...not sayin dats d case on dis occassion
I don't understand this post one bit..
ReplyDeleteMadam you said you have no where to go to? Can't you go rent a place to stay even if it's a studio room? Must you still remain in that house?
So you just left yourself at the mercy of the wolf?
The choice is yours to make, do you have the will to live? Or you just want to die? It's up to you..
1. He emptied her account.
Delete2. He doesn't let her work.
3. She's not allowed to have friends.
4. She's from a poor home.
Therefore dear northy, she can't afford to move, except ur offering to take her in?
Don't u read at all????? SHE HAS NO MONEY. My GOD m almost forced to kal a lot of u OLODO
DeleteShe doesn't av money nau. Abi no be money she go use rent house ni? She's big man's wife to the public but church rat to the husband. Useless man
DeleteHer husband empty her bank acct,can't you get it.
DeleteMy own is any man beat his wife should be jailed, fine heavily and also loose whatever right He suppose to have on his kid(s) and yet must ensure He pays child benefit. I hate violent people with passion.
ReplyDeleteStella this is scary in this age and time nooooo now nooooo what... She needs to decide oh and leave
ReplyDeleteMay God rescue her. Amen
ReplyDeleteSo Sad May God see you through this.
ReplyDeleteMoral of the day" My parent warned me not to marry him, but I refused"
Deep one, So sad.
God is your strength
Madam you are not ready to leave. Stella had made post about so many numbers to call and organisations for domestic violence that offer help and place to stay but you are moving into guest room..
ReplyDeleteUr parents hate divorce but I'm sure dey love u with a greater intensity than their hatred of divorce. Go to them. D honest truth is d way God created families, we never stop needing one another. U cant stay in that hse after posting this with ur name. (I actually google searched you). So u can b sure that he will hear abt ur post soon and I fear for u. I believe that a man that can hit u once can hit u again. Leave d hse for nw at least.
ReplyDeleteAs much as I don't believe in d crap James just put down, but there is a point there.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was always fighting with my husband, smone advised me that when he starts his rubbish, I shldnt shout at him. Our problems is usually him coming home late, going out etc.
when he comes back, I will display, scream, shout do all sorts. There was even a day I poured water on him, and he slapped me. That was the only day he ever touched me and I was shocked.
My friend just advised me I think u shld remove ur eyes from this his going out, leave him to go out. Shebi he will return back. Then I shld stop shouting at him. If he does something I don't like, I shld cool down. Stay away from him. Later when he is in a sane mood I shld go to him, not shout and pour out my heart to him.
For the past 5yrs, this has really worked for me. My home has been peaceful. Even him he's knocking on 40 so he's going out has reduced. He started seeing reason with me abt his going out daily. Now he goes just once in a while.
Since the day I poured him water and he slapped me, he has never done it again.
I am glad I did not leave my husband after that 1slap, before smone was actually advising me to. Thank God I listened to my friend. One slap doesn't mean he is violent or will kill you.
I don't often like commenting on dis DV issue, bcos every woman's case is different.
Mine is different from this ladies own. Woman pls seek council bcos I don't know what advise to give.
That my husband hasn't slapped me again, doesn't mean another woman's husband won't kill her tomorrow. I chose to stay bcos I know even with all d cursing I use to give my husband, he usually ignores me. Until I poured him water and I saw a different side to him. I am happy since then I have cautioned my cursing, and he also has never even tapped me since that day.
Women as much as we don't want to admit it. Let us also learn to caution our mouths. Mine use to run like a tap before. Respect is a two way thing.
Thank God u have a good friend.
DeleteBabes thank you for saying the truth. And you are smart enough to know a good advice. Some women can only listen to the wrong ones. Especially here , most of these comments are coming from young unmarried girls that don't know marriage is alot different from dating.
DeleteEverybody's case is different so everyone should know how to handle theirs.
The most important thing to a man is respect (not food or sex). Women please stop the verbal abuse.
Most of the people forming marriage counselors on this blog are single girls who knows nothing about marriage. Some women come here to scream DV but have refused to tame their tongues,i do not support DV in any way but women also contribute to reasons why their men hit them.Madam stop shouting at ur husband, tame ur tongue and I bet u,he will stop beating u. Unless he is an irresponsible man
DeleteGo and stay in your parents' house for sometime . You shouldn't be there if you don't feel safe there is nothing to be ashamed of remember life has no duplicate.I pray it ends in praise.
ReplyDeleteMadam are sure you will be safe in that guest room?
ReplyDeleteWhy not leave the house for now.
I pray you find help...
Dv everyday and everywhere.
ReplyDeleteNa wa o.
What kinda men are women marrying?
She needs to move out but she's broke. How can you say she doesn't need financial help,Stella?
She needs cash, that's the solution because I don't see the case she has against him.
He seized her phone and car keys, then emptied her bank account. In his defense he'll say it's his money which isn't false afterall.
Madam needs some cash, period.
#Enjoy these moments now, because they don't last forever*
ReplyDeleteWhat!!!
DeleteContact Dr Joe Odumankin of wemen Arise on 0802 315 4585,or Mrs Afolabi of Wardc
ReplyDeleteNo be only women arise,na men arose Una go see ..Dem tie her leg for the marriage or na by force?fact is that she no wan leave the marriage because of the strings benefits she getting from the man,and moreover she claimed to come from a poor family,so she does not wants to loose her meal ticket!!
DeleteBut Madam you said you need help, you should have leave the house first na, abi you want to die? Marriage is never a do or die thing na, run as fast as your legs can carry, it's better for you to be alive and tell your stories oo
ReplyDeleteDid is so me last year , in short I suffered more .was looking haggard, sad etc I thank God for where I am right now . I look back and see my life is a miracle.
ReplyDeleteNow in my final year in school and already had a job in the pipeline... and other jobs I do still taking care of a 2 year old boy.
I will tell my story in full one day
I can't complain.
Stay strong honey
DeleteGod got you.
I am happy you're strong..
DeleteStella I am a lawyer. As a personal policy, I only file a divorce if the parties have lived apart consistently for at least 3 months.That will prove that the person who has requested for the divorce is sure of what he or she wants. From the story just narrated, your BV sounds like a very stubborn lady. That does not justify why her husband should beat her. I do not think she will move out of the house though because her husband is rich and she does not have a job.
ReplyDeletePlease help in anyway you can even if it means calling her to explain better.
DeleteHer phone is below your comment.
She's Nina chocomilo.
I agree wif ur comment, she sounds stubborn.even if u leave him and move ro someone elsw wif dis same ur stubborness and d nxt man hit u, will u be packing out of every house? U should knw wat e doesn't like and avoid it there will be peace.unless ur husband likes beating u and dat doesnt mean hitting a woman is right, its very very wrong
DeleteHmm....In most cases of domestic violence I always this sentence "he does not allow me to work" 80percent of such men just want to enslave you, at the beginning he will seem like an angel taking care of all your needs and that's how you will lose your place as a human being. Madam poster, even if you have no money, get out of that house and go to your parents. Everybody makes mistakes. They brought you to this world and it's their responsibility to protect you.
ReplyDeleteSame way the woman is always without sin & the man woke up from sleep & just pounced on her like a lion after its prey. Not to say that any spouse deserves to be beaten for any reason but I'd also like to hear the other 2 parts of the story...his side & the truth
DeleteIkemaguire@gmail.com. She can send a message to that address.
ReplyDeleteStay there and die .
ReplyDeleteNobody has posted the phone no of a lawyer yet ooo all just rambling. my horseband hit me for the first time yesterday because I saw a name he saved as chi angel and asked him who was that on his phone. anyway I slapped and hit him back. after the emotional and verbal abuse he has been putting me thru these past 5 months he's lucky that is all i did. im a jobless housewife but my parents are comfortable. This man was just ok when I met him. bcos he has money now he thinks he's a god? please I need the no of a lawyer asap. i want to know my options. mtchewww.........
ReplyDeleteNobody has posted the phone no of a lawyer yet ooo all just rambling. my horseband hit me for the first time yesterday because I saw a name he saved as chi angel and asked him who was that on his phone. anyway I slapped and hit him back. after the emotional and verbal abuse he has been putting me thru these past 5 months he's lucky that is all i did. im a jobless housewife but my parents are comfortable. This man was just ok when I met him. bcos he has money now he thinks he's a god? please I need the no of a lawyer asap. i want to know my options. mtchewww.........
ReplyDeleteYou're jobless & snooping at the same time? Na your own worse sef, you lucky say the man no pluck your eyes comot...wetin you dey find for his phone? So after slapping & hitting him back, you now need a lawyer? To do what abeg?
DeleteI will marry soon and by God's grace it's gonna be heaven on earth.Madam pray to God to guide you.
ReplyDelete07054514165. Pls call me Mrs Titilope.
ReplyDeleteSo it is even you sef, with ur bitter mouth, so na frustration nai make u dey insult and say rubbish to pple on this blog, no wonder you are bitter.
Delete@Nina,As if I knew it was you.Infact must be very stubborn and have really fraustrated the man.You have nothing meaningful to contributes to the man"s life and you re a gold digger ,instead of you to keep ur mouth shot and respect your husband cum helper,you re running your mouth like basket mouth ..You guys just run to Internet to type rubbish ..Go back to your poor parent and stay with them.Marriage is not by force,ok?
DeleteU are dumb. I'm not Mrs temitope, I dropped my number and asked her to call me. I'm a lawyer. Daft people on this blog. Smh.
DeleteDear Poster, if you are in Lagos, send me a textmail to give your some contact in Lagos to help you.
ReplyDeletePls walk away from that house for now, don't make killing you easy for that your (ex)hubby.
I for one does not believe in staying in such crude and volatile environment just because of lack of finances and what your parent(s) believe in.
I walked away with my daughter with just one gold neckless, one gold engagement and wedding band and infinity faith and trust in God. I told God that it's up to him to let me down or lift my feet from the miry clay / horrible pit and place it on a solid ground and today I can loudly say that He is the only one who he is faithful when i am not.
Dear women, don't ever stay back in any environment that has a high tendency of snuffing life out of you just because of what the society will say, what your parent(s) believe, lack of finances et al. If you must pray, pray from a distance.
Hello Stella, this is quite disturbing, Please have her call me on 09094789033, i do not mind taking this up for free. Domestic violence has got to stop
ReplyDeleteAbeg!!in as much as I don't support domestic abuse or wife battery,there is more to this story than meets the eyes..Definately you married the man for money and you now realized that not a glitters not gold..Its ladies like you that usually downgrades strugling and up coming guys with your"I can't marry a poor man"So now that you have married to a rich man,with a car,house help,money,so deal with it..Enjoy the money and the humiliation while it last.This will serve as a deterrent to other girls with your kind of mentality.I don't pitty girls or women like you .
ReplyDeleteAnon plz dont say that. I married my husband poor when I say poor, I paid the house rent, furnished the house and other things believing that God blesses days of humble beginnings.
DeleteBut as I speak to you now my husband is worse than the posters husband, infact I have become poorer because of him, I dont have one single friend, he asked me to stop talking to all of them, family nko, I cant visit them and when they come to my house they are not comfortable because his facial expression would just change.
Now both of us dont have a job. I cant go out. Infact I am in bondage. What havent I done , beggeg, played the fool and all sorts. But now I have decided to be bold and face him. Enough is enough.
I have always been a silent reader for years and this is my first comment on this post.
ReplyDeleteMadam you were wrong to talk back when your hubby was shouting. 2 wrongs dont make a right. That he has in the past stepped out without informing you doesnt mean you should do the same.
You complaint that he took your phone, car and emptied your account - shows me that you are a very materialistic person, only concerned about the loss of your access to material things. Someone afraid of their live will not be worried about that. They also wont stay within reach of their abuser/attacker.
Its clear your hubby has anger issues and is probably an arrogant man + abuser, however it appears your have a very hot tongue and married him for his money and unwilling to go because of the comfort he provides.
An abused woman thats fed up and fears for her life, would flee and i am sorry but i dont think you are at that phase yet
You are betteroff as a silent reader
DeleteLMAO @ anon 14:50
DeleteU Bad!!! Kikikiki
I have always been a silent reader for years and this is my first comment on this post.
ReplyDeleteMadam you were wrong to talk back when your hubby was shouting. 2 wrongs dont make a right. That he has in the past stepped out without informing you doesnt mean you should do the same.
You complaint that he took your phone, car and emptied your account - shows me that you are a very materialistic person, only concerned about the loss of your access to material things. Someone afraid of their live will not be worried about that. They also wont stay within reach of their abuser/attacker.
Its clear your hubby has anger issues and is probably an arrogant man + abuser, however it appears your have a very hot tongue and married him for his money and unwilling to go because of the comfort he provides.
An abused woman thats fed up and fears for her life, would flee and i am sorry but i dont think you are at that phase yet
I have always been a silent reader for years and this is my first comment on this post.
ReplyDeleteMadam you were wrong to talk back when your hubby was shouting. 2 wrongs dont make a right. That he has in the past stepped out without informing you doesnt mean you should do the same.
You complaint that he took your phone, car and emptied your account - shows me that you are a very materialistic person, only concerned about the loss of your access to material things. Someone afraid of their live will not be worried about that. They also wont stay within reach of their abuser/attacker.
Its clear your hubby has anger issues and is probably an arrogant man + abuser, however it appears your have a very hot tongue and married him for his money and unwilling to go because of the comfort he provides.
An abused woman thats fed up and fears for her life, would flee and i am sorry but i dont think you are at that phase yet
That moment when you wonder how educated people can sleep well without earning their own personal income whether they need it or not.
DeleteWhen even lil students on campus are selling accessories, okrika or whatever to make small change then you will stay at home full time and be waiting for a chauvinist to pay for even your bath gel then why won't you get trampled upon?
On this blog I recall Lara or so telling people how they can stay at home and earn money online, you didn't try it
Madam if you like stay they and commit murder/suicide that's your problem.why will one stay even ten feet from danger.
Later when people use their time and resources to sort you and all you will come back a few months down the line and tell us love ti take over and you are back with booboo again bla bls
Yes I am harsh but it's the bitter truth in a society where Hapiness comes secondary to remaining a Mrs by the gullible ones.
You have a brain please use it well
Make I go hustle my Benjamin's no time
@ James You are a pathetic ninny with that outrageous comment of yours. Does the poster sounds like she's making this up or something?? If you ain't gatt cerebral paralysis you would have decipher what's really going on. The man is actually enslaving the woman due to the fact that:
ReplyDelete1. He emptied her account.
2. He doesn't let her work.
3. She's not allowed to have friends.
4. She's from a poor home.
She's really going through a lot you punk. Please let's all BVs lawyers come to her aid abeggi
Stells, first thing she has to do is to move out of her matrimonial home. You ought to be separated for at least 6months before you can file for divorce because no reasonable court will even hear and determine a divorce petition where there are no evidence to establish that the petitioner has explored the route of reconciliation and failed.
ReplyDeleteSweetheart, you have to calm down and move out as a sign that you serious about ending your marriage. Allow your anger and frustration die now, give yourself some time to be sure this is what you want. I say this because it appears you are acting on a whim which is almost always irrational. Perhaps he went too far this time. We have seen cases where wives raise hell and put everybody in panic mode, only for them, the wives, to rush back into the arms of their husbands. Leaving well-meaning individuals looking like the enemy of "progress".
I don't mean to come off as insensitive but if there's no actual physical abuse, you will have a very hard time getting a court to grant your divorce petition. Emotional abuse is equally as harmful, if not more so than physical abuse but the courts are very reluctant to grant divorce petitions where the hardship is more perceived that actually visible. Your case could pass as the "normal" banter between couples in a bad marriage. Moreso we don't know why your husband behaves the way he does. He could come up with compelling evidence that your attitude is responsible for your issues, like the lady who got slapped by her boyfriend for disrespecting him. As for the threats, it can be waved off as the words a an angry spouse lashing out. A lot of couples say things like "I will kill you if you try that again" but they never do. Getting a divorce is not as easy as a lot of people think especially if your spouse isn't willing to let you go. However if you are sure you want a divorce, start with a separation and see how it goes.
Stells, I know you have a good heart but you can't be more Catholic than the Pope. Don't allow your emotions cloud your judgment. Personally, I feel getting a lawyer at this stage is premature unless she wants to know her legal options but she has to be very careful because some lawyers, unfortunately, will take advantage of her predicament and milk as much as they can from her. I'm sure my learned friends here will have their opinions as well. This is mine.
Word on marble...RME @soft hearted madam Germany
DeleteNo Ronalda there is the case of cruelty. If she can prove that d horseband had been cruel to her and with the leave of court. Any
DeleteFunny to hear some women/wives say: after sleeping with me, making me have his children and cooking for him.......... Please, are these not the natural roles of wives/mothers? Intimacy is a mutually enjoyable action between a husband and wife - wives even desire it more than the husbands; procreation also involves both of them; etc. There is division of labour in the home - the man provides the resources and the woman is the care giver/provider.
ReplyDeleteIf two people are FRIENDS before tying the knot, it is easier to handle marital challenges when they arise (which must always do). However, people are marrying for the wrong reasons, these days - beauty/looks, wealth/comfort, family background/name, societal pressure (applies to both males and females), same religion/denomination etc.
Marriage is a very different ball game, compared to pre-nuptial relationship. The marriage is tested at various times, with the vagaries of life, especially the challenges of meeting routine family financial obligations - feeding, kids' education, extended family care (both of the husband and wife) etc. May God always intervene in families going through life's challenges and give all the parties wisdom to resolve them peacefully.
Madam, as much as I sympathize with you, moving to the guest quarters in same house abi compound doesn't change or help anything. If you feel threatened, why not leave the house completely? Secondly, I find it absurd how social media is your 1st point of call for safety, you no get family abi Police no dey your area? I'd think either of those would come quicker to your aid than jejely sitting & writing chronicles on SDK. Lastly, you have painted your spouse as the devil himself & absolved yourself of any wrongdoing at all (NOT LIKE THATS AN EXCUSE FOR DV) but what's his own side of the story & the TRUTH? Divorce isn't as easy & snappy as it sounds & may not even fix your issues especially when kids are involved. If you've made that ultimate decision to pull the plug on your marriage, at least do it as amicable as possible. I've seen divorce bring out the WORST in spouses and the devil you're portraying him to be may just be an iota of the hell to come in future (post-divorce). Best of luck
ReplyDelete@nina chocomilo, I am sorry to disappoint you. I can never trade insult with you. My strict Christian upbringing will not permit me.
ReplyDeleteNo James u can't trade insults with me. Reasons: you are daft to, u are so below, u are ratchet, u are classless. So don't bother starting what u can't finish.
DeleteRun madam
ReplyDeleteLeave that house I took that bold step and am the happiest person now
All is definitely not well with you.
ReplyDelete@nina chocomile, something is seriously eating you up . U sounds so unhappy, suicidal and frustrated.All the people you are insulting, are they the causer of your misery? Na them put you for the condition wey you dey pass through? Is your husband abusing you? Is he beating the living daylight out of you?. If you cannot respect your husband as the head of the house, pack your property and go back to your papa house.It is not by force. Must you die there? Them tie una destiny together?
Why can't you channel your frustration and anger to the appropriate person ie ur Dh and perhaps receive the beating of your life on top.
Why go under anonymous to cuss me out? Why not get an id and let's do it. Coward. U wish I'm going tru DV right? Sorry to disappoint u. 1st get urself a man and then come back and talk about marriage. Single and sad bitch.
DeleteJames d fool
DeletePls contact fida,federation of women lawyers, dey ll help u and dey re in every state in Nigeria. They ll assign a lawyer to u and she ll pick up ur case. Its also free.
ReplyDeleteLadies, if you are not married it does not mean you are a failure. It means you have the opportunity to be passionate about creating your life, the way you've always imagined it. No man is BETTER than a bad man. KYEO
ReplyDeleteLadies, if you are not married it does not mean you are a failure. It means you have the opportunity to be passionate about creating your life, the way you've always imagined it. No man is BETTER than a bad man. KYEO
ReplyDeleteAny abusive situation is not good. You bc a product of your environment. I had the ideal job to an extent. The senior staff were abusive and emotionally draining. This influence my subordinate. i believe racism was also part of the cake.Money good but toxic environment. I made the bold step to leave.
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