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Sunday, July 03, 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

Tie your two legs together and pretend to be a mermaid?





NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
DISTRESSED VIRGIN
 Stella,
Please kindly help me post this chronicle before I lose my mind completely. I need your advise and that of Bv's urgently. 

I have been Dating this guy for 2yrs+, although we have been on and off for the better part of the relationship. Recently, he told me the reason he can't stick to just me even though he loves me is because I don't want to give him sex and he can only be exclusive with me if I can satisfy him but as long as am not ready then he can't quit cheating because "Body no be firewood". 

Am still a Virgin and I don't know if I can deal with sex yet. I will be 22 this year, in my final year and I don't know what to do about this. I love this Guy so much but losing my Virginity now is something I don't want. I believe in the wedding night fairytale and will love to experience it too but all the guys I have met are always bent on sex. 

I promised him I will allow him have me the next time I visit which may be anytime Soon but I don't want to.
Please, I need advise. Should I just forget about morals and allow him have me or take my stand and risk losing him? 

P. S, He is just 26,which makes me feel it's all going to be in vain giving sex him at all as we may never end up together. All the insults and advise will be appreciated.
Thanks Stella


Giving up your virginity should be your choice and no one has the right to use love as a threat.LET HIM GO and keep your legs closed.when you meet the right one,everything will fall into place...

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
LE BOO ON CHEATING ALERT

Could he be cheating?

I have an issues and i want BVs to help me touch light the matter.

I am two years plus in marriage, so far it has not been a bed of roses. I've had challenges but in all i give glory to God. I dated my husband for a year before we eventually tied the knot. 

Last year he lost his job, so i had to take responsibility of the family which wasn't easy but God gave me grace. I kept encouraging him even when his own family turned their back on him. Notwithstanding the trials, we kept praying and God picked our call. He got a job in another state.

One day i was browsing with my phone and exhausted my data so i collected his phone to browse. Facebook notifications was just popping up. Different girls accepting his request so i read his messages. All he does is to ask them to send their phone contact, he calls and chat them up on whatsapp. When i gently confronted him he began to shout at me saying he doesn't have anything to do with them that he just chat with them to keep him busy.

Three days ago i read his whatsApp chat with his friend. He told his friend that he has 'get down three girls' while his friend said his own is four girls. 


I was broken! 

I confronted him and he began to call me stupid and senseless saying that am accusing him falsely adding that He is on time off and he is always at home with me, he doesn't go out at night  even when i go to work he doesn't go anywhere, even when he's on board there are no women with them. that it was just a chat with his friend. All these while, i don't go through his phone because i felt he is faithful but right now i don't know what to think again.

BVS  could he be cheating? is it normal for a married man to be calling and chatting up ladies without any strings attached?

I am not perfect but i have being a good wife it hurts to discover all these.
Please i need mature advice from SDKers .All those with PhD is abusing please don't add salt to my injury.  Thanks




I just do not get it why you women snoop and then cause so much stress that you destroy your Marriage...I DON'T GET IT!
Forget about what you read, his actions portray him as cheating?
The time you concentrate on snooping and looking for holes why don't you spend it building the little cracks you seem to have?



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138 comments:

  1. Tuscany - LUXURY BESPOKE SHOEMAKER @onimisibespoke3 July 2016 at 15:04

    Abeg who cook sunday rice?

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    1. I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF)3 July 2016 at 15:21

      My "rove" come and chop...
      Send me your address let me bring some for you..."wink"...

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    2. ChyAdaJesus3 July 2016 at 15:28

      My guy come chopo. I just made fresh tomatoes red stew with cow stripes and Tbone. 🐂🍅🍅🍅🍜♨. Bon appetite!

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    3. karma?...please3 July 2016 at 15:33

      I did come chop and u can have dessert *winks*

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    4. Emjay3 July 2016 at 15:35

      Poster 1, guess what, even if u part those legs for him, he will still cheat, if he truly luvs u, he will wait for u,
      Poster2,
      I disagree 100% with u Stella, so if u were the one, u see notifications + messages popping, you will ignore, we are talking about a man you trust so much, she shouldn't snoop with all those glaring evidence, then the horseband with later infect her with 'wicked' STDS or even HIV abi? Woman look here, either he is cheating or he will soon, so don't cry but go on your kneel and don't forget to protect yourself, if u must gbensh.

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    5. Unknown3 July 2016 at 15:50

      Poster one: break up with that guy, he doesn't love you but just concern about getting down with you and trust me after it he will break up with you. Just be leaving your life to the fullest and everything will fall in place just at the right time.
      Poster 2: don't worry all will be fine. I know how you feel, you know in life there are times like this, guess your hubby and frnd started this chatting up with this ladies just for fun or to be whiling away their time but you know, too much communications from the opp sex leads to something else, so don't let it break you down that much. Tell it to Jesus to fix everything in place for you. And mean while try and be doing ur own part by being a lovely wife to him maybe that will make him loose interest in whatever he is doing. Next time don't snoop, it's not idea. Stay strong ok, thy lord is your strength.

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    6. RICHBEE3 July 2016 at 15:54

      🙋 do you want some@ Tuscany

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    7. Unknown3 July 2016 at 16:03

      Tuscany,shebi you dey Abj?Me sef dey find who cook too so if you find,holla @ me make we go chop together biko. I dey utako.

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    8. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 16:19

      steller me is falling in love with your blog oooo! am a die hard fan of linda ikeji blog but this your chronicles, omugwo stories, facts of nature, in house news and some of your ranting stuffs are giving me joy and distracting me from checking my favorite blog. u are doing a great job men I love your blog ooooo.

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    9. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 16:19

      steller me is falling in love with your blog oooo! am a die hard fan of linda ikeji blog but this your chronicles, omugwo stories, facts of nature, in house news and some of your ranting stuffs are giving me joy and distracting me from checking my favorite blog. u are doing a great job men I love your blog ooooo.

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    10. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 16:19

      steller me is falling in love with your blog oooo! am a die hard fan of linda ikeji blog but this your chronicles, omugwo stories, facts of nature, in house news and some of your ranting stuffs are giving me joy and distracting me from checking my favorite blog. u are doing a great job men I love your blog ooooo.

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    11. Unknown3 July 2016 at 16:26

      @poster1: pls that dude is not worth it...still pretend to be a mermaid
      @poster2: my dear,he is cheating.
      What again do u want to hear?
      Protect yourself n keep track of his wandering dick n pls stop taking responsibility of the family,he should be a man n do his duty.
      Save your money for future purpose n don't give him a dime so he won't end up spending it on those girls.

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    12. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 16:26

      Abeg leave that yeye blog & port to SDK, wetin u wan learn from LIB? How to lie about Hermes bag??? We keep it real here, but respect urself sha, we de try chase away ppl like james and the queen n boos

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    13. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 16:32

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    14. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 16:36

      Married ashewo queen&boss,leave my Tuscany alone

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    15. Ayaba3 July 2016 at 16:48

      Hahahahahaa..... Bad badoo baddest.. Una too get mouth for here Kai!!!

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    16. Ayaaba3 July 2016 at 16:48

      Hahahahahaa..... Bad badoo baddest.. Una too get mouth for here Kai!!!

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    17. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 18:45

      Poster1: It's not worth it, keep it till you met the right person, don't give into the pressure. I had all that when I was in Uni but kept mine for my husband and I definitely feel it was worth it not because of him but for my own dignity and self worth. Don't listen to all the belly ache and blue balls talk, it ain't worth it, if you give them everything, they will still stray/cheat. I hope and pray you make the right decision.

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    18. Tuscany - LUXURY BESPOKE SHOEMAKER @onimisibespoke3 July 2016 at 19:11

      All thes3 sdk girls arnt loyal ooo.
      Nobody drop address oooo. Tor, i don chop rice.
      ChydaJesus kontinu ooo.
      Anon 16.36 i b3long to you yet am looking for sunday rice abi

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    19. Chikito The Blog Sager with some fire 😜3 July 2016 at 20:54

      So if you love the other blog what do I want us to do? Biko park well!!

      Poster one- dump that guy FAST!! Lose your birginity when YOU choose to. Not when you are made to. No guy will force you into it. Till today, I never regret who I gave my virginity to. We are still friends till thy kingdom come and we had a nice relationship, but for family issues. That's cos I did it when I wanted to. Not because some stupid idiot threatened me to stop or not stop cheating. If you lose it to that guy, you will regret it for the rest of your life. I'm telling you you will weep in q short while. Pick up your phone, send him a text, tell him it's over, cry for the next one week (or more), pray for in whichever you can, wipe your tears and keep your head up.

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    20. Justyswt3 July 2016 at 21:03

      Abeg u guys shld leave the Queen and boss o. She makes this blog fun joor. I always look forward for her comment.

      Poster 1, pls leave that guy now!

      Poster2, pls be wise. These men are not loyal jare.

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    21. Anonymous4 July 2016 at 00:42

      You noticed the crush stupid queen has on crush

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  2. xxxTrinityxxx3 July 2016 at 15:06

    Poster one choosing to have sex should be your decision. Don't allow yourself be pressured into it. But btw, there's nothing like a wedding night fairytale. Who told you that one?! Getting disvirgned no be beans. It's frustrating for both you and your partner and very painful for your own end.

    Poster two I don't get why women won't leave their husband's phone. You go and snoop. Then you get yourself worried and come and be over thinking. Yes your husband is cheating duhh. You don't need us to tell you what you already know.

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    1. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 15:31

      I pity u so because you are damaged you are telling poster one that their is nothing like wedding night fairy tale,when evil things happen to you people you will start to blame God.Bastard

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    2. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 16:21

      Don't mind Trinity o, folks like her can never advice you to keep your Virginity because she lost hers to became a single mother. She doesn't know what wedding night fairly tales is.

      Dear if you must lose it let it not be because you want to keep the guy. Sex doesn't keep a man to you, he will still leave if you are not meant to be.

      If you are my daughter I will say let him go he's not worth it


      Trinity please I don't mean to insult you, I'm sorry


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    3. xxxTrinityxxx3 July 2016 at 16:43

      Anon 16:21 your last paragraph was really stupid. Pls next Tim if you want to insult me, insult me with honor. Don't come and apologise later and spoil the insult. I don't like one leg in, one leg out people. Shows you don't know what you want in life. Think about that

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    4. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 17:17

      My dear don't mind Trinity. Peeps like her be like "who virginity help?" It helps o. Forget morals, God hates fornication. Don't be an enemy of God by indulging in it cos it had now become the norm in the society. The guy and that love you think you are feeling now will both flee after you do it, leaving you damaged. #sexissacred

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    5. Sparkle3 July 2016 at 17:31

      Una two no sabi read abi?

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    6. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 19:48

      Been reading this blog for years now and I av never commented , my dear poster 1, plz don't give in.after loosing it , he will still do it with other girls. I learnt my lessons in the hard way.guys are not to be trusted

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    7. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 20:04

      @ trinity, you've been Barred from giving advice on Morals, now see what you've come to advice poster 1, the fact that u gave your tor torh away just like that now u want to someone else to take a fall. I pity that your husband to be. Becos you will never stop cheating on him. Your re such a low life bitch.

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    8. Chikito The Blog Sager with some fire 😜3 July 2016 at 20:54

      So if you love the other blog what do I want us to do? Biko park well!!

      Poster one- dump that guy FAST!! Lose your birginity when YOU choose to. Not when you are made to. No guy will force you into it. Till today, I never regret who I gave my virginity to. We are still friends till thy kingdom come and we had a nice relationship, but for family issues. That's cos I did it when I wanted to. Not because some stupid idiot threatened me to stop or not stop cheating. If you lose it to that guy, you will regret it for the rest of your life. I'm telling you you will weep in q short while. Pick up your phone, send him a text, tell him it's over, cry for the next one week (or more), pray for in whichever you can, wipe your tears and keep your head up.

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  3. RICHBEE3 July 2016 at 15:08

    Poster 1.. If you don't want to have sex with him leave him and let him go FYI.. You guys are not in love don't use that word "LOVE" anyhow you like

    Poster 2.. You're the one that read the message if he is cheating you will know from the messages you read... What if he is cheating what will you do?.. Kill yourself or leave the marriage ?

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    1. xxxTrinityxxx3 July 2016 at 15:15

      No mind that poster 2

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    2. Chikito The Blog Sager with some fire 😜3 July 2016 at 20:58

      Poster 2- better start treating him like you will test a cheat. How do u watch your husband call you senseless? What kind of husbands do you guys marry? Chai! Chikito.... Is this why you're still single? I will put pepper in the eyes of any he-goat that tries such with me!! Wtf?!!

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  4. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 15:08

    1. This boy does not love you; give him your vagina and he will dump you fast. You are in a "relationship" with the wrong person.

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    1. MaX RoWmEu3 July 2016 at 18:23

      I really hate it when we keep refering to sexual intercourse between 2 adults in a relationship as "she is giving him vagina" for petes sake it is not the guy that enjoys it alone! Our naija mentality ehnn...

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    2. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 18:57

      But oga Max,in this very case if she does it,she would actually be giving him vagina because she doesnt want to abd he is using it as an ultimatum to being with her. So regardless of if she enjoys it or not,she gave him vagina to save her 'relationship'. And by the way lil girl, DO NOT have sex with him

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    3. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 18:58

      But oga Max,in this very case if she does it,she would actually be giving him vagina because she doesnt want to abd he is using it as an ultimatum to being with her. So regardless of if she enjoys it or not,she gave him vagina to save her 'relationship'. And by the way lil girl, DO NOT have sex with him

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    4. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 22:34

      Shut up Max. The woman doesn't start enjoying immediately. Maybe after a while..so he is the one that will enjoy while she cries in pain. That's why men always beg for sex cos they enjoy it more than women, and yes I'm a woman.

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  5. popeyes3 July 2016 at 15:08

    Poster2- Your hubby is a cheat. Now that you know, whatchu gonna do about it?

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  6. I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF)3 July 2016 at 15:10

    If you want to give out your virginity,give it to someone that you will gain something from not one nonsense chewing gum boyfriend...
    Na all these chewing gum boys dey enjoy pass sef...
    I would advise you to give him if he is rich and caring...when I mean caring,it means someone that spends heavily on you...

    Poster 2,
    He is obviously cheating...
    Common,you don't expect him to accept he is cheating nau...if na you,would you accept?...
    Even if you caught him red handed,he will still deny!...
    This is marriage and you are still a baby in it...
    Ignore him and face your life!...don't give your self HBP because of a man!...
    If the thing vex you much,get a side bobo!...

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    1. MonkeynofineTAFIAmama �� �� 3 July 2016 at 15:32

      Exactly. Do me I do u😂 to have a perfect home my dear it's not easy ooooo shine ur eyez well well! Stop snooping and start loving him more! Grazie😆

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    2. MAMACITA4 July 2016 at 02:10

      Queen Queen, your advice eeehn...

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  7. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 15:10

    Poster 1:

    Sex-----pregnancy-----STI--------Abortions---------guilt--------dumped---------suicidal thoughts--------suicide------------eternal hell----------------------------------------

    Do you see the road you are asking us if you should travel? Do you know Jesus? Have you given your life to him?

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  8. James3 July 2016 at 15:11

    Poster 1 , Keep your Virginity until your wedding night is not a guarantee for a successful or happy marriage. But forget this guy. It seems he is a poor man and perhaps ur fellow student.
    Every wise man should test and taste the Toto of the girl he intends to marry. Bcos some are like a bucket.

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    1. James3 July 2016 at 15:16

      *keeping

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    2. xxxTrinityxxx3 July 2016 at 15:16

      James I like your advice to poster one

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    3. excited courtesy3 July 2016 at 16:18

      Your advice is so wrong, a man must test before he marries a lady. Guy, na before no be now again.

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    4. xxxTrinityxxx3 July 2016 at 16:40

      Lol I just saw the second Parr of your comment lol. I meant the first paragraph was a good advice not the second paragraph

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    5. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 20:50

      Abeg my husband did not taste my toto b4 he married me.think b4 u advice mbok and yes we hv 2kids already

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  9. Dazzlnbeau3 July 2016 at 15:11

    Poster1 kip ur virginity,pls it's not worth it, he's even a fool to tell you body no be firewood...ask him u want money nau he won't give you, bur he wants to disvirgin you....biko brk up with him nau!!! Poster2ur husband might just be making mouth ohhh, snooping di bad am guilty of it tooo

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  10. Martins (GlossyMart Tech Gadgets 07037317400 or 08116202737)3 July 2016 at 15:14

    @poster one;sex cant keep him if he is still bent on cheating..

    Note that there is more to A relationship than SEX;and if you loose your virginity to him today;he would still cheat on you once his eyes are still out..even if you like,organise A "seven-some" or whatever;a cheating man would always look outside..

    So what am i saying;if he is saying he would leave the relationship because you cant allow sex;allow him go dear..true love sees beyond that and if he is after your cookies that much;let him wife you already!!

    You have spent much time keeping that virginity;and i 'd advice you give it out in that honourable way your soul pleases to..

    Dont do this now and live in regrets Later..but if you wish to give him your virginity;do it because you want to!! And not just because of any man threatening you...

    @MARTINS ABOY

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  11. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 15:15

    Abeg those women that hacked their dh whatsapp/phone should come and tell us how far na

    The ghost chronicle abeg update us too. I am bored.

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  12. Blackberry3 July 2016 at 15:15

    Pls do not give ur virginity to a 26yr old horny boy abeg if u are saving it for d wedding night, he just wanna fuck. Face ur studies and let that calf love intoxicating u go cos once he fucks u, ur eye will clear, fiam!

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    1. Pipi Lee3 July 2016 at 17:28

      26 year old horny boy...lmao

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    2. Jet li3 July 2016 at 20:54

      Poster 1dont cast your pearls before swine
      Its there in your Bible , no be me talk am

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  13. Blackberry3 July 2016 at 15:15

    Poster two yes he's cheating, so what u gon do bout it?

    Nothing!

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  14. Unknown3 July 2016 at 15:16

    Poster 1 that guy is a fuck boy who just want to eat the cookie, even if body no be fire wood how dare him tell you that,you know he doesn't love you right ?

    Poster 2
    Calm your nerves your husband is cheating but why are you touching his phone, he stays in another state , what do you expect ? Handle this maturely, tell him that you guys will go for test,hiv,std etc and anytime he returns from base the test will be repeated, don't ever confront him about cheating next time because he is cheating...If he refuses the test please refuse your cookie jar before someone come and give you hiv that is not your own.

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    1. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 17:45

      Lmaoooooooooo! Best advice ever.

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    2. Anonymous4 July 2016 at 06:53

      Best advice, and take good care of yourself.

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  15. Friend3 July 2016 at 15:17

    Poster 1. He will continue to cheat after you have sex and you will feel empty inside and greatly regret having sex, don't do it. Save it for your husband like you've been planning and many men do wait and marry women who are virgins/celibate so don't let anyone convince you differently.

    Poster 2. Your husband is cheating since that's the question you asked. I suggest that if you continue to stay in the marriage that you sit him down and have a discussion on your now open marriage. Tell him to use condoms so he doesn't bring disease or babies home to you.

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  16. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 15:18

    Poster two give your husband breathing space, after having your fun with other women husband's in your days, you don't want other girls to enjoy your own? It's turn by turn so deal with it.

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  17. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 15:21

    Poster1: we've treated this virginity case on this blog countless times, its a personal decision, if you see regret at the end letting him pop ur cherry, its bound to happen. The truth is sex & love mostly go hand in hand with most guys including me, i see it as a 2 bodies coming together in naked truth to rub minds & have a healthy interaction, lol.... i can agree to hold off sex with a new date for the 1st 9months, at least thats hw long it takes pregnant woman to give birth.

    Poster2: Its possible to sexchat, send nudes, phone sex.... without the actual canal knowledge with them, but its a slippery slope & not healthy in a union. Truth is some girls are damn good in keepin up a conversation & spicing it up dirty, but theyre not good in bed or may not possess those ASSets a man finds irresistible.

    # A Girl Is Arya Stack Of Winterfell, and Im going Home.

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    1. Cí3 July 2016 at 22:54

      # My name is Arya Stark. I want you to know that. The last thing you're ever going to see is a Stark smiling down at you as you die...

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  18. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 15:23

    Keep your virginity my friend, im not in support of no sex, im team taste it before you buy it, but dont give this particular idiot, hes not worth it at all, you must regret it.

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  19. Unknown3 July 2016 at 15:24

    Poster 1: Abeg u in the name of God ehn kip ur virginity, he's just after xxx. Poster 2: Your hubby is a cheat simple, best way to handle this is to stop worrying yourself and quit snooping around for cracks..u will only hurt yourself more.
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  20. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 15:26

    cheating is not only when you have sex with people. how will he feel if you talk to different guys because you are bored. people saying you shouldnt figure out if you suspect your partner is cheating are the same people that will blame you when he gives you HIV. they will say hey you should have known that yopur partner is cheating.

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  21. Martins (GlossyMart Tech Gadgets 07037317400 or 08116202737)3 July 2016 at 15:26

    @poster two,a man flirting while married should give you concern as A wife..cos you as his wife should be his best friend,flirt mate,chat buddy,gossip mate etc..

    Its not as if he shouldn't have female friends he should chat with,but there should be A limit with how far he goes with his words when chatting with them;which means he shouldn't go to the "X" zone in any of his chat with any lady out there...

    You have read his chat,you ve seen what you are looking for,so deal with it in your way if the chats are "x" related..cos if he hasn't started with the cheating already(which i doubt);he would do so in the nearest future..and he would do it so codedly cos he now knows your eyes are on him..

    Pele!!

    Seek and you shall find!! And you just did..so your choices are to either pray he comes back to you and leave other ladies out there,or you divorce if you catch him red-handed anytime soon..

    God is your strenght!!

    @MARTINS ABOY

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    1. le'femme3 July 2016 at 18:40

      Don't I just love u...women leave your husbands phone alone,keep yourselves in shape and keep praying.God bless u

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  22. Sassy Oma3 July 2016 at 15:29

    1st Narrative... Poster, please take Stella's advice. Forget this love thing and use ur brain here. That guy is just 26 and obviously not ready to settle down soon. The possibility of u two not ending up together is really high.
    My dear, do not do it! Unless u want to start ur body count now and trust me, once u start, it wouldn't be easy to tell the next boyfriend off.

    Narrative 2... It's wrong for a man to keep chatting up women and asking for their contact because even if he doesn't have the intention of cheating, it might develop with time. Tackle this problem now but ask God for wisdom on how to go about it and please stop snooping, u will only hurt urself. In my opinion, it's possible he hasn't done anything yet, he might just be chatting to kill boredom. Focus on the way he treats u and not what ur brain puts together from his messages.

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  23. Anointed3 July 2016 at 15:29

    My dear poster one o will advise you like a sister and like a Frnd,please do not give out ur virginity to him except to your husband,is kind of hard but the man that loves you will wait for you,there is nothg in sex,and besides sex isn't love so never u mistake sex for love at 26 that guy does not have plans yet let alone settling down and even if he is 33 or 34,and wants to settle dowclose ur leg ,there are so many things attach to pre marital sex,so just stay put and don't give out ur precious gift God has given to you to someone u are not certain about the future with,and for those DAT will say u have to test before buying: God will never give you want u cannot bear,you are still young,focus on ur life,close ur legs and God will see you through.

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    1. le'femme3 July 2016 at 18:41

      If I had known, I would have kept mine,cos no Man is worth it

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  24. James3 July 2016 at 15:31

    Poster 2,ur horseband might just be chatting up those girls to kill boredom. It does not mean he is gbenshing them ..U will push him to gbensh and find comfort in their hands with this your non stop nagging. Ur marriage is only two years but u are making it look like 40 . Leave ur horseband's phone alone. Checking his phone everytime shows that you don't trust him. And u cannot love whom you did not trust.

    I can decode that you are fat and unattractive.And that is why he is admiring other girls on the SM.

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    1. le'femme3 July 2016 at 18:42

      Yeye dey smell....

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    2. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 18:54

      James not all men like them slim,after all my work out and green tea my husband is complaining upndan,that I look hungry and I should eat and stop drinking black and green tea,that he sees only big head and no full hips and bum.right now late night food ti take over. Every time fat fat fat,James park well, my hubby likes them big.

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    3. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 19:28

      La creamier, yeye dey smell... Like your toto

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    4. James3 July 2016 at 23:28

      Anon 18:54, maybe you dey like bone before, come dey drink green tea on top again

      Delete
  25. Unknown3 July 2016 at 15:32

    Poster 1: He doesn't love you. He doesn't. He just wants sex. You don't want it and you shouldn't give it up just to satisfy his selfish needs. Meanwhile, be certain that you can't keep a man with sex. You give it to him, when he's done with you, he will pack and go.

    Stay true to your principles and your God. Your real man is on the way... No rush.

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  26. Cherry Wine 3 July 2016 at 15:33

    Poster 1 forget this guy,by this time next year he won't remember he was the one that deflowered you, don't do what you'll regret people still get married as virgins.

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  27. treasures ( new dawn����)3 July 2016 at 15:34

    Poster 1, please keep ur virginity o,it will save u from a lot of stress,who know the guy might be carrying a deadly std,even if u must,which is not adversable, please use condom o,but the guy doesn't sound serious to me.wait a little bit and u will meet a guy who will accept and appreciate u

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  28. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 15:37

    Poster 1 if you get pregnant or infected with an incurable disease you will live the rest of your life in regret,premarital sex destroys,many girls seem to be enjoying it but many won't tell you what they have been through,you could end up aborting which is killing of an infant,my dear you can hardly regret marrying as a virgin but premarital sex comes with a lifetime of regret,do not be deceived.

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  29. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 15:38

    Poster one, I beg you please do not give your virginity away till you get married. Trust me it's the best. I was not one but always wished I kept it for my husband cos he really deserves it. Let him go. Sex is overrated I must tell you

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  30. Unknown3 July 2016 at 15:40

    Poster 2: Go into your WAR ROOM. Stop wasting time asking us WAEC question. There is fire on the mountain... Light your own fire with serious prayer and fasting sef. Ask God to create a hedge between Oga and all 'em missies. Bind and cast if possible... But PRAY.

    And since I nwero obi (you lack the strength of heart), leave snooping alone. It's only for akpruka women... Lol

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    1. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 18:57

      So if I watch war room now,every thing will be fine?am not the poster.

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    2. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 22:51

      Like me o. Wetin I never see for my husband phone! Me Don come dey hardened too..come turn "akpruka". I Don enter school of do me I do you too. Two can play that game baby!.

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  31. Anyafulugo13 July 2016 at 15:52

    Poster 2: I don't know why ladies can't leave our phones alone-- U snoop, u see what u ain't prepared to see and thereafter start worrying urself for nothing. It takes only the FEAR OF GOD to keep a guy man's dick locked to one pu**y, poster the earlier you face this reality and channel this useful energy to your kids the better for you oo. On a serious note, see how u can talk your hubby towards being more God fearing and then back him up with prayers - maka na onwunwa umunwa erika men, especially if money dey. Don't listen to Linda oo except if you have a spare room in ur papa's house. Poster 1: My Virginia sister please close those your legs and work towards ur fairy night fantasy. Biko focus on ur studies and get closer to God. That 26yrs old boy will still drop u like it's hot after chopping ur kpomo because marriage is not in his dictionary as of now. Don't listen to all the runs girls in da house that will try to convince u that virginity is no longer in vogue - most of them are filled with regrets but very ashamed to admit. Tie ur legs ooo.

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    1. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 20:37

      Lol @ Onwunwa Umunwa erika - Chicks ain't smiling these days, even the ones you have forgotten are all keeping touch again due to bad economy. God have mercy! Posters give your lives to Christ.

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  32. MonkeynofineTAFIAmama �� �� 3 July 2016 at 15:54

    Narrative one. Please make use of Queen and BOSS comment😨

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  33. Unknown3 July 2016 at 16:02

    Poster 1. Don't let any boyfriend pressure u into having sex with him, cos in d end you'll regret it plus it's no guarantee that your relationship will last afterwards. Sex is a sacred bond that shld'nt b taken likely.
    Poster 2. Until u catch ur husband red handed & in d act, he'll never admit to cheating on u. Truth is, the breed of men we have these days have lil or no self control. You need wisdom in dealing with your situation.

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  34. St.FranKooL....3 July 2016 at 16:10

    Poster1,I would love to know if you'll issue any certificate of occupancy to the 'disvirginer' when disvirgined...

    Incase you don't know,a lot of work is involved,its not a day's job....you are an adult and matured enough to know what you want,stop embarrasing us.

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  35. excited courtesy3 July 2016 at 16:13

    Number 1 don't try that, never you give in to pressure. If you give him sex he will still cheat on you, tell him no and never you fall mugu for any guy.

    Forget about that love you have for him, if any man love you, he will stick to you till after wedding.

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  36. Unknown3 July 2016 at 16:15

    Poster 1 dnt give it up, still stand ur ground on keeping it, if he likes he shld go... God will give u someone better
    Poster 2, it is impossi-cant for a married to have said that to his friend and is not cheating. All i'll tell you is that as far as his attitude hasn't changed towards you and he still provides for the family, try not to over think it and put it in prayer

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  37. Unknown3 July 2016 at 16:17

    Also poster 2 if it's possible for you to move to his present state of residence it'll be better

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  38. Empress CHO3 July 2016 at 16:21

    Poster 1: Please, keep your virginity. If you are christian you know why. Of you are not, Stds and numerous more reasons should inform you. You truly do not need that bond sex brings with someone else other than your husband.
    By the way, that guy is irresponsible. Sleeping with you won't stop from cheating, so pls respect yourself and wait for the right person.

    Pister 2: Did you marry a husband or some master?
    A guy flirts, likely cheats, is caught, shows no remorse instead gives pointless excuse and attempts cheap reverse psychology.

    For your health sake, please you guys need to go for tests. Women are all over the hospital treating Stds gotten from foolish husbands.
    Do not sweep this under the carpet else he will be emboldened. Rake hell, summon families, let his eyes see something. Thank God you work. Ensure he realises how his indecency threatens his marriage.

    Settling losers will hush you and give that whole men are cheats rubbish. Many women believed and encouraged that ideology, how is their life noe. Do not entertain rubbish, if he gifts you Hiv, and you realise late, your chapter ends and all for what?

    By the way what you do not know has a nigh chance of killing and burying you. So do not beat yourself for getting updated about his moves. Reality is way better than fool's paradise.

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  39. excited courtesy3 July 2016 at 16:22

    Number 2 why are you looking for problem where there is non? Instead of you to go on your knees to pray for your dh each single day, your problem is to snoop. Keep on snooping till you have heart attack and die.

    Is very difficult to find a faithful man, I mean 100% faithful,why don't you pray for your marriage and your husband than snooping. Shopping will give you Bp, men must cheat.

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    1. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 18:35

      Na lie. Thatz D world standard. 15 years in marriage I hv never and can never cheat. U think heaven is easy?? Lol. Think again!

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    2. Teacher3 July 2016 at 18:43

      Cheating is actually a choice
      Not everyone makes such a negative choice BECAUSE THE SPIRITUAL, MARITAL, FINANCIAL Prize it demands is frankly not worth the questionable "pleasure it brings.
      Trust it ain't worth it and a few smart ones know that

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  40. Ed3 July 2016 at 16:29

    Poster 1, please kip ur virginity as u v planned to. If he realky loves you,he wont b bent on disvirgining you. Dont loose your virginity to him cos it wil not guarantee a long lasting rship. You r stil young n u v got a lot of years ahead of u for you to start killing urself over a guy dat wants to disvirgin you. If he wants to go,pleas e let him go,another one dat wouls appreciate you will come, so dat u dont live a life of regrets.
    Poster 2, Please u v to be careful,it really hurts but so far hes doing his job as ur husband u better forget wat u saw and ask God for d grace to over look it. If u can,dont ever check his phone again so dat u wont b hurt d more. Have it in mind dat every man is polygamous in nature so far he doesnt rub it in your face. Just ask God for d grace to see you tru.

    Happy sunday to you all! Care to join me in ma foo foo n afang soup 😉😉😉

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  41. St.FranKooL....3 July 2016 at 16:30

    Poster2,thank God you didn't slap him twice when you discovered that...

    But why snooping around for something that will upset you.
    Then get upset when you find it.
    Does that make sense?

    Relationships is about trust.If you have to play detective,then its time to move on...

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  42. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 16:33

    Poster 1:do not make d mistake of having sex wit dat guy,u will regret it for d rest of ur life.sex isn't paramount in a relationship.
    Poster 2:pls pray for ur husband nd stop snooping around,it will only cause more heartbreak,most men are not faithful.i found out mine cheats n it has never been d same for many years now,wish I never found out jst let sleeping dog lie.

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  43. World People3 July 2016 at 16:37

    Ladies don't ever listen to Stella's advise about snooping if you love urself .

    Look the earlier you know the better , tell your hubby u can't trust him anymore , and because of this you will be introducing condoms . And this is what he has done to your marriage .

    You did no wrong by snooping , he did wrong by cheating . Don't ever let anybody tell you otherwise .

    Listen , AIDS , herpes and std's are real and you become at risk when ur partner has multiple sex partners ... Wats to say he protects himself every single time? Can you swear that he does? Hell! Can HE swear that he does ?

    Please do what you can to protect urself . If you carry HIV & come here to give another chronicle,on how u ignored his bullshit and he still gave u HIV, same Stella and others would tell u HIV isn't the end of the world and to use your retrovirus drugs & PRAY .

    Am advising you like I would advise my own blood sister . Pls PROTECT yourself . Don't trust him to PROTECT himself in the heat of passion. No it all men do .

    Case in point , the man that big clit bitch slept with at the bus stop . He might be married , have a fiancée , or a serous gf yet he DID NOT PROTECT himself.

    Once you notice your hubby promiscuity . It is time to act and save urself. Not watch and pray

    My 2 cents

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    1. Unknown3 July 2016 at 19:31

      Thank you..snoop and save your life.

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    2. Cí4 July 2016 at 09:38

      Nice write-up...
      Hope she reads this.

      Delete
  44. Empress CHO3 July 2016 at 16:37

    Forgive the typos abeg....high on jollof rice.

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  45. Unknown3 July 2016 at 16:40

    Poster 1, abeg run as fast as you can from that man who is still a boy. In this age and time, who threatens a lady with sex? If he cannot remain faithful now, what makes you think he would remain faithful when you have sex with him? A man who truly loves you will even encourage you to desist from premarital sex, rather he would build the future with you. Please, leave him NOW. Most importantly, be wary of him because boys like that can do and undo. If he realises you have ditched him, he might decide to set you up (God forbid). Be wise about ditching him. Just keep forming busy and illness. With time, he would catch the drift.

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  46. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 16:52

    Dear poster number 1, a man who loves you will respect your decision to remain chaste for him. He will make your values his own and support you in whatever you do. I met a man at some point in my life and I told him about my decision not to make love. He told me that he was okay with it if it made me happy. I was scared that he was going to leave me and had thought about changing my mind but this man told me one thing that shocked me to my bone marrow. He promised that he would be the best friend that I will ever have and that love is not sex. Nine years and seven months later, our wedding night was bliss. I love my husband because we built our relationship on mutual love, respect and trust. He has proven to me over and over again that I made the right choice. He encouraged me to stick to that vow the same way that he encourages me to be a better person everyday. He waited for me because he loves me and he wanted me to love God and honor him in my own way. Anyman who does not love you enough to be patient for you say yes on your own terms is not worth being with. Remain strong and God will send the best of the best and make him yours . Believe me that it is worth waiting.

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  47. fancyface3 July 2016 at 16:53

    I really don't know why girls will always send in chronicles asking d dumbest question.
    Poster 1 are u living in da stone ages dat u don't realise all d consequences dat come with boys and sex? U are either redy to play d dating, which ultimately involves SEX, or stay d hell away from boys and face ur studies.
    Poster 2 let me give u a piece of advice being a married woman myself. For whatever reason STOP touching ur hubby's phon. Don't mek him feel as if ur world revolves around him, for now insist u both take a test. Buy 2 packets of condom for him to take back to his base and advice him to please use it anytime he wants to get down with any1 but you. No man likes to be told dat, it works like magic. Say it to him like an old aunt and don't be quarrelsome. If u call him everyday before, stop!. Let him do all d calling and loving for now. Don't pay him any unexpected visit, always inform him when u want to go see him. Pls STOP snooping in his phone.

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  48. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 16:59

    Poster 1,i wish I were still a virgin.u knw y,ccos I fucked just one guy and nw my womb is gone.

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    1. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 19:58

      Awwww. Sorry poster. We all make mistakes in life. It is well with u.

      Delete
    2. Jet li3 July 2016 at 20:59

      Oh my
      So sorry
      Pray and have faith in GOD
      HE maketh a way where there is non

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  49. Yori Yori Princess3 July 2016 at 17:15

    James you be serious case o. I can't laugh much.

    Poster 1 don't give d Idiot your tohtoh.

    Poster 2 start asking for friendship on facebook, instagram from guys and start doing midnight calls when you dey with your horseback let's see who will back down.

    Do me I do you in Psquare voice

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  50. Chidinma Grace3 July 2016 at 17:19

    Pls all these men must cheat bullshit annoys d hell out of me, we should stop encouraging that pls.

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  51. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 17:46

    My dear poster 1, I know that feeling. The idiot is threatening you by insinuating that body no be wood... PLEASE RUN!!!! Trust me, there is no love in your relationship. You will find someone worthy of you much later...close your legs please.

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  52. MOTHER NATURE........3 July 2016 at 18:23

    Poster one, If you know what is good for you better end that relationship and concentrate on how to better your life to become an independent woman. That boy is yet to understand where he is headed to in life talk more of marrying you. Please if you want to give up your virginity, give it to a responsible person.

    It is more memorable and beautiful to give your virginity to your hubby.... it is worth it so keep it.


    Poster two, why give yourself headache, mstchewwwwww. Madam come let me lecture you on how to go about stuffs like this. When you go through your hubby's phone and see rubbish just quietly delete the lady's contact. Unfriend her on FBk, BBM, block her on Whatsapp and delete her number from your hubby's phone and just pretend like you don't know what's up. Let him keep wondering what and how. The days of confronting ones partner over cheating is far gone.

    Madam this is 21st century okay. Delete the bastard and keep laughing.

    Useless set of men that won't remain faithful. So why marry? Mstchewwwwwww.

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  53. Unknown3 July 2016 at 18:41

    Poster2 please sit ur man down,tell him to use condom to avoid any diseases or unwanted pregnancy after which u'll go on ur knees and pray 4 him.

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  54. MISS TRUTH3 July 2016 at 19:15

    Poster2.Your husband is cheating. Do you expect him to admit that?

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  55. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 19:32

    POSTER ONE, JUST GET THIS FACT, GIVING HIM YOUR VIRGINITY WOULD NOT STOP HIM FROM CHEATING AND WOULD NOT MAKE HIM COMMIT TO YOU. LET HIM GO AND MOVE ON.

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  56. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 19:38

    Poster 1, Never ever promise a man with sex, and do not let him push you into it when you are mentally ready, you will feel guilty and full of regret later.

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  57. Elinjk3 July 2016 at 19:47

    Poster 1. Receive Jesus now.
    Poster 2. Pray for him there is noffin bigger than God.

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  58. Elinjk3 July 2016 at 19:52

    Poster 1. Receive Jesus now.
    Poster 2. Pray for him there is noffin bigger than God.

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  59. Elinjk3 July 2016 at 19:53

    Poster 1. Receive Jesus now.
    Poster 2. Pray for him there is noffin bigger than God.

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  60. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 20:06


    Stella, I disagree with you. I would have agreed with your theory of no snooping 30 years ago, but not today that we have many deadly sexually transmitted deceases.
    Madam, I will be realistic with you, I believe this man is cheating. Make sure he has huge responsibility at home. This will reduce his useless lifestyle. If not that your marriage is young, I would have advised you insist he uses condom. But in this case, I don't know how you can protect yourself.

    Stella, please remember to do the hiv/aids post so that spouses will learn from it.

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  61. Nanaa Peaceful Babe..Queenbee.. I can help you book your local and international flights..3 July 2016 at 20:14

    Sunday chronicles don land!

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  62. Mrs. Romas3 July 2016 at 20:53

    Poster 1: Don't lose your VIRGINITY because of one useless guy that will not appreciate you after defiling you. You are worth more than just sex; there are a lot of men who will appreciate you, love and care for you for who you are. You are just 22years old, that was the same age i lost mine and i regretted it afterwards and i never had sex again until i met my husband.
    People of the world will tell you, it doesn't mean anything; my dear poster, it means a lot to you, your pride and dignity. Keep it for yourself and for a good man.
    Someone is out there waiting to met you and treat you like a diamond while he wait till after saying "I DO"
    God bless you.

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  63. Anonymous3 July 2016 at 20:54

    I am really impressed with majority of the people on this blog advising poster one to keep her legs closed. My respect for you guys grew again. We have intelligent people on this blog unlike others i know.

    @ Poster one, if i were you, i will hold the hem of my garment and run as fast as i can away from that fellow. Its obvious he doesn't love you. If you want to try it with him however, its your choice. My advice is, let him go, he's not your man.

    If you ask most ladies that have lost their virginity, they will tell you they regret not waiting for their husbands. My dear, there is nothing wrong in keeping your virginity until your wedding night. I have been keeping mine as well. It comes with no regrets believe me. I know of close friends who married as virgins and never regret it. There are still men out there that value virgins. So, my dear, your fairy tale is very possible. LET HIM GO.

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  64. Unknown3 July 2016 at 21:12

    I support Stella's advice to these chronicles. I hope the posters will heed

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  65. https://ourrelationshipmatters.blogspot.com3 July 2016 at 21:58

    poster 1:- My dear a man that loves u wont give or put u in any condition dear he's a chew gum guy he will dump u once he get d. Cookies so dear use ur head and not ur heart
    Poster :2 madam i know it hard but i will advice u to stop thinking ooo engage your mind into something positive engage ur hands into something wonderful.
    give urself room to grow within infact pretend u didnt see oga phone and dont i mean never allow anything to stop ur happiness and above all pray and pray and keep praying a prayerful woman keeps her home stay bless

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  66. Gift3 July 2016 at 23:19

    Poster 1: Don't do it... leave that boy, he isn't worth it, he is just in lust.

    Poster 2: You have every right to check your husband's phone, don't mind anybody criticizing you for doing so, be careful so he wont give you any disease, pray and ignore him..

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  67. Anonymous4 July 2016 at 00:17

    Narrative one: please don't give in to him, I had a similar experience and the relationship ended. The feeling after that isn't a good experience. You'll meet someone who will Love and appreciate you for it.

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  68. Dre4 July 2016 at 01:44

    Many young men these days don't have respect for their marriages. That word and institution means nothing to them. It's sad.
    I pray God will bless us singles waiting on him with noble men who respect the sanctity of marriage.

    I really have no advice. Your fellow Nigerian wives have spoken. Stop snooping and pray for him. Smh.

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  69. Mao Akuh (Oriflame)4 July 2016 at 10:23

    James James James how many times did I call you? Kontinu

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  70. Anonymous4 July 2016 at 12:05

    a man that wants to sleep with you by all means, does not respect you. he may love you but does not value ur opinions. let him go. i slept with more than 10 guys, none married me( mind you i am 35yrs of age) so close ya legs

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  71. Brain wave4 July 2016 at 15:29

    Poster Two: I wish everyone could be like me. Men are cheats ...Repeat after me . I say cheats. Perverts , liars , confused sick people. I do not have much expectations from them. I've seen the best of them cheat when they think no one is watching. Church men father-figures, pastors. please expect little from them and of them and maintain your peace. If you have the guts get yourself a revenge once in a while and face your front.Do not give your emptions to anyone. simple
    Poster one. please don't do what you're not comfortable with. simple

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