Take it easy!
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
ONE HEART,TWO MEN
Good day Stella, my name is ******* (please don't post my name or email ID) am a regular visitor of your blog please I need help the house I mean SDK readers to advice me on what to do.
I meet Austin last year in the most strange way ever in Lagos last year when i went for an event that evening I finally summoned the courage to end a relationship of 5years that was not working.
As i was sitting outside my hotel I met Austin, it was love at first sight,we had a lot in common he was really sweet, respectful, polite and funny and I fell for him.I stayed three days and on my last night I couldn't resist his charm and we made love, and it was the best I ever had.
I had the picture in my head for weeks.
The next day I travelled back to Abuja and we were always communicating, got to know he had some financial challenges and was not buoyant enough to visit me according to him, I even offered to take care of him coming, he refused, I guess his ego didn't allow him, soon we started drifting, I tried to make him work with me in my business he refused, that he will sort himself out, soon we started talking once a month,and sometimes we don't at all ,met him in October by February we just do "hi and hello' on chats that's all.
I really liked him but I didn't want to look desperate by offering him so much.
In march i met Greg through a friend in the US, Greg is another dream come true, though we've not seen each other physically till now but he's so supporting and God fearing and before i knew what was happening, we are in business together, we do also have a lot in common, he has asked me to marry him,in fact we are running a company together as I speak ,and we are hoping to get married as soon as we close one of our deals.
June!!!!
My people in June ,Austin came back as if nothing happened asking me to marry him too, I told him i am engaged and that I have someone but he thinks i am in with Greg because he's not as rich as Greg, I won't lie I still feel something for Austin just like that first day. In all Greg and I are yet to meet for the first time, but we have invested so much in each from March till now. what should I do who should I follow?
Thanks.
*Austin returned as if nothing happened?na so them they marry for him village?Tell him to return back to where he came from abeg.
The format is to say No at first and then come back and chop all the chopable by proposing marriage.
If i am you,i will not give Austin a chance,people like him are like locusts,arrives to eat and destroy and vanish.....
Marriage without financial stability is LIKE AN ELEPHANT STANDING ON A RAT...What is Austin bringing to the table?....The decision is yours but i would rather take a risk with Greg.
YES!!...Greg!!
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
CONFUSED
Good day Madam Stella.
I'm 29,female jobless graduate since 2013,done petty jobs like sales girl in shops,supermarket which I stopped already. I'm slim and average height,with the right curves and beautiful, people barely believe am up to 24 not to talk of 29.
The main gist is that I have been seeing this 45yr old man for almost 2yrs,he's a rich business man,(we both from south/south Nigeria)he claims to love me,but so far he's not willing to settle down,and we both stay in different states,I alone do the visiting and we do have great sex whenever I visit,which is like 2 to 3 times in a whole year(note these visits take like about 4days), the most important thing in his life is the contracts business he's into which takes more of the time.
He hardly has time for me but he calls always, he's always claiming things will be fine soon which i haven't seen, he can be religious too,attends church prayer programs a lot,but never spends enough time with me like i would have loved,if not that i have met a few of he's relatives and close friends and the fact he stays with his aged parents i would quickly conclude he's married.
I feel he's hiding something from me because he never seems bothered about not having a family,one time he mentioned if I was pregnant so he could see my parents,but as i was not pregnant he wouldn't want to talk about it....I have broken up with him several times but we made up and the same old story continues, tried dating my age mates and I'm still open to that...but they are not serious cos I'm not a working class,they always misbehave and cheat,always act like am a burden to them..
I'm even tired of the whole dating wahala....
Another thing that bothers me about this man is the statement he makes sometimes which he would sound like he wants to have children but not ready for the marriage part. Stella i am totally confused because anywhere I face it doesn't just seem to be rosy, attended several interviews yet no job,I don't even get invites for interview anymore,but all these bad luck is eating me up..
Please I seriously need advise, you can use your red ink, you all can give your opinion.
*The only thing i can get from your story is that your man might not want to marry you until he is sure you are pregnant.
you are the only one who knows if you can settle for a condition like this
Life na jeje
ReplyDeletePoster1: remember u have to live with any decision u take......so shine ur eyes.
DeleteDon't be deceived
@poster2: you are dating urself n frm what I read ,u are about to enter one chance with ur eyes opened
1. Follow Stella's advice. I will add that you need to get to know Greg better before deciding finally. Marriage should be for life, hence you get to know your partner better to decide if you want to spend the rest of your life together with him and jump the broom. Try to meet him physically and spend more time with him. If you have reservations you can still wait for another suitor. Except you are desperate.
Delete2. I have a feeling your man is married and maybe his wife cannot bear children so he is looking for a baby mama who he might take in as a second wife. This is a guess mind you, but obviously sumfin ain't right. Babe you also have to work on your mindset. You sound negative, try to encourage yourself, think better of yourself and get closer to God. Be more sociable and kind, laugh more, look good and have fun. Also don't relent in looking for a job, no matter how small, or a business, it can lead you to greater things. Methinks if you are patient, your own man will come for you. Have faith in God and good luck.
@poster2...If I understand you correctly,he just wants kids and not even pregnancy would make him marry anyone. You sure he's going to marry you even if you get pregnant? I think you should find someone else.
DeletePoster1...How sure are you that Greg isn't for the money?are you sure he's rich and he loves you? You started a biz with him already? Are you desperate? Take am easy oh.Anyway,Marry the one you love the most.
Poster 1 even if Greg comes back and things don't work out him,it doesn't mean you should say yes to Austin.
DeletePoster 2; Since white collar job is not forthcoming, why not get some money from this your man friend and set up a business for yourself??
I suggest you enroll in a fashion school,its a really good business, it thrives,you can sew from your home, and gradually add other things like bead-making.
Sorry my dear,the economy is too hard,thats why those guys are acting the way they are,no one wants a liability.
Since both of you are already intimate, you may as well use this avenue to get Some cash from him,set yourself up and leave interviews alone.
Narrative one...abeg leave broke ass nigga @Austin and follow @Gregg
ReplyDeleteNarrative two.....receive sense in Jesus name
@Galore
Mumu, you think its all about money abi?
DeleteEven this one that havent seen a kwashiokor prick taste. Haven't runz to the point of getting money to do facial surgery n secondly go for height elongation as wel
DeleteMonitor that Austin well oh, he wasn't serious with u cus he was broke, hence didn't want to marry you & suffer, that might xplain his withdrawal.... He just might have gotten sumthg good going or a good paying job, and here he's back still pretending just to see you for who you are, so be careful, not to shun him completely.... Play ur chess well.
DeleteI will raise my neice, daughters and the women after me to aspire to be so much more.
DeleteI will tell them to aspire to be leaders, creators and innovators and everything else that lights fire in their souls.
I will tell them to never say Amen to prayers like "you will be wives of presidents, governors and chairman". I will tell them that they can and should aspire to be the president and the governor. I will tell them they should aspire to be more than appendages to another human like themselves.
I will tell them that they were not created to be under another human. I will teach them to recognise their validity as humans and not as servants or slaves to anyone.
I will tell them that their worth is independent of anyone being attached to them. I will tell them that they are worthy first and they are complete as they are.
I will also tell them tell them that if they make the choice of having a partner, they should never forget that their 'partners' are not doing them a favour.
I will tell my daughters that the sky is not the limit. How can the sky be the limit when rockets are launched beyond and through the skies?
I will tell them to understand that religion is intolerant and limiting. I will tell them that they should seek knowledge at all times and anything that goes against their soul, they should kick it. I will tell them to find God for themselves because their journey is personal.
I will tell my daughters that they are powerful and that the society will be threatened by that power when they exercise it. I will tell them to recognise their power and hold onto it all times.
I will tell them to be open to the beauty around them; in people, in nature and in everyday experiences.
I will tell my daughters to never get entangled with partners who seek to quiet their voices. I will tell them to forsake the company of those that seek to deny them of growth and freedom.
I will tell them that they should go with the expression of their soul, mind and body unrestrained and boldly.
I will remind them that life is no rehearsal and whatever they want to be, they should charge at it fully and with everything in them.
The brilliant Enwongo C. Cleopas wrote this and I thought I should share.
@Anonymous 15:21 Orubebe.
DeleteGet your blog ID.,then we talk.
@Galore
@Poster 1, marry anyone you love most, but if you marry the sencond guy, you will be fucking the first guy as well.
ReplyDelete@Poster 2, well I think if wants you to get pregnant first before you both can get married. I'm even short of words for you, God will help you.
*Larry was here*
Why do I feel the second poster is oseibhi omoareghan
DeletePoster one -marry Greg ...not cos of money but I don't like guys who breeze in and breeze out of someone's life like Austin
DeletePoster 2- I think ur boo is married somewhere
Greg is a real man. Austin is a boy. TRUST ME!! Whichever one you choose to be with just know this
DeletePoster 1
ReplyDeleteYou're in business with Greg already? Same business you proposed to Austin and he refused?
What makes you feel Greg is the one? He's gaining from you and wants it to last forever. I predict you're a gwez and desperate
You better end up with a man that brings food, bigger business deals or proposals to the table and needs you to join than what you are doing
In a long run, you'll end up being the husband
I feel None of them is "the One"
Poster 2
Why is he still living with his aged parents?
I don't just get why she must go into business with them. Hian
DeleteI think poster 1 is desperate to settle down n to think that she have not seen Greg ooooh.
DeleteIn short,she has fish brain.
She has not, there is nothing like she have not.
Delete@ poster one....Be honest with Us, there's no Americana proposing marriage to you, Austin is the only marriage proposal you have for now... 😀😀😀
ReplyDeleteHehehehheheheheheh
DeleteLmao
DeleteYou think everyone is an old cargo like you, may u choke on a fat prick
Deletei like this 2posters dey did not claim holy holy .
ReplyDeleteposter 1,u are not in a relationship with anyone,how can u agree to a marriage to someone u have never seen please calm down,u come across as desperate and the men in ur life can see it that that's what u are after and dey are using it as an advantage.
poster 2,please leave the guy,he is a time waster,just concentrate on learning a skill while still job searching.ur man will come not a man with condition's
You've said it all.
DeleteWhat do you mean "they didn't claim holy holy" so you want truly celibate people to lie they are sleeping around just to please bastards like you,no wonder there are many useless people around,when useless women are giving birth,I wonder what training they will give their kids.
DeleteWhy won't you like them when you are a useless girl yourself.
DeleteStella is back to advising...follow her advise posters
ReplyDeleteThey've been singing leave broke men, leave broke men u r asking us questions.ok, have u asked what brought Austin back? Probably ur offers but no ur brain is only hearing and seeing marriage.Secondly u never see man wey dey us yet u guys have built a lot. May that building not put u into trouble.Yes, u musnt see someone bfor things work out but mehn! It seems all we see now is marriage a man. Be careful whatever choice u make.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: with ur jobless state u r still reasoning marriage with a man that is giving u clues that both of u don't want the same thing.May they not make u a broke single mum u better be wise and move on and find a way to develop urself mbok.
Marrying a broke dirty irresponsible angry man is the worst combination on earth. I rather swallow hundred balls of soured fufu than to allow my sister marry a broke man. My bea doesn't complain about the way I knack her furiously with a speed faster than usain bolt cos I reach wetin dem dey carry man do, remember i told you guys that I have a massive prick
Deleteis it normal that my man yells "iye meh" (my mother) whilst he climax' during sex? his mum passed away almost twenty years ago, long before we met.
DeleteAnon 3:40, you carry bomb for dt place o. D thing sweet d man sotayyyy e remember in mother. Abeg tell us your secret biko.
Deleteposter 1 when a lady is ready to settle down all those hit and run guys will start coming back from where only God knows where they have been all this years, just to distract your attention. Do not listen to Austin, Marry Grey the one you both has invested alot and forget about that run away fucker. Am sure you are falling for him cos of the sex you both had the other day, when Grey comes he will do better than him.
ReplyDeleteLOL.... And how sure are you he might do better?
Deleteposter 1: i pirry you ooo,lol..... better ignore Austin who suddenly appeared from no where and face the Greg, because he will still leave you. he wanted to marry you now cos he knows you are engaged with someone else.
ReplyDeleteP 1 Greg!!!!!
ReplyDeleteP 2 Dont be foolish the guy loves you.. dont you get the msg...? Get belle and you'll be married.
Dont fool yourself get pregnant.!dont miss your
Chance.
Come back and thank me.
#Drinking spermjuicewithlime#dot kwantinu.
Poster don't follow this desperate advice.
DeleteExactly don't marry d poor Austine na which kind yeye feeling u d get 4 dat poor un serious guy? Na wa 4 u slf.
ReplyDeleteDon't even look @ Austin,such idiot,he is a leech,
ReplyDeletePoster,he want you to be pregnant before he marries you,it is your choice,but you could tell him you are pregnant nd see his reaction or ask him for money for business since no job,have seen a lot if graduate who have been without jobs for years now
poster 1: i pirry you ooo,lol..... better ignore Austin who suddenly appeared from no where and face the Greg, because he will still leave you. he wanted to marry you now cos he knows you are engaged with someone else.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: Stay away from Austin. His moves are off. Be careful with the Greg too but he is a better option here. You sound carefree especially about your finances. You just let them in so easy about your money. Hope you always are one step ahead in these joint investments with the Greg or whoever. Don't wanna read that your kind, spontaneous and open self got duped. Goodluck!
ReplyDeletePsster 2: Go and do something useful with your life first. You put off young guys coz you are jobless and probably coz you give off runs girl vibe. You didn't say you were busy with any other thing, probably 45yr old Uncle has turned your sponsor.
You said that guy insuinates wanting a child without marriage. Better believe him!
If you stupidly get pregnant for him, you will be a babymama. He will have his child and freedom to roam around. Maybe till he is 55 with numerous kids from foolish women, that is, if he is not married. Shebi he is from the South-south. Not being stereotypical, but that attitude is not out of place.
Then abeg, define Contractor. Is that a stable job? Who is not a contractor these days sef? You clearly do not know exactly what this guy is involved in. You are happy with the few treats and tango. Better get yourself out of the grip of your longthroat.
Go and pick your self-esteem, your hopes and your stomach from that man and get your life on track. Your small body will only take you far, soon your face will catch up with your age....then what!
You think you will stand a chance with younger, fresher, more intelligent, hustling, more ambitious ladies.....Nah, MFM and Shiloh go get you that time. God and yourself are your salvation not Man!
@Empress CHO.... U are too much... U are my adopted SDK sister.. But if all girls be like u no more free groove for me.. Abeg teach them small small.
DeletePoster 2.. That man just dey shine ur young Kongo... He will soon add anoda fresh grad and wen u find out he will leave you.. I no cos I'm 35, unmarried, from the south south and I like young blood.. The man even try.. I change them once dey grad... I like university something.. Wen the breast still ve bouyancy.. But I don't drive the old ones oh... If keep collecting they dey get sense and leave... Like my guy would say "wetin make we buy monkey? Na make e dey jump"
Marry Greg o! Austin never ready!
ReplyDeletePoster two, that oldman has a baggage o! At his age he cannot be pure n single, hopefully he won't wasate ur time further.
Poster 2 sounds lik sum1 datin my uncle.his wife n chldrn r based in d usa whil he s here doin contract.ps luk 4 som1 close 2 ur generatn.stop datin ur ancestors
DeletePoster1: All you need is time, you havnt set eyes on greg yet, so don't close the door on Austin completely, keep him pending cus if you say the collection with Austin was good & greg is a disgrace in bed as James will put it, then you'd keep missing Austin.
ReplyDeletePoster2: the way girls collect raw without fear baffles me, i can swear you both didn't go for clinical test b4 collection, what if he has hiv? 45yrs n stl not ready to settle down, yet ure here askn questions. Uncle gwegs has alot of baggage, ure yet to see more.
#SamwellTarly: Are those girls?
EddisonTollet: Crasters daughters
SamwellTarly: i havnt seen a girl in 6months.
EddisonTollet: i'd keep on not seeing them if i were u
What, he don't like ppl messing with his daughters?
EddisonTollet: He don't like ppl messing with his wives.
He marries his daughters & they give him more daughters
And on & on it goes
SamwellTarly: That's foul
#Ser Jorah Mormont: [to Daenerys] You have a good claim: a title, a birthright. But you have something more than that: you may cover it up and deny it, but you have a gentle heart. You would not only be respected and feared, you would be loved. Someone who can rule and should rule. Centuries come and go without a person like that coming into the world. There are times when I look at you, and I still can't believe you're real...
DeleteEnough with these quotes.. u and Cissy are annoying, get a room already.
Delete@SD2016, Minding your own business is a FULL time job, stay employed ok?
DeleteAnon, pls help me undrstand the itch in ur butt with the quotes, how difficult can it be to ignore or keep scrolling witout readin wen u see Atheist?
DeleteThe same way u walk in2 a shop wit the mindset to buy a product, & u walk pass the meat section, mayb cus ure a vegetarian... Do u start ranting to evryones hearing hw mch u hate stake?..... You keep walkin, Johnny walker!!!!
#JonSnow: I do know some things
I know i love you
I know you love me, i have to go home now!!
I'm a huge GOT fan..huge as in huge. If you are on install, you've probably followed my GOT account where I do edits and stuff, so I guess I'm qualified to say this
DeleteIT'S ENOUGH!!
it's boring now
The novelty has worn off and your copied quotes are annoying as fuck!!
You want to show you know GOT? Go put together some awesome edits...yep!!!
Otherwise, shut it and stop looking silly on here.
Fuck yall!
DeletePlease keep the quotes coming! At least something to look up to till next year. Lol
Deleteposter 2 you are not serious, don't tell me that you cannot learn hand work or start a business, since your sugar daddy is rich why don't you ask him for some cash and start your own business so that guys of your age can date and marry you?
ReplyDeletemust you marry that old man? am sure you are carried away cos of his money, is better you marry a man at you age than an old man that will treat you like beans, soon he will not be able to give you mind blowing collecting. Stop dashing him you something cos you want to marry him, or just collect skin to skin so that you can carry belle for him with that marriage will hold. yeye dey worry you.
Hmmm poster one I dnt understand u,how can you do business wif someone u hv never seen even to d extent of agreeing to marry him?well check the both of them out very well and follow your hrt.
ReplyDeleteIt's quite funny when I see some post, no wonder they say Ladies are weaker vessels. How can you be thinking of getting back to someone that says Hello once in six months, my dear run for your life. From what you narrated I personally sense Austin is not for you. Greg that you have not met but spent a lot and do Business with you is the serious guy. How can you fall cheaply for Austin gimmick in the first place? My dear am a guy and I know the games men play. Austin is not ready, the reason you are falling for him is because he is physically present. Patiently wait for Greg, and see the transformation of love you will get from him when he finally lands.
ReplyDeletePlease break away from Austin lest you post another Chronicles of heart break or getting pregnant for someone and engaged to another. I support SDK on this one.
Anyways best of luck.
Poster 1 Austin will draw you back. Go with Greg since you have invested a lot.
ReplyDeletePoster 2... Galore says you should receive sense. I pray for the sense to come in Jesus name Amen.
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ReplyDeleteEven with the Greg sef, be careful. He might even be worse.
ReplyDeleteIt's very possible that it's none of them
Poster 2, if you're that desperate, please, put yourself out there. Participate in S and M, be more outgoing. What kind of relationship are you in that's sounding so pitiful?
29 is not 59 please.
Even if you get pregnant, guy is not going to marry you, from your narrative.
Stop wasting your time biko.
#WhiteDiamondOut
POSTER 2: WHY WON'T YOU GET TIRED ALREADY WHEN YOU HAVE BEGUN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SEX? Aha, he attends prayers in churches and he is browsing between your legs without paying bride price; who are you both deceiving? Which God are you praying to? Is it the God that wrote this in black and white;
ReplyDelete1 Corinthians 6:18
18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
Poster 1: You dey try o; you just met someone someone in the hotel you were staying; a total stranger and within 3 days, you are vibrating under him in sexual impurity? Even the he goat smells the females genital to be sure it is the type he "eats". Flee fornication young girl. Repent.
Ewu
DeleteChristians are bunch of hypos na..... Not surprising at all
DeletePoster one..... Pick Greg
ReplyDeletePoster two..... No time ooooo, u better join d single n mingle team b4 d responsible guys get taken #idropmygoldenpen#
All you foolish ppl saying pick greg, because of money abi?? Has she even set eyes on the greg?? What if there's no chemistry? What if he has personal issues?? What if his village ppl are on his case?
Deleteposter one, be very careful o, how are you sure austin and greg dont know each other? look deeply o dont fall into fraud. how can u do a lot in terms of business with someone you have not met? hun? think deeply o. my one cent advise
ReplyDeleteLadies be wise...life isn't only abt man man man!!
ReplyDeleteSeek Ye 1st d kingdom of God n all his righteousness n evry oda thing (including d dick ur desire) shall b added unto u.
And you are answering stunning slim shady,for who? Ewe
Delete1000 likes!
DeletePoster 1, don't even think of marrying a poor man in this time and age.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 , how come you are not getting serious attention from young good guys?
ReplyDeleteAre you fat? Do you always look dirty, unkempt and unattractive?
Ladies dnt marry a man that has only prick to offer
ReplyDeleteStop opening your legs to kpansh till u marry
Am the only one that kwash my wife and the sound is out of this world kparakpatapkakakafuf if kfukuf uuuuuu till she starts coughing or choking then I use my hand earned money to clean her body before I flush everything down the toilet
Madam Stella, Thanks for advising poster1 very well. When I read your advise to her, I just said "For the first time in history you spoke exactly what I had in mind". Poster1, just take that advise like egg that is all I have to say.
ReplyDeletePoster2, Do you know why you no longer get job offers? It is because you are not experienced and currently not doing anything. An employer will only employ someone who has experience... as some of them don't have the resources to start training freshers or the time you are suppose to kick off with work you are busy taking lectures. My dear that is a waste of time to most employers. Please get yourself busy or collect money from that your miss-road old papa younge start business for yourself.
You need to upgrade yourself else, Men like this are what you will keep meeting and before you know it, they will waste your time. Then, you will be called Auntie Gwegs LOL...
Please let me ask general question. Why do ladies always emphasis more on sex like: The best sex I have ever had, The sex was hot, I have never had such a sweet sex like that in my life before, He gave me a good fuck I can never forget in my life, He is the only one that has fucked me real good all my life etc. Haba!! I just wonder why ladies say things like this. Ref. to WNB, Anonymous post, and Chronicles. Na wa oh! But you ladies still moan at the bad sex right? My own na to dey read the nonsense some of you write.
Mother Nature
Poster 1.Who knows,the economic state of the nation might have forced Austin to rethink his earlier stand of not being dependent on you...
ReplyDeleteYou can just put him on probation for now...
But for Uncle Diaspora Greg......how could you think of marrying someone you've not met one on one?
Do you know if he has body odour and halitosis combined and snores like a motorola?.......and his potency and prowess in gymnacktics you do not know?
Do not get padlocked to a wedlock you cannot explain or defend...
1. Greg
ReplyDelete2. The man is married with kids. The day the wife will catch, you won't look your age. Men are marrying young these days. #commonSense
You're dating a rich 45 year old but can't collect money from him to learn a business? Enroll to a makeup school, buy human hair in bulk to sell, clothes Boutique? Learn how to make natural hair and skin care products? Learn how to cook and sell? Even selling refurbished electronics?? Come on girl.. Be serious about your life! If you're gonna be with an old guy... Have something to show for it.. Don't just allow yourself to be used as a baby machine then in the end he won't even marry you. Use your mind!
ReplyDeleteThe.only person that saw what I saw in that poster 2!
DeleteMadam poser, so you are giving out your young blood for free to an old woman with nothing to show for it. Not that you are a teen with no serious needs oh, you are a grown woman..
I call you fish brain. So no beta relationship, no marriage, money, no fun!!
I wonder whether na jazz man use or you are just plain stupid.
Chai..e pain me gan
Poster 1.... Don't allow desperation to play with your head!! You're not 12 years old.. Even a 12 year old can comprehend when they're being used and preyed on which is exactly what Austin is doing... The same desperation is leading you to consider marrying Greg, a man you barely even know. And for your sake I hope this won't lead to another chronicle of marital depression being sent in by you all because of desperation of companionship!
ReplyDeletePoster 2, I suspect that man is impotent. He might be divorced or never married, he and his folks knows his condition. Use him (sorry to use that word) for him to give you the impression of not willing to marry then he's using you. Set your life, business, learn, get a professional certificate, MBA or whatever skill you like now that he's still paying you. Infact I would get business set up and enrol for a course from him and move on. Your man will find you
ReplyDeletePoster 1; I don't trust any of the 2 guys, what if Greg is in that biz to tie you to his madness when you find out who he really his and you can't break free because of your investment at stake? Now that Austin is the one you are seeing, can you take time to study and dig things out? Ask what he's finally doing etc
Wish you both the best
Poster 1. Marry Greg biko. People like Austin are very unstable.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, you must be wise now so that you will not send chronicle tomorrow
ReplyDeleteRead
Poster 1,forget àustin,the Yankee guy you never date physically, so I don't think you really know him,online and phone or distance relationship is not the same as when you are seeing often.
ReplyDeletePoster 2,the only thing I have to tell you is that I set warn you seriously,a guy seldom sees you and you still set ask questions,this guy is obviously married,nigeria is one co try in which married men can claim single cos of business or whatever,they don't even wear wedding bands especially in lagos,portharcout and Abuja.the guy is married and needs a child,the momont him wife get belle he go even abandon you with your pikin cos him wife n.a. him true love him just need pikin.
Sorry to let you know that you have been recieved,if n.a. church they keep am busy he go dey carry you along too. Shine your eye before you begin cry.
My life was destroyed when my husband sent me packing, after 13 years we have been together.I was lost and helpless after trying so many ways to my husband back to me. One day at work, I was distracted, not knowing that my boss called me, so he sat and asked me what it was all about, I told him and he smiled and said it was no problem. I never understood what he meant by it was no problem getting back my husband, he said he used a spell to get back his wife when she left him for another man, and now they are together till date and initially I was shocked hearing something from my boss. He gave me an email address of the Prophet abuvia which helped him get his wife back, I never believed that this would work, but I had no choice coming into contact with the sayings that I get done, and he asked for my information and that my husband was able to propose to throw him the spell and I sent him the details, but after two days, my mother called me that my husband was pleading that he wants me back, I never believed, because it was just a dream and I had to rush off to my mother's place and to my greatest surprise, was kneeling my husband beg me for forgiveness that he wants me and the child back home, when I gave prophet abuvia a conversation regarding sudden change of my husband and he made clear to me that my husband will love me until the end of the world, that he will never leave for another woman. Now me and my husband is back together and started doing funny things he has not done before, he makes me happy and do what it is suppose to do as a man without nagging. Please if you need help of any kind need, please contact Abuvia Prophet for help. His email is prophet.abuvia AT g m a i l. com his website is prophetabuviasolutiontemple. webs. com
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