Hmmmm.....
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE...
SHOULD I SAY YES?SHOULD I SAY NO?
Good day Stella. I need your advice and that of BVs.
I just broke up from a relationship that is almost two years. This guy have been dating doesn't have a job,never had when we met but I believed in him. He kept saying I shouldn't worry that something big is coming for 2 years now nothing.
I only discovered recently that he doesn't have certificate. But I still love him and kept believing. He said he couldn't do clearance because he is owing the school mind you this is since 2006. The problem I have with him is aside the fact that he is lazy and wouldn't hustle like his mates,always collecting money from his mother because he is an only son.
I don't trust him because he has too many female friends and pays too much attention to them,always on social media chatting, he had to change his password when I went through his phone and found out he has some special friends and confronted him. What broke us up was that I told him if I get pregnant again I won't remove it because have removed for him before. Now he said I should go and look for a love because he is not matured to give me that.
The issue now is I have someone (we are very good friends) that has been asking for my hand in marriage since when I met my now ex, but I turned him down because of the love I had for my boyfriend even though I know this new guy loves me so much. And he is what you will call a gentle man,then I used to wish I was single before I met him because he is the kind of man any girl would want as a husband. But stella, I had something to do with his friend (our mutual friend)recently.
I like this his friend but we can't marry because am way older. How do I accept this one asking for my hand in marriage when i have had something to do with his friend? The friend in question told me I should go ahead that his friend truly and really loves me. A friend told me to go ahead since I can't marry the younger guy and live my life. Am confused as to what to do because i have not been able to give the guy a positive answer. Thanks Stells.
*I dont understand it...why can you not make up your mind on your own?Do you take permission from people before you gbensh?
Try to close your legs whilst you are in the thinking room please!
Now as to having something to do with his friend?So? Abeg nothing like that happened..where?how?when?tufiakwa!..LOL
If men can marry their girlfriends friends or sister,why not women?Did he sign his name on your laps?does he have any evidence to use against you later?
My dear you dont know the guy and you never slept with him,please reset your brain,bone your face and say YES if this is the only reason you are hesitating!
If this advice is not enough for you,let confessing to him be the last thing you should do,you dey hear?
Meanwhile continue wasting time until his mind wanders off..men are like that!
Make sure you close your legs and do not gbensh him before anything solid is done..*but you fit use hand check the thing sha..lol*
Chronicles!!!
ReplyDeleteBrb.
*****LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*****
Ok do wetin Dey your and wait for the result... Confuse people every where
DeleteAm not with stella on this one abeg.
DeleteLet anyone you are going to marry know what he is getting into. Its easier for you cos you will have peace of mind and he will love and accept u.
You should beware of that younger guy, after collecting he is now advising u to go and marry someone else.
Lwkmd stella I love this ur advice to poster hahahaha
DeleteDid anybody else think the part about the broke certificateless ex was totally unnecessary? She just wants the story to be long and meaningless
DeleteI like your comment Stella. Let Him just know you're not a Virgin sha. No need for details of who and who.
DeleteSince he doesn't know please go on and accept his proposal, but make sure his friend you had something with keeps his mouth shut.
ReplyDeleteGosh!!!!!
DeleteHow ladies open legs for every dick that wander their still amaze me
You dey shame
But you sef, you're trying to get a clear head yet you're not closing u your legs. Abeg shift!!
DeleteTake stella's advice word for word. And don't go and fall our hand while you're at it.
You're just fucking anything fuckable....forget the younger guy, forget your ex and concentrate on the one that loves you.. My question is Do you love this guy? Think about this before going into any relationship with him
ReplyDeleteThe story sounds so boring.
DeleteDo sadists and psychopaths congregate on this blog? Why are the ladies here full of bile and hatred? This blog accommodates the most uncouth, ill-mannered and hate-filled women the world ever spewed. A lady asks a simple question and virtually everyone here is throwing very hateful tantrums. Is this the only platform you all have to ventilate your anger and bitterness at the society? Gosh! To think some unfortunate men will end up with you all, and I guess some already did. Those men must prefer hell to living with you. And these are the type of people one should mingle with here and get married to!! God! And they all share one other thing in common- poorly constructed English. The few with good English always stand out. Good education is indeed good.
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😆😆😆😆😂😂😅😁😁😁. Easy on us please. This is where you can spew your frustrations without getting a slap.
DeleteBlunt you are blunt indeed,but too harsh. Fire DG does not quench fire.
DeleteBlunt,speaking good English doesn't mean you are well educated,I am sure you have never invented anything in your life,you do feel you speak good English but a British or an American may not think so. There are many Virtues that will take anyone farther than good Education so quit with all this I speak good English bulllshit,its actually a sign of mental slavery,have you ever seen a Whiteman boast of speaking an African language? And please Educated one ,get us the cure for Cancer.
Deleteanon 21:21, I so love your response o jare. who richly-constructed english don epp for sdk blog? Please Blunt, while u are there (getting the cure), be specific about burkitt's lymphoma, don't wanna lose anymore person to it inugo.
DeleteAnon 21:21, exactly what @Blunt is saying. All you could pick out was the "English" part. He said the truth. You people hate a lot.
DeleteYou had something for do with his friend, but you were not dating him then, abi?
ReplyDeleteSo, unless it comes up, don't go talking about it.
Simple and straightforward.
#WhiteDiamondOut
U are a Moron, confused soul, u wasted 2yrs of ur life with an imbecile, u ve no future ambition, common gerrarahere.
ReplyDeleteAngelRay4Sdk, please tone down your language . U are never happy. why do you insult people always? You sound so uncouth, uncultured and ill mannered.
DeleteHahahahaha! Wasted 2 whole years o. Kai!!!
DeleteAngelRay or whatever it is you call your miserable and pathetic self,pls shut your trap henceforth if you have nothing meaningful to contribute....You don't talk people down just because it makes you comfortable......
DeleteBut why do some of you just spew abusive words when you're not provoked by anyone? Pls we are women and future mother's let's check our character. It's okay if you're firing back at someone, not just abusing unnecessarily
DeleteIt's unfair and uncouth just venting anger on a soul dt needs help. Nobody is useless in this life.
DeleteThere is no problem here...if he is serious in getting married to you,marry him then...
ReplyDeleteI wonder how girls fall in love with a jobless church rat...I won't even give you a chance to talk to me talkeless of dating...
Na wah poster,I thank God you have borrowed your self a brain...
Well, follow your mind. Why would you have something with his when he's still asking you out? Have you dated this your mutual friend before you know this guy @all? If yes, you're free to date him abeg, that's your past but if not, follow your mind
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Poster you're a confused emotionally,pls work on it
ReplyDeleteStella just gave you the best advice,stick to it!!!
Stella chop kiss 💋
You're so on point today
Gbenshing gbenshing gbenshing everywhere. Abeg who sex epp? The rate people fuck these days are alarming. Despite all the diseases flying around. That's why I don't pity people who got infected through gbenshing in the hospital during treatment. Close your ikpus people. Poster marry whom u want
ReplyDeleteVery irritating generation
DeletePoster na wa for u o, make sure this is ur last bustop, anyway take stella's advise if u want to bt left to me, continue searching as this dramas done too much!
ReplyDeleteSo wait oh, you xpect BVs to help you make up ur mind, if ure confused, no one can help you right now, you alone know these guys personally.
ReplyDeletePray, roll a dice, give it time, talk to ur grandmother.... Just do what u think would help, BVs cannot help you.
#TyrionLannister - The lord of light wants his enemies burnt, the drowned god wants them drowned, why are all the gods such vicious cunts?
Where is the god of tits and wine?
Enough with this Tyrion whatever bs! Shit is getting old and f**king boring 😪
DeleteWho is this anonymous having unprotected sex under my comment? Keep scrolling when nxt u see Atheist.
Delete#TyrionLannister: once you've accepted ur flaws, no one can use them against you.
Lmao @anon 17:14
Delete#Jon Snow: “My father told me big men fall just as quick as little ones, if you put a sword through their hearts.”
DeleteLolz Stella you're funny sometimes, using ur hand to wake up our mamba and planning to go without cooling it down is an offense o. Poster good luck to whatever u decided.
ReplyDeleteIf the mutual friend said you should go ahead that the guy really likes you and wants to marry you why are you still writing chronicles? Just watch the guy to make sure he's serious and not just looking to get into the jar
ReplyDeleteI find it shocking that u can't make clear decisions even with all the details in ur write up. Someone wants to get serious and u're thinking of what transpired Btw u & his friend. U beta close ur legs & stay far from that friend. Kindly leave that first nonentity (yes,a grown man who still collects money from his mum is a nonentity) for good & erase every thought if going back to him.
ReplyDeletePoster U are not getting any younger. Why can't you marry a serious man that truly love you? Instead of opening legs and Toto up and down and gbenshing and doing abortions for useless men. U are not getting any younger. Marry and enter house abegi. There is no time to check time please.
ReplyDeleteEXACTLY! Wow! Her "down below" has been very busy. Fucking & abortions!! Women oooo 👋🏼👋🏼👋🏼
DeleteI swear just listen to Stella...
ReplyDeletelet me decide for you.
ReplyDeleteaccept your proposal.
tell your something guy not to expose you.
wait for tomorrow
Reading mood activated. No commenting
ReplyDeleteI hope he's not using d word marriage to break ur defences n get u to open ya legs wide? Accept ihim anyway and see where it leads u.
ReplyDeleteWaka Waka babe. Lol. Close your legs ooo. You already know what to do.
ReplyDeleteYou are here asking whether to go on or not when your mates are seriously praying for one.
ReplyDeleteYou don't have a problem my dear, say yes immediately.
Stella you are a case. Lol @ you fit use hand check the thing sha.
ReplyDeleteSorry to digress. Please I need maca. Any maca seller here should contact me on zero eight zero six seven two six seven zero two six .
ReplyDeletePoster better grab the new guy with both hands and fling that stupid boyfriend away.
So poster, if bvs tell u to wait for the jobless ex, u will do that? Pls follow ur heart.
ReplyDeleteConfused Fucklicant... can't waste my hard earned advice on a hoe like u mtcheeeeeew!
ReplyDeleteSee this girl o,the guy waited for you for two years to breakup with your good for noting boyfriend,now that he gave you his blessings to go and marry anyone that will give you love you are here asking stupid question?Nne sit up and grab d guy sharp sharp no time abeg!
ReplyDeleteI don't get this chronicles. Someone pls explain!
ReplyDeleteStella your advice is on point, poster don't ever admit you slept with someone before ur man, it has consequences.
ReplyDeleteStella your advice is on point, poster don't ever admit you slept with someone before ur man, it has consequences.
ReplyDeleteAll these stupid girls that can't keep their panties on...na so dem go dey pass u around.he loves u abi?he'll do his own n u'l realise u r just a meat to be passed around
ReplyDeleteI just love Stella Dimoko Korkus hahahaha that advice strong
ReplyDeleteHmmmm! Pls since when do ex av a say in future relationship?
ReplyDeleteFirst poster, why not tie your legs together?? All these stories that touch won't even surface. Secondly, follow your heart because if we advice you you will still do what u wanna do
ReplyDeleteStella dis you advise eh, lol... P2 better reset your brain and follow d one that has plans for you.
ReplyDeleteI have removed for him before. Sleeping with guys without condoms. Una no dey fear.
ReplyDeleteI dey tell you! That line gave me chills!! Obviously she's not the only one he was fucking too.
DeleteHow do you date someone without a job for 2yrs please?? Someone who still takes money from his mom?? Someone who can't fend for himself?? So If he hadn't broken up with you, you will still be with him, loving him and taking care of him without any future plans insight??
ReplyDeleteLadies tend to make this mistakes a lot. Never date a man who doesn't have something doing, just in case it leads to marriage, so there wouldn't be financial strains..
Meanwhile I would have advised you delete everyone in your life now and start all over including the one wanting to marry you. I don't trust that his friend, he might ruin you later in life but then you could be lucky.
I think he was giving her money from the one he collects 4rm his mother
DeleteU're the most stupid girl av ever heard of. Go ask Google to decide 4 u nah Mtchewwwwww
ReplyDeleteU're the most stupid girl av ever heard of. Go ask Google to decide 4 u nah Mtchewwwwww
ReplyDeleteMechie Eze, is that the advice the poor girl asked of? Ewu Gambia. Well done ur own marriage is the best? Aboki
DeleteFirst of all you are a fool. couldn't finish reading coz I got pissed. Listen gal , how can you love a man that is an NFA ( NO FUTURE AMBITION)? Its one thing if he is educated, with a vision, and a hustler. Dude is just a fucking poor church rat and a lazy one at that. Stop opening yah Toto for a broker much more falling in love with him. I would have understood if you said its just for the fuck but love? No mba it ain't appropriate.
ReplyDeleteNever you ever tell a prospective would he boyfrnd or hubby who gbenshed and who dint gbenshed you. That is a rule bae, you break that rule and you lose everytin. You are just friends abi? Well stick to that never evet confess.Be wise gal.
Me i cant be caught dulling like that jooor. Jtown gals don't dull at all.
This is the result of opening this hole between your legs called vagina to every rod available. Now the past is haunting; isn't it? You killed babies in your womb and you are afraid of not having babies in marriage are you not? But you aren't afraid of God's court and eternal damnation; are you? Have you repented of this sins and asked the Lord to forgive you?
ReplyDeleteThere is something ABOUT ABORTIONS which I'd like us to see. When one kills (or encourages the killing of; see Prov. 6:16-17) innocent children, the consequences are three. 1. You deny yourself the joy of having a home (remember the Hebrew midwives who spared babies against Pharaoh's advice to kill them; God rewarded them with families; Ex.1) 2. You risk "sudden death" in the hands of another fellow/accidents etc. remember Gen.9:6 and thirdly, you deny yourself eternal life! What a life! God isn't going to call you to glory if you do not repent. Jesus said; come to me all you that labor and are heavy laden and I will give you rest; that's Matt. 11:28. If you do not repent, you'd keep on laboring for the Serpent. But if you repent and make Jesus your Lord today and begin to read your scriptures; you'd find peace and the above three lots will not be yours. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteWhile you are waiting for blog visitors to help you use your brain cells, please any wandering dick you see whether attached to the human body or carelessly lying around, please make sure you jump on it for another ride. Inugo.
ReplyDelete"Did he sign his name on your laps?", LMAO! Epic response.
ReplyDeleteI've always believed that when in confusion about things like this, deny, deny, deny!
See me see shege, so ure there waiting for answer to jamb question. Continue. Better say yes and start something serious. Good girl like me sef never get serious relationship u dey dull. Issokay. Who good girl epp sef, just that e Don master my body. Mtchwwwww, I just taya for this unfair life.
ReplyDeleteGood geh EPP nobori.I get many BFs.I ain't gbenshing any one but I dey get my needs met.
DeleteStella good response there! But why do some ladies senselessly let go of prospective hubby and start running after boyfriend that only lust over them...
ReplyDelete* If na just me...*
My first time ,hope it goes tru
ReplyDeleteHiiiii
ReplyDeleteNo gbensh this so called devoted waiting guy o, he knows you are not a virgin but he should also know you are tired of loosing. That's how I was convinced this guy was worth it after waiting from secondary school till I almost graduated Uni. He knew I was in a relationship too and still came forward when my first relationship ended, I thought he was an angel to want to take me despite everything but I was soooooo wrong! I was in my finals in Uni and went to visit him in his Uni also a finals of medicine then, we gbenshed once, dropped me at the park the next day and that was the last time I saw him. Only to hear he was getting married 8months later (his mum is my mums friend) I made sure to engage my mum so she didn't make the wedding sef, the shame was all over me!!! Thank God today I am happily married too but it's one of those things I wish I could take back. All the best poster
ReplyDeleteSDK, this is the best and funny advice ever! LOL.... love you everyday though.
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