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CONFRONTING A GAY SIBLING..

Hi Stella  how are u doing?  I am very worried I haven't slept or eaten well in the past 2weeks,just ended my fast and yet don't know what to do.
I am from a family of 3 plus my twin 4.My mum died 5years ago but dad is alive living in the heartbreak of her death. 

Stella  we are from a good Christian  home, when I mean Christian  a good one, my late  mum was a devoted one and we took her path. my elder brother  got married 3years ago and is blessed with twin girls, the second child a boy is already engaged .

My sister and i are the last and I am the younger one  coz she came out first.... 

My immediate  senior is like 9 years  older than me, I just clocked 22.

Stella I was shocked when my brother's wife came to visit me suddenly in my place of primary  assignment saying she just came to say hi  coz me and my twin are  serving in same  state  where they live but not living with them.

We rented out own self contain  to avoid stories that touch so we all can have our space.
She seemed worried and I persuaded  her but she said nothing that she just came to see me. 

Later, after like 2days, she called again to say if I was alone, or with my twin? that she needs me to be alone. I said was free. she said she wanna see me I said sure, and took a bus asap to met with her.

Stella  you won't believe what she told me. 

She said that my brother is gay. 

At first I didn't believe but she gave me proof and showed me his munched chats, pics, he exchanged with young guys,  etc.  He is even on so many gay website doing the rubbish with them,spending money on small, small, boys meanwhile, when you ask the idiot for money he never gives  always saying he doesn't  have ,this is someone that works with total oil.

She even told me they haven't had sex since child birth  which is like 16months ago that he said he is not ready for another child yet (smh) and so many other queer  and abnormal  behaviors of his.

Stella I started crying, coz I noticed  he doesn't  really have friends only little, little boys it never occurred  to me but once she said it, everything just clicked.
like 15 to 20 years calling him by his name  and  his friendship with them  don't last they just disappear without a reason.

You see one today, tomorrow is another. And she Confirmed he brings them to the house in her absence. 

My goodness! 

where do I start from?

 she has begged me not to tell anybody and warned me that she only sees me as the one she can confide  in..... but I feel like I should tell my people  but I don't know how the reaction would be.
But we definitely i can't tell our father he may die of shock as he is already  hypertensive.

My fellow bvn,what kind of nonsense is this na, is this not a disgrace, an embarrassment to the family?  I wonder what went wrong with him he was very good was even an altar boy. 

God! what could have gone wrong?

What do I do? I colected the instagram  handle and number of the so called boyfriend he brings home in her absence, I don't know if to threaten him, look for him, or I don't even know.
Or even threaten my idiot brother. Stella she said she can't accuse him that she is scared of her marriage  breaking up.

And he may even deny everything. 

But my mind is not at rest as I am not happy with what he has become.

Even my twin  been asking me what is wrong I had to lie  to her that the lady complained he was bringing in girls  to the house, fear no even let me say boys.

She said she has prayed and fasted and etc  and no changes. 

Please I need advice as I feel something  has to be done. 

Thanks. 

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