Yesterday we discussed men and how they do not want to marry a financially handicapped woman as wife..HERE
Excuse me but Women do not want to spend the rest of their lives with a broke ass brother irrespective of if you are so Romantic that an egg would boil when placed near you... These women want to be taken home to Mama but not by you Mr Broke ass brother,yes you!
I will only take you for who you are if your bank account makes me cum multiple times.
Who wants to marry a lazy ass brada that will come on stella's blog and start asking for money to complete bride price?after marriage they will come and ask for matrimonial bed to slp on,spoons and plates followed by money for baby food,diaper and the list goes on! Others are just leeches that wants to take and finish the one you have. My momma bore no bastard mehn!...... Its ShanzEmpire baiby!
Golddiggaz everywhere. I prefer a young guy to an old man no matter how rich d old guy is. Love is impt in a relationship. Why do u think some ladies married to rich men cheat? It's not always about money. Just hAve a good foundation. So long as a guy has prospects, I can consider him. Even if his acct balance na 50k��
I love ladies who think like this. Make straffing them easy! Just go pick them with my GLK...they form love. Next day we straff and then I tell them 'Babe I'm sorry I have a gf!' She owns everything. Some will stay (as side chick), some will go!
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I pray Adunni Ade never find out I am the one commenting with this name sha o
I totally agree with this! It's not worth it! Love without money is not sweet. Marriage without money is hell! I made a big mistake by marrying my husband now. I wish I had stayed with him and just waited until he is able to be a family man. For some reason we just rushed in and it's been the worst decision ever! The lack of funds and financial frustration has put so much strain on our marriage that we were almost on the brink of breaking apart! He complains of his inability to do anything! He has even refused to have kids now because according to him, he is not ready! We are one year in marriage already. If I could go back in time, this marriage would have waited! I do not advice anyone to be in desperate need to marry a man that does not have any major thing to his name, money is not everything but trust me it matters. You will look back and blame urself!
I will rather choose a 47 years old man who has enuf dou to take care of me, than settle with a 34 yrs old man who us still struggling wt life.... OK byeee
Poverty kills love fast. Worse part is some will be poor and still be nasty, still cheat. Sm will wait til they r boxed and forget all you sacrificed. Y bother
A scrub is a guy that thinks he's fly And is also known as a buster Always talkin' about what he wants And just sits on his broke ass So (no)
I don't want your number (no) I don't want to give you mine and (no) I don't want to meet you nowhere (no) I don't want none of your time and (no)
[Chorus:] I don't want no scrub A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me Hanging out the passenger side Of his best friend's ride Trying to holler at me I don't want no scrub A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me Hanging out the passenger side Of his best friend's ride Trying to holler at me
But a scrub is checkin' me But his game is kinda weak And I know that he cannot approach me 'Cause I'm lookin' like class and he's lookin' like trash Can't get with a dead-beat ass So (no)
I don't want your number (no) I don't want to give you mine and (no) I don't want to meet you nowhere (no) I don't want none of your time (no)
[Chorus]
If you don't have a car and you're walking Oh yes, son, I'm talking to you If you live at home with your mamma Oh yes, son, I'm talking to you (baby) If you have a shorty but you don't show love Oh yes, son, I'm talking to you Wanna get with me with no money Oh no, I don't want, no (oh)
No scrub No scrub (no, no) No scrub (no, no, no, no, no) No scrub (no, no) No
One of the things that attracted me to my husband was the fact that he never asked me for money.. Even if we go shopping and spend beyond our budget, he'd prefer returning some items or getting extra cash.. I sing it like the national anthem to him at every opportunity on why he needs to work harder to provide for me and the kids.. I can hold my own financially but heaven knows i can NEVER tolerate a broke man! Not only are they broke and always angry, they lack confidence and suffer from low self esteem.. Who needs all that stress biko? I'd rather laugh in a Mercedes than on a tricycle.. Goodluck to women loving broke men.. The lord is your strenght... Like a bv once said "money gives me multiple orgasms" thinking about it alone makes me orgasmic.. Lol
Hahahahahahahahahahaha... Bet all dem lazy, gold digging bitches on this blog who have nothing to offer in a relationship except a pretty face and tohtoh will feast on this one
Why would he get broke,at least you enjoy the money and you should be wise enough to save and invest be for he gets broke. My dear there is absolutely no reason to be with a broke man from any reason at all. Don't be full of negativity he cannot go broke.
Nope, not all rich guys grew their money. Talking abt inheritance for example. If he squanders money and he does not have POTENTIAL, his story will always be that he used to be rich. A better tomorrow is BETTER than a better yesteray
I prefer to struggle with a guy that is brainy and can grow money, we will never be hungry but a spoilt brat living off papas money is a no go area.
Ode, vision and intelligence dnt put food on the table, but actually pursuing the dreams makes a man rich... Der r plenty men with vision n intelligence playing PS4 while their woman take care of the homes dnt forget
My dear even the broke men would break your heart. One thing I notice is the stupid men who are broke would still be cheating on their woman. I over heard my vulcanizer telling someone how his babe carried knife and said she was gonna stab her self to death if he doesn't call back the girl that just called. And how he managed the situation.
Am like wtf, so my dear it is not worth the stress, they still cheat and even won't marry you better fllow a man for money enjoy your self even if he cheat than a broke man who would act jus same as the other.
U get sense... *many ppl don't know d difference btw 'broke (temporary) n poor(permanent/longlasting) *some ladies carry badluck..even if they marry dangote or otedola his biz/finance will go down *some ladies just shout 'i can't date a broke guy' but cnt attract a rich/comfortable guy cos dey have NOTHING to offer but totoh
What about a vision that is taking years to get activated. The thing you guys don't know is that some men no carry money come this life their head bad. No matter how hard they try and how intellegent they are.Some would finish BSc no job, Go for MSc no job, even go for PhD,yet no job. They are wise,intellegent,smart everything but things can't just get right with them. So you would hook up your self with such a person and keep hoping it would get better,my sister it never gets better is still same shit year in and year out. It is who they were born to become and you can't play with destiny or say God is being Partial that is how it is not everyone is meant to be rich in this life.
Some guys begin very little and end up being rich later but some are poor they live and die being poor. So why take the risk. So is better you follow who carry better head come life some one that things work out for so easily withiut stress coz take it ot leave it some people arw highly favoured than others same apply to ladies help your destiny don't go and follow a man that you keep you tuning from pastor to pastor for prayers and fasting for financial upliftment.
Hmmmm na money ritual them go used u do later...... even if u have all the millions dat one no mean say u are rich.....work on urself, no depend on man money, make ur own money
Abeg!! Sometimes,dreams and visions never come to reality.So my dear,it's better to see that the dreams have started manifesting,theen I'll willingly join you to make it full blown.
And who tell you say being with a rich man is depending on him? So you mean now if I have my own money It now means I should follow a poor man. What we are saying is stress,you make things easy for your self my dear.
Broke men are usually the ones that bitch about women being too materialistic and about wanting financially independent women. A successful man does not care about such. All he wants is a good woman with nice puddy. Now, if you're part of those men that whine about women always asking for too much and being lazy , Mr man, poverty is your calling.
True, my husband is a broke idiot! Everytime we fight he calls me a 'liability' and gold digger. This fool since I married him has never even done anything for me.... I bought the car I drive, I pay my phone bills and all the bills concerning myself, my monthly up keeps as a woman I take of them, I can't even remember the last time he gave me small change to hold. I cannot proudly mention one thing that this man has done for me. My sisters, if you can avoid a broke man by all costs, do urself that Favour
It is true o, see their mouths "I cannot marry a broke man". So who is marrying all dem broke niggas in Nigeria+these (women) pick up the bills for them
It is true o, see their mouths "I cannot marry a broke man". So who is marrying all dem broke niggas in Nigeria+these (women) pick up the bills for them
This is so true. who wants to suffer in her fathers house and then end up suffering in her husbands house? No one wants a liability abeg. Onye bia la uwa ita afufu.
How on this earth wil I fall in love with a broke ass?Not again.Gone are those days in uni where I spend my allowance on boyfriend.I can't marry a guy who is not financially stable because I love good things.I can't imagine me depriving myself of luxuries because I have a family to cater for.
I married my university boyfriend. Then I was the one that used to give him money ( I did it for God then love enter equation) We got married after he got a job,He was given a contract job and WE (Yes ke, I have to reap where I have sowed) got 15million naira which was deposited in my act. The rest is history, I mapped out how the money was to be spent.
NB: everybody's story cannot be the same. I.e you might "invest" in a guy but he might not show appreciation when he makes it
A man who cannot provide and isn't ready to provide isn't worthy to be addressed by that term. He is not worthy to be called a man not to talk of wanting to have a woman. The duties of a man over a woman are to profess his love in all ways possible, protect her from danger of any sort and PROVIDE for her needs (sexual, financial, emotional, etc). That is what being a man to a woman is all about. Now, men might be able to achieve these at different levels because not all fingers are equal but the core truth remains the same - do them to the best of your ability. There is dignity in labour. There is dignity in hard work. There is dignity in being able to provide and that's why men who earn little nd still provide as much as they can for their family deserve more respect than rich tight-fisted 'men'. Sooooo no woman wants a man who is broke and not ready to break the yoke. Selah!
What about a vision that is taking years to get activated. The thing you guys don't know is that some men no carry money come this life their head bad. No matter how hard they try and how intellegent they are.Some would finish BSc no job, Go for MSc no job, even go for PhD,yet no job. They are wise,intellegent,smart everything but things can't just get right with them. So you would hook up your self with such a person and keep hoping it would get better,my sister it never gets better is still same shit year in and year out. It is who they were born to become and you can't play with destiny or say God is being Partial that is how it is not everyone is meant to be rich in this life.
Some guys begin very little and end up being rich later but some are poor they live and die being poor. So why take the risk. So is better you follow who carry better head come life some one that things work out for so easily withiut stress coz take it ot leave it some people arw highly favoured than others same apply to ladies help your destiny don't go and follow a man that you keep you tuning from pastor to pastor for prayers and fasting for financial upliftment.
Hmmm...am 35 and still single and I must tell myself the truth about this waiting thing...maybe am just unlucky,but recently,most of the guys I come across are broke ass...broke and very unambitious.. And I began to think that maybe am too selective but I realised that I just can't come down to their level of thinking.how can a guy earn just 50k and he's not ready to embrace other ideas of making money.. I don't even know how to communicate it but no way to broke ass..cos its only a matter of time that they start feeling insecure..
Ladies, if you are over 30 and you still walking around talking about niggas ain't shit, you can fuck with broke ass niggas,la la la, you need to get a handle on your motherfucking life and take responsibility bitch. What you means is that all the niggas that you fuck with ain't shits, you need to figure out what it is about your pussy that keep attracting broke ass and ain't shit niggas!
Be A Boss,Date A Boss,'BUILD AN EMPIRE'' Gone are those days I stick to broke ass dude,pay their bills and even enslave myself to be loved and not even that sacrifice could make them stay faithful or real. So tell me Why would I want to marry a broke ass nigga who isn't gonna compliment my hardworking self? As much as I don't wanna marry just for money sake*that also !is very important to me..a real man compliment a lady,money wise too..so if you're broke,bros abeg find ya square root and thats a lazy girl too..Experience made me and I'm glad I learnt very fast...Kapiish
Isn't crazy that we keep going back and forth about this money or no money love? Will a mentally sane,facially okay girl with every curves in the right places see a broke ass nigga and say yes I want him? Is she mad?
I'm saying it for the 1001 times, I will never marry a broke ass. Suffered toomuch can't suffer in marriage again If you're a broke ass and you think am a gold digger, bye.
Lmao @ suffered too much,can't suffer in marriage again. Iyalaya every broke ass suitor. ''Gbemisoke,Gbemisola,Gbemi-sinu-wealth'' husband ti take over!
There is no truth in that assertion up there. The women who think this way are MATERIALISTIC. I married my husband "straight fresh from college". He is not from a rich family. He had no house or car or any investment; in fact, not even a job. Yes, it wasn't a roller coaster life but by five years into the marriage, we had the comfort we needed, good jobs, 2 beautiful kids etc. Now about a decade through; the Lord has made it beautiful in his time. And we live like new lovers; with every trust and peace. Today, he could buy a $2000 worth of jewelry for me even when I am protesting that it is too costly. He could give me a brand new car worth $30,000 and so on. These are not the attraction now. The attraction is that I have a man I can call "my husband"; one that I can trust with every bit of my heart; no stories and no baggage.
Ladies, in as much as God can give you a "made" man, if you walk selfishly into a "made" man's life, you are nothing but another piece of property in his house and you'd write chronicles when he treats you as such.
I choose to look at this post from the perspective of ambition. A man who is ambitious is ok... he'll get to his goal someday but a man who isn't ambitious is a no-no. He is a no-go area. If your husband didn't have an ambition and the zeal to work towards it, I doubt if you'd be where you are now. So ambition na koko.
Give me a second chance and I will have a made made. Married this broke ass and thirteen years after am still suffering for the choice I made out of love.
Give me a second chance and I will have a made made. Married this broke ass and thirteen years after am still suffering for the choice I made out of love.
My story is similar to yours, he was through with school no job, me sef finish school still no job, we then got married without job. 8 years n 2 kids later we are not yet there, but where very far away from where we started from
Maam, things have changed, no good Men like ur husband that appreciate the suffering n management you went thru anymore. Girls r now like this cos of the terrible things Men have done to them. A decade ago is a long time a go and a lot has changed. Ur hubby had vision n worked till he got it. A lot of No future Ambition guys out there now. I see what my friends go thru in the name of relationship and i jst thnk God for my own
When Annie and the other ladies tummies were getting bloated up by Tu baba, what was he worth? Why did he marry Annie? It was when I saw that picture a few days ago on this blog that I believed all Tubaba said before that wedding that Annie was with him from the scratch.
A man will always respect the lady that was with him when he had nothing.
Don't you read chronicles here of how these men pummel their wives that have been holding it down with them right from when they had nothing? Abeggi let's see front. A man that wants to respect you would do so whether you were with him when he had nothing or not.
See talk!(tu face and annie relationship was on&off). Pero was also with him when he had nothing,infact pero helped his career money wise. 2baba married annie cos she's a dumbo that will always chop his shit! NOT because she was with him when he was poor! Except you are telling me he married her out of pity.
Not in all cases lately. You stick with some broke ass guys and when it seems they are beginning to get up and you are still struggling they opt out mostly for ready-made ladies. Men are lazy these days
Preach it sister! Although some mumu girls will always remain mumus,like the one that went to pay her bride price by herself. I remember my fiance telling me that after 1year of relationship no single gift from me to him,I laughed out loud.Yet he won't let me breathe.Men! One time we went out shopping and the things we bought was 20k above the amount he had,he asked me to lend him the money,and he"l pay back, i did. At first i was patient the whole day waiting for him to pay me back,he didnt say nothing,my temperature was already getting high,i started developing headache and i knew it was cus of that money,yes im abnormal like that o,when it comes to money and men,i no dey play.i do business and leave hundreds of thousands outside for weeks without flinching but a man im dating? Lai lai.anyway, the next day,i said,wsup love i need my 20k, he was like huh? Are u kidding me? I was like which one is am i kidding u? He said,but majority of the things we bought were for u, i was like yea so what? I would have gladly returned the perf and wristwatch if i knew u couldnt afford it, he just kept staring at me in unbelief,then he was like was that why u were quiet yesterday night? I was like yea.after a while he burst out and laughing and gave me my money.I even took it back with interest sef. The thing is, he knows when the chips are down, there's absolutely nufn I won't do for him,he sees me gladly giving my money to the less privileged,i even give to people who arent less priviledged,but a man I'm dating can't smell my money.impossicant,highest, highest, I'll carry him to eatery and buy him rice or sharwarma or buy him boxers when I think he's extremely nice.women,know ur place,ure not a help meet until u get married.when I finally get married,I'll be nice,until then a man should know he"s a man and act as such.And as for dating a broke man, a Man is only as broke as his mind.as long as I believe in his dream and can key into his vision,I'll date him,just don't ask me for money please.And yes I expect you to share the little you have with me,I'm just a teeny weeny fragile woman.
Correct babe!same thing I told my guy,if u want us to start splitting bills equally, just get ready,cus nah so I will love u half,fuck u half,respect u half,cook for u half,he just started laughing and quickly made my monthly transfer to my account.the only gift I have given him within our 2yrs affair is a creed Aventus not cause I am greedy but I don't want to overdo things,it's best left in moderation he for one doesn't like me spending my money, u see him grumbling that I should be prudent and stop spending my money rather to tell him, but on the contrary he has bought me up to 4bottles of millicime imperial ,royal oud etc.I don't hv strength for had I known.
Hmm,loud it gurl!!I used to be very giving in a relationship.Would even use my money to cook and invite you to eat.Buy gifts during birthdays and val and festive periods...but no more hunnay!! Now,I don't spend my money on a man,but brother,I expect you to spend yours on me.Yes,I'm selfish like that!! Especially in a new relationship,if I've not dated you for three months,you won't smell my money!!
True. See, ita not always about the money sef but what fo you do with the one you have? If a guy seals deals and refuses to invest but only spends, no responsible woman will want to marry such. A man or woman has to be enterprising else even if he has money today, it will finish. Thats why women look for potential cos you can already see a person thats gonna go places from the way he carries himself and lives his life.
My dear I have my own personal money not like a super rich like rich rich personally but at least to take care of my personal stuff even aside my parents being there for me. But at least I should get stuffs from my man it makes the relationship sexy and keep the spark flowing. Is not about the money but the gesture knowing that he cares and he is romantic and likewise me I can get him stuffs. Examples, my last birthday he got me a Samsung 6edge packaged with roses, it doesn't mean I can't afford the Phone or that my dad can't get it for me if I tell him to but the fact that I got it from my bf makes it like one he'll of big deal for me.so I love getting gifts from my man oh, eg,baby am broke, he would be like really? madam like you? am like yes oh been spending so much on fuel these days. And he ll be like okay now no problem would send you something. And at night there is an alert. That is who I call a man. Not the one that I would look for one lie to tell and he would even investigate and later ask me how much do you have. I be like I have 100k,i need 100k and then it would take him for ever to even come up with half of it.
I don't need stress in my life the more reason I advise all women to get something on with them selfs, coz only classy girls get the best men. The more you act poor and tell a man all your problems the more he looks down on you. Even if you are poor and jobless, package your self very well before men. Tell them lies and that you need money for your accommodation of 2m 1.5 or contract or one thing. The higher your package the higher your money and respect. Take it or leave it.
My dear I have my own personal money not like a super rich like rich rich personally but at least to take care of my personal stuff even aside my parents being there for me. But at least I should get stuffs from my man it makes the relationship sexy and keep the spark flowing. Is not about the money but the gesture knowing that he cares and he is romantic and likewise me I can get him stuffs. Examples, my last birthday he got me a Samsung 6edge packaged with roses, it doesn't mean I can't afford the Phone or that my dad can't get it for me if I tell him to but the fact that I got it from my bf makes it like one he'll of big deal for me.so I love getting gifts from my man oh, eg,baby am broke, he would be like really? madam like you? am like yes oh been spending so much on fuel these days. And he ll be like okay now no problem would send you something. And at night there is an alert. That is who I call a man. Not the one that I would look for one lie to tell and he would even investigate and later ask me how much do you have. I be like I have 100k,i need 100k and then it would take him for ever to even come up with half of it.
I don't need stress in my life the more reason I advise all women to get something on with them selfs, coz only classy girls get the best men. The more you act poor and tell a man all your problems the more he looks down on you. Even if you are poor and jobless, package your self very well before men. Tell them lies and that you need money for your accommodation of 2m 1.5 or contract or one thing. The higher your package the higher your money and respect. Take it or leave it.
Madam Rolex chick, after packaging yourself and telling lies just to have class, when he finally marries u and finds out that u'r actually a broke ass, how do u think he would treat u? A broken relationship is way better than a broken marriage. Let him love u for who u are to avoid stories dat touch later in life. Ladies pls be wise.
You have all the money in the world excerpt romance or love. Hummm. I will send olori to you tomorrow morning. please #500.00 for the first one hour and #100 for every other 30 mins
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is NOT SELF SEEKING, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8
Is this what the above writer meant; that those "materialistic ladies" fall into? Don't you see that they are merely SELF SEEKING: that's not LOVE please, it is lust for money. What happens after marriage and the man loses his job or investments. Won't those ladies simply take a walk?
They'd make do with his savings and her contribution, pending when he'll get a new one.
Abi he'll sit down all day at home, shaking his head like Christopher Columbus, and waiting for another job?
Nahh! He'd go out there, and he'll surely get something.
Some guys, when they lose their jobs, and wifey is working, na to come siddon for front of TV daily, dey drink beer, dey flip through newspaper for Ads. That one no follow at all.
Please don't interpret the bible only where it suits you. Adam was made to till d ground while Eve was made to suffer during childbirth. Everyone has a role to play. When Rebecca went to meet Issac, he was ready for her. She wasn't going to be leaving outside he had a roof over his head n could take care of her. No one is asking d men to be super rich, but at least be able to take care of one more person. No matter how much i earn my hubby knows he must buy my toiletries n pay for my hair, etc. N take up all the other responsibilities in d house. My money is for landed properties n my mum(sometimes his too). Of course i support him but he should not take it for granted. Please encourage our men to be hard working cos even the virtuous woman in d bible was a wife taking care of the homefront, knitting n getting her own income. Don't tell women about love biko. Our role is not to love but to be submissive n take care of the home front. That's y we have to get married to men who know their roles so we can also excel doing ours. Phewww #dropsmic#
for me money aint the yardstick for marraige sha, so long as he is educated, with great wisdom, super sense of humour, has a vision and God fearing? GBAM he is my ideal man. becoz i have huge bulgy eyes like that of an eagle that can see afer and posibly into his future sef lmao so with just one glance i can tell if he is the one or not. so yes i aint a money monger but i wont settle for less.
There's no how I'll work my ass off to be a self sufficient woman and then go be with a man whom I'd be feeding, or taking care of.
It's even worse when the man is a dreamer, like most guys these days are. They all want to be like Dangote and Otedola in their heads and fantasies, but can't take a job that pays less than #50 for starters, or look for something doing, no matter how small.
They'll just sit down everyday, waiting for that million Naira contract, to fall into their hands. Story!
All those in-your-head mentors started small. Even if they came from money, that grandfather of theirs started small and even rich people still work hard to keep being rich.
You can't be without ambition and be hoping to get you an all rounder as a wife, or a lady who has something doing, and expect her to pay your bills, for you to verbally run her down in future.
Hell to the N to the O.
Gone are the days it worked that way.
Get off your ass bro, and go make a living.
Any man who is living off a woman, or is dreaming of getting married to a woman who would take care of his needs, needs serious reorientation.
My mum would always tell me "don't marry a man for his money but marry a man that can take very good care of you"! I can only marry a man that can take care of me financially and emotionally! I wonder why broke ass guys always chase after beautiful girls and expect them to remain beautiful without contributing a dime to their maintenance!
I used to work in a finance firm. Once a lady client of mine who came back from the states to settle in Nigeria was in my office for "investment talks". She was sitting before me when a "friend" of mine came into my office, sat on the sofa and began to peruse an investment magazine. I noted the surprise on both faces as they greeted. The next time the lady came (she actually came earlier than scheduled) to sign her documents, the first question she asked me was; who was that man the last time? I told her he was the co-founder of the firm. She instantly broke down and wept like a baby. She told me that she had met the man at a gas station the first week she came into the country and had refused to give him any chance to date her. Her reason frankly was "his kind of car"; Toyota camry (the lady drives a lexus suv). Really, my boss had just one "superior car" but preferred to ride that particular car.
This lady was in her mid thirties and single then; from the documents she submitted. I knew at least part of my boss' worth (more than a hundred times this lady's investment which was huge) but he lived very much lower than his means. It was what I learnt from him that made me quit my position in his firm to start my own business and I'm not doing badly at all.
Money is good in marriage and all other things of life, but monetization of relationships and marriage is what courses dissatisfaction, infidelity and in some case divorce. Most women tends to equate care, concern, Godliness, success and fear of God with money and properties. That's how ladies keeps selecting until they will now decide to date Married men or remain single ever(rich career and business women) cos they can't keep a Godly relationship. Marriage is not about money only. It's only on the internet that these gals tends to form high class, but in reality they pray and cry for a God fearing Mr Right who they can build a successful and happy marriage together. No man likes to bring a wife and children to come and join in his suffering, but many women have forgotten that the essence of getting married is build a prosperous partnership and make heaven at last.
Oga Oscar your head dey there. I read comments and I laugh. Most of these women talking are single and will probably remain so with this mindset. Don't worry, we men can smell lazy and opportunistic women from a mile away. Any woman who hasn't been with me in the time of little will NEVER dine with me when I have plenty.
Stellalinda, my dear brothers and sisters in the lord.....Calvary greetings to you all. You see in the word of God...we are asked to seek the kingdom of God first, that is we should not focus on exclusively on money, earthly possessions and vanities. Therefore, marrying a broke-ass brother should not be a migraine inducing issue............Runs under the bed, this lightening is after my phone. Can't someone joke again.
Anyways, the dreaded term "broke" is relative. Broke brother can be a quiet unassuming, ambitious, visionary low-key accomplishing brother who out of choice decides to temporarily avoid the looks of luxury. Still called broke coz no car, duplex, serious job(oil company things), no expensive suits. Some time and ticked bucket list unveils this type.
Broke-ass brother can also be one with nothing but a brain of ideas needing an opportunity to blow.
Another type of broke-ass will be the chronicles inspiring type. Who could be swagful or swagless, have nothing to give but situationship, sorry relationship....not necessarily love.
The issue would be how broke is the broke-ass, scenerio A is the one we call prospect, scenerio B...is the We are waiting on the lord type, sometimes, a wonderful girl brings favour and doors just open for this type. The last set is the one we shout God-forbid to, they are the most populated and a lot of them are in relationships....
Broke get levels, remove the veil of superficiality and pick the right type to build together. Economy is hard, everyone cannot have a rich man, but do not take a destined broke-ass to your mama.
I married a church rat and I regret it every single day. I'm always in the sun because we don't have a car. Eating rice every day, some days without meat. He's always borrowing money from family and friends and despite this, the short devil is still arrogant.
Hahahahaha. And you were asking me if my mama didnt teach me manners the other day? Atleast she taught me not to settle for a man that will be making me 'chop' rice everyday and without meat sometimes.
Everybody wants rich and comfortable, have you asked yourself if he goes bankrupt, will you still be there. A man that is hardworking, has the potentials he is working on, have faith and prudent in his doing is idle for me. If you are rich good, if you are not rich and you have the listed potentials good. But am not all about material things cus they are temporary. No matter how smart you invest, just one turn in life can change everything. Instead of looking for the riches, look for the man that compliments you and you will build together. A lot of women have been turn to money rituals because of misplaced priority. Brokeass is in the mind, seed grows.
No lady would definitely wanna have anything doing wit a broke ass man of course,especially dis our era. Its even a sin for a man not to provide for her family,d bible said dat he is worse Dan an infidel... Its just so unfortunate dat they r now d ones not wanting to be useful wit their lives these days. Even a jobless man will still b looking out for a lady dats working to settle down wit...mtcheww...
Everybody be writin epistle. Who is a broke ass? That's what am figuring out. Is it the guy with no money and no means of earning or the one trying al his best to attain success but, for one reason or the other doesn't reach it? Omewere ma chi ekwegi onye uta atakwana ya. Many be castin and binding, rejecting and forbiding, but in real life they are havng real broke ass guys and are wiling to do anything just so they be addressed as wify. When you fall in love, you'l ignore broke/loaded ass and focus on building with the one you love. Shalom
All these girls wey poverty don panel beat their brain, wey their papa no get bicycle talk less of a car, go dey yarn dust.
What stops you from having your own money? why looking for a rich guy? Does that mean the guy is better than you? His own head and destiny is better than yours?
Where you put your head/destiny wen pple dey select riches? Your own na to dey yarn dust on SDK, do runs, buy cloth, shoe, bag and phone
The guys only said they will marry someone who is working. As for you, na rich man you wan marry? see the correlation. It means you shouldnt even approach a rich guy if you are not rich too. Thieves, Gold diggers, Ole, Onyeara, Barau in girls clothing
All these girls wey poverty don panel beat their brain, wey their papa no get bicycle talk less of a car, go dey yarn dust.
What stops you from having your own money? why looking for a rich guy? Does that mean the guy is better than you? His own head and destiny is better than yours? did you choose the destiny of a pauper and pepper seller?
Where you put your head/destiny wen pple dey select riches? Your own na to dey yarn dust on SDK, do runs, buy cloth, shoe, bag and phone
The guys only said they will marry someone who is working. As for you, na rich man you wan marry? see the correlation. It means you shouldnt even approach a rich guy if you are not rich too. Thieves, Gold diggers, Ole, Onyeara, Barau in girls clothing
The thing is a man should be able to take care of his family. The wife however has to do something to support sometimes . won't it be frustrating if without you your wife can't even buy her underwear, make her hair, buy small things for the kids and wait.... You guys are married for like 30 years? Menh see waste of money.
Women!! will you die if you build your empire with your hubby (the supposed broke ass man)? Whenever I see post like this, and read comments I just start laughing because women are yet to understand who really they are and the purpose to which they where created. You think you were created to come and open your pussy and get fucked 24/7 and be sprayed cash for opening it so super wide.
You were created as "HELP MATE". You are meant to stand in gap and intercede on your man's behalf and not envying "Mummy Jason" for the new Range rover sport her hubby bought for her or the next country she is going to for vacation.
No wonder so many of you are 35/40 and no man in your life because you allow your fantasies overwhelm you. Only queens knows the worth of building her kingdom with her king. That is why men will never respect women - they treat women like trash bec they know money is what women are all after. No wonder a man who is wealthy today will only think of how to take vengeance on women. You see them asking three women to have sex with them at the same time and even slap money on their bum bum... is just a pity.
You guys should keep waiting for E-Money okay? You will grow old waiting. when una mate they go Omugwo, una go they go mountain. Keep listening to Stella who has made name and way for herself. I am proud of Stella because she is an example of virtuous woman... of which I'm sure her hubby is proud of her. But Stella go dey say broke ass this and that; una mumu too go join her dey talk meanwhile she is an independent woman that supports her family.
You guys had better have a re-think about this life because the worst thing a woman can do is to look down on a man. Anything can happen in a split second. So many wealthy men today were once broke ass.
Mother Nature, dont mind de fools ranting abt broke ass dis n dat. I use to squad frm my 300 level that was d 1st time I heard that word broke ass. I lost my parents@de time, so life was hard de gal frnd of my frnd I was squating did to me a whole lot of unthinkable things. I kept faith and kept reading my books because to me that was all that mattered, my frnd tried so hard to stop her from treating me like trash n calling me broke ass but hell no. She was frm a rich fam & always bringing food n oda goodies for de Bobo Today they got married n de guy is still unemployed. I even paid for delivery frm hospital after putting to bed. They are terribly broke the monies frm family dis appeared suddenly n everything is dry n I pity dem I even give them feeding money atimes. So who is a broke ass now? Tho m not exactly where I want to but m way better. Broke ass or not it takes only a second for a mans life to change
My husband to be said he found a house, and de amount is 650k. That he will bring 400k and I should contribute 250k. When I never de marriage oh. I just tire, na by force to marry
For God's sake, what is wrong with you bringing 250k? If you like listen to the rubbish these women spew here and don't garner sense for yourself. Isn't it a house for both of you? Why shouldn't you contribute? Mscheww
Thrz absolutely no need for all this. Any kinda man u like, marry him. Personally, I hv dated rich and broke and I am presently single. I walked out of the situations each time. I'd like to believe I just havent met d right guy yet. If u say u only want to date a man with big dreams and a flat wallet, thats ur cup of zobo.
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ReplyDeleteA broke ass nigga should not even have an erection talkeless of dating or getting married!...
Lmao😁😁😁 through though. Dey can go for dia type!
DeleteQueen you finish work.
DeleteWho ''take me OR love me for who I am'' epp?
ShanzEmpire
Lol, you made small sense.
DeleteLmao, Mami you have killed me.
DeleteI will only take you for who you are if your bank account makes me cum multiple times.
DeleteWho wants to marry a lazy ass brada that will come on stella's blog and start asking for money to complete bride price?after marriage they will come and ask for matrimonial bed to slp on,spoons and plates followed by money for baby food,diaper and the list goes on!
Others are just leeches that wants to take and finish the one you have.
My momma bore no bastard mehn!......
Its ShanzEmpire baiby!
Stupid woman with lack of wisdom and understanding trying to lure innocent girls into prostitution.what is your husband and even your parent's worth?
DeleteI totally agree. Funny thing they will marry and then have 100kids and live in 1 room as if family planning is expensive
DeleteGolddiggaz everywhere. I prefer a young guy to an old man no matter how rich d old guy is. Love is impt in a relationship. Why do u think some ladies married to rich men cheat? It's not always about money. Just hAve a good foundation. So long as a guy has prospects, I can consider him. Even if his acct balance na 50k��
DeleteInstead of looking for a rich guy, get a job n make ur own money😛😛😛😛
DeleteI don't read the same post twice so if u insult me, I won't even notice
*wraps weed*
I love ladies who think like this. Make straffing them easy! Just go pick them with my GLK...they form love. Next day we straff and then I tell them 'Babe I'm sorry I have a gf!' She owns everything. Some will stay (as side chick), some will go!
DeleteHehehe
I pray Adunni Ade never find out I am the one commenting with this name sha o
I totally agree with this! It's not worth it! Love without money is not sweet. Marriage without money is hell! I made a big mistake by marrying my husband now. I wish I had stayed with him and just waited until he is able to be a family man. For some reason we just rushed in and it's been the worst decision ever! The lack of funds and financial frustration has put so much strain on our marriage that we were almost on the brink of breaking apart! He complains of his inability to do anything! He has even refused to have kids now because according to him, he is not ready! We are one year in marriage already. If I could go back in time, this marriage would have waited! I do not advice anyone to be in desperate need to marry a man that does not have any major thing to his name, money is not everything but trust me it matters. You will look back and blame urself!
DeleteI will rather choose a 47 years old man who has enuf dou to take care of me, than settle with a 34 yrs old man who us still struggling wt life.... OK byeee
ReplyDeleteOpe u ain't a broke ass sister too
DeleteYou can't even speak good English. Poor girl
DeleteKwakwakwakwa
DeleteShanzEmpire
Who no like better thing...
ReplyDeleteNo body
DeleteMake i see.....*In mr 2kay's voice*
DeletePoverty kills love fast. Worse part is some will be poor and still be nasty, still cheat. Sm will wait til they r boxed and forget all you sacrificed. Y bother
DeleteA scrub is a guy that thinks he's fly
DeleteAnd is also known as a buster
Always talkin' about what he wants
And just sits on his broke ass
So (no)
I don't want your number (no)
I don't want to give you mine and (no)
I don't want to meet you nowhere (no)
I don't want none of your time and (no)
[Chorus:]
I don't want no scrub
A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me
Hanging out the passenger side
Of his best friend's ride
Trying to holler at me
I don't want no scrub
A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me
Hanging out the passenger side
Of his best friend's ride
Trying to holler at me
But a scrub is checkin' me
But his game is kinda weak
And I know that he cannot approach me
'Cause I'm lookin' like class and he's lookin' like trash
Can't get with a dead-beat ass
So (no)
I don't want your number (no)
I don't want to give you mine and (no)
I don't want to meet you nowhere (no)
I don't want none of your time (no)
[Chorus]
If you don't have a car and you're walking
Oh yes, son, I'm talking to you
If you live at home with your mamma
Oh yes, son, I'm talking to you (baby)
If you have a shorty but you don't show love
Oh yes, son, I'm talking to you
Wanna get with me with no money
Oh no, I don't want, no (oh)
No scrub
No scrub (no, no)
No scrub (no, no, no, no, no)
No scrub (no, no)
No
One of the things that attracted me to my husband was the fact that he never asked me for money.. Even if we go shopping and spend beyond our budget, he'd prefer returning some items or getting extra cash.. I sing it like the national anthem to him at every opportunity on why he needs to work harder to provide for me and the kids.. I can hold my own financially but heaven knows i can NEVER tolerate a broke man! Not only are they broke and always angry, they lack confidence and suffer from low self esteem.. Who needs all that stress biko? I'd rather laugh in a Mercedes than on a tricycle.. Goodluck to women loving broke men.. The lord is your strenght... Like a bv once said "money gives me multiple orgasms" thinking about it alone makes me orgasmic.. Lol
DeleteLooool ooo you are crazy! Broke ass nigga is like a disease, a virus to pussy.
Deletemy dear na tru you talk oh
DeleteBefore.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahahahahaha...
DeleteBet all dem lazy, gold digging bitches on this blog who have nothing to offer in a relationship except a pretty face and tohtoh will feast on this one
Hmmm abeg o what if after marrying a rich man,he suddenly starts getting broke?
DeleteWhy would he get broke,at least you enjoy the money and you should be wise enough to save and invest be for he gets broke.
DeleteMy dear there is absolutely no reason to be with a broke man from any reason at all.
Don't be full of negativity he cannot go broke.
Go broke? That one na curse?
DeleteIf you see a man that can grow money, pls marry him and forget about rich guys
ReplyDeleteThe rich guys also grew their money they are only a step ahead those trying to grow it.
DeleteNope, not all rich guys grew their money. Talking abt inheritance for example. If he squanders money and he does not have POTENTIAL, his story will always be that he used to be rich. A better tomorrow is BETTER than a better yesteray
DeleteI prefer to struggle with a guy that is brainy and can grow money, we will never be hungry but a spoilt brat living off papas money is a no go area.
Okay oh I hear.
DeleteThat's true Ukwu....
DeleteShey na love go put food for table for me abi love go buy flight ticket to Abuja
ReplyDeleteGive me a broke man with vision and intelligence any day.
ReplyDeleteDrops mic....
Stella,hungry go wire you oh.
DeleteOde, vision and intelligence dnt put food on the table, but actually pursuing the dreams makes a man rich... Der r plenty men with vision n intelligence playing PS4 while their woman take care of the homes dnt forget
DeleteMy dear even the broke men would break your heart.
DeleteOne thing I notice is the stupid men who are broke would still be cheating on their woman.
I over heard my vulcanizer telling someone how his babe carried knife and said she was gonna stab her self to death if he doesn't call back the girl that just called. And how he managed the situation.
Am like wtf, so my dear it is not worth the stress, they still cheat and even won't marry you better fllow a man for money enjoy your self even if he cheat than a broke man who would act jus same as the other.
You be correct mumu.
DeleteU get sense...
Delete*many ppl don't know d difference btw 'broke (temporary) n poor(permanent/longlasting)
*some ladies carry badluck..even if they marry dangote or otedola his biz/finance will go down
*some ladies just shout 'i can't date a broke guy' but cnt attract a rich/comfortable guy cos dey have NOTHING to offer but totoh
For your mind abi? Lmao
DeleteWhat about a vision that is taking years to get activated.
DeleteThe thing you guys don't know is that some men no carry money come this life their head bad.
No matter how hard they try and how intellegent they are.Some would finish BSc no job, Go for MSc no job, even go for PhD,yet no job.
They are wise,intellegent,smart everything but things can't just get right with them.
So you would hook up your self with such a person and keep hoping it would get better,my sister it never gets better is still same shit year in and year out.
It is who they were born to become and you can't play with destiny or say God is being Partial that is how it is not everyone is meant to be rich in this life.
Some guys begin very little and end up being rich later but some are poor they live and die being poor.
So why take the risk.
So is better you follow who carry better head come life some one that things work out for so easily withiut stress coz take it ot leave it some people arw highly favoured than others same apply to ladies help your destiny don't go and follow a man that you keep you tuning from pastor to pastor for prayers and fasting for financial upliftment.
Hmmmm na money ritual them go used u do later...... even if u have all the millions dat one no mean say u are rich.....work on urself, no depend on man money, make ur own money
DeleteMake ur own money and stop depending on man
DeleteAbeg!! Sometimes,dreams and visions never come to reality.So my dear,it's better to see that the dreams have started manifesting,theen I'll willingly join you to make it full blown.
DeleteAnd who tell you say being with a rich man is depending on him? So you mean now if I have my own money It now means I should follow a poor man.
DeleteWhat we are saying is stress,you make things easy for your self my dear.
@some men no carry money come this life...kwakwakwakwakwakwa😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteWho vision epp? Abeg jare
DeleteBroke men are usually the ones that bitch about women being too materialistic and about wanting financially independent women. A successful man does not care about such. All he wants is a good woman with nice puddy. Now, if you're part of those men that whine about women always asking for too much and being lazy , Mr man, poverty is your calling.
ReplyDeleteYou re right!
DeleteChoi! That means James is broke.
Delete@that means james is broke..Are you just knowing?😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteTrue, my husband is a broke idiot! Everytime we fight he calls me a 'liability' and gold digger. This fool since I married him has never even done anything for me.... I bought the car I drive, I pay my phone bills and all the bills concerning myself, my monthly up keeps as a woman I take of them, I can't even remember the last time he gave me small change to hold. I cannot proudly mention one thing that this man has done for me.
DeleteMy sisters, if you can avoid a broke man by all costs, do urself that Favour
I beg to differ. Nigerian women go marry cripple + broke sef so dey can call others gwegz
ReplyDeleteChoi!
DeleteThe Observer, idi mouthed.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Lmao! Those are the low esteemed ones.
DeleteIt is true o, see their mouths "I cannot marry a broke man". So who is marrying all dem broke niggas in Nigeria+these (women) pick up the bills for them
DeleteIt is true o, see their mouths "I cannot marry a broke man". So who is marrying all dem broke niggas in Nigeria+these (women) pick up the bills for them
DeleteThis is so true.
ReplyDeletewho wants to suffer in her fathers house and then end up suffering in her husbands house? No one wants a liability abeg.
Onye bia la uwa ita afufu.
Thank u
DeleteWord!!
DeleteYes oo....very true
ReplyDeleteWho wan suffer?
No time for "Surulere" husband mbok
Na "Olorunsogo" husband person want
@Galore
You are just a stupid and dirty calabar girl that is always claiming to know dis and that, when in fact, you are as dumb as they come.
DeleteHmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteWho broke ass help?
ReplyDeleteLolz
DeleteWheel Barrow pusher fit marry tomatoes seller.
ReplyDeleteHahahaha
DeletePicks mic....
ReplyDeleteI would not mind a private jet owner with baffling luxuries at my beck and call.
Hahahaha!
Who wan suffer?
Lmao. Pick one jor!
DeleteNo body.
DeleteMumu.. Bcos you know bvs will cuss you out, you have changed your comment. Lol
DeleteAsemota na now you talk well. But you haff maLly nau. I'm sure your hubby di loaded.
DeleteHahaha now u come! Crayy girl
DeletePick a struggle hun.
DeleteYea no broke ass but comfortable, I can make u rich wen we re married
ReplyDeleteHow on this earth wil I fall in love with a broke ass?Not again.Gone are those days in uni where I spend my allowance on boyfriend.I can't marry a guy who is not financially stable because I love good things.I can't imagine me depriving myself of luxuries because I have a family to cater for.
ReplyDeleteI married my university boyfriend. Then I was the one that used to give him money ( I did it for God then love enter equation)
DeleteWe got married after he got a job,He was given a contract job and WE (Yes ke, I have to reap where I have sowed) got 15million naira which was deposited in my act. The rest is history, I mapped out how the money was to be spent.
NB: everybody's story cannot be the same. I.e you might "invest" in a guy but he might not show appreciation when he makes it
How will I even date you for 2months without catering for my needs.I break up with such guys.Yes I'm materialistic.
ReplyDeleteA man who cannot provide and isn't ready to provide isn't worthy to be addressed by that term. He is not worthy to be called a man not to talk of wanting to have a woman. The duties of a man over a woman are to profess his love in all ways possible, protect her from danger of any sort and PROVIDE for her needs (sexual, financial, emotional, etc). That is what being a man to a woman is all about. Now, men might be able to achieve these at different levels because not all fingers are equal but the core truth remains the same - do them to the best of your ability. There is dignity in labour. There is dignity in hard work. There is dignity in being able to provide and that's why men who earn little nd still provide as much as they can for their family deserve more respect than rich tight-fisted 'men'. Sooooo no woman wants a man who is broke and not ready to break the yoke. Selah!
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ReplyDeleteIjebu you must pay me tithe for using my name. Wink*
DeleteWhat about a vision that is taking years to get activated.
DeleteThe thing you guys don't know is that some men no carry money come this life their head bad.
No matter how hard they try and how intellegent they are.Some would finish BSc no job, Go for MSc no job, even go for PhD,yet no job.
They are wise,intellegent,smart everything but things can't just get right with them.
So you would hook up your self with such a person and keep hoping it would get better,my sister it never gets better is still same shit year in and year out.
It is who they were born to become and you can't play with destiny or say God is being Partial that is how it is not everyone is meant to be rich in this life.
Some guys begin very little and end up being rich later but some are poor they live and die being poor.
So why take the risk.
So is better you follow who carry better head come life some one that things work out for so easily withiut stress coz take it ot leave it some people arw highly favoured than others same apply to ladies help your destiny don't go and follow a man that you keep you tuning from pastor to pastor for prayers and fasting for financial upliftment.
Shantelle's Empire
DeleteHahhhahahhah.tithe untop name wey I christened myself*hahahahahhah*you go sabi 419..*open mouth*
Hmmm...am 35 and still single and I must tell myself the truth about this waiting thing...maybe am just unlucky,but recently,most of the guys I come across are broke ass...broke and very unambitious.. And I began to think that maybe am too selective but I realised that I just can't come down to their level of thinking.how can a guy earn just 50k and he's not ready to embrace other ideas of making money..
ReplyDeleteI don't even know how to communicate it but no way to broke ass..cos its only a matter of time that they start feeling insecure..
Ladies, if you are over 30 and you still walking around talking about niggas ain't shit, you can fuck with broke ass niggas,la la la, you need to get a handle on your motherfucking life and take responsibility bitch. What you means is that all the niggas that you fuck with ain't shits, you need to figure out what it is about your pussy that keep attracting broke ass and ain't shit niggas!
DeleteBe A Boss,Date A Boss,'BUILD AN EMPIRE'' Gone are those days I stick to broke ass dude,pay their bills and even enslave myself to be loved and not even that sacrifice could make them stay faithful or real. So tell me Why would I want to marry a broke ass nigga who isn't gonna compliment my hardworking self? As much as I don't wanna marry just for money sake*that also !is very important to me..a real man compliment a lady,money wise too..so if you're broke,bros abeg find ya square root and thats a lazy girl too..Experience made me and I'm glad I learnt very fast...Kapiish
ReplyDeleteI think I like you blunt,oya drop your no and no I'm not broke
DeleteYou sound too defensive*hhahhahha*hope you aint broke,like seiously
DeleteYou were cooking pepper soup with my money to feed your ugly dirty boyfriend. Haba. I'm cutting your allowance shapshap
DeleteIsn't crazy that we keep going back and forth about this money or no money love?
ReplyDeleteWill a mentally sane,facially okay girl with every curves in the right places see a broke ass nigga and say yes I want him? Is she mad?
I'm saying it for the 1001 times, I will never marry a broke ass.
Suffered toomuch can't suffer in marriage again
If you're a broke ass and you think am a gold digger, bye.
Lmao @ suffered too much,can't suffer in marriage again.
DeleteIyalaya every broke ass suitor. ''Gbemisoke,Gbemisola,Gbemi-sinu-wealth'' husband ti take over!
Hhahhahahhah*anonymous
DeleteNa my name be that ooo..*hhahah*
There is no truth in that assertion up there. The women who think this way are MATERIALISTIC. I married my husband "straight fresh from college". He is not from a rich family. He had no house or car or any investment; in fact, not even a job. Yes, it wasn't a roller coaster life but by five years into the marriage, we had the comfort we needed, good jobs, 2 beautiful kids etc. Now about a decade through; the Lord has made it beautiful in his time. And we live like new lovers; with every trust and peace. Today, he could buy a $2000 worth of jewelry for me even when I am protesting that it is too costly. He could give me a brand new car worth $30,000 and so on. These are not the attraction now. The attraction is that I have a man I can call "my husband"; one that I can trust with every bit of my heart; no stories and no baggage.
ReplyDeleteLadies, in as much as God can give you a "made" man, if you walk selfishly into a "made" man's life, you are nothing but another piece of property in his house and you'd write chronicles when he treats you as such.
I choose to look at this post from the perspective of ambition. A man who is ambitious is ok... he'll get to his goal someday but a man who isn't ambitious is a no-no. He is a no-go area. If your husband didn't have an ambition and the zeal to work towards it, I doubt if you'd be where you are now. So ambition na koko.
DeleteGive me a second chance and I will have a made made. Married this broke ass and thirteen years after am still suffering for the choice I made out of love.
DeleteGive me a second chance and I will have a made made. Married this broke ass and thirteen years after am still suffering for the choice I made out of love.
DeleteI love you. Wisdom is profitable biko
DeleteMy story is similar to yours, he was through with school no job, me sef finish school still no job, we then got married without job. 8 years n 2 kids later we are not yet there, but where very far away from where we started from
DeleteMaam, things have changed, no good Men like ur husband that appreciate the suffering n management you went thru anymore. Girls r now like this cos of the terrible things Men have done to them. A decade ago is a long time a go and a lot has changed. Ur hubby had vision n worked till he got it. A lot of No future Ambition guys out there now. I see what my friends go thru in the name of relationship and i jst thnk God for my own
DeleteGood for you woman, you are lucky. Only one in a million
DeleteI don't think I can marry a guy dat hasn't been to London or America before...because I based in europe.?
ReplyDeleteWhat is this one saying?...So, London or America validates a man????
DeleteI taya oh. Off point. Mtcheeeww
DeleteI Ann too responsible to walk into poverty with my eyes open.
ReplyDeleteSee ur mumu sef now,if na person type did u go come die under d comment even Wen it's obviously a typo... Madam know-it-all.AFI 'Ann' OSHISCO!
DeleteI honestly can't date a broke/ jobless guy,the love won't flow, never.
ReplyDeleteI forgot to add handsome to with sexy accent
ReplyDeleteOf course, but the love for money. Is making our ladies to do the unthinkable,marrying their great grand fathers...
ReplyDeleteAncestors seffff
DeletePoor men should forget about women and Toto and go and make money first.
ReplyDeleteThe fool has made sense for once
DeleteWhen Annie and the other ladies tummies were getting bloated up by Tu baba, what was he worth? Why did he marry Annie? It was when I saw that picture a few days ago on this blog that I believed all Tubaba said before that wedding that Annie was with him from the scratch.
ReplyDeleteA man will always respect the lady that was with him when he had nothing.
Lies
DeleteTales broke people tell
Don't you read chronicles here of how these men pummel their wives that have been holding it down with them right from when they had nothing?
Abeggi let's see front.
A man that wants to respect you would do so whether you were with him when he had nothing or not.
Dey there dey console yourself.
DeleteSee talk!(tu face and annie relationship was on&off).
DeletePero was also with him when he had nothing,infact pero helped his career money wise.
2baba married annie cos she's a dumbo that will always chop his shit! NOT because she was with him when he was poor! Except you are telling me he married her out of pity.
Not in all cases lately. You stick with some broke ass guys and when it seems they are beginning to get up and you are still struggling they opt out mostly for ready-made ladies. Men are lazy these days
DeleteYes oo...He married her out of PITY
Delete@Galore
Tuface career would have long ended, if he had married Pero. Annie was and has been able to manage him very well
DeleteThere is nothing worse than being in Love with a broke man who knows how to fuck..
ReplyDeleteYou won't even want to leave..
Hahahahahaha
DeleteIt's true oh.
Abeggi, who fuck epp?
DeleteSo you dey open toto for poor man?
DeleteLmao! I know right...
DeleteLmao you know this?
DeletePreach it sister! Although some mumu girls will always remain mumus,like the one that went to pay her bride price by herself. I remember my fiance telling me that after 1year of relationship no single gift from me to him,I laughed out loud.Yet he won't let me breathe.Men! One time we went out shopping and the things we bought was 20k above the amount he had,he asked me to lend him the money,and he"l pay back, i did. At first i was patient the whole day waiting for him to pay me back,he didnt say nothing,my temperature was already getting high,i started developing headache and i knew it was cus of that money,yes im abnormal like that o,when it comes to money and men,i no dey play.i do business and leave hundreds of thousands outside for weeks without flinching but a man im dating? Lai lai.anyway, the next day,i said,wsup love i need my 20k, he was like huh? Are u kidding me? I was like which one is am i kidding u? He said,but majority of the things we bought were for u, i was like yea so what? I would have gladly returned the perf and wristwatch if i knew u couldnt afford it, he just kept staring at me in unbelief,then he was like was that why u were quiet yesterday night? I was like yea.after a while he burst out and laughing and gave me my money.I even took it back with interest sef. The thing is, he knows when the chips are down, there's absolutely nufn I won't do for him,he sees me gladly giving my money to the less privileged,i even give to people who arent less priviledged,but a man I'm dating can't smell my money.impossicant,highest, highest, I'll carry him to eatery and buy him rice or sharwarma or buy him boxers when I think he's extremely nice.women,know ur place,ure not a help meet until u get married.when I finally get married,I'll be nice,until then a man should know he"s a man and act as such.And as for dating a broke man, a Man is only as broke as his mind.as long as I believe in his dream and can key into his vision,I'll date him,just don't ask me for money please.And yes I expect you to share the little you have with me,I'm just a teeny weeny fragile woman.
ReplyDeleteCorrect!
DeleteLwkmd!
DeleteI was stiffling my laughter, till I got to the last sentence.
'I'm just a teeny weeny fragile woman.'
BVNs, una no go kee pesin with laughter for this blog o.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Correct babe!same thing I told my guy,if u want us to start splitting bills equally, just get ready,cus nah so I will love u half,fuck u half,respect u half,cook for u half,he just started laughing and quickly made my monthly transfer to my account.the only gift I have given him within our 2yrs affair is a creed Aventus not cause I am greedy but I don't want to overdo things,it's best left in moderation he for one doesn't like me spending my money, u see him grumbling that I should be prudent and stop spending my money rather to tell him, but on the contrary he has bought me up to 4bottles of millicime imperial ,royal oud etc.I don't hv strength for had I known.
DeleteHmm,loud it gurl!!I used to be very giving in a relationship.Would even use my money to cook and invite you to eat.Buy gifts during birthdays and val and festive periods...but no more hunnay!! Now,I don't spend my money on a man,but brother,I expect you to spend yours on me.Yes,I'm selfish like that!! Especially in a new relationship,if I've not dated you for three months,you won't smell my money!!
DeleteKai! Godchic, don't I just luv ya.
DeleteTrue.
ReplyDeleteSee, ita not always about the money sef but what fo you do with the one you have?
If a guy seals deals and refuses to invest but only spends, no responsible woman will want to marry such.
A man or woman has to be enterprising else even if he has money today, it will finish.
Thats why women look for potential cos you can already see a person thats gonna go places from the way he carries himself and lives his life.
My dear I have my own personal money not like a super rich like rich rich personally but at least to take care of my personal stuff even aside my parents being there for me.
DeleteBut at least I should get stuffs from my man it makes the relationship sexy and keep the spark flowing.
Is not about the money but the gesture knowing that he cares and he is romantic and likewise me I can get him stuffs.
Examples, my last birthday he got me a Samsung 6edge packaged with roses, it doesn't mean I can't afford the Phone or that my dad can't get it for me if I tell him to but the fact that I got it from my bf makes it like one he'll of big deal for me.so I love getting gifts from my man oh, eg,baby am broke, he would be like really? madam like you? am like yes oh been spending so much on fuel these days.
And he ll be like okay now no problem would send you something.
And at night there is an alert.
That is who I call a man.
Not the one that I would look for one lie to tell and he would even investigate and later ask me how much do you have.
I be like I have 100k,i need 100k and then it would take him for ever to even come up with half of it.
I don't need stress in my life the more reason I advise all women to get something on with them selfs, coz only classy girls get the best men.
The more you act poor and tell a man all your problems the more he looks down on you.
Even if you are poor and jobless, package your self very well before men.
Tell them lies and that you need money for your accommodation of 2m 1.5 or contract or one thing.
The higher your package the higher your money and respect.
Take it or leave it.
My dear I have my own personal money not like a super rich like rich rich personally but at least to take care of my personal stuff even aside my parents being there for me.
DeleteBut at least I should get stuffs from my man it makes the relationship sexy and keep the spark flowing.
Is not about the money but the gesture knowing that he cares and he is romantic and likewise me I can get him stuffs.
Examples, my last birthday he got me a Samsung 6edge packaged with roses, it doesn't mean I can't afford the Phone or that my dad can't get it for me if I tell him to but the fact that I got it from my bf makes it like one he'll of big deal for me.so I love getting gifts from my man oh, eg,baby am broke, he would be like really? madam like you? am like yes oh been spending so much on fuel these days.
And he ll be like okay now no problem would send you something.
And at night there is an alert.
That is who I call a man.
Not the one that I would look for one lie to tell and he would even investigate and later ask me how much do you have.
I be like I have 100k,i need 100k and then it would take him for ever to even come up with half of it.
I don't need stress in my life the more reason I advise all women to get something on with them selfs, coz only classy girls get the best men.
The more you act poor and tell a man all your problems the more he looks down on you.
Even if you are poor and jobless, package your self very well before men.
Tell them lies and that you need money for your accommodation of 2m 1.5 or contract or one thing.
The higher your package the higher your money and respect.
Take it or leave it.
Rolex the babe! Nice one!
DeleteMadam Rolex chick, after packaging yourself and telling lies just to have class, when he finally marries u and finds out that u'r actually a broke ass, how do u think he would treat u? A broken relationship is way better than a broken marriage. Let him love u for who u are to avoid stories dat touch later in life. Ladies pls be wise.
DeleteFuck shit!! You this fake broke ass lying bitch! You know you lying
Delete....then marry yaself nah...#sipsMoetnChandon#
ReplyDeleteThis guy fit drown inside MoetnChandon. Mtcheeew btw where haff you been?
DeleteYes, wouldn't mind marry one.
ReplyDeleteI have all the money I need in the world.
What is missing in life right now is romance.
It can be lonely up in here.
Say what?????
DeleteMay true love find you ma'am.
DeleteYou have all the money in the world excerpt romance or love. Hummm. I will send olori to you tomorrow morning. please #500.00 for the first one hour and #100 for every other 30 mins
DeleteNo woman wants to suffer nah. marrying a broke ass man is high way to the grave,because broke men are always violent in nature.
ReplyDeleteNa true
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ReplyDeleteLove is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is NOT SELF SEEKING, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8
Is this what the above writer meant; that those "materialistic ladies" fall into? Don't you see that they are merely SELF SEEKING: that's not LOVE please, it is lust for money. What happens after marriage and the man loses his job or investments. Won't those ladies simply take a walk?
If he loses his job or investment, no problem.
DeleteThey'd make do with his savings and her contribution, pending when he'll get a new one.
Abi he'll sit down all day at home, shaking his head like Christopher Columbus, and waiting for another job?
Nahh! He'd go out there, and he'll surely get something.
Some guys, when they lose their jobs, and wifey is working, na to come siddon for front of TV daily, dey drink beer, dey flip through newspaper for Ads. That one no follow at all.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Please don't interpret the bible only where it suits you. Adam was made to till d ground while Eve was made to suffer during childbirth. Everyone has a role to play. When Rebecca went to meet Issac, he was ready for her. She wasn't going to be leaving outside he had a roof over his head n could take care of her. No one is asking d men to be super rich, but at least be able to take care of one more person. No matter how much i earn my hubby knows he must buy my toiletries n pay for my hair, etc. N take up all the other responsibilities in d house. My money is for landed properties n my mum(sometimes his too). Of course i support him but he should not take it for granted. Please encourage our men to be hard working cos even the virtuous woman in d bible was a wife taking care of the homefront, knitting n getting her own income. Don't tell women about love biko. Our role is not to love but to be submissive n take care of the home front. That's y we have to get married to men who know their roles so we can also excel doing ours.
DeletePhewww
#dropsmic#
for me money aint the yardstick for marraige sha, so long as he is educated, with great wisdom, super sense of humour, has a vision and God fearing? GBAM he is my ideal man. becoz i have huge bulgy eyes like that of an eagle that can see afer and posibly into his future sef lmao so with just one glance i can tell if he is the one or not. so yes i aint a money monger but i wont settle for less.
ReplyDeleteAnd you still single. Fool
DeleteWell, of course!
ReplyDeleteThere's no how I'll work my ass off to be a self sufficient woman and then go be with a man whom I'd be feeding, or taking care of.
It's even worse when the man is a dreamer, like most guys these days are.
They all want to be like Dangote and Otedola in their heads and fantasies, but can't take a job that pays less than #50 for starters, or look for something doing, no matter how small.
They'll just sit down everyday, waiting for that million Naira contract, to fall into their hands.
Story!
All those in-your-head mentors started small. Even if they came from money, that grandfather of theirs started small and even rich people still work hard to keep being rich.
You can't be without ambition and be hoping to get you an all rounder as a wife, or a lady who has something doing, and expect her to pay your bills, for you to verbally run her down in future.
Hell to the N to the O.
Gone are the days it worked that way.
Get off your ass bro, and go make a living.
Any man who is living off a woman, or is dreaming of getting married to a woman who would take care of his needs, needs serious reorientation.
#WhiteDiamondOut
You know what? I always crave for ur comments even though its always long like Psalm 119...your one amongst the few here that talks sense...
DeleteLwkmd @ long like Psalm 119.
DeletePele o, na so me too take see am...kikikikiki!
Thanks, dear.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Lmao @ Psalm 119
Delete"A man working is not really that much important as a man who would never stay down when he falls." You get plenty sense....
ReplyDeleteBiko, what do I want to do with a broke man???? Hian! I need need a rich man, not just money but in every aspect!
ReplyDelete👍👍👍👍👍👍
ReplyDeleteMy mum would always tell me "don't marry a man for his money but marry a man that can take very good care of you"!
ReplyDeleteI can only marry a man that can take care of me financially and emotionally!
I wonder why broke ass guys always chase after beautiful girls and expect them to remain beautiful without contributing a dime to their maintenance!
Your mom is so wise, best comment. Because some rich guys are stingy.
DeleteI used to work in a finance firm. Once a lady client of mine who came back from the states to settle in Nigeria was in my office for "investment talks". She was sitting before me when a "friend" of mine came into my office, sat on the sofa and began to peruse an investment magazine. I noted the surprise on both faces as they greeted. The next time the lady came (she actually came earlier than scheduled) to sign her documents, the first question she asked me was; who was that man the last time? I told her he was the co-founder of the firm. She instantly broke down and wept like a baby. She told me that she had met the man at a gas station the first week she came into the country and had refused to give him any chance to date her. Her reason frankly was "his kind of car"; Toyota camry (the lady drives a lexus suv). Really, my boss had just one "superior car" but preferred to ride that particular car.
ReplyDeleteThis lady was in her mid thirties and single then; from the documents she submitted. I knew at least part of my boss' worth (more than a hundred times this lady's investment which was huge) but he lived very much lower than his means. It was what I learnt from him that made me quit my position in his firm to start my own business and I'm not doing badly at all.
Hmmmmm, Okpolo eye no be open eye
DeleteMoney is good in marriage and all other things of life, but monetization of relationships and marriage is what courses dissatisfaction, infidelity and in some case divorce.
ReplyDeleteMost women tends to equate care, concern, Godliness, success and fear of God with money and properties.
That's how ladies keeps selecting until they will now decide to date Married men or remain single ever(rich career and business women) cos they can't keep a Godly relationship.
Marriage is not about money only. It's only on the internet that these gals tends to form high class, but in reality they pray and cry for a God fearing Mr Right who they can build a successful and happy marriage together.
No man likes to bring a wife and children to come and join in his suffering, but many women have forgotten that the essence of getting married is build a prosperous partnership and make heaven at last.
Oga Oscar your head dey there. I read comments and I laugh. Most of these women talking are single and will probably remain so with this mindset. Don't worry, we men can smell lazy and opportunistic women from a mile away. Any woman who hasn't been with me in the time of little will NEVER dine with me when I have plenty.
DeleteStellalinda, my dear brothers and sisters in the lord.....Calvary greetings to you all.
ReplyDeleteYou see in the word of God...we are asked to seek the kingdom of God first, that is we should not focus on exclusively on money, earthly possessions and vanities. Therefore, marrying a broke-ass brother should not be a migraine inducing issue............Runs under the bed, this lightening is after my phone.
Can't someone joke again.
Anyways, the dreaded term "broke" is relative. Broke brother can be a quiet unassuming, ambitious, visionary low-key accomplishing brother who out of choice decides to temporarily avoid the looks of luxury. Still called broke coz no car, duplex, serious job(oil company things), no expensive suits. Some time and ticked bucket list unveils this type.
Broke-ass brother can also be one with nothing but a brain of ideas needing an opportunity to blow.
Another type of broke-ass will be the chronicles inspiring type. Who could be swagful or swagless, have nothing to give but situationship, sorry relationship....not necessarily love.
The issue would be how broke is the broke-ass, scenerio A is the one we call prospect, scenerio B...is the We are waiting on the lord type, sometimes, a wonderful girl brings favour and doors just open for this type. The last set is the one we shout God-forbid to, they are the most populated and a lot of them are in relationships....
Broke get levels, remove the veil of superficiality and pick the right type to build together. Economy is hard, everyone cannot have a rich man, but do not take a destined broke-ass to your mama.
I married a church rat and I regret it every single day.
ReplyDeleteI'm always in the sun because we don't have a car.
Eating rice every day, some days without meat.
He's always borrowing money from family and friends and despite this, the short devil is still arrogant.
Shey you see?
DeleteHahahahaha.
DeleteAnd you were asking me if my mama didnt teach me manners the other day?
Atleast she taught me not to settle for a man that will be making me 'chop' rice everyday and without meat sometimes.
ShanzEmpire
My dear Froggie...leave him, divorce him. So, he can carry his load by himself. And you can start afresh plzzzzz
Delete@ froggie you opened your two eyes and walked into bondage, very sad.
DeleteDon't lose hope cos for every bondage there's freedom.
Thanks for being transparent
DeleteEverybody wants rich and comfortable, have you asked yourself if he goes bankrupt, will you still be there. A man that is hardworking, has the potentials he is working on, have faith and prudent in his doing is idle for me. If you are rich good, if you are not rich and you have the listed potentials good. But am not all about material things cus they are temporary. No matter how smart you invest, just one turn in life can change everything. Instead of looking for the riches, look for the man that compliments you and you will build together. A lot of women have been turn to money rituals because of misplaced priority. Brokeass is in the mind, seed grows.
ReplyDeleteBrokeass is in the mind, seed grows. I like that Anon 14:24
DeleteNo lady would definitely wanna have anything doing wit a broke ass man of course,especially dis our era. Its even a sin for a man not to provide for her family,d bible said dat he is worse Dan an infidel... Its just so unfortunate dat they r now d ones not wanting to be useful wit their lives these days. Even a jobless man will still b looking out for a lady dats working to settle down wit...mtcheww...
ReplyDeleteEverybody be writin epistle. Who is a broke ass? That's what am figuring out. Is it the guy with no money and no means of earning or the one trying al his best to attain success but, for one reason or the other doesn't reach it? Omewere ma chi ekwegi onye uta atakwana ya. Many be castin and binding, rejecting and forbiding, but in real life they are havng real broke ass guys and are wiling to do anything just so they be addressed as wify. When you fall in love, you'l ignore broke/loaded ass and focus on building with the one you love. Shalom
ReplyDeleteAll these girls wey poverty don panel beat their brain, wey their papa no get bicycle talk less of a car, go dey yarn dust.
ReplyDeleteWhat stops you from having your own money?
why looking for a rich guy?
Does that mean the guy is better than you?
His own head and destiny is better than yours?
Where you put your head/destiny wen pple dey select riches?
Your own na to dey yarn dust on SDK, do runs, buy cloth, shoe, bag and phone
The guys only said they will marry someone who is working. As for you, na rich man you wan marry? see the correlation. It means you shouldnt even approach a rich guy if you are not rich too. Thieves, Gold diggers, Ole, Onyeara, Barau in girls clothing
Y'all should jump inside the river
All these girls wey poverty don panel beat their brain, wey their papa no get bicycle talk less of a car, go dey yarn dust.
ReplyDeleteWhat stops you from having your own money?
why looking for a rich guy?
Does that mean the guy is better than you?
His own head and destiny is better than yours?
did you choose the destiny of a pauper and pepper seller?
Where you put your head/destiny wen pple dey select riches?
Your own na to dey yarn dust on SDK, do runs, buy cloth, shoe, bag and phone
The guys only said they will marry someone who is working. As for you, na rich man you wan marry? see the correlation. It means you shouldnt even approach a rich guy if you are not rich too. Thieves, Gold diggers, Ole, Onyeara, Barau in girls clothing
Y'all should jump inside the river
Kwakwakwakwa...
DeleteSee painment oh!...hit your head on the wall!...
My own case is different, Stella.
ReplyDeleteI am waiting until I have good money, then I'll buy a husband.
I am 41 this year, not married.
Nigerian men love money. Of course, I'll buy a husband.
Judging my true age; 41 - 1975 born.
It's not easy.
did u forget to go anon?
DeleteThe thing is a man should be able to take care of his family. The wife however has to do something to support sometimes . won't it be frustrating if without you your wife can't even buy her underwear, make her hair, buy small things for the kids and wait.... You guys are married for like 30 years? Menh see waste of money.
ReplyDeleteword!...money with brains+matured mind abeg
ReplyDeleteWomen!! will you die if you build your empire with your hubby (the supposed broke ass man)? Whenever I see post like this, and read comments I just start laughing because women are yet to understand who really they are and the purpose to which they where created. You think you were created to come and open your pussy and get fucked 24/7 and be sprayed cash for opening it so super wide.
ReplyDeleteYou were created as "HELP MATE". You are meant to stand in gap and intercede on your man's behalf and not envying "Mummy Jason" for the new Range rover sport her hubby bought for her or the next country she is going to for vacation.
No wonder so many of you are 35/40 and no man in your life because you allow your fantasies overwhelm you. Only queens knows the worth of building her kingdom with her king. That is why men will never respect women - they treat women like trash bec they know money is what women are all after. No wonder a man who is wealthy today will only think of how to take vengeance on women. You see them asking three women to have sex with them at the same time and even slap money on their bum bum... is just a pity.
You guys should keep waiting for E-Money okay? You will grow old waiting. when una mate they go Omugwo, una go they go mountain. Keep listening to Stella who has made name and way for herself. I am proud of Stella because she is an example of virtuous woman... of which I'm sure her hubby is proud of her. But Stella go dey say broke ass this and that; una mumu too go join her dey talk meanwhile she is an independent woman that supports her family.
You guys had better have a re-think about this life because the worst thing a woman can do is to look down on a man. Anything can happen in a split second. So many wealthy men today were once broke ass.
Best comment so far.. Thumbs up mother nature..
DeleteI really had to try hard to convince myself that I wasn't the one that wrote this.
DeleteMother Nature, indeed you're Mother Nature. God bless you
Mother Nature, dont mind de fools ranting abt broke ass dis n dat. I use to squad frm my 300 level that was d 1st time I heard that word broke ass. I lost my parents@de time, so life was hard de gal frnd of my frnd I was squating did to me a whole lot of unthinkable things. I kept faith and kept reading my books because to me that was all that mattered, my frnd tried so hard to stop her from treating me like trash n calling me broke ass but hell no. She was frm a rich fam & always bringing food n oda goodies for de Bobo Today they got married n de guy is still unemployed. I even paid for delivery frm hospital after putting to bed. They are terribly broke the monies frm family dis appeared suddenly n everything is dry n I pity dem I even give them feeding money atimes. So who is a broke ass now? Tho m not exactly where I want to but m way better. Broke ass or not it takes only a second for a mans life to change
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ReplyDeleteCorrect
ReplyDeletefor me, i want a man with vision and not a man with television but if you hv both vision and television, I don't mind.
ReplyDeleteMy husband to be said he found a house, and de amount is 650k. That he will bring 400k and I should contribute 250k. When I never de marriage oh. I just tire, na by force to marry
ReplyDeleteFor God's sake, what is wrong with you bringing 250k? If you like listen to the rubbish these women spew here and don't garner sense for yourself.
DeleteIsn't it a house for both of you?
Why shouldn't you contribute?
Mscheww
Stingy woman contribute
ReplyDeleteThrz absolutely no need for all this. Any kinda man u like, marry him. Personally, I hv dated rich and broke and I am presently single. I walked out of the situations each time. I'd like to believe I just havent met d right guy yet. If u say u only want to date a man with big dreams and a flat wallet, thats ur cup of zobo.
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