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SOS - 6 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER WITH HAIR ON HER PRIVATES!!!
Hello Stella! i appreciate the good work you are doing, God bless you. pls hide my E-mail. My 6 n 1/2 yr old daughter is already having pubic hairs on her vagina!
Note: the hair is very dark and thick but not all over the area!
Please i am very worried about this, each time i want to bathe her, i feel very sad seeing it, but the little angel doesn't know cos the hair is around her vulva.
I`m planning to visit a gyno, to know if it`s hormonal imbalance and when to trim it but my mum told me not to worry about it, cos mine started when i was seven, honestly i don`t know if this is normal.
She takes very healthy meals too.
Please i desperately need advice cos she`s my only daughter and first experience. Thanks and God bless!
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PREGNANT AGAIN AFTER CS BIRTH
Hello mothers in the house. Please i need your advice. ....
I just found out that i am a few weeks pregnant meanwhile i have an 11 month old child whom i had through CS.
The doctor advised i shouldn't get pregnant till after 2 years to enable my uterus' complete healing. Please i don't know what to do and i haven't told my hubby yet. Is it safe to keep the pregnancy?
Shoulda used a Rubber, Horny thang!
ReplyDeleteI feel so sad..went for ultrasound and found out am having a boy.i already have 2 boys and I prayed earnestly for a girl.God knows best sha
DeleteNothing to worry about. Some children develop very fast. In primary 4 a girl in my class had hair in her armpit.
DeleteA doctor friend told me about a girl that the parents brought to her clinic that started menstruating at 7yrs.
Some people start menopause at age 30.
Madam don't worry, there's nothing wrong with her.
End time tohto hair
DeleteIf your mom says urs started at 7 and doesn't seem worried about it, it's probably genetic and you need to trust her.
DeletePregnant mum,dnt wori try c ur doc but I can assure der won't b probs.i had cs too nd took in after 12 months, all tnks to God am well nd sound wit my kids. All the same talk to God in prayers
DeleteMy baby has pubic hair. Very tiny tho. I don't worry about it cos she's healthy
DeletePoster 2: It is safe, please keep the baby and get some one to assist you with house chores. I discovered I was pregnant to when my first child was eleven months meanwhile I had a stillbirth at 32weeks and took in barely 5weeks after, gave birth to my baby through CS and took in again when the baby was ten months. My pregnancies are always high risk self.Yes I knew about contraceptive but I couldn't use any then. My life is a miracle. Please don't harm that child.
DeleteWe all go through this stages differently,some very early while others otherwise,its notin to panic over,my son is barely seven years old and i noticed he has started growing pubic hair and pimples on his face,i remember i started early in my days though not as early as my son so my dear all u should be doing is teach her to be clean and let her notify when she notices the blood flow and teach her on sex education as well..
DeleteMother with hair on the daughters tohtoh have no fear! Dats jus Nature trying to boost ur Angel, don't take her to any doc to avoid spending unnecessarily, take care of ur little one 😚
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi ( Stellz Cousin )
I started growing breasts in primary 3 n was supposed to b wearing bra in primary 6😳
DeleteIt is early puberty ..i read something similar on netmum.
ReplyDeletePoster 3 go back to your doctor and seek advice on what to do at this point, How are we meant to know? Haven't u heard the saying every woman is different? Please don't take decisions on your own.
DeletePoster 1, it's not to worry about. Ask Google
ReplyDeletePoster 2, my friend got pregnant again 5 months after she gave birth through CS, she gave birth again, nothing bad happened, u would be fine
Going against the advice of medical professional is not ideal
ReplyDeleteSee a doctor and discuss the outcome with your hubby...
Pregnant lady don't worry at all. I had a baby through CS and 5 months later I was preggers again. Meaning the 2 babies are 1 year 2 months apart. Both were born through CS and the children and I are very fine. For the 2nd I was so fit that I was discharged 30 hours after the CS
DeletePoster1,i think is hormonal in balance,that types that make a woman to grow bears
ReplyDeleteUr mother told you not to worry cos you started at 7so what are you doing here,una can disturb una self ehn mtchew
ReplyDeletePoster 1,
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing to worry about!...maybe your child is hairy or something...
Some children grow faster than others...I started seeing my menstruation when I was nine years old sef and in primary five...
Poster 2,
Your life is at risk here!...
You better abort!...
Hian abort kwa...
DeleteDear poster 2,
Same happened to me,mine was even 3months old,its risky but God will see you through.you will have to undergo another CS
Jeez!!!
DeletePoster 2: please don't mind this queen or wetin she calls herself. I had my first child through cs and 9months later,I took in for my second child and gave birth again through cs without any complications whatsoever. Please don't listen to this woman here o. Better keep your pregnancy. Don't u dare abort that innocent child.
Pls ignore Linda. I took in for my second baby 7 months after I delivered my first through CS. You will be fine. NA
DeleteJesus heals
ReplyDeleteI dey wait comments.
ReplyDeleteBut poster 1, I don't think it is something to worry abt. I started having pubic hair @ 9 and periods @10. So I really don't think it's something to worry about because development differ in persons.
I hope the second poster is not my colleague who gave birth in September through caesarean and is now five months prego.Nne if its u don't complain we love u like that
ReplyDeleteSecond poster.
ReplyDeleteYou will be fine.
Work closely with your Doctors and use a good hospital.
I hope you know you will be advised to go for elective CS? Don't go there and try to teach them their jobs.
Try not to binge on food at the later stage of your pregnancy to avoid having a very big baby,you wouldn't want anything that will over stretch your tommy.
In normal circumstances,the Uterus heals fast.
Please always tell a new doctor your medical history,this helps a lot.
Good luck and have a healthy pregnancy.
Ps: Tetrina....wetin dey happen?
We are waiting ooooohhhhhh. LOL
Hahahahah Iphie D, still waiting!Trying everything...xx
DeletePoster 1: I dunno ooo.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: my best friend took in after 6mths of CS birth, you need to see the 2 kids now..lolz like twins.
She just birth another one last month through CS.
Lemme perch here and learn biko.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, while its not the best of things to get pregnant soon after a CS birth, you shouldn't think of harming that child in anyway.
ReplyDeleteMy sis took in 7 months after her first birth which was a CS one and today she has 3 kids. She even went ahead to have a normal birth with the 2nd preggy, so chill.
Relax and enjoy your pregnancy and look forward to birthing that miracle inside of you. You'll be just fine in the end!
Since your mom said you started at seven then let her be, its probably hereditary. But you can still take her to a Gyno to be double sure.. Nothing to worry about cos most kids these days start maturing really very early. Hope you've started sex education with her though. Nothing too deep, just the basic and start teaching her to bath herself, esp to learn to wash her privates. You should supervise while she does it of course.
ReplyDeleteAll the best.
2... I wish you safe delivery and please tell your husband. You both are in this together. Getting pregnant so soon can be tiring, but I'm sure with ur husband's support you will be able to pull through..
All the best.
Chummychocho
Poster 1, may the good Lord take absolute control
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Ur mum has already giving you a heads up so no need to worry......
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Poster one please see a gyneacologist
ReplyDeleteposter 2.
you should have used protection if you want the baby.
Please keep the pregnancy, just go see your doctor for advice.
Don't be an ada Mumu, haven't you seen or heard of a mom being pregnant even with protection? Babe if you've got nothing cool to say just keep mute.
DeleteOkay bye.
Poster 1, there's no cause for alarm. My daughter also had pubic hairs at 6 years and just like you, I was worried, but I didn't panic. Y'know what I did? I took my phone and went straight to my first consultant after God....google! Well, it turned out that it's perfectly normal and won't interfere with anything. However, I made sure not to make a fuss about it so that she wouldn't start feeling insecure, so I'll advise you do same for your daughter. Don't even bring her attention to it and treat her like the normal child that she is. Good luck on being a mother of a girl. I have four of them and it's a roller coaster but I'm learning everyday while having as much fun as I can!
ReplyDeletePoster 2, Keep gbenshing every minute of the day with your horseband naw. U don tire?
ReplyDeleteUr horseband must be a poor man. It is them that see sex as only the source of happiness.
This ur 2 inch dick is not allowing u to think at all. Ewu gambia
DeleteThis ur 2 inch dick is not allowing u to think at all. Ewu gambia
DeleteI see nothing wrong about the pubic hair, just tell her the necessary things she need to know, because if u don't tell her now, friends or people she relate with, will tell her things you will not like.
ReplyDeletePoster 1,over to older women here.
ReplyDeletePoster 2... You should have heed to ur doctor's advice, ur baby is not even up to a year.
I would just tell u to keep the baby, frequent ur gynea and just know u are having another CS as no doctor will wanna risk u going thru full labour.
Ordinary 2yrs, u cannot wait.. Hian!!!
Tee Diva, now thats totally uncalled for! And yes, I hope that you have never made mistakes and that your life is so perfect!
DeleteMrs.Judgina well done ma.
DeleteThis tee or whatever her name is very dumb..she was the same person that adviced a girl to sleep with a married man instead of donating her eggs.
DeleteP1 I don't think there's anythng wrong with your daughter but you can still take her to the Dr, P2 just be ready for another cs
ReplyDeletePoster 1; my 2nd daughter had hairs on her pubic area and armpits too, and she was just 2yrs old then! It made me worry becos the hairs were very dark and obvious. I just took my mind away from it and before I knew it disappeared. So pls stop worrying. Poster 2, I don't know d circumstances Dat surrounded de CS but I have seen women who took in at 4 to 5months after having a CS and they did just fine with de new pregnancy and birthing. My cousin is one of such (got pregnant at 2months after a previous CS), but she had d baby peacefully thru anoda CS.
ReplyDeleteIt might be hereditary since u said your own started growing when u were 7 then your daughter must inherited it then,keep your preganancy jor I know of people who got pregnant 3mths after Cs though it wasn't easy but God was really on her side n she birthed d child via Cs again
ReplyDeleteWell i'm not a mother yet but i know someone that passed through something similar... The baby she had through CS was barely 6months old when she found out she was pregnant again.
ReplyDeleteIt wasnt easy but God saw her through. She had her baby and they are all fine.
I suggest that you see your doctor and tell your husband.
God knows everything and He will see you through
It is well with you
Congratulations to both of you Poster 1 and 2.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 no need to fear. No problem at all. Just make sure her yansh is well covered and she does not lift her legs anyhow. Start training her how to sit well
Poster 2.... you dont need to abort what God has put inside. Too much gbensh is sweet. Carry go. Cold full everywhere.
P2, you should be grateful as many are wishing to just get pregnant. Let go and let God. It is well with you. There are stories of women giving birth normally after cs. At least urs is 11 months after. My doctor told me of a lady that came for her 6 week postnatal check up with another pregnancy.
ReplyDeleteHian!!thats gangster..kilode
Delete1,Its hereditry. 2,I can link u wit a Dr @ 1st gate festac,he handled my frnd's own whose was nt up2 11 months sef.Dnt abort d child ooo cuz it might be d worse option.I had 2 comment cuz of ur matter & its my 1st tym commenting.
ReplyDeletePregnant after cs lady, pls see a doctor for proper evaluation. But hopefully u will be ok. Many has towed that part and came out victorious. Also pls do carry hubby along, u definitely needs his support.
ReplyDelete6yr old with pubic hair, a visit to ur GP will definitely alley ur fears. I wish ur angel sound health as she grows in wisdom
Concerning the pregnant lady. The 2years is normally advised to give your body time to heal to reduce the risk of having a uterine rapture but it does'nt affect your chances of having a full term pregnacy. It does however mean you have to have a CS delivery. Wishing you the best.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: It's simple, be ready and start saving for another CS. The Lord see u through.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: Sorry, I hv no idea
TELL YOUR HUSBAND AND see a gyneacologist: DO NOT TOUCH THAT BABY
ReplyDeleteThere is something ABOUT ABORTIONS which I'd like us to see. When one kills (or encourages the killing of; see Prov. 6:16-17) innocent children, the consequences are three. 1. You deny yourself the joy of having a home (remember the Hebrew midwives who spared babies against Pharaoh's advice to kill them; God rewarded them with families; Ex.1) 2. You risk "sudden death" in the hands of another fellow/accidents etc. remember Gen.9:6 and thirdly, you deny yourself eternal life! What a life! God isn't going to call you to glory if you do not repent. Jesus said; come to me all you that labor and are heavy laden and I will give you rest; that's Matt. 11:28. If you do not repent, you'd keep on laboring for the Serpent. But if you repent and make Jesus your Lord today and begin to read your scriptures; you'd find peace and the above three lots will not be yours. God bless you.
Poster 1- There's really nothing to worry about, Hormones and all moreover I think its Genetics too.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, visit your doctor if your body is okay why not go ahead? but then ask yourself if you really want to birth another child so soon.
poster 2: HOPE YOU ARE NOT THINKING ABOUT KILLING THAT CUTE BABY:
ReplyDeleteYour husband may become a widower, you child motherless and you; mmmh Christless eternity in hell.
I work in a hospital and the most cases of "septic abortions" (abortions that get infected etc.) that we see is usually during the first quarter of the year; a fallout of vaginal pounding during Christmas and valentine. Chai, come and see beautiful dead girls, lost wombs, bedridden ones and so on. What pains me most is that these girls will continue denying that they had abortion as if the doctor is a magistrate that will sentence them to death. One denied aborting till she breathed her last only for the nurses that were to prepare her body for the morgue to pull out a mangled baby's remains from her vagina.
And these boys just continue to prowl on the next victims -any vagina that opens! Girls, there is no "rest in peace" if you did not let babies find peace in your womb when the "mistake" of premarital sex was made. If this is your case and you survived it; repent, we all make mistakes.
The guilty ones who do not want to repent are those that will come under my post to rant. Having said it, they will perhaps hide under anonymous and talk about how "nothing happened"! It takes just one day for the thief and murderers to be caught!
Poster 1 there's nothing to worry about. Just check Google and you'll see ur not alone. My daughter had pubic hair at 8 months,i panicked at first but after checking Google i relaxed and now she's one the whole thing has disappeared. Poster 2 my TTC friend that has been trying for 13 years just read your post with me and she's crying. Pls my dear keep that baby.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: I had mine pubic hair few months to my 7th year birthday, armpits included. Nothing to worry about let the little girl be.
ReplyDeletePoster 1- Your blood is in your daughter so why worrying yourself? Keep praying for her to be a good girl.
ReplyDeletePoster 2- Congrats and safe delivery in advance.
You must eat bit by bit i.e. small quantity of food not much so that your baby won't be big and watch what you eat, avoid fatty food and some others. Pray to deliver normal and after it, tie your legs for some years.
Poster 2 don't stress ursef. Had my first son tru CS and got pregnant with d second 7 months later. What's important is dat d baby arrives at least a year after u've had a CS. Since ur 1st child is 11 months already, u will probably give birth when ur child is almost 2yrs. I will advice dat u register with a very good teaching hospital so dat a good gynecologist can monitor ur progress. Congrats!!!
ReplyDeleteAnon 13:16 you see what oyibo has caused. You feel sad, are you God? Some people are crying you are feeling sad, you want a girl. Please keep quiet and go and give thanks to God.
ReplyDeletePost 1: Don;t be sad or scared. I started having pubic hair as early as 8 years old, is just nature. If you're still very worried though, i will advise you go see a doctor.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Your doctor told you not to get pregnant for the next two years because of your condition; why did you refused to use protection? Married couples use protection too, especially when you are not ready to have another baby yet.
I'll advise you keep the baby for you never know. I just hope you do not endanger your life. Wish you luck.
Poster 1: since ur mum said it's normal, then forget about it.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: my friend's elder sis got pregnant 3 months after having her baby thru CS. You need to see them now. Like twins. Lol. She"s pregnant again. She said she wants to drop them fast coz it took her 7 years to get pregnant
I know of a four year old that has breasts.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: I was TTC for many years and the lord did it for and i happen to do C-Section and i prayed to God that before my son clocks one i want to be pregnant and the lord honored it. I was not even aware i was pregnant when my son was 10 months and my Doctor was super excited for us cos he encouraged my husband and i to try again due to our history of infertility and it works. Health wise i was ok cos my body did not fall apart. I have a 2-month-old baby again through C-Section and my body has healed though am taking things easy and i bless God for good health. So poster 2 nothing do you. Assuming you guys are TTC it will be a great news just like mine. i think you will be ok.
ReplyDeleteAnd my new on this blog. Though my work requires me to check blogs and other sites, i find SDK addictive and educative. This blog stands out.
Pls keep ur baby,it depend on ur body,my son was only 5moths when I got pregnant with my daughter after c-section.and the sex was the first sex after i had my son,so keep ur baby.
ReplyDeleteI got pregnant when my first born was 11 months and it was CS. My doctor encouraged me to do a VBAC and i did. NO issues.
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