A COMBINATION of shock and disbelief, like a low, dark cloud, has enveloped the neighbourhood where 34-year-old Solomon (surname withheld) lives in the Tasha Gwagwa area of the Federal Capital Territory, Abuja, with his family.
Almost in the same measure, a gentle wind of sympathy continues to blow around the family as it bears its grief over the unintentional killing of their 11-year-old son, by Solomon, in a bid to correct him for a major error.
The Commissioner of Police, Mr. Wilson Inalegwu who confirmed the unfortunate incident toSunday Sun
described it as pathetic and a very troubling demonstration of the decay that has crept into the Nigerian society, and which calls for parents to keep close tabs on the kind of visual materials their children are exposed to at home through movies
At the State Criminal Investigation Department of the Federal Capital Territory Police Command, where he is being held, Solomon has been bemoaning his action and cursing the evil spirit that led his late son into the grievous error of committing incest with his eight-year-old sister (name withheld).
As he recounted to Sunday Sun reporter in Abuja, Solomon said that he came home one day in April 2016 and saw his young son engaged in sexual act with his younger sister right in his bedroom.
“Victor was my son, an 11-year-old boy. I had been receiving bad reports about him. The height of it was that he started sleeping with his sister, who is eight-years-old. I had been receiving several reports about the ugly incident. Around 4.00 pm, I came back from work and met Victor sleeping with his sister in my bedroom. The stepmother was not at home,” Solomon said.
Overcome by anger, he rushed out again, picked up a stick and beat him severely. But then the devil took over, twisted the situation to the point that the little boy went into convulsion and then lost consciousness the next day. Benevolent neighbours of the family rushed him to Gwarinpa General Hospital, where he died soon after he got to the hospital.
The father, who earlier in the day had gone out was summoned to the hospital by phone. When he got to the hospital and introduced himself, the doctor informed him that his son had died.
The doctor detained him on pretext and promptly called the Gwarinpa police station, which sent policemen and Solomon was arrested.
According to Inalegwu, the doctor told the police that the boy died as a result of internal injuries he sustained in the course of being beaten by his father.
Visibly weighed down by the sad outcome of the seeming punishment he administered on the late boy, the bereaved father who hails from Igbo-Eze North Local Government Area of Enugu State, said: “ I wept when the doctor told me that my son had died. I didn’t have the intention to kill my son. I was trying to correct him because of the immoral act he committed. How can I beat my son to death? I couldn’t believe what I saw. I only acted in anger; I never wanted to kill my son.”
When Sunday Sun visited Tasha Gwagwa community, a neighbour of the bereaved father, Ali Ahmed said: “We heard when the father was beating the child. He beat him to correct him for what he did. The son was very stubborn. The father never had intention to kill his son.
He spoke further: “What the doctor did that night in the hospital was bad. How could he call the police to arrest the father of the dead boy? We were expecting the doctor to tell the father how to carry the corpse of his son. It is a lesson to every parent.” Another neighbour, John Gabriel, however, had a contrary view: “What the doctor did was right. The doctor thought that the father would run away upon hearing that his child had died. The parents of the boy are good people. It was me that even called the father on the phone to meet us at the hospital.”
Meanwhile the FCT Commissioner of Police has said the matter would be charged to court.
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*Wow,this is sad.Do you think the Doctor was right in calling the Police?
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ReplyDeleteNa the same thing kill Ronke Shonde na. After brushing from d husband, she convulse die. Unintentional killing.
DeleteOf course he was right to have called the police given the circumstances. Unfortunately he didn't intend to kill him but it happened. Sadly the law will take its course but leniency will be applied.
DeleteThe devil arrived his home in grand style on the said day. Dealing with the agony and shock of incest, and now manslaughter. I pity this man sincerely.
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11year old son and 8year old daughter? This is very bad, and yes, the Doctor was right to call the police
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The attention shouldn't be on the death of this boy alone, that young girl needs urgent attention too. She needs to be counselled as a matter of urgency. She's the main victim here who'll have to deal with the loss of her brother, as well as deal with the thoughts of being "molested" by him.
DeleteGod punish the rapist son n the father especially. So many idiots,fools in dis country. Rubbish,nonsense.
ReplyDeleteThe coming of Jesus is very near. Hmmmm
ReplyDeleteD doc was very correct! I no blame d father of d boy sha normally 99% of Africa parents will act dat way! Don't come here to format Saint gorimakpa
ReplyDeleteHis STEP mother was not around???
ReplyDeleteIt seems they are a dysfunctional family
Like Rolex chick family.lol
DeleteGod punish your generation may it not be well with you and your family for ever and ever I curse you and trouble would follow you all your life.
DeleteYou would remain anon on the surface of the earth.
U are even a fool for replying @Rolex chick.
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ReplyDeleteEnd time family
DeleteThe doctor was wrong,Why would a ten year old sleep with his sister *tufiakwa* *Aru* *abomination* police should release the man biko...
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing wrong in what the doctor did. And I can't just totally fault the dad as well. I can imagine the anger he used to beat the boy for doing such incestuous nonsense with his little girl. Still, parents should be mindful of how they beat their kids.
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DeleteThis is very sad. What child in his right senses would sleep with his own sister! I don't and can't blame the father, imagine the shock. The devil really succeeded in using the both of them sha.
ReplyDeleteSadly this occurs in a lot of homes amongst children and their parents are oblivious to this. In some cases it may not be sex outright, but inappropriate touching of themselves.
DeleteSometimes it's not about bad parenting or neglect, as some people are quick to say. It is just one of such absurd habit that some kids pick up from God knows where. Esp when they play this daddy and mummy game that we all did at some point as kids too. But the devil has a way of manipulating kids.
Also, some kids pick these habits from their domestic staff who are assigned to look after them.
For instance, say a Simbi is employed to look after madame's kids while she's at work. And when the kids return from school, rather than to look after the kids, Simbi will be busy flirting with some guy outside and the kids will sneak to watch Simbi. Some maids even bring their men home to have quick sex before madame comes back. The kids will see all these and put it to practice in their next mummy and daddy game session.
What I'm saying is that, not every bad habit is as a result of bad parenting..some bad habits are picked from the domestic staff and even relatives we employ to help out. and heck, we would never know unless we painstakingly pay attention to every move the kids make.
Unfortunately, Parenting can never be absolute, there would always be room for human error and more than likely, the error could be that of those we entrust with our kids. May God help us jare
Abeg I no proof read anything o.
God forbid bad thing! The doctor did the right thing. Na wa o.
ReplyDeleteIn my own opinion the doctor did wrong by calling the police...its a family issue and not his business.
ReplyDeleteThe boy is a big disgrace to his parent,at 11 already sleeping with his sister?????
Parents train your children in the way of the Lord
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DeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi ( Stellz Cousin )
See your mouth ? Killing is a family issue .. can you imagine what's coming out of your brain.
DeleteThey should release the man abegi.
ReplyDeleteThe doctor did the right thing...
ReplyDeleteAnger is a deadly spirit... Inasmuch as the man was trying to correct d child, he shld hv applied restraint. Sit d boy down and caution him with the word of God. Parents shldnt expose their children to adult programmes on Tv, watch their frnds and know who they move with.
ReplyDeleteAs for the doctor, he did wat he felt was right. Involving the police was a reflex action.U cant blame him. The law must take its course.
I think the doctor did the right thing. The boy did wrong but beating him to death was wrong as well, parents should learn how to correct a child without abusing the child. I can imagine how the man will feel the moment he saw his children having sex chia God forbid bad thing. This is why I say parents should learn how to interact with their children, teach them sex education.
ReplyDeleteChy don't say that biko. Constrains u say? Can u even imagine d sight of it? Walked into ur bedroom and u see ur son mounting ur daughter. Abeg let's keep sentiments aside every Nigerian parent will beat that child blue black. It's just unfortunate d child didn't make. The Law should put the 8yr old child who was raped into consideration b4 passing judgement on the father. Remember na step mother them wan leave her for o.
DeleteGod forbid. It is better to find an outsider doing this than to see your son on her sister. Tufia
DeleteIt's a family matter and too much anger always cause tragedy. Rip boy. At 11 and already gbenshing.
ReplyDeleteWhat are they charging to court? As if Nigerian prisons aren't full to the brim already. Politicians are busy killing and looting but no, it's the poor and unfortunate that keep suffering. There really is little or no justice in the world. Mr Igbo man, when u get out of jail, pay better attention to your kids, and monitor their step mother,funny woman.
ReplyDeleteThe doctor was only doing his job but I think the father didn't mean to kill his son.
ReplyDeleteWait!!! 11 year old sleeping with his 8 year old sister?
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Yep, incest I know but how can you beat up your child to the point of killing him. He should be arrested please....@@@@BiaBia 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteBut the boy nor then when the papa dey beat am now. The story read that he started convulsing the next day and then was rushed to the hospital wer he died.
Deletewhat the doctor did was wrong, and wha the father did was wrong as well.....May the boy soul rest on God's hands!!!! hian.....abomination.
ReplyDeleteDouble wahala for the father.rip to the boy
ReplyDeleteOf course the Doc was right.
ReplyDeleteA boy died. It was either a case of murder or manslaughter.
Either way, it is a criminal offence punishable by law.
Manslaughter it is.
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ReplyDeleteStella na wa for ur question, Ofcourse the police must be involved. The whole story is very sad though, he truly never meant to kill his son. The boy sef, how are we sure he is not a demon sent to implicate this man's life. Akoba pikin
ReplyDeleteLol @ akoba pikin. My dear, no be demon something. Na stubborness. I dey sure say e get one adult somwer wey go Don dey teach that boy such tins before him decide to do with his sister.
DeleteI wonder d kind of question stella is asking..But if ir was d wife s man killed she wil carry it on her head like gala seller..No parents have d right to kill their child..Murder is murder..It doesnt mattee who did d murdering..Its a punishable offence and d doctor did d right thing..
DeleteFamily matter my ass!!
Yes he was right. Because he didn't know what led to the beating. He perceived an abuse so he acted right. But this is so sad. God should not allow some things. Well, God knows best. This is so sad. This man was just trying to correct a child in a way he knows best. Any Nigerian parent or adult who has not laid a finger on a child that erred should throw the first stone!
ReplyDeleteWell said. Nor mind dem.
DeleteOf course the doctor did well to call the police..unintentionally or not, fact is, his son died. And it's only natural to involve the law..
ReplyDeleteThat's why we have them laws.
I hate stories like this. After beating a little boy to Death, you tell me you didn't mean to kill him?
What did you think will happen to the body of an 11 year old who is being hit repeatedly with a stick or belt? Is his body made of titanium? Don't you know there is a limit to how much pain his frail body can take?
So because the 11 yr old committed such an abominable act, that automatically makes his body more animal and less human?
Mister, you killed your son, and I'm afraid you will have to pay for that every waking moment of your life.
Dakota, are u a Nigerian? Did you even grow up in naija? The dad reacted the way every other average Nigerian dad would react. Children get beaten like this for leaving house chores to go play, not to talk of this kinda incest plus the boy's bad record already. I don't blame the doctor though, he didn't know what or how it happened. God has called this one home naw.
Delete@north dakota, the boy is better of dead.
DeleteThis Dakota that said that the best type of banana is gotten from Oyeagu Abagana, na mumu na.
Delete@ esther amaka,admitting i'm nigerian would be stating the obvious don't ya think? However,it might interest you to know that not every nigerian parent have the heart to beat a child with a stick or what have you. There are better ways to punish a child.. That you were given beatings for a life time while growing up doesn't make it okay.
DeleteAnon 14.20 so the banana has been on your mind all the while? Bros/sis If its banana you want, come and take it.
1Billion likes Dakota..U have said it all..Dat boy doesnt deserve to die..to think dat he was of d same age with my nephew..Woe betide anybody dat will kill dat sweet boy for me no matter his offence..I will go kaput on dat person..i dont care if its my in-law or sister..They will all go down..I love my nephews so much.
DeleteDabota re u saying every parent who corrects a child by not sparing d rod have d intention of killing? When una dey move una fingers do u ever stop to put urself in d person's shoes?
DeleteMay ur daughter b disvirgined by ur son so u can take him out 4 ice cream after d act. U better say Amen.
Does it mean he will go to jail for murder thou not a planned one? Won't blame him though. How did the child become like this for Christ sake, is it that he was exposed to pornography movies and he decided to rehearse what he watched with his sister? God pls save your people. Things are happening
ReplyDeleteThe doctor probably rthough it was a case of master and houseboy. He did no wrong and so did the father. He did what any parent would do in that case. It's just unfortunate that the devil loves webbed circumstances like this so that people can be frustrated.
ReplyDeleteAbomination. A Sacrilege
ReplyDeleteI believe the doctor was right. He may not have known the circumstances surrounding the beating of the boy by the dad. Maybe he felt it was a case of child abuse gone wrong. But what kind of endtimes child was that boy? 11yrs already committing such atrocities. Na wa.
ReplyDeleteNa wa o.this is so sad..d Doctor did d right thing but i don't blame d father of d boy,imagine d shock coming home to meet your children gbenshing in your room! Dats a bad one,dey shld jst understand it was an accident and release d poor man make he go take care of d little girl
ReplyDeleteMay God help us raise godly children. No be only parents dey train pikin.who knows where he saw such? Might even be something illicit he watched on TV while his parents were absent. Everyone has a role to play. I'm sure the man didn't mean to kill d boy.he acted out of shock and anger.
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DeleteThe doctor was right Stella because that's d rule.it wasn't done with malicious intent.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm.
ReplyDeleteAm so bias ryt now reasoning wit my emotions to say d doctor did wrong oo. Bt truth is, d doctor did d right thing cos he needs report cases of assault.
I gez he dint take him to d hosp afta d convulsion.
I beliv he did not mean to kill d boy but for d presumed delay in taking him to d hosp, maybe out of fear...dt one is criminal.
I heard of a true story whr d family hated dia father. He was caught hving sex wit his daughter. D mum made dem swear neva to divulge as n secret n shame.
U sure sef say na d man blood? Maybe it's d stepmon's daughter frm anoda man.
Maybe d boy has even been written off andd dad wont mind killing him somday. Can't even imagine hearing such gistn den catch dem in ur own bed. Tufiakwa!
My dear young boy's soul, dunno weda I shud say RIP.
It's so sad , so very sad a situation.
ReplyDeleteThe boy was said to b notorious and kids like that can make one loose it. Refilling his own sister ??? He must ve Bn doing it for long so the father got so mad he couldn't think of anything that's to wound the boy ...
The man should be freed jare he was just trying to stop evil and protecting his daughter since the late boy is a truant.
RIP to d boy tho. And the man actually saved the world a budding rapist who might grow up into a monster. It is well.
*defilling*
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World is turning upside down. Wow!
ReplyDeleteThe doctor is write anyway.
My own question is, 'will the boy go to heaven or hell? '
ReplyDeleteHmmm!
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He won't go to hell. He's still too young.
DeleteThe Doctor did the right thing Stella. Did his father mean to kill him? NO. ABOMINATION. R.I.P to the boy.
ReplyDeleteStella what type of question are u asking too, u live in a westernised country, cos the doctor did right, despite what the 11yr old did he still didn't deserve to die like that, yes he can be disciplined and that's why we there juve in westernised countries, how him dying be family matter? It's mansluter sentencing will be lower than murder, the father has also committed a crime here and should face justice, how can beaten someone to death be family matter
ReplyDeleteIt's a normal reaction to beat or punish a kid in this part of the world, but the incest must have aggravated the fathers' anger. However, there's limit to everything even when punishing your ward.
ReplyDeleteThe poor little girl is my concern, the man will be judged, the boy is resting while the rape will linger with her forever with memories of his late brother and result from her father action
The Doc is right in all ramifications,
Thank you. That little girl is the victim here and she needs rehabilitation
DeleteWhat a tragedy! The man meant no harm , just that the devil decided to strike @ any given oppourtunity. On the doctor's side, he should have advised the man to report and surrender himself instead of inviting the police, or better still discuss with d man before doing so. May the lord see him through this trying time.
ReplyDeleteSad story..no winners here.just sad.
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ReplyDeleteMay we not kill our children or they kill us
This incestuously act is always results of money rituals or jealousy or lust assignment. The father should check himself. You need to rebuke that spirit and speak to both children
ReplyDeleteYour two kids doing the unthinkable, it takes an angel not to beat the devil out of such son. But sad the son kicked the bucket. The doctor was only doing his Job.
ReplyDeleteJust read this story and am sad because nobody is seeing the big picture - sexual exploration.
ReplyDeleteChildren need to be taught sexual education from a young age and allowed to grow in a family that encourage expression. I was sexually precocious as a child and still living with the hurt till today because I was just not a victim but a prey and I experimented with my siblings and family friends.
Till today I dont know where it started from but I know movies and peer influence contributed to it. At that point beating wasn't the only solution. We really need to talk to our children. Africans esp Nigerians shy away from sexual education which later comes back to hurt us. Some of the things i know about the body, period, sex was never told to me by my mummy but from school, teachers, text book, newspapers, Tv etc.So unfortunate!
PS: it easier to tag the boy because of his record of stubbornness but looking at me, you would never believe I was capable of such act. Thank God for God.