*Mouth hanging open*
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE..
SIDE CHICK BLUES AND THE CHEATING HUSBAND
Hello Stella,
I want to call out a home breaker......
This girl has been bugging my husband for years, he came to Nigeria for a brief meeting, he went to hang out in a club cos his friend was performing, she buzzed him and insisted she wanted to come (saw the message so I know) hubby agreed cos he felt she's just a friend, hubby got drunk (surprised too cos he isn't a heavy drinker), he said she was pouring him drinks and was all over him, kissing him (the girl claims she's a family friend, buzzes me on Facebook, sends me complimentary messages on how she adores my family, not knowing she's the devil).
this was happening around 2am, insisted hubby gets a hotel room in the club and condoms, knowing fully well he was drunk, then had sex with him, hubby said he slept off right after, woke up by 6am, felt bad, had his bathe and was leaving, meanwhile, the slut was busying snapping pics in the hotel room and posting on Instagram with the hatshtag 'feelingmyself', she collected N5k from him (she's that cheap) he said he saw her off outside to take a cap then he drove off, she kept buzzing him and telling him she loves him meanwhile going to my instagram and liking pics I took with hubby, she's evil.
She kept asking hubby for them to see again (saw the messages) he declined told her it's not possible, hubby got back to base and was broken, cried and begged and told me what happened, he couldnt bear the shame cos this slut was still disturbing his phone.
I called her and she 1st lied about it then I said my hubby is here and he's told me everything, she quickly cut the phone, then later called back and said yes she did and it's was suppose to happen that she loves my hubby bla bla bla (have an audio, would have attached it but......), find attached the whatsapp message she sent me after insulting me on the phone.
Stella, I can't 4give her, she only feels this way cos she was caught, because the N5k Slut kept calling my home and greeting me, she told hubby she loves him and wanna be with him, she's an agent of the devil and she's cursed.
I have a good man and I know it, he felt very sorry, immediately it happened, he deleted her in every social media, cos he felt disgusted by her, said her body is finished and you will know she sleeps around, that she's so loosed.
The truth is that I will find a way to forgive my hubby, this is very huge, I've been praying to God to help me let this go, cos hubby is broken, never seen him like this, has been on the floor rolling and crying like a baby all becos of the Devil's agent, he has been devasted, this has caused a very big hole in my marriage, the worst part is the girl knows us, I wish I was close to her right now, God knows what I would have done.
It hurts..
This is the 1st time in 7years this is happening.
Please tell me how to go about this, I feel so much pain and my hubby is in pain, he told her yesterday to never call his phone again or disrespect me.
Stella, must all marriages go through this??
I have a good man, I know, he adores me so much, but why did he do this?? Why couldnt he be strong enough to resist this devil, he felt he was safe with a family friend, he never thought about sleeping with her cos we all see her as younger sis, why are people so evil.
Stella i'm in pain.
Hubby is begging, has been calling his family members to plead, even brought my Pastor to come beg me, Pastor says forgive, Stella, is this possible???
Can we ever go back to the way things were?
And this satanic agent will be posting on facebook about finding a good man, how do you expect God to ans such prayer?
She feels no remorse, that message she sent meant nothing cos her voice says a diff thing.
Please ladies that has been through this, how did you come out of it.
I know marriages have its ups and downs, but why this?? Can't we find a man that will never ever ever cheat?? I know it's possible, or rather i used to think it's possible, but now, I doubt.
She has changed her FB name from Esther.A to Esther E, her instagram is still @beautifulbraniac, find attached her pics.
Stella, this girl is not sorry, I know that, she wants my hubby to leave me for her, she's busy professing love for the man. He keeps telling her it's not possible, I feel she drugged him, I have that feeling cos he said he didn't know what he was doing.
It's hard to let go but i have prayed to God to heal me.
Side Chick has a right of reply to this call out.
Hiannnnnn!
ReplyDelete@poster,as A human;we all know forgiving can actually come so easily,but forgetting is something that needs the grace of God before it ever becomes A reality..cos at A point,an incident might happen which would trigger the bad memories back..
DeleteHe is human,he made A mistake and has apologised;and you yourself have seen he is trully remorseful about what transpired between him and the said girl..
Please for the sake of love and your family;try to forgive and put everything behind you..i know it wouldn't be easy for you but with God,there would be better days ahead...
God forgives;so should we Humans..
Bless you!!
@MARTINS ABOY
Madam your hubby didn't know what he was doing? Abeggi! It takes two to tango. He gave her audience or this would never have happened. Are you telling me a small girl like that has more power than your husband? He should take responsibility for his actions and distance himself from girls or women like that. I put it to you that at least a little part of him wanted it to happen. Maybe he was curious. Drunk people most times just express what they have on the inside they would not normally express, plus he was not forced to drink nao! Sorry that you are hurting and since it appears your husband is truly repentant, forgive him. But it won't be easy to build back the trust that has been tampered with. With commitment, sincerity and Gods' grace, all will be well.
DeleteStella, I think it's mean of you to call her a side chic! Isn't it obvious she isn't???
DeleteHehehe, sounds like one globela bie on facebook too, that one even offered herself to my partner free of charge, after fucking her, she will update on whatsapp, men are dogs, no good man, heartbroken. Hahaha I'm waiting for her to get married, I will so strike her marriage to its roots, forward all her nude pic n sms to her husband. Hehe game on
DeleteEsther have deleted her Facebook account,shameless side chick.smh
DeleteEsther have deleted her Facebook account,shameless side chick.smh
DeletePlease Esther Ezeakolam, when you do reply, pls mention this woman's full name, and her husband, and their social media handles.
DeleteShebi the wife brought the story to a public platform, and decided to hide her name but call out yours. It's only fair the game is played right. Please spill their names! This woman will learn today. If you are not ready for the public eye, don't bring another person into it
LOL. I find this so funny, I'm sorry. Look madam, if I hear say that girl threw away your husband's condom. You better brace yourself for the worst (she'll get pregnant) because it's like she has been planning to snatch him right from day 1. You both are supposed to join forces and finish the girl, then behind closed doors, you sort it out with your husband since you claim he's a good man and IF it happened just like he said. My 2 cents.
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ReplyDeletePlease Esther Ezeakolam, when you do reply, pls mention this woman's full name, and her husband, and their social media handles.
DeleteShebi the wife brought the story to a public platform, and decided to hide her name but call out yours. It's only fair the game is played right. Please spill their names! This woman will learn today. If you are not ready for the public eye, don't bring another person into it
Sorry ma'am. Ur husband ain't leaving u for her. She'll get tired n find another man. Block her naa!
ReplyDeleteOlobe, she don lock her IG.
DeletePlease Esther Ezeakolam, when you do reply, pls mention this woman's full name, and her husband, and their social media handles.
DeleteShebi the wife brought the story to a public platform, and decided to hide her name but call out yours. It's only fair the game is played right. Please spill their names! This woman will learn today. If you are not ready for the public eye, don't bring another person into it
So.... I don't understand. You know the girl in person and she's been eyeing hubby?
ReplyDeleteDesperation at its peak oh!!
Yaaaaaaaasssss! Let the drama begin!
ReplyDeleteHIAN!!!!!
ReplyDeleteBoring... Next please
ReplyDeleteI don't see why a side chuck is still a part of your marital woes. You think shaming her will change what has happened?
ReplyDeleteYou are busy making excuses for your man while the girl is to blame for everything right? He was drunk, he didn't mean to sleep with her, she was pouring him drinks etc.
I don't know what to say to you than to delete that lady from your discussion and trash this alone with your man.
He was the one who left home to have fun and decided to tag along with handbag while you were home forming that you were aware.
He just had to invite her to go with him clubbing because her insisting couldn't make him say no.
Women, women, women.
The lady is even nice, exposing herself that way to you and baring her heart out if that text message is anything to go by.
Whether you forgive your husband or not is your personal choice that has nothing to do with this lady. He is the one who defiled your marriage not her, he tool his vows with you not her so to hell with how hard this lady is trying to ruin your home as you claim.
The enemy is within and it's your husband.
Peace out
Thank you
DeleteDoppel, u have said it all. Madam forgive your hubby, block the lady from any way u know she can reach u on and move on. Simple
DeleteGod bless you for this dearie.
DeleteDoppelganger, on this one you went off point. So until the poster insults his husband via her write up, that's when you will know she isn't making excuses for him. Seeing people insult their spouse even when they are wrong, does it make you feel happy?
DeleteGod bless u@dopple.. leave d poster to keep foolin herslf makin excuse for her husband. Shey d husband is a smalm child. Abi he was drinkin at gun point.rubbish
DeleteMadam, kindly post your husband's picture. Two people indulged in a shameful act together. Let's shame both of them.
DeleteThat girl has asked for forgiveness, forgive her and keep her at a distance. Restore love to your family or things will go down at this point.
By the way, let him get tested.
Don't be naive again, it is always the people who sing your praises all the time that are after your downfall. Keep your family away from social media.
Sorry Ma'am.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
What?...
ReplyDeleteHow can a side chic have the gut to tell me she loves my man...
Like which kain talk is that one?....
Poster,biko forgive your husband...yes!...
Forgive him...
You need to put the babe where she belongs!...
Some of you married women are so dull!...
If I were you,I for don give the babe small madness...she go run mad small so next time when she sees a married man,she go run!..
With a little money,you can achieve this...
Linda how? Talk Abeg
DeleteAunty Linda. Choi. Good evening
DeleteMadness kwa?! You think say na only you sabi juju house? I would love to know what will happen when two babalawo powers jam. Biko don't advice her that kind of tin. Devil nor dey give somebody something free of charge ohh!
DeletePoster, u get obiakpor ohh. Forgive the man naw, haba! He was even the one that reported himself to you. Forget the girl, her part for the script Don end. Keep the love flowing jare.
Woman, you are just giving yourself HBP. I'm a man, I had a girl like that, she deliberately cast d fling we had so my wife found out, I begged with a brand new car, I made sure I fucked the sidechic at will,led her on n on till she herself knew she was being used and left,i don't give her money, I used anger n slept with her left n right.
ReplyDeleteYou think you are wise? You are a wicked soul. Don't be surprised when Karma comes knocking.
DeleteU used anger and slept with her left and right?
DeleteHe didn't know what he was doing and he knows she's loose and finished. So sorry you will forgive him because you are already making excuses for him.
ReplyDeleteAs in, if he dint know what he was doing, how did he even know she was loosed. He is using that one to console you. Ina ruwan tight wife. You guys should sort things out, don't leave him but know how to deal with him so when next he sees another woman he would quickly turn away. All the best to you guys
DeleteStella, just went on facebook. The babe is manageable sha. But wait o, madam, why this kind of call out nau. BVN will finish her.
ReplyDeleteI actually know her. So she went to Rybeka? Wow!!!
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DeleteAh! Jasmine! Now now u Don check her for facebook. Babes I fear who nor fear you. Your own worse pass tatafo own oo lol!
DeleteAll I see are the excuses u are making for ur husband. First admit he is at fault 100% stop being in denial.whether or not he was seduced he slept with her period.
ReplyDeleteSince he is ssorry put him on probation period, watch him,if he changes then forgive him,this period is critical cause the devil will play tricks on ur mind, pls b prayerful
Correct👍
DeleteShe will soon be 30 and unmarried. I learned my lesson the hard way. It's not worth it jor, ma' abasi.
ReplyDeleteShe will soon be 30 and unmarried. I learned my lesson the hard way. It's not worth it jor, ma' abasi.
ReplyDeleteOh? Eyah. Sorry. You r forgiven
DeleteLol, madam calm down oooo
ReplyDeleteYou shouldn't be the one to send her away if your husband isn't into her too.
But the way you talking, it seems you are the husband and he is a weakling.
As a man, if I dnt like a lady and she's crossing her line I know how to deal with her, I won't wait for my woman to start ranting up and Dan.... in fact I will tell her to leave me to handle it.
Your man went out, get drunk, got a hotel and banged her and he is calling his family to beg you exposing your family secrets to third parties...
Tell your husband to me up and discharge the lady, if it's true he u not enjoying the attention...
Simple!
DeleteDon't mind the stupid man he is the one that is lose
DeleteTill I read from the lady.
ReplyDeleteMadam cool down , your blood is hot.
This story get as eh be oooooo make I read comments sha
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmm....please please be wise and fix your home..not everything you bring to the public and i can't really place it but i don't believe your story...i feel you are trying to disgrace your husband's side chick and you had to twist the story to your favor.....
ReplyDeleteI just saw the girls picture!...
ReplyDeletePoster,so it's this small girl that is giving you headache!...
Na this kain case i dey like borrow!...
If I handle her for you,na die she go die!...
This is serious.we just have to forgive.
ReplyDeleteI understand how u feel but just forgive ur man since he is sorry, don't build an unforgiving wall around urself so he won't be pushed further away. My one cent...
ReplyDeletePoster, please forgive your husband, he knows he's hurt you and from your narrative, he's apologetic. To Herr is human but to forgive is divine. As for the h*e, block her in every way possible. In fact before you block her, send her a prayerful message. Pray for her, yes! Pray for your enemies, let karma do the rest. This one that infidelity has become a norm in this society. God is in control.
ReplyDeleteTo err.
DeleteWell yes, to Herr (Esther Chidinma) (he) is human (poster's hubby) that's why she seduced him so mercilessly.
DeleteBut....
In this case, I believe you meant to say to Err.
Err: to make a mistake.
Would wait for Esthers side of the story before commenting further.
ReplyDeleteBt madam y would u think your husband had no intention of sleeping with her? Oh pls!!!
Hahaha @she drugged him...u think? Yet still he could remember what transpired that night...abegi
Your husband had every intention of sleeping with her and Pls @esther shouldn't be held responsible for her actions alone,your husband should be held responsible for his actions aswell.
*she kept pouring drinks for him and he remembers she's finished cos she's so loose...hahahaha y'all won't kill me
Wtf's that? Your husband isn't telling u d entire truth.
A side chick won't be ds bold if ur hubby ain't leading her on. Forget d msgs and what he tells u...ur hubby ain't being truthful with u
Thank u, exactly my mind. Was he under any spell? He went to club, invited her, or rather she insisted on tagging along why agree? She poured u drink n insisted u pay for a hotel room and buy condoms and al ds he did with eyes wide open, somehw madam found out and is making excuses for DH. You can forgive ur husband bt don't make it seem like the girl dragd him into this, somehw somewhere he led this lady on.
DeleteThank you!
DeleteMarried men will go into the world and lie to these single ladies, calling their wives name then go back home when caught and lie against the side chic.
ReplyDeleteMadam you don't know what he has told her that made her so bold to contact you.
He is denying now because he didn't expect side chic to be dumb enough to contact you and you are here expecting us to run off to someone's Facebook page to call them out. I don't even know why someone's real Facebook/instagram identity is online without proper verification of this story.
I will sue if I were this person.
When has cheating become a criminal office when it happened between two consenting adults.
I am so pissed by this chronicle I feel like giving madam wife a big knock on her head. Why you no follow oga go club since he wanted company so bad. Women like you are the reason men keep doing this thing time after time.
He is crying and rolling on the floor indeed, man or houseboy?who are you deceiving. Mschew make I chop my Eba and ofe akwu before e cold.
Doppel mi, givin it to her like it's hot! You no dey fall hand. Madam wife, you don't know your husband. It's not just about the chick, it's most definitely about your husband. If it's not this chick, it would be another. Just forgive him to keep your home. Hope for your sake he is sincere.
DeleteHahahaha
DeleteDoppel haf vex!
I like your summary. Inukwa rolling on the floor and crying, is he your hubby or younger brother? Woman you are on top o. This small case with small girl is what you ran to Stella Korkus for? Mtscheeew
What then would you do if a Thick madam buys an airticket and follows up your hubby to a far destination and force him and probably drug him to DO THE DO before she signs contract papers for his company? Hun? You go burn Lagos down?
In Phyno's voice ' onwego kwanu Ihe ihuru'(have you seen anything yet?)
My dear you gat a good man, he misbehaved and apologised. Forgive him and let him sort the 'small intruder' wahala. You both go run some medical tests to be sure the land is still green.
This is an opportunity for you to demand for THAT THING. You know that thing. He will approve sharpaly.*wide grin*
#SaynotoNwunyedi
You nailed it, dumbass married woman. Yeye oshi
DeleteLol Doppel, your comments sometime eh, very blunt and true.
DeleteDon't worry, shebi you are here running your mouth?when you get married and find yourself in this kind of situation, you'll understand better......but for now just keep shut.
DeleteYou are very correct 👍🏼
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ReplyDeleteHmm.. I just sit down with cold coke de observe the new found boldness side chicks are developing.
ReplyDeleteAnother edible catering doing what they do best.
Ofcourse you'd 4gv him, you don't have a choice, then watch time do the healing, you're reacting this way cus its probably the 1st time he's caught, trust me wen i say if he enjoyed that sex or fancied the chick, you wouldn't know.
You shoulnt even let him go as far as bringing in 3rd parties to plead on his behalf, cus after u accept him back, the stigma & gossip will remain afloat.
When u took ur vows, u agreed to " for better, for worse ".... This is the worse part right here, what were u thinking it'd be? Raining season? Abi Flat tyre on 3rd mainland?
U are wise.
Deletei have seen her on fb and instagram....she is wugly not even ugly....pls madam forgive ur husband as long as no infections or diseases...just be strong and let all play out of ur mind and memories
ReplyDeleteShe's beautiful.
DeleteLife! Trust no one, Iv been to check her out on fb, the girl no even fine, is this how desperate some babes are? 5k too? Lord of mercy
ReplyDeleteThis is what happened when you trust ur hubby too much.
ReplyDeleteMadam pls dont believe your hubby 100%.
I wish i could lend you my heart right now,cos this kain matter isnt strange to me.
#girlsarenotsmilling.
Shaki...your head dey dia. This ish is all over Lagos na, some of the girls avoid the man patapata once they get a feeler that Madam has got some street madness. Outside that it is a case of readily available Chics controlled by dog spirit taking over your marriage. It is only prayers that fully keeps them away, the nights are getting lonelier for many, they grab your man without blinking and offer him what you no fit give.
DeleteOriegwu!
Can I hv ur mail I need to talk pls
DeleteJust checked out her pictures on Instagram and the only thing i can say is if she is truly a side chick, she doesn't look like one that collects 5k. Well what do I know?
ReplyDeletePoster, I'd advise you to forgive your husband and move on since he is truly repentant. Don't allow anyone break your home. We are all bound to make mistakes, what matters is how we react after making the mistake
Her account is private nau!
ReplyDeleteLemme check FB
You mean this smally lured your husband??? Ur husband lied mehn. He's been straffing that poor girl like forever. You caught him and he had to blame the girl. Abeg carry ur family matter commot for here. But why disgrace just the girl? Where is the pics or social media handle of your husband? Did she force his prick to get hard??? Useless married women everywhere, always quick to blame side chics. Mscheew
ReplyDeleteAm telling you that girl is very small nau
DeleteThey had sex that's all
Gbam
DeleteCommon sense is not common. Anon 15:22. Hope you saw the message the chick sent to the wife. The boldness is annoying. Dear poster bless watch Obsessed by beyonce and ali . You will know what to do.
DeleteHelp me ask the useless woman and her mumu hubby. Nonsense chronicle. You ran here to shame the girl, what about your hiv dicked hubby??? I wish i was the esther girl, i'll make sure ur nzme and hubby gets revealed to the public. Oshi ara ata ma ra iyo
DeleteOlosho alert
DeleteOk if this so called side chic Chidimma Ezeakolam decides to go to another blogger with stories and social media addresses,on how this woman's husband has been disturbing her, can she stand the shame?
DeleteNa wa for some women.
Saw the comment posted by a bv telling her she's a Stella's blog, sharp sharp she don delete am, side chick come tell your own side of the story as stella suggested but I still maintain there's no excuse for such even if the man toast you, babes ain't loyal anymore
ReplyDeleteMost of these ladies blame only the side chicks and leave their randy hubbies alone, one of my neighbours who is married is on my case,so tell me if I get tempted by all his sweet gifts an all and I misbehave, one woman will come and blame me and leave her randy he goat alone right? Nigerian men are too irresponsible
ReplyDeleteAbeg tell them o. Rubbish
DeleteHow den do u feel your hubby is Innoncent about it,the side chick drug him bla bla bla,cut that,have u ask your hubby what he told her,the promises,you dnt have to Blame her alone but your hubby,most men are all dogs,I can never defend a man ,no matter what ,so let issue be,if you hubby happens to Go back to naija,he will still repeat the same thing,abeg stop defending him jor.
ReplyDeleteSimply put, her husband is a DOG.
Deletelook at how she kept calling the girl 'devil'
Hewoo..hmmm.lets hear the side chicks side of the story.
ReplyDeleteSighs. Wow, as i was reading through i could hear the 'painment' in my ea rs like u wer here. Anway, madam in the long run, nomatter how bad u feel, and hurt and confused and evertin. You must find a way to forgive ur man, and for her, i dnt knw wot to say if she did all this really she deserves a serious undiluted slap on her bitch face. Bt there are stil alot u must do before forgiving ur hubby, make sweat alot, yeah, remember he is human and can make mistakes, the problem is we tend to overlove and put men on pedestals and thereby making it all the difficult to forgive. Bt esther why now, why are u claimin to love someone bt only 'causer' him pain. Oya reply n giveb us ur version. What happened that night? Ngwa tell us!!!
ReplyDeleteLol!
DeleteWhat right of reply Stella? To come here with lies and tales by moonlight??
ReplyDeleteYou are a very stupid woman poster. You can shame her but hide your husbands name? You are just as evil as she is.
ReplyDeleteStella, you have no right to put that girls FB and IG handles out there for the whole world. It's a stupid and dangerous thing you did without reaching out to her to hear her side.
Madam poster, if you believe your cheating husband then you need a few slaps to reset your brain!
ReplyDeleteAre you're saying your husband has no blame at all?!!!
Cheating takes planning and your husband planned this shit every step of the way, forget about his tale about being drugged, he was drugged to have sex, was he also drugged to pay 5k for the sex?
And his tale about her body being "finished"? He was drugged and he noticed that? Or he just said that to make you feel good?
Forget his tears,I'm sure he thoroughly enjoyed himself, he's only sorry he got caught!
I bet she's not his first sef.
My advice, find a way to deal with your husband that the next time the thought of cheating you comes to his mind, he'd rather stand in front of a moving train that do it!
As for the girl, there's hardly a thing you can do without landing yourself in trouble, in fact, cases have shown that husbands usually go back to side chics who gets beat up or disgraced by their wives, it's called "pity fuck" so you need to tread carefully.
Your husband disrespected you and brought this insult upon you, find a way to treat his fuck up, put fear in his heart make him know say you dey craze, then move on.
Though I can't assure you he'll never cheat again, I CAN assure you he'll get smarter.
YOUR HUSBAND IS A DOG, Q.E.D!!!
SHARONNA
Thank you jare Sharonna. She should also give us her horseband's Facebook ID make we judge the Matter well.
DeleteYour horseband just got caught in his 7years of cheating, that's why his lies are still silly.
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DeleteThank you Sharonna. Buy kai, the man is not a Dog o
DeleteMadam please forgive your husband. As a guy who is in a happy relationship with a good girl I know the extent some females will go because of envy and to prize away a man from another women. Truth is women are their own worst enemies. Maybe i'll send in a chronicle some day but your hubby is a diamond in the rough. Most of my married friends cheat on their wives on a constant without batting an eyelid. Please forgive him
ReplyDeleteWhat is this one saying? Ode. Woman wrapper
DeleteThis whole thing just annoyed the hell outa me...wtf??? See how you just managed to exonerate your hubby,while heaping all the blame on the girl.Abeg,I can't deal.I didn't even finish reading cuz I was passed off.Still very angry and sad I missed SnM post.Was seriously waiting and checking my phone for it.Even told my friend to keep checking.Just 20 minutes I took to desolve my nails and the post was up and already had more than 200 comments....choi!!!! I wan craze.I didn't bother participating again cuz I no wan make small pikin dem add me dey talk nonsense!!! Stella, you try o...and yes,I'm blaming you! !!
ReplyDeleteDont mind the yeye chronicle writer. Instead of her to blame her dog of a husband
DeleteHahahaha.
Delete*Fans Sassy*
Cool down inugo
Pissed*
DeletePoster, the only way u can win this battle is to forgive ur husband. Let it go and u will find inner peace and shame this side chick.
ReplyDeleteYour husband said he didnt remember how he came about sleeping with the chic that he suspects she must have drugged him but yet he remembers that her pussy was loose,you and your yeye husband should go and sit down abeg, what kind of stupid chronicle is dis sef.. Mschew
ReplyDeleteOshey jare
DeleteThe gal is really pretty. Side chicks be driving married women nuts. Madam, since ur hubby is remorseful, just forgive and let go. There is no perfect home out there forget abt d "beautiful tales" people write on blogs and on social media. Lets face reality at times. U have a good man.
ReplyDeleteFight for ur home and make it work.
Your husband is at fault. Esther did not say vows to you. Good that he is begging. Now stop fighting Esther and tell your 5k husband to get rid of Esther. A married men could not go clubbing with his male friends? He decided a single girl would be best, a single girl who is not blood. And he was there drinking. He caused this issue, let him solve it. You will get through this. It is unfortunate but these men can't be trusted. They act like their brains are in their trousers.
ReplyDeleteEven if she drugged him did she drug his flaccid penis enough to have an erection and fuck ??!!! Blame ur hubby jawe.
ReplyDeleteGood question! The girl is not even pregnant they only had sex ordinary "SEX" oh duno why she is making a big deal out of it
DeleteLmao. Thank yoi
DeleteIn your narrative, you kept blaming the girl. Why is that so? Couldn't your husband take responsibility? How do you balme only the girl? And how are you sure your husband has never cheated in the last seven yyears? Oh, because he decided to tell you this one, you feel the girl drugged him. Hhhhhh! Madam, your husband knew exactly what he did and he wiLl do some more with this your approach of heaping blames on the girl.
ReplyDeleteThank you
DeleteSince your 'decent'husband knows his limit alcohol wise, why did he he keep drinking? How did she know he was in the club? Ur husband felt bad after the act and still saw her off to take a cab?? See how u kept calling her devil. Ur husband don fuck devil be that. Hey woman, get off here with ur silly story, ur husband don dey gbensh that babe tey tey. Dont disturb us with ur mumu chronicle this hot afternoon. You all will straff married men when u are single and be protecting ur husband community dick.
ReplyDeleteExactly o
DeletePlease help me ask the yeye woman
DeleteDear poster ,
ReplyDeleteUr hubby tasted the forbidden fruit on purpose .
Evidence
1. How did she know he was in Nigeria, and was gonna be at the club ? They had been communicating .
2. Hubby got drunk cos he wanted an excuse later 'blame it On the drink 👏🏼' this should tell you , his actions were pre-meditated.
3. You said the girl was kissing him . That's where he should have called it quits and gone home . U don't Kiss a stranger ... This means they had been dirty talking 😫, I can assure you he kissed her back .
4. How can she claim to be a fam friend ? Family friend of whom? She's been in ur hubbys life for a long while . And your hubby is her only friend in ur family
5. Don't you know that you can't force a drunk man to fuck you , yes men have wills even while drunk , some of them won't even have an erection if they find u disgusting . Ur hubby fuckd her cause he wanted to .he took the alcohol to give him mind .
6. Why would he see her off to take a cab? Someone that allegedly got you drunk n raped you (that's his Story )😂
What I can't figure is why ur hubby told you . Could it be she threatened to tell you to assuage her guilty conscience ?then he did "first to report " because his story doesn't add up
I don't think you should Be shaming this girl while singing 'my husband is a good man ' . Poster it takes 2 to tango .. Apportion them equal blames , infact more should fall to your deceitful cheat of a hubby ... He planned the whole thing, and till now he is still manipulating you with his theatrics.
Ur intelligent and u just earn my respect
DeleteKikikikikikiki see analysis. I cannot help but agree with you.
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DeleteYou just summarized this whole thing. I am not saying sleeping with a married man is good but this poster needs a serious wake up call. My problem is the way she painted her hubby as innocent and the said girl as the devil herself. Inukwa shaming! Mtchew that girl had better break the aki oyibo nsugbe by mentioning every body's name. At least we know we are reading family chronicles.
DeleteSince your 'decent'husband knows his limit alcohol wise, why did he he keep drinking? How did she know he was in the club? Ur husband felt bad after the act and still saw her off to take a cab?? See how u kept calling her devil. Ur husband don fuck devil be that. Hey woman, get off here with ur silly story, ur husband don dey gbensh that babe tey tey. Dont disturb us with ur mumu chronicle this hot afternoon. You all will straff married men when u are single and be protecting ur husband community dick.
ReplyDeletePlease Esther Ezeakolam, when you do reply, pls mention this woman's full name, and her husband, and their social media handles.
ReplyDeleteShebi the wife brought the story to a public platform, and decided to hide her name but call out yours. It's only fair the game is played right. Please spill their names! This woman will learn today. If you are not ready for the public eye, don't bring another person into it.
See this swine!...
DeleteBiko shut up!..
Can you imagine the rubbish, this woman is the devil herself how can you disgrace someone like this? Am waiting for Esther's rpl.... She is not preggy na just f*ck..... Your husband has Been having sex with other girls they there make pant they wear you
DeleteI agree. At least the husband's name.
DeleteExactly. As they called you out this way, your bride price don reduce be dat. Reply
DeleteYes, Esther please do. Lets see the randy man's face too and the chronicle woman.
DeleteYeye couple
Exactly.I kip saying it....Try to kip marital issues private at least for some time unless things goes out of hand then u can now ask for advice from reasonable pple.Madam poster u've finally deceives urself by thinking u can deceive us,well try nd fix ur marriage no one can do it for u not even Bv's
DeleteExactly. Let everything be exposed. This woman is just plain ignoramus. Her holy husband was lured into having sex. And he also gave her 5k. All this rubbish to shame the girl not knowing she just dragged her family into the bulshit.
DeleteThis is the most stupid fucking retarded thing I've read in a while. What kind of story for the gods is this one bikonu? So op na wetin you want make we tell you? Forgive him and move on, he's sorry? You want us to laud your husband abi because you just painted him as an angel. Fact is, he's just like other men out there, he's still a cheat. And if he can use drunkenness to justify what he did, he's going to continue cheating on you. That's if this story is real sef, or not half true.
ReplyDeleteDont mind her. Frustrated married woman
DeleteThe story annoyed me!
DeleteThis chronicle was typed with so much pain. I laughed hard and thought hard. Madam, please and please calm down. You want to have high BPP because of a desperate side chick? Na wa! I don't really have an advise to give you but I am sure you will get it here. But please calm down!
ReplyDeleteI don't think your husband cheated on you, just throw whatever anger you have on the girl and she's not even a side chick just some cheap slut who got your husband...... Show your husband love and flaunt it on all social media to taunt the devil of a girl joor
ReplyDeleteMadam defender of the universe, defending your hubby. Your hubby is very much as guilty as the girl. I keep saying that women should stop blaming the side chicks only. He didn't know she was loose and cheap when he was getting drunk and sliding in. So much for getting drugged. If you will forgive your hubby as he says he's sorry then forgive the sidechick too as she has apologised. Let it go. You seem bent on hurting this girl, calling her out and all. Women get cheated on everyday and they deal with it rationally. Forgive both parties and take a backseat jorh!
ReplyDeletewent to FB to do small aproko.
ReplyDeleteThe girl is a friend to zinny p,our adele hello cover competitor.
She is pretty and moving from 1 hotel to another.(frm her pix oo).
Haaaaaa. Shakitiiiiiiiiiiii. Zinny P will come for you.
DeletePoster please take it easy on your husband and the side chick,and even on yourself deed has been done,you should be happy that your husband is remorseful about all this,what if he had told you to ur face that he loves the girl?form your write up your hus seems honest,and that's one of the best thing a man should poses,pls do yourself a favor and move on,yes you can,its take time and your ability to focus on more positive things, you ll be fine and your marriage will be blissful again. Errrrm but why are you dis gracing side chick by publishing her real name Nahhh? Na wahhh
ReplyDeleteI pity you. Bringing this here will only add strain to your marriage. Your hubby cried, begged, apologized, yet e no do you. Even the ashawo 5k has apologized yet you want to hang yourself. If you like give yourself HBP becase of man.
ReplyDeleteI tire o!
DeleteEsther if you read this, you are a disgrace. See the thing your husband was even sleeping with? Why do these men sink low enough to be messing around with any living walking hole. Esther face your school work and stop chasing married men for money. It is obvious that is what you do. You want to be a lawyer in the future, have some dignity little child.
ReplyDeleteYou no see say she don graduate. Abegi, blame the horseband and his wandering pri*k too. From what I can deduce from Madam's report, their affair may have been on for some time. Her declaration of love cannot seems something your husband is very privy to.
DeleteYou no see say she don graduate. Abegi, blame the horseband and his wandering pri*k too. From what I can deduce from Madam's report, their affair may have been on for some time. Her declaration of love seems like something your husband is very privy to.
DeleteMadam stop making excuses for your horseband. he knew what he was doing, not like she put a gun on his head and say hey u must fuck me, and please don't even believe that "he was drunk" story. He is been remorseful because he got caught. why calling her out publicly? It takes two to tango. If your husband want to avoid her, trust me he will. Forgive your husband if you like and leave the girl alone for your own peace of mind.
ReplyDeleteI usually do not comment but wow. I found the side chick on Facebook and she is really nothing to write home about. Looking like smellos. Anyway, back to the point. Why is she still calling your husband? Why is she still being granted audience in your home? Abi you don't know how to block somebody from your life? Be careful of these famzing babes. They are all daughters of jezebel. She wants to be in your position. BLOCK HER. I believe your husband was probably drunk because that babes face is not something anyone in their right senses will chase. Also, he did not have to tell you. However, you need to set some ground rules and my dear, take your time in forgiving him. Take a year if you like. Betrayal is painful. Sleep in a different room if you have to. At least until you can look at his face without being disgusted. These things happen in marriages. Its up to you if you want to make it work. I advice you to see a marriage counsellor as well.
ReplyDeleteSleep in different rooms bawo, that is when he will go out to cheat the more.
DeleteDear Poster may God help You to heal and forgive your husband and the so called family friend! But please your husband that was so drunk and didn't know what transpired that very night like he claimed how did come to the conclusion that she is not only sleeping around but LOOSED and her body is finished? Am not taking sides just asking questions! for your info am married too and I still believe that some men will never cheat on their wives. My husband and my Dad are perfect examples. God help you forgive so you can have peace.
ReplyDeleteMadam abeg forgive ur hubby, he felt bad n dat's y he's begging u. U even said it hs never happened in yrs so u jst dnt hv a choice bt to forgive. Ur hubby loves u
ReplyDeleteHe didn't know what he was doing. He is a baby! Long hiss! See the whole excuses you re making for your hubby. He is a kid. He was truly lured. I laugh in spanish! Shey because u caught him this time around, u think he is an angel. Long hiss again.... Annoying chronicle. The stupid girl that slept with a married man will not receive sense and stop contacting his wife!
ReplyDeleteThe girl is in love that is why she is showing herself and doesn't care. Your husband must be a good fu*k or something. Your husband still wants to remain married to you that is why he is begging. If she used jazz, you may have been pushed out of the house by now. So I doubt that.
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ReplyDeleteBut this woman sef, the way you believe and trust your husband is out of this world.
This is one of the most stupid chronicle I have ever read. If I was the side chick,I'll get the poster n even stella' s ass sued for bringing my personal life including my fbk I'd to a blog for the whole world to make fun of. And hell no,I don't do married men neither do I do runz. Wtf is all this, ur horseband is f..ing dis girl n trying covering himself. Talk the shit out of ur husband,forgive him n move on or u go and kil ur stupid self. See how u sound stupid like someone who wants to commit suicide cos of a wandering dic of a man.
ReplyDeleteDevil this,devil that.
ReplyDeleteSo esita is a devil while your hubby that broke marital vows and gbenshed an outsider is a saint? You never know your enemy yet,keep beating round the bush.
He's begging cos esita don hook am like bone for throat,how about the ones he's chopping wherever he is,since you both don't stay together?
A married man that went to the club without his wife,but felt its safe to be with another girl as company. Esita was only helping you out,now she's a devil?
Madam poster and her hubby including esita,all of una go dey alllllright!
Btw,if 5k olosho esita is cheap,then your foolish one night stand hubby is cheaper for breaking marital vows. No be only he didnt know what he was doing!I hear you,mrs saint hubby.
One sided story please. Not all BVs are stupid.
ReplyDeleteYour husband and Esther side of the story is needed before we help you call out anybody.
But I really really and really do not believe your husband is innocent in this matter.
Call your husband out, deal with him and leave side chick alone because she did not rape him.
Tell your husband to tell you the 100% truth and not 73% of the truth leaving out what he wishes... SMH.
Do u have a choice but to forgive him, or do u finally want to brk up ur family urself cos of unforgiveness. Shit happens dear, welcome to the real world, I for one love d way ur husband is so sincere to u. Wify forgive him, love him, don't give him attitude. Don't create room for him to wish he hadn't told u, dont b cold towards him such dat even if he pushes awt d named girl, he'll find succor talking to some oda hoe, or for his guys to start teasing him bout how serious he's taking u. This is a give or take case, sweet hrt d milk is spilt, he's so sorry now, dont tk advantage of it bringing it up everywhere or everytime, its wisdom. You only have d power now. Dont push him to his elastic limit, rather tk him in as a bait, from now on he'll try to mk it up to u. I'd sure tell u dese. Call him, hold his hand, look into his eyes nd smile, assure him u ve forgiven him tho its hard,tell him u love him, now let us pray, pray with him. When dis is done,nd u sure his calm u guys shld go on a play date just d both of u, have fun, nd remember y u said I do in d first place. Let him have all d fun dat way he'd tink twice. He seems like a wise man, he needs u now, nd u nid him, dont let ur pride come between. Time mks it all better bae, just b calm nd apply God's wisdom. What would a woman of virtue do?
ReplyDeleteYour hubby Sef na jew man! Why him go kast! Madam u sef calm down...I no undastand u women sef, how u go expect man wey go on a trip to jus dey without small fun...abi na only am go sleep inside hotel room. This tin him do na normal tin wey every man dey do....i wonder why him confess to u sef, na wa!
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha....
DeleteMadam,forgive your husband.He is so responsible to admit him guilt and plead for forgiveness. This might be a test of your love.remember that love does not count wrongs. Speedily forgive and forget before the hole will get wider and difficult to mend.E_hugs
ReplyDeleteNada first and foremost, I sympathize with you. I could feel your pain just by reading your chronicle.
ReplyDeleteHowever I must say this, your hubby isn't being entirely honest with you. He's lied about how it actually went down between him and the said side chick and you will see this when she sends in her right of reply.
I personally won't advice you to leave your hubby. Punish him yes, make him grovel and but ultimately, forgive him and move on.
Esther should never had slept with him but don't leave your hubby blame free.
Talk to God to breath forgiveness into your body, soul and spirit and leave judgement to him.
Karma is a bitch, ignore Esther and concentrate on your family.
Don't send her any more messages.
May Jehovah heal your home and make it into a happy one again. Amen.
Good one
DeleteIt's not an easy thing. Take your time to heal. Ask God to help you. It is well...
ReplyDeleteWoman go and sort things out with your husband and stop running after side chick.
ReplyDeleteYou must be very shameless and full of insecurity for the trash you wrote up there. You didn't hold your husband responsible for fucking another woman right ? You are even shielding your husband from wrong doings. Nonsense!
Donmayor, I got headache reading the story. Like who the hell is this husband she is so protective of?
DeleteI am pretty sure she dated married men too before she got married to know how side chics behave.
Such trash and my opinion still stands that persons identity shouldn't be up there because we are shaming someone who is innocent until proven otherwise while the woman and her husband are blameless and nameless.
I have time today.
Shut up you shameless 419ner!...
DeleteYour own disgrace is coming...idiot!...
Be like say something they worry you
DeleteHow I feel for this lady, Iv been there infact more than once, your husband is a good man for telling you all, mine is a serial cheat and liar,Iv gotten to the stage I dnt even care anymore as the love is gone, at poster, you will be fine, your husband loves and care for you and feels remorse, I know it'll be hard and cld take time but sure you'll forgive him, as for Esther Ezeakolam karma knows your address
ReplyDeleteYou can always forgive your husband...it takes the Grace of God to do that and since you have prayed just let go and let God take control. Your home will always return to the way it was before if you let God take over. Walk with him and enjoy the bliss of God. He alone can repair whatever has been damaged.
ReplyDeleteWhy the woman dey defend her husband? I know some girls can seduce, but the man had a role to play in the whole thing. Who send am go club go dey drink, n how the girl take know say him dey that club come dey insist say she must come? Who force the man drink alcohol(even that one na lie). The man has always known about how the girl feels n took advantage of that.. he was drunk but know say her punnany dey loose? Madam u just use Stella to shame someone for u cos ur bitter ur husband fucked her. I am a man. U can't say it's cos u were drunk u slept with her, if the girl was randomly at the club n they met n he was already drunk, would have made more sense..
ReplyDeleteMadam allow us hear word, ur horseband had a one night stand and so let it go already. "Drama queen"
ReplyDeleteDon't worry na,when you get married, your husband will also have a 1 night stand and you'll know how nice it is...ok?
DeleteMadam before I comment, please send us your horsebands Facebook name too so we can judge the matter very well.
ReplyDeleteMadam poster, I know it hurts but Pls let it go. He has apologised and he even openly confessed. What more do u want???? Lots of married couple ve gone thru worse n come back, yours is just minor as far as am concerned. It's in d past and should remain in d past. Not like he got her pregnant and u ve a reminder in a child. Your hubby seems nice and soft, if u like Dnt forgive him and treat him right, another lady would do so and truly snatch your hubby from u.
ReplyDeleteYou didn't even need to call her out self, by doing so it would make her feel important, like it's a big deal and still causing issues in your marriage. So trash it and move on.
Madam are your saying your husband is innocent in all this? didn't he pay for the hotel where they slept? is he a baby? was he dragged there? Blame it on the ashawo and alcohol all you want, but your husband is 100% responsible for his actions. SDK you are not being fair here, if you have shown the ashawo's name, you should also show the cheating husband's name because they are equally guilty. And you seriously think your husband is cheating for the first time in 7 years? My friend, wake up!
ReplyDeleteAbi o. It takes two to tango
DeleteI swear! U made a good point! Annoying chronicle. Her saint husband. Mtchew see excuses... Like he was a baby nd the girl a witch. Na so!
DeleteIn short, I concur.
Delete4give and forget biko whots der? U wanna bear grudges 4eva? Lyk u not living under mercy from God? Or u don't sin? Its hard I understand but let go cus u don't ur marriage will b in mess due to lack of trust even wen u not with ur hubby u think he mite b doing somfin else just 4gve and 4get pls no marriage is perfect he even needed to tell u about it that shows how much he loves you,unlike some odas who will kip it a secret...just 4give den try to 4get by acting like it Neva happened.
ReplyDeleteAbeg u should be happy that ur husband is sorry. Then just continue praying to God to protect ur home from evil people like that girls.
ReplyDeleteGhen Ghen! This movie will be hot *GrabsPopcornAndZobo
ReplyDelete*On a calmer note
Madam please forgive.
Cry, shout,fume,punish him,do all you want BUT let go.
Your man feels miserable already,he damned the consequence and opened up to you...please forgive him and help him get out of this phase sane.
Just make sure he hears small nwinnnnn from you before you forgive fully sha,so he will think twice and flee from all appearances of adultery!
After everything, side chick will turn d devil,now u believed ur hubby more because he was crying and rolling on d floor, he wot tell u all d promises he made to d poor girl in dis hard times..... Please d babe is sorry and has apologized, hold ur hubby very well, dis is not his first time, drug ko, hotel ne
ReplyDeleteYes he was drugged and he feels sorry about it..try and forgive him no matter how hard it seems..since he has blocked d girl everywhere den forget d 5k slut mbok..from your story he loves u so much,mistakes are bound to happen
ReplyDeleteEberechukwu Berry Igbojekwe ....your days are numbered too
ReplyDeleteYour husband is as guilty as hell, he told you cos maybe the girl was getting too heavy and felt she will tell you eventually, giving her 5k dnt seems like a mistake, how cld he be drugged when he remember her body is gone, how did he gets his num to the extend they talk well and he knows he was at a club and joined him, lies lies lies, it was all arranged abeg, but sha the girl ugly no be small, see rough face and body, why do some men decend so low, you shouldn't have brought this here to this blog, now the whole world will know what's going on, Esther Ezeakolam has deactivated her fb page, IG is private, na wa for that bv that made the comment of her sleeping with family friend husband, it will take time but you'll forgive your husband atleast he told you and you didn't hear it from the Esther girl, stop defending him, he knows what he was doing and I'm sure not is first time too if this could go smoothly like this, abeg your husband they experience for that field he even sabi how much most f this girls gets paid, my thinking is he want to chop and clean mouth but side chick they form love and he felt its only a matter of time befor you know so he told you first
ReplyDeleteMadam poster,i need you to display your husband instagam handle here with yours if you have one. How could you hide your husband how's guilty but calling out side chick for the world to know. This is just the beginning if your woe if you keep making excuses for your husband.
ReplyDeleteWho knows if you have fucked another woman's husband too at a point in your life. Stupid woman with misplaced priority.
Madam you talk too much. You have defended your husband and given us reasons to show that he adores you. Haba! Kilode! This guy even confessed to you and showed remorse in every possible way. He has begged and even involved people. Madam, don't let the devil use you. Forgive your hubby and move on. You said it yourself that the girl is a devil n is out to wreck your home. Do you want to give her a chance? Stop being unnecessarily stubborn and strong headed...you are giving room for more issues in the marriage and this is what the Esther lady wants. Forgive and embrace your hubby so that you both can ward off this chic permanently.(This advice is given based on your chronicle). Waiting for right of reply.
ReplyDeleteHahahaaaa madam with 5k husband. I laugh in Hindustani.
ReplyDelete1st time in 7 years you say? Lmafao!!! Abi, 1st time he was caught? If your husband is ever looking for an extra job, please tell him to join Nollywood.
He shouldn't just roll on the floor, he should fly on a broom to improve the script.
Aunty,you are too naive to be living in 2016. Leave sidechick alone,dem plenty like bedbugs. Attack the root of the problem. After every every you go dey alright, no worry.
My regards to Mr 5K. Lmao!!!
But women are so gullible sha, no wonder they say your gender has fish brain. So a man told you all this and you believe.
ReplyDeleteChai,please use your brain for more than gathering dust.
Your horseband no sabi lie well. Tell him to go for tutorials.
All of you saying trash here should shut up!...
ReplyDeleteWho gave the Esther girl right to contact the madam of the house telling her she loves her husband...
What rubbish?...
God knows I can't fight my husband because of a side chick,instead,I will fish the girl out and deal with her my own way!...
I don't care if my husband told you fake stories about me..I will surely deal with you!...
Madam see d way you jejely remove ur husband from blame. Na WA for you. If d case happened to be you, would your husband still put you at home.
ReplyDeleteLet me wait for side chiken response
Stop blaming d girl. Dem say make you no follow hubby go club. Una too slack too much
Truly nonsense woman. Leave d husband from blame. Yeye woman
ReplyDeleteI hate women like this; I swear. A marriage of 7yrs and you have the guts to bring your issues to the public ? Name and shaming a girl who was on her own when your husband decided to wiggle "prick" Anyways, if I were the relative of this girl, I will make sure I serve you with equal measure of disgrace and name shaming.. Don't throw a stone when you live in a glass house. Marriage is for matured adults and not for kids.. Whoever told you that any man is a saint has told you the biggest lie ever. We all cheat Ok! The difference is that married men shouldn't keep relationship because Ofcourse you can't love two women at the same time. But a prick can go in and out of anywhere.. "Just5k.com" lol !!
ReplyDeletePeople please the liberalization of the Internet does not mean that we should wash our clean or dirty linen outside. Family is FAMILY, if you or your husband is a superstar and this kind of publication can further deepen your popularity, then it's a different thing.. Tiwa OR TeeBillion! But I guess you are not.. This is how some of you bully-ladies automatically begin to assume the manly position in your marriages. You just sounded like the man of the house. You aren't even peturbed of the broken state of your husband rather you further subject him to Internet bashing and mockery inter alios!
Wicked woman! Humble yourself, be sober, stop interfering and interceding..Allow the man to clean up his mess and move on. You have two options, move out and allow the new girl to move in or move on because this isn't the first time, he isn't the first person.. We all constantly CHEAT, PERIOD!!
Madam poster am just laughing at ur naiveity. Ur husband was drugged with cocaine abi just alcohol? Yet he brought out money to pay for hotel room in a club becos I kW a side chic of 5k wont afford dat, he remembered to buy condom and probably worn it when he had an erection. I kw someone dat is drugged or drunk won't even be aware of his environment talk more of having good memory of wat transpired. If ur husband didn't have the mind to cheat on u, he wouldn't even get drunk in 1st place. Even when drunk instead of paying for the hotel room and condom, he would have picked a cab home or talk to those his friends to drop him home. He cheated and u caught him then he is now shifting d blame to d side chic and u joined him to call d gal out. Forgive him if u want to, of course u don't have any choice other than dat. And pls leave d side chic alone in fact she deserves an apology from u. Meanwhile tell ur husband to stop washing his dirty linen outside. This matter is between u two and not for family members or pastors or even church members. One day pastor will use u guys and preach for church.
ReplyDeleteFoe the 1st time, I agreed with Doppleganger and some others. I am sorry for yoy lady, you are protecting your husband as if he was dragged to go to club, rent hotel and buy condom. He has done it before and he'll do it again.
ReplyDeleteThis wife is soooo naive and gullible.i know her husband very well through a colleague at work he is dating, clubs and sleeps with.am surprised she came all out to defend d he goat
ReplyDeletesilly dog
So we still have mumu wives in this century, i mean even as a bv? With all we read and learn from here! Iyawo your stupidity is in another level. In case you don't know, your husband girlfriend is not only Esther, there are others, you trust your husband then you didn't follow him to the club. Madam you are mad.
ReplyDeleteMadam,Take it to God and let him handle it.
ReplyDeleteMadam, try talk true small. You snooped and found out about this girl. Hope this your Chidi is not just a 'fineboy husband' with nothing in his pocket with D way you claimed he has been crying and begging. Abi, that na part of the lie way you blow us?
ReplyDeleteMrs cheating husband, you must be delusional, gullible and naïve. Do you really think your husband is cheating for the first time in seven years? SMH.
ReplyDeleteMy friend's husband sent me a friend request and has been messaging me since 2010 and I accepted his request early this year cos I was just in good spirits. immediately I accepted his request, fb messages started flooding in and that day I was BORED so I was responding. we ended up chatting for over an hour during which time I realized we all went to the same secondary school but he was several years ahead of our set and was friends with his wife's elder brothers and that was how they reconnected and got married. I felt safe and let my guard down and didn't hesitate to give him my number when he asked. our fb chats moved on to calls and watsapp chats meanwhile my friend, his wife, acknowledged when I accepted him on fb. one evening he started singing another tune and I was very disappointed. he said no one needs to know cos I am matured (his wife's mate), single and certainly need help to ease my sexual itch. at that point I stopped deleting our chats and started backing them up because I now one day, he may turn and say I was the one who asked him out. even after saying an emphatic NO to his request, he continued pressuring me, to see him, be with him and all. He would ask me to chose any hotel I want anywhere in the world, he even asked me to take time off work and just be with him, talk about temptation. I blocked him on watsapp and blocked his line too but he keeps calling with other numbers and have gone back to sending fb messages (which I am also saving) God help him if his wife stumbles onto any of these msgs and she decides to do what madam poster has done without consulting me? all hell will break lose. Meanwhile his wife is very beautiful and fit even after 3 lovely kids. I am not ugly but I can truthfully say his wife is more beautiful so I kept asking him to treasure what he has and imagine if he finds out his wife is asking other men out. If I was that type, I would have gone to chop and clean mouth because he is rich but because I know I don't deserve to be a third wheel, I have resisted. By the way, this has nothing to do with God, I am not even a church goer. I just know what I am worth and what I want. Why am I telling this story? Who knows, if I had accepted his request, maybe his wife would have sent Stella her own chronicles and Stella would have instantly called me out and left the man out.
There are good men out there and there are sloppy, irresponsible, cheats too. There are good women out there and there are women who will willing, stupidly do whatever they feel will hurt a family (agents of destruction). Some also do it for financial gain. whatever the case, two parties are always involved. if a woman seduces you, respect yourself and respect your wife. if a man entices you, respect yourself as a woman and respect the man you will marry in the future. Some chronicles are just very annoying and this is certainly one of them. and I am angry at the wife for even putting this out here without apportioning any blame to the husband. I am angry at the husband because he is a sleazy cheat (what do you expect when you go to a club and drink yourself to stupor for pete's sake) I am angry at the club lady for selling herself short, have some self respect PLEASE and I am not happy with SDK for being one sided. be fair Stella.
My 2 cents.
I know you're hurting but you should be rational, try to forgive and move on. Your husband had apologized, rolled on the floor,wailing and all.. the girl has, even if she didn't mean it, but she respected you enough to fake an apology, What more do you what? She could be apologetic about it you know.. what would you have done? You can't undo the event,just forgive and move on. What do you hope to archive by bringing this story here? You just opened your family up for ridicule hope you know that. You think you shaming the girl? Any shit thrown at that girl's gonna touch your husband too. How do you think he'll feel when people start trolling him on social media and calling him names? How would you feel? Or you think no one would find him? Smh. All am saying is, this wasn't a good move. And no, I don't think your husband is innocent in all this. Probably why he's rolling all over the floor... from guilt. Forgive! That's the only way your angry will go away. Don't use your hand to destroy your home, biko forgive while they are both apologetic.
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