How do you make a man tell you how he feels?Make him Jealous perhaps?
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
DIABETIC BOYFRIEND PROPOSES
Stellastica..watagwan.i sent in chronicles earlier this year,and bv's
gave me the best advice ever(insulted the hell out of me though) but i
sure received sense from thiere coments..please i need advice again as
i am confused.my boyfriend has asked me to marry him, but i am reluctant because of two things...
1.he is diabetic..
2. he doesnt want anyone in his house,just his wife and kids,he
doesn't even want a help.i told him that it might not be easy doing
chores when we start having kids,and he told me not to worry,that he
can always help out with chores(mind you,he does house chores
perfectly well,we split the work in his house whenever i visit,and he
is not dirty).
I love him so much and i really want to be with him,but
diabetes is kinda scary to me.
bv's biko do you think its alright to go ahead with the marriage plans?.
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
RELATIONSHIP FOR SEX?
Good day Stella, I'm a regular blog visitor ......
So I met this guy in February, I was skeptical to date because of past experiences.we had sex in march and sometime in April he told me he has a girlfriend but he really likes me. I was pissed and ended whatever we had.
Fast forward to June, he comes back begging saying he broke up with his girlfriend. Things have been fine since then although we see once every two weeks because he travels. The problem now is he has refused to make our relationship exclusive. He said we are good together the way we are, that dating might change everything.
I think he's still in contact with his ex. Stella do you think he just wants me for sex or that he might actually like me for real.. PS i think I'm in love with him.. Hide my identity. Thanks.
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NARRATIVE NUMBER THREE
MR A VERSUS MR B
Thank a lot stella for creating this platform......
Have know mr A for over 15 years we started as next door neighbors but we lost contact when him and his family packed out after his father's death....faith brought us together five(5)years ago and we dated for 2years and some months(tho we never dated when we were both neighbors but he said he has always had a crush on me)
Have know mr A for over 15 years we started as next door neighbors but we lost contact when him and his family packed out after his father's death....faith brought us together five(5)years ago and we dated for 2years and some months(tho we never dated when we were both neighbors but he said he has always had a crush on me)
After dating for 2years and some months i had to break up with him because he hardly calls,chats and no longer acts like a boyfriend but he claimed it was because if his ICAN program(even after the break up we are still close).....
So late last year i met Mr B who is also asking me out(he is caring and also nice like mr A).
iIt's been over a year since Mr A and i broke up and we have both been single since then.Of recent i noticed Mr A still loves me but doesn't know how to say it maybe he feels i will decline..
Now the question is should i date Mr B and forget about Mr A or wait till Mr A says whats on his mind and how do i make Mr A say his mind quick.....
iIt's been over a year since Mr A and i broke up and we have both been single since then.Of recent i noticed Mr A still loves me but doesn't know how to say it maybe he feels i will decline..
Now the question is should i date Mr B and forget about Mr A or wait till Mr A says whats on his mind and how do i make Mr A say his mind quick.....
thanks in advance for the advice
LMAO@say his mind quick!..
Being diabetic ain't a death sentence. If u having second thoughts cos he's diabetic, then park, as for househelp, that's nothing, by d time work overwhelms him, he'll bow. I don't even c a problem here sef.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, diabetes plus an evil introverted nature? Abeg babe dump the idiot.
DeleteOnly one person so many baggages.
Number 2 are you a fool, what is your problem going back to him, so you mean all the while you never met any guys that asked you out abeg go for deliverance.
The 3rd person is suffering from same thing, no body to gbensh you Cox how can you still be thinking of a guy for over 150 ears, so nobody again for area, he has had what he wanted and he has moved on. Plz MA, move on.
@poster 1,diabetes can be managed,but its all about money too..cos what A diabetic patient takes need money to be purchased...
DeleteApart from that,if you love him without reservations and know truly well that you can cope with him when you are both married;Fine!! But if you cant;move on and just dont get married to him out of pity or because you have known him for A long period of time..The choice is still yours..
Marriage should be Enjoyed;not Endured!!
@poster 2,when A man is really in love with A lady;he would always want to flaunt her to the world..cos you just feel complete in an unusual way..depending on the individual tho!!
Sorry to say,but you are the side-chic here and he just wants you for bedmatics sake...
@poster 3,if mr A really "needs" you back;he would surely take the step and speak up...if he was able to ask u out during the first leg;whats depriving him of doing it all over again?? Or did you suddenly started biting?
Please focus on Mr B if he has all the qualities you soo desire in A man..
@MARTINS ABOY
Poster one drop his details pls, I want him if you don't. Atleast he will be careful with his health and not drink n smoke n flirt around, all these healthy complete guys have shown me Shege, omashe o!
DeleteDon't marry him, dump him,he will die soon.
DeletePoster 1
DeleteDiabetes isn't a death sentence
It can be PERFECTLY MANAGED
the truth is that it's hereditary considering his is early onset or type 1 diabetes
But if you're born again , then you have the blood of Jesus flowing through your veins and that of your babies ...and so it can be taken care of
Poster 2 : please when you stop fornicating without caution then I can advice you.
Don't you know sex creates a bond. ...soul tie.
Keep on mixing spirit . Jisike
And btw. ..leave that man , he would cheat on you
Poster 3 :.I dey confused 😩😩.
Pray and follow your spirit
We can only type "follow Mr A."
And "leave Mr B " , but it's you that would live with them .
Ask the Holy Spirit to speak to you.
Bye baby
My boyfriend who is hypertensive at the age of 34 nko
DeleteYou are very stupid. So if someone advises you like that, you will be happy. Onukwu.
Delete1. If you love him marry him.
Delete2. Run baby run!
3. Kontinue waiting if you are a waitress. Mtcheeew
My husband promised me b4 marriage dat he will help me with house chores. After one baby, I now look like....... I wash,cook for his 2 brothers and take care of my baby. I don't even have time for myself not to talk more of having sex. I just praying for God to send me a miracle b4 I ....
DeletePoster 1,Diabetes? It has no cure ooooh. And he may give up the ghost when you least expected it.
ReplyDeleteI really try to ignore u @James. But rather than spend time on dis blog, u should really try to develop urself and ur I.Q. I'm pretty sure u know close to nothing about diabetes. Ur stupidity shocks me each day. There is just no getting used to it cos u try 2 out do ur stupidity everyday and it works. Anyway, read books and not just blogs.
DeleteUr a big fool my mum has been diabetic for over 20 years now, he should just take the right medication and he will be fine don't mind dis mumu.
DeleteIdiot! Na your brother go give up the ghost! How dare you?
DeleteThe way you will die of foolishness when SDK BVs least expect
DeleteShut up!!!. There re pple who live well with diabetes as far as its controlled.
DeletePoster 1: my dear if u love him as much as u claim, diabetes wldnt hinder u. It can b controlled.
Done make me abuse you abeg.
DeleteM not used to it.
You re now God baa?
You are really clueless. Yes poster,it has no cure. But then it can be controlled. Unlike High blood pressure, you can't have shock when you hear bad news. Once he can control what he eats. He has to limit his intake of sugar. Take his medicines regularly and he can even use insulin. I think that is even the best because you don't have to take drugs all the time, just watch your urine, check your your status. They don't fall sick all the time. My dear, i don't think you have a problem, but if you are not convinced, that means you telling us you love him very much was not true. Pray and let God show you what to do but medically, you don't have a problem.
DeleteYou are really clueless. Yes poster,it has no cure. But then it can be controlled. Unlike High blood pressure, you can't have shock when you hear bad news. Once he can control what he eats. He has to limit his intake of sugar. Take his medicines regularly and he can even use insulin. I think that is even the best because you don't have to take drugs all the time, just watch your urine, check your your status. They don't fall sick all the time. My dear, i don't think you have a problem, but if you are not convinced, that means you telling us you love him very much was not true. Pray and let God show you what to do but medically, you don't have a problem.
Delete*that
DeleteDullard
DeleteMentally Retarded..
DeleteI know people who are diabetic and manage it well. They live healthy, productive lives.
DeleteLol@ he may give up the ghost.Poster pls don't mind him if you love him enough marry him. Diabetes mellitus can be managed.
DeleteToday's chronicles get k leg jare
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Na why I no won put mouth cos even me seff confuse for advice ....e no gree come today😩
Delete@Ibukunoluwa, I'm telling you, just don't know how to advice any one of them
Delete*Larry was here*
As in eh, I no know where to start from😶
DeleteNo be only k leg sef the thing carry bow leg join
DeletePoster 1,tell ur boyfrd to use abeere nd garlic for his diabettes,it will reduce...it is an herb,aftr peeln d garlic nd d abeere soak it inside water fr 2days,aftr den he shld b drinking it,go to all those herb seller nd ask fr abeere,thou it is bitter bt it wil reduce wen he drinks it constantly.
DeleteJehovah fix them chronicle writers..
ReplyDeleteBaba God pick up the call.
You love him as BOYFRIEND but can't marry him as Husband?
ReplyDeleteSome people head de shake o. If it were the other way, all dem FEMINISTS on this blog would attack the guy for ''westing'' her time while dating...
Poster 1:
ReplyDeleteYou do not sound like you love this guy. If he is your brother and his fiancee sent in this kind of chronicle, how will you respond? Why do you need house help; for another chronicle of "her skate was browsed"? And you said the man can do chores. Think young lady.
She needs a house help cos by the time they start having kids the pressure will be much on her. He will later leave all the chores and kids to her later on. Is it not men
DeletePoster 1 you don't have a problem. What has diabetes got to do with love? He is managing it fine I presume and yes it is hereditary but I still believe he will live very long as long as he is managing it well and it depends on his diabetes type ( type A or B)
ReplyDeleteHe can do house chores which is perfect, so many men can't. I want to believe that when kids come in, he'd find reasons why you should have extra help but for now don't push it till you get to that bridge.
Poster 2 you're the side chic, he didn't break up with his girlfriend.
Poster 3 when you find Mr. C let us know.
Lol...
DeleteDope!!!
Lmao @ when u find C let us know😂
DeleteD nko?😂lol
I just love d way u reason. Love it! Love it! Love it!
DeleteNo be small Mr. C stupid chronicle.
DeleteLol @when you find Mr C, that's the best answer
DeleteI love this doppelganger
DeleteGbam.. Poster 3..Mr C loading 😂😂
DeleteNo mind all the these Mr A Mr B story tellers. Whenever I see the Alphabet boyfriends, I jump and pass.
DeleteNo mind all the these Mr A Mr B story tellers. Whenever I see the Alphabet boyfriends, I jump and pass.
DeleteAll these chronicles shaa..baba God pls interval.
ReplyDeleteIntervene ko
DeleteInterval kwa??? Hian!
Delete...Intravenous ni
DeleteCyndilicious jus made d gbagaun list!
DeletePoster two...another naive woman. Just enjoy d sex and let us hear word.
ReplyDeleteMumu poster 1,
ReplyDeleteDiabetic is managable!,..
I'm sure he is FAT and old...marry him joor!...
Poster 2,
Play your cards wella!,..and yes he is not only dating his ex but several other women...
Use pidgeon of him if you want fast action!...
Poster 3,
You are an ode!,.,
Can't you date both of them with others at the same time?...
Don't put all your eggs in one basket!,..
Lol. This your advise dikwa somehow
DeleteLinda!you get time dey advice.
DeleteVery annoying chronicle.
Stella refused to post my comment,the three of them should just line up for their e-slap for making me waste 2mins of my life reading trash!
ShanzEmpire
Mad woman, Oloshi, Ewu Gambia.
DeleteAbeg nor kill me with laugh this afternoon.
DeleteHahahahaha, Queen Queen, Idi egwu. I always look up for your response on chronicle, make poster 3 date both of them and add others on the waiting list right? Onye egbuwa isi.
DeleteBut Ada their nothing funny about her response. Madam, you can't keep talking to people anyhow when you don't even know a thing. Well, take your time. When you're on SDK blog round the clock and using pigeons on people upandan, what do you know???
DeletePoster 2, u r just his Toto supplier. Receive sense
ReplyDeleteKikikikikikikikikikikikiki. I love James.
DeletePoster 1 I will never advice my enemy to marry a diabetic. Except after years of marriage he fell ill and was diagnosed of diabetes, then they can both manage the sickness. Before marriage le boo must do diabetes n Hbp tests o. No time for story!
ReplyDeleteIs diabetics a death sentence? It can be managed madam
DeleteSmall brain, go and ask God for forgiveness before diabetes become ur potion.
DeleteYou. Both will not understand. Babe don't mind them o. Run for your life
DeleteI've been diabetic since age 8. Well controlled and managed. I'm very active and also health conscious I I work out at least 4 days a week, don't drink.... Well, I drink socially but usually opt for the soft drinks, water or iced tea when we go out, I don't smoke either. I look way younger than my age, slim, nice portion, pretty face etc. I have low sugar once in a while when I've worked out too much so I keep mini chocolates or sugar cubes with me at all times. I have this colleague who is always making light of my diabetes, he'll make jokes whenever he sees me eating chocs for my hypoglaecemia and announcing in a loud voice to everyone's hearing that I'm about to go on a diabetic shock etc and laugh it off. I always think "it's my fault that I told you". Couple of months later, he got sick and was diagnosed with diabetes of all things. He came back to work and said he remembers how he used to make light of my medical condition only to be diagnosed with the exact same thing, now he's having to ask me about things and gets scared when he starts feeling a certain way because it's all new to him. At least I've had my whole life to get used to things and have even develops a healthy lifestyle so it's like 2nd nature to me. He on the other hand now has to give up a lot of things he's used to enjoy and completely change his lifestyle in a very hard way because he used to go out a lot and drink and smoke. Now he's mostly depressed about the way things are with him. I still try to encourage him and give him tips here and ther. Mind you, his is type 2, not even type 1. But he doesn't know how to handle it. I'm saying all this because it's a very huge lesson even for me because I was shocked when I heard he was diagnosed with the same diabetes. It should also be a lesson for people who jugde or make light of other people's situations that is not within their control to start with. You can have your opinions on who you would marry etc but be careful how you talk about people who never asked for certain things but are yet dealing with it to the best of their abilities. I don't know, I might even have your kind of opinion about marrying a diabetic if I wasn't diabetic but one thing I know I wouldn't do is to talk about them as if they were leppers and subhuman to me. You never know what can happen to you the very next day talkless of sometime in the future. God bless.
DeleteAnon 23:58, it is well with you in Jesus name amen.
Delete@ anon 23:58, Just read your write-up, yur're so brave n courageous, God almighty will Heal you completely...am sure your comment have given Hope to some people. God Bless, Heal & Keep You anon...
Delete@ Anon 23:58, just read your write-up now. You're so brave & courageous may God Heal You completely...am sure your comment have given Hope to so many diabetic people. God Bless, Heal and Keep you anon....cheers
DeleteAmen. Thanks Olaide and Cissy, God bless you two.
DeletePoster 2 receive sense.
ReplyDeletePoster 3 and 1, do whatever pleases you!
Poster 1:
ReplyDeleteAssuming this guy shows you his account balance and assets and it totals 1 million dollars ; will you ask these questions? Won't you be scheming on "let him die quickly so they will all be mine"? Your love for this guy is fake and hypocritical; repent of it and marry him or leave him alone.
Even you annon... if you see 1 million dollars account balance, won't you scheme to marry him?
DeleteAbeg swerve!
@poster1 gtfoh,is being diabetic a death sentence.
ReplyDeletePoster2 you're dating yourself
Poster3 maybe he's not just in2 you as much as u claim
Today chronicles just make me tire. Very simple n easy to manipulate.
ReplyDeleteUna no get sense?
*flings towel*
Women normally have light brain, that's why it's easy for us to use their heads.
DeleteI am really at a loss on how peeps can comfortably LAMUSHUANG just after a month of friendship..... BBez keep catching feelings and pricks while dudes use ya all to ease their nocturnal needs......I am OUT
ReplyDeleteLmao😂😂😂 please what is Lamushuang? Funny comment
DeleteLow moral
DeleteLack of the fear of God
Her own better self what of on first date
ReplyDeletePoster 1 - Clearly you’re so bored and jobless. Diabetics does not kill anyone if well managed. Since you’re bored, why not educate yourself on the subject.
Poster 2 - Only you can answer your question. What does your instincts tell you?
Poster 3 - Ermmmm I don forget you chronicle.. Just manage him like that or dump him.
Poster one the question is what do you want in man or in a husband?
ReplyDeleteN3, why not ask him politely n tricky way? N2, u are just is sex toy. N1, can't remember again but I know that love conquers all. What if u are in his shoes n he left u bc of an ailment u av, will u be happy? Do unto others...
ReplyDeleteThe lady either the diabetic bf. I don't think him being diabetic is a problem on its own. But 10% of diabetic sufferers have a family member with the same disease. Check the family and make your findings, especially for your children. As for the house chores, hmmm..: are u a 9-5er, or you work for yourself? If you work for yourself then you can arrange your schedule. But if you're a corporate lady, hmmm...: I think he should be more understanding. And even let you get a come-and-go maid.
ReplyDeletePoster 2- receive sense and drop that baggage.
Poster 3- when you can write a more coherent chronicle let us know.
*with the diabetic boyfriend
DeletePoster 1 marry him if he's a good man and always mind his diets
ReplyDeleteMake sure he eats healthy ( who doesn't even need healthy meals anyway?)
Poster 2
Leave that time waster biko!!!
Poster 3
I don't understand what you're saying
Lmao @ I dont understand what you are saying. Kwakwakwakwa
DeleteNa knock sure pass for them.
I'm even surprised you understood the first two.
Shitty chronicles.
ShanzEmpire
We live in a world where marriage is more important than love, universities more than knowledge and religion more than God
ReplyDeleteYh ryt!!! You said it all!
DeleteIs it that ladies do not think again these days? which kind chronicles be these ones nah... one say him like am as boyfriend even with is diabetic situation but can't marry him as husband..
ReplyDeleteThe other say she used her hands end the relationship but she de wait for the same guy to tell her his mind again....
Chai, i tire for women..
Let me wait for JAMES to comment...
Poster 3, stop dulling. Just ask him if he will like u guys to resume gbenshing from where you stopped.
ReplyDeleteIt seems he is the timid type.
Pls can I get to know u? U always crack me up with ur comments 😂😂😂😂
DeleteLmao. James james!
DeleteYou ppl have made it a point of duty to come here and ask childish questions,like common sense is far from you,this is the kind of replies you'd be getting.
Dumbfucks.
ShanzEmpire
Poster two you should date him but close your legs and pretend to be mermaid.
ReplyDeleteGive him a chance but never you cabash him no matter what.
Tie legs for wetin? Why won't they cabash? Naim brother e dey date? What's a relationship without a good sex? African ladies sha and their mentality about sex...sex is a thing to be enjoyed if you free yourself. Stop attaching unnecessary importance to it and stop feeling used and dumped when you open and it doesn't work out. Enjoy the pleasure and flow with the moment. Who mermaid style epp? Does it guarantee a proposal? Mtchewwwww
DeleteMeanwhile...i don't cabash anyhow. I only do it with someone am in a relationship with.
Poster 1, its obvious u dont love the guy else you wont be asking cos he has diebeties. Poster2, abeg choose a struggle joo, learn to love urself abeg and leave unserious men alone, poster3, if a man loves and wants you, he would talk, abeg use ur tongue to count your teeth
ReplyDeletePoster 1,you have no problem. Your man loves you,he's not planning to bring home two grown up men to come live with you and force you to have sex under the duvet like nollywood movies,he's willing to help with the chores,and if in future,the chores get too much,I'm sure you guys will find a way. Why are you complaining? Is the diabetes that bad,is he always in and out of the hospital,doesn't he take his drugs (shots). Then what is the problem? Say yes already and send us an invite soon. Poster 2,it seems he's using you for sex,take a walk,give your love to someone who will appreciate it. Poster 3,I'd prefer you stay with Mr B if he has good intentions and if you have to heave him,look for someone else,don't go back to your vommit.
ReplyDeletePoster 2:
ReplyDeleteMet in february
Had sex in March
Broke up in April (fool)
Reconnected in May
Tummy balloned up in June
Dumped in July
Sulking and depressed in Aug
Aborted in Sept.
Suicidal in Oct.
Died/Narrowly escaped death in Nov. (Gen. 9:6)
December; (if not repented); in eternal hell.
DO YOU SEE YOUR GRAPH/TIMELINE OF THE PATH YOU HAVE TAKEN?; is that what you want?
Kikikiki 😂
DeleteIdi mean !!!
I fell off my bed laughing
Hahahah...was thinking of commenting same
DeleteIts like that "Solomon Grundy" nursery rhymes lol.
Poster 2:
ReplyDeleteOf course everything is good as you are, as long as he is having sex; he will also dump you like refuse you've made yourself.
Poster 1,dont marry him...abeg run
ReplyDeletePoster 2,common sense isn't so common,He still in contact with his ex,babe fine your square root..
If you guys can't go exclusive then he shld forget about the relationship
Poster 3 no comment
No be only Faith brought you together... Faith ko, ELiza ni. My dear, Fate brought you together. you are welcome in advance
ReplyDeleteKai nah😂 u wicked jor😂😂
DeleteThe three posters receive sense in Jesus name
ReplyDeleteYou guyzs are dating yourselves. Chikena!
@ poster one, My husband said the same thing while we were dating. Today we have a live-in nanny (age 45) who goes home to her family every weekend and resumes sunday by 7pm.
ReplyDeleteHow did I do it? I pretended to be sick for two days, while he attended to our baby. Thats when he knew it was so much work.
Ps, I was still on maternity leave. He then suggested the weekly live-in nanny cos he knew having to wake earlier to bath and feed baby would be more work when i resume. Trust me, we felt relieved and I no longer complained, as the stress was off me.
I no come this world come suffer.
lol
IF YOU OVER-STRESS YOURSELF AS A CAREER WOMAN, WIFE AND NURSING MOTHER, NO ONE WOULD SEND YOU, NOT EVEN YOUR MAN. LET MONEY TAKE THAT STRESS AWAY
Lol @ pretended to be sick for two days
DeleteWisdom at Work...
Poster three how sure are you that Mr A still loves you? Never you assume love, marriage or relationship.
ReplyDeleteIs very possible he still want to fuck your Toto the more to make sure it sacks before he can go and marry a virgin n dump you since you are ulgy and fat that you cannot move on with your life with Mr B.
You saw bed and you are asking how can you pack up the bed and sleep on the floor.
@ poster one, My husband said the same thing while we were dating. Today we have a live-in nanny (age 45) who goes home to her family every weekend and resumes sunday by 7pm.
ReplyDeleteHow did I do it? I pretended to be sick for two days, while he attended to our baby. Thats when he knew it was so much work.
Ps, I was still on maternity leave. He then suggested the weekly live-in nanny cos he knew having to wake earlier to bath and feed baby would be more work when i resume. Trust me, we felt relieved and I no longer complained, as the stress was off me.
I no come this world come suffer.
lol
IF YOU OVER-STRESS YOURSELF AS A CAREER WOMAN, WIFE AND NURSING MOTHER, NO ONE WOULD SEND YOU, NOT EVEN YOUR MAN. LET MONEY TAKE THAT STRESS AWAY
Madam you are the real mvp
DeletePoster 3;
ReplyDeleteYou have already concluded that "marriage is what's on his mind".
Remember, ladies always think marriage/kids. MEN ALWAYS THINK SEX.
so, keep the vagina closed and hidden where the Lord has hidden it until marriage. Else, your life becomes a recycling chronicle.
What to do: Pray to the God; Jesus who knows the hearts of men and he will show you both men.
Chronicles and more chronicles.
ReplyDeleteWhat nonsense?
ReplyDeleteThe three of you should line up for your E-slap!
Now this is 2mins of my life I will never get back. Sobs*
Poster one:
ReplyDeleteAsk yourself this question, what if you get married to a very healthy man, and tomorrow he becomes diabetic, hypertensive or comes down with something else before he's 40, would you just up and leave?
If the answer is yes, then, there you have it.
It's a somewhat frightening situation, granted, but diabetes isn't a death sentence. If he's very conscious of his health, he'll live to an old age. I know what I'm talking about. Seen a lot of cases.
Then, your problem about him not wanting a help, why is that?
I thought that that's every woman's dream?
A husband who's ready to help out with chores, so much so that having strangers in the house, won't be necessary?
Oh well, what do I know?
But if this guy is all of that and more, then you've got to really have a rethink and not let go of a good man, for stuff that you can find a way around.
Poster two :
Don't worry, when he's done catching his fun with you, he'll dump you like it's hot.
Sit there and be asking obvious 'kweshions.'
Poster three:
I would have thought that for someone you'd dated before,that you'll have no problem asking him to define the relationship, or wanting to know what his stand really is.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Diabetes is a death sentence dear. It isn't instant and that's the only difference
DeleteLol ...Not again. Long epistle
Delete@ideato, diabetes is a disadvantage, and not a death sentence..
DeleteIdeato liar, my dad has been diabetic before I was born, we are 6 I number n my dad is 76yrs, n he still drives his car by himself n I'm sure he's still gbenshing.
DeleteAunty Epistle....good afternoon ma.
DeleteIdeato, no, it's not.
DeleteI'm guessing you don't know any elderly person who has lived with it for decades. Read up carefully on it if you can, and you'll know more about it.
They can live as long as 80 years and more, depending on how well they manage it, and the type too.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Ideato. ..it isn't a death sentence at all !
DeleteNot commenting today...
ReplyDeleteStella I follow you laugh,@ say his mind quick
ReplyDeleteScreaming here! Boring chronicles abeg.
ReplyDeleteI am scrraming her with you o, after yesterday's ROR chronicle drama this ones look so tame. I tried to read the first and second but the third lost me, stella dont serve us so many at once, it gets boring when they are dramaless and almost monotonous becos some of them are just plain silly.
Deleteposter 1, diabetes can be managed and eventually if managed well, cured. Keep praying for your man, read abot diabetes and how it can be managed,go to see doctors with him, you can as well opt for a trado medical option..it will end in praise.
ReplyDeleteposter2, be like say the guy just wants you back cos of the sex. Dont rush things, make your findings about himself and the ex, be sure of what you are getting yourself into. And lastly don't rush him if he is not ready to commit to a relationship yet,he just might have been heartbroken and taking time to heal, don't try to persuade him to date you so you will not be the rebound that he needs and in the end be shattered...again.
poster3,just go for the one that you know truly loves you, the one you feel more secured with, the one that is ready to be with you no matter what happens. And you know that person already...
Poster 1
ReplyDeleteMy father in law is diabetic & he will clock 87 this yr, he does his ironing & take a stroll on his own for 1hr every evening
Poster 3
For how long will u wait? Ask him if u still love him too
Let her drop his contact pls.
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ReplyDeletePoster 1:
ReplyDeleteIt is really funny when ladies chant "I love him". Why not say " I love his good health", "I love his healthy and robust bank account", "I love his Job" etc. Please do not use "love" when you can't accept this person. You are healthy today and you think you can't be diabetic or hypertension tomorrow? And it the fiance or husband take a walk then; how about that? Please study the scriptures; the New Testament and understand what love it. You won't ask us any of these questions if the man was very rich; however the money was made.
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DeletePEOPLE HAVE SO MUCH BASTARDIZED THIS WORD "LOVE". “I want him all to myself”. Have counseled a lot of ladies who begin with this line once the topic is “marriage”. The thing is; “will he have you all to himself”? He probably married you when you were in school; helped to train you and even your sibs. But the moment he gets laid off, you jump to the bed of another “piece of penis” and “vain peanuts” you call money. Someone who has been professing love to her husband and for whom he just bought a piece of costly property has misbehaved the very day he brought his sack letter from his position as a top bank executive. Her reason; “can’t marry a jobless man”. We ladies should be careful for the wicked receive their due reward even here on earth. Ladies, please ask yourself the second question above; the man I am telling I love, am I deceiving him and myself. Will the wedding go on if he is sacked today?
ReplyDeleteAnother young man who is an executive in an oil firm and about to get married also did a most remarkable thing. He printed out a sack letter and filled his name and cried home, called and showed his fresh graduate fiancee, the lady wept but said that wedding date remains. They will be wedding next month. The thing is that the guy had even gotten posted to the European headquarters of the company.
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ReplyDeleteI am a chartered accountant and I was also an ICAN student who i maintained a romantic relationship back then. ICAN is no excuse for a man not to make up his mind. STOP DECEIVING YOURSELF AND MOVE ON. Dont wait for this time waster to say his mind quick. Its obvious you still have feeling for him hence your hesitation but trust me a man will do what he wants to do at the end.
Poster 1: He is diabetic and cannot split chores when you start a home.......well, if you were my sister. I will tell you to outrightly quit the relationship.....but i really don't have a reason for saying that. Something else is missing in this story, i dislike disjointed pieces......your relationship doesn't feel right....and i feel that strongly.
ReplyDeleteSome flimsy excuses will be his rigid stance.... no help when the kids roll in. Reality is different from fantasy, and with how unreliable Nigerian men are..... it's ridicuous to believe a man with a chronic disease will stay steadfast in splitting chores later. You will get overwhelmed and then there is always going to be fear lurking around somewhere for his health.
How forward is he with his health? Do not go and be an early widow.....as harsh as that sounds. is he the thorough and proactive type that will not be careless about his medications.....there are many diabetics who foolish ego have killed, some get injured and keep quiet till they become the guinea pig of sepsis.... sincerely watch and ask yourself if you can manage him. You are marrying him and his illness. It would have been easier if you said you were a health officer.
Look beyond love and seek what's best for you:
Can you cope with the diet? Can you play emergency nurse? Can you keep hovering monitoring his medication? Monitoring his stress level while playing wife, mother and all? Small questions like this will make or mar you if you do not know what you can handle. Please tell yourself the real truth. Be sure you love him deeply and this is God's will for you. Still be on the lookout for them flags.
Poster 2: He is still in a relationship dumb-dumb. Frankly, how comfortable are you trying to consider a guy who cheated on his "ex" with you. He "ended" his relationship badly and he started with you terribly and already you guys have had sex. Please go and look for a fresh bobo jare..... do not let anyone sap you of energy this year. You haven't learnt from Toke and Co story...... do not give a guy who is still hung on his ex a tiny chance. Many of such idiots do it to set up a silly competition for their silly egos. Do not be the otondo that will be on a constant emotional high trying to win a man.
Poster 3: You are here still assuming he likes you. All these slow poisons be deceiving girls faking shyness, sleeping with you, tumbling your emotions,eating their rosblis cake then later on they tell......we were just friends and vamoose to another girl. This what you want. Come on give Mr B a chance, stop puting your life on hold for anyone. If he is serious, he will fight for you. Stop indulging low-key players. He probably is on top of another woman while you are filling your head with fantasies and strategizing greenlights. Save your energy and live.
@ Empress....yur really pressing it! So u expect us to read this long grammar...dint you do 'Summary' in secondary school child
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ReplyDeleteThis comment is from a medical professional. Diabetes is not a death sentence and there are diabetics who live long and fulfilled lives. They however may have (not so) special diets which are not hard to follow and if your man uses his medications as prescribed, he has nothing to worry about.
I will advice that you read up on diabetes and not get your information from people who have little or no idea of the condition in question. Let that guide your decision.
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To the Diabetic issue
ReplyDeleteLeave him if you cant manage his weakness trust me someone will come along to marry him the way he is. Marriage is too complicated to marry out of pity.
Poster 1 being diabetic will not kill him. It will make him control his intake of sugar etc and also dont worry about taking care of the house, when children come plenty, he will change his mind. Marry him and no fear at all.
ReplyDeletePoster 2... you be mumu. THE Guy is keeping you for gbenshing and that is what you are to him. Friends with benefits na your category be that.
Poster 3... go knack pigeon for Mr. A head now if you want him to talk sharp sharp. Go meet cele people or c&s
Advice to poster 3 no be am at all
DeleteWhy do I find it very difficult to dish out advice to the chroniclers? After reading all the chronicles, my mind just goes blank, as I am about to type, I find myself reading comments before long I lose interest and begin to refresh the page.
ReplyDeleteDo I have a problem? Is it psychological? What do I call this?
No comment for you three. I'm sick today.
ReplyDeletei gat no say here. buuuut wait i gat a question for you all posters
ReplyDeleteposter one- is diabetes a life sentence? does he mange it well? can you help him manage it well? hope you find the answer soon.
poster two- how old are you again? why throw your pride and dignity away by being a second fiddle? why do you think you love him? is it his looks, the money or the way he bangs you? ooooh bet is the sex. when the sex is good we tend to fall in love ryt? i know he might a good person but honey just bcoz he is good doesnt mean he is goood for you. you deserve to be someone else's number one priority. so common get some sense and move on, stop being a sex tool.
poster three- are you for real? damn how long will you wait for Mrs A? what makes you think is gonna work this time around with him? what if he never comes back? stop seeing the wrong signals babe. dude has friend zoned you dont take that as a sign for a welcome back honey jeeez get some sense too. a bird at hand is far more better than a promise cock, i mean like chicken not penis.
@Poster 1, if being diabetic is the only problem you find with him, then you've got no problems at all. Diabetes is not a death sentence as long as it is managed adequately. He needs to maintain a "healthy" diet and lifestyle
ReplyDeleteLet's turn the table around, if you are diabetic, would you want him to marry you?
About the issue of home help, when the kids starts coming, he may change his mind.
My husband was diabetic when I met him. He takes insulin injections. He does all his usual check ups etc and is fine. It's not a death sentence.
ReplyDeletePoster 1,.....u dnt av any problem at all except u dnt love him to d extent of making him ur husband.....my mum has been diabetic for 20yrs nw nd she's doing fine.....if u cn help him manage it wit him by making sure he takes his drugs regularly nd eats healthy, u wuld b surprised at aw long he's gonna live....marry him abeg...nd for d househelp.....jst dnt worry ur head...as soon as u see dat u cnt carry on any longer,jst get bed rest nd leave him wit d kids for jst 2weeks....nobody go teach am abeg......jst go say yes to dat man jare...
ReplyDeletePoster 1, you don't have a problem.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, you're just his fuckmate.
Poster 3, am so sure you want to become aunty gwegs. Please date Mr b and leave Mr a alone.
Poster 1-Since you know all these things, ask yourself if you can live with them...marriage isn't something you jump in and out.
ReplyDeletePoster 2-Don't be deceived, If a man loves you, he'll flaunt you! get that.
Poster 3-It's pretty obvious you like Mr A. if you really like him, why not show him the green light? must u wait for him to say his mind first? c'mon :)
1- You can marry him and its manageable. Read more of it online and see how you'll help.
ReplyDelete2- Dude is still dating his ex probably she traveled or they have minor misunderstanding, use your common sense. Leave that guy.
3- Be waiting for him to decide/speak while the time keeps flying.
One more thing Poster '1', set your priorities very well so that he'll know that he's not doing you a favour. A man alone is a disaster, he needs a woman to perfect him. He who finds a wife ...
ReplyDelete*Death sentence biko
ReplyDeletePoster 1: DM is not a death sentence but a chronic illness wch means dt u hv 2 prepare ur mind, read articles abt d progression of d illness and the possible complications n wen u r done, ask urself if u can cope wen d trial moments arise..if yes u can marry him . Also note dt even d apparently healthy guy might be harbouring a deadlier DAN DM, can tel u dt 4 free
ReplyDeletePoster 2: d guy in ques wz cheating on his ex n hv u bothered 2 know y they broke up n now his doing hide n seek game wt u..Dt guy is jst a womaniser
Poster 3: D lst time I checked u left d guy not bcos he wasn't in luv wt u but cos he didn't hv time 4 u n if dts d case, has he changed now
Y not focus on d mrB since he has d qualities u want instead of waiting 4 a guy u don't even know wot he has in mind