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BLOWING THE WHISTLE ON AN HIV POSITIVE FRIEND.

Good morning Stella, God bless you for the great job you are doing here. please I have this burden I have been carrying for long in my heart and would like you to post in your chronicles of blog visitors narrative to seek for your advice and that of your blog readers.. Forgive any typo errors and please hide my ID.

How do get to tell my friend's boyfriend that his girl is HIV positive and she is aware and on medication? By what I've been told they are having unprotected sex, because there was a time they had a quarrel and the boyfriend confided in me to help him talk to her, it was in his narratives that he mentioned how my friend had gotten pregnant for him and had miscarriages twice.

I later asked my friend why she isn't using protection with the guy that she may have gotten him infected with the virus intentionally already, her response was: "I'm I his only girlfriend? Isn't it a man like him that got me infected too?".

 I've told her severally to please stop infecting people intentionally that God will not forgive her but she won't listen. She is so reckless about it.

I die of guilt each time I see the guy, or any other man around her,I feel like a murderer already, The burden of the guilt I feel each day is much.

Please Stella and blog visitors, how do I approach this without my friend feeling I betrayed her trust? Because I'm the only person she confided in about her status, nobody knows not even my husband.

And how do I continue to live each day knowing that out there someone's son, brother, husband or even a bread winner in a family is being infected with the HIV virus and I'm not doing anything about it?  Just imagine the number of people that might have gotten infected through her by now; wives, husbands,girlfriends, other boyfriends of the girlfriends and the chain continues, who may not even get to know their HIV status until it is too late..

 I had a PET training so I know how to protect my self around her, but what other ignorant people out there.

How do I get to tell her boyfriend and how do I get to make her see reasons to stop infecting people intentionally?

*Sad sigh*

This was how i lost my elder brother years ago..He didnt know,nobody told him and the lady was on a revenge mission.Its been years and every time i replay the story in my head,i keep wishing someone had told him..SOMEONE LIKE YOU!

I dont know how many people were infected or how many died,I just know that i lost my elder brother,he would have been 48 this year,would have had a family,may have been rich,may have been a governor..I just keep playing with all these thoughts in my head.

Now what if your friend goes behind your back to sleep with your husband?what if she has already and you are also already infected?what if she sleeps with someone who sleeps with a girl who in turn sleeps with your husband?

It still comes back to you.

Betray your friend if you have to,to save lives......Only God knows how many people already.You also need to report her to some kind of agency that overlooks this,report her anonymously.

If she is intentionally infecting people then you need to be careful around her cos she is not a good friend.

PLEASE BETRAY HER BY BLOWING THE WHISTLE AND IF YOU DONT I PRAY GOD JUDGES BOTH OF YOU COS YOU ARE GUILTY AS SHE IS!

RIP to my brother and all the people who died from getting infected by wicked people like your friend!