Hmmm...
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE..
CHOOSING BETWEEN A MAN WITH BAGGAGE AND A DESPERATE MAN
have a lengthy chronicle but please BV be patient with me.
Am a lady who just clocked 30 I have good suitors from home and Abroad but I was never attracted to any of them. I never felt this spark with them, about two years ago I stumbled on a dating website on the Internet and out of boredom I joined and uploaded my pictures.
I got lots of request and all but I was a bit skeptical cos of all these internet fraudsters. I got a request from someone who comes from the same tribe as me let's call him Mr A. Mr A added me and we got talking he's presently not in the same country as me. I was very indifferent with Mr A cos I met him on a dating website but he's been patient, calling me and all. Last year April he came to my base n he tried contacting me but the number I gave him was a number I don't use often so he was finally able to reach me few days before he left back to his base.
When I saw him I was like he's soooo big but cute, lol anyways we kept in touch and all and I kept on doing shakers. Anytime anybody is coming to where am based he gets something for me no matter how little. So this year February we have already bonded but we were not dating to me but to him we were dating.
He told me he was going for a wedding in the US of A and we talked I didn't know he was planning a surprise visit to spend Valentine with me. I was at work on the 12th of February when I got a call from his friend that I got to know through him that he wants to drop something for me at my office and I wasn't around at the time he called so I told him I would be around like in an hour time. But I just felt it like he was around in my base. I told my colleague Mr A is around I can feel it and true to my word when I got to the office I saw him.
I was surprised but happy he spent 5 weeks and we saw everyday and all and we didn't have sex. He talks about marriage with me but nothing defined. He's coming in July to see me again.
The problem I am having he is 46 and has three daughters he has never been married though but the same woman has the girls for him .
Then Mr B, met him through a friend works with CBN he is from the east he's 38 and wants to settle down immediately no baggage attached to mr B but he's too desperate to get married ,we just met in April and he's talking ''you should be married by your age don't you think we should get married''.
I told him you don't even know me won't you want to get to know me before thinking of marrying me. If am not feeling well all he says is if you were married now your husband would take care of you.so I asked him how come you are 38, you have a good job n you not so bad looking and you are still single he says he's been choosy.
So please BV do I go for Mr A who I think am falling in love with and with all his baggage or Mr B who is so eager to settle down this year. Am so confused.
BV P
*I only have questions....Why didnt Mr A marry his baby mama and what is his baby daddy situation?
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*I have a suggestion based on what you narrated....Why dont you take yourself to the market place and hang a price tag on your privates so that the highest bidder can buy whatever you are selling??
NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
CHEATER ALERT
Good day Stella, I'm an ardent reader of your blog. Thanks for this great platform.
I'm a twenty year old student of your alma mater. I have a boyfriend whom I love so much and I recently gave my virginity to him.
He loves me too that I know.
The problem is, he's a student and doesn't have much. He however gives me from the little he has. But, I get lot of advances from male folks and they are financially okay.
Right now, I'm being tempted to cheat on him. But, I'm scared he'll get hurt if he finds out.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
YOUR RED PEN IS NEEDED TOO.
*I have a suggestion based on what you narrated....Why dont you take yourself to the market place and hang a price tag on your privates so that the highest bidder can buy whatever you are selling??
Hmmmmmm!
ReplyDeleteOkwa"a clothe in the market place". Passport of Mallam Ilya written by Cyprian Ekwensi
DeleteThis Mr A, B is getting boring using alphabet like X, y
DeletePoster 1, Mr B is a better choice. Mr A has 3 kids from the same woman:can you deal with that? There's a sexual passion between Mr A and his baby mama which soars and drops at random; the result being babies. No offence intended but think of Annie Idibia and Pero's situation.
DeleteChisos.. Ahahhaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahha.. Chai!!! Stella and epic replies...
DeleteBuhahahhhahahhahaha my tummy oo jesus is Lord! Stella ur red pen on p2 got me rotfl....
DeleteStella is blunt to a fault. I like!!
DeleteBTW, poster 1, I think mr A has a strong sexual bond with his baby mama, Mr B on the other hand is way too desperate. How about dating him for a while to see if he's okay? Goodluck!
Is well o, I wish I can just read commends today.
ReplyDeleteMr B sounds like my Ex. All those kind of pple be making u feel like they are abt to do u a favor. Sigh. Yet he's still not married becos he's busy looking down on women and looking for sumone he can control. I told him even if he's the last man with all his money I won't marry him, dat kind marriage na bondage..
DeletePoster 1, MR B doesn't sound nice to me. But then I understand ur fears with Mr A. I think u shud ask the necessary questions abt Mr A and his babymama before u settle for him. These two men sef may not be the one for u.
Uniben gal,we know u will soon be a runs gal, u dnt have to take permission from us. Go into the world and explore..
Lol @go into the world and explore
DeleteLmao@baby oku. Sure she isn't exploring already?
DeleteWomen! Dunno y some think like 3yr olds! Ok marry d man with 3 daughters since u don't know your left from your right. U don hear US ur ear don stand.
ReplyDeleteYou want us to convince you not to cheat? WTH... Round of applause.
DeleteTHE DEBT
Chike stared into the photograph with a smile on his face.
"You guys look so good together"He said still staring at the picture.
"The Photographer was fantastic."came Edidiong's voice from the kitchen.
Felix rolled his eyes and whispered,
"The idiot kept on staring at her cleavage like some lustful beast with a hard on the size of Jurassic world.Dude was supposed to be a professional for Christ sakes" continue reading
U dis girl,u get bad mouth,na really r ear don stand....girls n men living in diaspora😁😁😁😁😁
DeleteNa him be first to go US? Didn't you read the part she said she's known him for a while? Mtchww
DeletePoster1 when you are truly ready for marriage you use will know. It seems you are really not interested in men,don't be scared choose one and stick to him.
ReplyDeletePoster1: leave MrA and concentrate on MrB.
ReplyDeletePoster2: Be careful with the way u choose to live your life.
Poster one Lol that guy ehh. Shouldn't you be married at your age lol!! Stupid guy. Forget him. His attitude is the reason why he is still single. He thinks too much of himself. That type will tell you he did you a favour by marrying you.
ReplyDeleteMr A seem a good enough. I understand your issues with him. You don't want baby mama drama. But as long as he has nothing to do with the woman again why not give him a try. Try to befriend the woman too and get to know the daughters. That way you win his heart even more. I don't see why his age should be a problem. The way u said he's 46. You're not young either. Dsnt mean you should settle for less but his age is ok for your age biko
Exactly, the one that told shouldn't you be married has an attitude problem!! Don't be surprised when you marry him he Will talk to you anyhow with no respect!! Leave him he's the type that put women\others down to feel better...
DeleteI agree with your 1st paragraph and I know for sure that he's from Anambra state and he'll end up not marrying her. No try those people oo.. Hian!
DeleteMrA sounds arrogant as if he is doing you a favor, guys like this piss me off. Using marriage to threaten u. Can u imagine
DeleteSweety, en en. You described Mr B
Delete*Mr B* Thanks.
DeleteI agree with everything else but not with her making friends with his baby mama. Nahhhh. Stay away from his ex, u can bond with his kids if he allows it, but don't force it. Stay on ur lane and face the dude biko
DeleteUna no get problem @ both posters.
ReplyDeletePoster1 wants us to help her make decision of her life.
Poster 2, wants go ahead from us to cheat.
Na so we jobless reach 4 Una eyes.
Lol! Assin. Ehn! Some pple just sidon turn their life's to sdk. Chronicle.
DeletePoster 2: did you talk about "cheat on him?", you are already cheating: Cheating on yourself, cheating on God who wants you to keep your body till marriage. You've cheated your future and destiny by collecting penis and you still want more; the highest bidder takes it all. Prostitution comes in many shades you know. But soon, the chain reaction will start; pregnancy, abortions, STIs, dumping, depression, suicidal thoughts and attempt, death perhaps, and boom! Eternity. Have you sought Christ?
ReplyDeleteGod Bless you Ma/Sir!!!
DeleteYou hit the nail in the head 4 me.
DeleteI'm glad there are still sane people on this blog not just sane, but eternity conscious. @Anon 15:09, I pray for you and for myself, we will not miss heaven in Jesus name!
DeletePoster 1,
ReplyDeleteMarry Mr A if you have the strength like Annie Idibia cos his baby mama and her children will always be in his life...
I think you should go for Mr B!...don't worry,the love will grow with time and you will start liking him...
Remember age is no longer on your side...don't end up as a miserable gwegz!...
Poster 2,
Why should a girl in her right senses date a fellow student?...
I don't get it!...
My dear,this guy has nothing to offer you except sex and abortion!...
I will advise you to dump him and date those guys asking you out!...atleast you will be sure of money,trip and all that!...
Na I love you you go chop?...
Abeg use your youth wisely!...
Foolish woman
DeletePlease little girl,ignore Queen's advice abeg.
Delete@QUEEN AND BOSS, CAN YOU PLEASE STOP ALL THESE WRONG USE OF PUNCTUATION MARKS EG .......,!......., AND ?.......
DeleteVery foolish indeed. And u sound broke 2. Desperate lowlife . How can u advice a 20yr old girl to leave her bf who loves her and follow men because of money instead of encouraging her to hustle and work and not rely on men. At poster 2 don't make the same mistake my husband ex made she saw him as a small boy even though he was madly in love with her and spent the lil he had on she and her younger ones. She instead chose to do runs, fuckING "big" boys up and down. Anyway to cut a long story short his doing very well for himself now while she's now just a jobless gwegz always calling to beg for money.Ps:He married me and I'm way younger and prettier than her. Hehehe. #aWordIsEnoughForTheWise
DeleteLmao!! Why didn't I open this chronicles since? Am just lol
DeleteNarrative number 1....none is good...better don't choose any of these two
ReplyDeleteNarrative number 2.....you don't have a problem...You know what to do
@Galore
Poster 1, follow your instincts. They are always right.
ReplyDeletePoster 2,Face you studies. Stop opening ur legs and Toto for a man that has not paid your bride price. To avoid stories that touch.
James you are a clown
DeleteHow many toto u don see with that ur miserable 2 inch dick?
DeleteChoi... Stella ur comment 2poster to yaff kil me
ReplyDeletePoster 1.... Marry Mr. B. Mr. A with plenty girls, there will be trouble in the house ooo. You see real men, na internet you go dey look for love.
ReplyDeletePoster 2... Go and get a rich boyfriend. No say yes to broke ass guys. Get plenty boyfriends
Lmfao! @ the advice Anty Stella gave Poster 2!
ReplyDeleteLoll
Stella your comment to poster 2 is harsh. Poor girl dsnt want to suffer. You can't blame her especially in this difficult period.
ReplyDeleteSweety, do you like that boyfriend of yours? If you don't move on. Let him be. But don't go with another guy just cos of money oh. Cos many will just use and dump you. I feel you're getting distracted from your bf due to monetary issues and lots of guys disturbing you. Choose what you want to do. Either stay with the broke bf or leave and find one rich one and hook yourself to him not sleep around. It's easy
Like finding a rich boyfriend is easy.
DeleteLet her define what she want,boyfriend or money bag. It is even too early for her to indulge in sexual relationship.
She should concentrate on her studies. Why is man her problem at 20? Hian!
DeletePoster 1;I have no words,sorry
ReplyDeletePoster 2;You are the reason i decided to comment.So Aunty,you just gave your virginity out to turn to 'hoeloshi'.So you want to start living off men already??You better calm down.So na now you know say kpomo dey sell market well well.You are too young to be with a man for money.Enjoy dating your mate first.
@poster1: y do you want to marry a man with such baggage?
ReplyDeletePls,B is a better option, get to know him better n run away from that baby daddy
@poster 2: use your sense Biko
Poster2: you're a very materialistic 20yr old, growing up with such mentality will do u no good, what's bringing about the urge to cheat xactly? Is it that he dsnt satisfy u in bed or ure the type that gets wet by a mere show of wealth?
ReplyDeleteWhatever they advise u here 2day, you'd still cheat, you can't escape it.
My advise is stay protected.
What do u mean by being materilistic? It's ok for d guy to gbensh her but can't provide for her.Is sex love?infact I blame that girl,I rather pretend to be a mermaid than be with a broke guy who will still be gbenshing u.
DeletePoster one why will you marry a mab that has three children from one woman and he isnevwr married to her? There is something Mr A is hiding which you need to shine your eyes very well. Make your findings first before you fall in love with him.
ReplyDeleteMr B also may have some top secret that he us hiding, you cannot get engaged today and marry tomorrow, if he is putting pressure on you all you have to do is to accept him first as a friend, watch him closely, Go on your kneels and am sure God will reveal everything about him to you.
Gbam
DeleteGood.. If u ask me she shud even leave them both.
DeleteMr A has serious baggage
Mr B sounds like hes doing her a favour..
@ poster 2....it's not cheating if you are not married but james 4:17 says whoever knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin. Also go and read Galatian 5:19-23.....peace be with you.
ReplyDeleteSee who is talking!!! Cherrie d notorious husband snatcher..When u were fucking a married man and shamelessly confessing it on a blog,why didnt u read dat bible portion? Abi husband snatching is not a sin to u? Shameless hoe.
DeletePoster 1-mr A is going the extra mile to love and care for you,why not go the extra mile and ask him why 3 children without wife(ing)the mother?mr B-e get as e be jor.
ReplyDeletePoster 2-am sorry to say,but you are a prostitute,that only the right price can buy.
Why not study well instead of studying men's pocket.
Can you imagine d level of fuckery..He knocked d same woman up three good times yet he refused to marry her..What a beast he is..And she is even considering his proposal forgetting that he will dump her in d future d way he dumped d baby mama..
DeletePoster 1..Pls dump dat guy..He is not what u think he is..Try reaching out to his baby mama first and hear what she has to say..
Dont let him make you a naija wife cos i have d feeling that he is married to his so-called baby mama.
Poster one
ReplyDeleteMen like Mr B do not value women, i guess he only wants to get married because he wants to be married not cos he loves you.
To be with Mr A, you'd need a lot of patience. He has three children with the same woman, why didn't he marry her? You need to get the genuine answer to this before you do anything.
Poster two
Make up your mind to stay with him or leave, you can't eat your cake and have it. Truth is your bf's status might not change too soon but then who knows? Miracles happen!
Stells, you were harsh!
Epic, hilarious but freaking real red pen reply for narrative #2.
ReplyDeleteStella you are so real, you do not babysit foolishness.
nice one Stella. imagine this poster 2 poo.. just imagine
ReplyDeletePoster two will you kill yourself for a broke ass dude, Cos he disflower you? and you feel he is the best fucker. Why don't you close your legs and forget about having a bf for now since you don't have a mind of your own than running after student bf.
ReplyDeleteCome self how old are you? You are too young to have a bf for now. Excess meeeee.
20yrs is not too young.
DeleteI am 21 years old,will finish service by September/October and will start masters by the end id this year. I have a boyfriend has 28 years old and working. Am I too young to have a boyfriend? 20 years is not too young as long as you use your brain! Poster 2 I have no advise for you. It is your life live it anyhow ��
DeleteLol, this stella's red pen replies today.... you dey vex oo
ReplyDeletePoster 1...NONE..Get married to none..e be asif say body Dey shack u Wetin be US of A..Agadi Neanyi baby..
ReplyDeleteposter 2...how old re u again..u gave ur virginity to a school boy...Shey na EKOSODIN u Dey stay...u no just get sense...how can u be dating a school boy...all these small boys in town don Dey burst ur brain...u jus Dey vex me...Abeg get away.
Poster 2.......YOU JUST GOT SERVED.....Hahahaha
ReplyDeleteNice response stella
Upcoming runs girl.
LMAO;Stella this your reply dem come with vex. Na fight?
ReplyDeleteSo love your comment Stella for the second poster. Oniranu omokekere! With all we have being saying here you want us to tell you to give it to the highest bidder? Better leave the poor boy and girl sell your thingy well.
ReplyDeleteI don't even know what to say..
ReplyDeletePoster 2,20 years old??na so nonsense dey start..mtcheww.
Stella's reply to poster2 is the best...totally my thoughts
ReplyDeleteWhy would Mr A have 3 kids and didn't marry the woman? Just asking.
ReplyDeleteAs for Mr B, he is still choosy. You'll regret marrying him if u do.
Poster 2: u've made up ur mind to cheat so pls do. Ha! He's not financially ok and u know that b4 u started dating him. My advise is that since u've finally decided to cheat, pls do it with someone you know u won't regret at last be it for money or lust.
Hahahahahahahah....price tag, highest bidder...they both got me rotfl, Stella u get mouth sha...I too like u.
ReplyDeleteposter 1 please use your head and poster 2 at this ur small age you should be ashamed of yourself.
ReplyDeleteposter 1..recieve sense!
ReplyDeleteposter 2..u need Jesus!
wow!..how I miss stella's blog.But eh..iyam back!
ReplyDeleteok let us advise you:
poster1: settle with Mr B and stop fantasising about the future with that Mr A who has 3 girls! my dear, it is not going to be easy wining them over o... and its not like their mom is dead!...you better go for Mr B who has no baby mama history and almost in the same level as you, trust me once you start to give him attention you will begin to love him too...take your mind of MR A it is a NO NO!!
Poster 2: at 20? you gave out your virginity just wow! are you not supposed to be reading your books? okay so now they have made you taste that thing and you cannot get enough of it but love adventure eh? kontinu. You don't sound like someone in love so there is nothing to say to you, all you want is another sex experience but not to worry since you don dey look outside for more, your eye go soon tear, won ma fi su e
wow!..how I miss stella's blog.But eh..iyam back!
ReplyDeleteok let us advise you:
poster1: settle with Mr B and stop fantasising about the future with that Mr A who has 3 girls! my dear, it is not going to be easy wining them over o... and its not like their mom is dead!...you better go for Mr B who has no baby mama history and almost in the same level as you, trust me once you start to give him attention you will begin to love him too...take your mind of MR A it is a NO NO!!
Poster 2: at 20? you gave out your virginity just wow! are you not supposed to be reading your books? okay so now they have made you taste that thing and you cannot get enough of it but love adventure eh? kontinu. You don't sound like someone in love so there is nothing to say to you, all you want is another sex experience but not to worry since you don dey look outside for more, your eye go soon tear, won ma fi su e
Poster 1.. u sound like nwanyi anambra.. are u? Miss US of A. Lol. So many advances yet u meet guys on dating sites.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. All this while u have been waiting to burst dat hole so dat u can hoe around okwaya? Oya welcome to d world of fornication and sex for money. Kudos
Mr B should tell u d truth why he's not married at 38 even with his all his good looks. I ve a frnd like dat, he's good looking,financially ok but he's still single because he's so fu****g stingy. There was a day I told him I wanted to eat suya, dude went n bought small suya oo n still followed me to eat it, infact he ate more Dan half of dat suya, later bought a corn so we could share, wanted to break it n give me ooo I said no! He's upto 40 now n still single with all his money n cuteness. I told him I was broke, he asked me to come to his office, I closed from d office dat day, went straight to his office only for him to give Me 1k!!wtf! That was d end!! I ve never felt so bad in yrs d way I did dat day. Dude wants to marry ME oo but na fire go fire am if he ever calls my line again.
ReplyDeleteMy dear relax n pray over it, go with d person ur heart truthfully wants.
Poster 2: money isn't everything. I believe in one man one woman, if u want to cheat on him Cox of money,quietly walk out of d rlship den do waheva u wanna do with ur body.
poster 1: leave Mr B alone, he's a scam. trust me.
ReplyDeleteposter 2: face your studies
P1 Mr B will not marry you thats the truth,His attitude shows it. For Mr. A get know the lady in question and findout why he is a baby daddy!
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Pls Take Stellas Advice. Kikikikiki
ReplyDeleteStella I agree with your red pen.
ReplyDeleteA woman with 3 children and no marriage would raise concerns, men with 3 children and no marriage should also raise red flags. Are you sure he's not married? Why continue having children with a woman you can't marry? What's to say they aren't still sleeping together? I had a toaster Walter, same story 3 daughters with a foreign woman who was based abroad, insisted he's not married to her, I wasn't surprised when over a year of him consistently toasting me, I called him when he was visiting his children and his baby mama answered the phone and told me her side of the story... basically they were still in an on again off again relationship
Poster 2 u don't have to sleep with your toasters na, chop and clean mouth, grab all you can and run.
ReplyDeletePoster1 MrA get baggage plenty ooo, mrB sef isn't any better character wise, maybe you should just get to know him more sha, use delay tactics.
Poster 1:i dnt even get u..with all ds things Annie is going tru u still want to marry a baby daddy? 3 kids nd he could not marry her with all his good qualities..go ahead na,he will leave u nd go stay with dem on their bday nd u will go nd rant on instagram.Mr B will make life miserable for u..pray nd ask God for Mr C
ReplyDeletePoster 2:u already made up your mind to cheat so ds nonsense u jst wrote now is uncalled for...wat if u find d money nd u lack happiness? Do anytin u want shaa na your punani
Your reply to the second poster just got me lol. I think poster 2 wants to cheat but is looking for someone to give her the go ahead. If you want to cheat do it and stop seeking approval.
ReplyDelete@poster 1 you know how both of them treat you and whom you are more comfortable with. I don't know them and can't tell u who to follow despite your write up. Everyone has their flaws, so choose who you can live with despite any shortcomings you might perceive on their path. Good luck.
Poster one, Find about more about MrA's baby mama situation. Get rid of Mr B. He's bad news.
ReplyDeletePoster two, take...*gives you an award for dashing your boyfriend ya virginity* .Pls continue distributing the national cake. Don't forget to use antibiotics for infection, abort the precious babies when you get pregnant, lie to cover up other lies, etc.
God is watching.
Poster 1: Get to know mr B well before you write him off
ReplyDeleteWell u know what you want, as for me Mr. A is too much of a baggage
Why didn't he marry the woman that gave him 3 kids
Look beyond those his sweet moves and find out who he really is, i don't trust all these baby daddies
Poster 2: Do whatever pleases u biko
U no get problem
Talk about brutal truths @ Stella's remarks. Lol.
ReplyDeletePOSTER 2: TOO Young. You're just too young. Don't get on the path that defines a woman as mercenary. Get your acts together.
As in ehn? D way poster A stressed US of A jst portrays her love for abroad at d detriment of her peace of mind.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 End dat relationship, face ur studies and make money, den watch how hot wealthy guys will be more attracted to u.
20 year old poster, dump his ass. Never ever date a student.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: Mr B maybe impotent. With Mr A, u must have baby mama ish. marry none
Stella that your red pen(comments) sweet me eh.
ReplyDeletePoster one: there's something Mr A is hiding from you. Three children with one woman? No dear, you won't have strength for babies mama drama. Mr A is out of the list. For Mr B, hmmmm.. Are you allergic to choosy people or not? From your answer, you decide if he's the right one for you.
Poster two: please just close your legs and concentrate on your studies. You are too young to start sleeping around for money.(modern prostitution).
Prostitution is not allowed
ReplyDeletePoster 2... Stella's red pen was not harsh at all. I will tow her line but make it longer. You are 20 yrs old and a student and you think dating means financial stability? i am against premarital sex alright but I am so fully against girls who think having a bf means someone to give them something. He gives you from the little he has??? you actually collect, not minding he might be soaking garri. Borrow sense. First of all, you are too young and your words are like that of an up coming runz girl. I pity your boyfriend.
ReplyDeleteStella your comments are off tha hook......Muah!!!!
ReplyDelete@I AM THE QUEEN AND THE BOSS OF THIS BLOG..... About your 2nd comment
Do you always have to #Divulge the Rapacious #TRAMP in you???. I wonder the kinda advice you do give to your younger ones or those who look up to you (That's if you got any).....Btw i will advice you change that your name to " I AM THE TRAMP QUEEN OF THIS BLOG" cause its what you are.
I like the second red pen. Laughing like a crazy fowl here. Lmao! Go to the market place girl. Since your p***y is now given to the highest bidder.
ReplyDeleteYou just used him to open the door. Weldone ehn.
Poster 2 haha Sister Stella Grand sœur (big sis) Epic response given.
ReplyDeletePoster1 follow your instincts
ReplyDeleteMr A isn't married to the woman cos he always wanted to come back home after a while but she refused that she can't settle in Nigeria with her kids and no they are no longer in a relationship I did my own research I got to know people who helped me do investigation to know if he's still with the woman. And my dear BV staying abroad is not my thing I 'll rather travel for holidays and I have done that countless times so not because he stays abroad that I am interested cos he's even coming to settle down in Nigeria
ReplyDeleteThief go and look for your mate in naija.... N
DeleteThen go for the man.. he respects you and does well by you ba?
DeleteGo to God in prayer.God will give you answers yo your question.
DeleteGod still answers prayer.
God is always available.
Go to him in prayer & He will lead you on the right path.
Isn't married to a woman dat has 3 kids for him? Wat were dey doing dat led to d 3 kids? So dat means wen he goes abroad dey will see na..do your research well shaa
DeleteWell,it's like you have made up your mind with him...
DeleteGo ahead!...
But don't disturb us with another chronicle...
Stella! I am still lol after reading your comment. You no go kill me.
ReplyDeletePoster 1. Honey, what in God's name do you want? I'll suggest you stripe yourself of all emotions and put on the whole armour of FYI on both men.
@ poster 2. I bind every longer throat spirit in you In Jesus Name Amen. Now close your legs and run a long.
Which one is too young everywhere.is she suppose to date at 30?all this holier than thou than started gbenshing before 18years will come here and be judging mtchewww.My only anger with this poster she shouldn't hv given out her virginity just like that. You kept it till 20 wetin remain again? U would hv just kept it till marriage. Many undergraduates female come to school as virgins and ended up giving it out to one yeye boy that have sugar coated tongue,that's all they offer,then use u and dump u,then ur case will be I dated her back in school"look for someone serious and date . people get married at 23 u are not too young to have a real date.Na d same people go still call u gwes.
ReplyDeleteSince you no, so why are u disturbing us. Do ur wish abeg
ReplyDeleteAt the mention of US, everything on there body will stand at an attention. Both dere breast and toto
ReplyDeleteFor goodness sake poster 2 is not too young for a relationship all she needs is good advice ,btw did u not know that he is a student bfor opening your punami for him?anyway receive brain to do the right thing in Jesus name. Poster2.so na money dey confuse your brain like this?may God fix ur brain cell again in Jesus name.
ReplyDelete1. Can you cope if you marry Mr A and his property. Quietly go for Mr B and its better if he loves you more. FInd out how serious he is and give him go ahead but study him carefully. Don't miss this chance.
ReplyDelete2. Please concentrate on your study more. I don't want you to count how many abortion you've had when you graduated. You're still young and beautiful, so work for God and see Him provide all your needs even the ones you don't need. Tie your 2 legs and stop having sex with your boyfriend.
1, 2 and 3 kids from the same woman, you can't cut that cord between them.
ReplyDeletePoster A - Mr A already has a lot of baggage so please free yourself from all the drama that will definitely come later cos there is something going on between him and his baby mama. She has 3 daughters and they are not married that means she will definitely play a significant role in your relationship with him. Do you want to play the part of a second fiddle.
ReplyDeleteConcentrate on Mr B who is free of baggage but ready to hit the road, forget his bad mouthing and get to know him. Ask for sometime so that you guys can date properly and get to know each other better, you will be surprised how your feelings will change.