What is that word again?.......ODIEGWU!!!
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE...
CAUGHT BETWEEN GIVING AN EGG OR THE PRIVATES...
Nwunye korkus Please I need your candid advice and that of my fellow BVS. my name is Grace and I have been a Bv since 2014 when I was searching for something online and I stumbled on your blog, and became converted. Thanks for your good work.
I am a young woman of 23years, and I need advice from experienced and older bvs. And no it is not relationship wise. I am currently pursuing my masters degree in one of the Nigerian universities and also job hunting. Though it has not been easy I have been coping just fine till this year and the economic downturn started which has made many schools hiked their fees unbelievably. For me not to spend extra years in school and keep dashing them money I must pay my fees and finish up this year.
I have been running to people for help even if it's loan while a pay back in instalment but all of them want something in return. As my parents have not been paid for 6 months now in my state.
Which has led me to the devil and the red Sea situation I am in. I have this senior friend who has always promised to help me whenever the need arises, though I have never asked him for anything I thought I'd be lucky with him only for him to demand he must 'gbensh' me before anything. Infact, he demanded for a threesome .
Sdk this man is a top man in the presidency ooo but he won't help until I spread my legs and he's been luring me with job placement offer and many other juicy packages but by God's grace I have been able to tell him off firmly.
My head ache now is the too good to be true offer I got. A friend I told my issue linked me up to someone she claimed can help only for the uncle to suggest I donate my egg to a TTC couple and they are ready to pay as high as 200k.exactly my fees when you add up my defence fees.
A part of me is suggesting I do it but a greater part is raising questions I can't even answer myself. Like : won't I be attached to the child later in life? Or my son/daughter falling in love with the child? Or will the process even pose health issues to me later in life...
PLEASE BVS has anyone gone through this process? Is it the right thing to do? Please Stella use your red pen I am confused as ever. My defence is in a month's time I can't participate till I pay. The couple too await my response so as to start the process then finally donate that is if I accept. (please PARDON my gbagauns and other inconsistencies I'm far from sane right now)
This is a tough one and truthfully i dont know what to advice,its like being caught between the devil and the deep blue sea...
One thing i know that i love kids too much and get too emotionally attached,i WOULD NEVER GIVE OUT EGG OR EVEN YOKE or anything cos i will never be able to sleep imagining where that child is and if it is okay and well or thinking of me and wondering why i did it.I am not one of those people that can do this so i cannot advice you.For the fact that it crossed your mind means you can do it.
I am out!
Brb
ReplyDeleteYou brought this here again? May u get what u want.
DeleteAm astonished that most of the people advising that she sleeps with the man for money are women.. Please my dear don't wether you are a virgin or not cos if you dobit one time you become his sex slave oo...and that would put your future in jeopady what then is going to be the essence of your two degrees when you have become someones slave...
DeleteDonating your egg is a much better option but if you can't go on with it just summon courage and patiently wait for another year while believing God to give you a good job..
I suggest you state your location ..maybe a good samarian may just reach out to you..please guys let's help this young ambitious lady
Thanks a lot
How are you sure the man would fulfil his promise.. Have you thought of how used and foolish you will look if he doesn't and he works in the same presidency that never fulfil it's promises.
DeleteOn the other hand if you donate your egg that you will loss every other month you are sure to get paid cos you offered a genuine service.
Be wise sister..if you start sleeping around now to solve a problem that is not even a matter of life and death you may never stop because problems never stops coming in this life.
Please poster tell your friends uncle that I am ready to
Deletedonate my own egg if you are not interested and for
1.5m. Nothing less. And who ever is interested too should
contact me. 1.5m last! Am serious.
Go and donate your eggs biko.
DeleteDon't forget to increase the fee. 200k is too small for your eggs. You can't pay school fees and return back to status quo.
You see how we humans behave. No one is willing to help this lady out of her delimma, I know that 10 SDK blog visitors , can help this lady out.you all deserve what's coming for you in the future.
DeleteI have read this story somewhere. On miss petite's blog I guess....
DeleteThat same egg dey waste every month, thought we have talked about such here before? Just ask people who have done it before, and go do it, me self wan sell, who want oyinbo shildren come aand buy egg ohhhh.
DeleteGo and gbensh the presidency man!
ReplyDeleteDo not agree for a threesome but shake body for the man.
DeleteIs he Bukola Saraki?
But it's 3-some na. Ha!
DeleteEnter any catholic church u see and ask a priest about the egg thingy...adultery is out of the question..@least he won't be biased.....or a pastor even...I don't know the moral implication of it...so, I'm not gonna say shit....but as for getting attached, I don't think u will if u put ur nose out of the couple's business....besides maybe ur egg won't even be viable.......if u don't see d child being born...then how do u know it exists?...what will u be attaching urself to?
DeleteJust ask someone who is in a better position to give u the right answer or something close.....sentiments and greed aside....goodluck
Except for virgins, i don't understand why and how a girl that is sexually active will be making a fuss of sleeping with a man that wants to help her destiny.
DeleteThese girls should understand that there's no free lunch even in Freetown.
You can't be working in UBA and collecting salary from Zenith
I help people alot without demanding anything in return but sometimes when a chic i fancy ask for help, i assist her and most times she reciprocates the gesture by giving me kpekus and i think it's a good way of showing gratitude
Julius, good way of showing gratitude? Lol.
DeleteChronicles...
ReplyDeletePoster which is better? Give an egg to a TTC couple or abort babies for the top presidency man? Decide which one is better for you. Plus, the doctors don't take all your eggs, you can always have kids when you are ready.
DeleteDo both...collect presidency prick n donate egg.
DeleteSee as stella dey call am devil n deep blue sea like say na one extreme case...on a serious note,why do some men tie favours to sex?help if u wanto n gbensh if dats wat u want,but don't hold someone to ransom cos of wat u wanto do for her
I don't understand how someone can pursue an extra degree without a job or help from home.
ReplyDeleteI'd assume you have your first degree so is this second degree a do or die affair?
Some people who can even afford a 2nd degree are yet to do it because of time. So at 23 I don't know why you won't chase one dream at a time and I get the 'since no work yet let me not be idle'
If you decide to sleep with someone or donate your egg, please to what end?
You seriously do not have a problem because a 2nd degree does not even guaranty you a job so cut it out already.
Defer your admission till you can afford it.
Doppelganger, u never seize to amaze me with your comment... If you were a musician, I 'd buy all your albums.. I like ur analytic prowess to issues...
DeleteThe fact that you read lots of books is even making me want you. That's my number thing in women, not your beauty
Abeg, if u never marry, how can I meet you?
Wetin this one dey Yarn @ mma Ganger? Mtcheew
DeleteThe worldly me says go n sleep with the presidency man... sebi na d same gbensh you dey gbensh your boyfriend for free?
The godly me says; take it to God in prayers.
Please can you sit down and think for once. It is not a do or die thing to comment also. Someone pursuing a 2nd degree is at anyone's prerogative and since she wants to why dampen her spirit by saying getting a job isn't guaranteed. Address the damn issue if you can or just shut your trap
DeleteI kinda agree with you on the part of 'differ'
DeleteGirl if you can't deal with the politician, and you don't want to give your eggs(which bis weird to me), then differ your admission until you can afford it. That way, you will no longer be between the devil and the deep blue sea.
Good comment from Doppelganger.
DeleteI dnt agree with u on this one. She is almost through with it, why advice her t quit now? I dnt advice her to sell her eggs... She shud just hustle t get the money.
DeleteJust shush it. To every action there is a reaction. To every step taken there is a purpose. She asked a plain question and not for you to analytically criticize her choice Education Wise!
DeleteBtw if her parents aren't owed salaries she won't write in a chronicle
Thank you for your comment you nailed it
DeleteYou're young, why didn't u start working with your 1st degree before going for 2nd one, people that goes for 2nd degree immediately after 1st degree is usually people that their parents are very ok and are ready to sponsor them still 2nd degree even 3rd degree self
You are wicked for not working to support your parent and you expecting them to pay for 2nd degree again, babe please go n work, most jobs offer now, goes for people below 30yrs
Great response!
DeleteDoppelganger,you're so sensible. You should be a counselor.
DeleteAnd blogbrity decided to display her stupidity
DeleteU didn't tell us u are a virgin so what are u forming for,don't give anybody ur egg just go and gbensh dat man and collect d 200k plus d packages, be there forming good girl until u carry over, use wat u have to get what u want.
ReplyDeleteShe's a secondary virgin, how about that? Lol
DeleteAngelray don't tell me you are a harlot. Ashawo advice.
DeleteIt's just an egg abeg. Ur body produces plenty ery month that u get rid of via menses so kini big deal? U'd be helping a family and not committing a sin. Think am
DeleteGbam!!!
DeleteNne save the advice for your daughters
DeleteWoman you either cabash the man and get your fees paid or you donate your egg, the final answer is with you.
ReplyDeleteOh well..... There is always a third option
ReplyDeleteThis poster is a Mumu for asking this kind of question...
ReplyDeleteIf you miss any of these opportunities staring at you,that means you are a moron!...are you a virgin?...
Don't you gbensh your boyfriend free of charge and even do abortion for him ontop?..
Use what you have to get what you want!...
Most of these celebs,female politicians that you admire have done things like this and even more to get to where they are...
Don't go and excel!...be here asking stupid question!...
"Go and excel" wow!
DeleteU go fear as dem dey take excel
Hmm... Dicey situation indeed
ReplyDeleteWell My dear Poster i would prefer you donate your egg to the TTC couple than sleeping with the so called 'big man'. Yes i agree it is a bit difficult but at least knowing you are gonna put a smile on someone's face is much more better than fornicating or committing adultery with an 'OKE MKPI'.
ReplyDelete1 million likes for this
DeleteIf you can't give your eggs kuku gbensh the other oga. You want to eat your cake and have it.
ReplyDeleteIt's either you sell your egg, sleep with the man or Trust God..
I feel you have even decided on which to do..
Point of correction
Delete"You want to have your cake and eat it"
Faith Martins, Eve is actually right. See as you just embarrassed your self. Your brain isn't that of a horse na. Utilize it!
DeletePlease poster tell your friends uncle that I am ready to donate my own egg if you are not interested and for 1.5m. Nothing less. And who ever is interested too should contact me. 1.5m last! Am serious.
ReplyDeleteMy mouth was opened when i read 200k..it is too small jare. 1.5m is better or something close to that. I would consider donating my egg for the amount and not less.
DeleteLol. Shebi you saw 200k last up there.
DeleteLol. Me too
DeleteI should put out an advert for it. Any egg buyer? I'm serious here
Abeg if u see who need sperm too I dey o,I'm ready to donate as much as a litre
DeleteRotfl @ 1 litre. 😂😂
DeleteSame thing I think too.
ReplyDeleteYou've already made up your mind to do it, but you want to know what others think.
I just hope giving out your eggs would be worth the 200k in future, seeing as you know the intending recipients.
Me, I fitn't.
If it were in a hospital where you won't know who is getting it, that would have been quite different.
Do whatever you think best, but make sure it's not something you'd regret tomorrow.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Donating eggs isn't such a big deal. Millions do it everyday day na. Nothing like emotional attachment she's not going to be a surrogate...eggs that women waste As blood every month. Ppl should be able to donate eggs for free sef. You have millions...
Deleteposter don't you think donating an egg is better than spreading your legs for the guy you talked about? How will you be attached to the child later? Its an egg that was implanted into the womb of someone else. its not like you carried the child which i would understand you will feel attached to the child.mind you, how are you so sure the egg will even become a foetus? the probability is not a 100%. No matter what, know you are doing something for a childless couple who need this to know what it feels like to have a family. Its either this or you sleep wit the man you talked about who probably wants to use your destiny for something. Who knows. If you like go and sleep with the man
ReplyDeleteThis is how people should think... Wise words
DeleteMy thoughts too. Donating the egg is better.
DeleteNobody is using her destiny for anything. All the people u have gbenshed...how many have used your shine? Or is it because she mentioned that it's someone at the top? I hate this kind of reasoning. Aunty do whatever pleases you or defer. Nor be do or die matter. Phd holders are drivers at dangote. So nor be by extra degree.
DeleteNot all will want to exchange destinies dear . All your celebrities gbenshing them how many of them have had their destinies exchanged? Kindly name.
DeleteYou are at a cross road. If you do it and he gives you a good job, dont go and do thanksgiving in church ooo. Dont tell people in the church that God has done it for you because that one na lie.
ReplyDeleteIf you dont do it, you will still continue to beg and you will be pushed to do it. It is TOUGH. JUST DO IT AND NO GIVE THANKSGIVING IN THE CHURCH.
LOVE ME JEJE, I officially like you for this comment. Can we be friends? But please can you tone it down a lil bit, so the name calling will reduce?
DeletePoster , are you a Virgin?If he gbensh u, will dat be d first time dat a man's something is entering deep inside your something?
ReplyDeleteU should hv allowed him to gbensh u unless you are a Virgin. Just make sure he uses protection.
James,
DeleteThe Fantastically illiterate
Hmmm.... Giving eggs... But people donate eggs to individuals they don't know nau.... Even sperm. Well, I don't see anything wrong with donating your eggs. And maybe staying in touch with the family afterwards, once in a while (for reasons you explained above). For me oh, I think surrogacy is harder cos in that case the child grows in you. But eggs? They die every month so why not give someone who needs?!
ReplyDeleteWell, people are different. And I'm generally a very tough person not swayed by emotions. So these are just my own thoughts. Xx
Chikito, Thank you for this comment....
DeleteHmmm.... Giving eggs... But people donate eggs to individuals they don't know nau.... Even sperm. Well, I don't see anything wrong with donating your eggs. And maybe staying in touch with the family afterwards, once in a while (for reasons you explained above). For me oh, I think surrogacy is harder cos in that case the child grows in you. But eggs? They die every month so why not give someone who needs?!
ReplyDeleteWell, people are different. And I'm generally a very tough person not swayed by emotions. So these are just my own thoughts. Xx
Thank you. Poster pls take this advice
DeleteStay in touch so wetin go happen? All d ones she dey put inside always sanitary pad every month does she stay in touch with dem? Abeg she shud free d egg and face front! It's so not a biggie @ all! Better than fornication
DeleteMy darling, many humans have done worse things to get money.Btw, sisters donate to sisters, strangers donate to strangers sometimes.This is a child u might never see ever even the family u might never see.manna will not fall from heaven if we don't think quick.The basic thing is pls find out abt the health aspect and if it's OK then do what ur heart says.As for ur child marrying that child the chance might be slim but how abt focusing on the present and doing what is right by u?Goodluck
ReplyDeleteMind you. We don't even know if the egg is going to be viable and reach term. It's ivf and success rate is never 100 percent. This should be a no brainier, def a better option than sleeping with a man you don't know his agenda. You are definitely going and I can tell u don't have experience with such men. Things like that always go wrong... Choose wisely or better still explore other options
DeleteDont give your Yoke up. Go and gbensh that IDIOT in the presidency.
ReplyDeleteLovemejeje it seems u love having sex too much
DeleteHow is he an Idiot?
DeleteHahahahhahahhaha....... today's chronicle na wa!
DeleteLmao. Motion seconded.. intact, thirded. Go and gbensh the IDIOT, unless u re a virgin and saving urself for MR RIGHT. Make sure he's clean and uses protection. Honest opinion.... U may see that egg later in life as a child and torment urself over it. Gbensh and waka commot.
Deletebabe,u are still young so u have plenty eggs to donate but i know our nigerian mentality wont let u.its better to donate for a good course than to sleep around with a married man for money.
ReplyDeleteSee me oh! Infact make I find where them dry donate egg for Nigeria sef. I might be able to help people out. This is something some people do for free sef to help women who need. Na wa oh
DeletePoster: What ever decision u take, make sure u can sleep comfortably at night without ur past decision hunting you... At 23, ure an adult. Mind u, some decisions seems easy to take, but the after effect will traumatize u.... It'd be diffrent if u cld no way trace the receiving couple, cus trust me one look at ur biological child will break ur heart, thrs been alarming number of cases whr the surrogate mothers hv a change of heart in the 11th hour.
ReplyDeleteIs this surrogacy?? Don't even compare!!
DeleteThis is not surrogacy. It's happens everywhere in all these ivf clinics
DeleteThese are the kind of people that are qualified for give away na. At least she will always remember this blog and come back to help. Please the angels on this blog should reach out to her
ReplyDeleteWho told you? What makes you think she'd come back? People will always tell you what they want you to hear.
DeleteAngel Abril, reach out na
Hmmmn this is tough oooo
ReplyDeleteMe sef dey find 14k CAD dollars for my tuition
May God help us
Which one is better? Having sex with a condom within 3minutes or going through that shit because of #200,000. Be smart my dear except you are a virgin.
ReplyDeleteWhat is the oke mkpi can last for 50minutes
DeleteBut you sent this to misspetite already, people gave you advice and you even thanked them. Na wa for you o
ReplyDeleteNo mind her, she tink say she go cum here n see ppl wey go ask fr her acct numba and gv her d money, during d rant session, did she nt c d numba of ppl dt nids money to eida buy baby tnz or pay fr one tn or d oda, she cum here de snd chronicles....mtcheww, we were once @ a crossroad @ eida phases of our lives, and we used wisdom...make use of ur brain my dear...
DeleteReally. Why do people need multiple blogs to give them answer to questions they already know the answer to
Delete@Cinwon ,did she commit any crime by sending it here?
DeleteStella, why did i feel guilty when i was about to drop a comment on another blog? It felt like i was unfaithful to Stella, i ended up going anonymous, lol..... I swear, ladies take note, if uve got a boo that visits diffrent blogs & comments on them all at ease, such a man can easily cheat on you.... Kikikiki..... SDK i hail oh, i faithful die.
ReplyDeleteLmao
DeleteI faithful pass...chei! SDK your German jazz dey work.
I feel same to,like I'm cheating on Stella,I don't like even my "paste "ID on other blogs talkless of if I had an official blog Id.
DeleteSame here, I always feel like am cheating on my darling stella so I end up not commenting at all.
DeleteShebi Alloy has ported back to his originating domain,commenting everywhere with his ID but he doesn't even say HI on here again. World people
Mumu talk
DeleteLol. I could have sworn I wrote that. Sometimes, when it becomes too boring here, I try to visit the other blog...I feel so terrible and I immediately clear off my browsing history. Lol.
DeleteStella biko spice this place more, dey release comments quickly. Some of us no like to cheat, no dey push us to am. Lol.
If u want to do it just know that 200k na change
ReplyDeleteIf u must do, make the money enter millions, look at it on the bright side, you'd be wiping their tears away
Goodluck on your decision I can't tell u what to do o
Oga oo
ReplyDeleteSometimes you have to give what you have. I would look at it this way. If it was your sister who was in need of an egg to be able to hold a baby of her own would you give? The first instance of someone asking you to sleep with him in a threesome for money is nonsense. That is prostitution. I'm happy you remained firm in telling him off. But giving to help a couple who have been trying to conceive will make them happy. That's the kind of giving I would want to do even if money wasn't attached. I would love to put a smile on the face of another person in life. Im thinking God would also smile at that kind of heart...
ReplyDeleteI share the same thoughts as you.
DeletePoster.. don't do it. Take this to God in prayer.. the way u write it down here,tell the most high exactly the same thing. .. quite his words for him. Seek him. Help will come. See,for u to shove off temptations till now,kudos to u. Don't throw it all out. This is your morning.take it to God
ReplyDeleteGentle
Aunty the egg will eventually be unfertilised and passed away as menses. You can help the couple or so. But if you can't...aunty abeg Gbensh the top presidency uncle,get your cool dough,certificate and a good job placement. U be 'vagin'?
ReplyDeleteGod bless you for the egg comment
DeleteGo for the presidency man... In fact date him cos the other option is a no no. You have no right to that child cos it's an agreement you will sign. My dear, that's a no no.
ReplyDeleteMy 2 cent.
And you think I will buy skin products from a hoe, SMH
DeleteLmao..wicked anon. @Tee, how is donating her egg a no no? People do it everyday at ivf clinics. Besides, the wasted eggs that flushes out monthly, does she attach sentiments to them? You are advising her to sleep with a man that might probably be a ritualist or not have any good intentions when she has a better offer abi? Really smh for you. Poster donate your egg but not at that price..that is too small jare.
DeleteI've donated before, donated 3 times when I was 26 in lagos then, I don't even know d couple. Was paid and I used the money n relocated with my fiance now husband. I don't feel anything, I just did some couples a favour. After my last boy, I was planning on becoming a surrogate but you have to be registered here to do it.
ReplyDeleteU get mind o.... Some people strong sha o
DeleteWhere can I donate pls? How much will they pay me?
DeleteI will say just do it on the ground that you are helping them, the product of the egg is not your child
ReplyDeleteBut I won't do that for 200k may be 500k sha
All the above
ReplyDelete*singing Tpain and Twista*
Your own good,yiu get option.
Are u a virgin @ posted?
ReplyDeletePlease give me his number. I will fuck him and donate my egg. I'm desperate like that. 200k!
ReplyDeleteAbeg, just donate the egg, no fuck am....
DeleteThey asked for a chance but you want to take chances
Stella you live in the western world but your waffy mentality never live you
ReplyDeleteLol. I thought so too was actually surprised *covers face *
DeleteYou live in Naija and ur gbagun never LEAVE you.
DeleteWell poster,its a tough one o I won't lie and giving the circumstance, I think you should help out the couple. They will definitely look after the child well.
ReplyDeleteIt's your decision to make but I think it's better you give out the eggs than you sleeping with a man cos of money. It is well. May you be guided in your decision.
Poster, its really a tough one o... i wish i could help u with money instead of u to subject ursef to making any of these decisions. I dnt knw wot to tell u as i cnt do it mysef. Maybe u shud jst wait n finish next yr, this is really huge.
ReplyDeleteToo hard!
ReplyDeleteUse your conscience!
There is nothing wrong in being a egg donor for couple struggling for fertility,one million Nigeria is doing and even all over the world.you dont have any business with the child after,and here in Nigeria and all over the world it is supposed to be anonymous and the woman husband sperm that is involve and not yours,donating egg will never pose any problemor health issue ,so is a good opportunity for you to make small and continue with your education,believe me you will never regret
ReplyDeleteMy sister, biko don't do it oooo. Who education don epp for 9ja? What's the assurance that you will find a better job after this education? Who told you the money won't get stolen on the day you receive it? There are many ifs and maybes in this matter. If it is God's will for you to have ur masters degree this year then you will no matter what but if you take an action you will regret for life, then it will be too sad. Think twice sis, call onto God and help will surface from nowhere.
ReplyDeleteI hate when people ask who education help. Education helps!!!! It helps!!! Stop killing dreams of people who want to further. It's a life long asset that can't be bought. Pls enough of this
DeleteDo it and do not blackmail yourself emotional because you are just a donor. You are not dashing out a real life child just the foundation
ReplyDeletehmmm my dear you are in dilemma but i think you should take everything to God in prayer!!!!
ReplyDeleteWait oooo... What's the big deal about giving out your egg... Personally i dont see any. I can readily give out mine to a couple who is TTC with the right price of course as long as there will be no medical side effect...
ReplyDeleteMy 2cent
I tire o. So many ignorant bvs
DeleteThis is a hard one. Will it in any way go against God? Is it harmful to you? What does your conscience tell u? No one can make this decision for you. People give out their eggs to help people. Some act as surrogates too. They do it to help or get paid.
ReplyDeleteLook within. If u r spiritual, ask God for a way. Cos this really is a hard one. I wish you the best.
Poster men donate sperm. Talk to a doctor. Its not a bad thing
DeletePlease give me his number. I will fuck him and donate my egg. I'm desperate like that. 200k!
ReplyDeleteStella sometimes the way u reason got me thinking!! She wants an advice on what to do, this girl is in d worst possible situation rite now a situation u wouldn't even wish an enemy and all u can say is this... Na wa oh! Well my dear u don't need advice from anyone, you wear the shoes and know how it fits. Do what you know it's best in the sight of God don't let a little set back make u jump into a decision you'll regret all ur life.
ReplyDeleteGive out the egg my dear. You're blessing people. What's the guarantee that after the man sleeps with you it will all last? I've made 10million naira from paid sex and till today that money never amounted to anything good. Had to give the remaining 3million out to various charities because wealth gotten through sin always has a way of hurting.
ReplyDeleteClose your eyes and help to be a blessing to people. If you can't do that one then don't do any. Don't ever sleep with a man for money. Please my dear don't do it. Don't make my mistakes.
Youre either careless with money or God no just gree. 10m?? Ah ahn
DeleteAfter you have done it and made your own money abi?
DeleteYou are a selfish woman. Why not help her with the money? Leave here mbok!
After you have done it and made your own money abi?
DeleteYou are a selfish woman. Why not help her with the money? Leave here mbok!
The egg will still drop as menses, sell it! Just makke sure they are not using it for rituals.
ReplyDeleteStella an egg is not an embryo until sperm fertilizes it na ordinary menstruation. Poster be using this to beg stylishly
Na beg she de beg naa, cos plenty ppl wil want to b sentimental abt it, Buh babe grow up jur, if school no gree u go, and u dnt want to use al d options u v, u cn as well drop out and find ur talent, jst lyk brymo advised a fan askn fr school fees money, d ppl wey go skul sef stl de find work, and afta u c ds 200k gada sef, u go stl cum find work lyk d rest...abegiii
DeleteAs in eh! Licensed beggar with nafdac certification.
DeleteThis chronicle is hard Ooooo.
ReplyDeleteI can't be comfortable or be able to sleep well knowing that my child is somewhere else without me..
Can't deal..
JESUS fix it..
Did u carry d pregnancy to term, u r donating egg not putting out ur kid fr adoption..
DeleteLOL,your child? It is not your child ma.you donated an egg not a baby.nigerians and their wack mentality.
DeleteDear Poster,
ReplyDeleteIn all your narrative, you left out God. Your name is Grace and I presume you are a Christian. Go to God in prayers & believe HE will come through for you. I won't advice you to give out an egg in exchange for money....that to me is like selling a child.
Go to GOD, HE will fix it for you and you will be just fine. It will well with you in Jesus name.
I suggest you donate your egg to the couple. People donate SPERM and EGG ... its a very normal thing. You are actually helping the couple... what makes you think you will be attached to the baby.. its just an EGG...
ReplyDeletePeople even abort a FOETOS a growing baby.. I will advice you bless the couple with your EGG than sleeping with your so called UNCLE...
STELLA , you live in Germany and you should know better and more enlightened about donating an EGG.
Abeg, where dem de donate the sperm for Lagos?
DeleteI want donate...
I see nothing wrong in donating your egg to a ttc couple but I see everyting wrong in earning cash fr0m it. It is more like u are selling your child for cash.
ReplyDeleteBut it is also better than wasting it as menstruation n.a.. pls be reasonable she's needs the money for something meaningful.
DeleteYou want to sell a child? Your own child? Tufiakwa!!
DeleteIt's a better option for her. I know many girls in lag and Abuja that did it. Some married now with kids. No one will come out and tell u. After using their monies some will even pretend like it's something they can't do... I promise u no emotional attachment or anything u fear... It's just egg. If u were to be a surrogate it's different. Why do u think surrogates get attached to the foetus when it wasn't their egg used??? U only get attached when u are the one that carried the pregnancy, weather it was ur egg or not. Better believe that.
DeleteI honestly know what to advice. So I pray for God to direct you. Go to God in prayer and ask for wisdom and direction. I pray all works in your favour.
ReplyDeleteSister, u will be needing the help of that top man after masters ooo. U can never tell. Am sure u will get more than 200k from him plus the job offer after masters. Dnt loose him.
ReplyDeleteNothing goes for nothing in nigeria. Even ur boyfrnd sef will fuck u for free becos u r in one nonsense thing called 'relationship' sigh.
U can also give out ur egg if u feel the need to help the couple.
In conclusion, dnt loose that man that wants to gbensh.. u can tell him u dnt want threesome.
Don't mind her. Virgin you no be, you gbensh your brokeass bf free, you are even considering giving out your egg (your egg!) but you can't do a threesome that will give you more than 200k plus a job. Your own mumu dey mesmerise me
DeleteWhat if the man is sick or wants to do rituals? Not all that glitters is gold. Woe to the man who goes down to Egypt for help. I look unto the hills, from whence cometh my help? My help cometh from the Lord, who made heaven and earth. The end doesn't always justify the means boo.
DeleteMy 5 naira.
When one sees comments like dis,you definitely pity the next generation behind.Lost morals n values.Which kain nonsense advise be dis one and who says God cannot raise some other better person to be a blessing to her? Mtchewwww
DeleteDon't do either. God will open up other doors for u! Please don't do what u will regret all ur life.d egg is ur child o. Don't mind people telling u it's just an egg!! When they do DNA on the product of ur egg it will come out positive as YOUR CHILD!! Don't sell what God has given u for what u are expecting him for! Please instead go to ur church welfare group they will help.
ReplyDeleteMy dear dis life is too short. If u heart permits it, donate ur eggs. Its not like it's in short supply where it's coming frm. Maybe God directed u to dis couple to put a smile on their faces. Remember people donate kidneys.
ReplyDeleteI hope they give u d money afterwards. Besides there are lots of things involved in IVF. U don't even knw if d baby will b carried to term. Most IVF babies r usually miscarried but, even if d baby survives atleast u would have blessed a family. U lose these eggs monthly.
Moreover, even if d money isn't involved, wouldn't u do it for free. Anyway dats just me.
Goodluck in ur Masters defence
Good advice
DeletePlease if you choose this route ask for more money... 200k is too small... People donate eggs abroad all the time. Only you can make the right decisions
Deletechei i was commenting like it was surrogate but all the same..it still leaves my body ba?
ReplyDeleteLiar Stella, you didn't make any mistake. It's cause your Bvs are bashing your bush mentality that's why you quickly switched sides. Madam donating eggs and surrogacy is not the same. Shebi you see as you fall your hand.
DeleteLeaves your body as menses na
DeleteLmao... Glad you corrected yourself Stella. She will have to make a decision on which option she can live with. People get emotionally burdened/sentimental in naija.. if she can shake emotions out of it, she will be able to make the right decisions but no body can make it for her.
DeleteIt's the same thing as donating blood Stella. It has your DNA and that's it. Nigerians need to open their minds...
DeleteLol! I Jes luv you Stelz...
DeleteEvery one on this blog knows someone in presidency *just passing by
ReplyDeleteBefore nko? Is it someone in ward 2 of one bush in Jigawa they will know?
DeleteYes we do o but some of them no dey help.
DeleteThe ones I know have helped me sha and help is still coming.
They won't see anything in donating egg,see their mouth. Please don't attempt such you will regret it later,run to God and hold onto him firmly.
ReplyDeletePlease, Please, Please don't do any of the two. Don't donate any egg. You will never be the same again knowing that part of you is somewhere especially if you end up making it in life. Call upon God, he will answer you in a way you never thought of.
ReplyDeletePoster, if you ever consider doing it, make sure you demand for 5million straight up! do you know what it means to give your egg out? If e dey that cheap why haven't dey gotten it?.
ReplyDeleteI would have said you should sell your egg but this issue of perhaps one of your children getting involved with the one you sold out is.....you know,its a small world. Kinda scary
ReplyDeleteBut poster what are you saying sef? Why cant you sex your friend?its called FWB!
Your bf that is enjoying that thing,how much has he contributed in your well being?hope you are not whoresho-free.
*in James voice*
Are you a virgin?
Can you tell me that place is still the way them born you?
Have man never see and enter that your something before?
Can you swear man has never gbensh you skin to skin and pour inside your something before?
Kwakwakwakwa
Now my advice,I'm not mincing or sugar coating words,sleep with the man in the presidency! Juicy offer and a job? And you saying no? It seems that masters no hungry you to finish,or after masters you start trekking under hot sun looking for jab abi?
To whom brain is given,sense is expected.
Oh!for those that will come and cuss Shanny,yimu*....I will be Lmco.....who una epp. Mtcheew!
Lmaoo. James! I guessed right.
ReplyDeleteLinda! Correct advice!
The word is'OGADINMA'
ReplyDeletefast and pray and wait. God will lead you to the right solution. You will have peace.
ReplyDeleteI would love to donate my eggs too..i am in serious need for money and i could help a ttc couple too. I am based in the south, if any couple is interested, then drop a comment under mine.
ReplyDeleteDo neither, trust God and if it doesnt stil work out! Deffer the aadmision! Self worth is better than riches
ReplyDeletePlease give your egg because it is not a child; the child is when the man gives you sperm. So technically the child is not yours but the child to the sperm that fertilized it. If you can't do it I would do it in a heartbeat reply under my message.
ReplyDeleteplease my sister let the thought of gbenshing the politician be off...seek God in prayer concerning the egg donating...there's nothing wrong in doing, u are also putting a smile on the face of the couple...all the best beautiful
ReplyDeleteDonate the egg but make sure it is a reputable hospital.200,000 is too small.I donated my eggs to reduce the cost of my Ivf and God smiled upon me and gave me two beautiful kids.NO BIG DEAL.
ReplyDeletePls pple on this blog. Pls where are dey domatting egg. I need money. Pls contact me . Pls anty stella can direct dem to me. I willing to donate 150k per egg . I can give out 5
ReplyDeletemy sweetheart let the thought of gbenshing the politician be off...there's nothing wrong in donating ur egg to the couple just see it as souring seed in their life..only thing u have to do is to pray about it.....all the best my dear...
ReplyDeleteThat's why u didn't post my comment.
ReplyDeletePeople are wired differently.Do whatever will make you sleep well at night.
ReplyDeleteWHEN IN DOUBT,DON'T.
Ask yourself this,if these two options weren't available,what could I have done?
...therein lies the answer.
The decision is yours @ d end of d day. However, if u must donate your egg, from experience please the amount for egg donation is way higher than dat. I hope the intermediary betwn u and d couple is not making money from it.
ReplyDeletePoster must be from bayelsa state my state and running a master's program in Uniport. I can imagine paying school fees and defense fee of #50,000.Babe go meet Ure friend oooo make him do after dat u forget him.
ReplyDeleteBabe, you can donate the egg if u get mind, but don't spread ur legs for the old uncle but demand more than 200k, you are still young and make sure they do the egg thing under a good facility i mean a good hospital. God will be with you. I would have advice to wait for another year but ur effort and sweat all over the year nko? pray about it.
ReplyDeleteHaving read your story lady, in Nigeria its not easy running a programme if you don't have any form of support either from parents, guardian or self. Its a no go area and you aint working spoils it all. I wonder why you didnt plan for the degree first before starting.
ReplyDeleteYou have two options the juicy package from the presidency and selling your eggs. weighing your options how many times are you going to spread your legs for the offer? If the offer is actually real once you given the job will you still continue to spread them legs wide?
Secondly, once you get the offer any guarantee that the job will be yours definitely or a matter will arise and you out in the first three months?
Thirdly, are you ready to be called at any point in time to spread them legs?
I can go on and on about this juicy offer from the Presidency.
Selling your eggs, whats side effect of it positively and negatively?
Try do your research on that.
If you eventually want to sell your eggs get a lawyer, put it in writing.
No need to put any attachment to the eggs, its purely business, have it it mind its a win win situation, you sell your eggs you made a home happy and you get paid.
I would prefer the second alternative if you have a good doctor that will analyze it for you very well, if it doesn't have any side effect.
Well the people you might be dealing with might be wiser,the procedure might go well and tell you it wasn't successful so you don't attach or track in future.
Think it well ... May God give you wisdom and understanding
I'm in a similar situation. Can't pay my fees. All those who promised me a helping hand whenever I need one are all dodging me. Even those I've gone out of my way to help in the past. The man that promised to marry me and promised to help with me fees did not infact, just broke up with me (I didn't ask, he offered). All others want something in return (sex). I feel like it's a wicked world. People take advantage of people especially those in need, even when it will cost them nothing, literally, to help. My dear,I don't know how I will do it. I don't even know how you will do it. But I know God knows how. Believe.
ReplyDeleteKeep on praying.. With God all things are. Possible. He's a merciful God.
DeletePls drop ur account number @ the poster or a mail to reach you, thanks.
ReplyDeleteSweetie, give the eggs. Just make sure the hospital where the procedure will be done is safe.
ReplyDeleteThe eggs will come end up in a sanitary pad anyways so no hard feelings.
If donating your egg plant is not against God's will, then do it to put a smile on those couples face than sleeping with the presidency man.
ReplyDeleteDidnt stella not say don't send her chronicles if you have sent it to other blogs??? i have seen this on misspetitenigeria's blog oni so lenu , the advice them give you there never reach
ReplyDeleteAm interested ooo,anyone that needs eggs for cool money.I knw we will be helping eachother out.
ReplyDeleteI thought u hv bring dis up on miss petite blog
ReplyDeleteWhat's the big deal? Donating egg is same thing as donating sperm. Every month you menstruate and it goes to waste. It really wont take anything from your life. Instead you are blessing a woman that can't bear children. If i see that opportunity i will willingly give even without collecting money. Abi u wan horde your eggs?
ReplyDeleteWas pregnant and trying to conceive after 10 years but was just miscarriages...we did IVF and I conceived with donor eggs....we now have beautiful twin girls to the glory of God......one is a carbon copy of her dad and the other luckily looks like me....don't know the donor and won't even know her even if she hits me in the face....the doctors don't tell and you don't even know....I don't feel any guilt cos I used my eggs twice and miscarried but used donor eggs and carried to 35 weeks.....I think it's Gods will and am enjoying being a mother..if u want to donate please feel free to
ReplyDeleteStory of my life!!! D only tin is I don't have any contacts on d egg donation thingy and dats all. D difficulties surrounding me now is a milestone I know I wud soon conquer. I'm still a virgin so I wud Neva do sex for money.
ReplyDeleteYOU COULD ALWAYS CARRY A PLACARD ON SOME MAJOR ROAD.
ReplyDeletedress pretty too.
Lmao. Then the VP will invite her for a handshake and photograph session, she'll write series of test with Forte oil and the rest and still remain jobless. Lol
DeleteMy advice will be for you to check other IVF and assisted-pregnancy clinics and shop for better offer, if you make up your mind to donate the egg (which i know is not bad or unsafe)
ReplyDeleteThis way you achieve 2 things:
Remain anonymous and not get to know who the egg recipients are.
Possibly get a better bargain.
In my opinion, I think you should go and sleep with the man, but be wise about it, put your foot down and take all the goodies. Don't go there to do "anya ura", times are hard my sister.
ReplyDeleteExactly five years ago, I met a top government official whom I heard pays women good. At the age of 21, (I was even younger than you are now) I put my foot down, collected everything I could lay my hands on... coming from a very poor home, I dare not play with the opportunity.
The man used to pay me 300k per month for my personal upkeep,he gave me 80 - 100k every two weeks for my hair and 50k every week for shopping. I saved up all the money, I never bought a single original brazilian hair and to be honest with you, men can't even differentiate between original and fake hair.
By the time I stayed with him for one and a half year, I had saved up enough money for masters. When I told him I was ready to leave the country, he gave me 2M, as a sharp girl, I gathered all the money and left to pursue my dreams. Even while I was away, he still sent me money occasionally... I continued to keep contact with him cos I knew what I wanted.
In the course of my stay, I met my dream man, yes an "Oyinbo" I fell head over heels for him and today we are happily married. This same man helped to sponsor my wedding too.
Looking back, I have no regrets at all cos I am living my dreams.
I don't think I would have had this much peace if I had sold my eggs, and trust me not a single one of my friends know this secret. Even my mom believed when I told her I had won a scholarship... cos she would have killed me if she found out what I did, she's born again and would never support adultery or fornication.
At the end of the day, you already know what you want so just go with it.