Singles Mingles Feedback And Advise To Those Trying To Mingle!

This is a must read for you if the subject concerns your status,if not please mind your nose and move on to the next post!

ANOTHER MARRIAGE FROM SINGLES MINGLES LOADING....

''Dear Madam Stella,

Thank you so much for the singles and mingle platform. I owe a lot of gratitude to you.

I honestly didn't even know my comment went through because as at the time I saw the post you already had the complete comments you requested. A month after, a guy added me and we started chatting. This happened last March, 2 weeks before Easter. Since then, we have been in contact. He resides in the UK while am in Nigeria. He is coming back month end to see me and then possibly marriage introduction. We have also been planning relocation.

I really do look forward to inviting you to our wedding before the year runs out. This Guy is really God sent for me, i had already given up on men but coming in contact with him has been a wonderful experience.

Thank you so much, I will surely give you progress update. Please keep my name out when you publish on your blog. I will surely send you our pics when we do our marriage introduction and court WEDDING.

Thank you so much and God bless''

SINGLES MINGLES ADVICE FROM SOMEONE WHO KNOWS

Jennifer says.....

''Hi Stella,

Singles and mingles is an amazing platform to network and meet new people from different works of life. 

Below are my comments to ensure that blog visitors have a pleasant snm experience going forward.

1. Darling sister, you posted your pin, yet you will be doing shakara to Inform the poor guy of your profile/ basic information. If your pic was on your dp, he wouldn't ask and if he asks for more probably it's because hes interested in you. All your photos are on social media for 2 billion strangers worldwide to see.There's no difference! As long as you used your hand to post Ur pin the shakara is off! So wear your big girl pants and chat the brother up well!

2. No body is ugly or not your style. Yes we have our spec but please treat people with respect! If pictures are exchanged and you don't like what you see please pretend. Try not to hurt his or her feelings. It might not lead to a relationship, but it could lead to something else. Probably you were brought to make the person feel better about themselves. My 2 cents.

3. The forum is for matured minds. Enough of calling peoples names because they were in your bad books or sent you nude pics. There will be frogs before you meet your prince/ friend so please behave yourself. Do not divulge peoples private information.  Kharma sucks. Even if a yoruba and a swahilli guy adds you, gist with the guy jare!  It takes great courage to do snm O.

4. Always have a ready picture to send. Nice background and you look decent. Be real and be yourself. I've met awesome people that have talked me up in tough times on this platform.people I've never met. 

5. Let it gooooo, let it gooooooo. Please leave your past baggage behind and focus on the future. Stop giving too much information. Do not lie! It will bite you in the ass. 

6. When it's time to meet, find a focal location like the mall and get to know who this person is.

7. When you add someone, the chatting must not be instant. Surprisingly, the people I enjoyed most were those that engaged me weeks after the add up.

8. This is supposed to be a light hearted process. Don't fast and pray before every snm! Your husband may or may not be here. Make friends!

9. A sense of humor works every time. When someone pings you don't leave them hanging, it's rude." Brb" works everytime. Also,calls work! Some guys/babes voices are just awesome and soothing.Don't be afraid to Give out your number.

10. I once met someone on snm. Absolutely gorgeous guy! That picture did not do him justice! 

Finally no one knows tomorrow, the strangest people come to our aid at times we never expected.I've bumped into someone I met on snm at his office ! He told me he worked at one of the banks

 I remembered and  I pinged him when I got there and he helped process the transaction faster. It was fun!. Be nice to everyone! 

We are all taking a chance at this thing called love and happiness. Loosen up!

Finally keep trying! Keep putting yourself out there. You never know what's In store for you! 

Xoxo

Thanks Stella!

*I am amazed at those who run here to mention names and cry that they were sent nude photos,so bloody what?if you dont like the photos move on!..it might not even be the persons photo and they just might be trying to see your reaction...you can laugh it off and initiate another conversation,if they delete you,fine but please dont bring it here anymore.

I am not boasting but SINGLES MINGLES has more success stories than all the negative ones..OMG,people have married and about to marry from this forum,them get two heads?No!

Please find out what you are doing wrong and double up or stop taking part.

Good comes with evil so dont expect that the singles mingles doesnt have bad guys...and bad ladies...yes some Ladies are so desperate you can smell them like dirty underpants even via chat!...WTH!!!

See you at the next Singles Mingles on May 29th...Terms and conditions apply as regards Buhari releasing names of Looters.you can blame him and call him out if it doesnt hold.LOL