TTC WITHOUT LIBIDO AND IRREGULAR PERIOD
Dear Stella
Am part of the TTC but my irregular period is baffling me a lot. And I don't think I ovulate at all. I visited a gynaecologist and I was given some drugs and since then my urge for sex disappeared.
I get so dry that it's hurts that DH uses cream and water to gain access. And after few minutes it dries up and I hurt so much.
Please I want doctors to help me if there is any drug I can use to re awaken my urge for sex and to regulate my menstrual cycle. I want to share my testimony soon with triplets.
Thank you .
God will bless you with twins
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
She said triplets.
DeleteWas the drug giving to u called clomid, that drug can make one dry for Africa, my suggestions is for u to join nairaland TTC, u will get lots of ideas there.so many people in ur shoes are there, me sef learnt so much there,then get pressed lubricant its TTC friendly and better than cream and water.
DeleteGo back to your doctor and complain about the side effects.
DeleteTry evening primrose oil. It works wonders. Google it. It will help with dryness and all
DeleteUse magani mata. Very important.
ReplyDeleteNwa AMAKA where can I get magani mata
DeleteYou will testify in no time my dear. Just hang in there. I think that dryness and lack of libido is your hormone not being balanced. Try and change Dr. The Lord is the strength of all the TTCs.
ReplyDeleteYou want doctors to help you yet still you come on sdk to complain.
ReplyDeleteYou don't know where to find doctors ba?
I have said it times without number,y'all should stop being daft.
Here isn't a clinic or a lab
The best advice u can get is from a doctor IN A HOSPITAL
U could either tell stella to stop this segment, or u stop opening this segment, bitter leaf cynthia. Some of us learn from this segment. Elena (her bitter majesty).
DeleteIf you can help just keep quiet. Some kind hearted people who have experienced this but came out of the situation will help. She's been to the hospital, did u read that part?
DeleteHaba , except stella stops this segment nd it won't happen , so u guys should stop telling posters on this section to go to d hospital in a harsh tone , cos u are spoiling business for stella indirectly because people won't bring their stories here
DeleteThen what is the purpose of this segment madam
DeleteMay God heal you.
ReplyDeleteU need a good suck on ur clit. Why wont u get wet?
DeleteHmmmm,I no fit shout. Doctors over to you. May God bless you with the fruit of the womb.
ReplyDeleteLet me suggest something for you.. .pray to God to forgive you all your sins, I'm sure you have aborted before. I aborted more than 10times before I settled down. Later I started looking for belle, and I cried to God to forgive me and now I'm a mum of beautiful children. Though I still cheat but he's a merciful lord.
ReplyDeleteHian!!!
DeleteWhat will I not read on Stella's blog
Ha..God is indeed merciful..you are boasting
DeleteNa wa oh.
DeleteIf you are still cheating, then u were never really repentant.
DeleteHmm na wah!
DeleteUr last sentence tho!
DeleteLol! Very funny comment... Nne why are you still cheating? Something must be missing in your life that you want to make-up for so badly...God is not man my dear he will forgive you if you genuinely repent...
DeleteAre you mocking God?? Did you read through what you wrote?? Nemesis will catch up with u soon.May God have mercy on you...#Estee
DeleteWill you continue in sin that Grace may abound?
DeleteIdnt know weda make I laugh at this comment
DeleteHe's a merciful God but madam try and quit cheating on your husband naaaa Haba!
DeleteShame on you @anon 11:42
DeleteWriting rubbish here. You abort more than 10times and expect others to follow your devilish advice?
I tire for some people on this blog,hahahahaha
DeleteDo you think everyone TTC is a heartless dog like u. Which sane woman aborts more than 10times? Wtf.... and you talk about prayers? Who do u pray to? The devil U sacrificed more than ten foetus to? SMH
DeleteKwakwakwa
DeleteKpohokpoho
Kikikikiki
Hehehehehe
Choi indeed he is a merciful God
Hahahahahahahahahahaha
Think about Ideato's question in your heart and see if you can answer it.
DeleteI beg who is a saint among you.. .I wanted to type though I still sin but he's merciful not cheat.. .I have no reason to cheat...The lords grace is sufficient for me.
DeleteLwkmd
DeleteChoi...jesus...this blog funny die
DeleteUr doc didn't run tests to knowWhat to treat? Use eve desire n ur punnay will be doing 'come come come' n preseed lubricant, then check ur hormones, u don't have a problem sef.
ReplyDeleteThis eve desire,hope it doesn't have side effect cos mesef I wan de run hubby mad. I no fit shout for all these small gals matter.
DeleteMadam u re funny. Pls, just trust ur husband. Dnt even let ur mind go to d area that he is cheating on u
DeleteGo see another gynecologist. You will carry your baby soon!
ReplyDeleteHe uses cream and water?
ReplyDeleteWhat type of Cream bikonu?
Don't introduce just anything into your Vagina. Go look for a good Lubricant and use dear. Atleast let's solve the dryness issue.
Don't use cream nd water cos the sperm won't move oooo, nd don't just use any lubricant cos u won't get pregnant like that, it has to be a fertility lubricant like preseed or conceive easy
DeleteIts really bad. Medical doctors should have the honesty to let their patients know beforehand the side effect of prescribed drugs. I was given an injection too which decreased my urge for sex. In fact I found it so difficult to achieve an erection let alone stay for a few minutes. I was confused and it severely affected my marriage. My wife complained but I didn't know what to do. Our relationship became strained as this went on for months. I was unhappy. So was my wife. It was whilst going for therapy that another doctor asked me for the name of the injection I was given a couple of months earlier and he explained the side effects to me. It was only after this I was able to explain to my wife. But It had almost cost me my marriage. We are still working at it now-almost two years afterwards. But at least my wife understands.and shes now very patient.
ReplyDeleteMeet me make i cure your no erection joor
DeleteBlend tiger nut, dabino and coconut togeda..... Sieve it and drink..Your libido will be raised to pwr infinity. Abeg dont take it wen oga wont be around ooo. And pls keep it refrigerated cos it gets fermented easily. All d best. 😘
ReplyDeleteAnu pls what is dabino, me kwa my libido too pooro, I dey husband house, I Neva born yet I hate sex so much. I tried to put my mind and do my best but still na f9. My dh don dey notice but I dey use lubricant always.pls help, I need help oooo
DeleteAnu pls what is dabino, me kwa my libido too pooro, I dey husband house, I Neva born yet I hate sex so much. I tried to put my mind and do my best but still na f9. My dh don dey notice but I dey use lubricant always.pls help, I need help oooo
DeleteIts normally been sold by those mallams dat push wheelbarrow.. Its sold most tyms along with tiger nut(ofio) . Just tell dem u want dabino...Dabino on its own is very sweet. But remove d seed insydb4 blending. You can even soak all for like 30mins b4 blending.
DeleteDabino is Dates. Google dates and you will know it.
DeleteThe English name for it is DATE
DeleteNsogbu
ReplyDeleteMadam, look for honey goatweed.
ReplyDeleteYou have to be in the mood to be wet for sex. Think of something that can put you on. For irregular menses, you can use Fertilaids, Fertilecm and Ovaboost. They will correct your cycle and boost your eggs (Ovulate) for fertility. Inaddition, pray without ceasing. God never forgets his own.
ReplyDeleteYes use fertile aid to balance ur hormonr
DeleteI had Irregular cycle not period, don't know if they mean the same. I'm pregnant now sha, thank God. Stop using water and cream. Haba. Buy preseed, expensive but worth it. Have sex all through the cycle. Don't look for ovulation date cos I didn't know mine too. Mind you, it's work o, serious one. That one week we did was not easily. But was worth it.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand your doctor,it's not Wright that your doctor just gave you drugs without running tests,you are supposed to have a blood test done to know if there's any underlying problems causing your irregular period,if it comes back fine,then a scan should be to know that you haven't got fibroid,if that comes out ok,then your postergerion level should be checked and your partner need to do a spermicide lever count,women please stop assuming that you are the one with a problem, let your dh get tested too.am sure after all this test, you will know what the problem is and then your doctor can know the Wright treatment to give you. ****@Elena it's alright for people to come here on the blog to air whatever help they need medically,it's good to learn from other people's experience, not just visiting a hospital alone that matters.you don't know how many people this forum Stella has here has helped.
ReplyDeleteBy his Stripes you are healed.
ReplyDeleteU will definitely carry your baby this year IJN. Amen
Na lie ooo James is this really you,you have changed lately ooo,so horrible people like you can borrow sense...Amen to your prayer.but I prefer you when you're nasty,it makes it more fun.yèyè man abi na woman you be.
DeleteNa lie ooo James is this really you,you have changed lately ooo,so horrible people like you can borrow sense...Amen to your prayer.but I prefer you when you're nasty,it makes it more fun.yèyè man abi na woman you be.
DeletePOSTER UR NOT ALONE CYSTER! AM SURE U HAVE PCOS VERY DIFFICULT TO FEEL WET DOWN THERE. JUST SEE A BETTER GYNEA!
ReplyDeleteANON 11.42 how dare you say such? So ttc women are those who aborted? Some of them have never even smelt pregnancy in their life before.Mind what you say,or say nothing at all if you cant be sensitive to people's predicatments.
ReplyDeleteTry and get pressed lubricant, and use ovulation strips to monitor your ovulation
ReplyDeleteI don't understand why people with seemingly serious problems would hope to get accurate health advice from someone online. Over-the-blog prescriptions wont help u one bit unless u want to toy with ur life, then good luck trying out all d toxins they will recommend here. U need to go visit ur gynaecologist
ReplyDeleteVery serious!
ReplyDeleteAbout your something's dryness.
ReplyDeleteIt seems your horseband is a leaner with it comes to the art of massaging and sensual romancing.
If an expert lover, like my very own self handle u. U something will be more slippery than Ogbono soup.
Tell him to learn how to touch a woman first.
Did he give you a progesterone pill? You didn't give enough details for people to help you.
ReplyDeletewhich magani mata NwaAmaka?
ReplyDeleteIt is well oh
ReplyDeleteUse Evening Primrose oil capsule from day 1 of ur cycle up to ovulation and drink grapefruit juice den take vitex chastberry everyday....
ReplyDeleteU should see a better doc.
ReplyDeleteGod will see you through my dear. This TTC thing can make you do a lot of unthinkable things. Mine is that there's nothing wrong with me but it's yet to happen. so I'm just looking up to God for his help. Getting so much crazy about it but it's well.
ReplyDeleteU need to find a way to balance ur hormones, u can use evening primerosenoil from first day of your period till d day u ovulate ,I want to believe that it doctor prescribed clomid for u and that is y u are dry, u can use preseed fertility lubricant or take cough syrup that contains guafenesin(can't remember d spelling) nd u can use ruzu bitters too
ReplyDeleteThe doctor*
DeleteU can also use agnus cactus or vitex to balance ur hormone, taking regular fertility multivitamin tablet, u can get them from big pharmacies nd stop taking clomid for now if that's what was recommended, cos it dries up cervical mucus which is needed to help d sperm to swim, take fruits nd green tea
ReplyDeleteDont lose hope, keep praying sincerely, and make sure not to have anything against anyone, be actively involved in things that concern children around u.
ReplyDeleteI got pregnant, when i wasnt ovulating, and having been diagnosed of PCOS and fibroid, so my dear there's nothing the Good LORD cannot do.
Please bvs,my brest and nipple hurts, but all the pregnancy test I've done came back with a negative results, I don't have any signs of pregnancy tho, am I really pregnant?
ReplyDeleteI feel dt way sometimes wen am ovulating. Could be what ur going tru
DeleteThanks for replying. God bless you
Deleteuse maca
ReplyDeletetry preseed lubricant it is fertility friendly
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Good day madam.
ReplyDeleteFrom your write up I decipher that the problem didn't start until you started taking the medication prescribed.
Its possible you presented to the doctor with what he suspects as PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome). It is a criminally common cause of irregular periods in this climate.
He probably prescribed the drug CLOMID to you.
If he did,you may go back to him for a review of the drugs dose.
He will likely consider lower doses which will give you significant relief.
And you have will not likely use the drug for more than Four cycles
Thanks
My case was very similar to yours, irregular period, lack of Ovulation and very bad acne. My gynae treated me metformin tab(1tab twice daily), Omega 3-6-9(thrice daily), vitex chasteberry caps(thrice daily). For d dryness buy preseed lubricant.Before you take these drugs carry out hormone profile rest to check if you have high prolactin Above all pray.
ReplyDeletego and buy horny goatweed.
ReplyDeleteBuy fertility blend, the can color is lemon for female and adrk green for male. it sold 6k, get from a trusted pharmacy, it will help you regulate your ovulation and menses. it works. I hav used it in 3 pregnancies. stop taking clomid, it's cancerous. Remove anxiety, it causes dryness also. be at peace with your hubby and stop worrying, all causes vaginal dryness, speaking out of experience.
ReplyDeleteDo a Dates and Tiger nut smoothie(Kunu Aya).it will help wit libido and dryness.#thankmelater
ReplyDeleteYou must be on clomid.
ReplyDeleteThat's a side effect, using the speed friendly lubricant, known as Preseed, will solve this problem for you. Guafenesin(mucinex) may help as well.
Some have mentioned evening primose.
To whomever mentioned clomid as cancerous, please go to Pubmed.gov and do a proper literature review on Clomid and come back again.
Clomid, you can use it for up to 6 cycles. It's mostly prescribed for women who have PCOS, but is also given to women experiencing challenges with fertility and ovulation.