Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

These two Chronicles really pissed me off....

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT?

Stella Korkus i dey hail you. Greetings to fellow members of BVN. Please i need Bvs to help me reason my case o.

I have a boyfriend, we started out as friends before Cupid arrow hit us hard.

Now the thing is before our love story began, he was in a relationship with Lady A for over 6 months. Then he was just an acquaintance to myself and Lady B. 

This year Lady B confessed her love to him and he said something in that line but he was shy to tell her then. They started something that wasn't defined because of lady A and myself; i wouldn't hear of it. Many things happened in between and he broke up with A after he cheated with B.

 Our relationship kicked off when things died down (i guess i rushed things but i wanted to try things out). In the early stages, i asked him what the situation with B is seeing as they almost dated. He told me nothing i should be worried about. I acted like the cool girlfriend, allowed him comfort her, be her friend and things in that line.

Right now, he's crossing the invincible boundaries he set in their friendship. I mean he says she's his closest female friend. They touch each other in ways i don't like. Personally, i don't have a male friend that i confide in because i don't want stories that touch in my relationship.

I've confronted him to some extent but he keeps saying i should be patient till she settles the issue that brings them close. He doesn't see he's sharing our time to be with her.

Now my questions are; is it appropriate to have an almost date as your best friend when in a relationship? Am i thinking too much or not trusting my boyfriend enough? Should i be worried they'd cross the line in my absence seeing as they seem to be too comfortable with me around?

She's presently staying with him for a few weeks (her place isn't safe for her now). Is it too late to show displeasure over some things? Did i let her get too comfortable around my boyfriend? Is it wise for me to start sending subtle signals for her to give him a little space? She seems to be playing on the fact that my boyfriend likes playing Alpha to ladies in distress (doesn't like when ladies cry, hates the thought of abusing ladies). I like to be strong, whereas she's so emotional and fragile.

Please BVNs what should i do to show my boyfriend that this friendship is dangerous to our new relationship? I think i should play the needy girlfriend too but it's just not me.

Stella 'taank' for this platform.

I AM WRITING IN CAPS BECOS I FEEL LIKE 'KONKING' THAT YOUR HEAD OF WEAVON.....YOU ARE HERE ASKING US WHEN THE SOLUTION LIES IN YOUR CHRONICLE?YOUR BOYFRIEND CHEATED ON HIS GIRLFRIEND WITH SOMEONE ELSE AND NOW YOU ARE DATING HIM AND HE SAYS YOU SHOULD TREAT HIM?

AND NOW SHE IS STAYING WITH HIM WITH YOUR APPROVAL?DO YOU KNOW THAT MALE AND FEMALE PRIVATES IS LIKE MAGNET AND METAL?BE THERE ASKING QUESTIONS,THEY MIGHT HAVE EVEN STARTED SEF...

YOU BETTER SIT UP OR YOU WILL BE SENDING ANOTHER CHRONICLE OF HEART BREAK....you should be worried,you should be very worried!!

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

MATTERS OF THE HEART

Good day Stella. Straight to my story.....

 I met my gf in 2012 and we have been more than good to each other. She will graduate by August this year. We have started planing our wedding by easter next year  But my dad said that the wedding won't happen by next year, his reasons are ....

1) my elder brother is yet to get married cos of job issues,he does not have a steady job,he is still managing. I have a steady job, I am more than comfortable. My dad said that he doesn't want me to bring in a woman before my brother who is our first son. 

2) that our village house must be completed before any of us gets married. He demolished our old house in the village and he is building a duplex for two of us ( my brother and I, we are just two boys). My dad has retired from civil service so he is managing. He said that he doesn't want us to bring someone else's daughter in our uncompleted house. He is a type of father that plans ahead for his children. My brother is 30,i am 28 while my gf is 23. She was disappointed when I told her this. She is complaining of her mates getting married at a younger age. She is more than nice to me,wouldn't like to miss her,I can't marry anyone except her cos we have passed thru a lot. 

Stella dear, and my fellow BVs please advise on how I should handle these(my dad's conditions and my gf's dissappointment). Thanks. Stella please do not publish my email address. FROM KELVIN...

HIAN!......what is this?why are Nigerian parents with such mentality?One shouldnt marry becos the older one is still trying to find his feet?Hissss!.

Abeg other people should advice you cos if i continue typng i go face your papa....