Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

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 NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

IN LOVE WITH THE BOSS....

Good day Mrs Stella,

My name is M**** and am a young woman of 26 years who is the secretary to her boss, at the same time deeply in love with her boss in the office. I've been into several relationships with younger men and I've never felt so loved, Pampered like this before. 

Most young guys I know and I've dated always want the P. They tend to neglect the fact that friendship is the solemnly basis of a solid relationship. Meeting my boss and working with him has redefined my psyche on how a successful relationship would be. My boss is the best boss in the entire universe, highly endowed with intelligence, a mentor, a friend, a pace_setter and he's handsome.

Two months ago, he professed his love to me. Although, the first day I went for the interview I was already in love with this handsome soul. I bottled this all in my feelings not until when he told me he wants me in his life, and as his 2nd wife. Yes, his 2nd wife........

We have not been intimate yet, but I need your advice. Should I go ahead to be his wife? He's older than me with 25 years but as the saying goes "Age is nothing but a number ", he's a Muslim has 2 kids and am a Christian. He respects my religion and my body. Am always happy, bubbling with joy and laughter whenever am around him. He brings out the beauty in me more which radiates when people are around me and they  always acknowledge this new radiation in me.

Please Mrs Stella and my fellow Bvs Readers, I need your advice. Should I go ahead to marry him? Or should I just have his baby because he's so intelligent and I need kids who are extraordinary????

Thanks  and God bless ya all. 

HUH?with the two options you presented,wouldnt it be better to marry him and have the baby?

So with all what you have supposedly learnt from him,a baby mama is what you want to reduce yourself to? *sigh*

I dont know what your mindset is but can you cope with being wife number 2?..Yes,because after you he might take two more?can you cope with the Religion?

The choice to marry him or not lies with you and what you really want,I cannot tell you to marry him.SEARCH DEEP WITHIN YOU AND YOU WILL FIND ANSWERS.

Let me leave the others to advice you darling.

All the best and keep in touch with how it ended okay?

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
TORN BETWEEN TWO MEN.

Hello Stella... Am a regular visitor of your blog and I'll like to hear my fellow bvs advice on a matter i find myself to be at a cross junction. 

Have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. He is not a stingy person as he provides for me in every way he can.  but my problem with him is that he wants to control my life. 

He calls me like 5 times a day and is always asking about my whereabouts. A part of me still loves him because he is generally a nice person and he is really good in bed *winks*. 

..... But then again i feel choked in the relationship. He is currently searching for a job and may bring up marriage talk soon.  Me on the other hand isnt thinking of marriage right now since i still have NYSC ahead. 

I have a friend who is serving,and we have grown fond of each other and have gbenshed. I dont know if what i feel for him is love or lust. Even though he sucks in bed i still cant get over him. Bf is more endowed than he is and knows his way around but i just wont stop having feelings for my friend. He treats me right ,takes me out and is fun to be with.  Now he wants to know where he stands. He keeps asking why i wont leave my bf since i feel choked with him and be with him instead. 

Bf on the hand is getting uncomfortable with our closeness,  and is even saying i stop seeing and calling him. Did i mention he almost found out i gbenshed him. 

My problem now is should i hang on with bf and learn to unlove my friend or just quit my bf and date my friend. Bvs if cussing me out will reset my brains please dont hesitate.

Let me see....you are rotating two men,one can gbensh and one cannot gbensh but both treat you right albeit that one is too possessive?

If the tables were turned you would have sent in a Chronicle screaming of how bad men are right?Now you find a man but decide to share your national cake.
Na the one you tell us we know,who knows how many you have gbenshed all in the name of love or lust.
My two cents?you will end up losing both men and your self worth if you do not make up your mind on whom you wanna be with!