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MARRYING A MAN WHO HAS OCD AND PAYS TITHE TO CHARITY.

Hello Stella and BV's, i sent you a narrative a few days after valentines day 2016, i detailed how my boyfriend proposed marriage to me while we were on a missionary journey to Ecstacy, some comments praised his creativity for thinking outside the box and others felt pausing sex and cunningly bringing out a ring from beneath the pillow to propose was a tacky and unremarkable way of proposing to a lady, i wasn't very comfortable with the pattern he chose cus i planned in my head i'd keep pictures or tell stories to my kids how their dad popped the question, lol.. how many people can i tell he was on top of me and at the verge of ejaculation?

 That being said our marriage introduction was done 2weeks ago and the wedding ceremony comes up by July, but we havent moved in together completely but i spend days in his house before going back to my parents home. They say you never really know a person until you have both lived under one roof, all through the period of dating, i have always known hes a neat guy and i felt very fortunate having a neat Bayelsa boyfriend, being that i am not an untidy lady myself, little did i know i had an OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) for a fiance. 


Yeah i had to do a little research on my own to know what i am getting into or if i should buy Nike canvas and run away. I finally understood why he remained single for 5yrs b4 he met me, and the good side of it is that he doesnt sit and let me do the chores, i now feel like the pig in the house..... i asked myself how i'd cope with a husband that folds dirty clothes properly b4 putting them in the laundry basket, i mean who does that? irons all his wears down to his boxers and socks, never wears a jean the 2nd time without washing, cleans imaginary dust daily.... etc.

Even during foreplay he'd drop my bra n pant on the side chair carefully and not on his clean floor, when i dont even care if he flings it to the fan at the heat of passion, and of course the bedsheet would be replaced after sex, and surely pubic hair is a huge turn off, i dont even want to mention how much he spends on detergents for his house and car monthly, he assumed i wouldnt cope with his nature like other girls but i surprised him for a yoruba lady, we can be neat like that *winks*...... i finally see why they say marriage doesnt come with a manual or map, the proof is in the pudding.

I know women are meant to be submissive and loyal to their husbands being the head of the family and all, but how far is too far to bend to his will? he recently mentioned in passing how he does charity donations to genuine friends and family in need, usually every 6months or so, when i applauded his inspiring act, he says thats how he pays his tithe, instead of giving these new generation churches, and accelerate these pastors to a speed lane of lavish lifestyle. 


With the disgust on his face as he spoke of gullible christians, i still mustered courage to tell him i pay my 1st seed and tithe to my church, his reaction next amazed me.... he gave me a stern look and applied brake cus he was driving while we spoke, he pulled over immediately, i said ah ah.... did i just tell this man i have HIV? He looked at me and said "you cant keep doing that, there are more fulfilling ways about it, and the helping hand u extend today to the needy can hug you or your children tomorow, instead of dashing it to a pastor that dont even know your name"....


I was just mute, and he continued driving, right now i am just confused cus definitely he would tell me to quit paying to the church, is it right to keep paying to the church regardless of his opinion?



JUST WOW!!!...Too stunned for words,let me read comments.