She was a guest at a seminar to end violence against children,and NAN that she was sexually violated at a young age by a family friend.
“I was a victim of sexual abuse; that was when I was in primary six; I was going to the hospital and somebody called me.
“The boy used some diabolic means and sexually violated me; when I could not see my period, I refuse to tell my mother, because she was very strict.
“I love sharing my experience because at the end of the day I succeeded; If I had not succeed, I would not have been able to be saying it,” Edochie said.
She explained that the pregnancy was about seven months before her mother noticed it.
Edochie added that her mother was shocked at the pregnancy because she thought her being strict would not allow such a thing to happen.
“My mother asked how it happened and I told her everything; my brother picked a knife and wanted to kill me, but my mother stopped him.
“It happened that the mother of the boy that violated me was my mother’s friend; the boy’s mother was surprised but the boy denied.
“My mother took me to hospital to abort the pregnancy with a plan of taking me to my grandmother’s place at ‘Ogede’ to stay for one week before returning home.
“I told her I may lose my life in the process; and because she loved me, she then aborted the planned abortion; I feel it was God that spoke through me.
According to the actress, “my mother took care of the baby while I went to school; if not for my mother I would not be where I am today.”
The veteran actress called on parents to communicate regularly with their children and make them their best friends.
“Parents should always listen to their children’s complaints on happenings both in and outside the home.” -Pmnews cullage.
If you have a voice use it..if you are a celeb and you were a victim,speak up to help others,shame no dey inside.
God bless you Rita for speaking up and supporting this campaign. #SayNOToChildAbuse.
Thank God for who is has become.
ReplyDeleteHehehehe.... So, otego ukwu ya bidoro courswa holdup?
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Rita Edochie, Chronic Nollywood LESBIAN. How many upcoming actresses have you fucked? It is disheartening that you passed thru this but you joined your male colleagues to Violate desperate underage wannabe actresses.
DeleteIt is wrong. Rita will stripe you naked with her eyes and it is even worse because most of those girls saw her as a mother (that she used to portray in videos).
Please heal yourself first because right now, you are contributing to the menace in the society. This is not an attempt of defamation, it is a known fact!
Why call out your fellow sexual abusers?
Permit me to use my favourite line. HELLO POT?
Chai
Delete@fan emmmanuel, why make such an insensitive and awful comment? Do you know what it means to be abused sexually at a very young age? Some of you allow your holier than though disposition to bear on every issue and in the process you lose all sense of empathy. Your type will blame sexually abused female and accuse them of enabling their abuse!
DeleteFan emmanuel, local bush uncouth Igbotic whore
DeleteAnd will that child really like this revelation at this time? Just my thoughts though. I guess it's a healing process for her.
DeleteThank God for who she has become.
ReplyDeleteParents learn to communicate with your children.
ReplyDeleteSexual abusers are just everywhere.
ReplyDeleteIt's a thing that should be given serious concern
Thanks for showing strength and sharing your experience ma'am.
The person you trust most may even be the abuser.
DeleteJust like her victims trusted her before she lured them to lesbianism.
DeleteWow sad. If Nigeria is too hard for you start a fundraising campaign on Nigeria's premier crowdfunding website, Naijafund.
ReplyDeleteNothing good comes out of raising children with scare tactics e7ther from the home, school and especially the church
ReplyDeleteHow can a small pri.6 pupil outsmart you?Careless mum. There's no way on earth you won't notice until your daughter is 7months gone,no matter how small her tummy is. Btw,she wanted you to abort a 7monts preggy?chai,you for allow her mourn you na.
ReplyDeleteThat your brother is also evil,carrying a knife,na fowl or goat e wan kill? Dysfunctional family,I wonder how that one will be treating his wife now for any little mistake she makes. Rubbish
You don't know this woman, even at almost 55 she's still fucking around. Why do you think the brother picked a knife to stab her instead of heading to the boy's family? Shut your eyes and picture this. She can lie?
DeleteIt wasn't a dysfunctional family at all, she made her Mum weep, Rita was and is still a maniac. Come down to Onitsha her story na pure water
Jesus Christ!!!! Ths girl are you okay? At all?
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Your reasoning @shantelle depends on when you were born. You don't want to know how people reacted back then especially family. But thank God for enlightenment today.
DeleteShantelle her story sounds fake. She must be wayward while growing up. Stella please no send my comment to that your German pot o. 😉
DeleteI Thut of it and I concluded she was a teenager in primary 6 @ least she must hv bin 13-15. So we wld judge her based on age rather than her class.
DeleteWhat is wrong with u. The last thing on any mother's mind is to think her daughter is pregnant at such age and may as well attribute the big stomach to something else. Plus u should know that not everyone's belly becomes very big at 7 months
DeleteAttribute the big stomach to something else,so why wasnt she taken to the hospital for proper diagnosis?
DeleteYou mean to tell me rita wasnt sleeping too much,vomitting,bn allergic to certain things,no preggy symptoms atall, all through before the seven months? Odiegwu!
Btw,i like this post o.......see yansh opening.kwakwakwa
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Shan-tellyyyyy!!!
DeleteWho or where is the child today??
ReplyDeleteShe graduated from Lasu Isolo Campus. More beautiful than Rita.
DeleteAsk oracle
DeleteBy the way why do you want to know?
It is also that child I'm worried for. I hope that for her sake she isn't stigmatized by her peers for this revelation.
DeleteHian! Stella shame they inside oh
ReplyDeleteDid he rape you or it was consensual? Anyway thank God for your life.
ReplyDeleteI have some more stupid questions to add to yours.
DeleteCan I go anonymous on this?Should I allow the ghost to possess my body?you all advised me earlier not to marry him but I need your advise again.should I marry him?please bvns,where can I buy selfie sticks?
I was 9 in primary six.I'm sure you were 17 in primary six.That's why you would think there is a possibility the sex was consensual.
sex with a minor is never consensual. Even if she wanted it...it was stil rape cos she was a minor. I know some guys wil say 'catch them young'....thats rape. we have alot of sensitization to do in this country. if a 10yr old girl watches people kissing on tv, nd comes to u to b kissed, will u oblige her? she was a minor. she was raped. period.
DeleteA child cannot give consent! Refuse to spread ignorance, educate yourself. Even a 17 year old is not capable of giving consent, whether he/she said "yes" is irrelevant to the fact in issue.
DeleteShe suggested it was raped na.. Abi I didn't catch that.
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ReplyDeleteNice one.Good to know
ReplyDeleteTnx for lending your voice pretty woman..
I love that. The more we keep quiet, the more we give power to the perpetrators. I was abused by relatives but my aunt who i told didn't believe me. I was too scared to take it to my mother until years later. Mothers please make your daughters your friend.
ReplyDeleteIs she @Pete Edochie's sister ?
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No married to Pete's younger brother Tony.
DeleteRita Rita this story is for Lagos people, the mothers in Onitsha Ado especially at Obikporo village know the other truth. Primary Six and how old where you? Your notoriety in Ado Girls Sec Sch in Onitsha is still echoing and the one that daughter you had did was even more notorious. Parents communicate with kids? I have heard you but I was a coursemate to her in Lasu Okota - Isolo in Lagos, we saw and know it all but don't worry I will save you some embarrassment but you Nollywood people should lesson the lies please it is too much.
ReplyDeleteThank you for your fight against child molestation. Thank you for all the girls you coached and the ones you did hook up with husbands. All is well.God bless your family.
Shut your gutter mouth you fool!!!! How does this trash you wrote her rhyme with the topic at hand? Ezi ofia
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DeleteGbeseh reh ooo
World people have spoken
Court!!!!!
@Galore
Annon You spoke my mind jare. Her story get K-leg. This is a story of a wayward woman. I can't be deceived.
DeleteClap for yourself Ominiknowest
DeleteOminiknowest.
DeleteLmao....
DeleteI know your type.The 'you are fine but nawa for this your duck feet','you would have been stunning if you were a tiny bit taller but you try sha','if not for this your okpolo eyes,you almost resemble agbani cousin' type.
They give with one hand,and take it away with the other.
Loool......
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DeleteNeighbour neighbour!!!!!! Hmmmm.... SDK na wa to you ooooo. Ur bv's na wa....
DeleteNa wa Ohhhhhh!!!
DeleteMonitoring spirit. You are a university graduate and yet you cannot tell the difference between lessen and lesson?
DeleteGod bless all the mothers of those days that refused to cast their daughters away for reasons like this.
ReplyDeletePeople were a lot mean about this kind of thing then and rules like ex communicating mothers like hers were put in place in church and communities.
I truly appreciate women like her Mom.
Na wa. That was how my neice that is in Jss 3 just 12 years, the boy in her class says he will use TOUCH and GO for her to defile her and make sure she gets pregnant but she did not tell anyone because she was afraid. We thank God that my Bishop saw this when he was praying for my family because she stays with me and told her to hate that boy that is trying to befriend her. I opened mouth. Later i called her and asked her, she said the boy has been looking at her with his side eyes for a long time and she was always afraid. I said SHOOO. I said i will come to your school and make sure i destroy that boy before he destroys you.
ReplyDeleteThank God that after the prayer, the boy just hated her for no reason and does not look at her or come near her again. I told her that
I pray that children tell their parents their fears. God help everyone of us.
Thank God for speaking RITA. We pray everyone use what you said to protect their wards.
Hmmmm
DeleteNice one Mrs Edochie.
ReplyDeleteShe must have been on grade A weed when she granted this shitty interview because the only thing I could grab from it was that her first child is a product of rape.
ReplyDeleteDoes this woman not have family members that she's answerable to her??... This is the kinda thing that I can say on a blog and with an alias..
Who knows, she might even be the breadwinner, or the first child might be a never do well because I no see wetin go make this old mama dey yarn opata like this...
Eze nwanyi,Ichetara anyi ubochi taa.
DeleteEzenwanyi welcome back you know the truth speak up is her hubby Tony out of the bottle yet? Rita is wayward and was wayward, what is she talking about?
DeleteNwanyi Eze
DeleteEze kingdom
Nwanyi Ogaranya
😁😉 Nnọọ!
Eze nwanyi Ijiokwu! Chop knuckle!
DeleteRapu Nwanyi Onitsha....see her misyarning!
And dis interview is to what purpose again? Ok, now we know ur first child is a product of rape! I hope u r happy abi? Ana-akoyeli!
Nnukwu Mmanwu!!!!!
DeleteIbilibi herself!
Eti Okwe;Eri !
Ogada!
Nnukwu Mmanwu na-Eti Onwe ya!!!!
The International Ezenwayi!
The Tomato of our Time!!!!
Ugo atuo!
The Eagle Has Landed!
*The Praise-singing Mood activated*
*Eti Okwe;Eri Okwe!
DeleteThank u oooo. Same thing I just said. This revelation is one kind, for the sake of the child in question.
DeleteAnd look who we have here.. Ehehe
Rita, Is this enough excuse for your frequent visits to Abuja and to be openly "demanding for money in exchange sex" (can't use the exact words here,please) - even at this your old age? I shame for you o! Had so much respect for you but lost it the few times I witnessed these.
ReplyDeleteSo you witnessed it. Abi the guys wey she dey give you no dey pay you. Bitter ashewo. Be trolling the post upandan.
DeleteAhahah lovelace leave this anonymous na.
DeleteAnonymous 10:57, you are the problem with Nigeria infact the world. The issue of sexual abuse and rape victims not speaking out is being perpetuated by ppl like you who bully those that try to share their experiences. What kind of a human being will cook up this kind of sordid details of her past if it didn't happen? Ndi mmadu sef.
ReplyDeleteIf indeed she was wild as you insinuated, don't you know that some people handle sexual abuse in different ways. Some get withdrawn and depressed while some have this feeling of self loathing by engaging in sexual promiscuity. Our duty is to help them get better not castigating them. Nawa o
Thank you mayonnaise.
DeleteSexual abuse is closer To d home dan u think. I was a victim too, went to spend tym wit our family frnd after my waec exams. I was raped repeatedly. Unfortunately i got pregnant d guy denied Dat he was responsible. Thanks to my mum who believed in me she took care of me till a was delivered of a bouncing baby girl, she is 7yrs now nd d stupid guy is back begging me to allow him have access to her but God forbid, a child he denied. now bc he got married nd his wife has been unable to give him a child he now wants to have mine.
ReplyDelete* dancing azonto* God never deal with am finish. He Thut he was wiser than God. Aunty deal with him well ooo,pls he shld start paying her school fees jare.... Nansense..... Congrats madam, God has wiped ur tears.
DeleteThere are so many bitter people living in this world today and some actually dwell in this blog.Like seriously, shantelle and the rest you guys can actually think to say she is making the story up or has been wayward from when she was young? I am surprised really..if you were a female I would say it is your type that does not pay attention to every detail, na you people when a little girl comes to tell you about something sensitive eg a molestation or abuse, you shoo her way thinking she wants to tell a lie.
ReplyDeleteFunke Adetuberu once told her story in one of her seminars I attended rcently of how she was raped and got pregnant.Her mom was a very strict person too and yes she did abort the 7MONTHS OLD BABY and so I am not surprised when Rita said she almost aborted the child. According to funke, the baby was still breathing and herself with her cousin(a male) that accompanied her threw the child into a pit laterine. The cousin actually raped her there and then with blood stains on her body and private part not minding whether she just had an abortion...she has kids now, one of which her first born a male to the glory of God is a prophet.
So do not see this as a makeup story..what comes with child abuse is always more than the shame.You live with the pain forever..even as adults when you gbensh a guy and he leaves you without a reason you tend to carry the grudge for the rest of your life except you want to deny it...I will never forget the face of the guy who almost defiled me when I was 7 thank God he never succeeded..these things has been happening since the 90s..thank God for civilisation now where the orientation about child abuse is spreading like fire...
Hmmmmmmm
DeleteThere are so many bitter people living in this world today and some actually dwell in this blog.Like seriously, shantelle and the rest you guys can actually think to say she is making the story up or has been wayward from when she was young? I am surprised really..if you were a female I would say it is your type that does not pay attention to every detail, na you people when a little girl comes to tell you about something sensitive eg a molestation or abuse, you shoo her way thinking she wants to tell a lie.
ReplyDeleteFunke Adetuberu once told her story in one of her seminars I attended rcently of how she was raped and got pregnant.Her mom was a very strict person too and yes she did abort the 7MONTHS OLD BABY and so I am not surprised when Rita said she almost aborted the child. According to funke, the baby was still breathing and herself with her cousin(a male) that accompanied her threw the child into a pit laterine. The cousin actually raped her there and then with blood stains on her body and private part not minding whether she just had an abortion...she has kids now, one of which her first born a male to the glory of God is a prophet.
So do not see this as a makeup story..what comes with child abuse is always more than the shame.You live with the pain forever..even as adults when you gbensh a guy and he leaves you without a reason you tend to carry the grudge for the rest of your life except you want to deny it...I will never forget the face of the guy who almost defiled me when I was 7 thank God he never succeeded..these things has been happening since the 90s..thank God for civilisation now where the orientation about child abuse is spreading like fire...
Why do we have bitter people every wia. @ anon you need a truck load of honey to sweetened your life jeeeez. Get a life sucker.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous10:57 And 3Lala Both of you are obviously some special kind of dumb...Do you even have human feelings at all????
ReplyDeletePeople like you are the reason most sexually abused people keep quiet, and more sexual abusers on the prowl.
The woman said she was raped..so be it!
Were you there with her family??.
Some people type somethings and you wonder if their brain was serving 'stool down' punishment while typing.
Anonymous10:57 And 3Lala Both of you are obviously some special kind of dumb...Do you even have human feelings at all????
ReplyDeletePeople like you are the reason most sexually abused people keep quiet, and more sexual abusers on the prowl.
The woman said she was raped..so be it!
Were you there with her family??.
Some people type somethings and you wonder if their brain was serving 'stool down' punishment while typing.