Stella's Singles Mingles Memo - Patience Is A Virtue!

You are Single and been Mingling?Maybe this is for you to read and find out why you havent found love on Stellas singles mingle!

Hi Stella, 

This is to all the ladies who I added or added me up during the past episodes of the Single and Mingle Posts. This is not to rubbish the beautiful, sexy and Intelligent ladies of this blog, but a recount of my experience. 

I am Ayo and I've taken part in the Single and Mingle Posts in recent times. Wasn't really sure if I'll get to meet anyone interesting but i gave it a try and i got to meet some cool and interesting ladies, who became friends. 

Now my ish with some of these ladies is this - I wonder if these ladies know what they really want or they are just so kin about settling down. Some of them can't type a complete sentence with complete words. 

I know it's good to be careful when you meet a guy online, the bad ones makes generalizing easy. However, there are still good, intelligent, one-woman, and responsible guys out there (I am one of them *wink*). 

1. Tayo deleted me because according to her, I wasn't matured enough. I don't call her when I wake up, when I get to work, when I am back home and when I am about to sleep. 

2. Linda deleted me because she felt I wasn't being honest about somethings (like how many times I've had sex, if i had a baby mama and how many girls I've dated). Which was never true. 

3. Seyi was an Igbo girl with a Yoruba name, fun, loving, simple and affectionate but she deleted me because I won't get married to her next year. 

Majority of the ladies that participate in the Single and Mingle Posts get confused after getting loads of requests, they are very cautious (which is a good thing), but they take it to an extreme level. 

Una go dey pray for better, responsible guy but when one comes, una go chase am or friendzone am because money no too dey or because he no dey too spend. The Bad, irresponsible ones are the ones you'll get involved with, with consequences later. 

I've never made sex mandatory in any relationship and I've never had issues with a Mermaid (celibate) kinda lady. Because I have always believed that sex is divine and should be respected. 

To all the ladies who deleted me because I wasn't financially settled. God has finally answered my prayers, i am doing really well at the moment and it sure feels good being single for now as it has helped me focus on some other areas of my life. Thanks. 

Ladies, learn to be patient with whoever you feel a strong connection with, a guy who always wants you and makes you number one. Money would eventually come if he has the potentials (not the block headed, good for nothing, irresponsible kinda guys ooo). 

Ayo signing out

Thanks Stella