THE Police in Lagos have begun investigation into an alleged case of rape against the Medical Director of a fertility clinic, Sayemi Nature science Centre.
The suspect (names withheld) was alleged to have had carnal knowledge of one of his patients on Saturday April 9, 2016 at one of his centers in Ikeja area of Lagos State.
His accuser, one Mrs Funke (other names withheld) made the allegation in her statement at the police station few days after the encounter, hoping that she would get justice. She alleged that the Doctor used a medical instrument called transducer which is usually inserted inside the vagina and moved around slightly while ultrasound images are shown on screen.
According to her, she was convinced that the method would allow the doctor have a good view of her womb to ascertain if anything was wrong.
The instrument which has the shape of the penis, she alleged, was inserted into her vagina but she never knew when the doctor withdrew the instrument and inserted his own penis inside her until he was about to ejaculate. Although this might sound like a fairy tale, the victim insisted she never consented to the act.
Speaking to Daily Sun while battling to control her tears, Mrs. Funke said that it was her quest to conceive that landed her in trouble. In her words, “I have a 24 year old son and ever since, all efforts to get pregnant had failed. I have visited different hospitals and prayed endlessly for God to remember me. Luckily, I have an understanding husband who stood by me all these years.
“I knew that I had to do anything possible to ensure that there are children in the house. This was how I picked interest in any programme that talks about fertility. Early in the month, I watched a health programme organized by the Doctor who is the founder of Sayemi Naturalscience Centre, Ikeja.
“During the programme, he explained that he had a natural way through which he could heal infertility. I was impressed and I decided to visit his clinic when he explained that my problem could be solved through dieting.
“Last Saturday, with the consent of my husband, I decided to pay him a visit. I bought their clinic card for N2000 and waited for my turn. When I finally saw the doctor, I narrated my medical history and all the efforts that I had made to conceive. He assured me that his clinic would be my last bus stop but he would need to access my body through vaginal scan.
“I knew what vaginal scan meant. Immediately, I stretched my body on the table for examination. Normally, you were expected to lie down and spread your legs widely apart. I trusted the doctor, so I never queried his method.
“He applied cream on my vagina and inserted the instrument used by doctors for normal vaginal scan. The only odd thing he did was to touch my clitoris and I tried to resist and he told me to calm down that this was a perfect process of inducing my hormones so that he could access my body well.
“At that point, I relaxed very well, closed my eyes and spread my legs because my focus was to get solution.
“At a point, he removed the equipment and inserted it again but this time, it was much bigger. I believed that it was as a result of him fondling with my clitoris that made me to get carried away to the point that I could not tell that the stuff that was bigger inside me was actually his penis.
“It was the noise he made when he was about to ejaculate that drew my attention and I opened my eyes and lo and behold, he was actually having sex with me instead of the scan.”
Shocked, Mrs. Funke claimed
that she quickly wore her pants and asked the doctor why he took advantage of her.
“I was shocked as well as embarrassed. I was terrified because I could not understand if this was the process. He quickly removed the condom and threw into the waste basket and started begging me to forgive him and allow him to proceed with the treatment. I left his office and complained to the nurse who was on duty and she said that it is not a new thing that the man is used to sleeping with most of his patients. She asked me to forgive him that she would find a way to get the hospital compensate me so that the matter would be closed”.
When asked why she did not scream or attack the doctor when she discovered what happened, Mrs. Funke said that her main concern was to get out of the place safe. “When I discovered what he did, I was terrified because I could not understand why he did that to me. I have heard of how people mysteriously die and my main concern was to leave his office alive, that was why I complained bitterly to the nurse. When I got home, I told my husband what I went through and he asked me to formally report to the police. Heaven knows that I did not consent to the act. I only had faith in the doctor that he knew what he was doing”, she claimed.
She begged the police to assist her to get justice. “I am legally married and I am blessed with a great husband. That was why I confided in him. He was the one who encouraged me to be bold enough to report the matter to the police so that such a crime would not continue.”
Other women recall similar encounters
Just like Funke, some women who heard her story pleaded with the Police to use her case as an example for other doctors who are in the habit of sleeping with their female patients.
One of such is Mrs. Vivian Agu who said that her gynaecologist in a popular hospital around HRC Enugu fondled her breast when she was eight months pregnant. “I started bleeding at eight months of my pregnancy and my doctor sent me for a scan at the said hospital. When I got there, being my first time, I obtained a card and was sent to see a doctor before the scan. When I got to him, he asked my name which I gave to him. The next thing, he started fondling my breast and I was just watching. At a point, he asked if I was not feeling horny and I told him that I did not even know that he was touching my breast. He told me that I was a strong woman as so many women at that point, used to plead with him to have sex with them. I asked him why he was doing it and he told me that he needed to access the fluid that would come out of nipples so he could write his report before I went for the scan. I did the scan and left. I felt that was the process until I became pregnant again, I was sent for another scan but this time around, I had it at Enugu Scan Centre and when it got to my turn, the doctor just did the scan he never touched my breast. I asked him why he did not touch my breast and he told me that it had nothing to do with the scan. It was then I narrated my experience with the other doctor and he told me that the doctor was promiscuous.”
Another victim Bola recalled that she went through hell for 17 years waiting for the fruit of the womb. “I was desperate to get a child and was ready to go to any hospital or prayer house. One day, my husband’s friend referred me to a doctor and told me that he would be my last bus stop. I was excited and followed him. The so-called doctor asked me to bend down and remove my pants, that he wanted to examine my vagina from behind.
“I discovered that he was robbing a cream on my clitoris and I kept quiet because I thought it was the procedure. Meanwhile, I was very vigilant because in the course of my childlessness, I had never experienced such. Suddenly, he brought out his penis and was about to insert it in my vagina when I shouted. I ran out of the office screaming. That was the last time and I swore I would never visit any place that is not a good hospital. And as God would have it, am blessed with three daughters today.
When Daily Sun contacted the police on the incident, the state Police spokesperson, Dolapo Badmus said the command is already aware of the case and would act accordingly.
*Eyaaaa,she didnt know when he inserted his thing into her?Wow,If a fly perched near my thing,i would know,talkless of a p3nis going in.....
She didnt feel his body between her legs?his in and out?he must be very trickish....na wah!
Does that mean the process of using the machine is same as having sex? She didn't feel the thrusting? Or he just stayed dormant? Na wa how can you not know when a man is having sex with you
ReplyDeleteStella even you !!! Sexual assault is real and pray never to be c desperate for anything
DeleteIn confusion it will take a while to register what is happening. The woman was assaulted, that doctor is so skilled at raping women. God punish him
People on this blog can judge..smfh...
DeleteFirst of all, it is not surprising that not even one person that read this noticed that the so called hospital is not a real medical clinic but a glorified traditional/native medicine house.
DeleteThis is also the reason most Nigerians are so gullible that they cannot differentiate between a quack/fake doctor and the certified ones. Please please please, any time you see a sign post that says NATURAL anything, just know that you are about to see an agwoturumbe.
What was the woman expecting,he told her that he has a natural way of curing infertility, is his dick plastic? I also wonder how long this dick is that his groin did not hit her thighs while he was thrusting or is it that he plucked out his dick and held it in his hands while using it.
Is it possible that the man will cut himself into two while having sex instead of standing up. Most of those instruments are used in sitting position.
Most women TTC visits every possible place out of desperation and they willingly give themselves to herbalists, fake pastors, and spiritualists to use their anointed sperm to cleanse their womb and pursue spirit husband.
Finally, the internet is there but most people don't even use it to do important things except gossiping. You are about to do a procedure,you don't even feel the need to open your phone and read about it. The way you even discuss with the practitioner will protect you from abuse. When they say knowledge is power, don't take it for granted.
Don't know what happened the last epistle I typed.
DeleteAll of you judging the woman do not understand. At fertility clinics, they use a speculum to widen the vagina and then insert a wand or probe called a transvaginal ultrasound. It is truly penis shaped. This wand lets them see your cervix, tubes, ovaries and uterus. The tech or doctor is positioned in between your legs and manipulates the wand up and down, side to side because the ovaries and tubes in particular can be tough to view on the screen. It can be quite uncomfortable and I, like most women, close my eyes and just grit my teeth till it's over. It is humiliating and heartbreaking enough to lie there like a slab of meat will they poke and prod your insides. If you not add the monster of this doctor to the mix, I can't imagine her hurt. Reading this, I've realized just how easy it is to be violated on that table. The speculum widens it so much that you can barely feel anything on your walls. It's the probe that causes discomfort and they have to stand in between your legs to hold the wand and manouver it. I wish I could hug her. May Almighty God use this mess to bless her.
Ehennn,i forgot to add that those native natural doctors use stethoscopes, wear agbada ward coat , have computers and other medical equipment so if you expect them to rub white chalk round their eyes and tie red and white piece of cloth round the waist and walk with backwards then you must be joking. The hustle is real.
DeleteI've had a vaginal scan and it details twisting and turning of the equipment. However if you go to a good fertility center a female nurse must be present with the Doctor or Sonographer still I was never so absent minded that I couldn't tell the difference between prick and instrument. May God help us Amen.
DeleteAnon 15:19, when doing a transvaginal scan, a probe is inserted into u but it's smaller than a penis abeg. And who puts cream down there? They just pour the gel on the probe, wear a condom on it and insert. Haba!!! I worked with a gynae so I know this
DeleteI'm sorry @ Anon 15.19, a speculum is not used to widen a vagina before inserting the probe for a scan. The probe slides in like a dick in condom with a dab of ky jelly on the tip of the probe. You only widen the vagina if swabs are being taken, or the doctor wants to have a look at the cervix and vaginal walls. Just to make that clear.
DeleteNo offense but there are many promiscuous male doctors out there.I had a breast lump and visited a doctor.every Monday, the guy will tell me to come for examination. He will tell me to commot bra make he examine breast. I was always suspecting him. Unknown to me, he no be professional sef. He referred me to a lab where they will do needle puncture to test if the lump was cancerous. I went to the lab, met the guy on duty then unbuttoned my shirt a bit so he can collect the tissue sample. The man ordered me to commot shirt and bra. Shame catch me. I Wan recover na so I obey. The man say make I push my chest outwards n I did :(
DeleteBefore he started his work, he leaned back and was staring at me. I know say his thoughts no pure and there was a female staff there. And he bone his face like say he dey use him eye do external examination. 😠😠Ashawo man. God will punish him accordingly
Anon 20:07, during breast examination, the doctor must touch your breast biko. Ha! Just say u didn't like the way he was touching it
DeleteI know sexual assault is never a laughing matter but this just got me:
ReplyDelete"At that point, I relaxed very well, closed my eyes and spread my legs"
Am sure you have never done the procedure before that is why you find it funny.
DeleteThank you jare, e nu kwa!
DeleteAnon 11:40, thank u. Jennah, it's funny coz the woman is lying biko
DeleteShe even said the sensation from the clit touch confused her. Ashawo mmuo like me. As the man fiddled with ur Toto u confuse, u now come here and shout rape. Iyamma. If I hear. All I see is spread leg, open toto, rub clit, water comot and the sharp doc put prick. Sharp guy take 5
DeleteEND'S TIME DOCTORS
DeleteWomen de suffer o o o. I pray no woman will fail in such a facility problem.
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Story so us the doctor having a hand pen**s or what?? How would she say she didn't know,didn't she feel his body on her or where did he place his legs when he was pounding her....Useless woman I bet she came and her eyes became cleared.
ReplyDeleteRubbish all rubbish talk...
So is*
Delete99.9% of you people talking gibberish and blaming the woman for not being aware... are the ones who would beg those useless doctors to have sex with you and shut up about it when you get home... This story just raised my trust issues with most women going to see the gynecologist alone by 45% .. Some women are too loose.. In their fable mind, THE THING NO KUKU GET METRE so my husband won't know... tufiakwa!! To all u abominable women and end time doctors
DeleteDon't mind her, she never talk true..... Abi the guy detach the penis then insert into her??
DeleteStop talking like this german juice. This has happened to me before but in my own case, i was too ashamed to open up about it and it was because of the fear of comments like this.
DeleteThe doctor inserted an instrument inside me...and he was turning it in a gentle movement and looking at the screen. He later removed it and put it inside again...only that i didnt know that it wasnt the instrument that entered and yes...you wont know because they do apply some sort of liquid substance on the vagina before inserting the instrument.
He followed the same movement he made with the instrument and all the while i thought what was inside me was what he inserted before. Gosh i dont even want to recall it! I felt so bad! I didnt even know who to talk to and i have never gone back to
That hospital!
I have done the procedure before, even the equipment they use they wear condom on it and apply a lubricant or a liquid on it too and when they insert it in your vaginal you will feel you are being penetrate cos you feel a light pain as Result of that. I don't trust all these yeye doctor jare most of them are perverts and i can never marry one of them.
DeleteEnigmatic Aboki, I hope you read the part that said NATURAL Science clinic. The so called endtime doctor is not a medical doctor but a refined native doctor. GEJ gave them licence to practice medicine during his tennure but instead of them to accept that they are native doctors, they write all sorts of things on their sign post.
DeleteAnywhere you see NATURAL bla bla bla, na native doctor oooo AKA agwoturumbe.
From the reactions of bvs, I now understand why so many women keep quiet when they are sexually abused. It's shameful enough narrating something like this but it's worst taking the blame.
DeleteHe rubbed her clits... she closed her eyes spread her legs wider and enjoyed so much that the man decided to join in... woman you would hv come and get it over with! Lousy thing! U didn't ko u didn't know ni! WHY DID U CLOSE UR EYES IF U WEREN'T ENJOYING IT?cnt wait for the man's side of d story
DeleteAboki or whatever you call your self if u have been used over and over again and kept quiet about it that is not my headache.I have given my own opinion give yours or go and die quietly without my knowledge don't bring me into your frustration. I am in a zero tolerance for nonesense today so respect your self.
DeleteWhy should I even answer anyone with the name aboki.
GERMAN ZOBO... ur level of ignorance is way out of the chart.. It can't be described.. olosho. . Y'all come online to flex cyber muscles but when someone promise u people a good slap or two... u people will start running to police commissioner for help
DeleteU keep saying you all come,you or come.Abeg promise the slap let us meet if I won't re-arrange that your face for u and give your Brin a proper setting. let's see who would go to the police am sure you would even run to save a soul program and channelstv with your own case.
DeleteI guess that carved wood u carry as a head is becoming to heavy for u that is why u have turned to an old Rachel leaking toilet pipe shit all over my comment.
Commissioner kor, anyway you are faceless na, so u can run your mouth back and forth making noise like a generator.
German I read sum where, u said u hv Neva bin examined by a dr, now with that info, can u defend what u hv Neva experienced. U hvnt bin to a drs office so u can Neva really tell, if u hv gone u accompanied sum1, pls don't ever judge where u hvnt bin in d person's shoes.
DeleteVery hard to believe
ReplyDeleteI'm telling you.so hard to believe
DeleteHard to believe my dear.
DeleteNo medical doctor will use Natural as their hospital name.
DeleteNothing hard to believe there Sierre and Blogbrity. All these useless Doctors are all over Ikeja. One was staring at the scan monitor pretending he was seeing some tennis balls as fibroids while fingering me years back, by the time he got sweaty inside an air conditioned office and his breathing changed, his hands he used to clamp my right arm was seriously shaking. DH jacked him off me. You can imagine the rest because he walked away with his stethoscope and the Doctor kept begging.
DeleteWhat fibroid that he couldn't send me for a proper scan. And he has been making passes at me. He offered my hubby a quality magazine to read while he checked to keep his interest away. If I had come alone, he knows what to blow across your face and you sleep off. Yes, that his modus operandi. I so believe this woman. Many Doctors are dogs. Many of them. Their nurses know it all.
Stella I have had that thing inserted in my vagina before. Yes. When I had a cyst that was so tiny and so painful and normal scan could not locate it. It troubled me for about 2 weeks. At some point I wondered if it was actually a cyst or my tubes were rupturing. Lol. Anyway, I went for a transvaginal scan. Thankfully it was a lady who did it for me. A Muslim lady. And they wear the instrument a condom just like a penis. The 'ejaculation' place is the place where the camera shows all your insides. She even lubricated the instrument after wearing it a condom. And held my vagina lips apart with her index and middle finger before she inserted it.
ReplyDeleteAs they are directing the instrument left and right to get a clear view, it can be uncomfortable. So what me I did was close my eyes and imagine all the raunchy things I could. So I can make the process as uncomfortable as possible. It didn't take long though. Less than 10 minutes. So if the woman said she closed her eyes and didn't know when he inserted penis instead I belive her. Cos that instrument is just like a penis. No difference. And scan rooms are always dark anyway.
Now, this is what I always do. Whenever I am going for diagnosis I read up the procedures online. This way I know what to expect from the doctor. If he does anything during the diagnosis that seems off I quickly address it oh. It's never happened to me before, but I always check online cos the UK and US health care usually tell you what to expect from your doctor so that you don't get surprised or taken advantage of during diagnosis. Then you can make immediate trouble if something contrary is done.
I have experienced that also mine was cyst that delayed my period for 2month,the instrument looks like d**k & was done by an Indian doc
DeleteA Body is always different from a mobile pens big fool like u
DeleteWow!
DeleteAnon 12:22^^
DeleteYou are a bigger fool.. having a say in a subject u know next to nothing about... shut the heck up and stay anonymous
You made plenty sense, you are aware! This woman was not aware and so didnt know what to truly expect, some dicks are exactly like the instrument. Its molded after a dick. Women remember dicks come in all sizes and thickness
DeleteI have done the procedure too and I closed my eye all through because I was not comfortable as they are moving the stuff within my vjay though my Doc advice that I should go for it when I complain about pain below my abdominal area, we got to know that I have fibrod and that was the causes of the pain.
DeleteEven though it's difficult not to know d difference, anything is possible. However why won't I b at alert if my p..sy is being poked into. Different strokes for different folks.
DeleteAbroad, when a male doctor is examining you, a female nurse must be there, AND another female doctor. I remember when I went for a colonoscopy, it was a male doctor, a nurse, and a female doctor that gave me her hands to squeeze for every discomfort I felt through the process. I almost broke her hands. Lol.
DeleteAnyway, hopefully, we'll get it right someday. I pray she finds justice.
Enigmatic Aboki, You sound so angry like you are attacking the person that raped you.
DeleteLord have mercy! This is the most juvenile explanation I have ever heard from an adult. Nsogbu di kwa.
DeleteMmasinachi, yes, but in Nigeria they will not agree they want to stay with only the doctor. Next thing they will go to the media and say that many people were in the room and using them to learn. In teaching hospitals/government hospitals, you don't do the procedure alone with one doctor but the patients are the ones that will complain that they are using them to learn. Those people are there as CHAPERON.
DeleteMost of you will go abroad and behave but once you come to Nigeria,you become the doctor. Besides, all these abominable women complaining, 80% of you prefer male gynaecologists, only a few will accept females. Why do you insist on males??? Is experience and intelligent gender related?
Valid points Chikito. Very valid. I believe this woman. Who no go, no know.
DeleteAs a doctor I hv encountered many women who come during transvaginal examinations o. They actually enjoy it
DeleteBut that probe is not as big as a penis na. Haba!!! Probe that I insert into women myself b4 doctor touches it coz of all this stories? I hail o
Delete@Jasmine- sorry my pussy isn't a well, so I felt it like a penis. Infact the lady even had to ask me if I was a virgin as she said she felt some initial resistance. (And at the time I was very sexually active in a steady relationship oh! And the guy carry heavy dick no be small!!) Anyhoo, that thing you call small might be migthy inside some of us. And we have to be loyal. That's what I'm saying. #Dazall
DeleteAnd I'm certain he didn't do the usual in and out. He must have been trying to make it feel like the instrument as much as possible. She was probably dreaming of her husband in the process of diagnosis. Not knowing.... Chai! !
ReplyDeleteKikikiki. Konji na bastard.
DeleteAnd what if its the kind of doctor that says to you *i will rather you look at the wall while talking to me, your eyes get me wet*. Haaaa.
DeleteThe Doctor bin dey plan for you since now. Evil Doctors everywhere
😂😂😂 @xP!
DeleteWhy do some men do rubbish like this?? Did you toast the woman and she said NO?? Oga ooo!
ReplyDeleteI still try to understand how some men enjoy sex sef that the woman is not responsive to. She's not moaning and touching back and shii and you enjoy it? Shame on the Doctor oo
Gbam
DeleteThis story should be thoroughly investigated. If the doctor actually did this then i bet this wasn't his first. Women with similar experiences should come out and share their experiences too and if found guilty, he will be made to face the consequences.
DeleteNotwithstanding, there are lots of good doctors out there saving lives and doing great things.
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Cant make meaning of what i just read though.....
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End time lovemaking
ReplyDeleteThis story get as e be o. So the doctor was thrusting in and out of her vagina and she didnt know? Was she unconscious?
ReplyDeleteShe didn't feel his weight?
DeleteChai,what women go tru just to have a child.
Is well.
Potable, he wasn't lying on her.
DeleteHer legs were wide apart, and he was conducting the examination between them.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Y didn't she open her eyes 2 know what's going on?
DeleteNot until the stupid man almost cum.
Diamonds you are too precious to respond to a dumb blocked head
DeleteLMAO @dumb blocked head. Feel his weight tho? #confusedface#
DeleteI blame mtn 4 the free MB they gave 2 a miserable bastard with no source of happiness
DeleteWhite diamond legs are not kept wide apart during medical procedures, they are kept in LLITHOTOMY " position. Please Google it and see the position.
DeleteWhite diamond, is it only ontop that you feel weight?
DeleteIf someone is Fucking you from behind or the person standing, won't his weight and body be hitting your legs? Even if the legs were detached! Abeg! If it is not sex,it can never be sex. Some people will be forming, I was asleep when my brothers friend fucked me. I was praying and suddenly I felt the a spirit Fucking me! Na so! Even vaginal examination by a doctor is painful, for it to sweet you,then you are adulterous!
Nah WA oh! women are going through a lot,open leg,wide leg, close leg insert dick.
DeleteI have never opened my legs for a doc I don't even have a medical record in any hospital and I pray I don't until child birth God take control.
It is well with everyone of us.
The story doesn't add up...
ReplyDeleteI think she might have been telling the truth. The procedure is such that the woman is placed in a very undignified position with her legs in stirrups. Usually her bottom is at the edge of the examination table.
DeleteHer eyes were closed...and a lot of women close their eyes to deal with the slight discomfort experienced.
Now if she felt a difference in the size of the object, it's likely that the doctor's penis is probably long too. Which means that he could have thrust in and out without his hips touching her at all. Especially as she was already in a prime position!
Dr S.
Doctor S, is that probe as big as a penis? It's not everything that enters inside and u know it.
DeleteI believe her story. Evil doctors everywhere. A doctor touched my clitoris while performing examination. I didn't think much of it until he looked at me in the eyes and he kinda smiled and he said 'some people's clit are as fine as their face'. At that point I became very alert and he said 'you are very strong oh'.i just got up and left. See hennen, it's enough shame lying on that table and so if it's a painful procedure, like this one this witch doctor did to that woman, I have done it before. All you need do to distract yourself is to close your eyes. I do that too. So I believe her. That thing actually looks like a penis and you can never tell the difference.they make it so as penis is the only thing that will enter a woman's viginal like that. It becomes painful when they move the thing around especially to check ovaries which are on the side.May she get justice.
DeleteThis is not new nau!...
ReplyDeleteMost doctors are dogs!...
Why aren't those end time doctors reported to the appropriate authorities by those abominable women? Why? This woman up here should be encouraged and commended
DeleteAboki you made plenty sense its judgements like above that make women keep quiet, such as shut up you were enjoying it
DeleteI'm a doctor you idiot. Most doctors are NOT dogs. Don't know the kind of village you live in where the doctors you see are the ones that were asked to leave med. School in final year because they simply could not pass exams.
DeleteStop making such ignorant generalisations.
Dr S.
@Queen and boss, good to know you have fucked many native herbalists. Dat explains your psychosis.
DeleteEnjoy wetin. You will feel debased thereafter. Useless Doctor
DeleteAbeg who rape this enigmatic aboki plz we need to deal with the person as she is living in hell
DeleteOga anonymous doctor.. don't call her names.. she's not an idiot as she didn't say all doctors are dogs. She said most doctors are dog which is an acceptable statement in this context.. and u my friend don't sound like a doctor to me.. because I dare to question your intelligence if u pull this level of ignorance + arogance in a forum such as this.. chill bro
DeleteEeyaa what women go through just be called mama, to every woman TTC thus is yr amen.
ReplyDeleteAmen. This woman need encouragement for justice to be served. Discouraging her will make other victims scared to cry out.
DeleteAmen. No be small matter. I went to one of these women for massage. I told her I had miscarriage and of course I had to do D&C to get out the remaining tissue. The woman was saying 'hummm, I see something, Humm, something big dey there, you don do abosion before' I felt like slapping her. After I told her my medical history and someone told me womb massage might be good. I never went back. I even get infection from her putting hand inside of me looking for whatever. Took me months to treat candida completely. I just rest, put my matter in God's hand. The male Doctors want to rape you, the female ones will say things to demoralized you. Mtcheeew
DeleteNsobu dikwa, women looking for the fruit of d womb goes tru a lot...
ReplyDeleteSome doctors sha. Smh
ReplyDeleteShe was talking about native doctor,they are the ones that own these natural medicine centers.
Deletestella which fly,u wey train fit do uturn inside ur toto wey be like Bermuda triangle n u no go even know
ReplyDeleteYour foolishness should be spelt with capital F.
Delete@Anon 12:05
DeleteKeep disgracing you family!
All these bitter and salty lowlives hiding as Anonymous to display their folly and pain.. you all are going to be alright
DeleteBut in truth Stella seemed to have drawn a conclusion.
DeleteDoctors actually do absurd things and taking advantage of women is one of them.Women should be able to speak up about it without being stigmatized.
These kind of comments make d doctors continue these acts because they are sure the women will not speak up.
Thank God for women that have come up to share their experiences about this.
Women should try to look out for each other not slander. Not cool
Anon15:54,thank you,a lot of women are abused in hospitals and bcos of comments like this,dey won't speak up and d Drs get away with it. I won't lie,it's thru dis thread I knw dt if u want to b examined a female nurse must b present. Also it was with chikito's advice dt I now knw dt u shld read up on what is expected during any procedure. A lot of ppl are ignorant and dts d truth,dey feel d dr is always right. Pls Stella it isn't every post u shld state ur opinion,u r encouraging the shaming of women who may hv undergone similar experiences.
DeleteThat's how most doctors behave. One almost tried it with me when I went for check ups but I didn't disappoint my mother. I gave him a thunderous slap that he will never forget.
ReplyDeleteLmao. Perfect
DeleteLol@I didn't disappoint my mother
DeleteHow can u not know when someone is fucking u? Was she drugged? And hey! No cream is being rubbed on d vagina for a Tvs scan o! A condom is applied on d instrument n that's it.
ReplyDeleteLubricant is used on the condom.
DeleteUsually KY Gel.
Some people just like toh toh matter. The cream was rubbed in their dream.
DeleteBlackBerry don't mind them. The gel is poured on the probe and a condom will be worn on it except it other doctors do it the other way round. Haba!!!
DeleteI don't know if to laugh or to pity her. But truth be told, the doctor fucked up. He shouldn't have done that to a married woman or to even a single lady without her consent. He should be penalized for his promiscuous act. He is a bloody casanova!
ReplyDeleteThis is a case of sex gone wrong. The woman enjoyed the whole thing jare.
ReplyDeleteI appreciate you.
DeleteWhen will my people ever learn... GERMAN PIE or whatever ur name is... stop being hypocritical. . If u were to be the lady in question.. no one would even know u got fucked by some endtime doctor in his office.. gtfoh
DeleteIt takes a lot of guts to admit to people that you where raped in this our society. For a married woman to speak up and admit she was raped knowing she stands to loose a lot if things goes South. She needs to be commended for this at least to put those evil doctors I check, so they know they can't get away with rape.
DeleteMay your wife or sister experience this IJN. Amen.
DeletePlz madam enigmatic aboki read me Carefully the lady was fucked very well she enjoyed it and came after which she felt bad and thus accused the man they both enjoyed it simple and clear I hope u get this one very well.
DeleteHave u finished teaching your self you know everything and yet a doc did that to you, where weren't u smart enough since u be teacher
And if it has happened to u before u also enjoyed it now take that to your death roll and hang your self maybe that would make u stay clear off my case.
@Mo: Since you don't know how to respect people's opinions and you assume everybody should reason like you, then this is my response to you. May all the women in your entire generation have reasons to go through such. Anu Mpama like you.
DeleteWicked doctor.
ReplyDeleteI hope the woman gets justice, if the doctor is found guilty.
ReplyDeleteIt's possible that she did not know, seeing as her eyes were closed and the transducer is shaped like a penis.
I'd advise any lady going for any kind of examination, that involves exposing their private parts, to have a female nurse or orderly, beside the doctor, when said examination is going on, to avoid stories like this.
Request for a female. If the doctor says that there's none, please, refuse to get examined.
Might save you a lot of trauma, and stories that sound incredulous.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Most just go in without requesting for one. My doctor will ask us(one of his female staff) to be present and some women will still say no. That they r not comfortable with another woman in the room. Lol. Oga will say no o, it's procedure and if u don't want it, plz go
DeleteOng.. 😳😳😳 may God never allow me need medical care in Nigeria. Amen. Bunch of unethical doctors. Even if it's a lie for her to cook up such a lie then something similar happened. That doctors licence must be siezed!!! I remember an incident when I was a student in varsity.. I missed a test because of period so I needed a doctor's note (hubby then fiance worked in a different state from mine) so I had to go to a GP this stupid man said He has to check if I'm truly on my period, I was in shock.. He said I don't look like I'm on my periods.. I just told him to stuff the note if that was the condition.. Told my hubby n he said though it's within his right to check but it was totally unnecessary as it wasn't his business if I was lying or not. Stupid pervs😡😡😡😡😡😡
ReplyDeleteSo doctors in the country where you are are not perverts abi? In America, the hospital where Ben Carson works, the oldest Consultant obstetrician and gynaecologist was abusing women over a period of about 30years, he has a camera in his office where he records the whole thing. They slammed him and the hospital a law suit and he was threatening suicide.
DeleteShebi your pervert of a husband is also among the doctors that sexually assaults women afterall you don't follow him everywhere he goes.
It is people like you with slave mentality that will open your smelly puSsy for a white doctor because his own penis is a medical instrument but once it is black dick,it becomes assault.
Please Name one country in the world that doesn't have sexual predators in their facilities?
Don't tell me the level because you haven't conducted any study!
So she was carried away with the clitoris touching that she didnt notice a di*k was actually inside her.She was enjoying it,thinking its the instrument until the Dr wanted to come.I guess this time he was making noise thats why she wokeup from her sleep.Could this be hypnosis??? Nawa.oo.
ReplyDeleteI had that instrument used on me last year when I had a miscarriage and was examined. It is a metal for goodness sake. It is so different from a Penis. YOU WOULD KNOW WHEN IT IS TAKING OUT. I don't believe this story one bit. Also, most hospitals, a doctor and a nurse are there when this procedure is done. This woman is lying for goodness sake!
ReplyDeleteMetal ke? Are you sure its the same thing you are talking about? Transducers for transvaginal.scan are always made out of plastic to prevent injury or perforation of any vital reproductive organ during the scan.
DeleteThe mumu anon 12.20 is talking about the other metal one. Mumu anon 12.20 can you stop sounding so sure that shes lying since you were not there? Ozuo.
DeleteThe metal instrument you refer to is a speculum...that's not the same transducer used for vaginal scans.
DeleteDis same wicked Doctor tried dis with me in 2009 but tank God he didn't succeed. May d wrath of God visit him n his entire generation
DeletePls, stop exposing your ignorance.
DeleteHow can a man play with your clitoris and u will not know?
ReplyDeleteIs your own not sensitive like others own?
Umu nwanyi a suffer la big time.
ReplyDeleteHe should be sent to prison and his license withdrawn to serve as an example to others.
How can she not feel his prick inside her toto?
ReplyDeleteDidn't she feel it when he was thrusting his prick in and out in rhythmic fashion?
How can you know that someone is gbenshing u only when he is about to pour?
This woman is a bloody liar.
Jeeez who's dis crass retard?!!!
DeleteMM,you just turned me on.
DeleteImagine what we women go thru just to conceive. Nemesis will surely catch up with these promiscuous doctors.
ReplyDeleteAh! Was there no chaperone?
ReplyDeleteI really pity this woman,I don't see her getting justice because this is really difficult to prove. I pray God will heal her and vindicate her in Jesus name
ReplyDeleteeven if your eyes are closed,you will feel it when a dick enters you,the feeling changes,you sense the person in front of you with your sixth sense...this woman never talk true...sex gone wrong.
ReplyDeleteThank u
DeleteShe said it felt bigger but she didn't think much of it. Didn't you read that part?
DeleteWicked men giving doctors a bad name...
ReplyDeleteSpeechless, confused and dumbfounded
ReplyDeleteWhat the heck! She would know but just shocked to move. Why would a doctor even think of doing such to his patient?
ReplyDeleteAs usual in Nigeria blame the woman. The doctor did something very unethical but Nigerians will blame the woman . I pity womem in this country.
ReplyDeleteShe was in d moment, enjoying the examination, got carried away and lost her senses. He thot she was game and he joined her. Tango!
DeleteWhich ethics, is there ethics in native medicine. The woman visited a Natural fertility center, what do you expect? They were indirectly telling you that their procedure is natural, ie DICK wise.
DeleteLook anon 15:18 stop claiming the woman visit a native doctor, I have been molested by a gynaecologist, he works in one of the general hospital here in Lagos, it took me two years to have the gut to speak up and when I did, Guess what people like you claimed that it was all lies, it's sex gone wrong bla bla but the doctor in person sent his fellow colleague after me begging me, He initially thought he can intimidate me when I came out to speak, when he observed that I refuse to back down, He started begging and people begged on his behalf. So I believed this woman 100percent!
DeleteI believe this woman. If she consented or even enjoyed it, there's no way she would have gone home to tell her husband. She would have kept it to herself because she has everything to lose and nothing to gain. Sometimes when you're desperate, you act foolish. And doctors know how desperate women who are TTC can be. That doctor is a very very useless pig and I hope this woman gets a great lawyer and an even better judge to preside over the case so the doctor's sneaky and randy penis can be thrown in jail with him.
ReplyDeleteGbam
DeleteChai.doctor shame on you. Madam u too spread d leg wide.
ReplyDeleteGod bless Dr Enyinda of Execl medical centre PH, l had 3 of my children in this clinic, he won't even touch(examined) if they are no female nurses there. Madam sorry, l pray the Doctor get punished
ReplyDeleteThank u. Some doctors won't touch without a female nurse there
DeleteMadam so for 10 minutes you didn't realize that it was a human dick and not a toy dick that was moving inside you? I pity you sha
ReplyDeleteI sincerely pray she get justice.. plus is weak, by now I should hear that the doctor has been badly beaten... what rubbish. I totally believe her. And most people criticising her, this is why most raped victims don't speak out; societal tongues
ReplyDeleteGod bless all women with fruit of the womb so that all these stories will end
ReplyDeleteAm sure that there was never a sentence where it was said that he was thrusting in and out...a doctor that has done several scans and has gotten away with his promiscuous act would be wise enough...he might have been moving in same way the object should be and if he removed it and inserted his dick,if you were in the woman's shoe you would think he saw nothing and is trying the second time(common people!!!use your head!!)...I doubt he was thrusting in and out and whatever...he was just enjoying the pleasure of being inside her...that object is uncomfortable and that she closed her eyes to get her mind off it and got carried away is not her fault...I don't see where this woman is wrong or how her story is a lie for those of you blaming her and saying shit here...I just don't get how some of you reason atimes....God bless y'll
ReplyDeleteThank you!!!!
DeleteThe way a transvaginal probe is used makes me sceptical about this story. A v.probe is either moved to the right or left to bring the organs to view not in @ out like a p...s.its a bit discomforting procedure which many women want to do @ get off wit as fast as possible. Let me say dis dat,as a fertility nurse l ve personally come accross a client l did scan for and she was lost in euphoria sucking her finger @ was moving wit the direction of my probe wit her eyes closed. Men!l had to tap her to wake from her slumber. Many many questions one needs to ask this woman pls.
ReplyDeleteSeriously! Yet they will never accept the one they were doing. Some of them will keep insisting to be alone with the doctor. Then start giggling and blushing like someone that is about to have sex. They will even wear sexy pant and be twisting their waist as if they are having sex. Most of these women are promiscuous to doctors and priests.
DeleteGod bless u. Some will start fantasizing about sex right there.
DeleteFrom the stories have heard from friends and family, I strongly believe her. I wish she will get Justice.
ReplyDeleteThis is very unusual. During a standard transvaginal scan, the doctor sits on a low stool or stands while the patient lays down with her knees bent and her thighs parted. The screen is positioned in a way to allow the patient see the images as well.
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That procedure isn't comfortable enough for the average lady to close her eyes throughout the procedure, after all, wouldn't she be eager to see what's going on in uterus/womb? The part of the gadget which goes into the vagina looks nothing like a Penis, the only semblance is the shape is built to penetrate the vagina without lubrication. Some doctors use lubrication to keep the condom worn on the instrument intact. There's noway the procedure simulates sexual intercourse because the only thrust happens during entry. It's more of a circular motion but not the precise sexual motion where a guy moves his hips in a circular motion.
Another curious point to note is the gadget is not nearly as warm as an erected Penis. So how could she have kept her eyes closed even when he allegedly removed the gadget, unzipped his trousers, wore a condom, penetrated her vagina, started thrusting till he was about to come? No matter how fast he was, from the time he allegedly removed the gadget from her vagina and got himself prepared to penetrate her again, at least 30 seconds passed. So when you notice the procedure has stopped, wouldn't you open your eyes to ask the doctor his diagnosis? You mean she maintained that position with her eyes shut even when nothing was going on? Please! That's incredible, in my considered view.
Unless she was given some sort of paralytic drug, the natural reaction to the feel of a strange instrument entering a lady's vagina is for her eyes to pop open the minute she noticed "a much bigger" instrument penetrated her. How can a lady keep her eyes shut during any form of scan, especially when she's eager to know why she isn't getting pregnant? The story has yawning gaps, it appears she edited some parts of the story.
As for other women giving account of their experience with other doctors, it doesn't corroborate this lady's experience. A lot of doctors are depraved but that fact doesn't call for generalisation. You can't hold a doctor who practices in Lagos, liable to the actions of his colleague at Enugu. I hope this matter is investigated properly.
Finally!!! Ha! The doctor sits on a lower stool or chair. Ha!
DeleteVery very good point. The probe is usually cold and the penis is warm.
DeletePeople are just looking for excuses. She was feeling it meaning that she wasn't sedated.
I am confused. Some things don't add up.
Abeg make I read from who get sense thank u my sister.
DeleteWell, my female doctor stood all through the scan.
DeleteThey use a warming lube on the condom put on the probe too. @17:26
DeleteHmm Stelz, e get as this story be. First of, if she has a 24years old son, she must be at least 40yrs, and should be able to, at the very least, make sense with her story telling, or at the very most, as a married woman be alert when any other male apart from her husband is around her nakedness,in any setting. In a professional medical setting, anybody going for a scan is usually told what to expect, and if the information given is questionable, you ask questions. Touching our clits or breasts to induce our juices, has nothing to do with any medical investigation period.Furthermore, a woman who is going through infertility issues, usually is very inquisitive with everything done to investigate and rectify her problem.How come she laid there legs akimbo, with her eyes shut instead of looking at the screen? I'm not a judgemental person but I'm sorry, her story doesn't add up.Except if she has some kind of cognitive deficiency, then she can be excused. Like she said she must really have a wonderful "NIGERIAN"husband.
ReplyDeleteThis story is plausible. Very possible. If she was laying at the edge of the bed, with her legs wide open and the doctor directly opposite her doing the scan, then bam! He could strike. This is even a known sexual position.
ReplyDeleteAnd it's not unlikely for women to look away or shut their eyes when undergoing an uncomfortable medical examination. I do it too.
So I believe her. The doctor should be arrested asap.
The question we shuld b asking ourselves is ' What is d motive of d accuser '. Knowing fully well dat her integrity & marriage is at stake if dis accusation turn out hoax. Stella, dis bring 2 mind d personal experience me & my wife had way back in 1993. My wife who happen 2 b my GF then ws pregnant we decided 2 abort d pregnancy den. We went 2 one hospital d Dr told me dat my wife's body is so tight & he couldn't terminate d pregnancy. We then went 2 a vry popular hospital in Orile Iganmu in Lagos Nigeria just by d B/Stop then. D Dr assured me dat he can carry out d termination afta paying 4 d full cost. On d appointed day I went with my wife 2 d hospital & she ws invited in2 d theater only 4 my wife 2 storm out of d theater room telling me d doctor said her body ws vry tight & d only wy left ws 4 him 2 rub a cream on his penis with which he will penerate her with 4 him 2 b able 2 terminate d pregnancy. My wife then told him since I ws in d hospital I should b invited in2 d theater & be allowed 2 use it on her d doctor refused hence her reason 4 storming out of d theater. Dat is hw we couldn't terminate dat pregnancy. U can't believe dis Stella dat pregnancy turned out 2 b d only child btw me & my wife till date. She's a grown up lady nw, just graduated 4rm d university. A Lot of things happen in d hospital with sme of dese crazy doctor.
ReplyDeleteOga, u r lucky o
DeleteWow!
DeleteAwww.... Happy ending!! Are you saying God used the stupid doctors to give you guys sense and a beautiful child? Hehe
DeleteWow!!!!!!!! That is God oooooo, thank God
DeleteA lot of BVs here are women and will always doubt their fellow woman whenever she says she has been raped.We are our own problem.Thank God our judicial system doesn't have juries,a lot of people would have been sent to jail.Stella,please keep some of your opinions to yourself.
ReplyDeleteWow!what a tale! It bothers me a lot how insensitive most Nigerians particularly women are towards the plight of their kind. Whether this woman's story seem plausible or not, there isn't need for all these judgementalism! Sexual assault is real and we should at least show some degree of empathy. The big question is what does this woman stand to lose by speaking up? Everything of course. So, for her to damn all consequences and spoke up means she really was sexually assaulted by the said doctor.
ReplyDeleteWow!what a tale! It bothers me a lot how insensitive most Nigerians particularly women are towards the plight of their kind. Whether this woman's story seem plausible or not, there isn't need for all these judgementalism! Sexual assault is real and we should at least show some degree of empathy. The big question is what does this woman stand to lose by speaking up? Everything of course. So, for her to have damned all consequences and spoke up means she really was sexually assaulted by the said doctor.
ReplyDeleteWow!what a tale! It bothers me a lot how insensitive most Nigerians particularly women are towards the plight of their kind. Whether this woman's story seem plausible or not, there isn't need for all these judgementalism! Sexual assault is real and we should at least show some degree of empathy. The big question is what does this woman stand to lose by speaking up? Everything of course. So, for her to have damned all consequences and spoke up means she really was sexually assaulted by the said doctor.
ReplyDeleteThorough and proper investigation must be done
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