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Friday, April 22, 2016

Domestic Violence Report Concerning Jennifer Naomi Gabriel

She was allegedly battered by her husband last night.....Battery has allegedly been going on for a while now and even in public...






''Stella good day....
Please I want to report a case of Domestic Violence against my friend Jennifer Nnaoma Gabriel. 

The Husband has been using her to ease off tension because he feels she doesn't have anyone to speak for her.(she's from a broken home) .

She has been publicly humiliated and battered severally and last night, the husband almost killed her. 
Attached are some pictures I managed to take when she ran to me cos her husband has seized her phones.



Please use your good office to do something fast, and also ask your blog visitors who has one or two helps to render to please come to her aid. The number to call her on is 08120984944

Kindly treat as urgent, Thanks...


*Hmmmmm....once bitten twice shy*...I hate Domestic violence or any form of physical altercation but these women always go back to these monsters after they come begging....Flora Okwuosa our BV that was seriously battered,planked and almost choked to death told me so many things that when she went back to him,i cannot explain how shocked i was and everyday i pray that she is alive.

I pray Jennifer gets help but i am done with getting personally involved,its too emotionally draining and then watching them go back makes me think i failed them.


134 comments:

  1. It is well with her soul.
    see how brautiful she is.

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    1. Mtcheeeeew
      I will mind my business cause she will definitely go back!

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    2. Poster don't mind ur biz before dey use u settle the fight just like AY and Mable used stella settle dem fight

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    3. Shey dis one nah beating? Mstewww common slap u run come sdk bcos you wan threaten the man not bcos you want to leave after they take up the matter the man go beg and you will run back to him abi? Let me teach you what to do cos flora own don give us sense.... go back there when he wan start again get ata gungun (dried grounded pepper) pour am inside bowl with salt pour on his eyes give him the beating of his life so if you decide to leave then he won't touch the next woman. FIGHT FOR YOUR SELF....

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    4. What a shame! If this is true, her husband is the lowest of the low. Btw, did she give you permission to upload her pictures?? Just asking

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    5. Stella..please don't stop trying..you may never never know which one would work..

      Imagine if God decides to stop forgiving is our sins because we keep repeating it.

      PLEASE help in any way you can.

      Mwah

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    6. With little or no information one can't really say much on this. Like Stella said, me sef no get energy to say too much. God help her.

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    7. Stella pls dont get involved in this... 
      Husband  and wife matter them no dey put mouth. They should sort it out themselves, or better still go on net to search for any assistance.  

      Bv flora and her horseband , dem go don gossip about you taya and laugh their ass out. 

      Sometimes you don't get involved on certain things .
      Sorry oo Bv and her friend  tell her to keep praying. She should pray harder. God will see her through someday.  

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    8. I am a victim of domestic abuse.i feel hurt for this woman.not every woman can just leave her kids and go away.and being from a broken home we do not want our kids to pass through the same ordeal we didd.u won't understand until u are in our shoes.its not easy listening to ur little daughter gush abt her dad who is a monster to u.to reduce the hurt u run back and make peace and spare urself the agony of ppl saying like mother like daughter to ur daughter or men rejecting ur daughter because of her mother's mistakes.i weep for her.i am in de same shoes and Iv lost all respect because it's like I keep going back!

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    9. She better not go back to that marriage

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    10. Anony 23:47 pls runaway with your kids! Gather all the ego you can then run quickly

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  2. Gbam Stella!...
    I concur with your comment...
    Poster,you better remove your self from this ish cos dem go carry you do lovey lovey!...
    Be careful when you put your mouth in husband and wife issues...

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    1. She and her fellow e.g nwa Amana would still go back to the man oh..she said no matter what u can't leave the man so don't kill your self Stella .

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    2. Stell abeg face ur work.

      Jennifer sorry u hear, report to the police or leave the marriage.

      Marriage no be by force

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  3. Stella Na real once beaten twice shy.
    When they settle now u will be tagged a home breaker

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    1. She will go back to him after 'we' ve rendered help and financial support so make una no even bother. If she really wants to leave d bastard,she won't even be on a blog asking for a way forward. So,poster u and ur friend should just go and yansh down. I ve zero sympathy for dv victims. They usually go back forming I ve no one else to turn to or I am staying because of my kids or I am financially dependent on my husband as if they fell frm d sky and have no relations and family.

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    2. But day's way she is na

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    3. This one has no one to turn to too, just like the last one. So the possibility is that she'll still go back to him for succour.

      Since its her friend speaking on her behalf I do not think that Jennifer says she wants to leave him. So I assume that this 'cry for help' was inspired by her friend.

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  4. Issoriat!

    I no go even put mouth, because I'm 97% sure that she'll still run back to him.

    Especially, as there's also her broken home to use as an excuse again to go back to him.

    #WhiteDiamondOut

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    1. ....and dat is if she doesn't fight u for bringing her story to a blog.noone can or should advise a woman to walk away from bad marriages before she makes up her mind cos most of them are afraid of the unknown,some love the MRS dis and dat tag to death.
      So @reporter,face ur work.

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    2. @Stells,sorry for ur experience,but see as I dey laff u..here no dey like dat side oo!d expectations on women is so unreasonable and unfair!

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    3. Exactly! Like in the case of florence okuosa, she went back to her husband because she is an "orphan" she said..na them sabi jare!

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  5. Madam friend better stay out of it before they'd use you to settle quarrel.
    She go dey alright last last.

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  6. Sorry poster but Flora has taught me to stay off marriage wahala.

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    1. I'm telling you oo. That Flora case just make me weak.

      Sherry's Daughter

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  7. Una business sha...i no chuk mouth again.After you go still go back to lick his feet.Pele and enjoy the beating if you so wish cos most of u just seek for help here for the beating to reduce and go back later on.

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    1. I think I'm with you on this one @erectile. They report just for the beatings to reduce, and then go back!

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  8. Am not seeing anything on her face ... Just the "eyebrow" or am I going blind?

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    1. Yes ,partially blind.

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    2. I just change my mind about replying you... Today is not the day.thank your stars

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    3. Richbee me too.. looked severally but I cant see anything..

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    1. Bc u dey receive besting way worst pass this so u feel this is not am issue .
      Yoor husband cheats on u like no man's business and u stI'll with him of course u don't have a comment

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    2. Anon hahahahahah if only u know me/him
      hahahahahahahah lolz.

      My man is a wealthy,faithful and Godly christian. He can NEVER cheat. So find another thing to say okay.

      Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
      Kwakwakwa kwakwakwa
      Kpohokpohokpohokpoho


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    3. Anon 14.10


      Kpohokpohokpohokpoho

      Keep on dreaming. Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
      Gwegwelina of life.

      Kpohokpohokpohokpoho

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  10. May God help her but pls I hate to hear dt she has no1 to run to bcos she 4rm a "broken home". So she has to die in silence bcos of that or that we from broken homes have no right to live our lives bcos of the mistakes our parents made? Pls don't say that again. Women should learn to run as fast as their legs can carry them. Domestic violence does not start in a day & it wld av started from the courtship days but bcos of the desperation in some ladies they brush it aside & continue to endure forgetting that they'll cry out some day. Pls rule out being from a broken home as a reason why some women suffer in silence. God bless

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    1. They always come up with that line of excuse so that they can go back to d monster.This one is frm a broken home. Flora is an orphan. This will show u that she will be going back definitely. Dem no they ever get family,relations,church members or even friends to pack and go to.

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    2. My parents are separated & I hv galant Aunties from both sides, Buff uncles 2 & Muscled cousins, I get where to run to plenty plenty.
      Poster, ur friend did not fall from a coconut tree, leave her family to fight for her. Just give her transport money & point her in d right direction. Stop taking chemo for another person's cancer.

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    3. My parents are separated & I hv galant Aunties from both sides, Buff uncles 2 & Muscled cousins, I get where to run to plenty plenty.
      Poster, ur friend did not fall from a coconut tree, leave her family to fight for her. Just give her transport money & point her in d right direction. Stop taking chemo for another person's cancer.

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    4. No b small buff uncles nd muscled cousins. Lmao. All these women that are married to violent men, must there be a comma in ur family, eida orphan or broken home? Even if it's broken, cnt u go to ur mom or dad? Una fall frm tree? No "buff" uncles or "muscled" cousins? Biko y'all shld leav us ejor! I won't even advice u. If u wnt to stay or leav, na u know.

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    5. Anon 12:31 spot on!

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    6. Hmmmm.. Me I'm even thinking that they are using this platform to gather money for their broke husband. Not because they need help to break from the men.

      I'm sorry o, but that's what it seems. Look at it now, frustration is what they claim is causing the men to beat them to stupor. After which they'll gather empathy and financial assistance from here, then they'll go back and spend the monies gathered with the abusive man. Then when the money finishes the battery resumes and they cry for help again. I just tire

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    7. Sis Eko God bless u for saying it. I also started getting dt suspicion. Maybe a new form of 419. I felt so sorry for all those who helped flora. Abeg I no even look all dese DV women again.....

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  11. Why won't they go bk shebi they say love is blind Na...they prefer their parents to bury them instead for them to bury their parents and few months after your burial another woman comes in to maltreat ur children. please tell her to leave that man if you don't want to attend her burial before time.

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  12. I hope she won't go back to the monster horseband after getting help.
    I pray never to marry a violent man,GOD help me

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  13. No Stella, you didn't fail them, they failed themselves and "womanity"



    She's from a broken home but her parents are still alive, right?
    Let her go to them, they should help her no matter what.


    And this "she has no one" line annoys me to no end, siblings nko? Friends? Church?
    If there was no Stella's blog, how would she have done it?




    I no dey chuck mouth for husband and wife mata abeg because I can bet my clitoris that this one will go back, they always do.




    SHARONNA

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    1. Sharonna kisses

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    2. Anon, hot, wet kisses.




      SHARONNA

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  14. Stella better continue to get involved ooo. Not because of Flora another person will die. Since they have come to your blog. Please help.

    WOMEN WILL NOT LEAVE AMU ALONE. I was thinking it is another American actress not knowing na our own naija babe.

    The man beating her is a brokeass man. Am sure the economy is dealing badly with him, so he took his frustrations on his wife. The wife is foolish. you dont know what TO DO ABI

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  15. Stella i totally agree with you on this one, but you know this woman is in a bad state now, your last sentence sounds very discouraging. If she has a good source of income she can be encouraged to move on. In most cases the women have no means of livelihood.

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  16. You still do not have to give up on them SDK
    Do your best with your platform and even if they go back,atleast God himself knows that you tried to help.

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    1. By posting this alone she's done her bit na. I'm sure the appropriate organisations will contact her

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    1. Just bcos there's a pussy between d legs does not make u a woman,shey anybody go see dis stella call am woman?She's more masculine features Dan a lot of men I know n yes some women deserve 2 be hit n stabbed 2 death like d hermafrodite blogger

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    2. Jeez anonymous 12:21 your life is as bitter as bitter kola, you need something more than sugar to sweeten your life, she is muscular and a ferm yet you are here so what are you doing on her blog? May God forgive you for uttering this kind of trash from your mouth... you really need JESUS in your life.

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    3. Anon sometimes I love Stella, sometimes I don't but that one you wrote there I don't support. Learn not to insult women by body shaming them. The conclusion of my reply is that you are a fool for that write up. I pray your sisters don't experience domestic violence.

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    4. Uriel Darling how are u doing?

      Anon: U are the one that would be stabbed to death so u would die n be finally go to hell to meet the one that created u Satan. And no Stella's hubby cannot hit her cos she is a woman with a beautiful heart. Oya run back to the black pit u crawled out from ur father the devil is calling u.

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    5. May everything evil you wish stella be returned to you and your generation in a hundred folds anon 12:21. Mannerless, untrained goat. Common GTFOH.

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    6. How dare you? Don't make such rubbish comments under mine. #Fear God#

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    7. Go learn how to spell, then come and insult your lineage.

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  18. Stella you do your part by bringing it to the notice of the authority, whatever those ladies decide to do afterwards is on them not you.
    There is a 90% chance this one will go back afterwards.But still, sorry for the bodily harm

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  19. I absolutely understand you Stells; to think Flora would go back to that man despite all the noise that was made here. Hmmmm

    Hope Neoma gets the help she needs.

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  20. Those eye brows...

    Some men are demons.

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  21. My dear don't you have relatives? Please run to them ASAP! Me i have six elder brothers, if any man tries shit with me, my brothers agwo ya ji nmanu! Ana edekwanu nkogheri na akwukwo?

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  22. Pls BVs who knows how to download Stella's blog on iPhone 6plus. I need to get it for my elder sis, she's been disturbing me to get d app. I've tried downloading it but couldn't, it keeps showing other various blogs. Kindly assist asap. Thanks

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  23. Stella please get your mind off the "I failed them" thought. If she has cried out for help kindly help then leave her to go back if she wants to. At least you played your part.
    Frustrated men everywhere, bitchy women on the increase. May God give us wisdom.

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  24. May God help her! Stella kindly help in the little way you can. We all know how you have fought this fight. God bless your effort.

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  25. Can't deal, they always go back no point helping them out.

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  26. Hmmmmm
    Dem don come again ooo
    Tomorrow now, dem go use us (SDk and her bvs) settle fight.

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    1. As much as I feel bad for this women I learnt my lesson from flora. Like someone said flora dun spoil show for others. The truth is this, women are not ready. Even as I would want to get married to a good man someday I am not really looking forward to it. The rate of failed marriage is alarming. And most of the times I blame the women. Our society isn't what it use to be anymore things have changed. So we have to change as well. I won't stop saying that we women should empower ourselves. It would reduce the amount of trash we receive from men. How many strong, powerful women who got their shit together do u hear are being beaten at home? When u bring nothing to the table u get whatever is being dished out. (This does not apply to women with fish brain o) my fellow sisters lets empower ourselves so when a man tried to mess us up we can pick up ourselves and walk away. When u got ur self together no man would want to try rubbish with you. Men admire strong women, they crave them n they respect them.
      Be One!

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    2. @dewdrop,i have seen a magistrate whose husband abuses both physically and verbally and she brings alot to the table.some women are bread winners in their homes and are still abused by theirspouse,so is not about women empowerment but asking God for wisdom to choose a responsible man that will treat you like a queen.

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  27. Stella, these women go back because of Government have failed by:

    1. The level of hardship and unemeployement is scary. She will think on how to pay rent, tuition, feeding and co. Note that, she is most likely earning much if all she does.

    2. The law doesnt favour women here. If it were in a developed nation, the guy will be arrested and issued a restriction order.

    Our society nko? They will tell you "stoop to conquer" "women build their home" "stay and endure because of children". Even with this beating, i wont be suprised if shes asked to apologize.

    Marriage is over rated biko

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    1. So overrated. A man was telling me yesterday that men get married to make women happy. Can you imagine that shit! Wonder how he treats his wife at home.

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  28. Even before I opened this post, my mind just said 'bv Flora has spoilt show most people wo genuinely want to help wont even bother their pretty head.. nd that's the same thing Stella wrote...

    Now madam, when u say she has no-one to speak for her, let me tell u even a mad man u see walking the streets in tattered cloths has relatives that will come nd claim him.. So I advice ur friend to dust her lazy ass up nd find something doing away from the animal she calls a husband except u guys want to use ur story to gain monetary gains..hmmmmm

    Any man that dares to lay his hand on me, ill just go nd arrange cult boys to give him d beating of his life, next time he'll think twice!

    Florence Huttons

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  29. Even before I opened this post, my mind just said 'bv Flora has spoilt show most people wo genuinely want to help wont even bother their pretty head.. nd that's the same thing Stella wrote...

    Now madam, when u say she has no-one to speak for her, let me tell u even a mad man u see walking the streets in tattered cloths has relatives that will come nd claim him.. So I advice ur friend to dust her lazy ass up nd find something doing away from the animal she calls a husband except u guys want to use ur story to gain monetary gains..hmmmmm

    Any man that dares to lay his hand on me, ill just go nd arrange cult boys to give him d beating of his life, next time he'll think twice!

    Florence Huttons

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  30. Buhari, old do something...

    Pass a bill against domestic violence. Give support to all the agencies fighting this cause, just like the 1st world countries, let jail term, restriction order be passed and pls our police officers should sending them back home telling them it's a personal matter. Please! Please!! Please!!!


    I feel for u Jenny, hope you find help.

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  31. So because she is from a broken home she should die there ...she better leave that man before he kill her...what help does she want?,oh she is looking 4 some one to decide weather she should stay or go?....look around see your future ahead,leave the monster alone...There is a life ahead of you,you are not alone.you gat all women around the world with you and God is your strength. Don't allow your circumstances to define you.

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  32. Dear friend, I understand your friend has been through alot, but no need coming here to sort for help, this friend of your will go back to her husband, she will probably go back today sef. If she has no one, shebi she has you. Ngwa let her stay at your place na. When she is very sure about leaving him, she can start the process and come here for help to continue. Until that, na look we dey biko, because her wound no too serious set, so this aunty must to go back ni oh.

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    1. Lol abi. Flora own didn't shock me as much as that woman with four kids that her husband split her head open with cutlass abi wetin. That the activist woman Joy Odumakin took to court recently and the man showed no remorse in court.. the woman even said her hubby is gay because he stopped sleeping with her for years and moves around suspiciously with younger boys. After all this o, the woman still went back to this same man ehh..i nearly collapsed.

      OK e don do. Bye

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  33. Person go put mouth later they will return to the men. Jesus take over

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  34. I pray may God give u the strength to pull thru.and for the horseband man y would u battery ur wife. U wnt to use her for chicken battery sauce

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  35. Flora see what you have caused,I almost took flora in,Thank God I didn't cos her "hired beater" of a hubby would have come after me,after a heart break the lady swears not to trust any man or love another,but love comes again and she forgets all,Stella you didn't fail but did your best, if they choose to go back is their choice,don't give up.

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  36. If she doesn't have anyone to stand up for her, then who gave her out? or rather who chop her 'bride price'?
    Tell her to remain and work things out with her husband because if some people tell her to leave...she WON't.

    What did she want? We have Police, Army, High Court, Area boys and even NGO's, so which one did she want?

    She should go for thorough deliverance.

    A Ministry should be set up to handle issues like this. BUhari take note.

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  37. Oh God, help us women to live long and eat the fruit of our labour on our kids, its not easy to leave especially if you are not earning much, if you leave, some men will just abandon you and the kids
    I left my hubby due to DV and now responsible for my two kids. We manage to feed, now they are still at home after two weeks of resumption, they are owing part of last term's fees and were not allowed into the school premises. Now I weep every night and regret my life, if only I can get a good job, our lives will be better. They were among the first to pay school fees when we were with their dad, life! They are playing around the neighbourhood now when their mates are in school just because of 13k balance of last term, it is well. I still believe I took the right decision though by leaving the cos I would have died by now if I was still there.

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    1. Chai tears. I wish someone would help you. You need a lawyer to make that man take care of his children

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    2. So their dad is not supporting you? Have you heard about ministry of social welfare abi those ones who assist to get social support from such men. Don't waste your data,do your research well. Truat me it works and don't forget to let your children know the type of man their father is. Na for your own good.

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  38. It's not fair what bvs are saying, bcos Flora returned back to abuser doesn't mean any woman experiencing DV shld not be assisted.
    This woman's plea may be genuine. So if a friend betrays or hurts you, does dat mean you won't have a friendship with someone else.
    Stella abeg assist this lady, just take it as you are doing it for God. If she goes back to her husband atleast if anythn God forbid happens to her you won't feel guilty. With saying only if I did this, only if I did that.
    Stella you have peace bcos you know you tried for Flora, if anythn happens your conscience is clear that you and others did your best for her.

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    1. B/R, what does the lady in question want us to do for her? Divorce or "tell my husband to reduce the beating"?

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  39. I pray she gets the help she needs

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  40. I pray she finds help

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  41. Did she run her mouth like a broken tap against her horseband?
    Has she always been good wife to her horseband?

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    1. Another senseless comment. You never fail to disappoint

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    2. Serves her right abi? Don't mind her.

      James is so smart. Oya take akara. Obo!

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  42. It is mostly rude women dat are always disgraced by their horsebands

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    1. So true! Fuñny James. O to go ju

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  43. Notwithstanding...I here by lend my voice against domestic violence against women...#saynotodomesticviolence#

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    1. Who your voice help?

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    2. Abeg who ur voice epp? Loooool

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    3. Abeg who ur voice epp? Loooool

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  44. I pray she finds the stregnth to leave cos its not easy, things are very hard and most men will just abandon the kids when their mum leaves especially when he remarries. Mine brought in another woman two months after I left and he abandoned the kids, his family too are not helping matters, blaming me for everything.

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    1. This is why I always advice women to ensure they are economically viable before they marry. Empower yourselves before marriage. Get a proper education, learn a trade, have a business etc. Just ensure you can STAND ON YOUR OWN 2 FEET BEFORE AND DURING MARRIAGE.

      And for God's sake have the number of children you alone can take care of if marriage does not work out. Am I clear???

      YOT

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  45. If she has no one to speak for her,let her stand up and fight for herself!

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  46. Pele. God will help her

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  47. You see nau wetin you cause flora, well it is we with you Jennifer

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  48. Stella, I don't even know where to start typing from. On the 9th of September last year, this man beat her up in our presence and stripped her naked. He keeps saying he wants to take another wife. We have asked him to go ahead and leave her to train her 4 kids in peace, to no avail. Please you can call her and encourage her as she is emotionally unstable. For those saying I should leave them, I pray you never find yourself in a position where you'll need help so badly and no one would be there to render any help. Thanks a lot Stella.

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    1. @Jenny s friend, what did she do?
      Abi d man just wake up start to dey fight her?

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    2. Jenny's fried, while I appreciate you assisting your friend please be careful.

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    3. I feel sad for your friend. Can you help her by letting her put up with you for a while, until a more practical solution presents itself. Be a friend in deed.

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  49. Let your friend speak for herself, if she has no father and mother then what about the other people that stood for her during their marriage.

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  50. James you have started again. The woman that beat her husband for 33 years what will you say about him. TAKE YOUR TIME

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  51. We can help people without judging them.

    She needs help, it may be advice , some women push men to the wall in which case the man may not necessarily be at fault in all DV issues if u look keenly, although I detest physical abuse of women.....and if she goes back?? is it not her husband? many silently go through worse issues and stick in please ! leaving is not always the wisest choice in most cases, I pray she finds the help she needs.

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  52. It's really nobody's duty but the abused person's to notify the relevant authorities. We empathise and in solidarity, we do all within our power to support and help the victims. I don't blame Stella for washing her hands like Pontius Pilate did in a bid to free himself from guilt. The BV's incidence is still very fresh in our minds and she returning to that abusive environment after all the support she got, is like a slap on the face( no pun intended). 

    Stells, this is exactly the point I was trying to make on the post where a lady charged her ‎boyfriend to Court for slapping her. You weren't impressed with the way cases of domestic violence in marriages never see the light of day in a Court of Law. Whatever you're feeling right now, multiply it by 100, that's how the Police feel about married women reporting cases of domestic violence because 98% of the women go back to the abusers. It's only 1 case for now but see the reaction? Nobody wants to be played for a fool. So imagine if you decide to help 20 victims of domestic violence and after all your efforts, 19 return back and the only one left is beginning to second guess her decision to leave? You'll become so desensitised that you may even begin to laugh if another case of domestic violence is brought to your attention. 

    My darling poster, bless your kind heart for being a friend in need but tread cautiously. You wrote that this isn't the 1st time and that he allegedly beats her in public, yet she stays married to him. That shows she's already broken inside and it will take more than goodwill to make her end this corrupt version of a marriage. She has suffered worse but didn't leave, what makes you think this time will be different? Please apply wisdom so your concern doesn't come back to haunt you. Be guided by one of my favourite admonitions, "the road to hell is paved with good intentions". Sometimes, even the best of intentions will blow up in your face and you will regret the help you offered. The best you can do is, be the shoulder she can cry on and try to make her feel better about herself but don't be the one encouraging her to leave, you can't fight her battles for her. Make no suggestions about her leaving the marriage until she decides on her own to leave. Then what you do is support her decision as a friend. I honestly pray she gets the help she needs.‎

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  53. The woman that beat her hubby Wil for 33yrs will say what about him?? This is ridiculous

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  54. Aya, I feel for the woman...but she will still go back. Besides she doesn't look like she was beaten so much na, she had time to still draw her eyebrows Abi they didn't clean with d beating?

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  55. Sexiest mum, ur husband is wealthy and you look razz like that, always fixing and braiding cheap hair that even my housemaid cant make.
    The environment of ur house looks old, unkept,poor and you claim rich.
    Stop deceiving urself not us, we all know the only thing you have going on in ur life is the unfortunate man you claim as husband. Akunna kunna claiming rich, I cant laugh. Every bitch now is claiming marrying rich. Must mean ur hubbys kobos not even showing. Come let me show you what being married to a wealthy, classy, fresh husband living in our own property in VGC and enjoying our lives looks like.
    I cant stand dis ur carrying ur peasant marriage for head.

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  56. In fact Stella you and I are best of friends on this particular comment. Rubbish!! We should waste our strength to do something and tomorrow she will go back to collect more prick.

    Biko I no come this blog today....Forget say you dey see something wey be like my name but is not me.

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  57. Stella I'm quite disappointed at your write up this evening. It shows you are not abreast with happenings of domestic violence and the effects on the victims. Condemning a woman of returning to her abusive spouse and therefore using that to condemn all other women going through this is a big shame especially considering that you live in the western world. Please this lady needs serious help, counseling,finances, legal etc. if you are in a position to do so by way of pulling in resources such as human, financial etc and you don't just because of your ego and she dies, I pray you will be able to live with your conscience. No man is God

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  58. Pls lets learn to fight back...these men think they can hit us and get away with it.... Whenever my husband tries to i use all the strength in this world to hit back cos my mama no born me to come collect beating. Since then he didn't try it again

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  59. Feeling so sorry for her just hope gets a helper

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