DANGEROUS AND CONSIDERING ABORTION
Good morning aunt Stella. Madam Stella of life. Please ma help me post my predicament.
i don't know where my story fits maybe the Doctor inhouse
My story thus. I had fibroid surgery in 2014, later that year I got pregnant and gave birth through a cesarean section in 2015 making it the second surgery in two years. Now it is 2016 and I am 5month pregnant which only means I would only deliver the baby through another cesarean section making it the third surgery in 3years. I don’t know how dangerous this could be going through another surgery or even if I am to consider abortion I don’t know where and how to go about it. I really don’t know what to do as I am confused at the moment. My fellow BVs and Doctors inHouse please I need your genuine advice. Please help a sister
THANK YOU MA
Rita Jacobs
Doctors please step forward.
ReplyDeletePoster you should have allowed your body rest. Hmmmm, all you need is a very good gynae and with God on your side you will be fine. However please stop birthing for now. Please use a very good hospital that's got all relevant medical facilities. Don't stress yourself.
DeleteYou dnt av to be scared my dear,my sis ad her fibroid surgery 2009january,got pregnant July 2009,dat same year,she put to birth April 2010,mistakenly got pregnant again wen her baby was 5 months,we saw d doctor and he said no problem.she was delivered of d baby June 2011.she ad 3 cesarean sessions in 3 years.shes alive today and doing great.dnt let anyone scare u pls.you are good to go.according to d docrors,u can get preggy 6 months after any surgery.it is well with u ijn.dnt go for any abortion pls.ure very okay
DeletePls carry it to ter . Its five months gone already. Even the abortion won't be easy even under q knife. Just cs birth your child and stop having children for now so that your body can rest. I wish u the best. Xoxo
ReplyDeletePoster,you too like fuck!...
ReplyDeleteHow can you allow your self to get pregnant when you have not healed properly?...
You are supposed to give your self atleast two years after the surgery before getting pregnant...
When you were raising up your legs screaming harder! harder!!...did you call us?...
Now you have come to disturb us with this tale by moonlight...
And if you remove this baby,you will never get pregnant again!...carry your cross alone mehn!...
I wonder why you're so senseless.
DeleteThis woman no go kill person here!See the way you are describing the sex act as if you were there when it was happening.
DeleteEasy now Queen of the blog...LMAO
DeleteQueen of which blog abeg? Mscheew.
DeleteMadam poster, pls see ur doc. It alil dangerous as I heard o.. but see a doc asap.
I barely drop comments but 2day I av 2 Spill it..Queen of d blog or wateva ur name is U re very foolish..u re cursed..
DeleteOh lord,I Know you forgot her when u wer sharing sense. pls give dis 'queen' small sense,coz she's becoming a serious prayer point in this nation. Queen! Bizibodi gi adigo too much! Allow ya neighbor WiFi rest small, if u dnt have anytin sensible to contribute!
DeleteWhy wait until you are 5 months gone before asking this question?
DeleteGo and see your doctor and explain to him.not just any doctor, make sure it's a gynaecologist.
Hmmmm
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing you can do now than to keep praying and try to worry less. Just make sure the hospital you will use is well equipped,both personnel(intellectually) and equipment. You will have notin to worry about. But pls make sure you start family planning as soon as you deliver. Hope u have started antenatal already.Do exactly as your doc says.
DeleteDon't u attend antenatal did ur obstetrician tell u that it is dangerous for u? Are u having problems/complications. Madam go to the hospital. Stop talking nonsense. You are not God.
ReplyDeleteI know a woman that had her 3 children by cs, it was her choice tho,she didn't want viginal birth,and the doctor said cs shouldn't be done more than three times. So i guess u still have one more shot since u have operated twice,u just need a good hospital with a good doctor and of course prayers.
ReplyDeleteAnd again u should have waited at least 2yrs b4 getting pregnant again.
Deletenot 2 years..At least a year..but 6 months is still ok
DeleteAbortion at five months? It's a no no for me. Go for this surgery for the last time and go for family planning. Don't take in again. The God that give you this baby will surely keep you and your baby.
ReplyDeleteMadam its obvious you like gbenshing a lot please go for family planning na haba. You know its dangerous yet you keep gbenshing without tinking. Am against abortion but not when it posses a threat to the mother. Am not a doctor but I know it dangerous both ways. May God help you ma'am.
ReplyDeleteShe is only very fertile..a woman can only get pregnant once in a month
DeleteANother surgery my dear and count yourself lucky because some are looking for this opportunity. After this, use contra or condom. Thank God.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm.....you would be fine
ReplyDeleteMadam you need not worry or consider an abortion you will have another C.S. Your indication for CS is 2 previous surgeries which is a normal diagnosis just be careful to go to a good obstetrician.
ReplyDeleteI'm right there with you. Be sure to put in a coil after delivery.
DeleteGood day ma.
ReplyDeleteNo need to deceive you. Two surgeries in two years obviously make the UTERUS WEAKER than usual.
However you are five months preggy without complications.my choice is that you keep the pregnancy.getting pregnant is a miracle.
You must have been adviced by your doctor who performed the last CS not to get pregnant anytime soon.
If you end up keeping the pregnancy,you will be better of seeing a consultant O&G in a private hospital or in a less expensive teaching hospital.
They will likely advice you to have an elective caesarean section at around eight months to prevent the slightly weak uterus from overdistending coz there is a minute risk of rupturing at later times.
If you choose to abort,it will be done by drugs not D&C or vacuum.
Again I prefer you keep it but
Act now!!!
Thanks
Abortion and 5months? It is dangerous. Please keep your baby and work closely with your gynae
ReplyDeleteThis is serious
ReplyDeleteDon't abort it pls,its well with you.
ReplyDeleteHad my 3 kids thru Cs,a year aprt and I am fyn,so dnt fink its is a problm
ReplyDeleteMadam, 2017 another pregnancy go enter. See the journey you are going through. Congrats to you. You wont have problems.
ReplyDeleteJust go to a good hospital.
Tracy James u lied. Who told you that you can only do cs just 3times? Your
ReplyDeletedoctor who did the cs on you is the one in the right position to his/her patient how many more chances she has. Some people undergo cs for 4,5 and even 6times. A woman had a 6 th cs in my hospital and went home hail and hearty. It all depends on the woman's body, doctor and nature of wound healing and scar formation. All said, poster you need to be calm,never you contemplate abortion,there's nothing unusual about your case. Visit the hospital, see your gynaecologist he is in the right position to advice you. You will be fine. My prayers are with you.
It can be done many times..but it advisable to do it only 3 times..This is what most doctors say
DeleteIt's not about Tracy lying,the truth here is that for every surgery/csection your muscle + uterus is weakened. That is why obgyn, will advice you not to get pregnant within d ffg year,to enable healing. Having 4csection is border line for danger,anything above that is danger.
DeleteMadam, follow up with your obgyN and forget abortion if your truly in your 2nd trimester. Try and allow your body to heal after you give birth. Ask your obgyn for the contraceptive/family planning that will be best for you.
To tell you the truth,this is very risky.You did not give your uterus time to heal.The risk ahead include uterine rupture as the baby grows bigger.Now the pregnancy is 5mths,no need of aborting at this point.Pls keep the baby.I know your Dr must have advised you not to get pregnant this soon.Visit a good gyaenacologist and explain yourself to him.The end mayb that a C/S will be done early to bring out the baby for good.
ReplyDeleteNice one sis.on point
DeleteNo big deal my dear, make sure you see a good surgeon, probably the one that did the two operations. My very close friend did hers within a year: she did d fibrod operation around june 2014, she got pregnant barely 3months after(the doctor advised her to start making babies 3months after d operation) she was lucky there was no delay, she gave birth May 2015(another operation within a year)the doctor told her to make another baby wen d baby she delivered clocks 9months, and she obeyed. My dear, fibroid re grows and the best time to be pregnant after the operation or 1st delivery is when you dnt give it any breathing space to grow. Deliver ur 2nd baby and give urself a long time or permanent rest. If you abort it, there may be complications, remember that part of the causes of fibroid is an incomplete or unprofessional removal of the foetus. Just use a good O & G doctor, preferably the person with ur medical history. He ll know where and how to open up. No big deal,swallow ur fear, have faith, keep ur story to yourself and share with God in prayer. Dnt manage ur health, if a good hospital demands huge money, pay it.its worth less than your valuable life.
ReplyDeleteNo big deal my dear, make sure you see a good surgeon, probably the one that did the two operations. My very close friend did hers within a year: she did d fibrod operation around june 2014, she got pregnant barely 3months after(the doctor advised her to start making babies 3months after d operation) she was lucky there was no delay, she gave birth May 2015(another operation within a year)the doctor told her to make another baby wen d baby she delivered clocks 9months, and she obeyed. My dear, fibroid re grows and the best time to be pregnant after the operation or 1st delivery is when you dnt give it any breathing space to grow. Deliver ur 2nd baby and give urself a long time or permanent rest. If you abort it, there may be complications, remember that part of the causes of fibroid is an incomplete or unprofessional removal of the foetus. Just use a good O & G doctor, preferably the person with ur medical history. He ll know where and how to open up. No big deal,swallow ur fear, have faith, keep ur story to yourself and share with God in prayer. Dnt manage ur health, if a good hospital demands huge money, pay it.its worth less than your valuable life.
ReplyDeleteDid you actually seek advice from your doctor after your second surgery to know the consequences of having to undergo a third surgery in three years? Why do people prefer to shout when the head is already off. You know your condition yet you both refuse to discipline your selves and make sacrifices for your own good. Now tell me who has the magic wand to know for sure what will happen with either a third surgery or an abortion. I don't like condom, my wife's thing is too sharp, my holy oil is gum so so once it's not her free period, no sex irrespective of the urge. It's a sacrifice we both have to make for our own good. For you that can't forgo sex, why not use condoms and save yourself problems. If for any reason we refuse to take precaution, we accept the outcome as the cross we have to bear for our indiscretion and complain to no one. I don't really understand some people.
ReplyDeleteBvn member youngman.
Madam, he that has a head haS no cap... pls talk to ur dr. D only reason u shld conSider abortion is if d preg is standing as a threat to ur life, if not, pls let d baby grow to term, cs is not a death sentence n if it wasnt Gud for u to get preg quicklY, u wld av been warNed after ur last delivery. Pls dnt add stress to ur state abegi, d blessings of God makes rich n has no sorrow
ReplyDeletey did you allow yourself get pregnant so quickly?!! anyways you're five months gone now. its too late to have an abortion without risking your life. when you have this baby, go and get pregnant again if you like. Family planning is cheap these days pls
ReplyDeleteAbortion at 5 months is dangerous to because most times they induce delivery with drugs just like an induction if labour and this is contraindicated in someone with previous history of uterine surgery like a cs. You could rupture your uterus and die. What you need is close monitoring during antenatal and a scheduled elective cs. Pls ask for a family planning method as you are dropping the baby. We don't want to see you on this thread with the same problem next year..all the best
ReplyDeletePoster, since the pregnancy has gone this far,keep it. Focus your attention on how to have a successful delivery instead.
ReplyDeleteCos of the surgeries you've done, there may be the risk of a weakened uterus so your best bet is to see a good ob/gyn specifically the one who has your medical history to know how to go about it from there.
Try to relax as a high Blood pressure could lead to something else. I wish you safe delivery.