Unable to withstand further beatings from his wife of 33 years, Emmanuel Osuya , 58, on Wednesday secured a divorce from the woman, Abigail.
“My wife wants to kill me, she beats me almost every day with dangerous weapons. On three occasions, she broke my leg, preventing me from going out for days.
“Due to her frequent beating, I got paralysed in 2012 and that made the beating unabated,’’ the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) quotes Osuya as pleading.
An Igando Customary Court in Lagos dissolved the marriage, as its President, Mr Adegboyega Omilola said he was convinced that the couple could no longer live together as the petitioner insisted on divorce after several interventions.
“The court has no choice than to dissolve the union in spite of the fact that the wife still claims she loves her husband.
“The couple can no longer stay together because the marriage has broken down totally: both parties are no longer husband and wife, they are free to go their separate ways,” Omilola ruled.
Osuya, a retired civil servant, had approached the court to dissolve his 33-year-old marriage over alleged battering by his wife.
Osuya said that Abigail, with whom he had five children, was always threatening his life through battering, and that he was afraid she might kill him one day.
Osuya also accused his wife of turning his children against him, thereby making them to hate him.
“Abigail succeeded in creating enmity between me and my children, she tells them false and damaging stories about me in order for them to hate me.
“So, my children only care for her by sending her money and other items every month, without extending their love to me. They always ignore me as if I do not exist,’’ the battered husband said.
The petitioner also described his wife as a thief that was always stealing his money, rendering him financially broke.
He said it became so bad that he could no more keep money at home because of his wife’s penchant for stealing.
“She is not always satisfied with the money I give her, in spite of the fact that my children always send her money every month,’’ the petitioner said.
Osuya added that Abigail also starved him of food and sex.
He appealed to the court to dissolve the marriage, saying that “I am no longer interested in the marriage, I don’t want to die now, more so that I am out of love’’.
-PM News
Na wah oh!..At this stage that they should be reaping the fruits of their labour?what a big big pity!
Eyyahh.
ReplyDeleteWife beating husband? Dissolving the marriage was long overdue.
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Hian lioness wife. Domestic violence is a no
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DeleteNa wa..
DeleteAll these igando marraiges and co. Only that side marraige woes comes out.
ReplyDeleteOga you tried that your family did not carry your corpse. Why would you continue taking beatings from your wife.
Oga you tried very much. Am sure it is the woman that brings money for the payment of bills
Hahahahahaha...
DeleteThe table has turned!...I'm sure the man was very wicked to his wife when the marriage was young!...
Men treat your wives right!...
Lol. Funny enough my guest taught was Igando again?
DeleteYou didn't read where she steal him blind ?
DeleteEnd time wife
ReplyDeleteAbigail no dey court, where is her own side of the story
DeleteImagine... Never heard of a housewife beating her husband o. Reverse has always been the case. In other words, over the years men have always battered their wives from back to back, but the women folk yaf vex, street ti take over.
ReplyDeleteEither ways, domestic violence is really bad. It has to be on constant check in every home.
Very funny, Wife always beating her husband , Lol. I would have loved to see their pictures.
ReplyDeleteAll this thing na only igando e deh happen?
ReplyDeleteAll this thing na only igando e deh happen?
ReplyDeleteThe truth is dt a lot of men are also in abusive rlnships,but are too ashamed to speak up,dt is why u wld see some men wld stay outside and drink than go home. Yes men are mostly d abusers but some women are also very violent and if such women happen to meet a gentle man,dt man own don finish be dt.
ReplyDeleteWife from hell!I hate it when parents drag their kids into their marital problems.
ReplyDeleteIt's a pity, love gone sore
ReplyDeleteThis man don hear am
ReplyDeleteThe court didn't hear the wife's side of the story or the reporter reported the husband's side? This reminds me of my father, he knows how to manipulate people to believe his side of the story. But 'we' know what's happening exactly. So a grown ass man can stay with an abusive wife for 33yrs. It is well.
ReplyDeletegender equality lol
ReplyDeleteThe woman must be Undertaker or Bruce lee
ReplyDeleteMmm BaBa even when you are paralysed you still crave for sex...lol
ReplyDeleteOn a lighter note, if it were to be the husband beating a wife we would say NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENT... Now that its the woman i gues we would laugh it off ryt?
Irrespective of the gender, LETS SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENT
No be only domestic violent !!
DeleteAnon 13:30 go and report to the police and House of Rep that it's violence and not violent.
DeleteMumu like you, are you above error?
Lmao
DeleteNobody deserves to stay in any abusive relationship cos u will get killed one day, this also goes a long way to prove that is not only women that are being abused in marriage, I just pray other victims will borrow sense from this man and look for a way to end the violence. I am PURPLE and we say no to any form of violence.
ReplyDeleteI hope the man never cheated on her when he was making money...
ReplyDeleteThis life sef. What would make a woman steal from her man?
Pathetic to see how everyone is making jest of the situation & barely condemning domestic violence. Let it be said that the man slapped the wife, I'm sure we'd have over 1000 comments with all sorts of insults, condemnation & plot on how to eliminate the man. Hypocritical Nigeria
ReplyDeleteEyah! Marriage of 33 years
ReplyDeleteMarriage gone sour
ReplyDeleteMarriage gone sour
ReplyDeleteMarriage gone sour
ReplyDeleteI just knew that it was igando. All these igando marriages sef. Am. Sure the magistrate is already tired.
ReplyDeleteLol. Where's Igando by the way?
DeleteIgando is closer to lasu ojo road and also if u are coming from ikotun egbe road u can link up to Igando road.
DeleteIf he can endure it for 33 years ....hw many more years remaining....
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