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Reply to the 25 year old girl pregnant for a married man
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Dearest Stella,
I have been an ardent reader of your blog for many many years and i want to appreciate you for everything. Your sheer strength gives some of us courage and may all your good never return to you void.
I read with displeasure on your blog about a girl pregnant for my husband and how do i know? That is my husband's name. Now to the story we have been married for 10 years this May and we have 3 kids. Do i know if my husband is a philanderer? Yes i found out 6 months after our marriage where he had to painstakingly take down my pictures because he wanted to sleep with another woman. His mantra in lekki is to tell all and sundry how he is in a horrible marriage just because he wants to sleep with them and funny thing is i always catch him. I largely blame myself because i should have left during the pregnancy of my first child but after fighting everyone just to marry him i wanted to prove everybody wrong.
Why am i writing this? Because in his sick twisted mind he thinks i ratted him out and my question is to what benefit would i do that? Did i know a lady was pregnant until that day? No!!!! Until that publication we were cool and i loved him and turned a blind eye to his numerous indiscretions . For now after still finding out a series of following indiscretions even with someone i know very well and helped i want to say to the world, i wish him very very well.
My marriage is over because i have told him times without number i won't stay for polygamy whether accidental or deliberate. He does not have time for the kids but is all around lekki chatting different women up. Don't ask me how i have details of transfer between him and various women, chats between him and women bargaining for sex or paying for it.
As for the girl in question, words fail me and wish you both well but note you did not break up my marriage, it was broken from the date in May 2006 we got hitched at PH Registry. I met him when he had nothing and even though this love failed me, i would never give up on finding the perfect one.
At the end of it all, there is a God and He judges everyone accordingly. Have i acted right in my marriage always? No. But have i given my very best in this marriage, absolutely YES and over 100%. Cheating is a deal breaker for me and i should have listened to everyone when they asked me do not marry this man, he does not have your interest at heart. But i refused.
This is not a pity party but to respond to the world and the man in question i don't have time to tell the world i am suffering, you have done worse. However, i wish them both well. This ship has sailed!!!!
******** (Please put me as anonymous)
Wow so sorry that this has happened.so sorry.May God heal you.I dont know what else to say!
Gheghe!
ReplyDeleteNow this is to the cheating ass man who claimed all men cheats, hope you have read this. BE REST ASSURED that women have the right to walk away no matter the time you think she has invested in the marriage. Na far back
DeleteNow to you,your time is ticking and I am sure the nxt woman to walk out will be your wife. Keep claiming smart and lusting after everything in skirts. We are looking forward to your wife's chronicle bidding you farewell.
REAL MEN DON'T CHEAT. GET THAT INTO YOUR THICK SKULL.
Words fail me Ma.
DeleteMay God heal your broken heart and may He be your strength in this trying time.
Women that sleep with married man...just put yourself in their shoes for ones. how will you feel if someone slept with your husband and got pregnant for him?
God is the judge. Like Wendy Williams also says "how you got him is how you will lose him or keep him"
I met this guy. He has the money.. he has the name. He makes me laugh and he is young. I fell for him before I realised he's married.
DeleteAs human I was already addicted to him. I struggled to let go, but couldn't.
Then I found I'm pregnant. Hmmm.. what should I do?
I don't want to kill a child. I don't want to kill my child. No. Not this one.. "I'll love to have a child with him."
But.. I don't want the stigma of being a single mother. What should I do?
Can I get him out of that marriage? Can I have him to myself alone?
How can I get that woman out of his life? He has begged that shouldn't let the wife know.
What about sending a chronicle to SDK? Yes! I'll include a leak.
She has to know.
She has to leave.
I can't stand being a baby mama.
Okay.okay.. that's enough. Let's get off that lady's head.
wife, I just feel it's a calculated plan to get u off. That man is your man, he has always been. Why let her win? Why let her take your man? Who sends a chronicle with real names? It was deliberate. She wanted you to know. She wanted you to go.
I don't think all these bvs congratulating you would throw their HOME away just like that.. your husband probably needed help. Maybe you would have helped if you had tried a little harder.
Well.. you have given it up. feeling better now? After all the hate comments on your hubby or ex hubby, they'll log out and you'll be left with the consequences. The reality.
I believe there's always an alternative to divorce.. especially if it's not a mutual agreement.
Giving up shouldn't have been an option Darling.
May God heal your broken heart.
Stella, let me tell u what has happened here. As an expert in Psychology and forensics (scratch that) lol
DeleteThe previous post and this were written by the same woman. Believe it or not. Go back, read it, and read this again.
What I think happened here is that, the wife who is the writer has a philandering husband, no doubt. She's been looking for a way to nail him and possibly leave the marriage. But she needs hard core evidence.
She snooped on him and found he has a 25yr old lady he's dating. As she couldn't explain where or how she got her findings, she decided to write this in as proof, to get more out of him, or so that everyone can say he's been busted and that he shamed his wife. Wify becomes the victim
This post she will show everyone. Infact, there may be NO pregnant girl sef. As It leaves little or no info to establish this. She ended up hyping herself in the previous mail.
I repeat, both mails were written by a mischievous wife.
OK bye
Sisi Eko. That was thought provoking. I found it a bit weird that the mistress will call the wife hardworking and know 'she loves him'.
DeletePlus the former write-up was vague. Issoarai
Sisi Eko, somehow I believe you. They write and sound way alike. If it's the same person that wrote it. Fine. She is just trying to lighten up our free time
DeleteGaan Jazz this man.. as a hard core pitakwa babe!! Madam Jazz your husband today and have peace.. hehehehehe
DeleteIt is very easy to judge people and of course spin out conspiracy theories but i find it hard to believe that a wife and mother would put her husband to blast like that. She must be in anguish.... Show some sympathy and take the detective work to the FBI.
DeleteSisi Eko you're right. The same woman wrote both chronicles. How did she know it was her husband? By his name? Wasn't that omitted in the original chronicle so how was she so sure that it was her husband? Anyways, I wish the woman the best. She has tried
DeleteSisi u r too smart
DeleteDint even think of it
M A R R I A G E
ReplyDeleteHobestly...whats with girls and married men? Ask any guy, he will tell u the moment he gets married girls start flocking all over him. Even the ones that refused to sleep with him when he was single will start throwing themselves at him.
DeleteI remember i used to wear 1 wedding band looking ring, am girls are always like "awww u married, thats sweet" and still get laid. I keot that ring sha and enjoyed it for a long time till i discarded it.
Go to clubs and see men with wedding bands and still have girls all over.
Its not ok that u liked him, kept in touch you still had sex and then unprotected and she got pregnant...
It is highly unlikely that a wife and mother would want to expose her husband this way. What exactly does she hope to achieve? This would not be the first nor last so I doubt it seriously. This woman is in extreme pain and pray she finds her peace......
DeleteThis is so sad...
ReplyDeleteSo sad and horrid.
DeleteMadam, I like your resolve. Dont think it over again. The Cranberries sang that when you analyse too much, it will paralyse your resolution.
Decision is the difference between failures and succesful people. That moment when you stand up, let go of something and move on. No need of waiting too much. You have paid your dues.
A man that disrespects you like that is not worth the trouble. He is probably telling women he is a widower. Having sex in your house when youre away.
Sometimes a marriage that parents and friends didnt approve of, women try so hard to keep it, to prove a point. Thank God youre no longer fighting for a lost cost.
The tone of bitterness, resignation to failure in your write up is so sad. But I promise you by God, that He will wipe away your tears and give you a new reason to look forward to life, very soon. God will take away all your pains and make you forget how this moment hurts.
I like how you didnt make the center of your topic, the bv with her chronicle who got pregnant for your man. You put her in her place, cos seriously, she's just a pawn in all this. You put blame where it rightly belongs. You didnt blame the devil or the girls or yourself(neither did you claim to be perfect). Youre a wonderful woman, God will strengthen you. Amen
Girls getting pregnant 4 married men.......how do u girls sleep @night?
ReplyDeleteOya go n marry him so ur body go rest.....
Karma have ur address miss mistress...no wonder u have started sending chronicles up and down!
Tell them. Preach on. What a wicked world!
DeleteDey are all end time girls with olosho mindset
DeleteEnd time Men with wandering konjis karma na una birthright.
I didn't read the chronicle anyway but may God heal ur broken heart madam. And I also pray there should be enough job opportunities so that ladies wouldn't be trilled by all of this married men's pea nut they've got to offer into encouraging them sleeping around with other people's husband's.
ReplyDeleteGbam!
DeleteFor some a clear conscience is a bigger incentive than anything wayward men/women have to offer
DeleteOga o
ReplyDeleteNa wah o!
ReplyDeleteThis is the problem with most broke ass men. You stick with them, build with them, and then when they feel that they have arrived, they treat you like an overused towel, and go sleeping around.
It's well, woman.
Good thing you've finally decided to leave his cheating and dishonest ass.
#WhiteDiamondOut
I said this, most broke man that ladies suffer with at the beginning, have no conscience, just like one foolish man who is my neighbour, married o and asking me out, that is the height of disrespect.very useless men in Nigeria, I feel so sad reading this,and you that went to take in for a man who you aren't married to, you are an idiot.
ReplyDeleteMadam sorry o
ReplyDeleteNawa o. I pray you heal up dear!!!
ReplyDeleteMadam, I don't blame you for ending it with him. Some people will say stay for the sake of your kids without knowing that living in the same house with someone that hurt you so deep is hard.
ReplyDeleteAnger can make you wake up in the night and stab him to death. Marriage is not a do or die affair.
You can still find love.
Good luck.
Madam please go and sit down. U no dat he is a womanizer but in your desperation to get married. U overlooked it hoping that some sort of miracle will happen. Things don't work dat way my dear
ReplyDeleteAs for leaving ur marriage bcos you don't want to share, I hope you already hv someone dat promised u marriage. Bcos as for me I can never marry any after one woman. even if she is bringing a billion dollars into the marriage.
When were are talking about men u are not even included, it's only a low self esteem, broke, foolish, dumb, deperado dat will marry someone like you and I already pity her. Mscheeeeeewwww. FYI some people are blessed enough to get a second chance at happiness
DeleteDaft as always!!!!!!!
DeleteChai....you are highly insensitive. ...you post comments like you are the author and finisher of one's fate....
DeleteIssorait kwontinue life ain't a new of roses...when you get to experiences the troughs of life. ..someone unknown. ...will still do likewise...After all there is never a shortage of your kind.
James, learn to show respect sometimes.
DeleteNow I understand why that anon yabbed you in the other post that you can't join the bugatti owners' family. It's because you can't actually think constructively and you are not gifted in the wisdom department. It is well my dear. God will set you free
DeleteOh shut up you pea-brained slug
DeleteOh shut up James ......u re so stupid smh
DeleteStella the name of the man is Anga Young, so sad.
ReplyDeleteYou guys are so fast. Googled him up, he works at nnpc. My aproko took me to Facebook. I just typed 'ang' and fb suggested 'anga young photos'😀ðŸ˜
DeleteWho ask yu?
DeleteMe and the man get 2 mutual friends. He be like rivers man o.
DeleteIs he worth it? I'm not on Facebook? And what does he look like?
DeleteLol Lisa. I tire o.
DeleteNobody should call me aunt gwegs and push me to marry a fool, allow me to get the right man, what I hear of marriages these days.
ReplyDeleteDem hold you ?
DeleteHmmm sad situation. May you find love again in Jesus name. Anen.
ReplyDeleteHmnnnn! Things some women go through all in the name of marriage. Poster,God will heal your wound. Whatevee step you are taking, please take your kids with you. All the best.
ReplyDeleteHmmm it is well Madame
ReplyDeleteIt is a wah oh
ReplyDeleteBut why do men always cheat na?
ReplyDeleteNa wah oh.
ReplyDeleteI can't remember the chronicle myself.
ReplyDeleteMadam take heart, since this man is a he-goat pls let him be. It is pregnancy this time, next time it might be HIV.
The Lord is ur strength, I so hate the break up of marriages. But smtimes ur health, sanity and wellbeing of you and ur kids shld be no1.
Some married woman treat one STD after another, spend all dere time snooping, and chasing one side chick after the other. Is that man really worth it ?
Some men seems deyv cursed sm of you since garden of Eden, they can't see a female pass by without taking a look. Are you an animal with no self control. God will bless you with good wives and beautiful kids, still yet ur not satisfied.
Madam is quitting your marriage will make you fine peace and clarity then I wish you well.
ReplyDelete*if
Delete*find
o di egwu. nothing wey person no go see.
ReplyDeleteI like your blog I.d
DeleteLOL 5 out of 8 narratives here are about pregnant young girls.
ReplyDeleteMadam you go dey alright, who has time to turn private investigator.
A Real Man Chooses To Honor, Love, Adore, And Be Faithful To One Woman. I Refuse To Entertain Negativity. Life Is Too Big And Time Is Too Short To Get Caught Up In Empty Drama.
ReplyDeleteHow a girl will know a man is married and still sleep with him without protection is beyond me..even falling in love and getting pregnant. Girl i hope you know what you are in for..if anybody condemns the act, they will term you "judgina".
ReplyDeleteTo even think that the man is a womanizer is sickening. Have fun o!
With or without condom
DeleteWith or without condom
DeleteWoman! Thou art courageous.I pray u find a man who truely deserves u. To your wandering dick of a husband,he would get his due. A married man who sleeps with his mistresses witout protection doesn't even hv u at heart. Think of the STIs he could hv given u or has already given u. I didn't read the chronicle so I dnt know the full story. To the pregnant girl,a man who isn't sexually disciplined wud end up sleeping with the house help,a relative or his own daughter. Hope u know wat u're gettin into?
ReplyDeleteMy dear,better run as fast as you can,before the idiot go give you one of these STDs
DeleteWish my sister would have this courage to leave his cheating ass unrepentant husband someday,if dem allow the fool,he go gbensh we wey be d wife sisters join...wish I can just kill him in cold blood,so my sister would have peace
Ma'am how sure are you that its your hubby the poster was talking about?
ReplyDeletePardon me, but I thought pseudonyms are used in chronicles?
Best of luck!
Heal her LORD
DeleteHeal her LORD
DeleteHeal her LORD
DeleteSpeechless!!
ReplyDelete
ReplyDeleteNARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
THE LIES,THE PROPOSAL,THE PREGNANCY AND THE BOO
WHO CHANGED HIS MIND.
Good day Stella,
Thanks for the opportunity given to people to air their minds. I will go straight to my story.
Have known Mr Z right from my primary school days although we were just hi hi friends, in January this year he asked me out because i never believed him i told him i was SS and he said he doesn't mind because he is AA and we should keep it to ourselves. So the r/ship started.
Later I was introduced to his family and I was accepted by all we started planning marriage for June . He saw my pastor and was accepted. plans kicked off,Along the line I got pregnant he was happy, he called his parents and my mum told them about the pregnancy and planned on bringing the wedding forward.
I started feeling pains in my lower abdomen so i was advised by a colleague to go do a scan on getting to the hospital the doctor said he didn't see anything in my womb and that i am not pregnant, I wasn't satisfied so i went to my family doctor he did the scan again and said he could see a foetus developing but it isn't very clear so he gave me another date to come back. ...because of all these we thought it was an ectopic pregnancy.
Going back to see the doctor on my appointment date he did another scan and the baby was there in the right place so I was happy, i called to inform him but he didn't sound happy to me. So i went to see him and explained to him only for him to say my doctor doesn't know what he's doing n he wants my case file from him. I told him the doctor can't give him then he started insisting that the pregnancy is ectopic. Hmmmm wahala, so I said okay let's go to your own hospital so your doctor can check and confirm to you he accepted and disappeared. I called him the next day only for him to say he's no longer interested in the marriage and I should go for an operation to remove the pregnancy.
He said That am SS, so i said that's not a problem come so we can go to your hospital for a genotype test test and a pregnancy test he said he not interested that even if we go there am going to perform magic and if am not even SS he's not interested in the marriage anymore.
So i started thinking what if i was really an SS, is this how he would put me in the family way and disappear?
Right now am stuck between the devil and the deep blue sea. Please where do i go from here? Is aborting the baby the right thing? Cos right now he has refused to see me nor come for the test and has said even if am not SS he's not interested. Please Stella and fellow bvs advice me.
One of the many reasons why u should not get pregnant before marriage
DeleteI think this narrative was sent in just two days ago if am not mistaking
DeleteSo the man was married all along that's why he just woke up one morning and said he wasn't interested in marrying the pregnant girl again
He deceived the girl into thinking he was single.
What a wicked prick.
The girl is also a victim in this situation.
I don't think this is the chronicle. The chronicle in question was sent in a few weeks ago, and it mentioned the guy's name.
DeleteThis is not the chronicle. I think it's that girl that began it with a man called "young"..
DeleteNa wa o.madam, God will see you through.you really are a strong woman. It is well.
ReplyDeleteIf d man is an ashawo then madam thankGod cos d girl will resume Wrestlemania. Lol. Do I envy a girl who got pregs for an ashawo man? Hell NO!
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahahahaa
I think it was the one where the girl said she got attracted to the guy's unusual name and actually used his real name in the narrative.
ReplyDeleteI remember thinking that was a deliberate ct to let the man's wife know and push her into action of some sort.
A 25yr old girl that can do that is probably capable of anything so I wish the man good luck. The wife has probably dodged a bullet by leaving too.
Oh really? Guess I missed that chronicle.
DeleteI agree with you totally. She deliberately used the guys real names because she planned the outcomes. Best of luck Scheming side Chic.
DeletePost the link oooh!
ReplyDeletehttp://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2016/03/chronicle-of-blog-visitor-narrative_10.html?m=1
DeleteThat's the link
Stella removed the man's name. But his name was there initially
DeleteThank you trinity
DeleteDon't mind the pregnant girl, she will have other partners. As for the rest of you, when your husbands are unrepentant cheats give them space or you will end up embarrassed. You are holding on to Mrs Title meanwhile the dog is disgracing you and your children.
ReplyDeletePls ladies leave married men alone. Home breaking invites karma
ReplyDeleteMy dear I tire ooo_ I have a friend dat has taken someone else's husband as hers, even calling him my baby, my love bla bla bla. Her favorite linne is "all these women give their husbands trouble here and there and expects them not to cheat" I'll be like, is dis girl for real? I av told her severally dat u can't be single and asking God for a good husband and u there scre*wing som1 elses__ karma is a bitch sha and sister is 34yrs old. It's not just right! The world will be a better place if we be our sisters keeper.
DeleteSo sad.
ReplyDeleteNa wa o
ReplyDeleteWhat do these men gain from being hegoats? Truth is that he can never satify that whole that keeps making him look for sex from several women until something significant happens to him.
ReplyDeleteIts really irritating when i meet married men trying to woo other women. I find it greedy and disgusting of them. Many of these men give their wives all types of diseases and trauma.
For the ladies that knowingly date married men,dont expect to have things run smoothly in ur own relationships /marriage. Cos somehow, it will always catch up with you whether u like it or not. And by then u will try to hide your pain cos u wont want people to see ur misfortune that u caused on others.
Me i am very blunt and bad mouthed with such men. They flee like d devil.i gat no chill.
Sad
ReplyDeleteBut y?
Mschewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
ReplyDeleteMschewwwweerrrrrr
Mscheweeeestttttttttt
Wondering what happened to morals in this society??? Way back girls had morals, even the few bad ones dat dated married men were smart enough to just date in secret n move on. Now girls would not only eye them, but date and some even want you out all because of money cos no one will tell me it's cos the sex is great. Girls wanna live large and it's all vanity. It is well poster, God will send u your comforter
ReplyDeleteI can't remember either.I'm glad u can see clearly now and u didn't start blaming the pregnant girl, cause ur husband has a disease called cheating. Try to move on,u have learnt ur mistakes now
ReplyDelete*a cheat never repents after marriage
Many people will blame the girl for everything happening to this woman's marriage but the truth is the truth. Most. Of the people who send in chronicles usually write "I knew he liked women but I thought he'd change." imagine marrying a man just to prove people wrong.
DeleteHalf the time, married men chat up single ladies and tell them tales of woe. Women are biologically wired to sympathize with "men in distress" especially when the man seems like a nice person or the man takes care of them
Thhe 25year old who is pregnant should basically be wise. The man may love you but shelve whatever expectations of change you have. Be financially ready to support yourself and child at all times. A leopard will always have spots
The young girl in question will feel worse and the mumu would have been giving the guy free sex knowing fully well he was married. Some men are really pathetic. I feel your pain madam, but you are stronger than you think. You owe no one no explanations pls. Big bear hug dear.
ReplyDeleteI no remember the story. Anybody with the link please?
ReplyDeletehttp://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2016/03/chronicle-of-blog-visitor-narrative_10.html?m=1
DeleteGo and read up! The man's name was mentioned initially. But seems like Stella later had a change of mind and removed it. The wife probably found out from the name cos the man has a name that's not common. Can't remember it now
Waoh,what men can do
ReplyDeleteWow wasn't it the narrative where the girl mentioned the man's name?! It is! She has gotten what she wanted. Foolish girl and even foolish man. Shame on the both of you.
ReplyDeleteYes I'm sure.it was that narrative. Very silly girl and an even sillier man.
DeleteThat was her motive in the first place by putting the mans name in the chronicle. Guess she's happy now. His wife has left him.
All because one silky an has restless gentitals.
Madam, God will give you strength, be with you and the kids. He will give you peace.
Poster 2, swear you have never cheated on your husband too? Oya swear nah.
ReplyDeleteShe probably fucked married men in her days. The girl is just her own karma n d girl's karma is just around too. Kikikikikiii it's a circle. Take it or leave it.
DeleteSo u had to sleep with her husband bcos he told u hs wife cheated on him abi?and u believed that crap didn't u?,pathetic is what u are
Deleteit should be the one about the man lying to her about the state of his marriage and wanting to get an abortion after getting pregnant
ReplyDeleteMe too... Someone pls post the link ojare
ReplyDeletehttp://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2016/03/chronicle-of-blog-visitor-narrative_10.html?m=1
DeleteMay God heal you madam.
ReplyDeleteFunny bvns...... When the side chick sent her narrative, they were like...."better don't touch an innocent baby blablabla". Abi the wife don reply now, just imagine the opposite reaction towards the side chick. Smh!!!!!
ReplyDeletehttp://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2016/03/chronicle-of-blog-visitor-narrative_10.html?m=1 That's the link. Thank me later!
See the way this woman is forming saint......
ReplyDeleteMost times it is good to listen to the other side before judging.
from experience I have realized dat some women also push dia husband out.
Y didn't he impregnate the girl when he had nothing? Okay who am I asking sef???? It's well
ReplyDeleteLord have mercy. please young ladies stop giving yourselves away so cheaply. God bless.
ReplyDeleteHere it is! STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
ReplyDeletePREGNANT AND IN A PREGNANT SITUATION.
Dear Stella,
May God bless the works of your hands, you are doing a mighty fine job.
I am Nina, a 25 years old lady and in a dilemma of sorts and i need strong counselling. Sometime in 2014 i met a nice young man at a club but i was not interested but what peaked my curiosity was his name- **********.
The only reason i was in the club was because it was a friend's birthday, he pestered me ceaselessly until i began to laugh and enjoy myself. We exchanged numbers and began to communicate on a daily basis with him doing almost all the calling.
After a while, because of timing differences i had to ask if he was married and he said he was married with 3 kids. He began to tell me how his marriage was a mistake and his wife not what he needs as a man but that she was a nag, fat and makes the whole household miserable. I listened to him with rapt attention but at the end of it all i said i was sorry we could no longer be friends.
He begged me for weeks, sent me flowers and everything imaginable but stated that i should never answer any calls whether from his phone or another one that linked us together. He has been my back bone and providing everything i need, even buys me tickets for holidays. He has been a blessing.
In fact we are in love and not in bondage as he would say with his wife. Now i am pregnant and he is very disturbed saying he does not want to destabilise the peace of his home because of his kids but is no longer in love with his wife; who he is saying he is no longer in love with btw.
My dilemma is that he wants he to abort the pregnancy but i am having double thoughts about it. I have done all my research and finding that his home is no where as he painted it but he is married to some pretty, hardworking woman who loves him very much.
My question is what do i do because i love this man and would like to have a baby with him even though i know what i have done is wrong. What do i do? Please feel free to curse me out i deserve every bit of it but what do i do?
I dont know why you have done this but please DO NOT TOUCH THAT INNOCENT BABY!!!
stella dimokokorkus at 15:00
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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
ReplyDeletePREGNANT AND IN A PREGNANT SITUATION.
Dear Stella,
May God bless the works of your hands, you are doing a mighty fine job.
I am Nina, a 25 years old lady and in a dilemma of sorts and i need strong counselling. Sometime in 2014 i met a nice young man at a club but i was not interested but what peaked my curiosity was his name- **********.
The only reason i was in the club was because it was a friend's birthday, he pestered me ceaselessly until i began to laugh and enjoy myself. We exchanged numbers and began to communicate on a daily basis with him doing almost all the calling.
After a while, because of timing differences i had to ask if he was married and he said he was married with 3 kids. He began to tell me how his marriage was a mistake and his wife not what he needs as a man but that she was a nag, fat and makes the whole household miserable. I listened to him with rapt attention but at the end of it all i said i was sorry we could no longer be friends.
He begged me for weeks, sent me flowers and everything imaginable but stated that i should never answer any calls whether from his phone or another one that linked us together. He has been my back bone and providing everything i need, even buys me tickets for holidays. He has been a blessing.
In fact we are in love and not in bondage as he would say with his wife. Now i am pregnant and he is very disturbed saying he does not want to destabilise the peace of his home because of his kids but is no longer in love with his wife; who he is saying he is no longer in love with btw.
My dilemma is that he wants he to abort the pregnancy but i am having double thoughts about it. I have done all my research and finding that his home is no where as he painted it but he is married to some pretty, hardworking woman who loves him very much.
My question is what do i do because i love this man and would like to have a baby with him even though i know what i have done is wrong. What do i do? Please feel free to curse me out i deserve every bit of it but what do i do?
I dont know why you have done this but please DO NOT TOUCH THAT INNOCENT BABY!!!
stella dimokokorkus at 15:00
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To the mumu 25 year old, keep heaping coals of fire on your head o. Stupidity doesn't even define you, you will grow and learn the hard way. You are beyond foolish.
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ReplyDeleteDats the link guys. I have told my husband YOU CHEAT? ???? I CHEAT! !! IT'S NOT A THREAT IT'S AN AGREEMENT. IF STRANGE TOTO SWEET YOU, ME TOO STRANGE PRICK here I come!
I met this guy. He has the money.. he has the name. He makes me laugh and he is young. I fell for him before I realised he's married.
ReplyDeleteAs human I was already addicted to him. I struggled to let go, but couldn't.
Then I found I'm pregnant. Hmmm.. what should I do?
I don't want to kill a child. I don't want to kill my child. No. Not this one.. "I'll love to have a child with him."
But.. I don't want the stigma of being a single mother. What should I do?
Can I get him out of that marriage? Can I have him to myself alone?
How can I get that woman out of his life? He has begged that shouldn't let the wife know.
What about sending a chronicle to SDK? Yes! I'll include a leak.
She has to know.
She has to leave.
I can't stand being a baby mama.
Okay.okay.. that's enough. Let's get off that lady's head.
wife, I just feel it's a calculated plan to get u off. That man is your man, he has always been. Why let her win? Why let her take your man? Who sends a chronicle with real names? It was deliberate. She wanted you to know. She wanted you to go.
I don't think all these bvs congratulating you would throw their HOME away just like that.. your husband probably needed help. Maybe you would have helped if you had tried a little harder.
Well.. you have given it up. feeling better now? After all the hate comments on your hubby or ex hubby, they'll log out and you'll be left with the consequences. The reality.
I believe there's always an alternative to divorce.. especially if it's not a mutual agreement.
Giving up shouldn't have been an option Darling.
May God heal your broken heart.
Thank you, I am suprised u didn't tell her to watch war room. Una dooo, she didn't try enuf. I knw a woman who prayed for her hubby until she fell sick in d name of prayers, was her prayers answered yes, after d man's gf stole all the man's money and reduced him to nothing. E no come get money for woman again. Now d woman is still married but back to square 1. Na life b dt? So na d woman bcos she wan bear Mrs na she good to dey enjoy d man only in hard times? Una dooo
DeletePlease be reasonable, a man is not a prize. And if the woman moves into another house with her lovely children, THAT is a home. Free of STDs, heartache, and a philandering husband. Her sons will know that it is wrong to sleep around and that it comes with consequences, and her daughters will know that a woman should NEVER endure infidelity and abuse from any man because of society.
DeleteShe didn't give up, her husband did the day he had sex outside the home. This is 2016, stop supporting outdated harmful ideologies.
I insist that the wife sent in that chronicles. No side chic who claims to be pregnant will be bold enough to send his name just like that without jeopardising her relationship with the guy. He couldn't have approved it. Not unless they are no longer in good terms and he asked her to do her worse. She didn't sound bitter, she sounded in 'love" and wanted a way out. That is if the side chic sent it. So I think the wife did this because she had enough of his philandering ways and she wanted to make it public. I stand to be corrected though
Delete@sisi eko do u know this woman in question? You seem to be out on a mission? Prove it to us that she sent it or u take ur no good comment out of here. Since u know so much why don't u lecture us on this home.... Rubbish!!!!!!! That girl is clearly in love and vindictive... I have read both narratives and in no way are they alike.i myself have been through something similar......
DeleteAnony 11:22 sharap. Now I bliv wat Sisi is saying. U d wify n u wrote both chronicles. Carry ur asawo hussy comot ere.
Delete@ anon 16:23 you left the he goat of a husband and the pregnant side chic and it is the wife that you end up referring to the wife as an ashawo. WOW! Just WOW!! SMH
DeleteSisi Eso pls stop being a detective here. There is no need. The fact still remains that the man is the cause of the whole problem. Even if she sent it in, that man has destroyed his home and now has to seek God to repair it. What is really sad is that he still wants the girl. Its so sad that he is upset with the wife for "supposedly" exposing him instead of being remorseful. Oga you need Jesus Christ and some serious deliverance. God pls take control.
Delete@Nwa, honestly I'm not condoning the man if what was revealed is true. All I'm saying is what I noticed o.
DeleteAnonymous 16:23. Loll.. Abeg leave her jare. I've stated my observations. If she likes let her cuss me I no send.
Men! Men! It's the man I blame,why the lies?
ReplyDeleteEvery girl put there that has made this woman bitter...karma knows ur address
ReplyDeleteHmmm...orishirishi somtin!
ReplyDeleteOluWa is ur muscle dear poster
It is well with you, dear
ReplyDeleteI thought I was the one that wrote this chronicle. Mine has not impregnated anyone yet but I fear it will get to that. Been struggling for how many years yet he chases women left right center. Even claims single. Some weeks ago he told me he was tired of the marriage. That he can marry as many wives as possible. See someone who can't even pay house rent/bills/fees. And my people warned me. After 3 children now you are tired. No stress. I'll give you your space so I can have peace of mind. It is well with me and my children. Amen
What goes around will surely come back around...he will surely do wat he did to u,to her just that it will be worse. Stupid gurl,she doesn't know life yet...lolz! Pity she won't bring her chronicles back here when it all comes crashing on her dumb face. I'm so pissed at d girl! Ahhhh! But God dey!
ReplyDeleteWe met 12 years ago. Got married 2 years after.
ReplyDeleteHubby did not have much then. We have 3 children.
Now he's a top shot.
He confessed a few months back that he had an affair and the girl is pregnant for him. It was as though my world came crashing down.
This is a marriage where he used to beat me and he has a horrible temper.
Feel so used and betrayed. I always begged him for us to have another child but he wanted none of it. Now this.
I hope the baby will turn out not to be his. It's bad enough he cheated on me but to have to share him with a baby mama? That will be asking for too much
Sorry ma'am I really don't know what to say all these tales of marital woes.. is giving me shivers.... I dey fear to marry sef.....just continue to pray God will give you peace....
DeleteNa wa...
ReplyDeleteAfter reading some chronicles egwu ejidem.
God help us.