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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
TORN BETWEEN THE EX,THE PRESENT AND THE FUTURE BOYFRIENDS
Hello Stella. Please don't post my details.
I dated my ex boyfriend for three years. We were good together, we understood each other. He didn't have much and wasn't giving me financially but we thrived. However, his parents consulted a pastor and they said we were not destined to be. They said the pastor predicted 15 years for us to stay together. His father is divorced from his mother who is even the second wife self. And my parents are very happy in their marriage.
So please tell me how I would divorce him.
This guy is very caring and he still demonstrated that towards me now sef. I told my father and he said since the parents were already predicting, I should better run away. We ended it mutually.
I started dating another friend a year later. This one asked me out for 4 years even before I met the EX. The thing is after we began dating, he stopped calling frequently. When he was posted to Ekiti, we were talking almost everyday when I didn't have a boyfriend and now, he is in the same state with me, a week would pass and he wouldn't even call.since December I have only seen him twice. When I call, he would say he is busy, or he is stressed and all.
We started dating in December and in January he stopped frequent communication.
After this time, I connected with my old friend in school too. We are now so close and he is asking me out. He has not gone for youth service because of his course. He stays in the north.
My ex is disturbing me for us to get back together, the current boyfriend doesn't communicate with me and the prospective one may be distant relationship. I have other admirers but right now I am just confused. Please advise me and no insults.
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NARRATIVE NUMBER
RE- WHEN YOUR MOTHER BECOMES YOUR LOVER (CLICK HERE)
Aunt I did not know mom will be this mean. For the first time she hit me. She forgets I'm still her mimi . She said I'm an ungrateful child. She said I ruined her life ,she told me my father is heartless and wicked , that I have decided to follow his ways after all she has done for me. Mom told me yesterday that I am a product of rape. That I ruined her teenage hood . I took away all her right from her,She said I'm a cursed child .
.....That since i want to be dependent she will let me be. That what I did i have reopened her wounds .She dropped money and her atm card for me and left since last night till know her phone is switched off. I don't have strength to cry again. I feel like killing myself my father is a rapist.I was born out of rape I hate my life and I wish she never told me.
Just negodu
ReplyDeleteEnd time chronicles
DeletePoster 1
DeleteDon't go back to your ex, is going to be drama. Your current bf is not serious either, don't give him cookie no more. The future one do have anything to offer either, he just about to start life, and what you guy will be doing is giving and receiving s£×. Take your time and clear your head, start on a clean slate.
Poster 2.
You are too young to be going to through this. Don't fall for this your mother's emotional blackmail. You need out, cos all I see is a mother who needs help.
Poster 2, you mum only needs time to heal, she really cares about you that why she dropped the atm and money for you. Let her be 1st and when u speak to her, tell her you want a mother and daughter relationship with her and hope she would be up for it. If she still wants you as a lover, then just accept urself as an orphan.
DeletePoster 1, what a mess, why typing that did you even think? This guy, that guy next guy untop that u added admirers again!! Take it easy,
@poster2 Fake... It was a fabricated chronicle yesterday and that hasn't change today.. keep improving on your writing skill.. u will get there some day..
DeleteAt poster1.. just become a devoted Christian first so that jesus can fix it
Sigh! Every time I read a chronicle, there has to be at least one story related to prophecies. Smh! Parents should leave their children to decide who they want to marry. If you are a parent, and you are a Christian, back your children with prayers and stop asking pastors/prophets to see the future. If it is the will of God, then it will happen. Arrghh! This thing annoys me so much.
DeletePoster 2.. your mum needs to see a shrink, shes mentally unstable and i'm not mocking her. If you can open up to a close relative preferably her sister, she could help convince her to seek help. The sexual abuse really affected her deeply, too bad, we blacks ignore psychological and mental break downs till we start roaming d streets buck naked.
DeleteJust negodu or end time chronicles
DeleteOK nah
ReplyDeleteEyaaah..... Poster 2, stop crying my dear. You did the right thing. Your mum has issues and she needs to deal with them first. Whatever product you are, guess what? YOU are who YOU are!! Don't let anyone make you feel worthless. Tinubu was raised by a Foster mum because he didn't know his parents. I am sure his foster mum was thankful to be a part of his life before she died. The circumstances surrounding your birth shouldn't define who you are. Because your life is very glorious and it is ahead of you.
DeleteBut your mum sha, I'm tempted to cuss her out. She's evil sha. So she uses you as a sex toy and even sucks your pussy?? That's shameful! And madam if you're reading this you're abiding your child and it is a SIN. Why would you even call her a product of rape because she's loosing her mind as a result of what you're doing to her? It is incestuous and highly immoral and you need to seek help!! Gosh!!
Now I'd be giving any close mother and daughter I see some side eye. Cos really... This world is messed up. And as for you poster, next time stand your grounds when she wants to touch you. It's a huge sin and you will invoke Gods judgement if you continue. You're 17 and not a baby. You aren't too young to say no mummy in a Polite way.
*abusing
DeleteYour child
Poster 1 all three guys aren't worth your time. Give yourself brakn
Delete*brain
DeletePoster 1, you obviously don't know what you want.
ReplyDeleteFirst guy is no considering the kind of family he is from, a won toju bo ile people are the worse to marry.
Second guy is there for the cookie and only remembera you when he needs it.
Guy 3 would probably be worse than the first 2 but you never know till you Try. So it's up to you.
Poster 2 don't you have other relatives other than your mum? I really feel like hugging you and telling you you'd be fine. You mum loves you but needs to handle her demons first to see you clearly as the child you are.
You are not a toy and she needs to heal first to be able to take care of you.
Please do not despair.
Doppy your comment to poster 1 is 💯💯💯
DeleteYou're definitely right. Your advice for poster two is more professional than ever. Her mom needs to heal
DeleteDoppy you too much abeg!
DeleteUr advise to poster 2, my thoughts exactly.. The mother is in pains.. I can imagine how she feels and how that gal feels right now.. too physiological and emotional. It's well poster.. pray for your mum to forgive herslf and get help.. 17 years has passed and she hasn't been healed of the pain.. hmmmm can imagine.. God help her. And you dear, dnt despair. Ur dad been a rapist doesn't make u. Dnt let it break u. Get comfort from sumone close to your mum (a Frnd or family of hers' ).. E-hugs..
DeleteHmmmmm!
ReplyDeleteLOLz @product of rape
DeletePoster one look elsewhere, must you go back to your ex? Get more bfs and move ahead.
ReplyDeletePoster 1
ReplyDeletePleeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaasseee just take a deep breath.
Poster 2
*heavy sigh*
Give her time, let her think this through in her head. When she gets back, it's either it gets better or worse,you can only wait.
Stella, why not contact poster 2's mummy and counsell her or link her up with a counsellor. She needs help
DeletePoster 2: hmmmmmmm. Its well o. U need spiritual n psychological help.
ReplyDeleteExactly@poster 2
DeletePoster 2 doesn't have any problem biko
Poster two your mom wants to ruin your life. Don't let her. Yes she was raped. She kept you. She has no excuse for doing this to you. You need a counsellor. You need someone to talk to. And you need to stay away from your mom for a while and pls dont blame yourself for the rape. Your father did it not you and you shouldn't pay for his sins. Would have told you to go look for someone in church to talk to but their holier than thou attitudes will make you feel worse. Do you have other family members you can talk to? Someone who won't judge you?
ReplyDeletePoster 1,
ReplyDeleteAccept all of those guys asking you out!..
Don't tell me you want to keep only one boyfriend in this time and age...
Don't keep all your eggs in one basket...
Poster 2,
I'm begining to think this story is fake!...why didn't she abort you since you are a product of rape?...
Bia this poster,stop using our heads here!...
Go and get a boyfriend or a girlfriend that will be gbenshing you if this your story is true and leave your mom the hell alone!...
Why will she abort her, being a product of rape doesn't mean she doesn't know who the rapist is.
DeleteYour value sha, I wonder how you will raise your kids
Poster 1: why are u complicating ur love life. How old are u btw?
ReplyDeleteMimi, you are not cursed!
ReplyDeleteDespite the circumstances surrounding your conception..... you are still a masterpiece of God.
Please do not break down, it's time to toughen up and start a new life.....a life free of abuse, manipulation, misguided love, broken trust.... a life of hope, courage,strength,beauty and a life of a true child of God.
You remain a gift from God and there is a mighty plan for you.
Pls, do not be defined by your mother's hurt or live by the dictates of her shame. You did no wrong coming here, it might seem bleak now but it will get better......... just read your story, and i feel broken for you. I pray you find help, and i know you will.
Poster 1: Slow down please,you just want to be in a relationship. Can you breath pls and see endless opportunities for love and growth waiting for you.
@Narrative 2,
ReplyDeleteI cannot even imagine what you are going through right now but believe me my heart goes out to you.
You need to realise that you are not a cursed child. The circumstance of your birth does not define you.
You are no mistake cos God has a plan for you and that is why you survived till this day.
Speak to mommy, apologise to her, let her no you love her but only want to stop the incest.
I'm sure she loves you too but only said those words out of anger.
Above all, pray about this
Love,
D Emperor
Poster one, from ur story, u all r students, y not face ur studies n stop distributing congo? Newsflash: Ur current bf has shined n cleaned mouth.
ReplyDeleteStella dis Poster 2 is someone that is just bored and coming up with imagination stories.
ReplyDeleteFrom her previous write-up didn't she claim to be in d village or smthn, or even if she's not in d village both she and d mum aren't so exposed. So where did they get the sex toys they are using on eachoda. Sex toys r not so common. Porn common, yes. But not sex toys.
2nd she left you and dropped her ATM with you 2nd lie. I don't believe the story.
Thirdly, this girl is being raped by her own mother. And ppl aren't even looking at it as rape. If it was d father sleeping with her, ppl will have taken up d case to all dese social workers. Afterall she's under 18.
Poster stop sending dis cock and bull stories to Stella. I don't believe your lies. Get urself busy instead of thinking of evil things.
U r d one doubting urslf.. poster is in the unvseristy and her mum is a barrister. So aren't they exposed enough?
DeleteKeep showing your ignorance to the world. Sex toys are everywhere. Search for sex toys on konga.com, you'll see more than enough. I don't understand why some people reason like nicompoops. If you can't show sympathy just keep your hole shut!
DeleteKeep showing your ignorance to the world. Sex toys are everywhere. Search for sex toys on konga.com, you'll see more than enough. I don't understand why some people reason like nicompoops. If you can't show sympathy just keep your hole shut!
DeleteHhmmmmm!!!stories that touch the heart. Well,Stella,i will give this young Poster2 benefit of doubt. If her story is true,the she needs help and very fast. The breakaway is healthy. If your mom will cause you to be a societal misfit,let her walk further away. If it's okay by Stella,drop your contact. God will mould you
DeletePoster 2 is fake anon is rights open ur brains
DeleteRazorsharp
How is dropping her atm a lie, guess you don't know what yu are saying...the fact that you don't believe the story doesnt make the story untrue
DeleteNo comments today for me. I no get power at all
ReplyDeleteBut seriously. After chasing a bae for 4 Yes . she finally accept So u want me to take her serious??? With all the stress i went tru??? I go just chop clean mouth
DeletePoster two, seems like we've not heard d last of ur dis ur story. She dropped ATM with u. When d card is maxed out, what next? Lol. Ur chronic story is still difficult to beleive.
ReplyDeleteFirst poster the second guy isn't into u for crying out loud one who hardly makes time for u does not value the relationship if he values it he will definitely make time for u. For ur ex u didn't mention if u guys love each other and why his he coming now? For the third guy u didn't say much of him. U jus need a man in ur life right?
ReplyDeletePoster who is a product of rape my dear jus calm down it wasn't ur fault u were a product of rape.please u are a child of destiny that u dad rape u mom does not mean that u can't change u life.Japheth in the bible was worthless and bore out of pains put he prayed to God and his life was changed. My dear the best u can do is serve God and pray that every ancestral issues in life be plotted out. And for u mum leaving u be strong ok God is with u.
Poster two, I really feel for you. The Lord is your strength. That you are a product of rape doesn't make you evil or less better than any of us.
ReplyDeleteGod have a purpose for you . Stay strong.
Your mum will surely come around.
She is selfish I must say.
I guess its time to move on..Tired of begging.
ReplyDeleteI guess this is the ex. Uncle who send you message. Why did you allow her leave in the first place. I am available oo. Drop your contact.
DeleteAww" come here honey*tight hugs* you see if a man or woman truly loves you, you won't beg for his or her love/attention for anything, move on you deserve better, you will be fine blv me, I have been there...Married the most amazing man in the world now and all my ex's are like shits to me now, to think I cried over them then. Lol...you will be fine.
DeletePoster 2,
ReplyDeleteYour mum needs help. She needs counselling or therapy or something. Please dear, suicide is not option. Stella, is there anyone that can get her mum help or something without prosecuting her of course because she's clearly not in the right frame of mind. Please stella. Lets help this young lady and her mum.
ReplyDeletePOSTER 2 Do not fret, it is expected that she would react this way especially as you told her the truth. All will eventually be well. If you are not close to your relatives, find a church and communicate with God, He will surely give you roses for ashes.
Poster two if killing yourself will EPP you then go ahead and do so rubbish talk with you want to kill yourself.
ReplyDeleteDon't worry your mum will show up soon, I guess she is only angry with you and she loves you so much. Relax babe all is well
End time chronicles
ReplyDeleteOh dear! I hope the mum is safe somewhere
ReplyDeleteOh dear! I hope the mum is safe somewhere
ReplyDeleteEven Stella couldn't utter a word this time...
ReplyDeletePoster 1 I suggest you go back to ur ex and forget d useless prophecies that dis dubious so-called men of God are prophesying. Since he's not down with that, get back with him. You're marrying him not d family and most times, d fear we have for dis useless prophecies makes it come to pass.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, u need to stay away for some time and get ur head straight. Understand that first that what U're doing is morally, spiritually, emotionally and in every wise wrong. Don't be subjected to emotional blackmail. Just cox ur mom was raped does not mean all men are demons. A real man can never hurt a woman talk more of raping. Understand that ur mom needs help and counseling. She's yet to put d incident behind her. To d mom if u're reading this, get a professional help and it will help u focus more on ur profession and not being biased as u're beclouded with hatred for men. Concentrate on being a good parent and a good barrister, and stop being reminded of d rape whenever u see ur daughter.
Uche onye adighi ya njo
@2, its not ur fault that ur mum was raped, since she's bent on destroying ur life bcos of dat, u better stay away from her, don't ever think of suicide my dear, ur mother is just wicked and evil, withdraw all d money in her account, go back to sch and make new friends, u owe her no apologies
ReplyDeleteGbam!u just spoke my mind.just imagine! Nonsense and ingredient.
DeletePoster 2... This is all in the process of Change!! She walked out bcos she knws shes wrong! Dnt blame yrself for that! Your a product of rape, is that something u shld allow bother, No!!! God's got you!!!
ReplyDeleteposter two is a liar!!! You can take my comment to the bank. Stella i wonder why u wuld believe such story to the point of posting it. The writer is using her imagination to toy with us. Shey na we dey find chronicles to give advice?? Lmao. abeg.
ReplyDeleteWhat made you think it is the writer's imagination?Hmmmm! If I tell you my story you will be dumbfounded for months. Things are happening.
DeleteAbeg Bcee tell us this story, we are itching to hear no mind cupcakes there was no icing today
DeleteIs this 2ndstory for real
ReplyDeletePoster 1, obviously you are not busy with something tangible with your life. Please dear get busy and see every other things fall into place and remember to keep your cookies and stop distributing it.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, I feel like hugging you right now. You need time to heal, if you can locate a counsellor please do. Being in an incest relationship with your mum is obviously a wrong path to go. Thanking you for having the mind of coming out clean, atleast you have taken a right step towards that, go to God in prayers, talk to him and walk with him, then you will be amazed at how much you will heal fast. My prayers are with you in becoming a better person. Thank you
Hmmm....chronicles! Wetin I wan talk this matter now?
ReplyDeletePoster 2. Sorry bt ur mum is very wicked. Stay away from her
ReplyDeleteShe dropped atm card pls kindly withdraw all her cash n run away. U r in d university and not a baby any longer.
Thief!she shud withdraw all her money and run.ur ur obviously a thief.
DeleteGbam I know who is this from d short name mimi (miracle)aka Angel. We have been suspecting you and your mom for so long , that your proud mom that is full of her self so this is what does in behind closed door, she never allow anyone talk or smile with you always protecting you like a hold. Barisster chichi . No wonder you are not in the office today. Your daughter has opened your yash, come and boast of her again thurder will fire you , she do not allow this girl to even stay over with her (barris) siblings or mother. Stupid lady
ReplyDeletePoster 2 I wish you will make Jesus your Lord. All these pains will go away. I was born out of rape too. I don't know my father. My mother is dead and she was a very nice lady. I graduated with a 2-1 from a Nigerian university and I am in NYSC presently. I am happy and fulfilled. The only difference between us is CHRIST. He means a lot to me. I feel so confident as a person. I was told that my dad is alive and working but I don't need him. He denied raping my mother, so there is no need. I don't have any grudge against him anyway. I am just fine! Life is better lived in Christ!
ReplyDeleteGod bless you for this comment.
Delete#1- Stay neutral. Don't call him either but hang in there @YourBf, the one in the North, don't leave him either but tie your legs. Your bf may have someone else and please do not allow him to touch you again. Focus on God and work on your self esteem.
ReplyDelete#2- Your mum is just brainwashing you. I don't think your dad is a rapist. Do not allow her ruin your life for you, get closer to God and try mingle. Tie your legs together and don't cry. You need to stop that wicked,devilish ACT with her no matter the emotional blackmail. Imagine! In fact, your mum is sick and needs deliverance.
Chichi is from a very rich and christain home . Different from her siblings full of her self and arrogant. Miracle if you are reading this don't worry sending this link to your aunt nk. people that are saying this story is not true are not in their right mind. I have seen them kiss so many times , but mind my business did not want her mother's insult. Kisses and hugs mimi. Don't worry you will be fine
ReplyDeletePresent twice...
DeleteChai, decoders don kill this woman. This blog eeeh, I will never believe that u ppl can decode dis far, sdk is one in a million. I raise dick for una. Kikikiki Chichi if u are reading this 4give urself life is not dat hard, men are not that bad. I can shine ur Congo and make u feel like a complete woman just hookup lol. Mimi don't worry stand by this decision, good or bad we gat ur back.
I've made up my mind on the kind of chronicles I will be commenting on. I don't have time to waste.
ReplyDeleteThis is the problem with human beings. Why the hell did she keep that child from rape only to come and ruin the child's life? She could have aborted(i don't support) or given the child up for ADOPTION!!!!!! Look at this mess. Who even let her keep a child at 13. A family member should have taken that child from her or given that child up for adoption open or closed. Now look at this mess. Madam mummy, you better get your life together! I would have been sympathetic to your plight but you're extending your ruination to your child. You kept her, so take care of her like a mother does, otherwise give her out to couples who are not harboring bitterness and ready to take care of her. What you're doing to your child is no better than what the rapist did to you.That's if this story is true.
ReplyDelete*sighs
ReplyDeletePoster 1,please lock up and be patient the right man will come. Poster 2,may the peace of God be with you. My dear do not kill or harm yourself. Like I said before your mum needs serious prayers and deliverance. Always ask God for the Grace to resist your mum and also for you to come thru this. Please be calm and know God is with you.*Hugs and Kisses
ReplyDeleteYour mother is damaged, and she is stylishly destroying you too. you both need Counsellling and prayers. You need healing of your mind
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing strange about the story ....... I mean .... Ok, I will just send in my chronicles. There is nothing new under the sky... Mmmmh ... Nothing. Vanity upon vanity, vanity, vanity .... Mmmmh .... This just opened up old wounds for me.
ReplyDeleteStella make I nack you guys story. I know chichi very well they are family friend . She was raped in by a youth Corp in secondary she did not tell her parents out of fire when they got to know her father said she should keep the baby one thing lead to another she came and pick her daughter when she was in uni . She became very protective that she don't allow even her family member come close to her. Which they brought in my parents to a peace her she refused. So this why she has refused anyone coming close to that innocent girl.Chichi chichi retrace your steps .better still return Angel to your mom.please don't distory her life .bring down your ego and admit your fault .
ReplyDeleteYou sharing your story shows your courageous and love yourself.
ReplyDeleteI didn't want to be the bearer of bad news. Your mom manifestations signs of molestation. See when a bad thing happens like sexual molestation. These demons on assignment stand by and I you let them in. The bc a stronghold if not dealt early. Rejection and abuse are key. Sexual perversion is the number one demon to pocess a molested person. So my dear being born again fellowship with God midnight read Ps 23 and Ps 103,start with Ps 51 and end singing praise. As Jesus Christ is yor Lord take authority in his name and cast and bind spirits of perversion rejection at very root and command them to go into the bottomless sea and never return in Jesus name. Amen.
You r loved and reject those words of yor mother read the book of John