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Every day?

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

WHEN HE WANTS IT EVERYDAY .....EVERYDAY.

    Stella welldone and may God bless you.     

 First of all, I don't want to hear that I'm lucky my husband finds me attractive or that I should give him what he wants so he doesn't go out and mess around with another woman. I appreciate anyone who actually reads my post and gives a thoughtful response.

My husband and I have been together for 15 years . At the beginning of our relationship, he wanted to have sex 5 times a day. I was raw and sore and to be honest, the sex was very good. we spent like 3yrs together before we got married, but when I had my first child who will be 13yrs in May, I noticed my sex drive reduced, but even at that I still try my possible best to satisfy him, thinking that as time goes on his sex drive will also reduce, for where!

15 years into our relationship, my husband still has a high sex drive. If we skip a day, he's frantic. If we skip two days, he starts talking in terms of we NEVER and If I eventually say I don't want he will tell me to pack to the children's room, and becos I want peace I will beg and beg and promise him all the dog style that I will give him that night before he will forgive and that night I MUST fulfil my promise.  

If he had his way, we would have sex for an hour or more every night, and then have a quickie in the morning before he goes to work. If I had my way, once a week will be ok....and probably never for an hour because about 30 minutes in I just start feeling like a slab of meat.

I feel like I am prey sometimes and I have to constantly evade him. He complains that I never pursue him, but I feel like he doesn't give me a chance. If we're relaxing on the couch he's fondling me. He even wakes me up in the morning groping me on nights when he knows I've only had a couple hours of sleep! It's getting to the point that I don't enjoy the attention anymore.

I've talked to him about how I feel, for where! He will say maybe am doing it outside that's why I don't feel any thing for him again, I try to make him understand that women feelings are not d same as the men for where!

We do have a loving relationship, we jist and gossips together. But that EVERY DAY SEX IS MY PROBLEM.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER

DONATING EGGS TO OLDER SISTER DEAREST.

Darling Stella, hmmmm i would go straight to the point, please keep my identity private thanks.

So i have an elder sister, she is my only sister and very dear to me, she has the warmest heart i know, very generous and caring.  Yesterday made it 10years she has been married, her husband is a widower with children from the previous marriage. I don't want to go too much in to details as she is also a very private person. However they have been waiting for the fruit of the womb, attempted two cycles of IVF which failed, now to the crux of the matter, i am willing and it would actually be a privilege for me to donate my eggs to her as the clinic have suggested using donor eggs for the next  IVF cycle.

However i do not know how the husbands would react to this especially mine. I am considering donating without telling my husband, after all its my body and its same eggs i waste each month menstruating.

If i tell him and he says no and i still go ahead might be worse, should i just keep quiet and donate it quietly? This has been weighing on my mind a lot.

NB: i don't think it would be much of an issue with her hubby as they have agreed to using donor eggs anyway.What do you think fellow BVs?

Thank you 

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