Narrative number two kinda pissed me off....*Hissss*
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
REJECTED BY THE BABY DADDY.
Hello Stella,thanks for how you're touching lives and giving voice to the helpless.God bless you!!
Please help me post my chronicle, I need serious advice before I lose my mind.
I am a single mother with a 4 year old son,when I told my son's dad I was pregnant,that was when I knew the heart of men is desperately wicked.
He asked me to go for an abortion then but I was scared, I was already 3 months gone before I knew I was pregnant, he said since I refused to go for an abortion,I should just know that I'm carrying my child and that I got myself pregnant,there was no insult I didn't receive from him,he called me a dog,a prostitute who wanted to hook him with pregnancy,he insulted my family and when I tried to defend myself he beat me up,this was a guy that once claimed he loves me.
I was having heat from my family and heat from his side too,I was so confused.I didn't know where or who to turn to,my parents said I will never have a baby out of wedlock in their house,that I should pack my things and go to the guy's house but after the way he treated me the last time I went to his place, I told my dad that I would rather go to the village than going to stay at the guy's house.He asked why and I told him everything the guy did to me at his place.
I pleaded with the guy to at least come with his family to tell my people that he is responsible for the pregnancy,but he said he will never do that and that he warned me earlier, that I should never disturb him again about any pregnancy.
I continued begging him but all I keep getting was all sorts of insults from him,I told my mum everything and then she said I should stop calling him,my pregnancy was about 4 months then.
From that 4 months I stopped calling him till when I gave birth, the guy did not even bother to call me not even flash to know how I'm faring.
It was my mum that went into the market to buy everything the baby needed,my mum cried the day she brought the things home,my dad was the one who gave me money for delivery items,though my parents were not rich,they did all this to cover shame.
2 weeks before I gave birth,I went to the guy's house and there was a woman in his house, infact she was already living with him as a wife.
I wanted to make trouble but the girl threatened to deal with me if I tried anything,it was a neighbor that advised me to go home and forget about the guy totally,that all he does is change women.
I put to bed and all the bills were paid by my mum,the guy didn't even bother when I told him I had put to bed,I had to beg him to come and stand in as a father on my son's naming day.I begged and begged until he agreed to come. When he came,the baby was named and then he left without even waiting for a second or giving me money for the baby.
I suffered to care for my son,I sold oranges,groundnut and did all manner of petty businesses on the street just to support my poor parents in taking care of my son,but I had to stop when cold entered his body,he caught pneumonia,he was just 3 months then.
I reached out to my son's father recently again for help and he told me to bring the boy to his people whenever my family is tired of taking care of my son,and when I told him I will go to court.he laughed and told me that I should keep all the receipts of everything I've been spending on my son as prove that i've been the one taking care of my son.
I'm in the university now,(just got admission)and things are getting worse financially for me and my family,in fact I'm tired.
Some people advised me to go to welfare but they said my son's father will come and take him away from me when he's 7 years and some advised me to take him to his father,so that I can concentrate with my life.
I'm afraid they might turn my son's mind against me and maybe tell him I abandoned him and ran away.
Please I need advice because I am not capable of taking care of my son alone but I don't want to lose him.
Ignore my errors please,I'm writing with tears.thanks
DO MEN JUST CHANGE LIKE THIS?DO A 390 DEGREES?
Go and report this man to welfare...if that child is his then he should care for him..Please does anyone know what steps she can take?I hate stories like this,please ladies if he hasnt married you and you must F**K him in love,ask him to wear a condom...do not bring in children who will witness ish like this and grow up to become angry children!
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
ABOUT TO DUMP HIM...
Hello Stella,
I am a frequent blog visitor. I comment a few times and other times i just read other peoples comment. Please use your red pen on this story i am to about to tell and be nice about it too. #Smiles#.
I need your advice as well as the advice of other blog visitors too.
This chronicle is long sha. Please exercise patience and read through.
I am a young girl currently on my National youth service assignment. I am below 25. I met this guy when i was in my 100 level in the university. He asked me out then but i refused. We just remained friends. Over time the friendship grew to a point where we started confiding in each other. He knew i was seeing other guys but kept hanging around not minding. We have kissed and made out but no s3x. He hasnt seen me naked before neither have i seen him too. The friendship has been on and off but he still comes around. He makes all the move to resolve disagreement between us. He is a biggy though.
Very fat.
He is doing well financially.
Last year i visited him and while on his way back to drop me home, he brought up the issue of marriage. Mind you that was not the first time we were discussing that. Each time he brings up that topic i will either sweep it under the carpet or look for one excuse to give him. This guy has always been there for me for 6 years now. He provides for me financially too even when i dont ask him to. He is a friend indeed.
I feel guilty right now while typing this. Reason being that i know deep within me that i might never get to reciprocate this gesture from him. He loves me and wants to marry me. I like him but i dont see myself marrying him. I am not sexually attracted to him. I dont see myself being his wife. We dont share similar beliefs but then he is willing to join me in my church.
What i dont understand is why there is no chemistry from my side between us despite the number of years we have known each other. We communicate well. We are in two different states now but i dont miss him. He does most of the calling. Each time he calls even after we havent spoken for like 2weeks, we dont lack what to discuss about. He complains i dont call but i do nothing about it. I call him just to make him feel good. This is bad and selfish of me. i know.
How do i tell this guy that i will not marry him or do i go ahead to marry him without the chemistry?How do i cut off this friendship without hurting him so badly? Will i be commiting any crime ending this friendship? Did i use him and dump him? Mind you he has been hanging around hoping that i will marry him.
I have recieved gifts from him. Just last month he paid part of my house rent. Am confused and sad right now. I dont have a wicked heart. I try to treat people the same way i would want to be treated. This guy knows my in and out and takes my shit. Why cant i just love him back? This case is just complicated and i need help.
YOU WANT MY RED PEN?
You are a wicked human being!
How would you feel if a girl has used your brother the way you have used this man?you keep collectng and giving him hope and yet you do not want him?6years and you are about to dump him?six years of making him feel good?
And you think Karma does not exist right?
My dear continue,KARMA HAS YOUR ADDRESS.
Hmmm
ReplyDeleteJoblesshousewife
I did not bother to read the second post before I came to comment. Poster 1 sweetheart first of all hug urself for me OK u are fine. Please don't give up now u have come too far. I don't know what to type and I can't stand u making a mistake don't give ur son to his father o! Don't he doesn't deserve it!I am a single parent too. This hol my son went to spend it with my family while I was working n nanny went home. my dear for the 3days he was away I cried every night. I will wake up at the exact time he gets his nightly feed or diaper change n realise he isnt there BT with my fam my dear I cried my eyes out or is it when I hear his voice from my sleep? In a nutshell I can't live without my child and I know as a single parent u must feel that Same bond with ur child please don't give up. If u can send me a mail pls. U didn't even go thru half of what I went thru but my story has changed. God is continually interceeding for me. Pls dear send me a mail. I don't even know what to type. I would really love to talk to u.
DeleteSo many hungry bitches out there
DeletePoster 2 Pls continue using him despisefully
Your karma will be swift
Stella so she is wicked now bcause she is about to do the needful? Should she go ahead with a loveless marriage?
DeleteWhat about guys that would dump u after years and multiple abortions? You will still spend miney on them o. Ok, just negodu poster 1. Did you read her chronicle? Dumped with a child.
My dear poster dont force yourself o, no manage for marriage. Dump him. I am with you on this.
With all these diseases around you people will still have the heart to be gbenshing without protection..
DeleteNa wa o!
Poster 1: where do u live?my church in gwarimpa(holy family) run a child care home,it's being run by reverend sisters,parents or single mothers who cannot afford to care for their children go to keep them there to be taken care of by d sisters until their parents are ready to cater to their needs by themselves,i don't know if u need to drop a token,u cud go and ask questions,many ppl think it's an orphanage but it's not and dere r similar establishments run by the catholic church all over d country,make ur findings
DeleteEach time I try to convince myself that there are some naija girls that are good, I get another reason to doubt that. Perhaps I will never meet the good ones sha. Ladies telling other ladies not to marry out of pity. Marry the one who you love blah blah blah. I am sure there is one boy that you are tripping for somewhere and soon you will send chronicles in about him I am very sure.
DeleteWell sha, Thanks to the girls giving advise! Now I know not to marry any girl that won't trip and fall and scatter ground for me! I give 25%, the girl gives 75%.
Stella please contact poster one and confirm her story, I want to help her.
DeleteThank you
Gud evenin Stella and my fellow bv's .... Please how do I send in chronicles, please help reply asap. God bless
DeleteAnonymous1 April 2016 at 18:57
DeletePls scroll down d Page, u'd see Stella's Email addy.
Hmmmmm
ReplyDeleteWhy are you always going back to the guy?
DeleteDo you still love him?
Must you do naming ceremony for child ?
If there is anything you should not think about, is giving that child to the father......
Poster 1, there are three sides to every story...
DeletePoster 2: somebody else has your attention or better still, you are into somebody else.
I would not judge the both of u.
Poster 1, we both share a similar experience.. D only. Difference btw ur own baby daddy nd mine is dat, mine is mummy's boy. He was well to do den. He had 6 sisters.....all autside Nigeria. Nd he was d only boy. D guy accepted d pregnancy wen I told him about it. But I later got d shock of my life wen he sent me a text msg, odering me to go for an abortion. Came to the house d next day, dropped 30k nd left. Dat was all. I cried my eyes out. I even went to his house to plead with his mum, dat was wen I knew it was. D mum dat influenced his decision. D mum threw me out nd warned me seriously to leave her son alone. After dat incident, I learnt dat he has travelled out of d country. My grand Parents took care of all d expences. 9months later, I gave birth to a handsome boy. He will be 5yrs dis year. Wen d woman had dat I gave birth to a baby 'BOY' she came crawling on her knees. She never expected I'd give birth to a boy. I've learnt to be independent nd never to depend on any man. Right now, I'm schooling nd d boy is with me. I do all kinds of menial jobs u can think of. Ranging from washing my lodge mates dirty clothes, hawking of oranges, baking snacks. Name it. So, don't worry, God will do it. Just work hard nd pray.
DeleteChronicles is out.
ReplyDeleteYou don't like him and you keep telling him your financial problems for him to sort out?not fair ooh,and this one is not just ones but up to 6 yrs
DeleteJesus fix posters 1 n 2
ReplyDeleteLet Him fix it oo
DeleteEnd time chronicles
ReplyDeletePoster 2, I hope u read poster 1s chronicle , that's what happens when u luv something beautiful and maybe end up with a demon. Hold on to a good man because they are going extinct these days cos women like u keep making the change. I am yet to see a woman that left a good guy and did not regret it believe me. Dont allow unmarried kids that don't understand life to deceive you with dont marry out of pity trash because you will be the one that people will pity last last
DeleteChronicles!!!
ReplyDelete*******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS******
Poster 1
ReplyDeleteNext time, you will use a condom. Mscheeeeeeeew!!!
Lol...dnt mind her.
DeleteI wonder how ladies get to have sex without condom to a dude that isn't yet ur husband.
Abeg carry ur cross o jare...got no atom of pity for silly girls.
Asides getting pregnant,what about d numerous STDS huh?
Be nice now
DeleteLet's sing our "mantra" for poster 1:
ReplyDeleteNARRATIVE 1:
WHO opens legs for sex?
Who get's pregnant?
Who bears the guilt of abortion (the man shares in the consequences though; see Proverbs 6:16) and cries every second/everyday?
Who is heartbroken and shattered and confused?
Who has insecurity and low self esteem?
Who is seen as the whore?
Who has suicidal thoughts (yes you murdered a human being or more see Gen. 9:6)?
Who sulks even a decade after the man has moved on, married and had kids?
Who is dumped?
On and on and on.
LADIES, WHY NOT CLOSE THIS HOLE CALLED VAGINA UNTIL YOU GET MARRIED? THE TEST THAT A MAN "LOVES YOU" IS THAT HE IS ABLE TO RESPECT YOUR BODY TILL HE PAYS YOUR BRIDE PRICE.
When the man finishes with you he moves on to the next "gullible victim"
Leave such men who are only interested in you body (no; just interested in your vagina and breasts) alone and face your life and make it right with God and do not kill kids etc.
Jesus says; "whoever comes to me I will not cast away". Matthew 7:6 "Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.
We are tired of this your copy and paste rubbish!...
DeleteLinda eze shut that bloody hole on your face! You just can't comprehend what's written up there because it contradicts the rotten things you stand for. Fuck outta here asswipe and keep your IQ reducing comments away from this lady/man. He or she is way outta your league.
DeleteAnon keep up the good work. This comment summarizes the travails of some of these prick and toto posters.
Please keep copying and pasting. It's unfortunate some people will only learn the hard way.
DeleteStop u will,not hear...mswww
DeletePoster one is well o.
ReplyDeletePoster one I really want to talk to you. Is there a way I can contact you directly? I know exactly what you're going through. You might be suffering now but I promise it is worth it. That child will hate you if you allow his father who obviously dsnt care for him to take him. His father will marry and his wife will use your son as a house boy. They will tell lies against you to the boy so pls do not do that. I've heard of the welfare thing. I dont think they will give the child to the father. They will probably just help you demand that he pays upkeep for your child. I've heard about it on the radio. Struggle as much as you can but I promise you won't regret keeping that boy by your side. That man dsnt even want the child. If he does take him away, it will be just to spite you that's all. Don't allow it. From your story I'm suspecting youre igbo
ReplyDeleteOK,please drop ur email,I will contact u
DeleteThank u for helping me type lol....this production report is messing up with my brain big time. I hope she reaches out to us.
DeleteAt least we understand what she is going thru
DeletePoster 2.
DeleteI know that it is because the guy is fat that is why you are not attracted to him which is normal
Firstly go and buy clean 9 for him or and other slimming tea or drugs and let him hit the gym.
2ndly tell him to stop fatty foods and junks at least if you wanna leave him you will know that you have done something great in his life
Maybe when he slim down he can be attracted to you
Has he been eating the cookie?
If yes dont worry yourself just cut all ties of communication wit him and stop collecting from him..
Poster 1
DeleteLeave your baby with your mum,don't take your baby to his father's house because you will regret ever doing that..
Try and start doing one business in school.
And how do you plan in paying your school fees and other bills?
Maybe you should hold on with school for now and start doing something to generate income then you can later start part time programme..
Poster 1
DeleteSex exclusive? OK
Don't marry him out of pity just look for a way to friend zone or cut all ties with him but make sure you buy all slim tea and drugs for him..
Who know maybe you can fall in love wit his slim body..
Asabi I disagree o! She shouldnt hold on sch pls. My baby was 3wks when I resumed work and about four month when I wrote my exam in sch. Its possible she just has to believe. Nobody says it would be easy BT it is well
Delete@Dewdrop and Trinity..Thanks for the comforting words to the Poster.
DeleteDew drop u aren't in d same situation cos u r financially capable, she isn't..... She has to make small money to look after herself....
DeletePoster 2:
ReplyDeleteAcid bath! That's what's coming!
Even under anonymous, ladies hide their age!
Poster 1 , please carry your cross and provide for the child alone. If you don't want to surrender him to his father s family.
ReplyDeleteNobody force you to open your toto for him to fk anyhow without marriage.
Nigga shut that pit you call a mouth up! As if u are fucking men fool.
DeleteHmmmmmm?
DeleteHahahahhaha
DeletePoster 1 .. sorry for you. Next time stop begging idiots. God will provide for you. Dont be desperate even having a baby could not make him love you. I just pity your baby.
ReplyDeletePoster 2... since you dont know what to say. Just tell him you have an incurable disease that will lead to death and you dont want him to suffer.
Better still, you have HIV. That was why you cannot make love to him. Shikena.
Your advice for poster 2 is so funny.
Delete@ poster one , sorry dear, atleast u hv learnt ur lesson. Pls take care of ur son, u ll survive, that stupid beast will soon come and beg, na Yoruba demon, free him. Men and their deceitful lies.
ReplyDelete@ poster 2, biko zu out from here. You de collect free gift but u no wan marry, I hope its not buggy of Awka who use to ride tundra, he go so deal with u. If u don't love a guy, free his money.
Am out
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DeletePoster 1,
ReplyDeleteSince you didn't want to abort,why are you complaining?...Carry your cross alone or are you using style to beg??...
When you were enjoying the prick,did you tell us?....abeg commot here...
Poster 2,
Living with a FAT Akpa akpu is a big no no for me...
Their baggage is too much mehn...
Tiny dick...
They are prone to diabetes and HBP...
They snore...
They sweat and smell...ewwwww
Poster,tell him now that you can't marry him that your people will not accept him..
Stop feeling guilty mehn...there's nothing wrong in eating a mans money...
Afterall Mugu fall guy man chop!...
Lmao
DeleteI dey learn work where you dey!
U just wrote my mind. Most fat guys are too clingy. Too much baggage biki
DeleteGod bless you.
DeleteAre u sure u are human?
DeleteLol
DeleteSee this cyndy with eye like egg roll is even talking.
DeleteLol Stella calm down
ReplyDelete@poster 2 don't marry him out of pity biko, you are not the 1st to use nor will u be the last
Did you make him any promises? He just chose to hang there.
Just tell him now that you can't marry him n spread ur wings and fly
Poster 1 is this a plea for help?
If you will not do welfare, carry your child to his fathers people since they are willing to take care of him and you can't.
The child deserves to grow up comfortably,you ll be going to visit him there often.
Even if you struggle with your blood, the child ll grow and still go n look for his father inugo?
So take him there. He belongs to both of you and no he ll not hate you if he knows you. So visit him often
Candid naija I love u for this comment.how did u know?the child will surely look for his father andd ironically tag him his hero.so painful but that is life.
DeleteMy sister, simply put I don't love in cos he is FAT and probably ugly.I can't present him to my friends and family because I am not proud of him.Just look ateew ehn, uv collected gifts etc yet u r not sexually attracted to him.The guys who are sexually attractive y didn't they pay ur rent? If u didn't like him u wudv asked him to keep his money and u goan stay under the bridge when ur rent expired.My advice u better let him go so that another woman will use clean 9 and help him slim down.
ReplyDeleteKeep his money say wetin happen.? Hian!!
DeletePoster 1, I am no saint at all but your mistakes plenty well well. Pregnancy can't keep a man. Never! Abeg I don't have what to say to you again.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, the day that karma will visit you eh, she will be wearing a very sexy lingerie and fine stiletto dancing work work by rihanna on top your matter. Mtcheeeeeeeeew. Except the guy from beginning was just been a keziah and didn't have it in mind to be with you
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DeletePoster 1: I am sad for you. Sad because you are an adult and you chose to sleep with a man wtout protection now u r asking for assistance. Why didnt u do the right thing at first??
ReplyDeleteYou are his mum so sell oranges if u must to take care of him...im just pissed at you.
Poster 2: Dont break up with that man but u have been collecting his money and giving him shit. Dont break up wt him. You know why?? Everything we do in live is like planting a seed. It will grow n germinate...you plant evil...you reap evil and this you are about to do is pure evil
695 çomment 2016
Have protected sex u people won't hear
ReplyDeleteSee how you turned yourself to a baby mama for a fuck boy
If u release your son to your baby daddy's family, then prepare yourself for serious battle before you can have him back
Poster 2: how can you give a guy false hope for 6 years ?
That's not fair
If it were a guy that did this now, ladies would just be cussing him upandan
Sha just break up with him...he won't die
He would find someone that would appreciate him eventually since you don't
@poster: after what you went tru,u want give up now...
ReplyDeleteIs too late to give on urself n on ur child.
Don't make that mistake.......i don't even know y u are still bothering that irresponsible ex boyfriend of yours!
You can do it......keep telling yourself that!
@poster2: your don't have any problem!
You are not attracted to him but u have kissed n made out with him#sex exclusive # how come?
Love is not by force....if u don't like him to the extent of marrying him,them tell him politely.
I hope you know what you are doing tho!
Thanks ma,I'm grateful
DeleteWow! U surprised me with ur comment to poster one.
Delete@poster 2: such is life sha. I wud not blame u much cos me sef can't stand someone I have no chemistry with. For me No chemistry! No intimacy sef cos I can't even kiss someone am not attracted to. From ur story it doesn't seem lyk u neva dated biggy, it was just friendship of convenience. I blame biggy for not moving on since, i pray his heart heals wt time. Pls don't marry him out of pity- u gonna cheat on him. Marriage is a diff ball game.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, just call him and tell him that he is too fat. And that he moved on. Cut out every means of communication with him afterwards.
ReplyDeleteFat people whether man or woman are very lazy and shameless.
Don't feel guilty about anything. He deserves it.
Wetin shame gat to do with fat? Lol money maker easy
DeleteThis is not a good advice. it's not his fault he is fat. And by the way, I am a slim woman
DeleteI can only imagine u having fat kids, lol.... Lemme see hw mch u'd hate them.
DeleteEverything that comes out of your mouth us just disgusting. Poster 2 don't worry by the time you would meet a guy with six pac that might be abusive ur eyes will shine. I for one am slim but I used to like chubby guy, but guess what am happily married to a slim guy, at first I wasn't attracted to him but trust me cos of his character am head ova heels in love. So my dear hold on to him, work on his weight n u would not regret it.
DeletePoster 1..am short of words sincerely.don't know how to advice u.ur issue is just complicated.but why is it that we "men" r just too wicked this days.I feel so sad hearing or seeing a man like me doing this to ladies#sad though#
ReplyDeletePoster2..u are a big fool.u don't see ursef marrying him but u saw ursef receiving and chopin his money.u are just as gud as a bastard.its unfair of u.common,just release d guy and let him go but have it at the back of your mind that you will pay for it#final#
Amupagi*anafia*omo wole iya bu ekun
Mc pinky
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ReplyDeleteOh please she didn't ruin her life! So u are saying the child God gave her has come to ruin her life right? Weldone. I am a single parent, raising my child alone and that is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Its not always easy BT my dear I would have 10babies than do 1 abortion.
DeleteAaiyyee! See announcement oh. Ngwanu clap for yourself madam abortionist and fertile, Mcheww!
DeleteHuh? Oya clap for yourself. Everybody can't be the same.
DeleteYour mumu don wear suit. Okpo ndi yoruba
DeleteBluntly na "wastecoat" her mumu wear buhahahahaha u killed me
Delete@dewdrop u are right, I ve 2 close friend who got married n kids n they both got dump by their hubby, now they are single parent just like u. My dear bimpe life is by grace oh and a child is never a curse. I would rather be a single mother than no be a mother at all.
DeleteI don't have any sympathy for POSTER 1.
ReplyDeleteShe has been reading this blog and decided to open legs and give "free vagina". You can see that free vagina is costly. The only commendation I have for you is that you spared the life of that child. May God spare you of premature death.
Girl keep opening your legs and collecting penises.
I got pregnant before I started reading the blog,it is this blog that even gave me peace and strength to push on
DeleteWhat should they have been collecting offerings?
Delete@pretty Asia, you won't be the first or the last to do this, just hold on you will be fine and trust me someday he will come running.
DeletePoster 1 on no condition should u give that boy to his father after the way he treated you.n what makes u think u can't take care of ur son.i feel u are just lazy.i nor fit talk too much.typing dis from a sick bed.
ReplyDeleteIf u haven't walked a mile in her shoe don't judge her.
Delete@Dewdrop u are right I shouldn't have said that.maybe its d effect from d drugs lol.@poster1 like I said pls n pls don't give up ur child.u will b fine it might b difficult now.just believe in God n I know someday ur child Will put a smile on ur face.it's me 15:25
DeletePoster two just open up to uncle biggy.
ReplyDeleteMadam I hope u understand that just pumping sperm inside a woman does nt make one a father . how long will u keep forcing urself on someone who does nt care.u can drop ur baby with your parents. If you are a full time student u should look for weekend jobs ie cleaning, washing, cooking etc that guy is not worth it.
ReplyDeleteNo 2 so u mean u guys can talk from now till forever yet u can't tell him how u feel?? may u be paid in ur own coin! If you are still with him cause of what u gain from him.
OK thanks
DeletePoster 2, I have to applaud u for having the courage to say no a fat man.
ReplyDeleteFat people whether man or woman are usually dull and disgraceful in bed.
It is good u drop him like a hot iron instead of cheating on him in the future with a hot guy like me.
I will keep on telling u @james,u need reall orientation.don't u tink b4 u comment ni abi ur brain dey inside ur boxers ni.
DeleteI can't just imagine prescribing brain drugs for someone like u.please gather money to purchase my new article "Social-media Ethics"Amupagi
#lol#
Mc pinky
Lmaooooooo @hot guy like u
DeleteBe hyping yourself there
Hehehehe.....James the fool.
DeleteMen like you are dirty, sloppy, foolish and wish they had all the women in the world.
Wake up oaf! You are such an amazing liar.
Supposed rich fool with no brains!
It's obvious you are still a child...ewu!!!
DeletePoster 1- Hold on to your child oooo!
ReplyDeleteAfter suffering for this long, you're thinking of letting go?
Hold on dear, beg if you have to but never give up your child who you've suffered so much pain and humiliation for.
Poster 2- You're evil, you make men make up their minds to start mistreating women.
You should be afraid o, no man is a mugu, I hope he doesn't kill you or baptize you with acid when you finally break up with him.
SHARONNA
Please, is there a way to contact poster 1? Thanks.
ReplyDelete@ Poster 2, well-done. Clap for yourself. Its people like you that cause the kind of disdain I have for women. Tomorrow you'll meet a Yoruba demon, fling your legs wide open while running la liga commentary and then come back to Stella's chronicles of BV's after he dumps your ass to scream "I gave him my all but he dumped me"
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you. Poster 2, there is nothing wrong in you telling the guy to manage his weight if that's what is stopping you from loving him. It's like going out with a person with mouth odour and not being able to tell them their mouth smell. Somebody you've known for 6 years and you can't tell him what area you think he needs improvement. You wicked o. I can assure you that if you dump this guy without a reason you will be in for a long trek in your future relationships. He is fat but his money is slim enough to enter your pocket. If you like listen to Queen of this blog and James aka money maker, they have the map of hell on earth o and when you come with part 2 of your chronicles they will be there to laugh at you.
DeleteHmmmmmmm.chronicles of life
ReplyDeleteHappy new month
Karma doesn't exist in relationships
ReplyDeleteHe cared about u not because he wanted something in return dear. Do not marry out of pity or pressure.
U guys should go to d beach or any cool place, when he brings the topic kindly tell him u want to build your career to a certain level before marriage n you won't feel hurt if he finds someone else, use ur girl power to pressurize him to meeting his he found love it to get hooked.
Introduce him to SnM
My 1 cent
don't worry poster 2 karma will kill you, I would never spend more than 5k on a babe am not fucking, for what na. If the dude rapes you now you would say he is wicked but you have raping his pocket. Ole oshi
ReplyDeleteRaping his pocket hw? Did she force him to give her things? Y is nobody seeing d fact Dat dis guy saw all d signs but refused to go? Babes abeg nofin like karma here o... Wot abt guys Dat sleep with a girl n lead her on for years n still brk her hrt. Hw many karma Don visit dem? My dear tell him ur mind in a very polite way. I'm sure he'll cry cos fat ppl can cry for d world!
DeletePoster 1, if it's only me I will say ignore that man totally. U r already in school. Ur son is 4 years old, ur mum has been supportive. The little boy can still stay with ur parents while u complete ur university can't he?. I will advise u totally ignore the baby's father oo.. let his Creator fight him for u.. things will get better for u dnt worry.. everyone has a story..
ReplyDeletePoster 2. First u r under 25. U nt attracted to him cos he's fat, but u r attracted to his gifts and money. Plus u have other boyfrnds u r fucking for free. Continuuuu... na ur type men dey kill after a long time.... all these little children Wey jst cross over teenage age, u will begin to play games. Jst Continuuuu.. u go surely meet wetin u dey find...
Thanks ma'am
DeleteHa ha ha ha!
ReplyDeletePoster 1: It shall be well with you.
Close your legs, No. You are forming big girl. Laughing at those SU girls who maintain holiness and righteousness with their mgbekish life style. Don't you know it is wisdom? To be unattractive sometimes? So as to focus?
Your people don't even have money.
Abeg carry your cross. If you are big enough to have a man willingly, you are big enough to carry kids.
Im sorry i sounded harsh.
DeleteI trust you are wiser now and have given your life to Christ. Send your account details to Stella so that she could verify and put it up on the blog for donations
Nna men!!!! Fat people ata go afufu' wharisit!!!, some people can never be slim down no matter how hard dry work out. Poster 2 if I'm to chio in mt 2 cents, in as much as we all have specs of our knights in shinning armour, we should also not forget the importance of a good heart and a man that loves you a lot. This 2 are key to enjoying your marriage.
DeleteIf its just d fat , help him to slim down, that is external and can be worked on as long as he's willing. U might finally get ur mr handsome and that will be all he has, and be zero in every other necessary dept. I'm telling u from experience cos it happened to me, I also left a man that worshipped d ground I worked on but I left him bc I didn't like d shape of his head, he didn't fit into my mills and boom spec, I got my tall dark and handsome alright that I can proudly show off but his xter is something else. So think very well before u finally decide.
Let him lise some weight and if d chemistry is still nit there u can brk up with him cos I cant advise u marry someone who's touch totally repulses you.
# my 1 cent#
For poster 2, I will advise u totally ignore the man, but at 4, his expenses is just starting as he'll be going to school soon. I will say go to welfare and report him, he cant leave all the expenses to you, they will compel him to pay his school fees nd give you a stipend for his feeding and all. If u suffer it alone, that child is still his and yours and it will so affect u because u will not have the concentration needed for you to go to school and rise from what happens to you. U will start looking haggard because of all work and no rest. So go to welfare they're nit fools . They won't allow him take ur baby. *#OMG!!! Did i type this epistle, phewwwww,
Narrative 2, u better manage the guy like dat and forget about the chemistry or else u may never find someone like him again. Talking frm experience
ReplyDeletecut of your head b4 cutting off d friendship ..ode.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, go to welfare
ReplyDeleteI don't know where to start from
DeletePoster 1. Don't do the mistake of giving that child to that man
ReplyDeletePoster 2. Stella I so much love the advice you gave to poster 2.
Narrative one : I really feel ur pains, don't give up on handling ur son over to him. Or can't d sdk family here join hands in raising something for dis gurl. I think we should all do something for her in opening a shop and still schooling as well so she can take care of her child. Am just feeling for her.
ReplyDeleteYou're right, I mean she is so brave to keep that pregnancy after the father out rightly rejected it. Not many girls can do it. Even if it's a thousand naira I for contribute. She really needs something to do while still in school.
DeleteI am actually impressed that at 18years, she stood her ground and refused to terminate the pregnancy.
DeleteI hope other young girls will learn from your mistake and take one or two lessons from comments here.
Pretty Asha,do everything in your power to raise your child and stay away from that man.
my dear poster 2.. i am in a similar dilenma like u! stella pls do not judge her because u dont knw where the shoe pinches. i have known this guy for 7 years now and he wants to marry me. we arent dating oooh, but we hanging out alot and he has never hidden his intention to marry me. the problem is that i am not physically attracted to this guy at all. hes really handsome,but i havent really imagined myself even kissing or making love to him. note that he doesnt smell of anything like that. hes really been good to me, and he knows me inside out. He has been with with through many issues and he has not hated me or even run away from me, even though others would have abandoned me! i dont know what to do...pls advice me
ReplyDeleteMarry him. You might grow to love him. Sometimes it is better to marry a guy that loves you a lot.
DeleteWomen!!! What do we really want? You need to pray about it and if you feel right in your spirit, marry him. Grow to love him before one babe say yes and you start brooding over spilled milk. Been there but thank God for God.
DeleteHi anonymous, wish we could be friends...was in same predicament..same 7 years(although, we were just friends, no strings attached)..and I had this guy, seemed cool and everything ,liked me a lot Buh I didn't feel that connection,...Buh u know advice from friends saying give him time, get to know him more..trust me, I did...
DeleteAt the end I had to tell him the truth..." u are a very good person Buh I am not in anyway attracted to you ". I read somewhere being good and right are two different things..
For one to have a successful future in a relationship ,these two things must go side by side..Personally,i can date a broke guy ( with future ambition)provided I am attracted and happy with him.....
And like I said. That's me.
Hi poster,u can also write me on via mail..And don't worry ur own guy wif the qualities u want ( provided they r not insanely too high) will come..goodluck!
DeleteShugabae... Women that followed your way are regretting it heavily now...u might get married to the one your heart accepts but that dont guarantee a successful marriage...every woman has a man God made for her but most women dont c it, the devil comes to deceive...most times making u believe you can't love him... Let me tell u something, I am in my mid 40s and I got married over 20 years ago, marry a man that respects u , not love ... Love fades but respect can be crested forever... In marriage, respect is way more valuable than love ... Dont mess your life up because you are searching for the one you want to love cos there is no equal love , one must suffer , dont choose to be that one
DeleteHow do i get ur email address? I would love to write to you via mail. Thanks for the advice
DeleteKarma MUST visit that witch that wrote the second chronicle...
ReplyDelete@narrative 1 I feel really sorry for u. Please beg ur parents to take care of ur baby y u try and do runs in school .... send money home for ur baby upkeep? Wish I could help though.
ReplyDeleteThey're trying their best but it's getting really hard for us
DeleteThey're trying their best but it's getting really hard for us
DeleteChei....final advice. Runs no dey favour everybody.
DeletePretty Asha,pls defer ur admission so u can find how to support ur parents b4 goin to school..
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U have to live wt d consequences of ur action. Forget abt d irresponsible baby daddy of ur son and focus on how to make ends meet for u n ur son. That today is bleak doesn't mean dat tmoro wnt be bright. Its only a matter of time. Social welfare or even d supreme court can't make a man live to his responsibility cos fertile man can impregnate a woman but living up to expectation in bringing up a child requires a willing mind. Kindly learn a skill to help u cater for ur child for now. Its well.
ReplyDeleteU have to live wt d consequences of ur action. Forget abt d irresponsible baby daddy of ur son and focus on how to make ends meet for u n ur son. That today is bleak doesn't mean dat tmoro wnt be bright. Its only a matter of time. Social welfare or even d supreme court can't make a man live to his responsibility cos fertile man can impregnate a woman but living up to expectation in bringing up a child requires a willing mind. Kindly learn a skill to help u cater for ur child for now. Its well.
ReplyDeleteStella ekwusigo everything.
ReplyDeleteNarrative no 1,go to d welfare and don't u ever allow him to take custody of your child,if u try dat your own don finish. To narrative no 2. I think I understand how u feel right now but d earlier u end d relationship d better for d both of u. Since u are not in love with him, do no
ReplyDeleteHow I dislike dating chubby/fat men. I heard dat they've small sausage.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, you are such a greedy lady. You encouraged him for 6 good years and now you are crying foul. If you had maintained your stand all along and you have not depended on him like a parasite you won't have any guilty conscience now. Now they will say guys are bad but what about ladies like you?
ReplyDeletePoster 1, I almost cried, some men are just evil. God will see you through. If you could drop your contact under anon or send me an email, will get in touch and do my best. Poster 2, weldone oo, I just love karma. Go and marry a thin , stingy wife beater, since this one is fat
ReplyDeletePoster 1, your story made me cry.
ReplyDeleteYour parents showed what it is to actually love a child- they couldn't carry out their threats.
I'll come back to comment as I'm on my break time.
Kai Stella, your mouth or red pen eh!!! Chei the thing bad. You just finished this second poster.
ReplyDeletefor poster one, forget about welfare, they really can't help you in Nigeria. learn something, bead making, catering, baking, sewing, tailoring, ankara accessories etc and earn extra money by the side.
ReplyDeleteYour baby father will never and won't perform his duties, he will claim he does not make money and can't support the child, he will say all sort and you really don't need that exposure for your child.
Poster 1 don't give ur baby away no matter what
ReplyDeletePoster 2: if u don't see urself marrying him tell him so that u won't be wasting his time. Don't play with someone feelings
Poster1. ..I cried like a baby when reading this. Stella please post her email address. I need to reach out to her.
ReplyDeleteDry your tears my love.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
I don't know when we ladies will learn @Poster 1 I feel sorry for you, u have to take responsibility for that child cos he can't suffer for ur sin. I don't know how it's easy for ladies to tie men down with pregnancy,i know someone going through same, she knew the guy has numerous gf's, she went ahead to get pregnant even wearing wedding band (when the guy didn't marry her). I do not pity her at all, now the guy is threatening to kill her if she doesn't leave his house, fine girl for that matter. I don't know why single girls can't insist on condom, even we the married ones use condom. Just forget the guy and face ur boy, do anything to train him. Kpele
ReplyDeleteLemme round up with what I'm doing then I'll come read comments ����
ReplyDeletePoster 2..I had same issue only dat I did not promise him marriage from day one and I always told him to meet out with other pple..d truth is love no be by force...Wetin u no wan chop u for no smell am
ReplyDeleteIndeed, Karma has your address in Stella's voice.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, how I wish I could help out. You could try the welfare office, they help out in cases like this (that's if you meet a nice person in their office), they will make sure he pays for your son's up keep. Please don't give your baby to the father, you have come this far, don't give up now. Try to find a part time job so you can make ends meet. If you can, contact me.
ReplyDeleteStella your advice to Poster 2 is too harsh haba.
ReplyDeleteThe only thing I feel bad for is uv led him on for 6yrs. One thing you shld stop doing is to stop collecting his money. Cut dat off completely. Don't you have parents that pay your rent in school? Im sori to say I don't like parents that send kids to university and cant provide d basics of fees,food and accommodation.
This girls will now be doing indirect prostitution in school. If all you can do is provide very well for 2kids. Pls have d 2kids and train dem properly till university level. No use having 7kids and dey are half-graduates or don't go to school at all.
Iv been in ur shoes before, I had a guy that was my friend for yrs. I knew he liked but I wasn't attracted to him at allll. He was also fat. We wld go out to cinema together, dinner etc. But I always told him I saw him as a brother, he still kept on hoping. But one thing is I never collected his money. Either did I kiss or do anythn with him, but we kept being friends and he kept hoping I will change my mind. Some days he will try and kiss me or start touching me, I will just keep resisting. until I just felt enuf is enuf, I started avoiding going to his house, before I get raped one day from his fraustrating of not sleeping with me.
When I started dating my husband, he was very hurt abt it. We stopped talking for a while. Then when he heard I was getting married we just stopped talkn, he felt I betrayed me.
Poster, you cant force love. If you are not attracted to him, let him know. I told mine I will never see him more than being a brother. With time he got d idea. We talk once in a while, even dou im now married. But I didn't tell my husband our history o, before dat one thinks im cheating.
POSTER 1.........
Im sorry I don't like ppl dat bring in kids into dis world they cant cater for. How old are you dat for 3mths you didn't know u were pregnant. Stop letting dis guys say rubbish sweet things to you just to fuck raw. Always insist on condoms abeg. Or buy postinor is mistake happen. You ppl no smart at all o. Then wat sort of men do you girls date. Every man iv dated, iv never dated such dat will deny my pregnancy o. Where do u meet dese irresponsible fuck boys. All guys iv dated dem never born dem not to accept my pregnancy. I tell dem oh ha, if belle land, dat is marriage straight o. Stop dating young irresponsible men.
Date the type that you know is atleast financially stable, so if belle enter matter atlst he wont deny you.
The baby is already here, nothing can be done, the guy disrespects you too much. I just cant stand it. Don't you know any of his family members he respects, that can talk to him? pls when u are dating a guy start getting close to dos ppl he respects. so that when problem cums and he starts misbehaving, you have smone in the family you can fight battle with you.
Atleast you've learnt a lesson here, everyone makes mistakes, I also made some mistakes in my past relationships which I tried to correct when I met my husband. Always have one member of his family in ur corner.
I don't know how d law can help single mothers in this country get child support. The Lord is ur strength.
Honestly even as a woman I DO NOT pity single mothers. Na you open leg fuck, carry your cross. Abortion is a sin,so is fornication. In fact fornication is so wrong it is one of the only two sins the Bible attached the word "flee" to...'flee idolatry and flee fornication'. So if you can fornicate, you can as well abort and you didn't because you thought the guy would change his mind once he saw the kid. How market now? In fact, na you sabi sef. No pity here for you.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: You're just a narcissistic bitch. You only enjoy the attention and loves the fact that he loves you. What he needs to do to rest your brain is deny you both in the most denigrating ways possible. Mtcheeeew
Poster 1 please listen to me! Move on!!!!!! Move on from this guy!!! Ahn what is it you want from him? Is it until he kills you and finishes your self esteem? Woman be brave and forget him! You made a mistake sleeping with him and dating him but that does not mean you should kill yourself on his matter. He has not being supporting you for long now but you have not died. God is a merciful God and he would take care of you. Please try and provide the basic for your child like food, shelter and education. If you can't afford education in school teach him yourself! You have to be strong my dear! This man is NOT your God! Instead of running to him run to God! If I were you I would go to the guy one more time begging and everything so that you can record his attitude and how he rejected your son! and how he treated you so you can show your child when he grows up and becomes somebody!!!! Lady please don't ask that man for anything, NOTHING at all! Develop thick skin from your parents so they can't pressure you please. If you can study nursing n find your way to America after your studies please do that mehn so that Nigerians society would not kill you for being a single mom! If not remain in Nigeria and develop thick skin! FORGET THAT MAN! Ohhh I feel like hugging you and also knocking your head to be strong!
ReplyDeletePoster 1 please listen to me! Move on!!!!!! Move on from this guy!!! Ahn what is it you want from him? Is it until he kills you and finishes your self esteem? Woman be brave and forget him! You made a mistake sleeping with him and dating him but that does not mean you should kill yourself on his matter. He has not being supporting you for long now but you have not died. God is a merciful God and he would take care of you. Please try and provide the basic for your child like food, shelter and education. If you can't afford education in school teach him yourself! You have to be strong my dear! This man is NOT your God! Instead of running to him run to God! If I were you I would go to the guy one more time begging and everything so that you can record his attitude and how he rejected your son! and how he treated you so you can show your child when he grows up and becomes somebody!!!! Lady please don't ask that man for anything, NOTHING at all! Develop thick skin from your parents so they can't pressure you please. If you can study nursing n find your way to America after your studies please do that mehn so that Nigerians society would not kill you for being a single mom! If not remain in Nigeria and develop thick skin! FORGET THAT MAN! Ohhh I feel like hugging you and also knocking your head to be strong!
ReplyDeletePoster 1 please listen to me! Move on!!!!!! Move on from this guy!!! Ahn what is it you want from him? Is it until he kills you and finishes your self esteem? Woman be brave and forget him! You made a mistake sleeping with him and dating him but that does not mean you should kill yourself on his matter. He has not being supporting you for long now but you have not died. God is a merciful God and he would take care of you. Please try and provide the basic for your child like food, shelter and education. If you can't afford education in school teach him yourself! You have to be strong my dear! This man is NOT your God! Instead of running to him run to God! If I were you I would go to the guy one more time begging and everything so that you can record his attitude and how he rejected your son! and how he treated you so you can show your child when he grows up and becomes somebody!!!! Lady please don't ask that man for anything, NOTHING at all! Develop thick skin from your parents so they can't pressure you please. If you can study nursing n find your way to America after your studies please do that mehn so that Nigerians society would not kill you for being a single mom! If not remain in Nigeria and develop thick skin! FORGET THAT MAN! Ohhh I feel like hugging you and also knocking your head to be strong!
ReplyDeleteStella, Men have hearts of stone when they are not emotionally attached to you. I feel for you first poster. You need a really good lawyer. May God not let that man rest till he starts providing for his child in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Amen! Please next time he says you should give his people the child, ask him how he would have fared if his Mum was not in his life. Gosh some people though!
ReplyDelete#1- Had it been someone adviced you then to leave that guy or stop anything boyfriend, you would've seen him/her as your sworn enemy. My dear, this is your reward for that relationship. You can't use pregnancy to trap a guy...onaghi eme-eme.
ReplyDeleteFrom your conclusion, it appears you are actually begging for financial help not advice. WORK HARD AND TRAIN THAT REWARD OF YOUR friendship. God cares.
#2- Tell him the truth or you can actually help by encouraging him to exercise.
However, since you do not LOVE him stop collecting his gifts. Some ladies and awoof eh.
Let us ease with the insults and condemnation please... I am sure she has beaten herself up over thiPostere countless times. Poster let the father be please and dont drop off your son with him, nothing good will come off it, I really hope you find the help you need here.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, you were wrong to have taken his money and gifts knowing his intentions towards you but no use crying over spilt milk now.... just stop taking things from him, and you could also let him know politely you are not interested inmarrying him but appreciate the friendship.
Poster 2:Do not turn that nice guys feeling to on and off switch at your convenience,don't let that love he has for you turn to reproach because you would definitely hate yourself. Help him work on his physical appearance don't throw your food to the dog!. If you keep collecting and you end up breaking him, karma will definitely wake you up. BE WISE.
ReplyDeleteStella did you say just address? Karma has her phone number and SSN. She will go and marry a useless, irresponsible trash and return here for another chronicle. Girls sef!!
ReplyDeletePoster 1 I knw it isn't right to kick a horse when down but babe dt 1st one na mistake d 2nd 1 na wetin???? Well, I wld advice u defer ur admission,and look for a job dt can sustain u and ur kids except ur skool is part time. I feel like crying for ur mum as u hv made her a laffing stock. Dey hv done deir,dey can't start to take care of ur own. So defer ur admission,go and learn a trade or get a job. Leave d father of the child alone,it's obvious he doesn't want the child so don't force him to take any responsibility. Just look @ it,that u are alone in this world with this children and work with that mentality. Pls leave skool matter for now and think of the up keep of these kids. Only follow thru on d admission if it's part time studies.
ReplyDeleteSorry just realized it's a single child that is 4 yrs. u hv no problem na. I Thut dey were 2. Anyways I think my previous advice still holds water.
DeleteIts only one kid madam
DeletePoster 1,report the man to welfare. Poster 2,you don't have any issue at all. Mtchewww
ReplyDeleteI feel so bad the comments Iv read from single mothers on this blog honestly, my previous comment was a bit harsh, I apologise poster. No one holy pass. Most of us judging have had premarital sex. D only difference is it didn't result in pregnant. For sum ppl sef it resulted, but they got it removed.
ReplyDeleteStella I think you shld do like a group for single mothers. We they can cum together share ideas and experiences. And anyone on d blog dat can also help dem financially.
Sum men are such beast. Men why do u behave like ppl without hearts. D stories Iv read today abt experiences of single mums have really touched me.
If I should tell you my own story you will help me shed tears for days.
DeleteI don't have the strength to type it now I'm waiting for Stella to do a post for single mothers to tell their stories because I'm tired of reading you cannot trap a man with pregnancy when in my case the mofo trapped me.
Awwww@Bed and Roses.
DeleteThanks for doing this. The girl is actually reading comments and I would hate for her to go to bed with tears in her eyes.
She said this blog pulled her through trying times.
A mistake has been made,the product of that affair should not be left to bear the brunt of his careless parents.
Poster 1 - Actually Sections 276 & 277 of the Criminal Code Law of Lagos State 2011 makes it an offence for a man to abandon a woman pregnant for him and neglect the child afterwards (generally refusing to maintain the child). Also you can pursue a civil action for maintainance of your son against his father under the Child's Right Law of Lagos State 2008. The thing is these laws apply only in Lagos State, am not sure of the extant provisions on child right laws in other states. Besides I don't know where you are. Your state may have similar provisions.
ReplyDeleteBe that as it may, I would advise you don't rush to court. From your story I can discern that you have been the only one begging and you have been begging him directly. Let your parents hold a meeting with his family and try to iron out the maintenance issues with them. It would take a lot for them to abandon a male child of their son. So I think something productive would come out of it as opposed to you going to confront him alone all the time. Then if that doesn't work and you don't have the means to take care of your child, go to the welfare office and they would drag him to court for you on maintenance. This would obviously be after he refuses to heed to their advice that he should start maintaining the child. Welfare would be easier for you because legal fees sometimes don't come cheap except it's pro bono.
Above all these table the matter before Baba God, he has the last and final say.
Poster 2 - Your karma is still doing press up. How can you lead a man on for six years?? Fam you need Christ.
Poster 1 pls I will like to have your contact
ReplyDeletePoster whose baby father abandoned his baby, are you in lagos?
ReplyDeleteIf Pretty Asha's details can be made available,i am sure there a people willing to make sure she has something doing or little money to buy food and cloths for her son.
ReplyDeleteShe needs help. I don't want her to drop out of school. I need that sperm donor to look back and gnash his teeth tomorrow.
@Bimpe I saw your post and thought I'd drop a word or 2 for you do not tempt God. You said uve aborted several times and you are still very fertile. My dear go on your knees an ask God for that speech because you are not god of fertility. Don't do another 1 o cos I used to think like u and God tort me a lesson got married and nothing came cried my eyes out till the Lord had mercy on me. Better stop aborting because had I know is the worst tin. Because I use to think I was Mrs fertile mortal. Abortion is bad bad bad. Abstaining is the best.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. You just have to be honest and upfront with the guy. Yes he'd be hurt when you tell him eventually but it's better now than down the line.
ReplyDeleteYour friendship with him may never be the same but trust me you both will have peace of mind.
my mum would say * near wey u no want chop no use ur mouth take share am. posted 2.
ReplyDeletepostet 1.don't give up ur child.God's grace will c u tru.
Grace......
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