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WHEN LE BOO STEALS FROM YOU AND LIES...

Good day Stella. 

I have some issues bothering me since January, which has caused enough feud between my sister, best friend and relationship. It's a bit lengthy please bear with me.

I met a guy through my cousin sister(they are childhood friends), we became online friends because we live in different countries. He asked me out, being that I ended an unhealthy relationship, I never considered moving on quick but he proved himself in so many ways that I considered with a condition that I'd accept if only we are able to meet.  Last Christmas, he surprised me by coming down to my country. At this point, we were different, trying to learn and grow the online relationship for the 3weeks he was gonna spend. Things weren't that perfect anyway; we fought, we played until on 2nd February 2016. 

All the while, we spent time in the same house he rented. I have been celibate for less than two years before he came and I never thought twice about it. That wasn't easy for him neither will it be for any man that was in air for over 6hours to be deprived from romance and sex knowing he's  under the same roof with a girl. On 2nd Jan, 7. 45pm, it happened that I left the house with few friends that came around, then I noticed the money($400) I left inside my purse was missing. 

 I was shocked, because the money was needed at the time I noticed. I had to call few friends that had access to my purse to ask if they saw or playfully took it. But none of them said anything positive. I called my supposed bf (Mr P) he was like; "what are you looking for, No oo I didn't even open your purse" . 

Haaaa! Stella I discharged my friends immediately and drove home. Searched my bags, everything I had there but nothing was found. Meanwhile, MrP was already raking saying I accused him of stealing, how much insult that was. I explained to him that I only asked a question just to be sure and also apologised if he sensed otherwise. Then, I left home that night to my sister's place to check because the said money, wasn't for me. And the owner wanted to use it same night or the next day. 

Funny enough, I wasn't having enough cash to give him immediately hence why I needed to find the money before I raise misunderstanding between myself and the owner. I came home by 12.30am, MrP was still trying to explain his innocence.

The next day was MrP's departure back to his base. He promised to help pay back the owner if finally I couldn't find the money. Before then, I already called my bff from Nigeria, who already know about the missing money. So she  decided to send 100k for me to sort out the issue as soon as I could. (Now the matter has ended. I don even forget say I lost money)  3days after MrP left, he called and said "my love, you know I promised I'd never lie to you. I'm sorry but I took your money. I only saw 100$ in your purse not 400$, that's the reason I couldn't tell  you when I was around cos I was disappointed you could lie you lost 400$ instead of 100$" 

 Jesus ! I was shocked, mute, died and resurrected. To think this same guy was there when I was running around that night calling people just to find the money and even denied he opened my purse. I called my bff  immediately to inform her about what MrP said. She messaged her disappointment to MrP. He was still insisting that he was sure about the amount he saw and asked my friend to send the MTCN number she used in transferring money to me, That if really she sent me the 100k, he's gonna pay her back.

 That was unnecessary but to clarify all Issh, she sent the teller and MTCN number to him. Everything was obvious about how much was lost and how much she sent. At this point, she waited for her money to be sent back, all to no avail lol. MrP finally sent 50k to her.  Humanly, she got angry and told MrP that she never wanted the money anyway, he would have rather eased her the stress than bringing up promises he can't measure to. And that it wasn't about how much he took rather, why he took money from my purse without owning up when he was around.  she had to insult MrP on Facebook messenger. That's where the fight begun. 

Was surprised when MrP sent me the screenshots of the insults she sent to him. I called my friend and pleaded but the lady no dey hear word. I was rather abused. She told me if I have to caution her on how to treat MrP, then I wouldn't have told her about the stolen money.    

On the other hand, MrP was sending me messages on how he's disappointed at me, saying if I had presented him with enough respect, my friend wouldn't have insulted him in such manner(My people was I suppose to act sainty over such issue?). I tried to resolve the mess, but  None of them could listen to me. I didn't even know who to side again. All I wanted was peace. 

 I was now at the middle of the sea. Who would I run to? I decided not to call my sister because is gonna be a huge disgrace(as I thought). Not knowing that MrP has already messaged my sister. My sister then went and wrote my friend that she should keep off from the issue which is between myself and MrP. But my friend was still boiling. I didn't even know what happened between them but  my friend sent me a message to warn my sister with a screenshot of their conversation. 

My sister was busy making sides with MrP. Funny enough my sister didn't even call me to let me know about her misunderstanding with my friend or talk to me to know how we would settle the Issh. I didn't wanna add more to the issue, their conversation was already bad enough. I sent an apology message to my sister to ignore the ill words said by my friend towards her and also apologised to my friend to let everything go. Then disassociated myself from the situation.  How they ended it, I don't know cos MrP and my sister gave me the silent of my life even had no birthday shoutout messages from any of them. My friend just joked about the incidence the next day and that's how we grew over it.

Now why I sent this narrative is for my fellow bvns to help me judge this issue if it was right/wrong for my friend to intervene. If I deserve the silence after all. How am I supposed to  deal with this issue because MrP came back some days ago, apologising and now wants us to forget the past and start over again. 

Stella I know the drama in this narrative is much hence why I can't even handle it alone. Please help me with your red, blue or black pen. Thanks much!

A man that steals from his woman?OMG!...I dont know what to say but this doesnt sound good at all.So if you guys make up,you will be hiding your wallet and jewelry?

My dear,forget this man until he goes for deliverance and shows you proof abeg!