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 Hello SDK, I want get ur opinion and that of our BV's on this. I know two guys and they are close friends. I became their friend though closer to one(MR A) because we do some work related business. So I became their friend.Along the line he got married and the other guy(MR B) is not.

 Issues brought me and Mr. B together. At the course of settling the issues for me there are times he tells people that we are dating and if God will we will marry. That was on our agreement to make me safe on the settlement. We became very close and I find myself sometimes cooking for him and sleeping in his house due to circumstances that arose, with Mr A sometimes there in Mr B's house. 

Sometimes I notice he wants me to understand him as a person and takes pain to explain himself or his actions to me. All these I take it as just being friends.Those days I slept in his house he respects me as a woman. All these were normal and just friendly acts till one day he told me the Mum is coming and I should help keep the house in order and write list of  food stuffs for him to buy and  keep in the house. I did all these. 

He travelled for a course outside the state while the Mum arrived and I didn't check on his mum. He called to say I am not a good person b/c I didn't check on his mum. I went to greet the sick mum who came for treatment when he came back. On his insistance I had to see the Mum 2 or 3 more times. Things took a new turn when his cousin that he brought on holiday to his house left the old woman  while she was bathing and travelled back to village.That was how I knew the guy was an only son and needs who to stay with his Mum because he works in another state from where he stays because he was recently transferred. 

He asked me to sleep over those days he won't come back which I did. Stella but before then I asked him on phone who or what he told his Mum I am to him but he said its not a phone topic. We met face to face I still asked he said it is not everything man says.I stayed with the Mum doing anything her real daughter will do for her. Even while he is not around I buy fruits and do every necessary thing to make his mum happy. I go to my work in the morning after giving her hot water massage, food and drugs and make provision of what she will eat in the afternoon.After work I get to my house eat and bath and come over to the house to see the sick mum and spend the night.But stayed 3 days witout going to my house after work hoping to complete the task and leave finally. Stella I noticed I love this guy ,he is kind,gentle and caring, but the question  who am I to him kept bothering me.

The mum became so close to me gisting me about the family and how both mum and son cried together because the guy was crying that the mum is becoming sick and had not carried his children.one day we were discussing and we talked about the bad habit of her son and she concluded when he marry that women is hard she will make him stop,I gave myself a pinch..

when I told him since he is back that I will be leaving in the evening do you know he left the house and didn't come back till 12 mid nite just to make me not to go.In the morning I left after giving the Mum food and drug yet he was not happy. 

My question is am I being used by Mum and Son while I have started having feelings for him?even when I tried making him understand that my friends and myself do not understand this friendship he only said Friendship is about sacrifice.I sleep on same bed with him yet he don't misbehave but does it mean he isn't attracted to me?but before he will make advance and still behave himself but these days he won't as if he didn't even notice I am a woman. 

We only talk about his days activities, his work ,any issues in his house and his mum's health and we sleep,morning we will pray together.I left not to go back again to his house but please BV's am I harsh? The mum will hurt and I couldn't even tell the sick woman that she won't see me again.

Rita Dominics quote never leave my mind as I run his house these couple of days like a wife to a guy that hasn't given tHis relationship a name. Was I expecting too much?I am still on the Singles prayer posted on this blog. Please let me get your views. Thanks(please protect my email address)