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COMPLICATIONS ARISING FROM DISTANCE AND MISTRUST.


Stella, am in a mess right now. Am in tears as am typing this. This morning, I was going to send you a message, because of an issue I had with my bf or more recently ex. It goes thus....( only for you stella so you'd understand me better, I didnt touch or edit it)Stella, thanks for the good work you are doing here. I have a problem i need your advice.I am in my early 20's, pretty and serious minded. 


I met a guy, 10 years older  than i am, recently. We started dating and both admitted we want something serious. He left and we promised to keep in touch.


 He isn't in Nigeria. We chat all day and communication has been good so far. 


Now, this guy says he has been hurt severally and doesn't wanna go through it again. He claims to love me and always saying that i am the only one that can break us. But this same guy keeps talking about the distance, saying that he is scared. That he doesn't think we can work. Mind you I have given him good assurance that I want to be with him and am happy. He says that he doesn't want to cage me or force things with me. 

Onetime, He even said that if I meet a better guy, I shouldn't hesitate to move on and he won't stop me. Now my confusion is, if he really loves/wants me, would he say such? He wants to get married this year and "is praying to God for the right woman". Is he subtly trying to push me away or  Is there something am not seeing/understanding here. I found out he reads your blog though am not sure how frequently.

...... ..... Now to my chronicle.

 Bf doesn't trust me one bit. He gave my contact to his friend to test me. I got a chat from this guy that looked familiar. After we introduced ourselves and after he couldn't give me a valid explanation of how he got my number. I became suspicious. Stella, I block such people without hesitation but decided to play along with this one, because I was certain he was up to something which i made him know. My bf denied knowing him. 

This dude kept making dirty comments and I tried to avoid crossing a line with him. He asked to play t&d and kept asking sexual questions. I replied the harmless ones...(or so I thought) and told him I wasn't interested when I was getting fed up. I was even making a joke of it with my sister before we got bored and irritated. I have little patience so am even disappointed i didnt insult him, maybe cz i knew it was a set up.


 I was going to show bf the chat, I had told him about the guy earlier before he got busy 'driving' all day. I never denied bf and told the friend that i was in a serious relationship. I asked bf to chat me up when he gets home, and the expected happened. He told me he saw my chats and was so disappointed in me. Broke up with me, called me names and blocked me. He doesn't want to understand me and  i believe has good reason to. 

A lot of people would think am lying but i swear on my existence, I wasn't just playing along to confront him later. He did same thing to his ex so I was kind of expecting it. Though its very wrong.

To E, I don't know how am going to convince you otherwise. I love you so much and am willing to do anything to make this right. I want to be the mother of your children. Am ready anytime. I went about this the wrong way and I shouldn't have played along. My stubborn nature, it was a wrong call. 

I shouldn't have been open with IK, terrible mistake. I have no doubt you are the one for me. It is the devil working here, please don't allow it conquer. Trust me when i say, i dont entertain such normally. You can ask my friends and anyone. I will never cheat on you, God bear me witness. 

Am sorry for disappointing you and breaking your heart. I love you, Sugar.Please forgive me.
BV's forgive my errors. My hands are shaking as am typing this.