If you love your Wife or Girlfriend , what are you doing here?.
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| YORUBA DE*** JORO OLOMOFIN |
There has been a lot of stories going round on social media showing the audacity and courage of mistresses / SideChicks to directly attack wives or fiancées of their "so called" man. Aside from the personality of some SideChicks to be naturally belligerent, I believe the Husbands or Boyfriends in this "situation" play a major role in giving their SideChick the power or will to attack their wife.
Some men in this situation share every detail and flaw of their wife with their mistress and even compare their wife with the SideChick or make insinuations, scenarios with the mistress; you're a better cook than my wife, if I had met you 2 years ago I would have married you, my children seem happier around you than with my wife, if you got pregnant for me now I'd keep it, my wife is so boring in bed I wish she could learn from you, I'd rather spend my birthday with u than my wife, Some men even buy their wife and mistress the same shoe, perfume or clothes.
I even heard of SideChick who intentionally left her underwear behind with a note so the wife could find it. All these acts made by a Husband or a boyfriend to his SideChick can be seen as a (Cognitive) seed being planted in the mind of a SideChick. She (SideChick) starts seeing herself as a better wife, cook, mother than the Wife therefore leading to string of antics and disrespectful gestures. Every mistress always asks their "Man" if you love your wife why are you with me? Most times the response given is degrading to the wife which gives the SideChick a level of confidence to carry out her master plan. Most men in this situation would say anything to make their mistress happy even if they don't mean it.
What they don't know is they are creating and building an extra room for their mistress in their marital home. Being a SideChick used to be a thing of shame or disgrace in the old days but now some ladies carry the title like a trophy or an award.
By @joroolumofin
Let me read and comment
ReplyDelete#Teamsidechicks, over to y'all
DeleteJoro should please shut it!! how about letting the guys who actually go out of their way to get these so called side chics? lie against their wives to just to get in between your legs? You tell a man you're not interested and he just won't stop.Abeg,blame thee men for once,not only the girls.
DeleteFor once I agree with joro.
DeleteJoro shut up plz. How about guys that know that a particular woman is taken and still go after her?
Delete@sassy
DeleteDid u read? He blamed men 4 giving d side chics d bliv that he loves her more than his wife
Madam sassy. Are we reading the same article at all.
DeleteSassy, read wells. He blamed the men too.
DeleteSorry well not wells...typo.
DeleteHummm some are destined to be sidechick o
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
And that was how I moved into school hostel about 3 weeks ago. I met a girl"my roommate",in fact the moment she saw me and we did the introduction, babe started her gist, I won't be sleeping here,there is no water and light. I asked her,u just came into Enugu from the north, do you know anyone here,she said yes.I know one young officer from the north but he lives@ the 82 division base.she continued, we have been friends but I was present at his wedding and he was not happy so I want to go and makeup things with him,I have been in his house and my stuff is there,moreover the wife doesn't stay with him..one week later,she came back with her basket mouth, that she is not with her sister's friend in town. To my surprise, her partner in is runs called her and she was hosting her that she has been in their officer's house having some nice time but that the wife visited and she had to run for her life,then the friend asked her if it was the "old cargo" and with confidence she replied that it is the ugly sugar mummy James married.that of all the beautiful ladies,James can only settle for a sugar mummy. I said to my self,this girl doesn't have the right to insult this lady if the husband is respecting her. Imagine an official side chick calling someone's wife names.its non of my business but young ladies should learn to draw between the line. No amebo intended pls
DeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteNo man wish to have a side chick unless he has a nagging wife.
ReplyDeleteReally james?
DeleteYou are all shades and flavors of messed up! Not one single intelligent comment frm u! Jeez!
DeleteNa lie. Some men will still cheat even when they have an angel at home.
DeleteJames. You really are better off without a head. Just get a base ball and plaster it round your neck.
DeleteHahahahahahHA
DeleteSee as James just dey mess with una.
On a serious note,
DeleteI kinda agree with u on this...
Let's be factual here,sometimes wen a woman makes her home unbearable, there's every tendency for the man going out.
Haahahahah,anon 15:26, you are so mean. Jame ngwanu talk.
DeleteJames are you for real?
DeleteOK. I await sexiest mothers comment because she is an expert in dealing with side Chicks. My man no dey cheat. He's very committed.
ReplyDeleteYimu
DeleteSame here o. LMAO. I was scrolling to read her comment.
DeleteNwa Amaka, are you saying dt sexiest mother's husband dey keep side chicks? 😜
DeleteLol@ anony15:37, you can incite wahala for Africa. Now you are filling the blank spaces in Nwa Amaka's comment.
DeleteAbeg i went for lectures today no time... Just got home around 7.00pm.traffic wey dey dokpemu and ikeja na die. Thank God for my OGA driver wey sabi short cut.
DeleteAnon 15.37.
My man has never cheated and i can swear with my life. Yea thats how i trust him and he even knows i will never tolerate such no be by mouth shaa cos i know my worth.
Although i always put it in our prayers with a prayer point that God should blind any chick wey go use any evil charm to get him cos most of those whores can go to any length to destroy and get their target and i also try my best to make sure that he has no reason to do so. Yes thats me. Make ur research, if u doubt. Got nothing to hide. Mehn!!!
Back to side chick matter, men are to be blamed especially those that can lie for africa
But some ladies are she devil as in ekwensu otolo. I was able to know how my hood mamas deal with them when i visited my course mate at ikeja so that day was the day they were dealing with one chick like that. I was shocked. So many things even the one they told me and the one i saw with my eyes.
Many women are not smiling at all i tell una.. Most of them married peeps in my school no send u. I was once friend with two of them in schl but not after they destroyed one lady like that and made her relocate from lagos to abuja. Since then whenever i meet them, na helo, hi onto that level cos i dnt want a situation where by police go come arrest them they go come say i be their member. Abeg i never ready to go my papa houseoo cos i love my family/my kids. Yea i do.
Sometimes you dont have to blame the men, most side chicks uses charm yes. I got to know thru a frnd i met at mamalete on fb, she added me on fb and we were chatting, didnt know she is into juju. So she told me how a lady was remoting her husband, a man who doesnt look outside started misbehaving, the money they were using to build house, the man was sending it to the whore. So the woman decided to treat her fuck up, i dnt know where she went to get her charm i think ogun state and used it to get the chic after dealing with her she threw her inside la........
After that incident they went for prayers and the man recovered and his senses came back so in this case will u blame the man? Some men are innocent thats why its good to be prayerful some certain things are spiritual
I was able to know many things because i was once running a relationship and marriage blog of which i also had a fb page so people do send their problems there then before but due to time, i gave it a break when i went back to schl in order to concentrate.
I have many stories, stay tuned.
To be continued
Let me charge my phone
Brb
Part 2
DeleteSee how most whores operate, due to longer throat, they always go for bigger fish as in rich men, especially business men cos they pay well cos some government workers can be stingy for africa, you know before they give out, they must pigodu calculator you know so they wont spend all. But if its a business man especially drug pushers, money no be their problem.
So them whores will start searching for their number u know most business men do place their numbers on their shop doors or will start looking for their biz card. After that, they will start calling the man, code their tongue with their juju, then start decieving the man and if the man is a man of little faith he will succumb from their she will start sending nude pics and the rest. A mama who couldnt tolerate such, all she did was she gathered the nude pics and send it some porn bloggers and they uploaded it on their blog and yes i saw it.
A mama who couldn't tolerate such especially those whores that uses juju looking for who to destroy na to organise guys shebi na prick she wan collect, after they organise agbolos and she collect prick tire, if she sees married men. She will close her eyes and pass.
So sometimes you dont have to blame the men. I dont support killing and throwing inside lagoon or gang raping but i FULLY support uploading their nude pics with their full face. Atleast u go help her market her punani that is on Fleek on net. Cos most of them whores doesnt care about the havoc they are causing to the mans family and my epistle is all about them whores that knew that the man is married and still want to scatter the family.their fuck up needs to be treated especially those that uses juju.
Another tactics they uses to get their target is thru bar for those men that drinks, i dont know how they do it. But believe men most men are being charmed at bars, night clubs i think they remote their juju in to the mans drink, they will sit in the bar pretend to be having a drink with their felow hoes, so once they get the man with their charm, the man will be pushed to make a move thereby telling them whores to come and join their table and from there, the remoting don start so tey a man gave out the documents of the house he is living with his family to his side chic but due to the woman is a choosen church member, she waz able to destroy the charm with prayers and recovered the documents. Men protect ur food or drinks whenever u are at any bar and make una be prayerful.
This is a true live story. If u doubt me na ur palaver Got nothing to loose
Let me rest. Brb
Part 3
DeleteOn the part of some ladies, i dnt blame them cos most men will tell them that they are nt married but to be sincere, if i see any man that is married, i swear down, i will know. No matter the codedness, but some ladies due to the love of money and material things they will never research, even if they see the signs they will ignore it because of the money so she wants to die there. But to some that didnt know. No one will blame u all. Men are to be blamed.
men make una fear Godooo. Jejely with the lies. Lie lie e no goodoo. If u dnt want to be eating the same soup every day, experiment with ur partner every day afterall the taste of doggy style is not the same with the taste of spoon style, the taste of cowboys style is not the same with the taste of scissors style, and so on. Try different style. So u dnt have any excuse to look outside.
Some side chics will just intentionally get pregnant especially if the mans wife didnt bore the horseband a son and the side chic is aware, she will try and get pregnant. If she gets pregnant and go for blood test and the baby is not a boy, she will terminate it and try again till she gets a boy so that she will use it to intimidate and destroy the family of the man in order to gain entrance to the mans home. And later the man sent the wife parking although when the man eye later cleared he went to ask for forgiveness after 6 good years. I dont know why these hoes easily get pregnant while decent women i know up till now are still ttc upon living a decent life. This world shaa. #sighs...
Its a true life story.
Parents should try and bring up their children in the image and likeness of God. Teach them morals, teach them moral, morals, morals, faithfulness, decency.
Make i rest small
Brb.
Part 4
DeleteWomen, never stoop so low to the extent of as in physically fighting a side chick, there are many ways to kill a rat if u know what i mean. Dont go and pour acid or soil ur hands with blood. There are many ways to deal with them which i wont say on this blog before they change tactics cos i know their ways. My 2 yrs in running that relationship blog/page opened my eyes to the real things/ hood mamas verse school mamas. The World is Evil. Be prayerful world people.
U sidechic that thinks that u can tie down a married man with pregnancy, i pity u not to jam a man whom his wife is mad especially ikeja /lekki women cos u will regret it. Thats a promise. They will deal with u, infact they will induce labour on u or even send their agbolos to catch u and give u pills that will terminate the pregnancy or even kill u. They are nt smiling. This one no be beating up matter or fighting matter, they don pass that level.
So u side chick should better find something doing, say no to a married man and find something meaningful to do with ur lives and stop destroying people's home. Dont say SMOTB no warn una. Some women are out for u all. They have one group on fb, a private group where they discuss their deals and how to fuck u hoes up.
And men respect ur marital vows and be faithful to ur partners. Women stop nagging, take care of ur body. Be smart and try ur best to make ur home, peaceful, fun, lively and a happy home. World people now prefer to work on their physical appearance than their character, upon how beautiful caro is, the hubby still dey parole. Upon how handsome Chris oyakhilome is, anita still left him. So thats to show u its nt all about appearance, na character keeps a man or a woman plus although its also thru that a man who wants to keep himself will do so and be faithful. Whether u be figure 8, akpa akpu, tomato jos, 10packs, if ur character is bad, ur character is bad. People should work more on their character than appearance, 6packs wont attract a decent lady if ur character is bad and vice versa.
A woman who knows her worth, will never settle for less and YES NOT ALL MEN CHEAT NO MATTER THE TEMPTATION. IF YOU BELIEVE IN GOD AND LIVE A CHRISTLIKE LIFE IT WILL BE HARD FOR YOU TO FALL INTO TEMPATION. most faithful and cool headed men can be boring sometimes but it's better to choose a man who will give u peace of mind, love u in the little way he can, he might not be romantic but so far as he treats u right, thats all that matters than to choose a romantic man who will buy u heaven and earth and still pass diseases to u is that life? If he gives u hypertitis, or AIDS, you will die and he will replace u and life continues. Every day u re treating std. If the man is boring, teach him. If he is boring in bed, teach him. Take him as ur baby and mould him the way u want than choosing a man who is wild already and u think u can bend him? Akuko ifo.
Brb.
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DeleteMarried Women should stop sleeping around like dogs. Be faithful. Unu asazina usa. Be faithful. Work hard and be contented with what you have. People like okonjo, omotola, late Dora, mercy johnson and the rest they are women like u all. When u work hard and make it, Gucci, designers and the rest wont be ur problem cos u know u worked hard and can afford it with ur hard earned money.
Be faithful, make ur home conducive and peaceful cos some women na them pushed their men outside,
When you are always making ur home a war front, at the end of the day and the man closes for work, instead of going home straight, he will rather branch at one bar to drink ompa and cool off,from there, he will meet them hoes. Umuazi ogwugwu oge. he will wait till 11pm before going home so that by that time, the wife will be as sleep. Make una stop to dey nag. Be a peaceful and encouraging wife.
Respect ur man, that u re a professor, lawyer, doctor and he is a carpenter , business man or a taxi driver, A man is a man and so they deserve that respect irrespective of his educational cert/ background. He deserves that respect. The Key to a mans heart is no longer food or sex rather RESPECT. That u as a woman is the breadwinner doesn't give u the impetus to insult him or lay cusses or use abusive words on him, u can encourage him to sit up nd do the right thing
Make una dey read novels such as rules of love, praying wife and other educational stuffs that will better ur home and not staying on blog 247 waiting for gossip. Go to chapel, pray for ur home, allow ur children join block rosary Programmes or other church Programmes and not staying at home morning and night watching zee world, cartoon network and telemundo. watching them is not bad anyway but there is time for everything
Abeg i don tire. I know preaching from now till tomorrow wont change anything but atleast i have said it as the spirit leads, call me names, liar? Pretender? i dont care. What you sow is what u reap. its has nothing to do with ur certificates. Its all about wisdom. Ako na uche.
I pray that any home going thru crisis , may peace be returned in that home. Any witches and wizard inform of side chics looking for any home to destroy let him or her go blind, and may thunder from above destroy them and burn them into ashes. AMEN. before u say Amen make sure you are innocent and didnt date a married man because law of karma is very real.
Go spiritual on their head, novena, fast and pray naked at night, their charms will be destroyed.
Ka chifonuooo. Ka emesia. Udo diri unuooo
Uncle joro,well said
ReplyDeleteTemitope Opadiran should read this.
DeleteSome sidechics intentionally gets pregnant just to hurt the wife.... Sidechics, get off another woman's Hubby dick and go get ur own dick
ReplyDeleteIntentionally get pregnant? She fuck herself?
DeleteLa Fresh you be side chick? If so tunder fire your pussy idiot
DeleteBeing a side chick SHOULD still be a thing of disgrace. I have never met a side chick in my life that I respect and I have never "knowingly" been a side chick to any guy. If you aint single, I keep it moving. I don't care if I have to date the geeky, boring looking dude that nobody wants. As long as he's mine and mine alone i'll take him. #Ontothenextpost
ReplyDeleteThe world is really coming to an end
ReplyDeleteWow I really love this write up,if every woman stays faithful to her own man and leave the married ones alone the world would be a better place.women have always been their own enemy since time immemorial.May God help this generation,yours sdkly dazzlinglizzy
ReplyDeleteAnd let's prayou dt married women too should leave single mnemonic alone so there will be a balance. All these stories of married women being killed by lovers Sef.....
DeleteThe point is that these our husbands will not leave girls alone. Like Joro says they can say anything to sleep with the girls
Deletelike play like play @gbemioo don turn you to celeb
ReplyDeleteI tell u!!
DeleteI just tire oh. I saw his name and thought, "who made this guy relevant?"
DeleteThis is Gbemi's fault.
Princess Scheherazade u killed me with this is gbemis fault. Still rolling.
DeleteYes o
ReplyDeletePreach it to them
I love this post.
Am out.
So this guy will continue to be in our faces again. Na wa for stella love for this guy. Not interested in reading shit this time.
ReplyDeleteThis shit has a good smell today. Go and read now😤😠
Delete😂😂😂😂 @anony
DeleteYes o! Side chicks now have guts and have no iota of shame anymore. See Caroline Danjuma's rival, that babe Mya who is Musa Danjuma's side chick. When Caroline is out of town, this babe will come into their matrimonial home, open Caroline's closet and wear her dresses round the house. Like what manner of thing is this? It's because the husband allowed it and in instances like this, honestly the man is to be blamed.
ReplyDeleteThat is why i pity women who try to have altercations with their husbands mistresses/side chicks. They are not the ones you should have the altercation with. It should be your husband because if he did not put himself out there, if he did not chase them, if his horny dick stayed in just one place, they would not have met and he would not have given them so much power.
You think the women don't go crazy in their husbands?? You think they leave them out of the equation?? Of course they don't. They bring down fire for the men. And feel it's only right to do same to the ladies. But you won't hear of the one the lady did to the husband because she did it inside her home.
DeleteIf only girls can say no when this men toast them and follow them about. If only girls can have the back of their fellow women. I have been approached a lot of times by married men and at some point I began to feel God was testing me because single men weren't coming my way but rich married young men. My friends called me a fool for not dating any of them but I just put myself in their wives shoes and I know I wouldn't want same for my home. I wouldn't want another lady to make me feel the way I think this ladies are feeling..
True! Never have an altercation with a side chic. That's the most degrading thing a woman can do
DeleteWhy will they say No? When they want peruvian hair,latest samsung and iphones....materials things wont let them say no.they want to be tagged bigz girlz
DeleteAnon 14:30 u are a sweet heart I love u.God bless u and give u de best.
DeleteIt's really sad that most men would lie shamelessly just to have extramarital affairs.
ReplyDeleteOne has been on my case since December.
ReplyDeleteSends me money and airtime like it's going out of fashion
Takes my daughters's bill like he fathered her
Is he married? Yes
Am I single? NO!
All I do is chop and clean mouth. He has transferred nothing less than 500k to me to convince me that he is my perfect man.
Money I don chop.
Kpekus e no see
He is in Abuja, I am in Calabar. Where we wan take meet?
Mtcheeeeeeeeeew
The annoying part is the terrible tales he always has about his wife and how he wants me to leave my husband for him.
Unam ikot
I remember praying to God to send me a helper last year, e be like say God don finally answer me.
Buhahhahahhah lady u got me bawling ...!
DeleteYou are a married hoe.
DeleteRide on my Calabar sister!! *high five* Just my style. After sometime tell him you're a Christian and you can't do such. He'd be mad and then move on. Simple!! Free money dey sweet my dear.
Delete* singing *
DeleteMy helper o! My helper (2x)
There is something that makes me come into your presence my helper
I love you jare..... But am not sure I will have the mind to do this when am married oh lol
DeleteLol! Yeye,but b careful sha.
DeleteI envy u
DeleteNa wa ooo.but u shldn't av collected d money since u are not interested
DeleteGod don answer your prayers jare. Enjoy the money and tie your legs
Deletehian,abeg drop his number o.Me need that kain Messiah right now.
DeleteHehehehe... Married woman. Chopping another woman's husband's money. Encouraging a married man's misbehaviour.
DeleteTomorrow you go enter church begin speak in tongues against any side chick wen wan chop your husband money.
If your husband finds out some man deposited 500k in your account, do you think he'll believe you didn't sleep with this man?
Continue.
Now you ve seen the helper. Hahahaha
DeleteStart advising the man, he will flee and if possible send him Bible quotatns.
I had a very bad uncle. He will sleep with married women, mother and daughter. He will convince the women to leave their matrimonial homes so he can marry them. The foolish women will accept and leave their husbands and then he will tell them dt he can't marry them cos they will walk out on him like they did their husbands. Madam chop clean mouth but don't be tempted o
DeleteThe man foolishness no get part two I dy craze ni....if na fuck I dy find because my wife get belle I go tell you point blank...leg for the room money for hand back for ground.no story pursue you say wetin... Who wan enjoy fuck like me go come my way no time for nonsense..enjoy the fuck and leave my wife out of it...foolish married men can't you fuck and move on without having an affair..
DeleteFOOLISH MEN
ReplyDeleteI refuse to attack the messenger, I am facing the message instead.
ReplyDelete"Intentional" side chics are a special specie of women to me..anyone with history or experience might help me make sense of it.
But hope you guys know that there are side-boos (male/master/boyfriend)too?
Ermm...okay but Stella you sabi trouble sha @Yoruba demon but I like it! Hehehehehe
ReplyDeleteI always say it if a man is cheating with a side chick hold the man, that is how one man told me many bad things about his wife, that he has been in regrets and would have married me if he had met me,we never had anything but he was always calling to ask me out, I was just posting him and collecting his change, one day his stupid wife sent a message to me on whatsapp to leave her husband, as per he pinged to say good day I even just wrote thanks, I abuse the woman that day cos I was like u have read the message and its obvious I am not dating your man, besides face your man, I wonder when these men would learn sef, mtchewww, most married women should face their he goat husbands
ReplyDeleteHaha! Just my style *high five*
DeleteYou are a fool!!! Why can't go and find a job instead of collecting money from married men. Do you know how the money came about?? Money that is meant to used to raise his innocent children, money that could be sweat of another woman. Those children's head will haunt you to your grave. Miserable lazy ass!!
DeleteAnonymous 16:42. Your husband is cheating on you clearly. Why the high blood pressure? Was the money stolen from him? Foolish girl. Children's head ko, pikin ass ni. You will never blame your cheating husband. Mumu.
DeleteAnonymous 16:42. Your husband is cheating on you clearly. Why the high blood pressure? Was the money stolen from him? Foolish girl. Children's head ko, pikin ass ni. You will never blame your cheating husband. Mumu.
DeleteHahaha, I love it. That is how one married man lied to me that he was single and tried toasting me. Me I was even feeling sorry for him that was why I gave him my number as he was a colleague thinking he was single oh.
DeleteThe idiots asked me out but omo na striking professional relationship with zero attraction.
My people, one day I was in the library when my phone started ringing. I picked it up to hear one mad women ranting on the phone insulting me calling me prostitute. As first I was confused cos I didn't have time for bf then and was very single. I asked who is your husband, she called his name and I told her wrong number and hung up. The lady called backed insulting my family with no evidence of even a flirtation text or message from me or her husband.
I comot from library abuse that woman tire.
I told her that me and her husband have been fucking for 5 months now, the last session was on her bed. I told her na her husband buy me the BMW I dey drive now. She wanted to faint on the phone. Eventually her husband had to send me a message to please confess, that God is alive, that we are just colleagues.
I just pity am and confessed. Honestly some women lack wisdom and are the cause of their problems. Without even confronting her husband, she called and insulted a stranger. Make she thank God say I don repent.
Na wa o
ReplyDeleteSigh!!! The issue of side chicks tire me, the men are actually the architects and the causers'' of side chicks harassing their wives.
ReplyDeleteGood write ups
ReplyDeleteSo true
ReplyDeleteLol he is freaking right some don't even crave to be elevated to wife status, they fear they will have to tackle a better side chick wen they get dere so they prefer being side chic with many favours at their call
ReplyDeleteHian! Y'all allow peeps live their lives the way they want nau, no be God go judge us hahahaha Odiewgu really
ReplyDeleteFor some funny reason, I'm attracted to this dude called Joro. Maybe it's the horny hormone talking 😖
ReplyDeleteI find him extremely irritating.
DeleteAs in very very very dirty and irritating. I didn't read the post just skipped to the comments to see if there would be something interesting.
Very very very irritating creature.
Can't stand him.
It shocks me that my spirit should just violently reject someone like this even without seeing the person.
But my instincts NEVER fail.
I find him extremely irritating.
DeleteAs in very very very dirty and irritating. I didn't read the post just skipped to the comments to see if there would be something interesting.
Very very very irritating creature.
Can't stand him.
It shocks me that my spirit should just violently reject someone like this even without seeing the person.
But my instincts NEVER fail.
Oya confession time.
ReplyDeleteLet me read comments
abeg I am tired of all dis side-chick story @joro.
ReplyDeleteHow about the men locking up dere dicks and stop fucking everythn is skirt.
Most women dont wear skirts anymore. Maybe thats the confusion.
DeleteSo what new thing did you add to what we already know?
ReplyDeletePick a struggle dude
Hehehehhe
DeleteTAH! Joro shutupu dier
ReplyDeletewith your Yoruba demon face,like you are not guilty of worst.
Carry tittle of sidechick like a trophy you said? I just can't imagine myself carrying the name sidechick like a trophy and moving around, instead of me to hustle for my own everlasting boo. If you are a sidechick you should never allow anyone to know. Married men please learn to respect your wife, you are d ones that give all this small small girls d liver to insult your wife. D painful part is that all these married men will paint their darling wives as thou they are evil just to test new cookies, sidechicks please park well na who sidechic don help self?
ReplyDeleteNo be the same trophy wey Anna Banner go carry?, the same trophy Sumbo and the other dragon faced tuface'ss baby mamaa carry? , na d ssame trophy breezy's baaby mama carry. B$$ches ain't smiling these days. If u give em space, they'll mess ur home up
DeleteNeither tuface nor flavor were married. Someone mentioned up there that if the guy isn't married it's left to him to decide who is side. So maybe that was Sunmbo and Anna's principle
DeleteCrazy men
ReplyDeleteMy brother, if you ask me na who i go ask...
ReplyDeleteI just remembered the BVN that said she is a tutor to the oga's child n is sleeping with oga and that oga promised to rent a flat for her yet she hasn't seen anything...Lol
According to Adaeze Yobo" Get in the line"
He will not leave his wife for you, don't be deceived
Some Side chicks needs acid bath tho especially the stubborn ones.
ReplyDeleteOr better still knack dead pigeon 4 their matter.
Give them smelling tohto 4 life.
Heheheheheheheehehehhehehe
#justjokingoooh
#rme
Yimu
DeleteYou cannot serve God and mammon. Pick a struggle
DeleteForget, dat one na Lucifer house geh.
DeleteMarried women come in
ReplyDeleteAny weapon of side chick formed against me shall not prosper. The problem is really with the men not the women
ReplyDeleteLmao*he is so onpoint
ReplyDeleteI used to think only fame and wealth intoxicate*smile*Okaay!!Alcohols and Drugs too.but,how fakeness and shamelessness made it into that list is what baffles me still..Yes, Fakeness and shamelessness intoxicate people these days too,and I tell you,no other place has the most suitable site for suffering from the issh than on instagram*jeeex*the HQ of all lost dignities*smh*a place where people go to get 'instant Glam'get lost in it and forget morals and who they really are..it will only take Grace my dear'GRACE'
This issue is over flogged.
ReplyDeleteHoly Ghost fire consume every end time side chicken.... so that we can use dem for barbecue.
DeleteEnd time side chicks..
Natt, don't make jokes with the fire of the Holy Ghost all in the bid to be funny.
DeleteEbony Beauty
Lmao*he is so onpoint
ReplyDeleteI used to think only fame and wealth intoxicate*smile*Okaay!!Alcohols and Drugs too.but,how fakeness and shamelessness made it into that list is what baffles me still..Yes, Fakeness and shamelessness intoxicate people these days too,and I tell you,no other place has the most suitable site for suffering from the issh than on instagram*jeeex*the HQ of all lost dignities*smh*a place where people go to get 'instant Glam'get lost in it and forget morals and who they really are..it will only take Grace my dear'GRACE'
As a young lady I never dated any married man so any side chick coming for hubby will receive what she's looking for, Fire from above amen.
ReplyDeleteThats the point. Times are changing so fast, karma seems to have gotten confused
DeleteTAH! Joro shutupu dier
ReplyDeletewith your Yoruba demon face,like you are not guilty of worst.
If they dare come close to my husband... Well, revenge is a dish best served cold.
ReplyDeleteI'll deal with both of them. My craze dey another level.
Nyem aka*pam*!ur head dey dia
DeleteHaaa this is how Mr olumofin launched his way to being a celeb. Okotorigba!
ReplyDeleteSo right
ReplyDeleteWell, I don't date sidechics, I lay dem twice n pay them, when dey bombard my phone with calls, I ignore or block them. I love my fat wife, but I tend to stray n these girls won't let me be, so 'do' them n clean mouth.
ReplyDeleteHahaha! The day your wife will catch you ehn.... You go know say fat no be sick
DeleteChop knuckle my n*gga. These fish brained ho5s be feeling like their pu$$ygold plated or something. I need intelligence to hook me forever tbh. Unfortunately, most fine faces ain't got it. Gtfoh.
DeleteJoro no be lie u talk!!! My hubby used to do it. Gave side chick the audacity to be calling and asking me to leave him alone. Of course he used to deny and shout at her while telling me she's just a colleague he helped out. We got over it all but I know what? I never blamed her. I always blamed him cos he gave her that hand. We have made up and all but still can't forgive him completely. He's an arsehole!!!
ReplyDelete...... He's an arsehole!!!......
DeleteAnd that makes you an arsehole* too! Remember the good book says "two shall become (gini?) ONE
Iru Monkey,hahahahaha
DeleteNkan be
ReplyDeleteI have a special phone for mine! When I fuck her like 3months, I change sim. Girls r that cheap to get. And they don't let go, so don't blame d men.
ReplyDeleteYou re a fool anon 13:45... Perhaps ur wife nd ur daughters are also cheap. Keep fucking nd changing sim until dat ur dirty, old sagged prick falls off. Anu mpama
DeleteThunder fire you there! I blame all the cheap things that even give men like you chance.
DeleteThunder fire you there! I blame all the cheap things that even give men like you chance.
DeleteAh Demola! Is that you?
DeleteOriegwu ooo.
DeleteChai
DeleteLol....my guy chop knuckle... If e pain u knack head for wall or better still hug TRANSFORMER...lmao
DeletePreach it
ReplyDeleteStella, these chucks throw themselves at us. As a guy man, when u chop for a while, u change her, they become angry n start trying to cause problems for main madam.
ReplyDeleteStella, where is my first comment????
DeleteMtccccchhhhhhhheeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww
It will purge you!
Cute joro, comman date me nah
DeletePortable, so if better people dey curse stella say them dey find comments, YOU go open that your gutter mouth dey talk?
DeleteKai!
See watin cheap smart phones and 1k data dey cause?
I no blame you sha.
Joro!! Cute? Let me go and put on my glasses cos it seems I'm not seeing well
DeleteLol... Yoruba demon..
ReplyDeleteLet me comment today, it's been a while
ReplyDeleteI hate it when men rubbish dia women all in d name of getting some...let girls see how much u respect,adore n cherish her n watch em run after u
DeleteJust read anoda of his write up titled "y do women need to be validated by men"
ReplyDeleteThis guy is good.
Am roffing him.
Heheheheheheheehehehhehehe
Dating a man who is married makes you a side chic. Dating a man with a fiancee doesn't make you a side chic, the man determines who the side chic is.
ReplyDeleteKeep deceiving yourself. Na low self esteem dey worry u. So you'd rather be a side chick to a man that is engaged while praying and waiting for him to change his mind and marry you? what happened to looking for your own boo? Most ladies need serious orientation.
DeleteHahaha!!
DeleteOh yeah? See logic
DeleteReally? Smh for some people.
DeleteThere's an ex-friend of mine called globela bie, she offered herself to my husband for money, disturbed him to a point he had to change his number, meanwhile she's my friend o, she doesn't know my DH showed me all her messages, till today she would see me n greet me well, not knowing that I know her schemes. Fear AK girls.
ReplyDeleteShout up there... Ur so called Deerhubry(side eyes at d spelling)is fucking her dirty! Skin-skin. Dey hia dey decieve urself
DeleteMy AK do you mean Akwa Ibom? Cos I fear those girls raise to power two!!! Their p***y dey scratch like no tmr. And they don't even demand money. Knowing that your man is on their case is enough fulfillment for them
DeleteMadam kirk, we say anything just to keep getting the pie, when she starts catching feelings, omo na to change gear o!
ReplyDeleteLOL
ReplyDeleteBut most of all these are lies na.some men say anything to get into a woman's innermost chamber.
And yea bn a Side chick was a thing of shame. And is still a thing of Shame.
The only ones Living in denial are seeing it as an "achievement" are d said side chicks and their likes.And dats not because dey dont know any better but because they are simply incorrigible. Small minded.
A woman that knows her worth and has PRIDE would never,I repeat NEVER stoop low as to date or sleep wit a married Man. Some ladies I know,Me inclusive find it an insult on our Person.
Gbam. Thump up. Preach it
DeleteI like this guy already
ReplyDeleteWere there side chics in the 1804's? Seems like that's a better time to have lived but for technology
ReplyDeleteNo side chicks
DeleteBut concubines
Babes r too cheap in PH. Leave matter! Once u flash them 10k after one round, they will bombard ur phone with calls n sms.
ReplyDeleteMaybe it's d ones you roll with
DeleteI won't blame you for this statement...I blame the girls that go crazy for your miserable "10k"
DeleteI cant believe what i am reading!
DeleteHeheheh.
DeleteThis is very sensible. Men are the real problem. Their mouth be running up and down on top another woman's pussy like they ate okro. One thing I know is that no matter what power the side chips wield, karma is a bitch. Someday when they get married, their husbands may tell the same stories to their own sidechics they have to contend with. Life ain't fair anyway, they may never meet Karma. I am so confused!! !! !!!
ReplyDeleteI âgree with u on this one. And that's why some girls are not bothered about it.
ReplyDeleteI can never be anyone's side chick knowingly
ReplyDeleteI love the last paragraph, most men/boyfrnds actually fan the sidechics' ember making them think they r better than the ones at home, it use to be a thing of adding some currencies to ur bank acct and moving ahead without letting anybody know about the disgraceful affair, but today's sidechic carries it everywhere like a trophy. Too bad
ReplyDeleteOne is fighting my boss to marry her, they dated before I became PA,now I'm 6yrs in d company. My boss says he didn't force her to remain with him, she had a choice to leave or stay but she stayed n kept 'chopping kpekus' now there's another 23yr old in d picture,now d gwegs is bellus and d man wife is abroad! What dey don't know is, my boss has been transferred to d UK too! He said his transfer is d best breakup for them. I'm tempted to tell d older girl, but lipsealed.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmm
DeleteTell who? Is she your sister or your 1st cousin? How exactly is her stupidity your problem? Better remain loyal to your boss and let her swim in the consequences on her mumurity
DeleteAnon 14:01 u better don't tell her anything before u tries to do something bad to ur boss
DeleteI love that. The chickens are coming home to roost.
DeleteStella is now Joro's go to because bella's readers can't withstand your guts anymore ba, we are not so gentle here, just so you know. You releasing write ups every now and then doesn't stop you from being a douche we know you are but then let's concentrate on the message and messenger 😒😒
ReplyDeleteAs for the story up there, when you write about the mindset of the men who have side chicks then I'd take you seriously. 😑😑😑
You r so silly! Dondy united. concentrate on the msg and bounce. You r d douche here not Joro, get a life already and stop being everybody's mouthpiece. People like u make others feel Stella's blog is full of bitter souls
DeleteYou are the silly one @anon. Jump and pass.
DeleteHmmmm funny but true
ReplyDeleteStella post my comment abeg
ReplyDelete**angry face**
SDK, this new love between you and Joro. Side chic is a dirty title, soo shameful.
ReplyDeleteI KNOW A GIRL THAT DRIVES THE CAR OF HER MARRIED BF'S WIFE.
ReplyDeleteHeheheehe why not? When a yeye man will tell a lady "mmy wife died years ago" so he can get a chic meanwhile madam is working in another town.
DeleteHmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm 😒😒😒😒
ReplyDeleteY'all should see the movie "WAR ROOM" and learn how to handle your husbands. Pray in your closet and let God do the fighting. It is alot more than the eyes can see..#pray#
ReplyDeleteyou dare not come near my man, i will fight you with everything i have and you will blame yourself, side wetin! fire burn them. if i can try and not date a married man while i was single, no side chick , i repeat no side chick from hell should get close to my bae or else she go carry fire ooo. "ko ti e to bee" she no fit. i cover my man with the fire of God, oya angel Micheal take over! host of heaven cover him from the eye of wicked home destroyer and snatcher! F I R E
ReplyDeleteI like you jare...i will fight any side chic physically and spiritual. When you suddenly see girls running mad on the streets of Lagos, you will wonder who they offended. Lazy girls, watch who who you chat to on whatsapp or collect money from. Ordinary chatting can cause you trouble if you encounter a woman like me.
Delete*yimu*
DeleteThe sad truth is side chicks and baby mamas is becoming more welcoming every day in our society. Girls don't mind again so far d cash dey.
ReplyDeleteWith the current employment situation? Why would they mind
DeleteSome ladies have covenant with the devil to remain side chics.till death, well that's their achievement and their level of self esteem.
ReplyDeleteThe man will always give you money because he knows that's what you want, and might decide to take something from you which might render you infertile when luck finally smiles at you.
The truth of the matter-
Not all ladies are meant to be wives, some transformed themselves to be SIDE CHICKS//baby mamas and hence the frustration which triggers them to cause problems to any peaceful homes.
You can still retransform yourself into a wife material
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Leave the side chick alone and concentrate on the randy goat. The randy goat made a vow to you.
ReplyDeleteyou have also made a vow to be a public toilet for married men. Ashewo 10k.
DeleteGod bless you. People focusing on things they don't need to. Does the woman owe you an explanation? Your only explanation should be from your husband who can't control his wee wee.
DeleteLMAO @Some ladies have Convenant with Devil to remain side chick till death.
ReplyDeleteHAHAHAHHAHA
The one that baffles me is ladies that date married men for 7yrs hoping and believing he leaves wife for them. The men in turn feed her with stupid hope until she's so late 30s and see the hand writing on the wall. In this case who lost?? Definitely not the man
ReplyDeletewen some husbands haff refuse to leave the single ladies alone nkor?
ReplyDeleteawon weyrey gbogbo
Such people don't have a happy ending.
ReplyDeletelol.....
ReplyDeleteOur prayer is for them to love God more than they love us; that is the only way they can get things right.
Stella biko, would love you to do a post on confessions or chronicles of a side chick. It's gonna be one heck of a post. Person go fear confessions.
ReplyDeleteWhy some women prefer to be and remain side chicks? Got a lot to write on. Got some friends & acquaintances who hv decided to be side chicks and are very happy & satisfied with their status & the way their lives are going. They don't want or wish to marry the man; they are happy like that. They are the very quiet & humble ones! That sweet, beautiful, neat, sister or aunty in your neighborhood whose kids are always neat & well behaved. She does not look for any body's trouble. She sometimes have all the kids (his and hers and theirs) together for vacay, weekends, excursions etc. The 'other kids' are so fund if her that 'she's cool'. She helps the man to keep his marriage, mediating btwn hubby & his wife; and hubby listens & complies with any suggestions she makes. She is not evil, nor malicious except of course sharing the man with his wife. She is not overthrowing anyone out their marriage. She is part of the family especially with decision making. Wife is fully aware of her presence & respect her space.
Hmmm, a wonderful world we make for ourselves.
If you are wify, how you want deal with this one or this situation ???!! Better the side chick that would bring shakara so you can hv the opportunity to put her in her place.
Wahala dey outside. It's a complicated world.
Some people prefer to be the side chick/dude. It's a relationship without relationship drama. You know that person has their main emotional partner who handles the day to day stuff, they are there for them and provide for them etc and you just get to have fun. You just wanted to be a side dude, let her have her serious boyfriend who spends on her and takes care of the rest while you just have a fun and no-pressure zero expectation type arrangement. Some people want that, to be alone but still enjoy some level of companionship. It's very selfish, its you wanting to get without giving. You refuse to give yourself, your time or your resources and in return you're willing to be secondary, sneak around and have a good time without commitment. I guess that's the thrill of it. Our generation is one of increasing narcissism, we're so self obsessed. We don't want to let people in, to see the real us, to trust and be trusted. We don't want to belong to anyone and for anyone to belong to us; it's too much responsibility and it's frightening. So we'd rather just fuck and be on good terms without being vulnerable. Sneak around and keep it on the low because its more exciting, and keep options open.
ReplyDeleteIt can often also be about escapism, most affairs happen between people in relationships. That's a different story.
I've never understood why anyone would blame a side chick. Your vows were to your husband so what's your business with the other woman? After you finish fighting this side chick, will you fight the next one too? Ok. How about all the side chicks after those two? Are you a wrestler?
ReplyDeleteListen, it's either you deal with the real issue here (your husband) or you pack your load and bounce. Fighting every side chick only makes you look small to your husband. He knows you will not do jack but yell, cry then he will sleep with you and give you small money. Next morning, new side chick will arrive.
In conclusion, Married women, count your teeth with your tongue and stop fighting for free. Na yourself you dey do.
Spoken like a professional side chick. We deal the hubby too but deal more with side chick (vulture).
DeleteSide chick talkn...tatashe
DeleteHmmmm,, I tire. Ah swear
ReplyDelete