A pastor, Michael Temiloluwa, last Friday prayed a Mapo Customary Court in Ibadan to dissolve his union with his wife, Funmilayo, over her maligning and perpetual trouble-making attitude.
According to Temiloluwa, his wife had told the congregation in his church that he was planning to use her for rituals. He told the court: “Funmilayo has over a period of time tarnished my image, not only in our neighbourhood and in the church, but also in other public fora, by lying that I have engaged in unholy means as a pastor.
“I have tried every possible means of getting her to discontinue with these behaviours. I have even reported her to her relatives, but all to no avail.
“Worst still, she is an unrepentant trouble-maker, who uses all sorts of evil means to achieve her purpose. In fact, Funmilayo has neglected her role as a wife in order to make things difficult for me. In her typical disobedience, she sometimes leave my home for two months without my consent,” Temiloluwa, said.
However, his wife, Funmilayo, even though did not deny the allegations against her, claimed that her husband was far away from her. “Temiloluwa never sat down with me as a husband to discuss any issue, but rather preferred going to other people’s homes for unnecessary discussion,” Funmilayo stated.
She, however, refuted the allegation of being a troublemaker.The presiding President of the court, Mr. Ademola Odunade, however, adjourned judgment in the case till March 30, 2016, but ordered both parties to attend the court on that date with some of their relatives and the two children produced by the union.
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This is a flimsy reason for a divorce and coming from a pastor who reads a bible that frowns at divorce.
That isn't good enough reason to dissolve marriage tho
ReplyDeleteHow is it flimsy since she didnt deny it?
ReplyDeleteIts like ur hubby coming on here to yarn thrash about u, its gonna be really messed up na.
This kinda woman can destroy ur lifr work in one day
For a pastor to marry a scandalous trouble maker is a major wahala o
DeleteIt could serve as a distraction for him in ministrations
May the Lord help them
For a pastor to marry a scandalous trouble maker is a major wahala o
DeleteIt could serve as a distraction for him in ministrations
May the Lord help them
Even though I dont support divorce but this is no small issue, I have seen a pastor who this kind of attitude ruined his life, he has tried everything humanly possible to make peace with the wife but it isn't working and the worst is that they both have lived in the same house for over twenty years, the sham of a marriage is just misery for the pastor. I pity him and pray he finds happiness in his next world.
DeleteBut didn't he pray to God to reveal his wife to him? How come he carried a troublemaker and made her wife.
DeleteToor!
ReplyDeleteGive a dog a bad name to hang it.
Nooo I don't agree with you nwunye general, cos wifey didn't deny the allegations though debunked that she's a trouble maker.
DeleteWell a the Bible rightly said, it is better to live in a small corner than to live with a troublesome wife. If only she would agree to work on herself, cos if not na bye bye to that marriage. Me I can't function well in such atmosphere.
As a pastor, he is supposed to live by example.
ReplyDeleteGod does not condone divorce so he should carry his cross.
If leaving a troubled marriage is what I'll do that'll offend God, then I'll rather seek that he forgives me than stay in such a marriage that'll cut short my life and happiness. God forbid I have to endure such and not be able to leave because of that clause in the bible. May God help us
DeleteMaybe he has gotten himself a lady n now looking for a reason to divorce his wife. Thank God he didn't say hi wife cheated.
ReplyDeleteMight not really be the case.
Deletei dont believe this man
ReplyDeleteI don't blame the pastor. Some Women can be very quarrelsome. It is better she looks for a trouble maker like her.
ReplyDeleteEnd time pastors. #hissing
ReplyDeleteLanguage people and divorce are like rice and stew...most of them don't stick to one woman...Odiro possible!...
ReplyDeletePlease stop this language thingy! Language bawo?
DeleteOfcourse dey dnt mind caus dey married for d right reasons,not caus of poverty or avenue to bail dem out of hunger,how does ur fada intend to pay bak ur dowry to ur husband if u leave,sebi he don spnd d moni on wrapers and bicycle,no wonda u av to endure d beating and smelling mouth,abeg carry ur load till u die there,ur poverty striken family no gt choice.
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DeleteThank you anonymous....this stupid bitch that was given out in marriage early to save her family from poverty sef deny make noise......lesbian, fucking small boys all join your body.....we know u can never leave that marriage cos your family naim collect all em small money from em spare part business......anuofia
DeleteStella, what did you want the pastor to do?
ReplyDeleteIsn't it better to send her back to her papa house than beating her up?
That one na pastor?
ReplyDeleteNa lack of jobs dey turn some guys into pastors!
Pastors and unholy accusations these days sha. What sort of counselling do they want to give to newly married couple?
ReplyDeleteSomeone goes about trash talking about you that you plan on using her for rituals and you call that a flimsy reason? Please!
ReplyDeleteShe gat to go
She's a destroyer.
It's better to kill someone that to kill their character.
She didn't even deny leaving the house for months
DeleteWhere does she go to??
Stella is it when he starts beating her and she sends her mail herr thay you will see its reason enough..
Pastors are human beings please so they can error and fall short of the glory of God
Meanwhile he can divorce her on the grounds of adultery. A woman that leaves your house for such a long time without permission
Thank you. Some people's mouth is worse than stabbing one with a knife.
DeleteEnd time man of God
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Flimsy reason? Why would a married woman leave her home for 2 months without informing the husband?
ReplyDeleteThe woman can not try that with any man except a pastor that tolerate shit. She didn't debunked the pastor's allegations. She just want to push her husband to sin.
Some men can lie for Africa....what if she left to her fathers house and came back? They will still twist it to suit them....some men push u to the wall but when u start to react they will start counting cost they are the man and it's only them that can get away with anything
DeleteExactly my thought while reading.
ReplyDeleteIt is better they both go separate ways than d man hoarding more bitterness
ReplyDeleteFlimsy excuse ? Because he is a man of God he should endure and die in the marriage. Which sane woman would leave her husband's house for 2 weeks let alone 2 months without her husband's consent? A woman her husband cannot tell a secret is not worthy to be called a wife.
ReplyDeleteFlimsy excuse ? Because he is a man of God he should endure and die in the marriage. Which sane woman would leave her husband's house for 2 weeks let alone 2 months without her husband's consent? A woman her husband cannot tell a secret is not worthy to be called a wife.
ReplyDeleteIf what the pastor said about her is true, then she didn't do well at all.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is for better and for worse when the culprit is the MAN, but when it's the other way round the 'man' forgets the adage. Uncle Pastor please read your bible over again, marriage is for better and for worst, has the women folk not tolerated worse things????? I rest my case
ReplyDeleteIf she releases proof nah, everyone will change mouth.
ReplyDeletePlease stella for the 1st time dont provoke me for saying it isnt enough reason to divorce abeg. If u had a brother who is going tru hell cuz of a woman, will you tell him to bear bcuz he's a pastor, a woman dat disgraces him in public n is a trouble maker. Biko dnt annoy me jarey, im talking from experience n yes i divorced her cuz my life was shattered wit her as my wife, a woman who pretended to be a peace woman till we got married. Dont use that pastor crap, is he not human too? mtchew
ReplyDeleteYou sound female though. Lol
DeleteI think oga pastor is probably tired of his wife or has found some other woman outside whom he would want to marry. I thought you could only divorce on the grounds of Adultery?
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I think oga pastor is probably tired of his wife or has found some other woman outside whom he would want to marry. I thought you could only divorce on the grounds of Adultery?
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Please stella for the 1st time dont provoke me for saying it isnt enough reason to divorce abeg. If u had a brother who is going tru hell cuz of a woman, will you tell him to bear bcuz he's a pastor, a woman dat disgraces him in public n is a trouble maker. Biko dnt annoy me jarey, im talking from experience n yes i divorced her cuz my life was shattered wit her as my wife, a woman who pretended to be a peace woman till we got married. Dont use that pastor crap, is he not human too? mtchew
ReplyDeleteAll of u sayin God hates divorce please read 1corin 7:1-15 with wisdom
ReplyDeleteYou can divorce but you are not allowed to remarry or commit adultery unless your husband or wife dies
DeleteSo it equally means God hates it else why that clause?? Separation wad talked about but also reconciliation was advised after a while
Fab mum, mind you Twas Paul who was talking in that passage. That's why I said read wit wisdom
DeleteHowever flimsy the excuse(s) is totally up to them. One man's meat is another's fetish. Stella you dey the marriage?!!
ReplyDeleteIt both parties can work things out, his reasons ain't geniue enough 4 a divorce.
ReplyDeleteStella is gender biased.
ReplyDeleteVery
DeleteNawa oo.
ReplyDeleteMadam Stella it saddens my heart that you are gender biased, cus you must have read the supposed story, and it was stated vividly that the wife didn't debunk the allegations except for that of trouble-making. For those of you preaching the man in question should live by example cus he's a "PASTOR", it's so pathetic and obnoxious......He's human for heavens sake. I know what the comments would have been the other way round if it were to be a woman that's in this situation. Y'all should just be plain and truthful when a chronicle or something like this come up, don't always take sides. Inasmuch as i love this blog and MRS STELLA, you WOMEN are turning this blog to just "Women Affairs" when it comes to Chronicles but it shouldn't be so. I know some scallywags will cuss me out but ion give a fuck........ Its allowed tho.
ReplyDeleteMadam Stella it saddens my heart that you are gender biased, cus you must have read the supposed story, and it was stated vividly that the wife didn't debunk the allegations except for that of trouble-making. For those of you preaching the man in question should live by example cus he's a "PASTOR", it's so pathetic and obnoxious......He's human for heavens sake. I know what the comments would have been the other way round if it were to be a woman that's in this situation. Y'all should just be plain and truthful when a chronicle or something like this come up, don't always take sides. Inasmuch as i love this blog and MRS STELLA, you WOMEN are turning this blog to just "Women Affairs" when it comes to Chronicles but it shouldn't be so. I know some scallywags will cuss me out but ion give a fuck........ Its allowed tho.
ReplyDeleteMadam Stella it saddens my heart that you are gender biased, cus you must have read the supposed story, and it was stated vividly that the wife didn't debunk the allegations except for that of trouble-making. For those of you preaching the man in question should live by example cus he's a "PASTOR", it's so pathetic and obnoxious......He's human for heavens sake. I know what the comments would have been the other way round if it were to be a woman that's in this situation. Y'all should just be plain and truthful when a chronicle or something like this come up, don't always take sides. Inasmuch as i love this blog and MRS STELLA, you WOMEN are turning this blog to just "Women Affairs" when it comes to Chronicles but it shouldn't be so. I know some scallywags will cuss me out but ion give a fuck........ Its allowed tho.
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